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GeneralPepperclue_55/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:44 AM
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Legalizing doesnt magically change peoples hearts and minds but over time it affects things
/r/AntiFeminists15/06/22 04:32 AM
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I agree. Blue collar jobs basically reduce a person to a machine. You mus do your job, or you are super replaceable just like a part in a machine. I think this is a good theory.
/r/MensRights15/06/22 03:26 AM
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What? You can expect respect as a human being
/r/AntiFeminists15/06/22 02:34 AM
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Whores deserve respect?
/r/AntiFeminists15/06/22 02:28 AM
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I wish sex work was normalize and legal. It would not be as harmful to workers and might actually benefit lonely men
/r/AntiFeminists15/06/22 02:27 AM
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I meant it as a compliment- this sub is usually pretty analytical of accusations and shit wanting to know the whole story.
/r/MensRights15/06/22 01:46 AM
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Lmao no context allowed? This sub wouldnt accept this if the genders were reversed without more explaination tho?
/r/MensRights15/06/22 01:27 AM
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Sharing tips is pretty normal, shes either a weirdo or you said something weird as you gave it to her lmao. Can I ask for more details about the exchange?
/r/MensRights15/06/22 01:13 AM
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Huh?
/r/MensRights14/06/22 04:03 AM
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I always said Me Too was for men as well, and I had several feminist friends block me for it. It made ne sense to me, i always knew men could be victims.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 03:43 AM
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I fucking HATE SKYLER!! bc she did her best the entire fucjing show to undermine and betray her husband. Fu ck that bitch.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 03:36 AM
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Start adovcating for specific things, centralize the GOALS. Do we want both sexes drafted? Etc Having actual achievable demands is the first step imho. What convinced me to listen to my male friends about MRA stuff was first when they said they wanted a simple thing: presumption of 50/50 childcare nationally. I said, well duh isnt that a thing?! It was a common ground, achievable goal.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 02:50 AM
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Hope!! HOPE!! https://www.thecity.nyc/housing/2021/11/8/22771214/manhattan-billionaires-row-homeless-shelter-opens-after-legal-battle?_amp=true
/r/MensRights14/06/22 02:41 AM
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This shiws how deeply ingrained the 'women good men bad' thing is in our society. Men need shelters too, wtf?! They are okay with hundreds of men working in a factory near them, but not a few dozen men who need help?? Men are human too, I think this is a terrible outdated and bigotted stereotype. Fucking Fuck.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 02:39 AM
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This is a good phrase, is think it describes the toxic aspects of feminism SO well
/r/MensRights14/06/22 02:22 AM
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Isnt it bc a 'strong man- is already a sterotype? Whereas syrong woman used to be an oxymoron?
/r/MensRights14/06/22 02:19 AM
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Pink tax usually refers to the extra cost of feminine products or products marketed toward women. Sale tax is applied to all objects based on category. Am I incorrect?
/r/MensRights13/06/22 11:23 PM
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Whats the mens tax??
/r/MensRights12/06/22 09:13 PM
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Your self troling right now, keep it coming 🤣😭🤣
/r/MensRights10/06/22 09:21 PM
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Cause im already there lmfao, how old are you?
/r/MensRights10/06/22 09:20 PM
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Your the one writing essays bro 🤣
/r/MensRights10/06/22 09:19 PM
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Buh bye little guy
/r/MensRights10/06/22 09:16 PM
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Again: internet points do not matter. I was a feminist, never denied that. Just said im not a feminist now. And I don't hate men at all- seems like projection of your animosity towards me and women in general. I am in a loving and commited relationship with a man... Love is nice. Makes you happy. I hope you can find it.
/r/MensRights10/06/22 09:10 PM
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You are absolutely as delusional as feminists are
/r/MensRights10/06/22 09:02 PM
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I am laughing bc you seem so angry... Please remember to touch some grass, internet points do not matter. I am learning, and one thing Ive learned is sadly a group of men here hate women and its thinnly veiled by 'you alls' and ad homonyms. Thanks for the chat, have a good dsy
/r/MensRights10/06/22 09:01 PM
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Darling. I mean cooking in the 1800's.
/r/MensRights10/06/22 08:45 PM
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This is important!! I grew up in the country and I swear a lot of violence happened bc people were bored! And they would provoke others just for entertiainment!
/r/MensRights10/06/22 06:15 PM
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This is a solid argument for opening mens shelters!!!
/r/MensRights10/06/22 06:14 PM
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I strongly think it isnt about gender at all, its about opprotunity. Give women the opprotunity, physically or mentally, and they will commit tons of violent crimes too. I think men just more often have the physical opprotunity. Testosterone is linked to aggression but women also have testosterone and if they have more than average it can cause lots of personality and physical changes. Most criminals commit out of necessity. Out of desperation or hopelessness. And this system breeds so much of t…
/r/MensRights10/06/22 06:11 PM
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Im not a feminist, life IS HARD for everyone. And for the massive majority- the poor- both parents needed to work or cook, and watch some old school cooking shows. You'll see it wasnt as easy as grabbing out of the microwave
/r/MensRights10/06/22 05:26 PM
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A breif period of time 🤣 do you know how long recorded human history is? And when the agricultural revolution happened? Sir pick up a book bc we are in the breif period your talking about, several hundreds of years vs several thousands
/r/MensRights10/06/22 05:24 PM
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I like the succinct answer. I think it comes down to reproduce SUCCESSFULLY, it not just about popping out a baby. Its about finding someone to raise them with so they thrive, in know a ton of grandparents raising their grandkids- why? Bc they didnt give their kids a good chance to thrive by reproducing with addicts or assholes
/r/MensRights10/06/22 05:22 PM
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I know many men with depression, my own father used to cry and be miserable and I got him on antidepressants and his life is different. I think men are human, and humans are emotional. Its not a gender thing, its a human thing
/r/MensRights10/06/22 05:20 PM
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I think that is alpha male BS, perosnally I like a man who is open about his emotions and able to talk about them. Bc we all have them.
/r/MensRights10/06/22 07:10 AM
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We are talking before netfix right? History... As in when growing and making food involved both parents and kids for most humans?
/r/MensRights10/06/22 07:07 AM
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Question: What do you all think the origins if this norm are from? Why cant men express emotions? Presuming that causes or increases the suicides. And why do the numbers suggest men more prone to violence, or at least convicted more of violent crimes? It sounds like she was being an asshole and deflecting, it doesnt matter whats to blame its a problem that needs addressing.
/r/MensRights10/06/22 01:18 AM
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I am not sure how you think anyones lives were easy back then. Only the rich have ever had the luxury of laziness. Women had very few rights and agency in their lives. Which I think we can agree is bad, as well as a physical disadvantage in the time before guns. I dont think thats feminist to admit that, its just historically accurate.
/r/MensRights10/06/22 01:14 AM
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👍 im not attempting to argue in bad faith, I just personally saying people have accountability for their choices. Everyone sucks in this situation, and people should not be glorifying his actions at all. Thats my opinion
/r/MensRights07/06/22 08:09 PM
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She seems like a terrible person. Making up 'rules' of relationships too justify her being an asshole and a bad partner. I am sorry she lied to you, but those things should be normal and expected. Just finished making brunch for my partner and my father. And I enjoy doing it- and I am not special, most people are decent.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 06:40 PM
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Oh haha you thought I didnt know the outcome of the trial? Interesting well thanks for your free education
/r/MensRights07/06/22 06:19 PM
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I complete agree. I sincerely think we benefit from saying PEOPLE. PERSON. Gender defining us is part of the problem.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 06:13 PM
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What do you want me to say? This whole thing is imo
/r/MensRights07/06/22 06:11 PM
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This is a good post and a good reminder
/r/MensRights07/06/22 05:30 PM
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I am a woman, and I cook and clean and help my partner withbhis buisness by running the numbers and doing the soft mangering skills stuff. I remember the doctors appointments and get the tp when we are out. I spoil him and make him feel loved everyday, as he does me. Not sure how else to put it: we care for eachother.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 05:25 PM
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Life is too short to act as any animal simply eating shitting and reproducing. If thats fulfilling for you, in guess go for it, but I am here for a good time not a long time haha. I laugh everyday with my partner, we make eachother enourmously happy. There are highs and lows obviously but we are ride or die, and nothing else gives you a sense of security like a partner you can actually count on. Work on your bitterness folks. And stop being afriad of love and intimacy and trust. It puts the colo…
/r/MensRights07/06/22 05:16 PM
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And thats all you'll ever expirience sadly until your mindset changes. Look up self fulfilling prophecies.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 05:12 PM
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I am so glad not everyone agrees, wtf some men in this sub are scary
/r/MensRights07/06/22 05:10 PM
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If you read between the lines of a lot if comments, thats what its saying. Any comments that say 'all women are liars and cant be trusted' and shit too that effect, there is a undercurrent of 'men wouldnt do this, men dont do this... Bc men are better' People dont outright say things like this, but their beliefs are shown in their opinions of women
/r/MensRights07/06/22 04:54 PM
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I disagree with the self defense aspect bc he inserted himself into the situation as a minor. If I show up to a protest with a knife planning on 'defending law and order' and then stab someone, I was looking for a fight. As he was.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 04:51 PM
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I am shocked. Who gives a Fu ck if she was in a psychotic episode?? Does that excuse atrempted murder now?! This is incomprehensible
/r/MensRights07/06/22 02:09 AM
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Boy* You support vigilantism, just say that lmao. I do not. We can disagree on this without us attatcking eachother
/r/MensRights07/06/22 01:33 AM
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Lots of men here seem to believe it, but I agree they wont just up and say it
/r/MensRights07/06/22 01:29 AM
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And I disagree with the courts findings. As I am allowed my opinion. I think this whole story shows the terrible state of this country, and its fucking sad to me this bot thought he was doing the right thing.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 01:26 AM
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Yes, I watched some of the trial and lots of the footage. And my opinion is he was atrempting to uphold the law as a civilian. Which is vigilantism. We are all allowed our opinions here
/r/MensRights07/06/22 01:25 AM
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And again, I dont know their story. I just know they should not have been shot down by a child playing vigilante
/r/MensRights07/06/22 01:20 AM
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A person was shot in the streets, that is wrong. Not sure why you are trying to justify it. If you were shot on the street if wouldnt find skeletons in your closet to justify it.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 01:19 AM
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I dony know his story, but even criminals are people. Maybe he had false claims against him? Idk. But this was not justice and its crazy to claim it was
/r/MensRights07/06/22 01:15 AM
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You dont show up to fight and then claim self defense dude
/r/MensRights07/06/22 01:07 AM
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A boy with zero expirience in high stres situations brought a gun and used it. It is that simple, and that sad. We shouldn't glorify him, but instead pity him. His parents, community, and country let him down and now hes a murderer. He should not have gone at all.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 01:07 AM
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Amen!!
/r/MensRights07/06/22 12:19 AM
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I am a red cross instructor, lifeguard training is not the same thing as being first aid and cpr certified. Part of being well trained is knowing your level of training and serving to that level, there were many many adults with training who could have steped up. Again thats why I blame the adults in this situation for not giving him good guidance. I think glorifying vigilantism is wrong. 100%. Its going to get more people hurt, everytime.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 12:16 AM
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He didnt even have first aid training bro? And medics dont generally being guns with them? He had the gun bc he was planning on shooting if things got tense and he did. I blame the adults in his life. He has killed people and he will live with that forever.
/r/MensRights06/06/22 11:34 PM
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We are all just people. Some people lie, men and women. The majority of us just want to live in peace.
/r/MensRights06/06/22 06:52 AM
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I think that is spot on.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 09:41 PM
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This is a good point, bc alot of 'traditionalism' is toxic as shit!
/r/MensRights05/06/22 08:12 PM
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I think people are people, we are all individuals!! Gender is only one small part of our lives
/r/MensRights05/06/22 08:11 PM
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They said that girls gitting boys being normalized is toxic masculinity, not that the REASON girls hit boys is bc of that. The fact its funny when a girl beats up a boy, or when a women cuts off a dick, is bc its subverting the norms that a man is far to strong for a woman to fight. Why do we beileve that a woman cannot be of harm to a man? That is a cultural artifact from waaaaay long ago before feminism existed. I will happily elaborate if anyone is interesting is understanding the difference
