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80/20
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:45 PM
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You answered yourself, they were tall. It's about balancing, if you aren't tall and/or naturally handsome, a good physique is a good place to start
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:12 PM
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Are autistic people not allowed to exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:55 PM
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You're doing all those men a favor by ghosting them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:55 PM
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Because that's all women 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:31 PM
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I've never met a man who rejects a woman because she is not giving money, but women who do that to men? Oof I've lost count
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:18 PM
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Understanding as in know how it is? Probably about 50%. Understanding as in giving fucks? Then probably less than 0.0005%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:17 PM
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I'm not very attractive, that's a huge setback. But also, I just don't have the patience for most women 🤷‍♂️, especially on the apps. Most of them are so self centered, stingy and callous. Even outside the app I tried my luck to have something casual with a woman at my workplace. She was very happy and said it was mutual, but was like, "usually men try to win me over, they invite for dinner, buy me some wine and, you know... You can do the same for me" and honestly, it just seemed like a bad inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:49 PM
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I see 0 arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:29 AM
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All studies are flawed when you don't agree with the conclusions I guess. You're right lady, women are perfect creatures
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 12:27 AM
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You're doing the equivalent of when Jordan Peterson was asked "do you believe in god" and he said "what do you mean by believe"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:33 PM
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"t-tests were conducted on narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy ratings. The results were significant. [...] In conclusion, the results of our study demonstrate that the Dark Triad male personality is attractive to women and this effect is not mediated by these men’s greater perceived Extraversion or Neuroticism."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:36 PM
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If you make yourself the center of the universe, reasonable people will find it hard to be nice to you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:34 PM
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I sure hope so because we hang out every week and have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:33 PM
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Women get offended by the truth, as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:09 PM
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Don't project your fetishes unto me man, I'm trying to have discussions, bring some arguments and maybe we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:08 PM
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But women are attracted to them, that isn't even up for discussion, it's a fact. It's not hate, you women just don't like when the truth doesn't agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:08 PM
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Women are not attracted to men with "dark triad" traits. Dude they hate those things. No they don't The rest of your comment is just "nuh uh" so I can't argue with that. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:06 PM
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And the women here are notorious for being narcissistic and unreasonable, I guess that makes us even
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:46 PM
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Okay 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:29 PM
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Not really, I have lots of female friends actually, I tend to avoid insufferable and narcissistic women, like you for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:27 PM
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Cool, one less insufferable woman for us to deal with. Remember your words next time you're gonna rawdog the douche you met at the local sports bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:23 PM
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And all the women who have been unkind to me here have a blue pill flair 🤷‍♂️. You're not the center of the universe lady
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:20 PM
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The Red Pill believes that women even like abuse and are attracted mainly to men who are narcissistic bullies. They believe that women cruelly reject any guy who isn’t conventionally attractive then swarm around men who are. The Red Pill believes women are manipulative and do “shit tests” that the man needs to overpower and dominate so that he can be “on top”. I'm trying to find which part of this is actually incorrect? Sure, it won't apply to all women in the known universe, but it's not crazy …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:15 PM
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Being attractive and neurotypical helps a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:16 AM
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All that yapping just to once again defend the whores. You know I actually thought you had an argument. I mean hypergamy has been a thing forever, but you're just gonna ignore it because you want men to be responsible for the female whore epidemic apparently. Yes lady, it's men's fault that Britney is rawdogging chads every Friday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:45 AM
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If you're asking me personally the answer is no. I like some emotional connection first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:25 PM
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80% of women will provide 10% of men (chad) with casual sex regardless of what we do or say, it's in y'all's nature. Don't try and push the blame unto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:22 PM
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It is not. You're pulling a straw man, and you know it. Misinterpreting me and the black pill in the same sentence. Have better faith when you talk
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 06:10 PM
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Nope, because you CAN improve, you just can't become Brad Pitt. It's like talent. You can work and grind hard to gain a skill but someone with natural talent with achieve double your results with half the effort. Recognizing that is not ideology, it's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 02:15 PM
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Genetics. Being fit and taking care of your skin will only get you so far
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 01:43 PM
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Women tend to be externally nicer Keyword on externally, moreso with attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:17 AM
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On his amazing life and beautiful relationship (not gloating)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:16 AM
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In other words, you are here to not think and just bash the people who think. Clever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 03:16 AM
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Nope. I didn't chose to be redpill, it's just how the world works. Knowing my place in it is more useful than blindly following the lies society wants to implant, it doesn't make me any more or less happy because at the end of the day the world won't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:55 AM
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Why do bluepillers feel attacked by everything RP guys say, if you disagree you get mad, if you agree you get mad. Aren't y'all tired just basing your entire perspective on reaction to actual thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:53 AM
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And I've seen women saying they need a man because they can't open a Coca-Cola bottle, pathetic useless idiots exist on all genders
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:08 PM
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Women aren't committing crimes and violence to even close to the level men do. Women aren't starting wars, yet you claim women are the problem. Are you ok in the head? Learn your history because you clearly haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:28 PM
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You genuinely think men don't do their laundry and that they all cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:27 PM
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I mean, most stuff men put up with in relationships is only worth is the woman is pretty. Most women are a pain in the ass and that's no secret really, I can imagine women would think similarly of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:04 PM
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Beggars can't be choosers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:09 PM
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I didn't decide to take the redpill, it was just the way the world was. And yes, I went from a naive idiot to actually losing my virginity and having some moderate success with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:18 PM
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Being "redpill" just means you follow the idea. A voyage of 1000km begins with a single step. If you're not successful now, doesn't mean you won't be if you follow the path
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:25 PM
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But what if every relationship is like that? What if the percentage of finding a reasonable woman nowadays is so low that you might as well be playing lottery?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:35 PM
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We have a saying in my country "eyes that do not see, is a heart that does not feel". Essentially, things that you are ignorant about won't affect how you feel, or "ignorance is bliss".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:30 PM
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All things being equal, higher IQ probably leads to greater social dexterity Considering the concept of a general IQ has been put into question in favor of newer understandings of multiple intelligences. You're right, they're not independent variables BECAUSE IQ also measures your social intelligence too, so of course you will score a higher IQ, because the test is designed to make you score a higher IQ if you already profess a high degree of social intelligence. Your statement also does not tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:25 PM
