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Men don't hate women in general. If they did, they wouldn't try so hard to date, find love, or build a life with a partner. There are exceptions on both sides. Even people who say they hate women usually don't. More often, they're hurt, lonely, or tired of being ignored, and those words are just a way of expressing that pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:31 PM
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Forgot to include these words in any context women use to shame men and show hatred (even if men are not any of these): Fragile Incel Bitter ...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:13 PM
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"Men are useless." "All men are trash." "Men are just wallets." "He's only good for paying the bills." "I don't care about his personality as long as he's tall and rich." "Real men don't cry." "Man up." "A man's value is what he provides." "If he isn't six feet tall, don't bother." "Men only think with one thing." "He's replaceable; there are plenty more." "Use him until someone better comes along." "I don't date broke men." "He's just free food." "Men are emotionally immature." "Happy wife, hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:07 PM
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I only needed to read the title to think of you as a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:52 PM
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First, you can not make men/women lower their standards (even if they are super high and out their leagues) Second, it just shows you have no self respect and shamelessly want a woman that has to pretend she likes you I hope never any woman choose me out of desperate or had to settle with me because of her situation. I deserve a woman that loves me for me. Being in a relationship with fake love is just another kind of loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:29 AM
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Hmm, but I don't think what op said is a special case. It's not rare. It's not normal/ethical but again not rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 08:20 PM
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A special case that happens super rarely doesn't prove it. It's just a special case
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:27 PM
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I don't agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:37 PM
9

Not enough. Not irl. Just online
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:34 PM
6

If both partners complain, who’s holding the relationship together? Though, if she never knows when to stop complaining, the healthier choice is to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:20 PM
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So, men should lower their standards (or just don't have any standard, just be happy with whatever is there) while women can keep raising theirs infinitely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:45 PM
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I think you should make another post about their lack of empathy and their double standards. I'm amazed and disgusted by their selfish behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:54 AM
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Oh my God. Imagine spending 20-30 years in a marriage built on lies, with no real love. Your youth, time, emotions, and trust are all destroyed. And in the end, the only "repayment" you get is money. Some things can never truly be compensated by money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:31 AM
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So, no punishment for such a cruel act? Money won't repay the man's emotions and trust
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:26 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:00 AM
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I think it's as bad as rape. They take advantage of your money, emotions , time, trust, ...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:45 AM
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You can't defend yourself with art though Your example wasn't good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:12 AM
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Finally a good take from blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:58 AM
4