/r/MensRights05/06/22 08:10 PM
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Again. I was mot believed... Amber was not beileved. It does no good to speak in absolutes.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 01:08 AM
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Hes just plain wrong, there are positive and negative parts of everything. Including masculinity.
/r/MensRights04/06/22 02:33 PM
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Those are all good points, I agree. The level of bodily violation feels worse as well I think for a woman, bc we are often overpowered and injured by sexual assault. Idj if thats the case with men if they get physical injuries, but both of us get mental and emotional scars. I agree about not pursuing people, thought I understand how it would be hard to be lonely and sexually unfulfilled for men while waiting. I think the tide is turning and lots more women are proactive and forward than they eve…
/r/MensRights04/06/22 04:11 AM
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If most of the dem party is, meaning not 100%, and none of the republican party is... Am I bad at math or is that less than 50%?
/r/MensRights03/06/22 10:38 PM
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I wonder why men vote less?? https://cawp.rutgers.edu/facts/voters/gender-differences-voter-turnout
/r/MensRights03/06/22 09:17 PM
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I looked and could not find any numbers of jow many self-proclaimed feminists are in office, men or women. But we know many women and men who are right leaning hate feminism and vote against it. I truly doubt feminism is the majority!!
/r/MensRights03/06/22 09:12 PM
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Most powerful positions ARE still held by men... Thats why I am baffled that mens rights are not addressed. Feminists dont actually have majority power, why are the men in power giving in to it??
/r/MensRights03/06/22 08:14 PM
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We all choose what risks we are comfortable with. Most people are not evil- so I choose to look for love and rhe family I want. Life is too short to live in fear, something Ive learned the hard way
/r/MensRights03/06/22 05:31 PM
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Faking consent happens bc of the fawn trauma response, when someone has expirienced violence or have fear of violence from not giving someone what they want, and then they freeze during the expirience. And btw men do this too. Awareness is important for everyone. Basically if your not getting enthusiastic consent. DONT DO IT.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 03:53 PM
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Sex is a dangerous act, its not nearly as casual as society has made it seem in the last 100 ish yrs. I beileve if your are in tune with your partner and you dont get self centered or selfish, its pretty easy to see lack of consent or changing consent. Body language, sounds, facial expressions. It boils down to pay attention to your partners, and dont fuck ppl you dont have a resonable reason to trust. It can still happen even if your do everything right sadly, bc shitty ppl exist. Thats why we …
/r/MensRights03/06/22 03:51 PM
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I hope men learn they can say things, women get disbelieved too we have just been encouraged to say it anyways. I think men should too!! I went to police and they didnt pursue my case, cops basically said he said she said and walked away. I wasnt believed. I still said something.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 03:48 PM
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Goddamn that article was so tragic. That is happening right now! I am glad word is getting out, and I think media is subject to print what sells and our brains react emotionally stornger to women and children being hurt than to men. I believe its almost biological, and society reflects this tendency. There was an interesting study on how people react to screams ill see if i can find it.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 04:08 AM
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No seriously wasnt me! I was confused too lol
/r/MensRights02/06/22 09:32 PM
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Its bad both ways
/r/MensRights02/06/22 08:03 PM
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I think its very unempathetic but the reason is that entitlement leads to shitty things, I think they are just reacting out of fear of what male entitlement to women creates. It also matters how you vent... if your vent is "Stupid women wont date me!!" vs "Im sad and lonely and really want a relationship" gets very different results
/r/MensRights02/06/22 06:50 PM
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From one of them: "Although only, perhaps, if we accept that dangerous premise Vasquez laid before the jury, with its clever echoes of the unsettling absolutism running through social media culture: that you either #believeallwomen, or treat the lot as liars. For those are not, and never have been, our only options.... Her legal team warned the jury that in refusing to believe Heard they would effectively be telling women everywhere that they weren’t to be believed either. If she really was lyin…
/r/MensRights02/06/22 06:25 PM
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I identify with Johnny, I can see through her facade bc of years of narcissistic abuse at the hands of my mom. Yup, they are good at making you crazy and then blaming you and becoming the victim.
/r/MensRights02/06/22 06:20 PM
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This is fantastic news!!
/r/MensRights01/06/22 05:21 PM
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Disturbing that these kids are being called incels!!
/r/MensRights01/06/22 05:16 PM
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Damsel in distress and all maybe? Its putdated as hella at this point, but still apart of our internal bias I think
/r/MensRights28/05/22 06:37 PM
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Can you tell me why was it successful?
/r/MensRights28/05/22 05:39 PM
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I dont think he means it in a positive way
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:38 PM
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This is an example of hatred of women in this otherwise productive sub. Male domination? Women need to learn humility?
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:38 PM
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I agree, I think mass incarceration in the us, drug war etc, created the first wave
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:36 PM
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I think this phenomenon shows that marriage brings risks to both sides
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:35 PM
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I did some reading. The women who lobbied for it wrote a book, its very interesting to see what expirience lead to this. It was apparently a big change from the historical precidence, wish I could find more for why parliment accepted it and changed status quo https://books.google.com/books?id=_zCbqYFUz_gC&pg=PA3&source=kp_read_button&hl=en&newbks=1&newbks_redir=0&gboemv=1#v=onepage&q&f=false
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:32 PM
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Because being chivalrous is being the 'bigger person', thats whar beingnnoble is right? Sacraficing yourself for others, the steong defending the weak etc
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:35 AM
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I do what either of those are. Sorry I dont have a terrible veiw of the world
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:31 AM
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What angle do you see? Why would people who by snd large love men, their fathers and brother and partners, indoctrinate an empath gap? I tend to beileve things grew organically from other deeply held beliefs, and thats why I base my opinion on that the belief men are expendable is that its heroic and chivalrous to sacrafice yourself for women and children. It was conditioned to us based on that standard
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:30 AM
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I think the large majority of people agree with you, men definitely matter. Keep the faith, the overcorrection will settle and we will be better for it
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:23 AM
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You marry someone because you love and respect them and want too declare that to the world? You dont make demands of your equal
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:19 AM
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I agree completely, its a terrible system for both sides
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:18 AM
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Why was it established? It was enacted in 1881, for a reason that was at the time relevant and true to society right? I think your failing to see that both thoughts are possible
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:17 AM
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I am sorry I have been coming across that way, I will take a step back and be more thoughtful of what I comment. I do appreciate the discussions I have on here.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 02:55 AM
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Why was tender years doctrine established in the first place? Social stererotypes about fathers in my opinion, caused this problem. The sad truth is men left behind are considered soilders stationed. They arent civilians in wartime. Like the automatic draft registry, its barbaric. But apparently, its culturally acceptable. I dont agree with that at all, anyone who wants to leave should leave, anyone who wants to fight should fight.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 02:51 AM
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I have an open mind, beileve it or not, and have been changing my mind all my life. When present new information and all that. I am here bc I dont believe theres any better source than primary, and I want to hear what you all have to say. I comment alot and usually have good discussions, im not here to troll.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 02:44 AM
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Lets assume my definition is bullshit. Im open to that. Whats your definitely? And im not talking the new shit. The word has been around for a long time and was once a neutral descriptor of society hierarchy. I didnt say that at all? Men made the rule bc 'chivalry' to 'protect women [and children]', as you said
/r/MensRights28/05/22 02:39 AM
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The common meaning is bullshit, I dont think we have to adopt new definitions for shit until is shown to be evident. Men wrote the rules to protect women. Which is exactly why men created 'women and children first', right?
/r/MensRights28/05/22 02:26 AM
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Thats what I am here doing. We all have bias, I cannot imagine how you could fail to see that.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 02:22 AM
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For your first question, id say bc women were deemed to have very few skills. One of which is child rearing. That men are not good fathers is a atereotype not created by women, but by expirience. Men are only in recent history becoming involves in childcare, that has been one of the few domains allowed to women in history. Second question, bc society decided women are too weak to be soilders. Its not so much about male superiority here, but female inferiority. We are too weak to be warriors ( no…
/r/MensRights28/05/22 02:14 AM
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I am describing human psychology! Bias affects us all, and it certainly affected men when they were doing things like writing laws! And thats not a dig on men, we are ALL unfortunately tied to our personal prospective. It takes alot to 'walk in someone's elses shoes' so to speak. Thats a human problem. Not particular to men.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 02:06 AM
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I never mentioned patriarchal theory? Men wrote the rules, in most societies. Thats fact. Humans are susceptible to bias. Thats fact. This lead to a early system that prioritized rich men formost. I am not claiming that. Again, the level of misunderstanding we are having here is incredible.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 02:04 AM
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I am not anti-male, and I dont think patriarchy is an anti-male word either. I dont think its a malevelent force created by men to ruing womens lives, its the order of our society that naturally arose due to mens physical superiority.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 01:54 AM
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He asked what patriarchy is. Its a term often used in history alongside matriarchy to describe who most often held power in a society. I did not create this word, it comes from a greek word meaning 'ruling father'.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 01:52 AM
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And you should stop engaging in bad faith. I get that you dont like what I said. But instead of trying to understand how or why i came to that conclusion, you make assumptions based on stereotypes. Its very depressing having this interaction, bc most people in this sub are able to treat me like any other thinking person. You seem stuck in your mental box, unable to wvwn engage with ideas you dont already hold. I feel for you, just like I feel for feminist who are so closed minded.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 01:35 AM
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Its is impossible to have a productive conversation with zero respect for who you are talking to. I am a person. Not a stereotype. I hope you consider that and stop projecting an image of what you think I am over my actual words and thoughts.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 01:27 AM
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Please dont out words or opinions in my mouth. This is what mean by stereotyping. Respond to what I said, not what you assume im meaning to say
/r/MensRights28/05/22 01:26 AM
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If you stop stereotyping me this conversation could be much more productive. Men arent evil. They are human. And we know that humans sometimes do shitty things put of necessity. Its often remarked in this sub that men are the disposable sex- this started on ancient times, and was self organizing meaning it was never intentionally created, but due to human nature it happened organically. It was common after war to steal or rape rhe women, as a means of genetic death of the other tribe. Women had …
/r/MensRights28/05/22 12:57 AM
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Thats a good point, though I think often if the children survives wasnless a numbers game and more a resources game, but definitely more kids equaled better chance. What about the fact that men died earlier and more often? Especially during wartimes?
/r/MensRights28/05/22 12:48 AM
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I would say it can be argued both ways- like the chicken or the egg argument. You have to consider WHY would people naturally have less empathy for men? There would be a cause, a reason it developed in our cultures. My opinion is that the why is bc men were considered very competent, and usually had leadership roles in the family and the state I.e. not the 'underdog' of society
/r/MensRights28/05/22 12:20 AM
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This comment gives me life. I beileve this too
/r/MensRights28/05/22 12:04 AM
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Yes, very smart man. I am idiot who knows nothing. Thanks for clearing that up!
/r/MensRights27/05/22 11:59 PM
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Interestinf how dowry is a common term but Ive never heard of bride price! I think is wasnt slavery by definition, but in all practical ways it often was
/r/MensRights27/05/22 11:23 PM
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Have you never heard of a dowry?
/r/MensRights27/05/22 10:45 PM
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How does that make sense? If all of a mans children died, he still HAD children, even though their genes may not be present today?
