Peeloin Archive

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2	It's possible for women to be more attractive in their 30s than their 20s. I think most people peak in physical attractiveness somewhere between the ages of 25 and 35, depending on things like genetics and lifestyle. I have seen women who got more attractive in their 30s and men who have done the same as well, I wouldn't say it's that uncommon of an occurrence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 04:38 AM
1	Women who have cheated: did it feel good and any regrets? There would be know way to know who lied on an anonymous survey. The assumption is that generally people are honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 03:36 PM
6	Women who have cheated: did it feel good and any regrets? All the data I have seen supports that men cheat more in all age groups except one, which is people aged 18-29, in which women appear to be more likely to cheat. So if you really wanted it to be gendered, it's men, but if you are young it's women. Although, I would say it doesn't matter that much since people that cheat are still the minority of all people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 04:42 AM
2	Q4Men: Would you date a woman who claims she was falsely accused of falsely accusing a man? Depends on the rest of her personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/25 10:37 PM
4	Q4RP: What're your thoughts on femdom? I am not the target audience for this question, but I will throw in that, from my experience, I feel that more women are critical of submissive men than men are critical of both dominant women and submissive men. Personally, I have no interest in dominating women; it feels wrong to me, but I am very much interested in being dominated by them. I have accepted that most women will be grossed out by the idea of that, but I cannot change what excites me and what doesn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 06:30 PM
4	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality I mean yeah, most couples I know are far more egalitarian than what typical heteronormative standards would make you assume. I avoided them all by virtue of being a weirdo who isn't straight, but I can empathize with their issues, because being a man trying to date women is harder than being a woman trying to date men or women or a man who wants to date men, and I don't know if you can say it's their fault entirely as basically all of those social standards that allowed for this were made by peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 09:24 PM
14	Men devalue themselves by being promiscuous/repressing female sexuality I am a bisexual man, who is maybe slightly above average looking and if I wanted to I could have lots of sex with men, but women are much less interested in me, so I think there is some truth to what you are saying, but you kind of fall flat in the sense that you don't really provide much solution to like an average straight man, just saying "don't put women up on a pedestal and shame them for their desires" while I agree, that is very unlikely to increase that dudes success in the dating world …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 09:07 PM
3	Going your own way (for both genders) is by far the best option I see online dating as more of a dead end to be honest, I mean the only date I have ever been on was with someone that I met in a class, and pretty much all of my friends that have had meaningful relationships were with people they met in school, work, and other social events or activities. Places where the interaction isn't looking at a few pictures and reading a couple of words about someone, it's where you see them and how they interact, and often what they like to engage in. I am not super u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 10:52 PM
5	Going your own way (for both genders) is by far the best option Well fear of being alone romantically, you still need like friends. Which I'd argue for most men, meeting a partner through friends is probably the best option, since women pretty much never approach men purely based on looks and if you aren't like super attractive you have to something for people to latch onto, and if you are a genuine and nice person with hobbies, passions, and friends, and people can see that they will like you more and someone is probably more likely to want to be in a roman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 08:10 PM
30	Going your own way (for both genders) is by far the best option I mean I have been doing this and I will say I'd rather be myself and alone, then pretend to be someone else in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/25 07:15 PM
–	I believe dating for the younger generation has become extremely difficult. I think a lot of those interview videos are inaccurate depictions of reality made to farm clicks, they just cut out the people who gave normal answers. Dating got harder because socializing in general got harder.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 08:56 PM
1	Q4M: Do you maliciously withhold compliments from women when out in public? Why should men be compelled to compliment random women in the first place? Your question fails in its premise because it implies that women are in some way entitled to receiving compliments by virtue of being a woman, and that a man is now intentionally causing women harm by not giving them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/25 01:10 PM
5	Q4M: Do you maliciously withhold compliments from women when out in public? I think that is where this question fails in premise is it implies that somehow by virtue of someone being a woman, they are entitled to me complimenting them, and by not doing that, I am somehow intending to cause harm to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 07:25 PM
6	Q4M: Do you maliciously withhold compliments from women when out in public? How would me not commenting on a stranger's appearance in public in any way be "malicious"? Do you think every guy is walking around all day imagining compliments they could say to every woman they see but instead go "it would be so nice if I said that, but I hate women and want them to have less confidence so by saying nothing she'll never know how beautiful I could have made her feel."? Nobody is doing that, most people either just aren't thinking about strangers that are walking by, or choose…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 06:16 PM
4	Q4M: Do you maliciously withhold compliments from women when out in public? What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 05:45 PM
8	Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they are Why waste all that time and effort putting on makeup and taking it off every single day if you don't really gain much from it? Have you ever thought that maybe people like looking good, because looking good makes you feel good about yourself? I don't wear makeup, but I see it like wearing your favorite shirt or styling your hair, sure, you do it to appear a certain way, but also you like that shirt and the way you look in it. I don't care if someone doesn't like my favorite shirt or thinks I wou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 09:14 PM
8	Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they are I am attracted to both men and women, and honestly, a lot of dudes just need to shave and get a better haircut, it ain't that hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 09:08 PM