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Intelligence is not a monolith. Interpersonal intelligence, like mathematical intelligence, comes natural to many individuals. It can be trained yes, but it will be hard and that doesn't mean you're not intelligent. I have pretty solid academic results and many achievements in fields related to humanities, but I am an absolute idiot when it comes to interpersonal relationships. I have tried to applied logic, models and different systems to analyse and understand it and I have improved, but I wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:37 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:35 AM
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Do you need to see somebody's bank account to know they're rich when they're living and showing an extravagant life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:17 PM
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I was not agreeing with him, he said having tons of dates and then turning into hook ups is a regular thing, I say that it is indeed regular if you're attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:42 PM
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I can believe you that ugly women have bad experience. But what you fail to recognise is that more men are considered ugly than women. A woman has to be an absolute whale to receive this treatment, a man just needs to be a 6 or below, he doesn't even have to be fat, that's because 80% of women go for the top 10% of men, and the rest are ugly. That has also been studied. As you can see, what you say is right, but fails to account another variable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:36 PM
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The opposite of the impostor syndrome huh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:33 PM
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What's that have to do with what I was saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:25 PM
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What's your point lady
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:47 PM
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I'm talking about the groups of women who can't get dates from men and are relegated to pump and dumps because they're not deemed as attractive. Those are usually 4-5 chicks who aim for the jacked 9-10 chads and then get sad when the guy with any alternative in the world doesn't stay with the fat chick with greasy hair. They would not find such rejection if they play in their league, but of course they don't want to accept they're anything below a 10. And of course they play victim because that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:46 PM
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Lmao why do attractive people don't want to accept they're attractive, it's like trust fund kids reassuring they're poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:42 PM
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I have an ugly fella, chill dude, bit awkward but not more than me lmao. Bro gets absolutely looked down upon by every woman, like they have better eyes for garbage. And the second he talks to them for anything regardless of what it is, they're weary. Now I know other dudes, pretty handsome ones, they can get away with pretty much whatever behaviour and they're treated with respect. The halo effect is crazy, but yeah you will just reduce everything to "muuuuhhh you're just saying shit because wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:42 PM
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Yeah, if you're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:52 PM
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What are you saying? I've seen 5s who feel like 9s and get treated as such. Pump and dump or whatever, they don't really care, in their mind they're using men and having fun and if anything happens they get to play victim. Being a woman as long as you're above a 3 you'll be treated well, but we men below 8 aren't even human to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:49 PM
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A lot of the things on that list designated for "hot men only" is pretty standard stuff though How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:30 PM
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I mean, you're saying things that are true, but I don't get your point. Is the problem that we average men don't want to ignore the fact that we are at a huge disadvantage and that we don't have much to expect from the world? I mean, if anything, ignoring that fact will make you naive and guarantee that you won't ever have women in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 12:29 PM
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No, ew
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:01 PM
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Political investment? Yes Activism? Naaaah Rich activists are the exception and not the rule, most activists are just socially conscious and empathetic people regardless of their privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:01 AM
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An german anarchist saying goes "apolitisch sein muss man sich erst leisten können" (being apolitical is something you must be able to afford first). To be apolitical in the modern world, you have to a combination of the following: Privileged Unconscious Unempathetic Ignorant Aside from privileged, the others are not qualities I would want in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:04 PM
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People usually read before forming opinions but you're a step skipper
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:08 PM
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We can't have everything in life :(
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:24 PM
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The best thing is, make up doesn't have any lead or radium anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 03:24 PM
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Therefore, when redpill is right, bluepill is wrong. Redpill is based on analysis and statistics, bluepill is based on "nuh uh"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:08 PM
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People need each other
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:19 PM
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The killing part was mostly because a crazy druggie magician influencing the political decisions of the zar didn't look good considering the country was just recovering from a humiliating war with Japan and the constant threat of a revolution against the monarchy. Many were afraid he actually had magical powers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:53 PM
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You'd be surprised how much monster fucking smut women read
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 10:01 PM
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I mean, it's not much as anger at it is apathy. The dating world is unjust and stupid, blue pill wants to tell themselves it is not and that you just have to be yourself or some shit. What made me once angry was not how the world is, but how eager are some people to lie about it and keep up the myths that built it. But like, I can't change that world, and I can't make bluepillers stop saying stupid shit, so what do I care? I'll just live my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 09:53 PM
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Maybe you just don't know how to read?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 09:40 PM
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Honestly, nobody cares whether you're a virgin or not. Nah bruh, you were cooking until you said this. I too was a virgin until 22 and the way people used to treat me when they found out was so telling. Immediately I went from a normal guy to a loser in their heads, they were condescending and infantilizing, and it was mostly women who did that. The men just made fun of me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 09:37 PM
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Anyone would be successful with a cock that large
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 09:34 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:31 PM
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i don't read smut. Smut isn't that bad. Pick one, lady
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:36 PM
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Those statistics only prove that women are, compared to men, less likely to be victims of crime, and less likely to be victims of violent crime than men are. Men are overwhelmingly homeless, unemployed and suicidal than women. Also, hiring discrimination? In my life I have never seen women being discriminated in terms of hiring because they're women. In the US unemployment affects men and women equally. The difference is 0.1% in favor of women. Going on a personal level, all my bosses are women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:07 AM
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I mean, many women who say they don't watch porn read the dirtiest smut known to humanity, so idk who to trust
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:31 PM
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Take your own advice and read books on all those topics, because you clearly don't understand the basic fact that humans are inherently social, and that seeking group validation is a primal instinct, shaped by culture yes, but inherently there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:47 PM
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Talk to me after you've read because it seems you're letting your feelings overlook the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:52 PM
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Have you ever felt embarrassed? You don't learn to feel embarrassed, you feel it, it is an instinct, just like anger or happiness. Embarrassment is a social instinct that pushes us to be accepted by others. Creatures not social have no need to feel embarrassment, but we are social animals and embarrassment is a needed feeling in order help us avoid ostracism, which in the old days of hunting and gathering, could be deadly. Embarrassment is not taught, yet you feel it and act upon it when require…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:51 PM
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Bro how do you think dogs learn to drink water? Do you think mama dog goes to them and says "my distinguished gentlemen, the sensation of thirst is resolved by consuming the translucent liquid, I shall hereby demonstrate, as it's appropriate, the procedure, which makes this activity most practical, as generations before me have proven" No man. Your brain also has instincts. You seek validation too, in the form of love from your parents or friends. To you it is not an instinct, because you have i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:01 PM