/r/MensRights27/05/22 10:37 PM
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For the record, making marital rape illegal is a good thing. Point blank. Rape is bad. WW2 was less than 100 yrs ago, which is why i say the foundations of patriarchy are old. Also, you describe exactly what I said about credit, women had a higher standard and without a man were virtually barred. A law had too be passed to change this
/r/MensRights27/05/22 10:33 PM
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Many women beileve men are superior? Gender empathy gap is the result of this,not the other way imho
/r/MensRights27/05/22 10:26 PM
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Its called benevolent sexism- stems from a belief that men are superior. We call need help
/r/MensRights27/05/22 06:46 PM
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The parent comment literal says this never happened... And we both agree it did? Women have had natural selection too, thats all my point was
/r/MensRights27/05/22 06:16 PM
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I will google about that, I always assumed as paternity was harder to determine, as were reporting adultery, the realities of those number were just harder to track vs a woman gives birth so she cant hide a baby lol
/r/MensRights27/05/22 06:13 PM
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Lmao learning from amber heard? "Yes, men have personally killed women who disrespected or harmed them..."
/r/MensRights27/05/22 06:11 PM
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Morals are socially defined, thats why they differ from palce to place, religon to religon?
/r/MensRights27/05/22 05:26 PM
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Almost no natural selection in humans?? Natural Selection: genetic disorders/immune deficiency/mental health disorders to name a few Sex Selection: attractiveness, body shape, golden ratio, fertility ​ I am very very confused, you think morality comes from our genes??
/r/MensRights27/05/22 05:16 PM
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So we agree, women who harmed men have been killed in the past? All im saying is women were not immune from the effects of poverty, famine, or pestilence.
/r/MensRights27/05/22 04:39 PM
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Because for most of us, love and family is still a primal and primary drive
/r/MensRights27/05/22 04:30 PM
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... Men never killed women that annoy or disrespect or harm them? Thats seriously what you think?
/r/MensRights27/05/22 04:27 PM
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... Do women have a moral compass is their being? You think women are a different species than men? No, there are asshole women and asshole men. And women have gone through 'dna deletion', what a weird way to say natural selection or sexual selection, just the same as men. It took resources to keep kids alive back in the day, those with more resources or access to those passed their genes along. And those without.. Didnt. For both genders.
/r/MensRights27/05/22 04:26 PM
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I encourage you to ask an elderly woman their expirience. But also, google the Equal Credit Opprotunity act of 1974. Im not sure how you missed this part of american history... Its not even a 'gotcha' lol its just... What happened
/r/MensRights27/05/22 04:16 PM
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I didnt say it benefited all men, but it did benefit men more than women, which us what we were discussing
/r/MensRights27/05/22 04:07 PM
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Full stop: this is part of the problem. Men can be beat up by women, and unless we recognize that male victims of assault or domestic violence will continue to be ignire.
/r/MensRights27/05/22 04:06 PM
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Then why do we describe cultures as patriarchal or matriarchal etc in history class? Bc they are descriptive words about a cultures are organized
/r/MensRights27/05/22 03:53 PM
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IMHO this thinking is literally part of the problem, men being seen as more competent and needed less assistance- when in reality men have issues that need to be addressed. Mens Rights would benefit from society recognizing men are not superior
/r/MensRights27/05/22 03:52 PM
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Men need help too, no I dont expect to receive more help bc im a women. Thats not equality
/r/MensRights27/05/22 03:50 PM
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Marital or spousal rape wasnt illegal nationwide until 1993, and there are still states that treat it as a lesser crime than nonmarital rape. That benefited men almost exclusively and I was born before it was changed.. And it still needs improvement. Another example would be how women were excluded from banking until the 1960, and from credit until 1974.
/r/MensRights27/05/22 03:30 PM
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I disagree that cultures and laws that cast adult women as less competent than men, like a child as you said, benefited women as equally as men. That makes... No sense to me. We do want equal rights, and I want equal responsibility.
/r/MensRights27/05/22 03:23 PM
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I am from usa, so I am not sure if its a pond barrier lol, but fir me its scientific. If you are talking homo sapiens, you use female and male bc those are how you sort the data. For colloquial terms, you use women and man because that means Human. You dont call a female dog a women except in jest. But lately I have seen 'scrote'.. Wtf?! Dehumanization is evil and both sides are forgetting that
/r/MensRights27/05/22 04:57 AM
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Imho it ALWAYS seems unnatural. Your method works great. I worked in labs and female and male and are neutral labels, but when one gender get man and the other in the same context gets female. Thats a problem
/r/MensRights27/05/22 03:14 AM
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Imho it ALWAYS seems unnatural. Your method works great. I worked in labs and female and male and are neutral labels, but when one gender get man and the other in the same context gets female. Thats a problem
/r/MensRights27/05/22 03:11 AM
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Oh that makes sense! I definitely got sucked into the hard ideology in college, so good luck to you in the future
/r/MensRights27/05/22 02:40 AM
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Oh that makes sense! I definitely got sucked into the hard ideology in college, so good luck to you in the future
/r/MensRights27/05/22 02:19 AM
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That is absolutely a great point, I often point out that the wealthy have more power than the poor regardless of other demographics! I.e. a black disabled rich guy generally has more social power and agency than a poor white able bodied guy
/r/MensRights26/05/22 11:36 PM
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Its pretty common knowledge, but the first link in google when i typed in 'early western marriage culture' https://weddings.lovetoknow.com/wiki/History_of_Weddings#:~:text=Instead%20of%20taking%20place%20between,groom%20before%20the%20wedding%20day.
/r/MensRights26/05/22 11:35 PM
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You do realize Im not talking about the last 100-150 yrs? Im talking the foundations of our society, which certainly has roots in older customs? Being rich has always made you more powerful, and churches are rich. They do lobby and make influence, and have historically done so too
/r/MensRights26/05/22 11:32 PM
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Okay gotcha, I agree then, generalizations fucking suck and so do hypocrites
/r/MensRights26/05/22 10:08 PM
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I beileve in early human days yes, but there was obviously a large timeperiod where women were essentially objects to be bought or sold by their fathers to future husbands. We cant forget that part of human history
/r/MensRights26/05/22 10:05 PM
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The people in power have the biggest influence on how a society is shaped. Thats why religous groups have had such a huge influence, they had power. The reason I mention the massive changes in recent history is the only reason laws no longer exclude or discriminate against women is bc they have been largely changed.
/r/MensRights26/05/22 10:03 PM
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So you disagree with my points? He asked so I explained. I think its a responable assertion about modern history
/r/MensRights26/05/22 09:36 PM
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I saw the statistic that 1 in 2 murdered women are killed by an intimate partner. Maybe that why they specified this would help protect women in particular? Its awesome women can be reported too!!
/r/MensRights26/05/22 08:50 PM
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Nepotism is one big way for sure
/r/MensRights26/05/22 08:40 PM
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Patriarchy describes how culture, law, and traditions that still hold influence were written and designed by men, and intentionally or not, for men. Humankind has been around for a long time- the 'equality' we are enjoying now is a super recent development and was hard won. I think its hard to appreciate just how much society has advantance in the last 100- 150 yrs.
/r/MensRights26/05/22 08:35 PM
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I think it tends to show a level of bias in the writer, so it adds a certains stank to the question no matter how 'reasonable'. Like when someone uses 'thugs' only to describe black males. Its dehumanizing language and should always be avoided imho
/r/MensRights26/05/22 06:40 PM
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This seems like classic two wrongs dont make a right?
/r/MensRights26/05/22 06:05 PM
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Doesnt make me screech, but does bother me with the implied dehumanization
/r/MensRights26/05/22 06:05 PM
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I agree, it will level out eventually, especially as more men speak out
/r/MensRights26/05/22 06:03 PM
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I think figuring out how to determine SA cases more accurately is the most important way to make the systems more fair and just for all victims for sure
/r/MensRights26/05/22 05:59 PM
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bullies are fucking pathetic. I would start laughing at her, and literally say 'Its so pathetic how obsessed you are with me' haha, SHE will be the one who gets embarrassed then
/r/MensRights26/05/22 05:35 PM
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True, maybe the other things are sealed or something
/r/MensRights26/05/22 05:11 PM
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"Foskett, who has 19 previous convictions," He has been convicted 19 times. I have no doubt he is a sexual offender
/r/MensRights26/05/22 04:39 PM
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Sadly I work with people with disabilities here in the US... They are very vulnerable to DV and IPV bc of physical or intellectual imbalence.
/r/MensRights26/05/22 03:24 PM
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I will look it up thank you. I feel like the group and movement has been so misrepresented, Im glad I spent the time to actually listen
/r/MensRights26/05/22 05:29 AM
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Well usually thats how I see it represented. Its the skittles analogy, if i told you 1 skittle in the bowl was poisoned would you eat from the bowl just bc the chance is low? In that way I see the fear and hatred both ways. Men afraid of the 1 bad woman and women afraid of the 1 bad man.
/r/MensRights26/05/22 03:32 AM
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Exactly, golden rule is seriously so important for kids to learn
/r/MensRights26/05/22 02:07 AM
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Those are both great theories in my mind. Fear comes from trauma and leads to hate imho
/r/MensRights26/05/22 02:06 AM
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Those are both great theories in my mind. Fear comes from trauma and leads to hate imho
/r/MensRights26/05/22 02:06 AM
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Nope! Very interesting field though Imho Hyper focus is always a huge advantage IF its relevant lmao. My hyper focus on evolutionary biology and anti matter? Doesnt come up much lmao
/r/MensRights26/05/22 01:52 AM
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Stand your ground, unfortunately you need to bring condoms of your own, she could have sabotaged it as well
/r/MensRights26/05/22 01:16 AM
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That is ridiculous, have you never heard of the prospective problem?
/r/MensRights26/05/22 12:04 AM
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Luckily im graduated 8 yrs ago, but yes its unpopular. I try to realize its their ignorance, just like I was once ignorant, and not take their judgment personally
/r/MensRights25/05/22 11:39 PM
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We can agree to disagree, but toxic positivity is a pretty common term, I didnt make it up
/r/MensRights25/05/22 11:38 PM
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Your so close- if a woman was being bullied for not performing femininity, its toxic femininity. You could ahve thw same example if people are bullied for not being positive enough, called toxic positivity. Another example would be if someone was being bullied for not performing like a good athlete, that could be called toxic athleticism. See the pattern?
/r/MensRights25/05/22 10:52 PM
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A system where trauma and lack of social skills are recognized as a barrier to normal functioning in a society. Rehabilitation, not time out
/r/MensRights25/05/22 09:02 PM
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'but you women' 'I'm one of those girls' Just curious for context to your comment, are you a woman?
/r/MensRights25/05/22 08:22 PM
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I think its a very real phenomenon- to take it out of gendered terms, I see it at work. Both male and female workers will feign difficulty completing tasks they dislike doing, with the hopes someone will do it for them or let them do it badly
/r/MensRights25/05/22 08:19 PM
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Very interesting points. I am actually diagnoised ADHD and aspergers, ASD now. So maybe that explains part of why its easier for me to break away from dogma and rigid thinking doesnt appeal
/r/MensRights25/05/22 08:17 PM
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Im a scientist/researcher at heart, changing my mind all the time. I always tell people the minute you have stopped learning is when you stop being right about stuff
/r/MensRights25/05/22 06:36 PM
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"Implementing these changes will not prejudice male offenders. In fact, it is likely that the opposite will occur. It will encourage a normatively sound and empirically grounded assessment of sentencing law and policy. This would result in a bifurcated sentencing system, whereby imprisonment was largely reserved for only serious sexual and violent offenders. This approach would greatly benefit the approximately 50% of male US and Australian inmates who are imprisoned for other types of crimes, s…
/r/MensRights25/05/22 05:24 PM
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Alot of 'humor' isnt funny at all. Its cruel. But humans apparently find cruelty hella funny- look up the acience of humor, its so interesting
/r/MensRights25/05/22 05:18 PM
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EX- fucking-actly
/r/MensRights25/05/22 05:03 PM
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I never had one tbh, I have never been hateful towards men bc of my life expirience has shown me everyone can be abusive. It was a realization that I was only being told one side of the story and was being indoctrinated not even listen to the other side of it- to shut it down immediately bc its HATE!! It always seemed wrong to me, bc I believe in the golden rule. If I want you to reapect my opinion, I should at least be willing to listen to yours respectfully whether or not we agree
/r/MensRights25/05/22 04:58 PM
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Different movements, though they happened similar time
/r/MensRights25/05/22 04:55 PM
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Thats where the term comes into existance: to describe toxic ways masculinity gets reinforced
/r/MensRights25/05/22 04:55 PM
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❤️
