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Women are feeling brains that think; men are thinking brains that feel.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/22 04:34 PM
1

Came here to say exactly this but you did it for me.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 01:45 AM
3

Lol, there is a LOT of truth in this. The real answer to "Are you neither good looking or charming and social?" is, as always, spend more time interacting with real women. That means cold approaching. Cold approach is king.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/22 01:44 AM
1

You need to get social and talking. I start with calling friends on the way home from work, on the way to the club, etc. Women friends especially. Failing that, listen to a comedy show. Talk to everyone in line and keep going.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 10:34 PM
1

Can be. Doesn’t have to be.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 04:22 PM
-10

Would you like some cheese to compliment your internet whine?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 03:08 PM
15

Getting laid has little to do with your accomplishments. There are plenty of losers without jobs, living in their parents’ basements, who are banging more and better girls than 95% of the guys driving paid for Ferraris. I’ve seen it. Thinking you need “accomplishments” to get laid is highly blue pill thinking.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 04:00 PM
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The Red Pill is pure truth without delusions or false blinds. The Red Pill is just reality. It has no philosophy or ideology. It is the opposite. Blue Pill is delusions, misconceptions, just-so stories, empty philosophies etc. Black Pill is a nihilistic viewpoint. It has a viewpoint and a philosophy. Though they might deny it, Black Pill is just a bitter flavor of Blue Pill. Blue Pill is a blind man stroking the elephant’s head and believing it a wonderful beast. Black pill is touching the eleph…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 03:56 PM
2

Appreciate help, but never expect it.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 03:29 PM
24

Job seeker vs. Employer A job seeker who's been hired by multiple companies has made efforts to be outstanding in their field, gone on many interviews, hired many times, been recruited, etc. and is likely a very valuable employee. An employer that is constantly hiring new employees is probably a shitty place to work.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 05:47 AM
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/u/Ragekage33, Congrats on fixing yourself up and improving your life. Now you need to do the same for your son. He's being raised by a cheating junkie parasite (sorry) and her drug addict/dealer loser boyfriends. I shudder to think the life lessons he's learning in that household. What are you doing to win custody of your son away from this junkie parasite? Your natural child is growing up in a terrible environment and will only bring you trouble and shame later unless you intercede now. Contac…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 06:40 PM
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So much this. OP needs to absolutely stop seeing this junkie parasite and fight for custody of his son he doesn't grow up ruined by this woman and her stream of loser boyfriend/drug dealers.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 06:37 PM
2

Lol, then I guess they'll get a surprise when they check their username mentions
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 11:04 PM
1

Shit, my new username is going to be /u/confidentpotato
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 01:58 PM
2

TRP is compromised by white knights, simps and numerous other cunts. Stay frosty ☃️ gODDAMIT, this is the greatest comment ever writting on TRP. Should be stickied.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/21 01:04 PM
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If your only goal with her is sex, she’s totally valid in wasting your time. Sorry bro. As if. Just wanting sex is an extremely valid reason to be online. For both him and her. A woman who is a time waster gets no respect, and no more time. Next her. I don’t say this as some blue pill white knight chump, but think about it from her perspective. It’s biological folly for a woman to sleep with a guy who only wants sex. Thinking about anything from "her" perspective is a mistake. We have no idea wh…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/21 01:29 PM
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Another extremely solid post, Andy. Killing it with these posts. My advice here runs counter to what most pickup artists say – they say you should be “hanging in there” and “never letting any girl go” and “putting up with her timewasting, because you can win her over with sick ‘game’!” I've been in the game for years and been coached by some of the best. I've never heard anyone good say that. Maybe these are inexperienced PUAs or keyboard jockeys? Thanks for always bringing value!
/r/TheRedPill17/04/21 01:22 PM
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You don't understand how Reddit functions.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 12:38 PM
11

Can we get less "theory" posts and more field reports with lessons learned?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 09:28 PM
2

You're wrong and I respect that.
/r/seduction08/03/21 04:07 AM
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I like you. It's too bad it would never work out between us.
/r/seduction06/03/21 07:39 PM
2

Untrue. You haven't traveled enough to form a perspective on this. You dodged the issue completely. You're wrong and I respect that.
/r/seduction06/03/21 04:12 PM
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Women don't worry about being judged as a slut by their friends. Depends on culture. In some cultures women slut shame their friends. In the west though I agree. Women already know which friends are slutty. They're more worried about being slut-shamed by non-friends. If you're a pump & dumper, you are basically someone who takes pleasure in hurting people. Not necessarily. I've slept with women I wasn't sexually compatible with. I've slept with women who cried after sex and all their daddy issue…
/r/seduction05/03/21 08:21 PM
3