1	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? People have said this to me when I have told them I am bisexual, and like what? I just admitting that I am attracted to men what closet am I in?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 10:46 PM
7	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? I am bisexual, can confirm he is more attractive on the left. I think men who aren't attracted to men just want the image on the right to be more attractive because it took more effort to achieve, and they don't want the reality that the effort wasn't worth it if it was just to attract women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 05:17 PM
8	Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons? As a bisexual man I have just come to accept that a lot of straight women will find that very unappealing, their reasons vary but it's often based on stereotypes that bisexual men are either extremely promiscuous and incapable of monogamy or they just see them as "gay" and don't want to date a "gay" man. Gay men also don't really like to date bi men, kind of the same thing just in reverse :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 06:20 AM
43	No it’s not anti bisexual or anti gay or lesbian for a guy not to be into threesomes with another dude It should not be a shocking revelation to anyone that straight people are in fact not attracted to people of their same sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/25 02:09 AM
1	[Q4M] What do YOU consider reasonable expectations and standards for women to have for their male partner? Should he cook? Should he clean? Everyone should be able to do these things. Should he has other talents? I mean, everyone has some kind of talent or skill, right? Should he be a good listener and communicator? Everyone should do that. Should he be giving and unselfish sexually? Everyone should do that. Unreasonable standards shouldn't be basic life skills and social functioning. I would say standards only become unreasonable if you are asking for a partner who does more for you than you would d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/25 02:38 AM
14	Is It that Men are Intimidated by Successful Women, or is it the Fact Successful Women Tend to Be Agressive? I'm not, I'd say the opposite successful people are attractive. Are other men intimidated by successful women? Maybe, but I can't speak for them. Are successful women aggressive? Some of them but I don't think success equals aggression lots of successful people aren't aggressive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 09:11 PM
36	"men need a relationship more then women" is one of the biggest bullshits said by women Why are suprised that women on dating apps are looking for relationships? That's what they are for, also looking for and wanting a relationship doesn't mean you "need" one or are unhappy without one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 11:32 PM
5	Older millennial women are turning to same-sex relationships while men are going back to church. From every same sex couple I know, I would say it's fair to say that people in same-sex relationships have sex more often than those in hetero relationships on average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 10:53 PM
1	Why does men only like attractive women and not actual good women? Generally speaking, people are attracted to people that are attractive, not every attractive person is a good person so sometimes when someone goes for an attractive person (especially one they don't know very well) they can end up with someone who is not a good person, this is not a phenomenon exclusive to men. I also think most people will also say that someone with a good and likeable personality does make them more attractive, but also that to most people, looks do in fact matter to some deg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 02:31 AM
17	Men don't have fragile masculinity. Masculinity itself is fragile, just as Femininity is. Some people are fragile, I don't think it has anything to do with how masculine or feminine they are as those are arbitrary attributes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 02:08 PM
6	Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options? I also have a friend just like this, he recently started dating a girl that posted a bunch "cute" pictures of her on house arrest all over social media, and his ex put trackers on his phone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 07:37 PM
5	Is it true most guys would cheat given the opportunity? Yeah, and I also assumed the answer was no because if you look at any data about how many people cheat, about 1/5 of people ever cheat so if you are very generous that means at most 1/5 men would cheat, 1/5 of a group is not most of that group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 02:53 PM
12	Is it true most guys would cheat given the opportunity? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 08:02 AM
5	Misconceptions about men and women "just being friends" My guess is you've probably done it less with your male friends, and they with you, than with your female friends. Not true. I talk about my problems equally with both male and female friends, and if anything I hear about more of my male friends problems then female friends problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 12:55 AM
3	Misconceptions about men and women "just being friends" I think I better way to look at it is MOST men and women cannot be friends where neither party(mostly the men) have no desires romantically or sexual with his or her partner. Yeah that's basically what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 10:10 PM
37	Misconceptions about men and women "just being friends" I'm of the opinion that men and women can be friends without one secretly lusting after the other. My best friend is a woman, so yeah, it's possible. What I've noticed is that when you're just friends with women, they tend to use you as an emotional dumping ground for everything that's going on in their lives. You become their therapist for everything from their job to the health to their family problems to their guy problems. And I say this with love: it can quickly become draining for men. In …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 08:24 PM
2	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. Talk to people in relationships, most of them understand this. To be in a good relationship you have to understand it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 04:15 PM
2	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. Most people don't find it disturbing because they have accepted that reality, no one will ever find their 100% perfect ideal partner, but if you find someone you like and you love them and you both want to be together then it doesn't matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 04:03 PM
3	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. Depends on how strong the preference is, no partner will ever fit 100% into someone's ideal preferences in every category.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 03:52 PM
3	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. How?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 03:39 PM
1	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. Just because you don't meet every single ideal quality for someone doesn't my mean that they settled, nobody's perfect ideal partner exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 03:39 PM
2	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? I did, most people didn't piss me off, they just did their shopping and left.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 03:36 PM
