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| 1 | Could a person with game do this?There's no game that exists that can make a woman that finds you unattractive into an attractive option in her eyes. Examples like the guy described in the OP are obviously exceptions and not the norm. For the regular guys out there, it's purely a number's game. You approach women until you find one that finds you attractive. From there, "game" is simply not ruining thing by opening your mouth. | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Could a person with game do this?You just witnessed first hand how the "Game" goes for tall good looking guys. You can read about "Chad" or "Tyrone" all you want but seeing it first hand is mind blowing. I saw this when I started hanging out with a 6'4" Afro-Cuban guy a couple of years ago. It was insane, this guy only had to show up and girls were lining up to come talk to him. He never had to approach, women were doing the work for him, good looking Swedish model types giving him "Come hither" signs, it completely blew my min… | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 05:23 PM |
| 11 | I'm devastated and hopelessBro, you need to get your ego in check ASAP, this is what is really coming out of your post. Why are you even approaching girls that are way beneath your ex to begin with? These women are probably picking up that you see them as such and are rejecting you outright for it. Push yourself, stop trying to feed your ego and approach girls that are way hotter than your ex, that is the path of real growth. | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 03:22 AM |
| 4 | Making the first move as an attractive guyThere's no magic trick, you just need to desensitize yourself to talking to women. Here's a simple exercice that you can start doing right now: Say "Hi" to three different women every day. That's it, don't try to pick them up, don't try to "game" them, nothing. Just go up to three different women every single day and say "Hello" until it becomes so easy you can just it without thinking about it. This will solve your problems of approaching women for good. | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 12:48 PM |
| 4 | Stop measuring interest by how fast she replies. It's ruining your dating life.If she's really interested, she'll reply quickly. She's not leaving Jason Statham or Jason Momoa on read for long. | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 07:58 PM |
| 6 | Im insecure physically and mentally. How do I stop this?Go to the gym and hit the weights hard. It'll boost your testosterone, release endorphins and make you more confident in your appearance once the gains start coming in. | /r/seduction | 07/09/25 12:22 PM |
| 2 | i went to 3 bars for a total of 2 hours and couldn’t make a single approachYou have to warm yourself up and gather momentum before you start approaching women. Talk with the bouncers, talk with the barman, shoot the shit with people standing at the bar, etc. Get yourself in a social state so you can easily transition to talking with women. | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 05:57 AM |
| 22 | Let’s Settle This Once and For All…It's "easier" getting a hot girl in real life than online. Good luck getting a hot girl to reply to you online, let alone take her out on a date. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Most of the girls have bfThe point is you don't have a shot with her so just move on. "I have a bf" is a much easier rejection than some girl going full bitch mode and angrily yelling at you to fuck off. | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 03:38 PM |
| 25 | Most of the girls have bf"I have a boyfriend" is her politely telling you she's not interested and allowing you to back off without embarassing you. Just tell her that her "bf" is a lucky guy and move on. | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 10:24 PM |
| 14 | Men are like a moving train with a clear path. You either stop letting women steer your destination or you lose their respect.What's crazy is that it doesn't even have to be that deep, arguing with a woman about the absolute dumbest shit will absolutely turn them on. I was talking to this chick in a pool hall this past Saturday and I don't remember exactly how we ended up there but she went on a rant about how much Taylor Swift sucks. Now I couldn't care less about Taylor Swift but just to annoy this woman, I started arguing that Taylor Swift was actually the greatest white woman God has ever created. She REALLY got in… | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever met that average-looking guy who’s insanely successful with women?I had a bald, pasty white friend who pulled like crazy. He was 6'4" though so don't know if that counts as average. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 04:02 AM |
| 0 | In your opinion, where is all the focus in pickup? What do people focus too much on studying/improving and what doesn't get attention that should?All the attention should be on flirting, that's the crux of being good at seducing/pickup. Realizing that the key to being successful with women is underdstanding that making them feel things is where it's at, you should never fear interacting with any woman on the planet, you've solved the puzzle. | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 09:54 PM |
| 3 | GamechangerThe problems of 99% of people in subs like these would be resolved if they simply started to take action. As someone from an IT background, I was also one of those over-analyzers who would watch video after video and read books after books hoping to find a magic formula, the approach or technique that would solve evertything until you realize it pretty much all boils down to the same thing, approach women and make them feel things and then escalate. But until you get your ass out there and put i… | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 07:03 PM |
| 2 | How do I develop game?Make a habit of talking to women first. I would suggest saying hello to three women a day until it becomes easy as breathing. Don't try to game them, don't try to hit on them, don't ask for their contact info, nothing. Just get comfortable having basic conversations with women where there's no pressure of getting a "result" at the end of it. Once that becomes second nature, you can graduate to "gaming" stuff. | /r/seduction | 14/07/25 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Controversial Opinion: Approaching women is easier than using dating apps **proof**You're 6'3", I can pretty much stop reading right there. And if you're over 6' and not getting pussy, you're doing it very very wrong. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 11:20 AM |
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