I'd like to read the the completed book as well and am happy to provide any feedback if desired.
/r/seduction05/03/21 07:54 PM
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Cold approach is a foundational skill but building a lifestyle that brings you success is the pinnacle.
/r/seduction05/03/21 07:53 PM
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My unpopular opinion that will get downvoted: /r/seduction has been completely ruined by dilution. Seduction, Game, Pickup whatever you want to call it is a Dark Art. Seduction is a particular skillset that society abhors- and yet paradoxically needs. The learned skills and knowledge of successfully meeting, seducing, and relating to women are deeply unpopular. Especially to unsuccessful men and women. Seduction has been unpopular in society since Casanova spent 5 years in solitary. And it's esp…
/r/seduction05/03/21 07:50 PM
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Excellent post and technique. I once took a well-regarded bootcamp and the instructor brought along his hawt girlfriend. We had to line up, walk up to this guy's girlfriend, look her straight in the eye and tell her straight up the most nastiest sexual stuff we wanted to do to her. Right in front of the instructor. And then she would give feedback. It's an experience I'll never forget. Then practice thinking, “I want to fuck the shit out of you,” while saying, “I really like the dress you’re wea…
/r/seduction05/03/21 07:10 PM
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I respect your view. Notice though that I differentiated between hit on and cold approached. Cold Approached? Maybe not. Hit on? Truly beautiful women are hit on constantly by the men they interact with. Grocery store: "You want cock?" Workplace: "You want cock?" Family reunion even: "You want cock?" (ewww) It's true thar stunning women can seem intimidating and may not get cold approached often. But this is the secret beauty of mastering the cold approach. You learn to approach any woman you fi…
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:22 PM
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Tell that to my penis.
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:11 PM
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a lot of men can’t hold a conversation, let alone start one. On that I'll agree.
/r/seduction05/03/21 06:10 PM
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I've done hundreds (if not thousands) of cold approaches, seduced dozens of women, and even met my spouse from cold approach. You know nothing but think your piss-poor attitude compensates.
/r/seduction04/03/21 10:39 PM
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Wow honey, cringe
/r/seduction04/03/21 10:34 PM
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Yes. Also 37.
/r/seduction04/03/21 10:32 PM
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OP commented she's 37. She's not getting approached, she's getting passed by. Any moderately attractive women can relate numerous advances, wanted or not. I've seen guys approaching gal friends, sisters, girlfriends, etc. It's daily. It's like that comedy sketch where every man she ever talks to is secretly saying, "You want cock?" If OP is at bars, coffee shops, and parks like she says and is anywhere near attractive then she's being hit on by bartenders, servers, passerbys daily. (Whether she …
/r/seduction04/03/21 08:38 PM
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Even more guys are desperate.
/r/seduction04/03/21 08:30 PM
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A little bit of hesitancy and testing the waters is normal. You have to judge how much is normal hesitancy versus game playing. This can only be learned by experience and confusing to pursue. Since she was still communicating there was still interest on her part. Finally he called her on it.
/r/seduction28/01/21 01:45 PM
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In time? Yes. In the first hour? Sometimes.
/r/seduction26/12/20 09:31 PM
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Women do NOT make eye contact with a man accidentally. If she makes ANY eye contact at all then approach. Better yet, stop standing around like a little boy waiting for women to give indicators of interest. Many interested women will not give eye contact. Approach and test for compliance. Works every time. “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”-Wayne Gretzky
/r/seduction25/12/20 06:15 PM
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Approach and test for compliance. Every time. Looking for her signals is pussy bullshit frankly.
/r/seduction25/12/20 06:10 PM
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Excellent points. I had to quit watching "Cribs" it was so depressing watching third rate rappers I'd never heard of bragging about their mansions and cars. Turns out they're rented for the show.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 05:38 PM
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That's a HUGE thing. I think you should add that into your post as an Edit comment. Totally changes the narrative.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 11:14 PM
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Thanks for the clarification. If you’re not into ONS yourself and looking for a relationship then a lot of the criticisms here are misfounded. Personally, it’s not a relationship problem for me if a woman has had an occasional ONS. But not a history of infidelities and sleeping around. I guess it’s a matter of scope. But you do you.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 08:03 PM
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The master key that opens many locks is useful, the lock that is opened by any key is useless.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 04:13 PM
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Oh, it absolutely IS a double standard. But it’s an important Red Pill truth to understand for any man to understand who wants to have a quality relationship. A man who sleeps around can make a good relationship partner. A woman cannot. If you don’t understand it I won’t explain it to you.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 03:59 PM
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No, but how you meet can determine the expectations and thus the type of interaction/relationship you’ll have.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 03:56 PM
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JUST BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T MEET IN THE CLUB DOESN'T MEAN SHE DOESN'T GO CLUBBING Well, duh. Fun women like to have fun, ya know? Women go to clubs. Women have ONS. Women also have relationships. And go hiking. The same women. You can meet the same exact woman at either. But one situation may work for you and another may not. Go where you’re finding success. But she’s not a unicorn. The girl you met at church is also probably a dirty whore (in the best possible way) in other conditions. Also, WHERE …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 03:46 PM
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Stop looking for IOIs like a virgin who's afraid to touch a girl and start testing for Compliance. Master this and get laid. That is all.
/r/seduction10/12/20 11:01 PM
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The women who don't give it up for free are prostitutes.
/r/seduction24/11/20 10:37 PM
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"Don't be afraid to break some rules." -Arnold Schwarzenegger 'Nuff said.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/20 02:53 PM
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Oh also forgot to mention when we woke up at her place he called in the MORNING while i was right next to her in bed instead of calling at night... what a strange coincidence. Guy is going away for a very long time. Sadly, he still has hope. It's best to rip off that band aid. Girl's a cheater on him, always will be. Be a bro, next time he calls her take her phone and let him know you're there and you've just enjoyed banging her. Then hang up. You don't want to hear his heart crack and all his d…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 08:14 PM
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I made it clear that things were not platonic/let's just be friends from my side. What's interesting about this is she said she found this incredibly arousing. Classic anti-friendzone move right there, well done. I've been saying for years to "just say no" to being friends. Tell her you'll never be friends. It works.
/r/seduction10/11/20 04:06 PM
0

Is that GLO we're seeing? Or is GLO the one who won't turn on his camera?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/20 03:31 PM
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We can only speculate at this point. But he wasn't ready. Now he is.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 03:24 PM
2