-3	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. I guess that's true, but I have also never felt the need to ask because I have been around groups of women in which the subject or one relating to it arose in their conversation and they just said it how it is, they aren't like super shy about it. Or maybe I am just in a bizzare position.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 10:55 AM
3	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? A little of both, but more of the former as it's a fairly inaccurate reflection of society and how most people think. Most people are actually pretty reasonable. Algorithms are also personalized in the sense that if you view a lot of content about how something is bad you will see more content related to how that thing is bad, even if that thing actually isn't as bad in reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 10:49 AM
-8	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. The studies did have exclusively female participants so I'm not sure what you mean by "asking a few women". Like instead of going through the effort of looking through all the studies you could've just like asked a couple women and likely gotten a similar answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 10:40 AM
5	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? People are more likely to engage with something if it's outrageous which boosts it in the algorithm and even with extreme views some amount of people will agree with it which continues the cycle. When people see someone say something perfectly reasonable they are unlikely to engage it for as long or share it because they will likely just look it and say to themselves " yeah that makes sense" and move onto something else, it's not as attention grabbing as something that sounds insane. Social medi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 10:39 AM
0	Time to settle the dick size debate once and for all using data - women generally prefer bigger dicks until a certain point and the ideal size for most women is larger than average. I feel like instead of doing all this you could've just asked a few women. A lot of them will just tell you that they have a preference for larger, but also won't not date a guy just because his is average or maybe even below. Same way any other preference works, just because someone has an ideal preference doesn't mean it's a deal breaker if it's not met or that someone will be unsatisfied without it being met. This feels a bit obsessive over something that you can't change	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 10:25 AM
1	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? Ok, so then was the person who commented "AWALT. Pot, kettle, black" trying to say my comment was in some way hypocritical? Because I really don't know how one would interpret it in that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 10:10 AM
1	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? Ah, still not sure what pots and kettles have to do with that, but red pillers should read my original comment too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 09:47 AM
3	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? maybe I'm being a pessimist, but the education and experience of so many people these days is so limiting, Unfortunately, I wouldn't say that is pessimistic, and it really seems like it's getting worse not better, especially here in the US (and certainly other places) where we decided that billionaires and huge corporations basically own everything and decide what you get to see :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 09:29 AM
0	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? What's AWALT, and also the three other seemingly unrelated words? Maybe I am like really out of touch or something but I do not know what any of that means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 09:25 AM
5	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? Yeah, it's strange to me how many people are seemingly unable to wrap their heads around the premise that making a statement about half the world's population's behavior, personality, and values is not really a good idea, and that statement is going to be inaccurate in many ways based purely on it's framing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 09:22 AM
3	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? Does that include women? They are a group of people that make up 50% of the population, so yes. Maybe better tell redpillers I have tried that before, but they also don't seem to get it :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 09:10 AM
3	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? I think the biggest issue I see is that we live in a world where people are treated in certain ways based on what they are, rather than being treated based on who they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 09:07 AM
5	Lack of good sex The people who have good sex in their relationship don't complain online about how bad their sex life has become. It does appear to be a fairly common problem, and I chalk it up mostly to a lot of people being uncomfortable with communicating sexual desires to their partner, or not taking into account how important sexual compatibility can end up being. I think a lot of straight people should take notes from not straight people in terms of being open about sexual desire and needs and what they a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 08:42 AM
5	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? It's such a shame to me that feminism has become a word with such extreme negative connotations because of people like that, when the ideas behind it are so good, and I think most people would agree with a lot of it, if they actually understood what it is supposed to be about. Maybe it just needs a better PR team, because right now it seems to just be angering people rather than getting them to understand anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 08:26 AM
1	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? The weird part to me is that all of this looks like it could be solved by actually using the phrase "any man could be" instead of "all men are". As much as some people seem to disagree with me on this, words have meaning, and that meaning matters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 08:00 AM
3	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? Yeah, and I disagree with phrasing it as "all men" even in that context, because words have meaning, and "all men are" means something different than "any man could be". I am not angry at the notion itself; I agree with it, I just think that starting a statement with "all" when talking about any group of people is not the best way to start a statement. I can tell you are trying to make assumptions about my beliefs on gender, politics, women, and all kinds of things, and I can assure you, you are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 07:42 AM
8	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? Let me say what I just said again in a different way. "It is all men" has a different meaning than "it could be any man". When I go to the bad part of town, I don't think every person there is a criminal, but I know that any of them could be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 07:27 AM
