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He keeps mentioning our combined “earning potential” in the future and buying properties. He expects that he will have access to your money to further himself in life. He’s told you this is his plan. I’m planning to step back from my career soon. On my income I know that I could support a family. You’re expecting him to give you babies and financially support you. Does he know that? It doesn’t sound like you’ve clued him in to your plan. If one of us put our career as number one, that person cou…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/25 02:45 PM
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It’s likely because you mentioned your religion. I’ve noticed a lot of women don’t like that, regardless of whether they embrace their feminine side.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/25 01:51 AM
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Planning on looking adoringly to my husband as he speaks Be careful with this one. If it’s not 1000% genuine, it comes across as off putting. Some men will fetishize this, and some women will use it as an excuse to make snide remarks about you. A quick but bright smile in your husband’s direction, and maybe laying a hand on his arm seems more natural, but just as loving. Other than that, seems like you and everyone else have it covered! My best social tip is to just keep others talking about the…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 05:25 AM
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Definitely voice the concern and start training the dog not to sit on you! If your bf is aware that you dislike it, he should take steps to redirect the dog’s attention
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 04:32 AM
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He can hire someone to come train the dog not to jump on you, if they don’t currently respect your boyfriend enough to respond to his commands. It is definitely something you should mention now though, and stop biting your tongue about, because it’s only going to lead to burnout and resentment. Personally, I dislike dogs, but wouldn’t give up my dream man over one, because I’m going to outlive it. If my dream man had plans to have dogs his entire life, then maybe I’d reconsider. But that’s me, y…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 01:31 AM
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In your last post you said he threatened to leave you if you didn’t have a child with him. Now he’s got you trapped and isolated I just don’t respect him. He has said hundreds of things about what he is going to do and walked over the majority. He isn’t a very involved father. He has trouble providing. We’ve been fucking broke for 6 years. We live in an off grid home with no real power. For the last 2 years the inside of the home was unfinished, no floors no drywall, 25 minutes to the nearest to…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/25 11:44 PM
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I followed her. Some of her takes were good, but many of them were just her pretending to be better than others. One of the worst things she did was to tell women struggling with infertility/miscarriages that she would help them adopt by asking her priest friend (who, it turns out, didn’t know her) to assist with resources. She got several people’s hopes up in that way. While all of this was disappointing, I do think it’s a good thing she was exposed, because I know several women felt the pressu…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/25 05:40 PM
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Why on earth would you be okay with them dating drug dealers and playboys? That’s just going to set them up for heartbreak, risky consequences, and a bad history to tell their future husbands
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/25 05:38 PM
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I’m not making the assumption, I’m merely speculating as to her motive. Same thing, different wording he becomes extremely sensitive and defensive whenever I need to communicate a need to him, he takes it extremely personal and perceives it all as criticism even though I go through pains to frame everything in a calm, sweet, solution oriented manner- to the point of escalating extremely rapidly with loss of control over the situation. Yikes, good luck with this. Consider getting premarriage coun…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/25 02:27 PM
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Then why are you making the assumption she doesn’t want him spending money? Why did this blow up into a huge argument? You could have been tactful and polite about it not being your style, but instead it sounds like you made it into a personal attack against her
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/25 03:26 AM
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I 28F found out recently that my partner 37M has been cheating on me … I’ve stuck by him through so much and supported him through many tough times. Take it as a lesson learned and move forward with your head up. There is no reason you should be supporting a boyfriend who is a decade older than you. Reserve your sacrifices for your future husband. I advise against petty revenge, because you’ll just be the “crazy ex,” and your reputation can be ruined, even though he’s the one who cheated. The wo…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/25 02:01 AM
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That’s great! Really proud of you! You deserve to be cherished and respected, and I’m sure you’ll find that someone to do so
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/25 01:18 PM
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I just peeked at your post history - I didn’t recognize your username because that’s not something I look at, but I remember your previous posts. Respectfully, everyone has been telling you to leave this absolute loser of a man for months. There are so many red flags here and I have no idea why you’re holding on to an abusive man who doesn’t respect you. I truly hope you get the courage and self confidence to leave him.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/25 04:12 AM