If you act like a friend you will be treated like one. Be clear with her and yourself that you will never be friends. It's sex partners or nothing. Once a woman knows it you will have sex faster.
/r/seduction05/11/20 05:28 AM
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Escalate until she either says Yes or No. You can talk all you want, but unless you are escalating physically with her you can't know what she wants. It starts with small touches and compliance tests all the way until either sex or rejection. That's it.
/r/seduction05/11/20 05:27 AM
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This is false. The woman-atees get laid plenty. There are always thirsty dudes.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 07:02 PM
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Watch a man say he’s fucked 50 women and women will be sick to their stomach. Honestly, women don't seem bothered by it. They either accept it because it proves you're high value (and are secretly in awe), or her numbers are higher. The only women bothered by a high lay count are the women you don't want to fuck anyways (eg. sister, mother, aunt, radical feministo etc.)
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 07:01 PM
1

Excellent post, great flirty lines. These can be used to spice up a relationship, too.
/r/seduction27/10/20 09:22 PM
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I like them both, but they are quite different. If you liked the movie read the book.
/r/seduction17/10/20 01:42 PM
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Bullriders just need 8 seconds.
/r/seduction15/10/20 04:06 PM
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If she sucks only your dick, then she's righteous. FTFY
/r/TheRedPill14/10/20 02:09 PM
0

I have yet to date a woman who likes Rom-Coms. And I have dated many. So for whom are these fantasies sold?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/20 03:48 AM
1

Anything that isn't directly related to scoring with women I consider a low quality post. This post qualifies.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 02:25 PM
1

You might try the Wayback Machine.
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:15 PM
1

Thanks for the reply. I'll be mindful.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 12:59 PM
8

I'm so glad there are active mods here swinging the ban hammer against the bad posters and blue-piller trolls. Keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 01:42 PM
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You didn't say what was 'fake' and why. I've had similar experiences with women. We can never know how truthful OP is, but this story has the ring of truth from what I've seen and done. Many women deal with emotional trauma by turning to sex. It's an outlet and emotional release.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 01:11 PM
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It's not really socially acceptable to say so, but often intense grief or trauma makes people want to fuck It's true, "Don't stick your dick in crazy" but from personal experience the crazy ones are the hottest sex.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 01:07 PM
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That escalated quickly.
/r/seduction29/07/20 06:07 PM
4

You can either lower your standards a bit, recognize she's a thot, and treat her as a lay and a bit of fun and experimentation. A learning opportunity. Or you can reject her and move on.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 10:39 PM
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In my experience a woman with a low count will volunteer her bodycount soon before/after you bang, and she'll be anxious to know yours. She doesn't want to get played by a player. Your number is always hers +5. Thots won't volunteer the information, and prefer not to discuss it because they've played this game before.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 01:46 AM
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Women will have sex with you faster if they know a relationship is off the table. They drop the illusion.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 01:44 AM
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Wrong thought. Judge women hard on their body count. Women with high counts make very poor committed relationships. But don't act like you care or are judging and she will show you her true side.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 01:43 AM
1

Therapy and Lexapro. I was suffering from low self-esteem, feeling unattractive, and depression. Once I fixed my mental health problems everything became much better.
/r/seduction09/07/20 09:38 PM
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Thanks. Got links to those two?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 09:39 PM
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Other than Dan Brown being a famous man getting a divorce how is this at all interesting? People get divorced. They fight about money. It sucks but this is not improving anyone’s chances of getting laid tonight.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 03:56 PM
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When men hate each other they’ll fight physically. With women they’ll usually try to make the other woman an “outcast” by turning friends against her, refusing to talk to her, spreading rumors, etc. It’s social bullying rather than physical. For women, it’s all about Social Status. The movie Mean Girls is instructive. Being the highest Social Status woman grants access to privilege, favors, the best men, everything. Women’s attraction switches are all Social Status based. It’s not being rich, mo…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 06:40 PM
2

Mods, this post should be stickied!
/r/seduction04/07/20 11:16 AM
1

I use an ear pick. Works great, safer.
/r/seduction04/07/20 11:13 AM
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Well obviously she already knows cheating is wrong. It's nothing to do with that, most comments here are missing the point. Many women believe/know that she can get away with "a little" cheating. Maybe she's had experience personally (or friends) who've cheated on lesser men and been able to sob a little and be forgiven. The hotter she is the more likely she's cheated on previous partners and been taken back and forgiven. It's being explicit that there will be no forgiveness, no take backs, no "…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 03:52 AM
3

A lot of women believe they can cheat and he'll still take her back. From their experience, unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 03:43 AM
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I think it’s extremely important in a LTR to spell it out: cheating is a red line with me. There will be no forgiveness, it’s completely and instantly over, no take backs, no reconciliation. Over. You have to make clear the nuclear option.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 02:42 PM
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Guy, she’s just not that into you.
/r/seduction30/06/20 05:56 PM
13

“I’m looking for ‘Friends with Benefits’, nothing less.”
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 06:47 PM
18

Just say “No” to being “friends”.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 05:40 PM
3

A number of reasons. As /u/Indrajiot pointed out, Seduction is for life. You have to keep yourself sharp, keep things spicy, and lively. Seduction is important in all areas of life, dating, marriage, career because it's an attitude and philosophy of continual self-improvement. I'm also here to give value where I can. I had many common struggles, approach anxiety, social mis-calibration, etc. before it started to click for me. Once you find your path and start getting laid like mad with your choi…
/r/seduction27/06/20 05:57 PM
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Happily married. You? Oh, that's right you have nothing to offer men except "As a woman...." Offer value or GTFO.
/r/seduction27/06/20 12:47 PM
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Good points. Also add: The way to avoid the Friendzone is never accept her friendship. Go in being clear with yourself that you're going to fuck her or there will be no relationship. Women can have a hard time decoding guys' motivations if we're not clear, "Does he want to date me or be my friend?" If you're not clear she'll probably assume the latter, hence friendzone. Make it clear with her from the first interaction that you're interested in sexually. Flirt, dammit. I've even told women that …
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:46 AM
0