7	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? difference between having the potential to behave in a similar way to another man due to the same cultural environment and doing the same things as other men Did I deny that reality? Last I checked, I never did. I never claimed there isn't reasonable and valid arguments to be made against the behaviours of men towards women that are perpetuated by society, because I think there are valid claims for that, what I said was you shouldn't use the word "all" because that does claim that it is all of a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 07:20 AM
9	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? Excerpt from the original post a woman directly challenges the notion that it's NOT all men. "It is all men", she asserts She did exactly what I said. Stating "it is all men" is stating exactly that all of that group of people do a certain thing which is objectively false, if you want to make a claim like that that isn't objectively false then maybe start with "a majority of men" or "a concerningly large amount" or "too many" and not "all" because otherwise you have to deal with the implications…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 07:04 AM
3	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? I think that's actually a lot of them, probably even the majority, but in the age of the internet, it seems that the worst, most unreasonable opinions float to the top and get the most traction. The most obnoxious voices tend to be the loudest online. I miss when I could say something stupid online and people actually knew it was ironic :/ I can't blame them, though I often see things online and think to myself, "No way anyone is stupid enough to believe that," but often I am proven wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 06:52 AM
13	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? I think a lot of feminists actually do have reasonable, valid points to make, but many of them fail by starting a discussion with "all men" or even just "men" as both of those imply they are about to claim that 50% of the population in fact all act a certain way. They could easily circumvent this by starting with a phrase like "a lot of men," or "a large portion of men," or "a decent amount of men," or "too many men". It's the same as when someone starts a discussion with "all women," it's a cru…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 06:45 AM
38	Q4M: What do you think about the pushback against "Not all men"? You can't claim that a group of people that makes up 50% of the population all behave in the same way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 06:29 AM
–	Q4M: Would you be receptive to feedback on your appearance from your women? Depends on how they say it, there is a way to say something would look better on me that isn't rude. I don't mind receiving advice on my appearance. I mean, I don't have to take it if I really don't want to. I wouldn't be offended if someone said, "I think you'd look better with a beard." I don't have to grow one, and it's subjective. I wouldn't be offended by someone saying something about how they think a particular haircut or shirt would look better on me than what I am currently wearing, esp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/25 07:04 AM
40	Men, what’s something you love about being a man? I can whip it out and piss basically where ever I want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 11:10 PM
9	Gender roles are not inherently harmful Society wouldn't have such a negative reaction to those who do not conform to its rigid expectations if those expectations weren't so rigid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 05:54 AM
22	Gender roles are not inherently harmful It doesn't suck for the people that fit into them, but for the people that don't, it's not very fun :/ I don't care what people choose to do with their lives but I do not enjoy being forced into a predetermined selection of characteristics and behaviors that I am supposed to follow and am told that I am wrong for not following them even though I didn't get a say in the matter I was told to act a certain way since birth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 05:39 AM
3	Reasons for age gap relationships I think the younger generation is sort of changing the standard though, at least from what I see with most of my peers (I'm 20), a lot of guys my age actually have a skincare routine myself included. People already do think I am younger than I am often, although I think I just have one of those faces that looks younger, and maybe the way I dress but I don't know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 04:34 AM
2	Reasons for age gap relationships Thicker skin makes fine lines appear deeper sooner and stronger muscles in the face make dynamic wrinkles appear sooner. That’s why men get forehead wrinkles and crow’s feet sooner. While true I think another big part of that is that most men have lackluster skin care in comparison to most women, also based on what I have seen people who get more acne and have naturally oily skin will look younger for longer which is just purely genetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 04:10 AM
22	Reasons for age gap relationships Women age faster than men. I know a lot of women will lash out at me for this point, but it's true. There's a reason we hear the saying "men age like wine, women age like milk". I'm an example of this. I'm well into my 30s and I often get mistaken for a college student. It would ironically look weird for me to date a woman my own age. It would feel like I have a cougar fetish or I'm dating one of my mom's friends.. If dating a woman your age (30s) feels like a cougar fetish that might be a you p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 03:49 AM
4	The No Mercy Gaming controversy: Rape Fantasies in video games are different then murder I see it the same as any other dark or disturbing topic being portrayed in media. It's fantasy, fantasy does not equate to reality. If a person does equate fantasy to reality they have other problems not related to the media they are consuming. It is not the fault of a game like Doom that the Columbine high school shooting happened, in a case like this I don't think it would be the fault of the game if someone played it and then decided to rape somebody. I don't think kids should be able to acce…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 02:46 AM
8	The No Mercy Gaming controversy: Rape Fantasies in video games are different then murder Steam has a content warning on any game rated mature or over, it's very easy to bypass though all you have to do is just input a birthday that would make you 18 or older. It used to be harder with physical games because you had to walk into the store and they wouldn't sell M-rated or Adult-rated games to kids, which for something like this I'd say is better I don't think children should play this game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 02:38 AM
16	The No Mercy Gaming controversy: Rape Fantasies in video games are different then murder That may be true, but I'd argue that rape is more "evil" than murder. Like I'd never kill anyone but sometimes I get it, like Luigi Mangione, personally don't think I would have done that but I can see where he was coming from (not to say that there aren't people that kill people for sadistic pleasure). Rape on the other hand is just pure selfish evilness, there is no justifiable motivation behind it. As for depicting it in video games, same as any other dark or disturbing topic in media.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 02:31 AM
