| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Seddit helped me get my first girlfriend, now I'm coping with my first breakup. How can I bounce back? | Penfish | /r/seduction | 09/07/11 03:35 PM | |
| 2 | Trying to see past my frustrations throughout all my failures | Penfish | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 10:04 PM | |
| 2 | Mystery speaks about approach anxiety | Penfish | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 05:25 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | still fucking hate the woman that rejected me fridayThis resentment is not healthy. You seem judged for some stuff that shouldn't bother you. Man up. Try again with somebody else and delete her number. | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 03:05 PM |
| – | Got rejected but feel awesomeIf you're completely results dependant you're making yourself at the mercy of others. Don't do this. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 12:23 AM |
| – | Got rejected but feel awesomeGetting the courage to act is the entire point. You're giving yourself excuses | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 11:15 PM |
| – | Got rejected but feel awesomeThis is exactly what everybody should be doing | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 06:06 PM |
| 7 | A very small glimpse into a womens mind when cold approaching."What is your name?" Me: "You need to fuck off". If you politely said you're not interested, you'd help get your point across better. | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Girl with boyfriend has finally told me "it's probably best we don't talk anymore"..."Ok cool" and say nothing else | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 03:17 PM |
| 19 | How To Pick Which Girls To Approach - And Which To AvoidApproach everybody. Talk to everyone. Deal with repercussions later | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 09:23 PM |
| 10 | How to tell the difference between IOI eye contact and "why the fuck is he staring at me" eye contact?Always assume attraction. | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 12:01 PM |
| -15 | What I learned from an acid trip at a club partyDon't take drugs | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 12:00 PM |
| 27 | How my life changed since becoming a bartenderAlways leave better than you found then | /r/seduction | 01/08/16 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Guys of seddit warning...This is why you never commit more than what she commits. | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever lie about your number?You should probably clarify that you're talking about a number counting system and not a phone number. | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Bringing girls back but not hooking up?Ahh gotcha =) | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Bringing girls back but not hooking up?LOL 22 and calls himself a senior. Your future is bright dude, there is plenty to learn no matter how old you think you are or how you feel. This goes for all walks of life | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 07:04 PM |
| 2 | About me: 25 years in field, lots of success, tips and [FR] if anyone is interestedWhat's it like when you approached 30? I'm about to reach this age but i feel some natural hesitation when i approach 19-25 year olds. However, this is the age group that I find the most HBs. Also, can you link us to any blog posts or previous FR? | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 07:03 PM |
| 1 | An experiment using Tylenol to overcome fear/painful effects of rejectionOne of the most fucked up things I've ever read on Reddit | /r/seduction | 15/04/16 04:07 PM |
| 2 | I just fucked up on a girl. Should I move on?/r/relationshipadvice | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Studied this content, attracted a girl, fell in love, got dumped, didn't get over it until 9 months later. My journey and story. And some words for guys who are new to women.This is fucking hilarious | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 10:22 PM |
| -3 | Girl I am dating doesn't initiate texts, going out, etc...but will come out 8/10 times whenever I ask...more insideAm I the only one who hates it when people don't round their fractions | /r/seduction | 03/12/15 05:06 AM |
| 6 | [19y/o] Got a job in a nightclub, great opportunity.Say one wrong thing and you're fired. Have fun | /r/seduction | 19/09/15 11:57 PM |
| 142 | I don't feel like girls can be attracted to meThere are many of these posts on /seduction/ recently about people coming here claiming they are not good enough, not smart enough, or can't do shit to help improve themselves. These threads are bullshit. The will to rise up and earn what you fucking deserve takes a lot of goddamn effort. Find out what you want in life? Got it? Good. NOW WORK YOUR ASS OFF FOR IT. Life will not fucking care about your problems, you must DEMAND to earn what you want to become. Nobody on these forums will help you … | /r/seduction | 20/10/14 03:24 AM |
| 2 | At 30 years of age, I feel past my prime. Therefore I have a constant sense of urgency, leaving me completely outcome dependent.Age limit is nothing. The drive to improve yourself is what matters. | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 12:06 AM |