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Who taught you that you have to eat when you're hungry? Or that you have to drink water when you're thirsty? It's an instinct of your Monkee brain. Of course it affects some more than others, but genuinely, it's only a natural reaction. You can't shame people for wanting what their brain is designed to want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:52 PM
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Humans are social creatures. Our brain is literally made to seek validation, it'a a remnant of the survival strategy that worked for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:42 PM
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Nope, it is a rule of thumb, not a universal rule. RP works like any sociological theory, based on groupings and ideal types.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:37 PM
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Also, women are on average, happier single, so there’s really nothing to fear. More young women are in relationships than young men, and not a little more, more than half compared to less than 35%. That statement is pure cope and based on what people claim about themselves, not an empirical prediction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:33 PM
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"my world" is the one where empirical data verifies my assertions, instead of yours where you have to maintain that women are perfect no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:02 PM
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I just learned that "Having standards" is dating abusive men because they're attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:19 PM
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A woman not accepting accountability?? But that's impossible??!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:08 PM
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Many men do stay for sex that is true. But men do admit they're shallow, women hide behind a smokescreen of righteousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:08 PM
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Your community is in fact well aware of this and calls it “settling”. Of course, regarding money. News flash lady, nothing gives a bigger sense of security than financial stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:02 PM
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but nasty abusive men also get love all the time from women When they're very attractive, yes. Women tend to choose the top 10% of all men. Many of them are assholes, but that don't matter when you're that high.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:57 PM
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Attraction works differently for women. It isn’t limited to appearance, personality and attitude add to the appeal. Yeah I think that's a myth. Plenty of studies have indeed concluded that women WILL choose men based on appearance, they rate the personalities of less attractive men lower even if they have better personalities. Give a bad description of an unattractive dude and then give a good description to an attractive man. Naturally, women prefer the attractive man. Then switch the descripti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:53 PM
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Hey I don't speak for all men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:49 PM
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Don't women also have to earn love by being nice, not angry, being social, including, pretty, agreeable etc? Not really no, nasty bitches get men all the time. What's more, besides that men have to do all of that and more, they are also expected to provide monetarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:49 PM
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You must never go out of your house then. Or at least not have a diverse group of female friends. If you think we call men abusive because they're charismatic then you clearly don't know many men either. I have met women so in love with their abusive boyfriends. One of them had his bf burn a cigar on her arm, and she dated him for 3 more months until HE left her for his ex. Now that's crazy, and I have seen many cases like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:45 PM
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You seem intelligent, that's good. But many women aren't as lucky, and they're actually attracted to the abusers. As I've seen it, they tend to like it when a hot abuser treats them well because she feels special. This is reinforced by pretty much any romance media most women consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:33 PM
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Women won't compromise (unless for money), your baseline is false. You, on the other hand, will be on your knees if a girl with a nice ass walks into your room. Not really, speaking personally, a nice ass won't compensate for an ugly face or flat tits. Honestly, I like when women are intelligent. And if she's not intelligent then at most she will be a hook up if things go right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:28 PM
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that means that just "grooming/dressing/well/getting in shape" won't help most men achieve "alright/cute" level, you know..the bare minimum required. Exactly. Women tend to say that the fact that they're only attracted to 10% of men is a myth and that personality is what's most important to them. And my point is that that is bullshit spread to support the equally false myth that women are perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:26 PM
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I appreciate that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:24 PM
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But personality matters for like 5%, or else women wouldn't marry abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:24 PM
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There you go, so the idea that being funny or charismatic or whatever can compensate for looks or money is idiotic. I'm literally agreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:24 PM
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Are you really? Because the stats say otherwise. At least most me will admit they're shallow. But women always need to safe face for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:57 PM
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I'm surprised about women being so honest here. They're usually always talking about personality and being charismatic to save face about their shallowness. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:46 AM
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True, women blame men for misandry all the time, but misogyny is still men's fault. But it's no secret that women and accountability are like water and oil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:08 PM
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My point is: An attractive man can be not funny, but he will still be funny to women. That's why I said that all attractive men are funny, because in practice it really works like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:34 PM
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Yeah that's what women say to seem less shallow, but it is not empirical. It is true, a man doesn't have to be funny when he's attractive because by virtue of being attractive whatever he says is funny. The halo effect is crazy. Conversely, a funny unattractive man will also have little chance to score points with girls because he's not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:07 PM
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I know, but the difference between me and him is not even that great. To you he's slightly taller than me though. There it is. Also, some bald men are handsome, have you seen Walter White?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:01 PM
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The only difference between a creep and a charismatic dude is attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:51 PM
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Plus, women do like those traits. It's like our species it's designed to foster those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:46 PM
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But how can we tell those women apart from the women who will accuse us of being creeps without saying a word?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:44 PM
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Any guy is funny is he's attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:42 PM
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Rejection and isolation is not replacing power in the wrong hands. Women are choosing their abusers and they live it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:24 PM
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Exactly, is not really that hard of a concept to understand. RP doesn't promote hate, if you interpret hate, well that's on you. And no, RP men are not solely focussed on Instagram models.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:44 PM
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Accountability and women mix like water and oil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:12 PM
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Facts over feelings, right? Except you're not stating facts, you just don't know how statistics work 🤷‍♂️. You're too emotional lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:55 PM
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Which percentage of the total number of men are actually responsible for that violence? What's more, women are, by and large, the perpetrators of violence against children. You're not stating anything obvious, you're just letting everyone know you're not the sharpest tool in the shed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:30 PM
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Kinda like dealing with kindergarteners. Fitting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:28 PM
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The context is casual misandry. Men NOW need to pay I'm a man. Logical extrapolation would imply that you mean men in general. If that is not what you mean you need to improve your writing communication
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:30 PM
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Provide arguments please
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:14 PM
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One can justify racism because of current behaviours, that doesn't make it right I also don't think all critique of male behaviour is misandrist "I don't think all critique of [race] behaviour is racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:45 PM
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I ain't committing no horrors against any woman lady, don't expect me to pay for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:42 PM
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People generally give bad advice, especially women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:42 PM
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I don't see any data in this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:34 AM