10	Besides high standards, feminism, or something else that is women's fault, why do some young men struggle to ask women out these days? I'm shy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 08:25 PM
9	If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married women Honestly disagree I think most people peak in attractiveness in their mid to late 20s, and some even later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 07:27 PM
8	If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married women I mean I'm 20, so I am attracted to women my age, but I still do find women (and men) older than me more attractive physically and personality-wise. Based on my own observations 25-30 is when people really grow into themselves and start to gain a lot more confidence and independence which are attractive traits. I don't find them more relatable, but that's beside the point 25 isn't a "wall" for women I am not sure where the OP even got this idea from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/25 05:26 AM
32	If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married women Single women do not become ugly at 25-30, 25-30 isn't old. I'd even argue that women who are 25-30 are often more attractive than women who are younger than 25.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/25 10:41 PM
3	How offended do you feel when you see sexualized images of men? I don't like it when I see people sexualize images of men that shouldn't be sexual (stuff like normal photos, or the weird amount of thirst trap edits of serial killers). Still, when it comes to images that are erotic, or fictional characters, I couldn't care less. I think the same way about women. That being said you are allowed to be attracted to people and to find someone attractive, that's part of being human.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/25 11:36 PM
5	It doesn't make sense when women claim that most men just want casual sex. If you are a woman on a dating app, the people that are hitting you up the most are the ones that just want to have sex. That would be my best guess on why they would think that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 04:02 AM
–	Has pet culture made finding romantic partners harder in the west? Maybe some people just don't like dogs though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 07:40 PM
–	Has pet culture made finding romantic partners harder in the west? It's a bit more than that but ok I guess, do you know anyone with autism? From my experience they love dogs. Although I'm probably autistic and I don't like dogs, so maybe you have but I think on average someone with autism is more likely to like dogs than not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 03:14 PM
2	Has pet culture made finding romantic partners harder in the west? Is it an autistic trait? What?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 09:10 AM
8	Has pet culture made finding romantic partners harder in the west? Isn't there a reasonably high percentage of the population who have a dog allergy? I mean they probably don't want dogs, so I don't think it could be like that super hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 07:46 AM
8	Has pet culture made finding romantic partners harder in the west? I mean, I don't like dogs, but this seems excessive. I don't want a dog, I am not interested in dating people with dogs. There are far larger obstacles that have contributed to my lack of success in dating that aren't related to dogs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 07:40 AM
4	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Homie, you dated a pedophile. She was not right for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 10:03 PM
22	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). I think what you are failing to understand is a lot of younger women will not be attracted to these men, not because of their appearance, but because of their age. Most women who are 19 or 20 can see someone and recognize them as attractive or even be attracted to them, but then finding out they are in their 40s makes them unattractive. Also, those are celebrities who have for sure had plastic surgery to appear younger and are not indicative of what the average man between the ages of 39 and 37 …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:55 PM
4	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). I mean would you date someone your mom's age?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:49 PM
8	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). I think its because those men are unattractive and they are shooting out of their league, Well duh, most young people are attracted to other young people, very few 30+ year olds are gonna be attractive to people in their late teens, except for celebrities who get plastic surgery to look younger, that is part of it, but that's not all of it. Maybe you are just like really dense but most young people find the idea of dating someone the age of their parents to be really weird and kinda gross. Also …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:35 PM
8	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). Right but again, those are situations that could be applied to young men as well. There are plenty of young men chasing women just for sex not caring about their personalities, but we just call them douchebags. Yeah the problem is that is most of the older guys who date younger women, also most young women aren't into older dudes, despite what the internet wants you to think. Most younger women do not like being hit on by guys in their 30s and 40s it grosses them out, why? Becuase it is pretty w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:21 PM
10	Age gaps are only hated by jaded women and have not young men (besides fathers). I just think it's weird for a man in his 30s or 40s to actively pursue girls that just got out of high school, or in even worse cases are still in high school, like it is a "legal" adult, but that's just kinda gross, like what is the appeal if it isn't just their looks. It's not the age gap that bothers me, it's the maturity gap. Someone who is 30 getting with someone is 45 or 50 I couldn't give a shit, but someone who is 30 and someone who is 18 or 19, that is a significant difference in life e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 09:11 PM
5	Most girls don’t prefer significantly older men I mean on average women live 7 years longer than men, so if she is 7 years older than you, then it's ideal because you will die at the same time (hopefully?) which is objectively the best ending to a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/25 03:31 AM
10	Men who were clear and consistent about not wanting kids are no morally different than sperm donors to me. Relation as in you know who the person is. Sperm donors don't know who receives their donations, and it is kept that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 07:15 AM
10	Men who were clear and consistent about not wanting kids are no morally different than sperm donors to me. Okay, but if she did lie then that makes your friend much less of an idiot and her much more of an evil person, if she didn't lie then your friend is a moron who lacks accountability. Do you see the distinction? Let me paint it a bit clearer again. If you don't want to risk getting someone pregnant don't do the one singular thing that gets people pregnant. If you do that you have to accept the risks of doing that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 07:09 AM
