PerfectInAllThings Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"? This is how the laws across the US have been applied. There's a long case record to support that drunk men in this situation are held responsible but drunk women are not, so it's not hypothetical. I don't think the general statement that women don't take accountability is true, but in many circumstances women are essentially infantilized and treated like victims rather than choice-making agents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 04:49 AM
–	What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"? I think gendered take traces back to the double standard on drunken sex. If both a guy and a girl got drunk and have sex, the guy alone was liable for sexual assault and rape charges "for taking advantage of her". Women because they are women (so it is gendered) were not considered accountable for what happened that night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 04:36 AM
1	What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"? Because men don't receive pity. When women screw up we're told to empathize. I think a lot of it stems from the drunken sex double standard that its always the guy's responsibility to ensure consent takes place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 04:21 AM
11	In a societal level, no one is going to grant you freedom from oppressive structures and roles. If you want clemency, fight for it. This myth of female self-liberation is silly. Arguably men had substantially more to do with women's liberation than the women themselves. Yes politically and legally but also materially: more than a change in culture, the development of female hygiene products, menstrual management and birth control cleared the way for women's success today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 03:53 AM
1	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. More women vote than men	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 03:55 AM
1	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. I did actually	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 03:53 AM
3	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. Same way a lower class man does	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 01:04 AM
4	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. Become a medical doctor you'll make plenty of money	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 01:02 AM
2	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. Happily married, no thanks	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 12:25 AM
7	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. Nah you can tell before that Women's "social intelligence " is overrated	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 11:06 PM
4	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. I take on R&D projects that if done wrong can cost my company tens of millions of dollars. I am always the "accountable" person on these projects. None of my female coworkers want the accountability/responsibility. Upon project completion I freaking get assigned a female who did nothing, knows nothing, but gets her name included on the project. Its welfare for them. This happens on my publications too. There has to be a woman on the author list even if she didn't contribute at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 11:05 PM
6	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. Plenty of men are good spouses and fathers. You pick a bad one and that's your fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 10:55 PM
1	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. Having a family is the most rewarding thing you can do with your life. Sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 10:54 PM
2	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. Women are given lower expectations in the workplace. Women use their time at home to contribute little at work, and they get away with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 10:52 PM
0	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. Many do. Not society's fault women make poor choices in their partner. It's women's fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 10:48 PM
6	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. I'm a scientist in pharma. Ridiculous how little my female coworkers know and contribute. Yet they get the same title and pay. There's inequality of effort and inequality of competence too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 10:47 PM
11	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. They choose to have kids, and they chose their husband. Literally their decision.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 10:45 PM
19	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. We've over-compensated for gender pay disparity among boomers. Young men today are penalized for the privileges old men enjoyed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 10:07 PM
5	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. Labor market determines wages. There's not some all-powerful "we" that unilaterally decides what you get paid. Its supply versus demand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 10:04 PM
3	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. Feminists imply the pay gap is due to discrimination against women. They ignore that women choose lower paying jobs, women choose to work fewer hours, etc. No one is stopping a woman from becoming an engineer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 10:02 PM
3	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. They're obviously trying to "Jim Crow" (verb) all men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 09:48 PM
2	You cannot fix problems which do not exist. This! I hear all the time that female dominated jobs receive less pay. Ok, so go to college or get a certification for something else? Women aren't required to be teachers, nurse assistants, and baby sitters. They choose to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 09:47 PM
2	Single mothers should put their kids up for adoption en masse. Having the kid to begin with	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 11:39 PM
-1	Single mothers should put their kids up for adoption en masse. I think of single mothers similar to someone who committed a crime. You did something wrong, someone else (i.e., the kid) suffers, but so long as you do your best now that's all we can ask. But being the parent who stayed doesn't excuse the original "crime", and it means you'll always be responsible for the life your kid gets as a result of your choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 11:10 PM
0	Single mothers should put their kids up for adoption en masse. They don't blame the parent who stayed for staying. That's just disingenuous nonsense. They blame them for creating the circumstance to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 10:31 PM
1	CMV: Men are not insecure they are just jealous of experienced women Thats important too! You should never commit to a girl who doesn't have a good relationship with her father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 08:45 PM
8	CMV: Men are not insecure they are just jealous of experienced women No, its just every girl I know who had a promiscuous phase is a mess. I'm sure there are some who aren't, but this is my lived experience. It seems highly correlated with her having trauma baggage. From a human standpoint I'm totally fine with her doing her thing. But I don't want someone with trauma baggage in my life, most guys don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 08:11 PM
5	Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to it Partly. I'm just tired of people shooting themselves in their own foot and then demanding we all give them empathy. You do you. You're responsible for your own choices, including who you sleep with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 07:58 PM
12	Even if a research proved tomorrow that women's standards are 110% delusional they are still entitled to it Entitled to standards of their choosing? Yes. Should I be required to show empathy when she ends up on welfare, or in a battered woman's shelter, or alone and on antidepressants? Hell no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 07:53 PM
5	CMV: Men are not insecure they are just jealous of experienced women Just don't want to deal with the trauma baggage she carries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 07:44 PM
0	Even if a large group of men didn't truly had sex it wouldn't lead to a revolution or an apocalypse I mean, look at most other places around the globe. The abuse women suffered in 1950s America seems like a cakewalk compared to what women elsewhere face today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 05:12 PM
-2	Even if a large group of men didn't truly had sex it wouldn't lead to a revolution or an apocalypse They were more civil. I actually think your baseline understanding of male behavior is too flattering to them. What you're referring to as the bad times of being "punching bags" I suspect was actually near the pinnacle of male conduct throughout history. Not saying it was good, but it can get a lot worse than that. I think you're taking for granted the cultural momentum of recent history. Typically, when you have hoards of angry, lonely, loser men then society deteriorates fast.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/25 02:46 PM
5	Even if a large group of men didn't truly had sex it wouldn't lead to a revolution or an apocalypse I said nothing about a revolution. I think we're going to have taliban-style gangs of disaffected young men terrorizing the suburbs and businesses, like we already have in the inner cities, if this continues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 08:05 PM
18	Even if a large group of men didn't truly had sex it wouldn't lead to a revolution or an apocalypse This! A lot of social norms evolved the way they did for a reason. Married men, to put it more pg-rated, tend to be more civil. Not saying this was the ideal social arrangement, for lots of people it wasn't. But it seems like we knocked down a pillar upholding civilized society and didn't replace it with anything. What's the solution for our new world? We seem to have an increasing number of lonely, angry, alienated, and potentially violent young men out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 07:20 PM
15	The Myth of the Lazy Father The nature of "paid work" changed. Back when paid work was back-breaking manual labor, women preferred to be domestic caregivers. But when work ceased to be predominantly back-breaking manual labor (i.e., one could now sit all day in an office, socialize, etc.), this made work outside the home more attractive to women than the alternative of being domestic caregivers. Women were not "forced" to be domestic caregivers, it was a preference given the nature of paid work at the time.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/12/25 05:08 AM