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Most men don't even have relationships as a central focus. Many have more important things to worry about. We just doing like playing pretend like women do. To me the women actually "decentering" relationships are a fraction of those 34% single ones. The rest are bluffers. Having more options or having it easier to get relationships doesn't stop women from avoiding focus to center on other things and hoping from boyfriend to boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:51 PM
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A woman seeking ego validation? How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 08:38 PM
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It's simple really, if you're attractive no matter what you do it'll be confident. If you're unattractive no matter what you do it'll be creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:19 PM
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Or maybe, just maybe, young women love to date older dudes 🤷‍♂️, and older dudes love young ladies. If any demographic is afraid of commitment is women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:24 PM
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Just like believing every woman claiming to have been SA'd
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:06 PM
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But you do need a job, and you will seek another job as soon as you can because other things in life don't really matter that much when you can't eat. So yes your job is indeed something you have centered in life. It's not the only thing you care about of course, but it's vital. This was a really bad comparison because, if I could simply not work, I wouldn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:03 PM
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To me a person who says they don't need relationships will not seek them, those women seek relationship. Indeed most women seek relationships. Actions do speak louder than words. The rest is just baseless claims with no data to back them up. You're claiming fake news when over 60% of young men are single whilst only less than 35% of females are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:13 PM
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Decentering relationships doesn't mean abstaining from them. Is it not all about focusing on themselves and being happy single? Then why are the hoping from bf to bf like it's a competition? It's not really a choice for young men Not really, many young men actively choose to not be in relationships. Talk to any woman and she has had many experiences being ghosted and not being committed too. The women you see who have "decentered relationships" also have triple digit body cunts lmao. Women seek …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:02 PM
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Women are already decentering men and relationships, they don't need men and may or may not want them. Men need to be less one-dimensional in their masculinity and expand their values, perspectives and interests. Sure, that's what they claim, but young women are overwhelmingly more in relationships more than young men. That doesn't seem like de entering relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:56 PM
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and simply makes a lighthearted joke in response. That is not a light-hearted joke. That is a man opening himself about something he is passionate and very emotional, and she shuts him down. That's not a joke, that's simple bullying. By that man's reaction this was clearly not the first time that happened. And that man was very resilient because if a man did the same thing to a woman she would either cry or lash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:54 PM
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Because men are not loved for who they are, men have to earn love. When a man stops being a kid he is nothing, and as he grows he has to earn his worth, unlike women. Both RP and BP know it, the difference is that BP won't admit it, while RP embraces that as a fact of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:49 PM
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Fair. What is your position?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:10 PM
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Meh, women's suffrage, education, property and labour rights were cool. But what is feminism doing now exactly? Besides making women believe they are superior and deserve everything imthey want without the effort. Even before feminism women had their fair share of privileges, they were just shadowed under being treated as second class citizen. Now they are not second class citizens anymore, but still retain those rights, making them effectively privileged citizens. As for us, well, nobody gives …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:11 PM
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For women Feminism is good and patriarchy is bad until it benefits them, then it's just "the bare minimum". They want all the benefits of equality without any of the duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:04 PM
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I kinda get you, when I first met my now ex I was so infatuated that I offered to pay for the whole date even after she offered to pay for me. It's doesn't have to be society-big. Every interaction is just two people. Exactly, that's why I don't like when a date is portrayed as the woman doing a favour to the man and therefore he must compensate it. Just like it isn't reasonable for a man to expect sex just because he paid, it isn't reasonable for a woman to expect to be paid just because she's …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:51 PM
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I don't buy that mentality really, because we do not live in an egalitarian society, men are almost never asked out and the societal responsibility to initiate falls, in practice, on men 90% of the time. It gives the illusion of fairness. So in practice that principle just lets women have their way with patriarchal structures. But I mean, we already know women love the patriarchy as long as it benefits them. Personally, if a date is going well and I feel like it, I offer to pay. That is a courte…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:35 PM
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Nah man, a date is a mutual effort, both timewise, socially and economically. The way you phrase it makes it basically impossible do anything with someone unless you're being catered for. If for the woman is such a huge effort to go on a date to the point that she has to be paid for to even consider it, then maybe she should just not date at all and just not meet anyone. What you describe is no formality, that's called being celf centered. Not even the most alcaline substances are this basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:21 PM
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Don’t date in another culture and then cry about the norms. That's a fair point. Still, I live in a culture that encourages gold-diggers, and I still call it out and offer the adequate amount of contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:29 PM
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Tell that to the woman in the video, she's whining like she lost her mother when all she lost was a free dinner. Can't say I'm unbiased tho, I love goldigger tears
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:15 PM
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But that's literally what's happening. There has been a significant increase in more choosing to be single. That is literally not possible considering young women are overwhelmingly not single You're only taking into consideration YOUNG women. Well the main group suffering from loneliness is young men so...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:14 PM
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The lie of redpill is that if you do all of the above, but replace the "decent human being" part with being the worst and darkest version of yourself, "evolutionary psychology" will make you irresistibly attractive. The guys getting gfs aren't the nice guys innit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:42 AM
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If women were happier single, the next logical conclusion would be that they are less interested in relationships, which would lead to less women in relationships. OP cites this as the cause of male loneliness. His thought is as follows: women are happier single, therefore more women are single, therefore more men are single, therefore more lonely men. This all falls apart when you intrusive the fact that young women are overwhelmingly more in relationships than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:31 AM
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So is a gentleman just a man who will allow gold-diggers to walk over him? That's just an idiot. Kudos for the man in the video
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:26 AM
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Bullshit. Young women are overwhelmingly more in relationships than young men. If what you say were true, there would be as many single young women as young men. This is something women say to perpetuate the strong woman myth. But when the patriarchy benefits them, then they love being a damsel in distress
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:00 AM
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You find it when you make any comment about women don't approaching. All the "approahers" raise their hands lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:56 PM
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Men give this kind of advice as well. Only blue pill pet men do lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:39 PM
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Pretty much yeah, that is my experience with DnD and Magic the gathering. It'd be easier to find an orca in an oil pool at night than a woman in those places
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:37 PM
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I mean, I used to be a total loner, virgin and loser. You're comparing me to you, but I compare me with my past self.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:06 PM
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And you can win the lottery on the first try, you can do many things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:14 AM
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more women are choosing to remain single and childless Childless yes, but single? No. Young women are overwhelmingly not single, especially compared to young men. Women "choosing to remain single" is a myth perpetrated by them to feed into the idea that they "don't need no man". Patriarchy is always good for women when it benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:17 AM
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RP is an analysis frame work and it has helped me way more than blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:13 AM
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Well there is just a firmly held myth that women approach normal men too, that they approach often and that they take as much initiative as men. I just want to make sure nobody falls for that, women do enough damage individually, a collective lie is not something that we need.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:48 AM
