Pepper-Jun Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
847	You can't become good at seduction (or anything) by reading about it online. You have to try it, fail, then learn from your failures.	Inner Game	Pepper-Jun	/r/seduction	14/02/21 08:18 AM

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1	How to ask out more girls? The strategy of randomly approaching and asking out girls just really isn't a good method. I don't know how dating apps are affecting things, but it's from my understanding that most long-term relationships are formed with co-workers and fellow students and the amount of times I've met a couple who formed via cold-approaches is zero. Think about it, if the success rate of a given method is 10% according to the people here (which I think is a huge exaggeration, it's more like 1/100), then that do…	/r/seduction	22/02/21 07:16 AM
11	Chatting with the girl who works at busy cafe Do not engage a person who is working under any circumstance. She's not a person to be seduced she's a person trying to make a living and by asking her out or coming on to her (especially during her job) you're making her uncomfortable and putting her in a tough position. but the girl I have my eye on is very friendly and makes great eye contact with me. That's because it's her job to be friendly with customers.	/r/seduction	17/02/21 02:21 AM
1	No reaction after great first date ? Since this point I’ve got no message from her (it’s been over 24 hours now). The important thing is to not panic or let it get to your head, people have lives of their own and can't always devote time to chat and keep updated. A day is very little time to not speak to someone, especially in such chaotic/stressful times. What motivation could you think of to change the messaging behavior that drastically? The only way you will find out her motivation is by asking her. More likely than not it has …	/r/seduction	17/02/21 01:59 AM
3	You can't become good at seduction (or anything) by reading about it online. You have to try it, fail, then learn from your failures. Being well-rounded certainly increases your odds, but it is not a "need" or prerequisite to putting yourself out there. Illiberal people achieve success all the time, and I'd wager you're far more likely to get a girlfriend by being your pudgy/awkward/weird self and putting yourself out there then by being well rounded and staying at home because you want to decrease the odds of failure by waiting until you're "ready" to get a girlfriend. Success isn't up to you because there's another person th…	/r/seduction	14/02/21 06:09 PM
7	Tried and failed I'm honestly not too sure which part you failed at. You asked people out, were respectful both times, they liked your approach, but circumstances dictated that they couldn't reciprocate. It's like if I make the effort to go over to the gym and I find the gym is closed that day, you wouldn't say that I failed at going to the gym. There's only so much control you can have over your situation; you can either stay at home or you can ask someone out. Whether they yes isn't dependent on you, so of the…	/r/seduction	14/02/21 06:17 AM
6	How to be More Charming with Women It's difficult to be more charming because the logical follow up is, "more charming to whom?"; different women will find different things charming. You can only be the best version of yourself and to put yourself out there. Some women will be receptive to it, some won't. Also be straight up honest with your nervousness, if you have a nervous demeanor yet you're doling out other people's pickup lines then most women will be confused why this nervous person is using the language of confident peopl…	/r/seduction	14/02/21 06:04 AM
9	Trouble getting dates It's difficult to give helpful and specific advice if you only give two sentences worth of information so any advice given is vague and may be completely off the mark, with that being said, here goes: It's on average more difficult to find and maintain relationships while in the military. I've heard lots of stories of military marriages/relationships going south because of the stresses the career brings. If you're not sure why, examine at what step things go south. Do you never get dates? Do you…	/r/seduction	14/02/21 05:48 AM