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Seems sketchy to me. And clearly the trust wasn’t there entirely to begin with. If this happened with me and my husband, he’d have no problem explaining, as well as letting me see his phone if I needed reassurance. Your boyfriend isn’t interested in giving you that reassurance, has thrown you out of his house multiple times, and has infinites you since this incident. That doesn’t sound like husband material to me.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/25 04:05 AM
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You don’t need to accept a man who chooses to watch other people having sex on a screen. Porn causes so many issues and so much heartache. It’s not jealous or controlling to be put off by this
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/25 02:30 AM
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It’s appropriate for him to be uncomfortable taking a woman out in an immodest outfit. And there’s a difference between him instructing you not to wear something vs setting a boundary that he won’t take you out if you wear that something. Now, I personally wouldn’t change my wardrobe based on a date’s/boyfriend’s opinion, but with the understanding that it might limit your relationship options. For example, during my dating years, I’ve been told not to wear heels, to wear jeans more often, to no…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/25 02:49 AM
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He doesn’t put effort into something that will make you happy, you’re not comfortable talking about your feelings with him, he demands sex from you, he hates your religion, and he doesn’t value or appreciate what you bring to the table. That doesn’t sound like a “great” relationship to me. That sounds like you’re both just tolerating each other and staying because you got comfortable. Whose financial future is he planning for? Yours? Is he paying your bills, putting money into your retirement ac…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/25 04:47 AM
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Thank you! Yes, I had this conversation with a couple of others, which mostly resulted in those guys pouting lol. One asked me to compromise by moving in with him (and paying half his bills lmao). I said no to that. My husband was the only one who honored it and realized if he wanted to move forward with me exclusively then he needed to propose. I practiced complete abstinence after my conversion (not my entire life, but neither did my husband, and we both knew that). We had each been celibate f…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/25 08:08 PM
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Thank you! My husband actually told me on our third date that he liked me a lot, he believed that the purpose of dating is marriage, and he wanted to discern that with me (we’re both Catholic. Him since birth and me since I was 28). But I’m secular dating this would be the moment a guy asks you to be his girlfriend, yes :) I told him that was very sweet and that I felt the same, but that I don’t find value in the title of “girlfriend.” I said I wasn’t dating anyone else at the time, but that it …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/25 05:43 PM
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My husband proposed two months after we met, and we married six months after that. We were both early 30s, secure in who we are as individuals, and knew what we wanted from a partner and marriage. I also had told him if he wanted exclusivity he needed to propose, because to me, dating means exploring options and getting to know people. I won’t take myself off the market for a “girlfriend” title. I’m sure that loved things along more quickly, because he wanted to lock me down lol
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/25 02:29 PM
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Your best bet is to see a therapist and work with a personal trainer. It seems you have trouble sticking to your goals - that’s okay! Lots of us do. The key is to fill your circle with people who will help hold you accountable
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/25 10:26 PM
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Love that video! Simple and attainable
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/25 10:24 PM
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I hear what you’re saying, but continuing to tell her husband that men are flirting with her is going to cause more damage. It’s a slap in the face to him. She could get creative and tell him she’s praising him at work - “everyone was discussing their weekends over lunch, and I told everyone about how you took me out to that delicious dinner at (restaurant)! Thank you again for going out with me, I love our date nights,” etc etc. Then if he asks her, “is Steve / the men still hitting on you?” sh…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/25 02:19 PM
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Do you have joint funds? You say he’s very generous, but now that you’re married, it isn’t generosity, it’s joint income. If you feel you need the extra money to be secure, or you don’t trust your husband enough to provide, or you can’t think of anything better to do with your time, then those are all good reasons to stay at your job. I would stop telling him that men are hitting on you though - there’s no reason to tell him other men are giving you options. That is likely hurtful to him.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/25 09:31 PM
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He’s telling you he wants to discern alone, while you talk to other men. It honestly sounds like either an excuse to break things off, or like he doesn’t believe you are part of that discernment process. When my husband and I started dating, he was very intentional and told me he wanted to discern marriage together - going to Mass, praying together, etc. This guy wants to cut you out of that process while he decides if you’re good enough for him.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/25 02:33 PM
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