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I mean bro. I have followed a lot of advice on becoming the "best version of myself" such as: Become extroverted (I am not extroverted). Become athletic and going to the gym (I hate exercise and despite having a routine and doing it very often, I still hate it, that's not me). Dressing "better" (I like my hair long and alternative style, but that apparently doesn't look good on me, so I had to ditch it. I am dressing as another person) Take initiative (I am a naturally passive guy so doing this …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:55 AM
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Then they get approach by men which they don't think are enough because they believe they are 10s when they are 6 or 5
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:51 AM
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Think about it, you get all the perks of marriage without all the hassle of children, which is like 60% of the reasons marriages are unhappy. Sounds amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:17 PM
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Women approach the top 1%, they do one approach every 10 years and claim it's too much
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:53 PM
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Did I ever deny that I was an asshole? I didn't want to be but I had to. Do you beat women and put out cigarettes on them? Huh? Not even in the athletics competition of the olympic games you see this level of jumping to conclusions. Now that you mention it, I have a friend whose boyfriend used to put out cigarettes on her. She was so in love with him lmao. He dumped her for an ex and she was sad. Am I supposed to take women seriously after seeing that? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:22 PM
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Woe is me then. The poor women who are attracted to assholes get the asshole treatment and then it's our fault. If it's not me it would be some other asshole 10x worse than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:03 PM
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That is because of centuries of seeing sex as taboo in the Christian tradition. It sells that sex is shameful and only for making babies, and that you should be ashamed for liking it. Emthay was one of the points Nietzsche made in his extensive criticism of European religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:23 PM
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The rise of autism sounds like the title of a 2000s bad comedy film
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:43 PM
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In a world of bad people being bad is just what you gotta do to fit. However, there are plenty of women who don’t marry for money, and men who don’t marry for looks. And plenty of people win the lottery on the first try, what's your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:42 PM
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If my bad behaviour is rewarded and my good behaviour is not, can you blame me for being rational and choosing what's best for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:39 PM
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I am bitter indeed, I am very disappointed at women. I was always taught that y'all were to be respected and treated well but y'all don't like that. So what image am I supposed to have of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:37 AM
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Usually a huge mess of undiagnosed or unmedicated mental health problems to deal with. That's just most women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:24 AM
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Is it not? It's not our fault that women like assholes. So when we are assholes, and they chose us, and then they get the asshole treatment, is it not their fault? Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:08 AM
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And the ones who are having sex with me, are they also scared? Are they just being very polite with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:01 AM
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I am not denying it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:00 AM
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As if women aren't fake themselves. most of y'all marry for money anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:34 PM
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The reason I shave is because my skin is sensitive and the beard makes my allergies activate. Am I being deceiving by not letting my face be covered in rash? That's like saying an athlete is deceiving by using products to not let his feet be full of fubgu
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:33 PM
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They like me when I'm an asshole lol, why do women deny basic truths like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:32 PM
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I used to like myself a little but when women didn't like my true self I had to become an asshole I wasn't. Cruel world innit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:22 PM
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Is she gonna leave the kids to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:18 PM
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Nah man I've read essays made by 12 year olds with better ideas than this post. Let's just say you're right and shaving is deceiving so you get that dopamine hit lil buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:32 PM
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I honestly think you're just trolling because there is no way in hell somebody this stupid can read and write.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:27 PM
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Good for him. As for me, not being myself has worked wonders
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:21 PM
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Are you being serious? I mean those men who shape their jawline are also deceiving because that's not how their beard looks like. But you realize how stupid that is? By that logic you're also deceiving people by showering because you don't actually smell like soap do you? Combing your hair is also deceiving because your hair doesn't look like that naturally does it? When you get a haircut that's also deceiving. Putting on clothes is also deceiving because you're covering up who you really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:20 PM
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And the women who picked them end up with two kids and a mortgage 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:08 PM
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Losing weight isn't deceptive Neither is shaving Is a man being deceptive because he shaves? Am I deceiving the entire world and every woman I meet because I shave my face every morning? Wearing a mask can be on a case-by-case basis. Depends on a person's intent. Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:07 PM
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Make up and body hair removal aren't the same. That's like comparing losing weight with wearing a fucking mask
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:01 PM
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Being yourself means that you will attract people who want you the way you are. Hiding yourself means that at best, you will attract people who are different from you. Yeah that works for women. If you're an unattractive man you have to become "the best version of yourself" which usually is just pretending to be somebody that you're not, otherwise you'll end up alone. No wonder women get to know their man pretty much after years of marriage, men have learned that the real you is too cringe or to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:59 PM
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"Violence is hot" It's incredible how you must develop some narcissistic assholery to be liked by women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:56 PM
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It's likely due to my skinny frame that translates to a lack of sexual energy and vibe. Lmao no bro, you're just not husband material. You can't have a lack of sexual energy and many ONS, those are antonyms. "Sexual energy" or whatever you call it (I just call it being conventionally attractive) is what women want for ONS. When it comes to relationships they want more, that's why beta buxx exist. From what I can tell, you're moderately handsome and charismatic, but you don't have a personality f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:05 PM
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I'm not an expert on women's psychology but I would assume that beating the shit out of women isn't very attractive either, yet those men never have a lack of women to beat. Being awkward is a death sentence, but being an abuser is the key to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:46 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:01 PM
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The fact that many men aren't attractive to most women has arguably been a fact throughout all of human history, Not really, and the best time to prove that is between the late 40s and the early 90s. It is true that women have always had more options than men, but the unrealistic standards modern women set are a modern invention. I mean, my own grandma was not only older than my grandpa, she was also taller and richer. If today the distribution is 80% of women going for 10% of men, back then it …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 12:46 PM
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I would never even think about having a gf if that were the case lmao. When you deal with women as friends you don't have to put up with a lot of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:00 PM
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This is gotta be ragebait lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:27 PM
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It's funny how when you take words and shift them around the meaning changes isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:48 PM
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It's a good reason to be very cautious with every woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:25 PM
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Plenty, but who knows which ones are and which ones aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:07 PM
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Is reading comprehension illegal where you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:58 PM
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Yes, I'm complaining about men letting themselves be manipulated by devious women. It's our responsibility to take the reins and not be used.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:23 PM