| 4 | RSD Julien is doing a webinar tomorrow[WED 9PM] talking about his INSANE Outer Game skills! MUST WATCH for Intermediate/AdvancedPlease record this and put on youtube as well. | /r/seduction | 18/02/14 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Mindset: You are always only one close away from a good daywell spoken man, I agree...this is the correct framework one should be in AT ALL TIMES. it unleashes the confidence in your game. | /r/seduction | 20/12/11 04:09 AM |
| 4 | I just realized today that I have an issue...You'll quickly realize that opportunity is around every corner. You're still a young lad so seriously man the fuck up. One thing you'll definitely find out the hard way, is that if you don't take the initiative, you'll never go anywhere. The next time you see a cute girl walking down the street, behind a cashier counter or in line at the movies--start with a "Hi". Trust me, nothing could ever go wrong by being bold. It's how you break out of your shell. And to me, it sounds like you want to brea… | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 11:25 PM |
| 0 | Hey boys! Help an awkward girl out?Go up to him before lunchtime and ask him if he wants to grab a bite to eat. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 05:09 AM |
| 2 | [fr] Kind of a weird night, did I do okay?You did fine. Ask her for her number next time. | /r/seduction | 11/11/11 10:20 PM |
| 13 | Hey Seddit, what is the best way to accept compliments?Just say 'Thank you'", it's the only real way of accepting a compliment. They could eventually lead to a shit test, so it's best to be on your guard whenever you receive a blatant compliment. | /r/seduction | 12/10/11 03:25 AM |
| 21 | Never let this quote leave your headThank you for this. | /r/seduction | 05/10/11 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Getting Stood Up.Overall: I think you are playing needless games(waiting 45min, calling her out, etc). There was no reason to call her out on flaking when you didn't really make plans. Upvoted. Was just going to say this. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 03:05 AM |
| 28 | Virgin curseCall up your friend, tell him how you feel betrayed. Give them an ultimatum: an apology or they will be disconnected from your life. Doesn't matter if he/she is your best friend, you should completely obliterate this person from your life if they respond in the negative to you about your concerns. You shouldn't adhere to bullshit that somebody you are supposed to trust is spewing around freely. Man the fuck up dude and take action on this shit. Now as for this girl, NEXT her. When she said "you'… | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Girl switches back and forth between flirting with me and ignoring me several times in the same night... help? [FR]Ask her/text her if she wants to meet for coffee. If she says no, or stalls--NEXT her. And I dont mean "NEXT her" like still be her good friend-friend buddy-buddy. I mean, treat her like any other woman you no longer desire to be around "NEXT!" Based on your friend's description of her, she sounds like she is overly eccentric and may have MASSIVE baggage with her. IMO, not worth it. But then again, you know her IRL so you have to be the one who mans up and decides. GL bro | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 11:21 PM |
| 3 | I know who I am and I am definitely not a pickup artist. (Not a rant; please read for those struggling with seduction)The last line of your post explains your mentality on PUA perfectly. Break out of your comfort zone, that's the only way you'll try new things & meet new people. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 04:36 AM |
| 3 | First day of college FRUsed it anyways. | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 02:26 AM |
| 0 | First day of college FRWhat's your favorite animal? Genius! Can I have your permission to use this? | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 04:08 AM |
| 0 | any seddit tips that would work for staying in LTR?Are you seeking general relationship advice? Or different? | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I just had a girl cancel a date on me kinda last minute. What are some alpha responses I can use in this case?Don't attempt to "close" anybody that doesn't want to be closed. That'll just produce negative results. Definitely move on, you can do better man. Trust me, much much better. One that doesn't flake out and has the guts to take initiative. After all, that's what you want in women right? | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Mystery speaks about approach anxietyBeen seeing alot of "approch anxiety posts". Before you guys start spamming about Mystery, know this: This video aims to genuinely help the community with approaches. He's bang on here. Most people have seen this video already. But if not, here ya go. | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 05:27 AM |
