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| 1 | If a woman is ok with physical closeness in public but won’t let you “isolate” her, what’s the freaking deal?Probably a write off, but know that with her or the next girl you can amplify in the public space, not just when isolated. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 01:58 AM |
| 6 | Girl adds you on snap, definite interest. What if she still hasn’t snapped you in a couple days? Is it OK then to be the one to contact first?Absolutely fine to contact first. Keep it brief. Imagine if you saw her in person. Her making eye contact with you or standing near you is the equivalent of her adding you on social media. You are still expected to make the larger gesture of approaching her; messaging her first is analogous to that. Also, just like approaching, the longer you wait the more awkward it becomes. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Use silence to your advantage.Silence is indeed excellent to make them re-evaluate. If it is ever not enough, reciprocity also works. In this example, if he had remained on the fence after the silence, you can offer to give him a good review for working extra hard to whatever system/boss he cares about. Offering him a free meal and building rapport might also work, and even if he doesn't take you up on it he'll appreciate the gesture and be more likely to comply. Same with a woman. Let's say she is on the fence about sex. If… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/18 01:40 AM |
| 5 | “Opening up,” a little changes how they view you.I second the question: how is she treating you differently? I see your motivation to end it, but it's unclear whether that leads you to the best outcome. This is not an LTR - she's just a plate, and your best-looking one at that. Is she bringing up the PTSD? If so, you could say you're making progress, discussing it is counterproductive, and leave it at that. If you retrain her on the behaviors you don't want to see using a strong frame, does that solve the problem? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 04:49 PM |
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