/r/MensRights25/05/22 04:54 PM
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Yup, and thats when it becomes a huge problem. Your right, nothing should become religiously held and unquestionable!!
/r/MensRights25/05/22 04:50 PM
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I did not mean to be condescending at all, I guess I should have said thank you to those who have been welcoming to ME. I do think members fo the group should be centered in many advocacy- thats all I meant by welcoming, bc if y'all didnt want me here I would leave. I dont think its right to take up space as someone who doesnt expirience what you all do. Maybe im wrong, still learning. MRA isnt a hate movement. That was my point, I have seen it represented that way and I believed it was for a lo…
/r/MensRights25/05/22 04:47 PM
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...no? DEF not lmao. #me too was used by some of my male friends to say they had been sexually harrassed or assaulted... Too. They heard the stories and went... Me too. It was good for society to have the conversation brought up so strongly. Sexual crimes are everywhere and happen to everyone
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:49 PM
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Im so glad to see so many of us are on the same page, thank you
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:47 PM
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Its a label that has so much baggage with it, its not productive. I support equal rights for ALL groups.
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:46 PM
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P.s ID did lose friends for saying Me Too was form both men and women. To me it was, but to a male feminist friend of mine it was not! We have never talked since
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:30 AM
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How did it shut down men?
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:29 AM
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I know men who used the hashtag
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:28 AM
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I know men who used the hashtag?
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:27 AM
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Me too was about soreading awareness of the plague that is sexual assault in our world. I believe both men and women should ahve spoken up about me too, nc it was baout showing the breathtaking size of the problem
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:27 AM
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Thats why we are here
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:25 AM
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.. Please read- when you are considering trial you have to assume both possibilities. You assume both can be lying and both can be telling the truth
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:24 AM
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I COMPLETELY agree. We should have a conversation about brain development and consent
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:20 AM
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This is a place for discussion. Men have issues. Men deserve to be heard. Participate or get out troll
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:19 AM
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Wait.. You do know only 2% of sexual assault cases end up charged and sentenced?
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:17 AM
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Umm... Im pretty sure they did. They represented rhe reality that often sexual assaults that DO occur cannot be prosecuted due to lack of concrete evidence
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:17 AM
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Did your relationship end? Its sad to think you ended it purely out of fear of a future accusation?
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:16 AM
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Power dynamics are SO complex in a relationship. A woman cna absolutely be dominate over a man. I think thats based on personality (disorder lol) vs gender
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:14 AM
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"It’s a welcome counterpoint to the cultural portrayals of dads as clueless and detached — and to even more damaging norms that encourage men to skip on some of the most fulfilling and intimate aspects of raising a child on the grounds that those tasks are women’s work." Definitely a back handed compliment, but it also shows the truth: men are generally regarded badly when it comes to parenting skills. I am glad, overall, that the image of an uninterested father is getting less popular.
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:12 AM
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Wait... What? Are you a troll, a feminist in disguise? Women usually dont choose to not breast feed, its that the baby cant latch properly, or they dont make enough milk, or the milk isnt nutritious enough...
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:11 AM
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Thank you 💙 I am alive, and working everyday to be a good human. So I think thats as best as I can do! I appreciate you
/r/MensRights25/05/22 03:05 AM
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The way the term is used, yes she was. Assuming shes telling the truth, there are lots of ways to show she didnt do the 'perfect' thing, of running, leaving, reporting, documenting right away. Also her vitriol towards him.being recorded many times? Imperfect. Assuming he is telling the truth, he also made lots of errors in judgement by not leaving a lot sooner, some videos show a not so pleasent side of him too. He us also imperfect. Again. The saying goes, the only perfect rape victim is dead. …
/r/MensRights25/05/22 02:29 AM
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I am convinced this is a turning point. Men can and should speak up, and this shows that people WILL believe them. I was abused as a child by both men AND women. Psychopaths come in both genders.
/r/MensRights25/05/22 02:25 AM
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What is the icelandic model if you dont mind me asking? I think both parents should be evaluated for fitness and then the best parent gets them, with 50/50 being the presedent if both are fit to be parents
/r/MensRights25/05/22 01:13 AM
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So in your mind, bullying is not a toxic or harmful thing?
/r/MensRights25/05/22 12:54 AM
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Absolutely!!
/r/MensRights25/05/22 12:49 AM
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You dont think taunting skinny men which gendered insults is harmful? Or are you in support of shaming men for their bodies and behaviora unless they are 'masculine'?
/r/MensRights24/05/22 11:44 PM
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It absolutely exists in my world. 'Men cant cry' "Men wearing bright colors/fashion is gay' 'Man working in a 'female field' is gay' 'Men have to be the breadwinners or they are a cuck/simp' literally could go on and on. This is hyper masculinity that is harmful to men, therefore a 'toxic' form of masculinity. Can you explain your veiw?
/r/MensRights24/05/22 11:36 PM
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This study shows women are often the one who is toxic/jealous in relationships, which is no surprise to anyone who has met women lmao... but how does it say anything about toxic masculinity?
/r/MensRights24/05/22 11:34 PM
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The awesome thing about studies is they show you life outside your bubble. There are so many factors that influence if people get divorced- its complex and certainly NOT a guarentee. I have this same discussion with women who say they cant take the subway or a taxi bc of the danger, or other black and white stances. Its sad to me, bc the fear is controlling their lives and its irrational.
/r/MensRights24/05/22 11:31 PM
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Theres alot of great info in there if you read it
/r/MensRights24/05/22 11:26 PM
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It shows how divorce rates are heavily affected by marital age, marital length and profession. And it certainly is not only '12% of marriages last 10 yrs' That is outright wrong?
/r/MensRights24/05/22 11:14 PM
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If you reveiwed the link I sent you would see it was a summary of over 100 studies. It shows, line by line, different findings. Im not sure why you think that legal office is a feminist?
/r/MensRights24/05/22 11:11 PM
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It is from 115 studies total? "DIVORCE STATISTICS: OVER 115 STUDIES, FACTS AND RATES FOR 2022 If you spend enough time perusing the internet, you’ll find no shortage of studies, statistics, facts about divorce. There seems to be a study looking into almost every possible factor that might affect marriages and lead to divorce. These studies have yielded some extremely interesting and – in some cases – downright shocking information about divorce in both the United States and the rest of the world…
/r/MensRights24/05/22 10:43 PM
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That is not the correct percentages at all: https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/
/r/MensRights24/05/22 10:19 PM
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You do know there are happily married heterosexual men out there? I hope you cna find trust and fiath again. Bc there are good women.
/r/MensRights24/05/22 10:12 PM
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Im curious how simple that would be? Honestly seems more reasonable to just not have children!
/r/MensRights24/05/22 09:55 PM
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Dont have sexual conversations with anyone, dont cross the touch barrier, and document any and all even slightly negative interactions
/r/MensRights24/05/22 08:58 PM
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top 10% of what? You do know you need an egg to fertilize, even for surrogacy? So... Some women must be involved and on the BC? Lol please elaborate that was kind of confusing
/r/MensRights24/05/22 08:49 PM
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Im suggesting a new system? If you want to be alone go for it, but if you want love and are heterosexual, you need to find some way to mitigate your fears and risks. Love and family are too important to me to ignore men out of fear
/r/MensRights24/05/22 08:37 PM
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He was blantant about endorsing gender bias in hiring? Thats a lawsuit waiting to happen, he became a liability to the company. Good riddance lol
/r/MensRights24/05/22 07:21 PM
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Misogyny is hatred of women. How is maintaining hatred preventing fascism? Most fascism forms and grows support based on hatred
/r/MensRights24/05/22 07:19 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights24/05/22 07:17 PM
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assholes don't accept responsibility. Women can be assholes, men can be assholes. Not ill women are assholes, not all men are assholes. The bias we hold against either gender helps no one. Also, my ex-fiance (a woman) begged and said sorry you come back after breaking it off. I have accepted responsibility for ending relationships. Even know when me and my bf fight, we both usually end up saying sorry!!
/r/MensRights24/05/22 07:00 PM
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Pretty great video!! Two notes: Mens contraceptive pills are possible, but apparently medical standards are higher than they were when the womans pill was approved so it was shut down. I say Fu ck that, men need pills NOW. Both parties need to agree to have birth or abortion. If mother wants abortion and father doesnt, he can pay her a surrogacy fee and she is free of all obligations after birth. If father wants abortion and mother doesnt, he is free of all obligations after birth.
/r/MensRights24/05/22 06:52 PM
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Assholes come in both genders...
/r/MensRights24/05/22 06:13 PM
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But men can be and often are imperfect victims of sexual assault too- the bias of gender like men cant be raped, men are always horny, if he got hard/came it wasnt rape, or presence of alcohol... For people who prosecute sexual assault this has already LONG been a term. It simply means 'case will be hard to win at trial'. Another common phrase is 'the only good rape victim is dead'.
/r/MensRights24/05/22 06:01 PM
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Its all good lol, I dgaf about internet points luckily lol, but yes... Good ol reddit 🤣
/r/MensRights24/05/22 03:27 PM
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I agree with you 100%
/r/MensRights23/05/22 08:44 PM
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Im not an expert but that usually how I define a rational vs a irrational fear: its rational if its likely, i.e. common enough or your at risk enough to be a likely hazard to you. A fear of sharks is irrational unless you swim off rhe horn of africa every day lol, for example
/r/MensRights23/05/22 08:43 PM
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Thats a good observation but I dont think its even that intentional. Our brains automatically filter out information if it is not deemed important to us in a very real way- thats why its hard to really care or even notice issues that dont affect you.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 08:23 PM
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Both fears are irrational, but it comes from an emotional place, not a rational thinking place. And for the record, I do tell women that it is unrealistic. You have to have some level of awareness that is COULD happen, but in reality you cant tell who is who- makes everyone looks scary for both men and women.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 08:10 PM
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I wont have trouble, I honestly just laugh and feel bad for those caught up in hatred, but ill try to pay more attention and link it here in the future
/r/MensRights23/05/22 07:16 PM
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Okay, ill try to just reply here in the future! I see it all the time, but dont have time to troll posts finding better examples. Sorry if you dont get that but I do have things to do. I absolutely disagree with your asssessment that that comment didnt show hatred towards women, your wearing rose colored glasses my friend
/r/MensRights23/05/22 07:07 PM
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Please and thank you becoming less common overall, in doubt it says anything more than this girl UN particular though
/r/MensRights23/05/22 06:55 PM
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Lets start a chat, and when it see the comments im referring to in real time I will link them for you? I am very interesting in advocating for mens rights and issues, I was just commenting what I have seen which sadly mirrors lots of feminist groups. Men hating women as a whole, its just sad.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 06:51 PM
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A comment saying this is what I think of them, linking a video of they are all cunts, is unrelated to men hating women? I dont think you have the cognitive capacity to see hatred in your own group
/r/MensRights23/05/22 06:24 PM
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Your right, vulva would be dick I guess
/r/MensRights23/05/22 06:23 PM
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Okay lol... If you cant see the many many 'women are all [blank] comments in wonder if you need glasses 🤣
/r/MensRights23/05/22 06:20 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/uvhe4s/why_is_it_okay_to_teach_a_man_how_to_treat_a/i9noei1?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/MensRights23/05/22 06:17 PM
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Yes specific comments, I have never linked specific comments before I thought you meant to whole thing. Specifically one comment links a video to 'women are all cunts' and says 'this is what I think of them'
/r/MensRights23/05/22 06:16 PM
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Lol im not gonna doctor shit but sure https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/uvhe4s/why_is_it_okay_to_teach_a_man_how_to_treat_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share This one has a Fuck ton of hate, dont know if they are men i guess.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 06:12 PM
-5