12	Men who were clear and consistent about not wanting kids are no morally different than sperm donors to me. The sperm donor has no relation to the mother, and will probably never have a relation to the mother or the child, so therefore cannot abandon the child. On the other hand, if you fuck a girl and decide to creampie her, you have relations with that woman and you now have to deal with the possible consequences of your actions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 07:07 AM
11	Men who were clear and consistent about not wanting kids are no morally different than sperm donors to me. Not sure how that is related to the question I just asked or my original comment, but okay. That makes you smarter than your friend then. Is it a weird concept to you that if you don't want to risk getting someone pregnant then maybe don't do the one thing that can impregnate someone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 06:57 AM
12	Men who were clear and consistent about not wanting kids are no morally different than sperm donors to me. Did she lie to him about being on birth control? If so, why did you leave that out of your original post? That is very important context, if she didn't lie however then your friend is still an idiot, don't cum in a girl if you don't want to risk getting her pregnant that is common sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 06:52 AM
14	Men who were clear and consistent about not wanting kids are no morally different than sperm donors to me. I mean in this scenario the elephant in the room is that both of them have poor judgment, if she pulled the condom off and asked for him to cum in her (which is obviously really dumb of her) he still could've said "I am not going to do that I don't want to risk getting you pregnant" but he didn't which is stupid, unless she lied about being on birth control than both of them are at fault. The difference with sperm donation is the donor chooses to give sperm knowing it'd be used to make a child a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 06:46 AM
1	Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women? Men (generally) offer more value to the world because they are required to do so to advance in life. Women don’t have this same amount of pressure to offer as much value. So isn't the reason for that that we are raised/socialized differently? Men are expected to do certain things and act in certain ways because they are raised in a world with those gendered expectations, which in turn shapes their behavior later in life, which is what I said originally. In turn, women are also expected to behave…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 06:20 AM
2	Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women? Ok, so I have a question for you: why do you think men SHOULD want to be friends with more than a few women despite them not offering any value or very small amount of value to their lives? Did I say "they SHOULD want to"? I just said it's weird they don't unless you account for some disparity in men and women's socialization. I have friends that are women who offer me the same value as the friends that I have that are men. I don't think people should be friends with people that offer no value t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 05:05 AM
3	How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to? Years of that stuff will make a person unhinged. I'm assuming many young girls experience the same thing even now. Based on the women that I know who are my age, it's still pretty bad, unfortunately. Although I think it might be getting better based on my male peers (I hope so at least), from my own experience older men are unhinged with some of the shit they say and do, and men my age tend to be a fair amount less outwardly gross and creepy. Either way, it's still horrible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 04:45 AM
3	How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to? Interesting, do you think there was a reason for that shift? I have noticed that many women seem to express having that shift (based purely on my own observations), but most men don't. I haven't noticed a very dramatic shift so far in how often I find a woman attractive as of now (I am in college) compared to when I was in highschool, maybe slightly less often but I also didn't have very man crushes in highschool much less than my peers I think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 04:19 AM
-1	How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to? Reasonable, although with the new found information that you are certainly a fair amount older than I originally thought. When you were younger did you find men attractive more often?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 04:02 AM
9	How often do you encounter a man you're attracted to? Why do you assume you'd lose attraction by talking to him? Do you find most people boring?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 03:53 AM
5	Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women? You still haven't answered why that is the case. Even if your logic completely explains it, why does it completely explain it? If friendships are purely about value as you explain then why is the disparity between men and women there? I don't see what line of thinking to get an answer for this that won't just go back to men and women seeing each other differently because they are socialized differently. Like do you think that there would still be this difference if men and women were raised exac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 03:38 AM
2	Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women? That means men ALL OVER THE WORLD in every country for all of history were somehow raised the exact same way - that’s the assumption you’re making here. Two things with this one 1. Generally speaking almost every culture treats men and women differently, often in similar ways, and usually assigns each sex different roles socially, often those roles being men are "providers" and women are "caregivers" and they are raised differently because of that. I don't know how me talking about how I think m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 02:05 AM
2	Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women? If speaking in the concept of heteronormative dating/relationships (which I assumed you were) the man is to take on the role of the provider to provide for the woman, and the woman is to take on the more subservient role and is to depend on the man. The typical dynamic that is the most prevalent in western society (although now it is shifting) is that the man works and the woman takes care of the house in service to that man for his providing. This is what you see in pop culture and generally ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 01:53 AM
1	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed From my experience, anyone who dates primarily through dating apps will NEVER give you good advice. I'm not gonna sit here and explain why dating apps are a shitshow you probably already know that. Generally from what I've seen the women who are really into dating apps are terrible at picking partners, and more often than not have bizarre standards that fail in terms of reality so they often end up getting disappointed. Also, women who only get dating advice from other women will probably give y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 01:48 AM