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Well yeah, at no point i said it was. Quite the contrary actually. Why do y'all women always make everything about yourselves, it's getting tiring in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:16 PM
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Is reading comprehension an illegal subject where you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:50 PM
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Most women don't read bios or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:27 AM
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Theya re the only ones that date out of the woman's initiative anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:23 AM
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And people are innocent until proven guilty so any siding with the supposed bad man without enough evidence is baseless. How am I supposed to take you seriously when you are so predictable?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:22 AM
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Women always defend other women no matter what. I will bring balance and say she hasn't provided any specific details about the conversation, so she probably was attempting some manipulative scheme, man saw through and cut her, and as women do she's playing the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:20 AM
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Lmao then why are you even in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:18 AM
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Maybe women should stop talking to men. Women don't talk to 80% of men anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:16 AM
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You did not provide meaningful details of the conversation in question so I can't draw any conclusion. The fact that you haven't makes me think that perhaps the man's reaction was not unfounded. If nice guys don't deserve anything then what do mice girls deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:16 AM
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I will avoid women like you, don't worry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:12 AM
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Then it seems you didn't understand my post at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:12 AM
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Did you not read my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:10 AM
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Jesse what the fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:19 AM
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Men who get rejected aren't the ones offering the friendship, the women are. Of course the men are dumb for accepting that. My example was just one of the many ways women claim friendship when they just want validation and attention, to which pathetic men in love are prime targets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:10 AM
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So that's the best you can do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:55 AM
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Maybe because you make all posts about you and you only. If people are lashing out to you constantly maybe you're the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:43 AM
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She's an egocentric whore not for not wanting to date him, but for wanting to keep him around for validation. This kind of misunderstandings bother me because it makes me see how men saying anything can be twisted into an entirely different narrative to make him seen worse than he should. Would it make her a better person if she refused to be friends? To me yes, I appreciate honesty and directness. As an example, one time I shot my shot with a cute girl and she politely rejected me, but within t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:41 AM
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if you assume women’s motives are inherently devious, trying to use you for emotional support, then you’re a misogynist Am I? By that logic, aren't women misandrist for taking caution with all men because of the actions of very few? I know many women aren't devious, but caution won't hurt. After all, not all women, but always a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:30 AM
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I wasn't making any assumptions about you but damn you made this entire post all about yourself, incredible. i bet you've unknowingly misjudged so many women irl because youre so deep in this red pill cult, they even gave you trigger phrases to say You can think all you want about me, not like you would believe whatever I say because you don't see me as a source of validation. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:27 AM
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I can't respond to that, I don't know you personally. Talking like many women don't see men as walking ATMs who give validation on top of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:20 AM
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It's a pretty shitty situation. A pathetic loser gets himself into a situation where he gets played by an egocentric whore. I'm advocating for the pathetic losers to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:18 AM
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Meh, other people have said worse and truthfuller things. I give your try a 4/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:13 AM
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So he rlly just shot himself in the foot. Not like you were gonna date him anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:12 AM
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You can make all the assumptions you want about me mate, that's not debate. But I guess it was my fault for assuming you had the skills to formulate ideas. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:15 AM
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Why would I? Friends are friends and romance is romance. To me being friends with every date you go with seems like just pledging being a pet to multiple females.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:00 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:58 PM
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And I didn't say men only connect through their penis did I
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:55 PM
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Yes the friendzone is self influenced. Women lay the terms, but the man accepts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:50 PM
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It's sad that women only connect through others by boosting their own ego. Must be sad being so narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:45 PM
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Thankfully, but manyen take longer to learn so I was hoping to reach at least some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:42 PM
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If you become a pet to a woman it’s because you’re spineless YES, that's my point You get yourself in those situations. I did, I was a total loser lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:36 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:35 PM
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The comment I'm responding to is as well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:35 PM
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And I forgot that the only people on the friendzone were men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:21 PM
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Well you aren't making any solid arguments either, just general assumptions without any grounding
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:21 PM
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And when an unattractive man approaches a woman they don't see a person whom they may give the benefit of the doubt and become a beautiful relationship. They see an easy prey to boost their own ego and play with until they get tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:14 PM
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Well of course, having pets and boosting their ego is ingrained into the woman. Its all but normal to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:09 PM
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Well if you look closely at my post you can read I listed some characteristics of being a pet. You seem to not fulfil them. Reading is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:06 PM
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Where did I say it was her fault? I am blaming men for staying in this arrangements
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:00 PM
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Most women don't really pay attention to this, to them any pet is just a normal friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:00 PM
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You're free to read and not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:59 PM
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Fair tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:53 PM
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It may sound to you however you like, but that is not what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:48 PM
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I do actually, I have many women I consider very good friends and we hang out constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:47 PM
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There's friendships and then there's being an emotional support pet and many women don't see a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:46 PM
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Exactly 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:45 PM
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If you have feelings for someone, you need to EXPLICITLY state them and then be prepared to walk away if you are rejected. If they aren't interested and you choose to stick around, accept that your hurt feelings are 100% your own fault. Yes that was exactly my point. The issue is when men don't walk away and take on the invitation of "let's be friends instead". That's when you become a pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:43 PM
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I did make a difference between actual friendships with women and being a pet. I encourage you to please read my post again if it was too difficult the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:42 PM
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Sure! But that sentence really does not catch the grasping character of the friendzone. I felt I had to elaborate on that aspect specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:31 PM
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Has anyone picked you yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:38 PM
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Do you have the study? Sounds interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 12:38 PM
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Yes women have their struggles too. Just like multimillionaires, they have some problems too, will somebody please think about the poor multibillionaires please