"Women's tone" is such a convenient excuse. "Kill all men" is somehow harmless because it's women saying it, but men are expected to have every word interpreted literally and in the worst possible way. If anything, it's often the opposite. A lot of women openly resent men and want payback for what misogynistic men of the past did, but they wrap it in "jokes," "venting," or "women's tone" because saying it outright would damage their image. That kind of double standard is exactly what keeps the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:17 PM
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women also open up and say shit like they wanna kill all men and bla bla... Maybe they should get some consequences too which they'll never.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:50 PM
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that's why men shouldn't open up to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:27 PM
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A victim complex isn't feminine. Anyone can develop one. But if it becomes your identity and affects every aspect of your life, it's an unhealthy psychological problem that should be treated, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:26 PM
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calling yourself good is cringe af
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:38 PM
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There is. You just refuse to acknowledge it. Whether you explicitly wrote the word "generalization" is irrelevant. Your post either generalizes or it doesn't, and readers can judge that by reading it, not by whether you used a particular word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:02 PM
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Plus, I don’t blame you for bad experiences, and I do empathize with women hurt by shitty men, as long as I’m not treated like one of them. Men have bad experiences too, but when we talk about them, we’re told to deal with it ourselves and stop generalizing. I don’t mind empathy. I mind the double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:58 PM
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The best part is that nobody has to take my word for it. Your post is literally still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:51 PM
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It is not irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:17 PM
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Generalizing women is sexism (you are stupid. work on yourself, I can't help you. you lack social skill. you are incel. you bla bla...), but generalizing men is suddenly "lived experience". Your argument is basically: "Don't stereotype me, but let me stereotype you."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:40 PM
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Sugar daddies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:31 AM
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Isn’t men being treated like ATMs a kind of objectification?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:14 PM
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Diss and diss back moment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:11 PM
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No hope is better than false hope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:55 PM
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Become? You are saying it like it's game we can level up using some XPs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:09 AM
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You can't force attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:52 AM
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What is good in a desperate man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:41 PM
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I agree with the education part (not necessarily the same field/area), but not the career part. Both being doctors, nurses, engineers, etc. isn’t necessary, and honestly could even be a bad match. They should complement each other, not be copy-paste versions of each other. Similar hobbies, values, and lifestyle matter more than having the same job or exact same goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:20 PM
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Damn... they're okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:00 PM
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Personality matters. Achievements? Not that much. Your accomplishments are great, but they're your accomplishments. Most men don't choose partners based on their resume. If you have achievements, cool. If you don't, that's fine too. Personality and compatibility are what matter to most men. That's generally different from what many women look for (a successful man).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:45 PM
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Not anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:21 PM
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I dont have this mentality but calling someone fragile doesn't fix anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:14 AM
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I understand your point, and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with aiming for a fair division of chores. I just think a relationship should still feel flexible and enjoyable, not like a contract with constant scorekeeping. I used to think more strictly about 50/50 too, but over time I started feeling that too many rules can make a relationship less warm and spontaneous. Personally, if I ended up doing 80% for a while because my partner was genuinely tired or overwhelmed, I wouldn’t mind. Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:20 PM
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I was just curious. I wasn’t implying that you’re against it. I only asked because I hear this topic come up a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:14 PM
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I don’t think a caring partner would ever pressure someone like that. I was only curious because I see this topic come up a lot. Sometimes it sounds like women assume men want sex nonstop and can actually do that, but honestly, plenty of us would probably struggle to keep up with a woman who has a higher sex drive. Hopefully that problem never finds me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:10 PM
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I’m sure plenty of men would handle pregnancy too if biology allowed it :). My intention was really just to understand how strict your views on gender roles are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:04 PM
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How strict are you about everything being exactly 50/50? In real life, it’s hard to measure whether both people contributed equally all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:59 PM
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I see it a lot. That's why I asked
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:53 PM
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Would you perform half the unpleasant or risky tasks, heavy lifting, checking strange noises, dealing with aggressive strangers, dangerous repairs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:21 PM
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What’s wrong with wanting sex? Not whenever I want, but it should be regular. The way some women describe it makes it sound like they’re being forced. If you genuinely like someone and you’re not asexual, don’t you also enjoy and want sex with them? Again not all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:03 PM
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Women can usually tell when a guy is lying. Whether they call it out depends on how much they like or are attracted to him. Men do the same thing too. Sometimes we would rather believe a sweet lie than face a bitter truth. It’s less about gender and more about the kind of lie being told, how much you hate that type of dishonesty, and how willing you are to overlook it because you like the person. Everyone has different boundaries, so we can’t really generalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:36 AM
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Before answering, could you define what you mean by a “generally good guy”? What specific principles, behaviors, and qualities count as having an “inner moral compass”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:37 AM
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If you're homeless just buy a house ah comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:05 AM
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I want a husband like this too. where can find one like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 10:29 AM
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This is not a correct way of arguing. Then men that says "most women are A" are correct no matter how much women bring counter arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:32 AM
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Bruh... Who said this?! Where your narrative comes from? I believe what I see, not so called what i want to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:14 AM
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The driver matters more than the car.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:03 AM
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Nah, as a man, I don’t hate Henry Cavill. He’s handsome and masculine and top tier. But I hate Cameron Herrin and men like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:48 PM
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Thank you, I really appreciate this. I’ve also been thinking about trying therapy. It would be my first time, so I just hope I find a good therapist and that it actually helps me work through some of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:24 PM
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The saddest part is that, I am wasting my life without even trying. Losing is much better than not trying. I'll try to rebuild the confidence. And not be awkward. Still the most important thing here is: Persistence, patience, and not taking bad consequences to heart. I lack so much in last one. It's because of my inferiority complex. I want to be free of hatred and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:15 PM
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Yeah, your example sounds completely normal. I just don’t think setting those boundaries is equally easy for someone who lacks social skills or is trying to rebuild their confidence and needs some support from others first. So maybe it depends on the person. Though maybe I’m also using that as a justification not to try (I do that sometimes without realizing it).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:01 PM
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Maybe you’re right that I haven’t actually developed a public persona and have mostly been doing whatever I think people expect from me. But I also think this works more easily when someone’s natural personality is already pleasant, socially comfortable, or not too emotionally taxing for others. If your natural tendencies are very negative, withdrawn, or difficult to be around, then simply presenting an accurate version of yourself may still push people away. I don’t enjoy being around people wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:53 PM
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I mean, I don’t know... maybe it’s because I might have social anxiety, but when I put on that public persona and try to make myself more likable, I feel pressured. You try to fit in, agree with people, say things like “Yeah, that’s good,” and present yourself as someone who is supportive and always sees the positive side even when that isn’t really who you are. It feels like you can’t use your actual personality, so you have to replace parts of yourself with something more socially acceptable. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:28 PM
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I faked it but couldn't make it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:14 PM
0