2	Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women? That might be true, but I was only speaking on general social skills in terms of just like talking to strangers and making friends. Generally, I agree with your statement but I think you missed that a lot of women are often still taught that they need to "serve" the man they are in a relationship with, which like respect should go both ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 01:13 AM
20	Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women? I have both male and female friends, all of them do the things you listed that only men do. The difference is pretty marginal, occasionally I will choose to go to either a female or male friend based on certain things because I think one of them will have more experience or better input on something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 11:27 PM
8	Why do women specifically seek platonic friendships with men, but men do not seek platonic friendships with women? I am a man, I have friends that are women, and I have close friends that are women. From what I have been able to gather from people's reactions to that information is that most men don't view women as a group of people they are allowed to be friends with, without the motivation of sex or a relationship. I don't know why since I don't feel that way, I'm bisexual and do not desire to have sex or a relationship with any of my friends male or female. I think it is probably the way men are socialize…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 10:56 PM
3	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed Did a woman tell you that? Also dating advice I have gotten from women has oftentimes been more helpful than what I have gotten from men before because a lot of women do actually know what women like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 10:43 PM
7	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed Yeah, I would. Andrew Tate doesn't believe everything he says, look at his preaching of Islam for example he only does that for the algorithm. He does hate women though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 02:35 PM
9	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed So do their parents, their friends, their jobs, their education and life experiences. Arguably for most people that's gonna do more for shaping how they think than what they see people say online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 06:40 AM
14	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed Again from my own experience and everything I have seen in the real world, most people are reasonable. The same way I see shit like fresh and fit and think those dudes are idiots just trying to make money, most women (at least all the ones I know) think the same way about their equivalents. Even if social media is pervasive it's not real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 06:31 AM
21	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed I mean same way Andrew Tate does it to guys, but that's still not the vast majority of women. From my own experience in real life, people don't really think like this, most people are reasonable. I don't think it's fair to say "these are the standards of women" when most people aren't saying this shit. I agree that content like this sucks and can be harmful but it doesn't spread as far into real life as people seem to think it does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 06:16 AM
12	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed Their beliefs they formed to get more money and views sure, but what's based on reality no. This go for both male and female influencers, they care about views and money not truth. You are not going to get an accurate reflection on how people think and act from watching that shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:58 AM
53	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed You do realize people make content for views not to spread their beliefs or what's actually true right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:46 AM
114	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed How many women have you talked to get these "average" standards?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:04 AM
22	If you had a son and had to choose between two futures for him, would you rather he be tall & good-looking, sexually successful, but misogynistic, OR short & unattractive, romantically unsuccessful, but respectful toward women? There was nothing in the question to imply he was a "simp" or bending over backwards. It only stated that he was kind and respectful towards women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 10:12 PM
2	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Yeah probably true, I was actually just quoting stats from a link someone else commented and likely the same one OP used.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 07:58 PM
1	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. That is a scenario but also it could be reversed if the man leaves which also happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 07:57 PM
–	Exploring the Impact of Fatherlessness on Boys’ Development Fair enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 04:38 PM
–	Exploring the Impact of Fatherlessness on Boys’ Development Why limit it to just fatherless men, do you think motherless men won't lack certain skills? I think a single parent household is bad for any child because that's what evidence supports. Children with both parents usually end up with less problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 04:17 PM
-2	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Any talk about men's issues happening here, would get banned on the majority of subs on reddit and likely would get you socially outcast IRL unless you were very careful who you talked about it with I think depends if you think mens issues are "I'm 5'6 and nobody wants to fuck me because of it" because yeah then everyone thinks you are idiot, but if it's "I am scared to be emotionally vulnerable because my entire life taught me not to be" than I think most people will actually listen and think a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 03:53 PM
–	Exploring the Impact of Fatherlessness on Boys’ Development Gendered expectations like this are stupid. We don't live in a world where thinking like this is necessary. Men and women are more similar than we are different. I think if we actually treated everyone the same we wouldn't have dumb problems like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 03:40 PM
0	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Oh my bad, I thought you were responding to a different comment I made.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 02:56 PM
2	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Ok thank you. I don't see how that is very relevant to what was actually posted in the original post though. She brought up divorce statistics but that's not the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 02:50 PM
5	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. What do you mean? Like what are you asking? If you are trying to get me to say "I think all single moms are dumb whores who deserve to be in that position and it's their fault" I'm not going to because it's not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:54 PM