Yeha ill take some screenshots from literally the last post I saw on this subreddit, gimme one min
/r/MensRights23/05/22 06:02 PM
-6

I agree with your 😅 one of the reasons I avoid feminist spaces is bc of the ignorant men hating women there... And here there are so many women hating men... Just so much hate
/r/MensRights23/05/22 06:00 PM
1

There is so much hate on both sides... I see comments in this subreddit from men all the time saying 'all women are evil/cunts/liars'. I try my best to avoid both types of people, bc they are not thinking rationally at all
/r/MensRights23/05/22 05:54 PM
-2

I see lots of articles about how to treat a man to keep him happy so I am not sure what you mean. Maybe the algorithms show you how to treat women bc it knows your into women?
/r/MensRights23/05/22 05:35 PM
1

Yes, and this is why we have trouble building a bridge
/r/MensRights23/05/22 05:17 PM
4

I got a message like that recently, was very amused lol. I am a woman on this sub, and I am here to learn. If I eventually get banned I would be sad but I understand how it might be annoying having a questioning woman on a mens support sub. If there is a better sub for me to learn and engage in let me know and ill go there. I appreciate seeing the issues from a male perspective, its been very enlightening
/r/MensRights23/05/22 05:16 PM
3

Please realize womens boobs are analogous to mens boobs. We both have mammary glands. Balls =/= boobs. Vulva = Balls
/r/MensRights23/05/22 05:08 PM
6

This whole trial is a study in reactive abuse. Who was reacting is the confusion
/r/MensRights23/05/22 04:31 PM
5

I love how we are Heards 'tormentors'.... The fucking drama, how DARE we question a woman. I am a woman, I have been assaulted and DV and resented those who off the cuff didnt believe me, but I have also met lying crazy ass women. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 04:31 PM
2

Absolutely. I rack my brain trying to figure out a better wya to prosecute and investigate rape accusations. The systems sucks for both sides
/r/MensRights20/05/22 07:40 PM
2

I think all three hold/held incredible power in this country- they are great examples of accusations not being believed or ruining a mans life
/r/MensRights20/05/22 05:56 PM
6

Wtf this is not justice at all. Who did she know?!
/r/MensRights20/05/22 05:55 PM
1

Not 100% or what about Trump/Biden and Kavanaugh?
/r/MensRights20/05/22 05:25 PM
1

Out of 100% of accusations, how many do you think ruin a mans life vs get ignored?
/r/MensRights20/05/22 04:02 PM
-2

When it comes from a woman its not believed either. 2% are prosecuted remember
/r/MensRights20/05/22 02:07 PM
-4

Rape accusations are usually uninvestigated, so 'believe all women' does not equate to every accusation is believed. I am curious why is was so easily believed.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 05:42 AM
1

Oh yeah? I didnt get that from the article
/r/MensRights20/05/22 05:39 AM
5

Wtf there seems to be absolutely zero is vestigstion at all?! Which leads to two possibilities, it was so obvious or eggregious that it needed no investigation , or that he was shut out for another reason. I cant beileve he did sue someone if it was entirely false
/r/MensRights20/05/22 02:40 AM
2

Always. And sadly when you mess up and trust the wrong person, you get hurt AND blamed. I can make people very jaded very quickly.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 01:33 AM
0

Please send list
/r/MensRights19/05/22 11:52 PM
3

He sent out and tracked 400 applications?! I have done research and this is such an extreme effort for no results. I hope he got published somewhere!
/r/MensRights19/05/22 11:49 PM
1

Bc switching from trafficking to theft is a straight analogy huh...
/r/MensRights19/05/22 10:42 PM
1

Someone asked me if I would mind being followed in a store, you further asked so is that a no, so I answered? No I wouldnt mind, id laugh
/r/MensRights19/05/22 10:04 PM
-1

I vote normalize paternity test as well as legal abandonment, the progress of rights should go in this way
/r/MensRights19/05/22 09:56 PM
-2

Are you suggesting men should be able to force a woman to get an abortion? Bc abortion is a biological unfairness, women alone can have one
/r/MensRights19/05/22 09:34 PM
1

https://news.gallup.com/poll/245618/abortion-trends-gender.aspx
/r/MensRights19/05/22 09:30 PM
-1

Men lead the anti-abortion movement, and I only commented that bc of his '3 legally protected comment', it may not be true soon
/r/MensRights19/05/22 09:29 PM
3

all adults deserve a way to have a fulfilling sex life- so its a cop out answer for both
/r/MensRights19/05/22 09:26 PM
0

I wouldnt like being followed but I'd laugh bc they were wasting there time, not get mad bc they were thwarting my stealing lol. The owner of the store has every right
/r/MensRights19/05/22 09:08 PM
-1

wtf dude, does your wife know your contemplating physical force against, idk women in general?!
/r/MensRights19/05/22 08:42 PM
-2

Not for long in the US. Abortion is going the wayside, so both genders will be fucked now if that makes you happy
/r/MensRights19/05/22 08:41 PM
1

its what women get told all the time
/r/MensRights19/05/22 08:40 PM
0

I think we need more vigilance for violence against vulnerable people... not groceries
/r/MensRights19/05/22 08:37 PM
0

same reason i tell people to be chill with cops during stops, alot of people flip out bc they are mad to be suspected at all. but they are checking for a reason. If it saves one kid, fucking do it
/r/MensRights19/05/22 08:36 PM
4