Is this the sub for Pickup Artists with Autism? Lol
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:39 AM
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As a man, nobody here gives a shit what your opinion "as a woman" is. Give some reasons or examples of why you disbelieve OP. Offer an alternative perspectives or solution. Add value to the conversation. Just saying "I'm a woman" doesn't give you any credibility.
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:38 AM
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3 This attitude makes one an Incel.
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:35 AM
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I used to lack Confidence. Now my Confidence is something people remark on. I would suggest starting where I did, "The Self-Talk Solution" by Dr. Shad Helmstetter.
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:32 AM
5

Make sure you touch her hair. Black chicks love that. /s
/r/seduction25/06/20 05:11 PM
1

Never heard of John Elite. Did you try JT Tran and ABCs of Attraction? Took several bootcamps with them.
/r/seduction25/06/20 05:10 PM
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Giving up is where Incels come from.
/r/seduction25/06/20 05:09 PM
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Compliance testing, escalation ramp, and logistics. Everything else is just chit-chat.
/r/seduction24/06/20 06:38 AM
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You must approach every attractive woman within 3 seconds of spotting her. Eliminates approach anxiety.
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:56 AM
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3 Second Rule.
/r/seduction23/06/20 01:05 PM
1

What's the advantage of Hinge vs. Tinder?
/r/seduction21/06/20 06:51 PM
1

My thoughts on this in another comment: https://reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hd42bv/_/fvk7gjr/?context=1
/r/seduction21/06/20 06:43 PM
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A couple thoughts from personal experience: Online Dating (OLD) should be a part of your strategy, but definitely not the only thing you're doing. I've gotten laid and had relationships from OLD, but YMMV will vary heavily based on your profile and your looks. (I'm very average looking.) OLD requires a lot of time invested in matching, and has dismal response rates. Definitely make the investment in some professional photos. Most guys find it a disappointing and frustrating experience. Cold Appr…
/r/seduction21/06/20 06:39 PM
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tl;dr Tinder is a waste of time; go cold approach
/r/seduction21/06/20 01:43 PM
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Got a screenshot of a party girl?
/r/seduction21/06/20 01:42 PM
1

Not fapping won't get you laid. But keep trying.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 06:40 PM
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A woman who only sees you sexually will have sex with you sooner once she realizes a relationship is out of the question.
/r/seduction19/06/20 03:09 PM
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And she can still reject you. Women owe you nothing.
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:11 AM
0

It was poorly made, and not funny. I feel I wasted my time watching it.
/r/seduction19/06/20 02:54 AM
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I did. Which is why I downvoted it.
/r/seduction19/06/20 02:47 AM
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What is THOT?
/r/seduction19/06/20 02:43 AM
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Or an ass for every penis? Lol. That’s a good saying.
/r/seduction19/06/20 02:41 AM
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There’s a big difference between having standards and having unrealistic expectations.
/r/seduction19/06/20 02:40 AM
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I’ve gotten great value from JT Tran with ABCS of Attraction and his crew.
/r/seduction18/06/20 09:09 PM
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I believe I actually called downvoters “thirsty virgins”. Yes, I was being salty for effect. But you’ve completely missed the point of my comment regardless. It had nothing to do with being a virgin.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 02:02 AM
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You're going to get downvoted by a whole bunch of thirsty virgins who think no-fap will give them the magic powers they lack to pickup women. But there is no cure-all, and you're right porn affects people differently. Maybe not watching porn will make a guy horny enough to approach more. But more experienced players recognize being too horny makes you desperate, and desperate makes you unattractive. Personally, I use porn and fapping as a tool. Not approaching enough and need some motivation? Go…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 09:05 PM
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You gotta have an abundance mindset in a small town and meet women where you go. But it can still be a struggle. Eventually I just moved to a larger city and commuted farther to work.
/r/seduction17/06/20 05:05 AM
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3 Second Rule. You must approach a woman you are attracted to within three seconds. Also, your opener is the least important part of your approach. You can start with something canned, or situational that might introduce value eg. “I’m looking for a florist that does amazing bouquets. Any ideas? When I was in Korea every bouquet came with a huge wrapping...” It really doesn’t matter but obey the 3 second rule and you’ll be talking to her before you’ve thought of something to say.
/r/seduction17/06/20 05:03 AM
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Bring on the downvoted but these are some lame-ass answers. They either involve lots of money and/or time. No to movie; you can’t talk. No to dinner, that’s expensive and slow. No to hiking, art museum, those are boring and involve hours of time. No to coffee, there’s nothing sexy about coffee and you can’t get physical. No, no, no. The correct answer is always bar for drinks. You want somewhere with some reasonable privacy like a booth, cheap, close to your home, where you can ditch her if she’…
/r/seduction17/06/20 02:19 AM
1

Yes, normal. Women expect you to lead. Don't expect women to initiate anything until you are in a relationship.
/r/seduction11/06/20 10:19 PM
1

Nobody cares.
/r/seduction10/06/20 01:14 PM
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Just be authentic and be masculine. Nature should take care of the rest. Yes, you did.
/r/seduction10/06/20 02:11 AM
13

Pedestal much?
/r/seduction10/06/20 01:49 AM
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Username checks out.
/r/seduction10/06/20 01:48 AM
6

You're definition of Game and Pickup is limited. Game and Pickup are whatever succeeds with women.
/r/seduction10/06/20 01:48 AM
3