Do you feel anything when you go into your public persona?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:13 PM
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Ngl, I don’t know which one is better: being fake and likable, or being yourself, though that also raises the question of how much of your personality is actually authentic and how much has been shaped by others, and then either being liked or not (most likely not).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:11 PM
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That’s negotiable. Maybe with my wife, if it were one of her kinks and she was really into it, I’d be willing to give it a try. But absolutely no amount of money would make me do that with anyone else, man, woman, femboy, or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:23 AM
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Nah, hell nah, because I'm not gay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:52 AM
2

I mean yeah, scientifically it’s not a need like food. But personally, I call something a need when not having it affects you badly. So you kind of need it to prevent those damages. Lust still matters, and lacking it can affect you, so it’s something you should take care of too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:46 PM
5

It is important. Not as important as hunger. But still important.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:21 PM
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Well, we could say they don't go there to watch but to eat to satisfy their hunger which is a need. Lust is also a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:53 PM
1

Chill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:30 AM
3

That's your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:27 PM
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Are you completely ignoring sexual desire and easy confidence boost you gain from it and want to adress it with other things that's gonna cost you at least several years? Yes you could gain confidence from these you mentioned. But the purpose of simple casual sex was to give you enough ego boost and self confidence to apply it in the areas you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:55 PM
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Imagine nobody ever showed any interest in you. Being bothered wouldn't be your biggest problem. Your self-esteem, self-confidence, and sense of self-worth would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:57 PM
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Why? Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:40 PM
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ragebait
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:31 PM
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A healthy ego is better than a fragile one. Without self-worth, people become overly sensitive to rejection and develop an inferiority complex. Balance matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:28 PM
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Yes, if you get ignored too much your ego high likely become fragile.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:15 PM
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A healthy amount of ego is needed for every human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:10 PM
5

Weak comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:22 PM
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If i see directly people get rewarded for being arrogant and bad then it's obvious I would hate being nice and called nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:55 PM
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So thousands of guys (far more than this in reality) having the exact same bad experience is just my 'unique opinion'?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:15 PM
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It's based on observation. A lot of men have followed women's dating advice and reported poor results. That doesn't mean women are lying intentionally, but it does suggest people aren't always fully aware of what actually drives their attraction. + since everyone is different, it's hard to generalize what all women want anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:41 PM
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I agree with you. But if men shouldn't blindly trust "salesmen," then why don't women take some accountability for the advice they've been giving? Men followed that advice for years, and many found it didn't match reality. If the advice doesn't work, or isn't communicated clearly, shouldn't there be some responsibility for that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:37 PM
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Women are often not fully honest with themselves about their own feelings and desires. So how exactly are men supposed to take everything women say at face value? On top of that, every woman is different, different personalities, different upbringings, different emotional patterns, and different ways of communicating. What one woman says she wants can directly contradict what another one says. That’s why simply “listening to women” frequently just means shaping your behavior to please whichever …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:25 PM
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I always aim for top tier ones. Their rejection doesn't really hurt me, haha. Also what is the point of dating if the woman is not hot and attractive to you? You are just playing a lose-lose game. That said, in my opinion "ugly" is also relative (for most cases i think)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:36 PM
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So you don't care about women in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:11 PM
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Yeah that's wild but it's reality. We'll not be violent towards you. Those that will be violent don't even try to argue with you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:50 PM
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Honestly... I never really thought about this question before. I probably wouldn't pick a public figure because... we don't actually know who they are behind the scenes. They might represent one thing publicly but be completely different in real life. I'd rather pick someone I actually know. For men, I'd probably say a friend of mine. He's just... really raw. He does what he wants, enjoys what he enjoys, and doesn't really give a fuck if people think it's embarrassing or weird. I feel like his w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:29 AM
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Life is not just the product of your choices. At least half of it, arguably more, is determined by circumstances you never chose. I didn't choose the environment I was born into. I didn't choose my parents. I didn't choose the country I was born in. I didn't choose my genetics. I didn't choose my family's beliefs or the values I was raised with. Those things, whether good or bad, shaped me long before I was old enough to make meaningful choices. Changing what was built during childhood isn't as …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:12 PM
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You're protecting your claim by changing who counts as a feminist. If every counterexample is dismissed as "not a true feminist," your claim becomes unfalsifiable. That's exactly what the No True Scotsman fallacy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:26 AM
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But isn’t her “pre-approval” often influenced by his behavior, confidence, social skills, and chemistry with her? If so, then male execution still matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:46 AM
1