Fear is valid bc it does happen, but its irrational to think its common
/r/MensRights19/05/22 08:34 PM
2

This is a weird leap to me? As a woman I would be miserable if I saw every man as a potential rapist, its the same reality. The chances are both extremely low in actuality, so I am better served focusing on hanging around quality people, making good decisions and protecting myself and the people around me from predators. I see both the rapist and the false accuser as predators in this scenario, they both take advantage of trusting people to hurt them or use them.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 07:54 PM
-17

The stakes are a little higher for children?
/r/MensRights19/05/22 12:55 AM
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If it saves sex trafficked children?? I am okay with it. I work with kids, and you have too be aware we are all in this together I get upset when peoeple DONT check. Bc to me that means they might be letting it happen
/r/MensRights19/05/22 12:04 AM
-35

I personally dont mind having to prove who I am when traveling with a child. Prevents trafficking- why get mad?
/r/MensRights18/05/22 10:31 PM
1

Can I ask more details about the accusation?
/r/MensRights15/05/22 03:40 AM
3

It happens, maybe the fact he is disabled or his ethnicity
/r/MensRights13/05/22 05:36 PM
6

payback? You sincerely advocating revenge? That is what lead so many women to hating men and becoming rabid feminists... revenge against men.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 05:35 PM
1

Yes, but regulating how people can legally be biased is... A normal and effective way of eliminating it.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 04:02 PM
-6

Its the standard if the best interests are the child. They lean towards full custody when there are allegations of abuse or incompetency in parenting. I think we have to try and fix the bias we have about mothers and fathers, and i would def support making 50/50 the presumption
/r/MensRights13/05/22 02:08 AM
-3

People love to hate
/r/MensRights13/05/22 12:38 AM
-4

It happens all the time for the LGBT, some doctors wont see you
/r/MensRights12/05/22 11:02 PM
0

I get confused about it too :(
/r/MensRights12/05/22 10:58 PM
1

Its not true that we disagree? Okay, cheers to that 🍻 lol
/r/MensRights12/05/22 09:38 PM
2

Then we should be fighting at will laws? Being able to be fired for any reason at any time is abused soooo often to discrimianate and its unable to be fought in many casss
/r/MensRights12/05/22 06:47 PM
1

No your misunderstanding, 10% of birth control users get preganant. People who do NOT want pregnancy and took steps to prevent it. Young women without support, older women who already have had their kids but still wanna fuck their husbands, women with mental health conditions or substance abuse disorders, homeless women. 10% of people who are trying actively to prevent pregnancy will fall pregnant anyways. What do those women do? Pray for a natural miscarriage? Unfortunately they may be blamed f…
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:54 PM
1

Miscarriages are spontaneous, there is not way to prove a negative. I.e making abortion illegal means all miscarriages will be suspect, all women will have to prove the negative that they didnt cause their miscarriage. Obvious I believe in abortion and think doctors and mothers are the best ones to evaluate if the pregnancy will harm the mother
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:51 PM
1

Absolutely the worst, but even after 9 months you can have a stillbirth. This rhetoric that every embryo will become a baby is so hard to hear for women who struggle.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:37 PM
1

Miscarriages are spontaneous abortions before 20wks. About 10 to 20 percent of known pregnancies end in miscarriage. But the actual number is likely higher because many miscarriages occur very early in pregnancy — before you might even know about a pregnancy. Thats the terrible thing about miscarriages, if you have ever had one youd know, it looks healthy, until it doesnt. You have hope, and then you lose it. You can be doing everything right and lose your child anyways.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:34 PM
1

I would support that paper abortion option, bc I think practically it already happens. Not all single parents seek child support or even tell the other parent about the child, so this would just be standardizing a practice into procedure. Losing abortion right doesnt solve and mens rights problems does it? It makes it worse for mena nd women imho, less agency when it comes to family planning
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:31 PM
3

I care, and its our goal to help people cross that boundary and start to care? I deeply dislike unfairness and always have
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:21 PM
1

I can see that arguement but I dont think research would support that. Society often overcorrects, thats where we are now. And the truth is SA is still quite underprosecuted for both men and women. So no, the people who matter (judges and DAs) have not forgotten.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:20 PM
0

I dont have too escape shit lmao, we disagree on the semantics of what a phrase means
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:17 PM
0

I guess not, a crazy occurance describes unusual events, wow what a craaaazy day... Lol doesny mean it was average ie common
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:15 PM
3

Life in prison seems fair to me lol!!
/r/MensRights12/05/22 01:55 AM
1

Was the mistake related to the weed or the accusation?
/r/MensRights12/05/22 01:52 AM
1

I am also an optimist. So I really appreciate your thoughts and truly, agree
/r/MensRights12/05/22 01:48 AM
2

I think practically, and politically, the US only survives if it evolves. And it has, greatly. It will keep evolving. Right now the courts have uncontrolled bias determining things, which leads to alot of unfairness and disparities in the law. Black people get longer sentences than whites, men get longer sentences than women, and it goes in and on. Justice may be blind but people sure arent. Thats the bias that needs to be fixed to increase equal treatment under the law
/r/MensRights12/05/22 01:35 AM
1

I was just saying the statements get similar criticism, not trying to insult at all. Both statement to me mean, 'dont forget' to believe women or dont forget black lives matter. I needs to be said bc people forget
/r/MensRights12/05/22 01:33 AM
1

I do sincerely hope the advancements continue, and hopefully the last effects of SA, the psychological damages, can also be considered 'evidence' of a crime!! I know thats probably a pipe dream, but physical evidence only goes so far until everyone is dna/fingerprinted. I do have hope though
/r/MensRights12/05/22 01:23 AM
1

Absolutely. There was a case recently I saw about two boys who killed their parents and their stories of horrific abuse were discounted bc of action that took place afterwards. Honestly this destroyed me, bc being irrational after lifelong sexual abuse is... Idk makes sense?! I think we NEED to figure out how to evaluate accusers claims AND defendants statements for the truth. Bc lack of evidence allows to many monsters to go free imho
/r/MensRights12/05/22 12:59 AM
1

I see an issue with this as some crimes cannot easily be 'proven in court'. Rape, for both men and women is one of the hardest things to prosecute. I think it would benefit all victims to examine how we can improve this process
/r/MensRights12/05/22 12:51 AM
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I bet you believe black lives matter also implies no one else does? Those statments are specific, not exclusionary
/r/MensRights12/05/22 12:48 AM
1

I do, but then I see the value of putting trust in the system. If they are flawed or biased judges they can be removed, as has happened when judges made bogus reprehensible decisions.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 12:47 AM
1

We both know things go wrong with pregnancy. A fertilized egg does not always become a child.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 12:46 AM
1

Its the way I think you have to think to be fair, and it is my preference. Go forward with full knowledge everyone MIGHT be lying, and therefore anyone MIGHT be telling the truth.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 11:15 PM
0

Not if we abort it!!
/r/MensRights11/05/22 11:05 PM
-4

What so you mean? We disbelieve all victims, and we shouldnt
/r/MensRights11/05/22 11:04 PM
-9

I believe in presumption of innocence, I reserve judgement until I see the evidence
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:57 PM
2

Women as a whole =/= feminism
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:56 PM
-25

Your saying its common, an actual cop says its crazy .. And you think your right lmao
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:31 PM
-15

No one is gaslighting you. The knee jerk reaction is to disbelieve victims of all types. So I say, believe victims.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:25 PM
-25

Bruh your know better than this actual cop?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:23 PM
1

Bro your so intense lmao your not planning on actually debate. Your gonna conti use foaaming at the mouth lmfao
/r/MensRights11/05/22 09:46 PM
13

Both genders will need to strongly rethink premarital sex bc of this
/r/MensRights11/05/22 07:43 PM
0

We disagree, entirely on this. A genetically mutated tumor is a ball of geneticaly unique cells. Should tumors be protected? As the cells are alive?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 07:41 PM
1

Actual lots of MRA's support abortion rights
/r/MensRights11/05/22 07:39 PM
-1

I dont consider either acceptable
/r/MensRights11/05/22 07:39 PM
1

Im not sure where you read that, do you have a source? A bad psychologist is bad to all clients
/r/MensRights11/05/22 06:20 PM
1

I will acknowledge it! That happens! Its a tragedy, but she made a choice, right? Just like women make a choice to have sex? Personal responsibility... We are responsible for our choices right? I feel for her, but also for the other who live with deeply regret over not getting an abortion.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 06:07 PM
1

Why do you assume a psychological reveiw of both parties would automatically disenfranchise men? Historically and even today women are more likely to be seen in a bias as being far more irrational and emotional. I think this would show men being traumatized by the accusations, it could show us the truth. Or at least more true that 'they wont wdmit it so it didnt happen'
/r/MensRights11/05/22 05:55 PM
1

Umm men get raped too? More prosecutions is good for everyone?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 04:49 PM
-2

Isnt this just... democracy?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 04:43 PM
-3

Its people talking from a place of trauma. Its not rational, and if you ask most of them they will concede 'I dont mean it literally, its just a emotional phrase to express the deep level of my frustration with men in general' I dont think stereotyping men or women helps, but you see it often when people are stuck in their trauma.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 04:42 PM
1

https://www.law.virginia.edu/news/2001_02/zug.htm An attorneys veiw on prosecuting rape in modern day. Right now rape is severely underprosecuted, it is one of the easiest crimes to get away with. Nowadays, even if you are bruised and injured they can argue it was consensual rough sex. Like I said. The only good rape victim is dead. I think evaluating psychologically is the only option. It could reveal a liars pathology in the accuser as well as trauma. Therefore determine who is the sufferer sn…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 04:36 PM
2

Sure, instead of focusing on lack of evidence, as inherently there is often not record of nonconsentual sex that cpuldnt also be indicative of consensual sex, focus on evaluate trauma response, not subjective evidence. This is for both accuser and accused. There are certain traits of trauma that are very hard to fake. I think trauma needs to be taken into account. If someone is living a normal life psychologically after an event, I think the punishement should reflect that. No harm no foul essen…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 04:06 PM
0

Have you ever known someone who had an abortion? Perhaps take some time and hear some stories. We all know women. And statistically some of them have had an abortion. Maybe it was doctor suggested bc of developmental issues or maternal age. Maybe it was birth control failure. Maybe the mother AND father decided it was not the time. You forget all humans have full lives and passionate opinions like you do. And we all have the right to them, please dont push your morals on me.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:59 PM
1