IOIs are overrated. And the only one you need is sustained eye contact.
/r/seduction09/06/20 05:25 PM
2

This guy gets it. Oh, lol why am I not surprised it's /u/KillYourInnerLoser again?
/r/seduction09/06/20 05:22 PM
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No memes No.
/r/seduction09/06/20 05:16 PM
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It was literally just called “20s and 30s Meetup” because that was the age range of women I wanted to meet. I organized it via Meetup.com (for a number of reasons) but also with some Facebook. We’d do fun stuff like bowling or mini-golf or board games. Affordable things I like but I knew women would also be into. It grew fast. At about 100 people I realized there were way too many dudes joining (like 80% guys) so I held off on approving more guys until there were a lot more women. It’s fun to ho…
/r/seduction09/06/20 02:37 PM
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Not at all. Plenty of short guys get women. Personally I’m short and absolutely love dating taller women, because I feel like a mobster with arm candy. It’s not whether your short at all. All things equal women do prefer taller men, but far more important it’s all about social status within the group. See my other comments in this thread.
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:21 AM
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No, just high status within the small group. For example, if you are the highest status male within your common group of friends that’s really attractive. This could be the quarterback if she’s a cheerleader, or the best chess player if she’s in the chess club. Or just the highest status guy among your guy friends. Whatever she’s into. That’s why I often recommend guys start their own group around an interest that will also attract women ie. I started a 20s and 30s Meetup group that flourished a…
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:18 AM
20

Ask yourself this: a) Which guy has seemingly better genetics? b) Which guy has higher social status? 95% of the time she’ll want to choose the guy who is both. She’ll settle for less if she has to.
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:13 AM
7

If it works, then it IS Game. This is the way.
/r/seduction06/06/20 04:48 AM
1

Different programs will work better for different guys in different situations. It’s like asking which martial art is best? Many are crap, some are great, you can learn something from each of the good ones. Personally I got the most out of ABCs of Attraction.
/r/seduction04/06/20 03:36 AM
3

If you stick to the guideline “Always leave people better than you found them” you’ll always be in the clear.
/r/seduction04/06/20 03:34 AM
2

Solid post. Clothes definitely make the man and is the fastest to improve. One weekend of clothes shopping with a fashionable friend will improve results dramatically.
/r/seduction04/06/20 03:33 AM
54

One caveat: avoid women who don’t have any female friends. It’s for reasons.
/r/seduction04/06/20 01:31 AM
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Not much luck making single female friends. One of them always wants sex with me :/
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:04 AM
69

Join some groups. They don't have to be single.
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:03 AM
2

I'll remember to tell that to my sexy wife I met through cold approaching :)
/r/seduction03/06/20 11:46 PM
3

More Mom advice. Well meaning, but ultimately useless. Keep telling yourself that men can meet women "organically" because dating strategies for men and women are the same. It's a beautiful comforting lie.
/r/seduction03/06/20 10:17 PM
1

I see you continue to add zero value to this sub. 'Bye Felicia.
/r/seduction03/06/20 09:54 PM
2

Number 8 made huge improvements in my life. Reflexively I said "sorry" in so many situations when it wasn't necessary. (Partly that's being Canadian.) But once I stopped apologizing with women, family, at work etc. I noticed how little it really needed saying and how much my confidence improved, and more importantly the level of self-respect and self-confidence others noticed with improved interactions. Only say you're sorry when it's absolutely necessary.
/r/seduction03/06/20 09:44 PM
1

Please do, and write up a field report!
/r/seduction03/06/20 08:03 PM
1

When I'm saying pickup is dependent on environment, my meaning is that you will have different levels of success where you are depending on who you are. Some environments are better for young guys, some for older guys, some for athletic guys, artsy guys, car guys, etc. I'm not saying it's impossible whatsoever. But some environments will be better for you than others. So as always socially calibrate.
/r/seduction03/06/20 04:00 PM
6

You have to be able to keep a conversation going well for at least 30 minutes as a skill. In a grocery store it might be less time but you need that skill. Memorize a couple good stories, and drop conversation "bait" that demonstrates value and lures her interest. "Have you seen a kosher section around? When I was in Israel..." "Can I ask your favorite wine? My film club likes to try new bottles when we meet..." Number close like you would anywhere else. When it feels right after you've talked a…
/r/seduction03/06/20 02:48 PM
2

Thanks "Mom" for the useless advice!
/r/seduction03/06/20 02:42 PM
2

Flight attendants don't need a boyfriend?
/r/seduction03/06/20 02:40 PM
1

Whooooosh.
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:09 PM
1

Exactly. And more likely you'll never see this woman ever again.
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:06 PM
1

You're wasting your time looking for women to wear what you want. Sure it can happen. But if she's into you enough to change what she's wearing you could have learned that in the first conversation by testing for her compliance to your requests rather than waiting days or weeks to see if she wears what you like. If you even see her again. This honestly sounds like Jr. High game.
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:05 PM
1

The gold standards for evaluating your interactions are presence and compliance. Spot on. If you're looking for IOIs you're looking for permission, and you'll be sorely disappointed. IOIs are nice, especially good eye contact, but you'll often know and feel her interest when she's really into you anyways...there's a tension. Some women are into you immediately and will flash IOIs immediately. Usually these are unattractive women. With attractive women, I truly believe IOIS are created, not given…
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:02 PM
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You're going to hear a lot of "everywhere" which is true, but rather useless. Pickup is also highly venue dependent. From experience: •Downtown is where you'll meet the most women quickly. During the day around lunchtime, and between 4-6 pm is best as women are getting off work. •Inside busy malls. 'Nuff said. •Friday night at grocers. Any young woman buying groceries after work on a Friday night is single. Bonus if she's got a small basket and not a huge cart. •Find where the modeling agencies …
/r/seduction03/06/20 03:24 AM
10