Sympathy or Pity?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:54 PM
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As a thinking being, I am only pointing out the flaws in the 'Law of the Jungle' mindset we still have in our 21st-century society. I am not evil. Why would you infer that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:50 AM
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Only certain, very specific powerful men. You know, the exact kind that makes women choose the bear over men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:39 AM
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My parents are like that lol. Not calling them horrible though. I used to but not anymore. They are experiencing life for the first time just like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:30 AM
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I am not weak fortunately. I am just saying we are creating evil men in society with our own rules. Now you can call those men weak for that, but still that's how you create psychopathic criminals in society. Some of them even if not too many are still capable of atrocities. That is my concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:22 AM
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If some of those week men survives this cruel law and become powerful without getting any help and empathy from society, wouldn't that be concerning?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:54 AM
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Law of the Jungle, huh? Are we Animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:44 AM
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What u described was literally meant you don't see them as humans. You look down on them and then say why these groups look down on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:36 AM
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It is herd mentality because the argument is basically “some scientists said it, so now everyone who uses AI is lazy and stupid.” SCIENTISTS CAN BE WRONG TOO. Studies can be limited. The problem can be how people use the tool, not the tool itself. 10 years from now the same experts might walk it back, and the same people attacking AI users today will suddenly pretend they never said any of this. Also, calling people losers for using a tool is just dumb. Why use a lighter instead of making fire w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:12 PM
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No one said honesty means everyone has to like it. But blindly hating something because the crowd hates it is just HERD MENTALITY. At some point people stopped thinking and started reacting. They see “AI” and instantly call it SLOP, even if the person only used it to organize their thoughts or communicate better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:34 PM
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“The data is in” where?! Because what you’re saying is way more dramatic than what any serious evidence shows. Using AI to replace your thinking can make you lazy, sure. But using it to organize thoughts, translate, brainstorm, or write more clearly is not the same thing as losing your ability to think. Also, acting like someone is “permanently fcked” because they used a tool is just moral panic. People said the same kind of stuff about calculators, google and autocorrect. The issue is how peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:25 PM
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Worst advice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:59 PM
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They attacked you for being honest. Then in comment sections we see them yap around about why men are never honest or transparent with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:52 PM
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Girl ur trauma is showing, tuck it back in
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:45 PM
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We say be cautious around women too. Why don't you want to accept that being cautious about something is different than hating that entire thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:24 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being cautious for the sake of your loved ones to prevent possible worst case scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:21 AM
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Most men don't deny danger exists. We deny the leap from "some men are dangerous" to "men as a group are a threat." Men navigate dangerous men every day without concluding that all men should be feared. Also for your second one, If most men are followers, then most women are too. That's a statement about human nature, not men.You're describing the average person, not the average man. Nothing you said is news to men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:21 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:10 AM
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Do you think this kind of testing is valid before marriage for a woman who wants to know whether a man can protect and support her when needed? Or do you think such a test is neither acceptable nor justifiable? On the other hand, if a man is subjected to this kind of test, should he see it as a red flag, or is it a reasonable way for a woman to assess his reliability and character?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:55 AM
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I think those kind of women hate their men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:38 AM
1

I have a license for this🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:30 AM
1

Fair enough. Maybe your imagination is just built different 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:24 AM
2

By that logic, reading books is boring because you could've just imagined the story yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:19 AM
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Lol, relax. I wasn't making some deep argument, I was just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:16 AM
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Idk, no fantasies, no erotica, no curiosity... that's kinda what I mean by boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:09 AM
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Boring
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:55 AM
1

You never watch it? Hmm, let me guess... You read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:44 AM
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Nah, who said that? But when standards for men keep getting higher and higher, and we’re just told to adapt, that feels unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:16 PM
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It goes both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 05:36 PM
5

Adapt to Injustice. Don't question it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:26 PM
2

What happened to number 3?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:17 AM
2

That’s a bit sad, honestly. But outside of random cold approaches, what if you meet someone who genuinely catches your attention in an ordinary place, like a grocery store? If you’re respectful and honest about your intentions, do you think it can still go well? Especially when you might never see that person again (Regardless of your social skills)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:57 AM
2