How am I the one being emotional 🤣😭
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:58 PM
1

The part your confused about is the charge, be is homocide or manslaughter or something else, is based on amount of moral blame. This is why its a debate- morals change based on culture, age, ethnic group, religon... You believe it is murder. I am respect your belief. But I do not. Please respect mine.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:43 PM
1

http://www.custodyawarenesscollaborative.com/is-requiring-joint-custody-common-in-the-united-states#:~:text=A%20joint%20physical%20custody%20presumption,common%20in%20the%20United%20States. The presumption is always been whats in the best interest of the child. Until people see fathers as equal caregivers of children as mothers, this will be a problem. So how do you fight bias? Other groups historically have used the law. And it worked, somewhat
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:22 PM
0

I have never had an abortion, and I wouldny wait a second past finding out to get an abortion. Most women would not either. Abortion is a terribly personal and emotional choice, usually made due to being too young or unable to care or prpvide for a child, or bc birth control failed. Maybe they already had their kids. Maybe the fetal deformity is discovered late. Maybe the mother developed a gestational disorder. Its so fucking complex. It deeply bothers how you managed to boil it down to 'selfis…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:18 PM
1

Death is not always murder. There are many many different charges related to death, on fact you can cause womeobe death and it be ruled and accident. Did you know?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:14 PM
-1

I am a living breathing person. I am the person controlling this body. Its autonomy. Me.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:13 PM
1

Thank you. Im confused about it too, without abortion MORE men will be financially shackled to women they dont want to be!
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:12 PM
1

Thanks for making me laugh about such a serious topic lmao
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:10 PM
2

I think that is a super important conversation to have. I have my opinions but no way do I have a solution. I wish I did.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:07 PM
0

Rape happened on Evert society and every era What do you mean?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 02:49 PM
1

Okay makes sense. I hope you fight this, bc it seemss like a very easy thing to prove
/r/MensRights11/05/22 07:34 AM
2

Mind explaining where?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 07:33 AM
1

While its still inside my body? Yes. Absolutely yes. Same reason I cant demand your kidney. Even your own child cannot demand your kidney. Bodily autonomy should be absolute.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 07:31 AM
2

He stated multiple exs as well though!
/r/MensRights11/05/22 07:29 AM
2

Its up to people, people have bias. It already IS the presumption that joint custody is in the best interest of the child, however PEOPLE have a natural bias towards seeing women as both (a) better natural care givers and ( b) less likely to abuse. How do we stop this bias?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 07:29 AM
1

Thats just not the way the law works unfortunately. Many cruel and evil things get very small jail time. And I am assuming they reduced her sentence for a reason beyond 'shes a woman'. Or else they would have done it to all female murder cases
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:54 AM
-5

How would you solve the discrimination against men in child custody?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:53 AM
-12

Yes! Actually lol it would involve statistics to figure out how big the bias is against men and then analytics to see monitor unfair or unjust judges in a damanging bias. Thats all affirmative action is, it forced colleges to break there bias to meet the quota. Wouldnt that work?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:52 AM
0

Thanks for prejudging me, we are gonna get far in this dialogue that way
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:50 AM
2

This guy is deep in this delusions on it
/r/MensRights11/05/22 02:31 AM
3

Wish we could talk about total victims, what does it matter their gender?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 02:12 AM
7

Thats awful, I hope someone finds a cause soon. Be safe.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 02:11 AM
7

I would fight this for sure, or raise hell locally and smear there name. With johnny depp in the news you might be heard or interveiwed. At the same time, if multiple exs are ganging up to ruin your life, thats the weirdest thing ive ever heard lol. That plus your mention shes on a different state but then say your not in the us.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 02:11 AM
2

If your ex is in a different state, how was your organization gonna compete with hers?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 02:06 AM
-14

I am curious, take affirmative action for women. Wasnt it designed to combat a priveldge man had, as it was very normal to assume women were incompetent and were essentially barted from higher education? In that context, what do you think?
/r/MensRights11/05/22 02:03 AM
0

I get that is your opinion, but it is not a fact. We are allowed to disagree. I think leaving humans out in the cold and wet during winter is murder. Its subjective.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 11:54 PM
3

My rights do not supersede yours, neither does the fetuses supersede mine
/r/MensRights10/05/22 10:49 PM
-16

This doesnt sit right with me at all. Rape is so gd hard to prosecute on both sides. As they say, the only good rape victim is dead.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 09:59 PM
5

To me its common sense, men dont want to be forced into parenthood and neither do women. We are on the same team.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 09:45 PM
5

I cant handle it in movies or jokes either, its honestly disgusting. When wondering why, I always ask people and I think its due to the misconception that men cant be raped. So its ludicrousness and absurdity humor
/r/MensRights10/05/22 09:40 PM
4

IM sorry, how the fucking hell could that storyline possibly be a comedy?!
/r/MensRights10/05/22 08:57 PM
1

Its bc being pregnant and giving birth can be tramatiIng and literally one of the most painful expirience known to man. Going through it bc you want to? Scary but also empowering. Going through it bc you HAVE to? Absolute nightmare and life ruining. Consent matters, and bodily autonomy matters. Do not have sex with someone without knowledge of how this convo needs to go. Ive broken up with someone bc they said I could NEVER abort their baby. I respected their choice but it meant we were incompat…
/r/MensRights10/05/22 08:51 PM
0

Yes.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 08:39 PM
3

I fear your right, but hope your wrong. I think johnny depp is opening eyes too what reactive abuse is and how DV can look in a LTR. Shit gets messy fast!! I do tend to be optimistic though. I believe justice will win out eventually
/r/MensRights10/05/22 08:25 PM
1

It is, 11 yrs out of childhood home, lots of therapy and im mostly normal lol Thank you Prison is absolutely horrible for both men and women, the scales need to be balenced bc both men and women can be manipulated and abused. Its really is that simple.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 08:23 PM
1

I agree with you 1000%
/r/MensRights10/05/22 07:04 PM
-5

I can, Ive been physicall, emotional and sexually abused by a woman. Beileve me, women can be monsters. The court of appeals wanted a retrial for a reason- I wouldnt presume to know the justice of this case without the details
/r/MensRights10/05/22 06:48 PM
1

Allow women with rough periods medical exemptions just like any other employee. If a dude has rough IBS and needs. Few days off a month I think that can be accomodated too
/r/MensRights10/05/22 06:36 PM
-10

I personally support killing your abuser, but its off topic. Do you think the court of appeals and the judge was off base for resentencing her?
/r/MensRights10/05/22 06:30 PM
2

Id argue its bc he said women are the ones telling men what to wear and how to act- when most fashion designers clothing producers are still male. Anything you label all women in that way it can be misogynistic. Just like say all men are trash is misandry
/r/MensRights10/05/22 06:11 PM
1

She shouldnt have come at you like that, but are you truly preaching gender roles in 2022? It seems like the opposite direction to me
/r/MensRights10/05/22 06:10 PM
1

Maybe the legal system in Australia is different, but usually legal definitions and statues can be used by both genders and all groups. I hope a man tries it, sets a precedent. My poor little brother has a baby momma who is terribly coercive and controlling 😔
/r/MensRights10/05/22 06:07 PM
4

I hope this cna be used to prosecute women as well!! Women use coercive control a TON
/r/MensRights10/05/22 06:01 PM
-12

She had already served her time, she was sentenced to almost 10 yrs
/r/MensRights10/05/22 06:01 PM
2

Compassion is key here, I feel abortion is always a extremely unique situation and should be evaluated uniquely. Thats why I think it should always be up to doctor and mother.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 05:48 PM
0

Ill never understand why it became anyones buisness but mine and my doctor.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 05:46 PM
4

On point. The bullied becomes the bully eventually
/r/MensRights10/05/22 05:44 PM
0

Hindsights 20:20 lol I learned a lot and so did he, do it wasnt a failure in my eyes. Just life
/r/MensRights05/05/22 05:08 AM
0

Im trying to raise them. Had my full of super abusive relationships so I overlooked a lot
/r/MensRights05/05/22 04:50 AM
1

I am cackling at a female cabal
/r/MensRights05/05/22 12:49 AM
0

Its true, I was with a very lazy dude for 5 years bc he didnt raise his voice or hit me lol
/r/MensRights04/05/22 11:29 PM
3

... Tis a good point. And truly, probably the original reason. Up until 1967 people thought women were to fragile to run a marathon or her uterus would fall out lmfao.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 10:57 PM
2

We're all in this together, conspiring? How would that work?
/r/MensRights04/05/22 10:55 PM
1

Id be interestes in seeing your sources for it being not easily reversible? Heres what i saw with a quick search, pretty good numbers imho https://www.arizona-urology.com/blog/what-is-the-success-rate-for-a-vasectomy-reversal
/r/MensRights04/05/22 10:48 PM
6

right!
/r/MensRights04/05/22 08:10 PM
5

Thank god its at least being reported on
/r/MensRights04/05/22 07:12 PM
2

Thank you, yes this is my expirience too
/r/MensRights04/05/22 03:50 PM
18

That, and not being able to cope mentally with it being a 'bad thing that happened to them', so they normalize it and promote it
/r/MensRights03/05/22 08:18 PM
6

In my life its the men who want their boys to 'match'.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 06:58 PM
1

I think thats a fair simplistic assessment
/r/MensRights03/05/22 03:24 AM
6

Both women and men have unique needs and barriers in this society, if you want women to see your side you should try to see their side
/r/MensRights02/05/22 10:13 PM
1

Agreed, should have clarified!! Not sure how to say it, Abrahamic religions, is definitely what I meant. I resonnate most with the Yogi religion personally
/r/MensRights02/05/22 08:17 PM
3

Courts can be fooled, judges can be biased. Unfortunately even the innocent can be found guilty. We have too fight and appeal if the decision is wrong. Glad he got custody eventually
/r/MensRights02/05/22 06:26 PM
9

'White knight' isnt that just the male equivalent of pick me? Lets stop tearing down ppl who fight for equality of both genders
/r/MensRights02/05/22 04:48 PM
19

Keep spreading the word, we are here to help you imho
/r/MensRights02/05/22 04:48 PM
2

The hard part is, as a woman, I don't feel like I can fix it bc I probably dont even grasp it entirely. I can spread the word, and raise my kids differently, but this shit is so ingrained in both men and women and this culture. I think its only been the last couple hundred years any of this shit mattered, or even was defined. Peoples lives used to be so short and brutal no one had time for equality or fairness. In a way, we are trying to fix something for the first time, and Im afraid it will ne…
/r/MensRights02/05/22 01:31 AM
1