The 3 second rule: You must approach and talk to an attractive woman within 3 seconds of seeing her.
/r/seduction03/06/20 03:08 AM
23

The 3 second rule: You must approach and talk to an attractive woman within 3 seconds of seeing her.
/r/seduction03/06/20 03:07 AM
2

“If I leave here tomorrow...”
/r/seduction02/06/20 05:54 PM
0

Good post. There’s a huge amount of ego (insecurity) among men trying to learn seduction. And it’s amplified online. I’ve seen huge technique arguments online among guys I knew weren’t getting any. Being coachable requires humility, and the ability to take advice. It’s one of the reasons some of best wingmen have come from Bootcamps I signed up for.
/r/seduction02/06/20 05:50 PM
1

The incredible point of negativity this post has generated is shocking. You’re absolutely right, people are still meeting and getting laid, just in new and different ways for now. Thanks for bringing some advice and positivity to this sub.
/r/seduction02/06/20 05:46 PM
5

Approaching is bettering yourself.
/r/seduction02/06/20 05:44 PM
1

Instead of negative bashing, maybe you could comment with some better openers? Or better yet, some field reports of you doing something?
/r/seduction02/06/20 05:44 PM
2

Funny username, I like it. How about instead of bashing someone else’s baby steps, contribute something positive by posting your own field reports?
/r/seduction02/06/20 05:42 PM
2

To belabor your analogy though, a lot of guys are complaining they don't know how to play chess, what the pieces are, what the basic moves are etc. They hate chess and think only good looking guys win at chess. They have no idea why they can't play chess well and give up after losing their first three matches. They study a tonne of chess books but rarely play. This is most guys wanting to meet women. You become accomplished at something by doing it...a lot. It's 90% action and learning by your m…
/r/seduction31/05/20 04:33 AM
1

Good stuff. I've had women specifically tell me they were impressed just by my bathroom being clean. Women don't want to have to be your house cleaning service. I also recommend guys invest a little in some attractive lighting. It doesn't have to be much but a few floor lamps and house plants can make a huge difference, a nice lamp in the bathroom (bathroom lights tend to be far too bright) and a simple bedside lamp with a red bulb can be huge. Investing just $100 in your place can dramatically …
/r/seduction31/05/20 04:28 AM
2

I've also opened with, "Are those jeggings?" and women respond. Really, your opening is the least impactful part of your interaction.
/r/seduction30/05/20 11:10 PM
1

Yes, but why?
/r/seduction30/05/20 07:06 PM
2

Well said!
/r/seduction30/05/20 02:23 PM
3

I always comment on shoes. Women are appreciative of that.
/r/seduction30/05/20 02:18 PM
3

Preach brother! There is immense power in knowing you can meet any person you want to just by walking up to them.
/r/seduction30/05/20 02:17 PM
4

Nice, cuz! Keep it up and keep writing up those field reports. I would keep a little 99 cent journal on you or in your car and make tick marks for every woman you approach. It's satisfying to see the little tick marks add up over a month or two of approaching and is a nice record of how much you're accomplishing. Also write down lessons learned, they'll help you along your way. P.S. Ignore the cold approach haters. They're guys who haven't found success with women and are too scared to do so. I'…
/r/seduction30/05/20 02:12 PM
38

There's an olde seduction maxim, "Attraction isn't a choice." When you see a girl that's beautiful to you you're going to be attracted, you have no choice in the matter. It's not a conscious decision. Same with women. If you're articulate, well dressed and groomed, in physical shape, confident, have good posture, etc. you maximize your chances of her being attracted to you initially. Then if you can hold a conversation, flirt, use humor, maybe dance, have interests and passions, etc. you maximiz…
/r/seduction30/05/20 02:08 PM
1

This has nothing to do with learning Seduction. Don’t even try to justify it. Wrong sub maybe?
/r/seduction29/05/20 07:43 PM
1

Are you asking for copyright materials?
/r/seduction29/05/20 03:24 PM
1

Nobody here is trying to pick you up so your "input" is irrelevant. Advice from successful men is what counts here.
/r/seduction28/05/20 09:00 PM
5

Yes, a guy will have wierd vibes at first. It's not because of cold approaching a lot, but by not having lots of experience with women and not having cold approached a ton. The guys who approach and are charming, funny, and smooth AF? Approach a lot.
/r/seduction28/05/20 08:59 PM
8

As a man, your advice is irrelevant. You have no experience picking up women from cold approaching and no concept of the huge amount of work it takes to get a single date. From personal experience it takes a guy normally 100-200 cold approaches to get maybe 20 phone numbers, 15 of those will flake, maybe 5 will go on a date, maybe 2-3 will kiss, maybe 1 will turn into any sort of relationship. That's for an average guy who knows what he's doing. If you're new it might take 500 approaches. To you…
/r/seduction28/05/20 06:30 PM
3

I've done 5 a day (and more) for extended periods of weeks or months. You never have the time. You make the time.
/r/seduction28/05/20 06:21 PM
5

1/3? That would be a good kiss-close ratio for girls you actually bring on a date, and if you know what you're doing. In my experience it might be 2/100. Meaning you'd have to approach 100 women to get 6 dates, and kiss close on 2 of those. If you're good. This Game ain't for pussies. YMMV.
/r/seduction28/05/20 06:19 PM
3

That's great kid, write us when you've actually done something. You can't build success off what you're going to do.
/r/seduction28/05/20 06:15 PM
2

