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| 2 | WTF is "Emotional Intelligence"Oh, I've been around plenty. It's all in how you frame it. If someone wants an audience and they're being obnoxious, you re-arrange things so they don't have an audience. I deal with tantruming customers and activists of all stripes all the time, and the quickest way to shut them down is to give them nothing to fight against. "Oh, you're here to make a scene on purpose? Okay, well, scream all you want, the bathroom is over there, I'll be over here if you need anything" and you just step way back… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | WTF is "Emotional Intelligence"Yep, I've definitely run into that. I work security and gave gotten my fair share of people who will deliberately try to antagonize or yell at us for a multitude of reasons (youtube views, conspiracy claims, trying to save face) while we're literally marching them out the door in handcuffs. We've been trained to just let them yell because if they run their mouth, they feel like they have some measure of control, albeit a very thin one, and are less likely to get vengeful and violent. I also get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 08:25 PM |
| 1 | WTF is "Emotional Intelligence"They aren't more emotional than men, they're just socialized to display it more. If you are told to "not show your feelings" as a boy, you will show them less as an adult, but that doesn't mean you don't have just as many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | WTF is "Emotional Intelligence"Emotional intelligence is also a solid skill for enforcement professions likes security and policing, or any sort of job where you have to persuade someone to do something. It's like that old quote about "Intelligence is knowing the right answer but wisdom is knowing when to say it". Emotional intelligence lets your read the room and dissect people's motivations and feelings so you know how to approach them about things. You wouldn't walk up to a male friend that just had his dog die and was vis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | WTF is "Emotional Intelligence"Not zen masters, but being self aware enough to say things like: "Hey guys, I'm a little frustrated about stuff that's not related to [thing we're doing together], so if I get a bit snappish, it's not you guys, it's me. I'll try to manage it, but if it gets the better of me, just give me a moment." Or if someone's on edge and you don't know why, you ask "hey, I can see you're not your normal self today. Is there anything I need to be aware of or do you just need a minute and we can continue?" Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 07:45 PM |
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