That’s actually smart. Small talk is probably easier when there’s nothing at stake. Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:40 AM
1

Yeah, I’ve used those pre-made phrases a few times and got cooked by girls 😭 Honestly, being able to come up quickly with something that fits the moment is a really useful skill, not just for dating, but for life in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:30 AM
0

Bar, disco, parties
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:19 AM
2

Well, I’m not one of those many. I’d probably back off. But maybe something about you makes those men feel it’s worth trying, even after those signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:17 AM
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"If she screamed at you to leave her alone" This is a really scary outcome 😬 Other things, yeah it worth it if her looks and style is really my type. I mean what can I do beside trial and error. At least it shows my courage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:10 AM
-1

Seems reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:05 AM
2

Well, if the girl is really your type, it worth it. Oh wait... My bad, the post says "random women"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:00 AM
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yeah, high risk high reward
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:56 AM
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I mean shouldn't I do some eye contacting and giving a signal before approaching 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:55 AM
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I know there are a lot of women who may get really uncomfortable with these kinds of approaches. But my honest answer is that I hate to be hated for an approach
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:53 AM
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Maybe like a direct angry look👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:46 AM
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It always sucks for me to find a good opener that's not gonna make the situation awkward. Any tips?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:39 AM
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Lady, How do we know if a woman does like being approached or not 😮‍💨 Please ladies give direct signals so we don't approach you. We also don't want to be seen as a creep guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:36 AM
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Then where we should approach women? List the places and if possible the reason
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:25 AM
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The only correct part of this post is that only radicals make the changes occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:19 AM
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But getting a lot of no is so destructive and the process of flirting and chasing become too tiresome and humiliating. I mean it looks like you are too desperate to find someone and on the other hand feels like you are like a creep. They say don't take it siriesly and learn the process but how. Being rejected alot kills motivation. If i was a teen boy i wouldn't see it humiliating but for an adult man it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:48 AM
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Because it is. We just lie to ourselves and accept it as a side damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:39 AM
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It feels like you are a creep stalker. It's humiliating for those who don't have the skill. Skill issue. I mean skill also has a role in this. The less skill the more humiliating this chasing gonna be for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:34 AM
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You are full of confidence and I respect that. I don't have that confidence. Tbh i really want to become someone like you. Dating is really tiring and uncomfortable for me on the other side i don't want to be a lonely man. At least i want my loneliness be a choice. Maybe that's because of me overthinking alot. I really want to enjoy life and don't take anything siriesly. I mean at least most of the things. Being able to laugh genuinely a lot and not fake it which it is the case for me is one of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:27 AM
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Calm down, woman. Why are you misinterpreting me? As I said, y’all are overusing certain words and phrases to the point that they’ve lost their meaning. “Incel” this, “Misogyny” that. Yes, people like that exist, but this post had nothing to do with them. Shaming people for preferences is wrong. If you defend it when it targets men, then you are part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:31 AM
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So you are not gonna sacrifice some of your pride into relationship? Men do it all the time though. Seems like you are suggesting we put our pride first
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:11 AM
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You’re saying this, but there’s no way you’d be okay with a man who spends a huge amount of money and attention on someone before you, and then doesn’t do the same or at least something similar for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:00 AM
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The OP is clearly talks about why men preferences is shamed by society and media and everyone is silent about it. You are talking like we are in a war or something. Everyone has preferences no matter how loser or successful they are. If men preferences is trashing women then it is correct for the other way around too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:55 AM
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Do not shame men for their preferences then. Y'all overusing some words and phrases for shaming men when they tell their preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:50 PM
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No, it doesn't make sense. And it would be uncomfortable for you if he cherished another woman in the past more than his wife or courent partner. That being said painful and super disgusting sex acts (that you might tried only once before and you figured out it is not bearable for you) are not justifiable in this case. But other sex acts that might hurt your pride or etc and those that are not enjoyable and are boring should be done. If not then you are not attracted to your partner enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:31 PM
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For one person yep, but if it was more than one, then it is not logical at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:11 PM
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If it's painful for you you should not do it and you should tell your partner about it too. But if it's not painful but rather it's not enjoyable or it's boring if you really love your partner and you are attracted to him you will do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:41 PM
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Men want babies and Women can reject it Simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:27 PM
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Because there are more male simps than female simps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:39 AM
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You would see it if you cared about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:51 AM
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daymn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:29 AM
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source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:14 AM
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