Aye.
/r/seduction28/05/20 03:37 AM
1

Same. Very easy for mods to make posts text only.
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:08 PM
1

So much this. I'd like to discuss it more. PM'd you before mods take this down.
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:37 PM
1

Multiple ONS same night. Usually her place. Some turn into relationships, some don't.
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:07 PM
0

Tell me how to get laid with a hot girl while quarantine is happening. Okay. Change your attitude.
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:05 PM
2

I've never achieved dating success when I'm burnt out. Only when I was feeling great, outgoing, positive. It's okay to take a couple days for some sleep, exercise, and self-care. In fact, it's essential.
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:04 PM
1

This is bs. You can get laid if you're broke, unemployed, and live in a basement. Needing money is the antithesis of Seduction.
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:02 PM
1

WTF is this? Fuck off. And reported.
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:00 PM
2

Lol, I just posted an angry screed about this too. Look for it.
/r/seduction27/05/20 04:58 PM
1

What is this shit? Fuck off. Reported.
/r/seduction27/05/20 04:57 PM
1

Also, expensive. Drinks at a bar are the way to go.
/r/seduction27/05/20 04:50 PM
3

If you can't make your point on reddit in your post its going to be reported as spam. No I will not like or subscribe to your YouTube channel.
/r/seduction27/05/20 04:49 PM
7

Volunteer. Animal shelters, churches, shelters, community resources, etc. all still need people to show up.
/r/seduction27/05/20 04:47 PM
1

I'm not sure about Snapchat as I never use it, but it sounds like it was a mistake to switch from a format that was working. I works only only switch to a format that increases the intimacy: text->phone->irl
/r/seduction27/05/20 04:42 PM
4

Better to end it on a high note. I like to get her laughing and then say, "I've made my decision. I like that you can hold a conversation...and I’ve decided to get your number.”
/r/seduction27/05/20 12:50 AM
5

Nothing wrong with leaving once you have a number or a date setup. We've got busy and exciting lives to live. My advice was aimed at guys ejecting too early without getting a number or date.
/r/seduction27/05/20 12:47 AM
0

Never assume. Your assumptions limit your possibilities.
/r/seduction26/05/20 09:29 PM
12

Yes, but not for the reasons you may think. I'm assuming she's hot, happily married, and exclusive. If their relationship is open then sex is on the table. Others have mentioned the possibility she might hook you up with her single friend, but it's always the dog of the friend group who's the last one single and they're hoping you'll pity fuck her. Either way, you're trying to get something from her. This is not why you talk to married women. You talk to her precisely because you want nothing fr…
/r/seduction26/05/20 08:30 PM
-2

You're assuming they're exclusive and you're missing out.
/r/seduction26/05/20 08:23 PM
2

This is the way.
/r/seduction21/05/20 12:37 PM
1

Why Hinge?
/r/seduction19/05/20 01:58 AM
1

HeS jUsT sAlTy I don’t understand this reference. Can someone explain?
/r/seduction18/05/20 11:19 PM
20

Along with hugging her around the waist and a triangular gaze (eyes, lips) my go to move is brushing back the hair over her ear. It's an incredibly intimate move and if she let's you touch her hair she'll let you kiss her.
/r/seduction12/05/20 11:54 AM
11

Agree with every word. Many of the tactics that seem "cringey" aren't experienced that way in real life but seem so to keyboard jockeys, and even better work when done well. You have to choose what's useful to you, not just criticize others who are more successful. Lots of crabs in buckets here. You telling him to "be yourself" and "be confident" is by comparison an inactionable piece of advice that doesn't do shit except as a vehicle for you to express social commentary against dating and PUA t…
/r/seduction05/05/20 11:40 AM
0

If I would recommend one book it's Magic Bullets. You only need one good guide, you don't have to read thousands of articles, blogs, or videos. It's expensive but it's the shit. Then it's up to you to practice. Finding a good coach or wingman for feedback who actually knows what he's doing is also helpful, but start with Magic Bullets and practice.
/r/seduction05/05/20 02:26 AM
4

Game is bait. Level up.
/r/seduction05/05/20 02:12 AM
4

Guidelines: Don't be her emotional tampon Dont let her unload all her problems on you. Her problems are boring and that's what she has girlfriends to talk to for. For God's sake do not attempt to fix her problems. Control the conversation by not being a wet rag. Talk about emotional experiences to bond over eg. Best vacation ever. If she starts to discuss her problems just say "That's interesting and change the topic." Never try to change what she thinks, change how she's feeling.
/r/seduction03/05/20 02:19 AM
1

No problem. Thanks for sharing. Stay hungry.
/r/seduction02/05/20 07:45 PM
30

Ignore the White Knight haters. You fucked a chuck that was pretty drunk. You wouldn't be the first. Nobody but you and her know what her ability to consent was, and whether she gave it. If you made a mistake I admire you for being man enough to admit it, move on, and I trust not make it again. Props to you for both persevering massively in approaching, and investing in yourself with boot camps and by improving yourself. Your story sounds much like mine. Hundreds (thousands?) of approaches, thou…
/r/seduction02/05/20 07:41 PM
3

Smelly Cat.
/r/seduction02/05/20 07:34 PM
8

It's a good thought, but it requires thinking about thinking. Instead, I use the 3-second rule: Once you see a woman you're attracted to you have 3 seconds to approach and open. This time crunch short-circuits your emotional fears and brain's overthinking. You just don't have time. And by the time you've thought about it you're already talking to. 3-Second Rule.
/r/seduction28/04/20 06:36 PM
1

Can you clarify what you mean that some people didn't see it that way?
/r/seduction14/04/20 06:45 PM
2

