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Please see my comment. I think we are saying similar things.
/r/seduction21/08/20 05:37 PM
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Hmm... you are right. Perhaps, my post would be better suited for a different sub-Reddit.
/r/seduction20/08/20 04:17 AM
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objectification is seretonin signaling Can you provide a link where I can learn more about this?
/r/seduction20/08/20 12:14 AM
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What does this mean? Are you making a note to come back to this post and review the comments?
/r/seduction20/08/20 12:12 AM
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Are you saying that the article states a generality and is not an absolute? In other words, men and women generally behave this way but there are exceptions.
/r/seduction19/08/20 11:42 PM
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Men do not need to be told to respect boundaries. Sadly, there are some men (and women) that do. A rapist violates the boundaries of another person. Instead of telling men to be careful, tell them to embrace their natural power and inclinations, and then tell them how to use it. Agreed. In that quest, it is okay to lust after someone's body and appearance. It is okay to view another person as an instrument to satisfy one's own sexual desires. It is okay to approach a man or woman. It is okay to …
/r/seduction19/08/20 11:33 PM
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I am sorry. I must not have said that clearly. When I say wonder, I am stating a hypothesis or guessing. I am not claiming anything. I am trying to figure out if it is true or false. Is it true that some people have lived in a patriarchal society? Yes, I lived in one. Many people live and lived in a patriarchal society. You can see this in many religions. Have all people lived in a patriarchal society? I do not know. I would guess not since absolutes are very rare when it comes to people. Is it …
/r/seduction19/08/20 11:22 PM
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I read the words and understand each word, but put together I fail to understand. Can you rephrase this? Can you provide a link so I can learn more?
/r/seduction19/08/20 11:12 PM
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Yeah, I figure their statement about men and women was a generalization. I figure there will be men and women that reverse the description. I also figure there will be people that fit with both descriptions to some degree.
/r/seduction19/08/20 11:10 PM
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These scenarios would be on the extreme end of the spectrum. I figure objectification is not an all or nothing but degree of objectification. See my other comment.
/r/seduction19/08/20 11:09 PM
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I figure objectification is a spectrum from treating someone fully as a person to fully as an object. If I were to apply all of the 10 ways to objectify someone, then they are fully an object in my mind. If I were to apply none of the 10 ways to objectify someone, then they are fully a person in my mind. If I were to apply some of the 10 ways to objectify someone, then they are somewhat a person and somewhat an object. I also figure that each of the 10 ways can also be on a spectrum. I could ful…
/r/seduction19/08/20 11:08 PM
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Please explain why this is a terrible post. I am willing to learn and improve.
/r/seduction19/08/20 08:23 PM
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Take this example into government. If the leader thrusts his will on the people, it is called a dictatorship. The people can be trapped with no way to overthrow or move to a different country. In a democracy, the people will remove the leader at the next election if not sooner.
/r/seduction19/08/20 07:20 PM
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If everyone took that life view, then there wouldn't be a society. We would pretty much live alone and separate from everyone or risk getting trampled because there will almost always be someone more powerful. This isolated, more powerful animals would easily kill us off. This is not how people operate. We became the dominant species because we come together to overcome problems. The tribe works together to kill the lion threatening them. A single person would have a very difficult time killing …
/r/seduction19/08/20 05:43 PM
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I agree that I should go after what I want. I have a good paying job to provide money to obtain my wants. Yet, I do not trample others to get what I want. I try to be the best person I can and let my manager decide who should get a raise. When my wants involve someone else, I find out if their wants match. I honor unspoken boundaries.
/r/seduction19/08/20 04:56 PM
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Sexual lust is coupled with a sense of love I can see how I can love someone and lust them as well. Can you explain how sexual lust is always coupled with love? Or did I misinterpret what you mean? I can see how someone that views pornography will have sexual lust for the people in the images. I can see how someone might have love for the people in the images. Does someone who views pornography always have love and sexual lust for the people in the images? Or can the person only have lust?
/r/seduction19/08/20 04:34 PM
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Agreed. I am open to learning more. I was in a cult for most of my life. I am now open to changing my views. I am working on changing my views that have a negative influence on me. I accept that I may have a good view now but there might be even better views to discover. I found the views in the article to clarify what I have been discovering since leaving the cult. Can you be specific on how the people quoted in the article are sexist or racist? I would like to learn more.
/r/seduction19/08/20 04:28 PM
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Sure you might not be responsible; however, it seems you are still objectifying the woman beyond just sexuality. Specifically, it sounds like you are denying subjectivity of the woman. It sounds like you are treating her as though there is no need for concern for their experiences or feelings. Please clarify. It also sounds like you might be doing the following. Again, please clarify. Violability – treating the person as lacking in boundary integrity and violable, "as something that it is permis…
/r/seduction19/08/20 04:21 PM
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I think this quote from the Wikipedia article says in another way what you are saying. ...women express their sexuality in submissive way by being objectified or self-objectified. I wonder if this is due to the patriarchal society people have lived in for millenia. I wonder if the patriarchal society developed because of how men and women express sexuality. ​ Don't get too hung up over not respecting boundaries I've seen in other posts on this sub-Reddit to make increasingly intimate physical co…
/r/seduction19/08/20 03:57 PM
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You are correct. At the moment you say someone is hot, you have focused on their body, body parts, looks or appearance. Be sure to always allow the other person autonomy, agency, self-ownership and capacity to speak. Be concerned for their experiences and feelings. If the person rejects your advances, then respect that or as you said respect their boundaries. Pushing beyond their rejection furthers the objectification. One can chase after sexual desire but still treat the other person well. If y…
/r/seduction19/08/20 03:46 PM
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Perhaps I'll practice gaming/talking to the wall, prepare some topics/questions ahead of time and ask to facetime her or something. This got me thinking. In programming, there is something called rubber duck debugging. A programmer basically explains the code to a rubber duck on the desk and the programmer can then see the difference between what the code should do and what it is really is doing. My suggestion is that you look at a picture of her while you practice. This way you become comfortab…
/r/seduction19/05/20 12:43 AM
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Let's say you get into a long relationship with this woman. How will you keep the conversation going? You will talk about things that interest both of you. If you cannot find enough interests in common, then you will always be struggling to keep a conversation going. That does not sound like a great relationship. It sounds difficult. The ideal relationship is one where you always have things to talk about. Both of you look forward to the next time you two can have a conversation. However, it is …
/r/seduction18/05/20 11:52 PM
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When I hear a song I like, say in a movie or TV show, I look up the lyrics. I read through the lyrics and decide if the lyrics match the kind of person I want to be. For example, if the lyrics say, "I'm a loser baby. So why don't you kill me?", then I throw the song out because I don't want to be a loser nor dead. The hard part is that I might really like the song but the lyrics aren't who I want to be. I will then go find the instrumental version (i.e. no one singing). This only works if I don'…
/r/seduction14/05/20 12:45 AM
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