2	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. So completely ignore the other men? How is bringing up that many young men express having experiences of harassment and assault from women "ignoring the other men"? Also are female rapists at the same level as male rapists I don't exactly know what you meant by this but rape is rape doesn't matter who is committing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:49 PM
6	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. This sub does both, for both genders.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:44 PM
3	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. No, you don't. Most people online hate single moms for some reason don't ask me why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:42 PM
2	This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad. Well most people here are young and statistics do show that overall men cheat more except in the age group of 18-29 which is probably the age of the majority of users on this subreddit, so take with that what you will. I don't think I have seen anyone on here try to argue that women are not disproportionately victims of sexual assault compared to men like ever once. I think everyone is aware of that, it's just not often a topic of conversation that comes up in this sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:35 PM
35	Q4M: do you consider yourself a gentleman? If your idea of "gentleman" is that I will pay for all your meals then I am not one. I personally get a bit turned off if you don't even offer to pay your share. I think first dates should be a pay your share thing since you don't know if you actually like each other yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 06:09 AM
6	Are you okay being the man she settled for? Does is matter if you disgust her? Some of them, but that also goes for men. I think in a lot of online spaces they are too picky but that doesn't equate to real life. Just because they don't want me doesn't mean they are picky, I can actually understand why a majority of heterosexual women wouldn't be attracted to me and I guess I do think some of those standards are a bit strange and come from a negative place, the big example being that I am bisexual and my best friend is a woman, lots of straight women seem to be uncomfortabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 08:10 PM
4	Are you okay being the man she settled for? Does is matter if you disgust her? I think that is the internet speaking, nobody that actually goes outside thinks like that. I think people should be with who they want to be with, because why the fuck would anyone want to be in a relationship where one of the people doesn't like the other one that sounds like sucks. They just want to feel validated because they live miserable lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 07:31 PM
8	Are you okay being the man she settled for? Does is matter if you disgust her? No, how did you get that from my response? All I said is that I want my partner to actually want to be with me and to be attracted to me as I am to then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 07:26 PM
7	Are you okay being the man she settled for? Does is matter if you disgust her? Well I didn't say that, and I don't think that all women are too picky or they like the same thing. I do understand that most people I am attracted to probably won't want me because that is how reality works for basically everyone, including most people that are attracted to me. So I guess I just don't understand the premise of your question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 07:20 PM
49	Are you okay being the man she settled for? Does is matter if you disgust her? No, why would I want to be with someone who isn't attracted to me, and would've picked someone else given the chance? I'd rather be single than be with someone who doesn't want me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/25 07:02 PM
4	Submissive men and dominant women It's more that bisexual women are kind of fetishized by straight men or it's seen as like a "phase", and bisexual men are often seen as just gay but trying to hide which makes even less sense. Both get pushed under the stereotype of being overly promiscuous and will fuck anyone that moves though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 09:58 PM
3	Submissive men and dominant women Yeah, I am also a bit more fluid in my sexuality myself, not really enough for me to declare myself as bisexual but enough that it does make most straight women slightly uncomfortable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 09:14 PM
5	Submissive men and dominant women That is tough I couldn't imagine what it is like to go through something like that, but at least this thread proves that there are at least some other people like us even if it's just a minority. So I like to think that maybe we aren't as alone in this as it feels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 08:50 PM
1	Submissive men and dominant women you can submit actively though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 08:38 PM
9	Submissive men and dominant women Yeah, but you win some and lose others when you choose to disregard gendered expectations. I'd rather be myself alone than pretend to be someone else with others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 08:32 PM
3	Submissive men and dominant women If it was that boring than they probably just weren't very good at it :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 08:29 PM
3	Submissive men and dominant women Yeah but having sex with someone is not the same as beating someone (unless you're into that), I'd say that regular vanilla sex (like missionary) is inherently a neutral action and there is no dynamic of submission and dominance until one is put there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 08:28 PM
5	Submissive men and dominant women In the scenario I gave the woman is the one in control, she holds control over the man she is dominating him. Penetration doesn't automatically equate to dominance dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 08:17 PM
3	Submissive men and dominant women How is heavy oral and her riding not practical or fun?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 08:09 PM
9	Submissive men and dominant women Sorry for my colorful language, but if you are fucking a girl and she has you on a leash and is commanding you how to do it, then you are submitting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 08:08 PM
5	Submissive men and dominant women It's more about the mindset than the action being performed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 07:59 PM
21	Submissive men and dominant women I am a submissive man myself, and I really hate dating because I know that most women would not be able to fill me sexually. There is also immediate assumptions sometimes negative if I express that I am "kinky" because then the assumption is that I am a man who likes to beat women for fun, which is not true. I tend to even shy away from dating straight women and I'd much rather date a bisexual woman for the simple reason that they might actually be open to something like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 07:49 PM
15	Men complain about women dating bad boys yet men date horrible women You can be confident and not care what others think without being bad. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 01:33 AM
27	How true is it that girls will avoid guys they like and act outgoing with guys they don't like? I think it's worth noting guys also do this around girls, it's not like gender specific.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 04:25 AM