Mystery called pickup the Venutian Arts, to contrast with Martial Arts. I thought it was apt.
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:20 PM
1

This is good info. But keep in mind the key to success with women isn't what they say they like but what they've actually done. Women will say shit like she wants a sophisticated, well-read family man with manners who approaches her at a coffee shop, but you know she's banging Chad(s) in the alley behind the bar. Actions and desires do not always match. I never ask "What do you like in a guy?" but rather "Tell me about how you met"
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:17 PM
1

What you're wanting is for women to chase you. This can happen, but you need to be high value to her. You achieve this by really working on yourself, and getting a ton of dating experience. When you've got like 5 sex partners then the women will be competing for your attention. But you can't just lay back and expect women to chase you without you investing significant effort in developing yourself first.
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:13 PM
4

I like how this man thinks.
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:09 PM
4

For fun sort by Controversial.
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:07 PM
1

Attractive yes, model good looks no. Physically attractive to women includes a good haircut, well fitting clothes, clean shoes, nice build (especially butt and forearms) etc. Along with that goes an attractive personality and lifestyle. It's not all your face at all.
/r/seduction10/04/20 01:31 PM
9

I have found very few women to be interesting or have hobbies, regardless of looks.
/r/seduction10/04/20 01:17 PM
9

I’ve found the key to success in any scene is to only seduce women who have less seniority within that scene than you. That is, people newer than you. When you’re new its dangerous to seduce the existing crowd, you don’t know the power structure, the friendships and enemies, etc. Instead I always first befriend the people who’ve been there longer; they will be your power structure. Seduce only the newbies. If/when it ends, she’ll be the one forced out, while you remain to seduce again. Do it wro…
/r/seduction24/03/20 10:12 PM
2

OP has a lot of good points, specifically action bets theory and volume matters. When I first started in cold pickup I think my ratio was 300:1 maybe, as in 300 cold approaches to get one lay. If I was even that good. With countless texts and dates in between. Over time I got that ration down significantly, but I would guesstimate it to be at least 50:1 now. Guys thinking they're going to go out and get laid every night are delusional or have movie-star looks. The very good news is that if you g…
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:35 PM
1

Well, this is obvious. Thank you, Captain.
/r/seduction19/02/20 01:30 AM
2

I know those 2 rules are meant as a sarcastic joke, but they're correct. But most men interpret them wrong. Because men's initial attraction is almost entirely to what we see. But OP's Tinder texts are how a man can be attractive and not un-attractive. Being fun and flirty will set you apart. Of course, looks count for women too, but are not the primary attractant. It's what you can make her feel that determines if you are following Rule 1 and 2.
/r/seduction18/02/20 09:04 PM
1

What's that?
/r/seduction18/02/20 08:22 PM
1

Lol. Those overseas romances are easily explained by the adage "Attraction is not a choice."
/r/seduction16/02/20 03:30 PM
1

The internet is full of SJW White Knights. They are virgins.
/r/seduction16/02/20 03:29 PM
1

And this is useful, how? It's not.
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:55 PM
3

Because those stories are just that, stories, designed to sell a fantasy to women. A fantasy that love just "happens" to them because women are largely passive actors in relationships. The reality on the ground is very different for men.
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:46 PM
5

You gain confidence by doing. Approach 100 women this month and every month. Ask again at 1,000.
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:43 PM
13

So this is a deep topic that others have answered here about a million times. Like, I think this is probably the #1 asked question by guys. Have you checked the sidebar FAQs? So I'll keep my personal answer short and sweet: Compliance Tests. You have to start the date physical from the beginning so she knows this is a sexual man, not a "new friend". Start with a hug when you meet, and whisper her hair smells good. During the conversation make some light touches, like ask to see her ring and hold…
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:41 PM
8

Ask her, you might learn something interesting. Personally, I hate when women call me "sweet". Then ask her what she prefers. I respond to be called "thoughtful." Win/Win.
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:36 PM
3

Props for going out. Rough nights happen. If you learned something then use that. Personally I like to club when I'm high energy and in love with life, but if I'm low energy or not feeling it then I'll wingman more. You might also consider looking at other places than a bar, such as social events through Meetup or Events and Adventures. Opening a conversation with a stranger still counts.
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:34 PM
1

Quiet drunk, yes. Quite drunk maybe not.
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:28 PM
1

Wow, those are some bullshit answers. You read the situation correctly, she was enjoying herself with you, and in no way were you exploiting her or the situation. You didn't have sex or initiate sexual contact. Her having a few drinks doesn't make her incapable of enjoying your company or your offer of comfort. It sounds like she was needing a man's presence at that moment. Very normal for her girlfriends to jump in and be uncomfortable with her being with a man they don't get know, don't take t…
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:26 PM
2

Women will flake on you until you die. Tinder is no different.
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:21 PM
1

Stop right in front of her. She'll stop and look up.
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:19 PM
4

Yes, of course but I didn't know it at the time. Sociopaths don't run around carrying a sign. They are very normal people who just have no empathy or remorse, but they can fake it for a while. You won't know who is a (true) Sociopath until you've gotten to know someone a while. I don't worry about it.
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:17 PM
1

Yes. Next question?
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:14 PM
2

Personally, in a public setting I keep it mostly PG-ish and most importantly private. You don't want to embarrass her in company. If you have a private moment, or can whisper to her, I just say something simple to get her warmed up like, "The way you move is making me very hot". Don't compliment how she looks, beautiful women have heard it a million times (boring) but you can compliment something she does ("you're making me jealous of that straw...") or has done ("You know those shoes are giving…
/r/seduction16/02/20 02:10 PM
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