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:05 AM
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For them anything that reinforces all the traditional masculine role without reinforcing the traditional feminine role is positive masculinity. In other words, we have to be traditional but they can do whatever the fuck they want, so there is no balance for us and all the benefits for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:30 PM
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Sometimes it's exceptions, most other times is Beta buxx
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:10 AM
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Well, not every woman is hypergamous, and many women are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:51 PM
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Women don't tend to be falsely accused for that lol. It's like seeing a white rich guy in prison, you can be sure he probably did the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:48 PM
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This thinking is why nobody takes women seriously anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:23 AM
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No fucking way dude. First, she's a criminal. Second, no other red flag is bigger than that. Third, can you imagine if things don't work out and she rejects you? Lmao being rejected by a sex offender, I'd rather kill myself with a Gillette razorblade. Although out of curiosity I would like to know the crime lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:21 AM
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You're being deliberately stupid. Bro how can you not see how flirting is an intimate thing. The way you're phrasing it you could even say that sex is not intimate as long as there is no kissing and the socks stay in if two people agree to that. I've seen down syndrome kids with more common sense. MONOgamy means ONE and if you're going to do any sexual advance with more than ONE then it's not MONOgamy. At this point you have to be trolling. If you want to chuck your girlfriend go on man do it, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:58 PM
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Your definition is deliberately unprecise. The line of monogamy is commitment, in word and in action. Anything intimate in romantic or sexual ways with another person is the opposite of commitment, for example, a sexual advance. like flirting’ then how far do you want to push that and why? I don't want to push it, I'm not stupid. If I have a gf I will not be flirting or doing any sexual advances (flirting is a sexual advance) on anyone else. If she wants do it she is free to do it and I'm free t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:50 PM
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We can debate definitions all you want. But the way I see it it's just stupid people doing stupid things who will feel stupid when a stupid thing happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:44 PM
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By that logic open relationships are still monogamous because there is no commitment between the people fucking whilst still in a relationship and the people agree that fucking isn't the line but commitment. Remember that the end goal of flirting is sex. So what you describe is like playing with matches in a straw house but not wanting a fire to break out, it's a stupid thing to do. I mean if stupid people want to do stupid things I will not stop them, but if I see something stupid I'm most defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:27 PM
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Because that thing they were doing is actually fucked up. Revolutions bring many things good and bad. The sexual revolution brought many good things but also some bad and one of them is every form of cheating being acceptable, commonly known as polyamory. Don't get me wrong, to each one their own, but I have never seen a stable, non toxic and mature polyamorous relationship. This sexting thing does sound like polyamory but more cautious. In that sense, here is how your comment sounds to me and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:20 PM
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Nah, I pretty much like all the features you said we don't like safe for the old age related ones, but I'm young so I can afford that. Oh and maybe flat butts is also a no, I am a relatively big butted man and I can't allow a girl I date to have less butt than me lol. Yes all of those features are natural, just like for men short height, small dicks, receding hairline, fat belly, inability to grow beards, etc... Everyone is allowed to have their preferences. If anything, women are way more super…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:05 AM
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And when you actually account for the fact women are around children more than men, men are disproportionately responsible for physical abuse of children. What a jump. If you account for the fact that men are physically stronger than women you realize the reason why violence SEEMS to be perpetrated by men. Women are equally violent if not more, as it's shown by the fact that lesbian couples have the highest rate of violence amongst any type of couple. Removing men from the equation shows that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:40 AM
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That's true, I can't argue against that. On the other hand Women are ihenrently violent against children and each other, the crime stats prove it, as women are on the majority, the perpetrators of child violence, infanticide, and fetal abduction. It's just in their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:19 AM
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Oh how lovely for you that you were able to just up and leave without becoming homeless and separated from your children. Well duh, the whole point is leaving the abuser before you live together and have children. There is a long way between starting a relationship and living together and having children. If you do not leave the abuser the You won’t defend an abuser, but you also won’t blame them will you? Not if they’re a man anyway. What would it take for you to say “men who abuse women are tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:07 PM
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Who am I personally not allowing to divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:53 PM
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Interesting that you are having so much difficulty placing accountability on the abusive person. I will never defend an abuser. But if you put a hand on a crocolide's mouth and leave it there, is it the crocolide's fault that you lost your hand? If a woman hits a man, whose fault is it? If a woman hits a man and the man stays with her he is completely at fault for that. My ex had a tendency to dismiss me and sometimes insult me. It was small, it was a spec on the whole picture of how loving she …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:33 PM
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Cheating and abusing are different things made by different people. You can't predict cheating but you can't predict abuse. There is no way to tell, these guys can play pretend good guy for years. No they don't. I've seen abusive boyfriends in action, that's what their gfs like, until they don't. A friend of mine had her bf on their first month burn a cigarette on her. At that point, whatever happened afterwards was her fault tbh. Not all men of course, many do pretend, but too many women go for…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:28 PM
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Flair Checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:25 PM
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I want to politely ask you to don't put words in my mouth. My argument is twofold: Many ugly women go for generic chads in the same manner as conventionally unattractive women do. Many women of course do not fit into this criteria. I am considering as indicator the way an individual acts, whilst you're considering they things they say. I propose that many women do in fact lie to save face. In other words, you are undermining my argument based on the common assumption that women are saints, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:54 PM
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Bias is when I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:34 PM
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Maybe they need to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:25 PM
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And you have no idea how many women I've talked to (being a woman) who are not obsessed with the Chad figure men seem to believe reigns supreme. And I believe you, I know many, maybe most women aren't that stupid. That being said, I've also met many women who say they like one thing when in reality they like another thing. Believe it or not, women can lie and they can say their standards are not the generic chad and then proceed to date only date generic chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:14 PM
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You have no idea how many fat and ugly women I have met who do expect a stereotypical chad. My last ex was fat but really pretty and the fact that she got with me meant she didn't want that stereotypical chad. Well, sometimes she would tell me she wish I was taller... Before her I briefly dated many women who you'd not consider typically attractive, but they had their charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:14 AM
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She can say no and she is also using him for his body. There is nothing wrong with "using someone for their body" as long as it remains a mutual consensual usage of each other's bodies. That's essentially what hook ups and fwb are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:01 AM
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Women in western countries That's my point, not many non westerners over here. It is after all an English speaking sub, discussing pill phenomenons which overwhelmingly affect those countries especially. No need to be advocating for the women of Iran or Pakistan over here. I'm not just talking about third world countries, women still struggle getting access to equal opportunities in western nations. Just because Afghanistan doesn't give women any rights doesn't mean that western nations are egal…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:41 PM
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Well yeah, I guess if we consider that subsaharan Africa, the Muslim World and India have more population than other places. However, the majority of the people here in this sub do not live in those societies, and comparisons with them do not apply. It is necessary we establish the correct analysis context before we make any weird claims. If anything, and a personal anecdote of course, being a man has indeed hindered me from getting job opportunities. Women in the modern age have statistically m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:34 PM