| 6 | Where do I find this?I'm 19 making 70k First off, you shouldn't be trying to get value by saying this to anybody. Not even seddit. Don't even think about using this line on a girl. Find value within yourself and let others explore that by asking questions, not giving them direct in-your-face answers. kindof a badass, no drugs no alcohol okey dokey It is impossible to find one who is NOT a golddigger. It's impossible to find a straightedge girl. It's impossible to find one of these girls that doesn't want me to sit d… | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 04:50 AM |
| 1 | You are about to send one last text message to a girl before you write her off. What do you say?yep agreed. try one more time. her loss if she doesnt | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 04:34 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Facebook-close Starbucks girl, but rookie mistakes.Least you knew about your mistakes. That's progress bro | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Seddit helped me get my first girlfriend, now I'm coping with my first breakup. How can I bounce back?Well said. I've always had the upmost respect for people who are respectful in front of others, and those who appreciate others' presence. This relationship started seeing a major decline in the level of appreciation from her end. I really don't want to be associated with any of that... | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Seddit helped me get my first girlfriend, now I'm coping with my first breakup. How can I bounce back?Thanks. This helps clear up alot of things. Yesterday night I met up with an old buddy of mine who slapped some sense into me. Everything he said is pretty much here as well. Glad to have a second light over all this. | /r/seduction | 10/07/11 03:38 AM |
| 3 | HB10 is chasing me...or something.F-close then eject. | /r/seduction | 18/03/11 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Next move?1) Dont send photos of yourself. You dont need to seek her approval. 2) You shouldnt be drinking so heavily when you game. You got lucky the first time, but drinking will ultimately influence how women view you. ie: boozehound 3) When you text a girl you are gaming you shouldnt be starting the small talks. You should be the one planning things to do. ie: Lets go to lunch tomorrow at noon at <location>. or How about a coffee on Wednesday evening? You shouldnt be sending things like "omg look at m… | /r/seduction | 02/03/11 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Next move?found your mistake right there | /r/seduction | 02/03/11 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Next move?what did ur text say when you sent it to her again? | /r/seduction | 02/03/11 05:29 AM |
| 12 | Saw Someone Doing Everything Wrong"Dont complain about things, dont want to seem negative" I learned something here. I sometimes do this, and its not a good approach. Thanks for this. | /r/seduction | 02/03/11 05:23 AM |
| 6 | Not exactly an [FR] insane conversation with my former "one."The term "one-itis" is an amazingly accurate term, and it's definitely a true prognosis for people out there with a singular attachment to a particular person. I can definitely relate to you fromChumptoChamp. My experience stems from my earlier highschool years when I thought I met an amazing chick who shared my same interests, she knew alot of people I knew and all that. I thought we would end up being good friends. Problem is, I never talked to her--like ever. And the fact that I was developin… | /r/seduction | 02/03/11 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Not exactly an [FR] insane conversation with my former "one."well spoken broski | /r/seduction | 02/03/11 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Something my Latin professor said that's completely changed my mindset.Upvoted, written down on a post-it and stuck on my closet along with other awesome quotes | /r/seduction | 26/02/11 04:47 PM |
| 13 | [FR] She started watching meSaying nevermind shows you are not confident. You should work on yourself before working on gaming others. Tell yourself every fucking second that you are worthy, build the confidence up. That way when the opportunity comes again you won't put your phone away, you'll get the digits and walk home like a boss. | /r/seduction | 05/02/11 12:04 AM |
| 5 | [fR] Gym FailThis is the only FR I've read where the author knows exactly what he did wrong. | /r/seduction | 29/01/11 06:45 PM |
| 3 | FR, first great success! F close!Nothing for AFCs here. All frat boy bragging | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, help me "seduce" the fraternities for the next two rush weeks to come.Approach every girl with confidence. Smile, make eye contact. | /r/seduction | 20/01/11 06:02 AM |
| 4 | NYE party when parents are out of townHave fun with others, make them feel welcome. Buy stuff for mixed drinks. Put on shitty music, w/e your crowd would be into. Buy plenty of food, keep it around for people to snack on. Get people drunk, be around to watch shit and make it all enjoyable for everybody. also this doesnt seem too seddit | /r/seduction | 31/12/10 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Cute girl at pharmacy. How to proceed?man the fuck up | /r/seduction | 27/12/10 05:10 PM |
| 7 | NEVER tell a girl you "like her"Head to gym. Delete from facebook. Lawyer up. | /r/seduction | 19/12/10 11:07 PM |
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