I used to think this way, but lately have been running into people who say trad gender roles being abandoned is the cause or at least influencing the downfall of society etc.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 08:50 PM
2

Liars be lying!! Be YOURSELF, and wait for a good person. Pretending to be someone you think women want is a terrible idea for yourself and your relationships
/r/MensRights01/05/22 08:37 PM
2

I have met lots of men who wanted to use women Bad people come will penis's and vagina's lol
/r/MensRights01/05/22 08:00 PM
2

Absolutely incorrect. Women can be just as cruel and evil as men. Therefore: bullying and harassment among women and girls can be just as awful and traumatizing
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:37 PM
1

Justice should be blind
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:36 PM
3

Sexual harassment is disgusting, no matter the perp
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:31 PM
0

Its deeply unsettling for sure, and it has happened to me. They get so interested in you they follow you home, or accost you after you get off the bus/train. The fear is rational in that sense- at least to me. Someone staring that long is a sign they are unstable imho
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:28 PM
1

I have found some good dialogue on this page, but yes the majority of posters/commentors have obvious trauma from women and are voicing from that not feom a true desire to see change. Still, cant blame them. Their emotions are valid.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:25 PM
2

Being a shitty person is like a cheat code in this world, they take advantage of the good people to get ahead. its much hard to find an honest person than a liar, a hard worker vrs a lazy person etc etc Learning to be discerning will save you
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:23 PM
1

Kind of hard to tell if it was an overreaction without knowing the joke right? Was he knee capping statement a 'joke'. Lacking context here
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:18 PM
1

Life is a shit show for most of us :( the tragedy is men commit more, they are more successful, and they dont reach out for help. I am 1000% against this, and promote mental health for men at every step.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:15 PM
0

Yup.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:13 PM
2

Hoping someone will legitmately reply. If the cards were flippes im sure theyd have lots of thoughts....
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:11 PM
0

I tell this to the man-hating women in my life: there are good ones out there. Good women and good men. Ask yourself, can you change who you interact within, what you put up with, how you choose partners? We often forget there are happy on love heterosexuals out there lmao
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:09 PM
0

Agreed, only reason to get married is children
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:07 PM
2

You gain choices/rights over your children?
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:05 PM
1

I get confused about this: if gender roles matter, isnt it a bad thing that woman have their own career and independece? Isnt that a perversion of a natural order, or however you want to say it
/r/MensRights01/05/22 07:04 PM
-2

Also: Im a very tall woman, in my expirience, I was seen as masculine/ridiculed by men and women when I dated a shorter guy. Always confused me, but most men refused to date me unless they were taller bc it immasculated them. Anyone have thoughts on that?
/r/MensRights01/05/22 06:58 PM
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Patriarchy does not mean 'fault of men'. Perhaps this is a sticking point for understanding- its a basic concept that when misunderstood schews every following concept.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 06:55 PM
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Cant wait to read this. Prehistory is a fascination of mine anyways. I always cite mainstream religon for creating the first major divide between men and women. Before that, woman were often worshiped as the creators of life, before they knew sperm were involved. I can talk about this stuff all day lol
/r/MensRights01/05/22 06:50 PM
-1

This. When considering who was 'oppressed', you should look at who had choices/agency to make choices.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 06:48 PM
0

I think lots of people would rather die than live a sex slave. Thats a personal thing, but yeah... Id rather die.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 06:47 PM
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TBF, Nov 19 has 12 holidays. Humans care about way to many things to stick to just 365 holidays lol https://nationaltoday.com/november-19-holidays/#:~:text=We%20have%2012%20holidays%20listed%20for%20November%2019.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 06:42 PM
0

Lmfao what a copy pasta!! When did she right this?
/r/MensRights01/05/22 12:39 AM
0

Mary Koss is a piece of shit, and absolutely represents an outdated version of feminism. And outdated in terms of the law as well: https://www.findlaw.com/legalblogs/criminal-defense/men-can-be-legally-raped-new-fbi-definition/
/r/MensRights01/05/22 12:33 AM
0

What group are you member of? I dont beileve rape, physical penetration without consent, is legal for either 'side'? Not sure what you mena by this
/r/MensRights01/05/22 12:22 AM
-1

The extreme opposite sides of this issue are so GD similar. You hate them. They hate you. Its sad AF
/r/MensRights01/05/22 12:18 AM
0

High horse bc I fell bad for hateful folks?
/r/MensRights30/04/22 01:23 AM
-4

Hope you heal to btw
/r/MensRights30/04/22 12:46 AM
-6

Hate has no place in growth, if we want to progress we all have too heal
/r/MensRights29/04/22 11:58 PM
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Its a very sad fact that we tend to hate those who hurt us, and want them you suffer as we have suffered. For many feminists, men have been their source of torment. You also see it in men who have suffered at the hands of women. I think its super sad, and they obviously need to heal from their trauma. Take it for what you will, but people like that need help!
/r/MensRights29/04/22 11:34 PM
19

This is a good thing no? It is tradition after all that encourages women to use men financially?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 07:44 PM
2

What are you opinions about it? If it is indeed natural and therefore instinctual?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 05:46 PM
1

I think parts of society are over correcting, but cis white males, 'traditional males' as you say, are still very much reptesented at every level of our society. In glfact every president and the majority of decision makers in the US are still traditional males
/r/MensRights29/04/22 05:45 PM
1

Naw, thats kind of the opposite of what im saying lmao
/r/MensRights29/04/22 04:48 PM
2

Great point
/r/MensRights29/04/22 03:06 PM
0

Yes there is? The incentive is justice and equality for men along with women? I think things like johnny depps vs amber heard case and movements like MRA and forums like this are clear evidence that mens issues are gaining tractions and a voice. I saw on here that tthere will be a research center dedicated to mens studies like womens studies already has many of. Its changing, but all change is slow. Women have been fighting for equality for a long long time
/r/MensRights29/04/22 04:06 AM
2

The bias of believing 99.95% of women are crazy bitches...?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 03:02 AM
1

The most prevalent form is sexually obviously? Do you approve of FDS type thinking then, as they maintain you should NOT depend on men for respurces?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 03:02 AM
2

Im assuming your incredible woman is one of the 0.05% of women who arent crazy bitches? You seem to represent the extreme of this movement, just as SJWs are the extreme of theirs
/r/MensRights29/04/22 01:24 AM
1

My veiw is limited only by my knowledge is think? I am reading as much as possible. Your statement though reminds me of extreme feminism is an trying to get away from: they often say men cannot even understand how they see women as objects. Its eerily similar to what you jsut said to me, no?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 01:22 AM
2

Ive been an adult for a long time actually lol, and i suppose we are talking averages? Bc in both my hetero and homo relationships (im bi) I have been the main breadwinner and paid the bills?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 01:20 AM
1

Is Self-Reflection... A book?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 01:18 AM
1

Oh I see, similar to how connotations affect language im guessing? Ill look up Heidegger
/r/MensRights29/04/22 01:18 AM
1

Interesting! Please elaborate??
/r/MensRights29/04/22 12:51 AM
1

Where should I get my defintions? Do you have any suggestions? I recently watched red pill and it was enlightening for sure
/r/MensRights29/04/22 12:50 AM
2

Its possible, I am here trying to learn more abouy mens expirience! I have always been the $$ ewrner in my heterosexual relationships, so my personal expirience it probably schewing my veiw
/r/MensRights29/04/22 12:50 AM
1

We are talking about ppl who want a LTR right? You dont look for those bc your a MGTOW?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 12:48 AM
1

To me those seem like things everyone would want in their partnership?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 12:05 AM
1

I definitely don't just read the dictionary 🤣 wdym?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 12:04 AM
3

To bring new people to the table, someone must give up their seat right? No, bring a couple more chairs and build a bigger table
/r/MensRights28/04/22 11:46 PM
3

This, most of the femcels/radical feminists do NOT like transwomen lol
/r/MensRights28/04/22 11:45 PM
0

Female hypergamy is definitely real, but most people try to marry/date within social class and like groups, dont you think?
/r/MensRights28/04/22 08:58 PM
-1

Its a knee jerk reaction to the overwhelming tendency to NOT beileve women. Its a over correction, obviously, and i hope eventually we can learn 'beileve all victims. Inveatigate all accusations' problem is the wat we investigate sexual assault is terrible for both men and women
/r/MensRights28/04/22 07:49 PM
-2

I think bc sexuality is usually tied to gender, ie. Heterosexual like the opposite gender where as homosexuals like the same gender
/r/MensRights28/04/22 07:44 PM
-1

This is absolutely a bad actor
/r/MensRights28/04/22 07:42 PM
2

Consent it deeply difficult to prove, even a written contract can be thrown out if argued it was signed under distress. I think we really need to revolutionize how rape trials are held, bc both men and women are screwed over regularly!! They say only like 5% of the population commits serial/violent rapes, imagine the world we could have if we eliminated that...
/r/MensRights28/04/22 07:40 PM
1

Makes absolutely sense to me, bc as a woman I do not want too be forced to have a child- can't force men either. Then my choice is abortion or adoption etc, both parties have choice
/r/MensRights28/04/22 07:32 PM
1

https://doi.org/10.1002/cncr.24577 I think this is the study you mean? The authors are: Michael J. Glantz MD,Marc C. Chamberlain MD,Qin Liu PhD,Chung-Cheng Hsieh ScD,Keith R. Edwards MD,Alixis Van Horn RN,Lawrence Recht MD I think its important to not muddle the waters, you seem to be misrepresenting the study. Or am I looking at the wrong one?
/r/MensRights28/04/22 04:32 PM
-1

I read the article, its about stigma around STIs?
/r/MensRights27/04/22 10:52 PM
-3

Kind of a disturbing comment
/r/MensRights27/04/22 10:36 PM
5

Curious what you mean about the spousal abandonment due to illness?
/r/MensRights27/04/22 10:35 PM
0

I think thats part of why I am trying to learn more, i have always disliked it but its hard to argue it just from there. Like someone said, cognitive dissonance, wanting to match etc
/r/MensRights27/04/22 05:41 AM
-1

I agree, but if the father really feels strongly in think that has to be considered
/r/MensRights26/04/22 11:08 PM
-1

I like this idea, we literally cant progress till we learn, so teaching is a major part
/r/MensRights26/04/22 06:34 PM
1

Its all extremely wrong- but Me (F) and my friends wife argued with my bf and her husband about MGM. They fully supported it and it baffled me. Not sure if we have kids what will happen
/r/MensRights26/04/22 06:04 PM
6

its been said about girls I know and about me. Literally any comments section about sexual assault of a woman has one
/r/MensRights19/04/22 06:10 PM
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