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Men seek employment, go to school, build their careers, purchase assets and services using their wealth, start businesses, seek medical care And women don't? I mean I get your point that it's worthless debating about the seex Access thing, but here you seem to be repeating the narrative that men have it better in every other aspect of their life despite that not being the case in many societies nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:13 PM
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Everyone’s an asshole sometimes Idk most people don't burn cigarettes on their girlfriends. By all accounts and by all rational metrics, people like that should not attract any women, but they do. Many women do like assholes, the bad boy type and such, and denying it won't change it. Men don't pretend to be perfect and then start acting like monsters after they get married, there are always signs. Hence the quantity of abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:07 AM
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So you genuinely believe that all women are highly rational beings that always choose the best possible course of action that brings the most benefit to themselves at all times and every time? A true homo oeconomicus? No human is like that. Bluepillers claim, with some truths, that redpillers are always messing with imaginary concepts. But bluepill conceptions are not really far from Weber's idealtypus, as in, fully imaginary. Women date assholes all the time, they marry them and bear their chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:47 AM
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I would assume that was common knowledge, my mistake for overestimating. Merriam Webster Asshole: (usually vulgar): a stupid, annoying or detestable person Cambridge dictionary Asshole: (mainly US offensive): an unpleasant or stupid person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:55 AM
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So it ain't even a correlation, what's then the point of the sentence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:02 AM
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Many assholes I know aren't single for long. They switch girlfriends a lot, but don't stay single for long periods of time. That applies to asshole women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:13 PM
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Could you please provide such statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:32 AM
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I think what OP means is that, women who think like you and apply such believes seem to be an exception and not the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:47 PM
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I mean, I just decided to not believe a claim you said. Perhaps if you used more compelling arguments you'd be taken more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:29 PM
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If I have learned something is my life, is that people, especially women, say a lot of stuff. Say they are this, they are that, they like this, they don't like that... But in reality it's just a façade. Just because someone says something it doesn't mean it's true, especially if it's a very radical statement in the sense of "I have never" or "I would never. Allow me to take the liberty to apply that life lesson to your comment. I have never objectified any man im my life, I can read them like an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:59 PM
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If women are the most empathetic sex then good lord is humanity fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:54 AM
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Very well man, your rational choice is to lay back and stay away from women and such is what you will do. The rest of us will just keep on with our normal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:09 PM
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I'm not a woman, but like, sex without love is not any better than masturbating. What's more, women have a risk of pregnancy which men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:05 PM
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They are not mutually exclusive, women are choosy and still manage to land with abusive assholes. "Choose better" doesn't mean "have more standards", it means "reconsider if the standards you currently have are reasonable and work on your favour". You have no idea how many women with many standards I know that manage to find the most abusive assholes to start relationships with and I believe it's because their standards are superficial and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:04 PM
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Being too forward about sex That totally works if she thinks you're attractive, even it has worked for me. So yeah this one is all about attraction Becoming easily offended True, but that's something I mostly see on women, most men are pretty chill Not being funny Can't argue with that. Although if you're attractive you're automatically more funny than people who aren't. Many unfunny chads out there blasting pussy all around. Talking about himself, rather than asking her questions Again, if you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:43 PM
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The problem is not that women have high standards, it's that they don't think they need to meet standards as well. So let's say all of us men step up and we all become the ideal men every woman wants. What's left for us? A group of narcissistic, whiny, unfit, immature, unloyal, incoherent, promiscuous, self centered and frankly kinda dumb women who think they deserve everything just for existing. Hoeflation is a real issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:31 PM
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They are personal categories, the affect only the way you perceive the person, adding your half of the relationship goes beyond the point of categories. Is obviously not objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:16 PM
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Categorising is human, your monkey brain has a pattern seeking nature that is amplified in social contexts. Categorising is not dehumanising or inmoral, it's a personal help to understand the social world, you do it, I do it, it's our nature. You can be a caring individual interested in people's stories AND categorise. Some people like me have a harder time doing things naturally and categories help a lot, so we go a step further than most people in that regard, though, we all categorise to some…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:10 PM
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In the humanities saying everything is unique is the closest you can get to truth, but it's not how you begin understanding stuff. Categorising and generating typologies of axioms, that's how you understand. You seem to not need to understand though, that's respectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:55 PM
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"Material" is just a category, just like your brain categorizes friends from colleagues from lovers from your wife. Connection depth is a good indicator, not the only one but a main one. Yo seem to be clear of what you want, that's good. Categorising is human and you're not above it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:37 PM
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What an amazing way to say "I categorize them after I meet them", which is, you know, the usual thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:21 PM
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I'm on a similar boat, although I have gotten to the sex part before formalizing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:18 PM
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But could you marry them, have kids and stay with them till the end no matter the troubles that come?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:17 PM
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Because they are just looking for validation. For such women, men who aren't chads are essentially toys, emotional support pets. They play with you for a while and then leave. I was just like you man, focussed on school, introverted and kind, those traits attract women who will take advantage of you. You seem to be pretty nice and kind, and with no intention of offending , a bit naïve too. You seem to be kind of a simp too. You are the perfect prey. My advice is to stop giving women attention, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:09 AM
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I personally can't imagine making out with my friend group (or even acquaintances) and random strangers all willy dilly. The first time I kissed a stranger was a girl at a party and it felt gross so I never did it again. But I'm no judge so y'all do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:02 PM
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Whatcha mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:55 PM
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No need for a rock club, anywhere will have that reaction. Its a close knit scene- most people have slept with each other at some point. Lol. Wtf, I'm in the rock scene too, metal and punk specifically and that most definitely does NOT apply. Personally that's kinda gross tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:21 PM
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People say many things and then do many things they say they don't do. Women say they don't fuck right away and then fuck right away, people lie. Why is it so deep that she had sex with me that soon? I guess she just liked me and wanted to fuck me, who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:06 PM
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Yeah, so did the girl that slept with me after 1 week
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:49 PM
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Huh, it's amazing how little women have to worry about having a man accompanying her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:48 PM
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That's just about 2 every year, I understand they were long relationships right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:32 PM
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That's only fair, even I as a man wouldn't give it on the first date. I need to at least trust her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:23 PM
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Oh nothing, just saying. Take that as you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:12 PM
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Also- I've spent most of my life in monogamous long term relationships. The hook ups were the 6 month periods in between. Lmao probably a triple digit body count
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:16 AM
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Yeah I've known several women who have said this lmao, they're usually lying. One of them I even dated, she told me she waits for 2 months and has very high standards. We were having sex after literally a week, on the 4th date lol. At this point those words are just a formality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:11 AM
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