Perfectz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
145	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players.		Perfectz	/r/seduction	08/10/14 02:27 PM

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1	Advice on changing behaviour/mannerisms/voice Nothing in this game is quick, but here is my advice.For specific sticking points, if you list them I'll give targeted advice, but here is my overall thoughts. If you have tons of time practice the Alexander method , there are a few books on it on amazon, here is the wikipedia entry explaining the Alexander method. Actors use this to seem more natural on screen. I like it a lot. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alexander_Technique I agree with below, take dancing lessons (recommend salsa dancin…	/r/seduction	12/06/19 03:24 PM
2	I'm ashamed of lying but also ashamed of being honest Grab some girls, and take them to a strip club, you'll see how crazy they are.. very quickly (you don't even have to go to a male strip club). I have some stripper friends who complain how over the top women are. Also I have a unique experience in that I was a bouncer for a year at a rock-bar in Atlanta, the women tended to be more sexually assaulty then the men since there are no repercussions in society for it, This had the biggest impact on my opinion of women. Mind you I did the 1000 set cha…	/r/seduction	01/04/17 11:31 PM
4	Do you have any tips how to look good on pictures? Alpha M has a good video on this, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQ8kvBnKeqM	/r/seduction	01/04/17 08:43 PM
1	I'm ashamed of lying but also ashamed of being honest I started hosting speed dating events, since that is the easiest way to have events based on the exact type of girl's my students want and get paid for the coaching while at the same time get paid by the girls and the other guys for hosting the event... this evolved into hosting lesbian and gay speed dating events from time to time to make sure I'm being inclusive. I come an hour early to these events to coach the guys and girls on basic communication skills for those who show up early. You meet…	/r/seduction	01/04/17 02:29 PM
4	I'm ashamed of lying but also ashamed of being honest I had this problem and then I started hanging with lesbian wing girls, and they were way more sexually agrressive then the guys! Women like sex too, your not trying to trick a girl into a sexual experience you are offering something great, YOU. How many guys spend time reading forms trying to figure out how to better themselves and are brave enough to ask for help, not many. You by default are higher value then most other guys out there. Stop viewing sex and love as taking something and more as …	/r/seduction	01/04/17 12:07 AM
1	If you aren't that attracted to a girl you approach, but still have a long conversation with laughs, does that means there's some way of attraction from her? I keep a back up plan of always having another location or party that will raise my social value to have other women around me at that I can invite new people to. This gives me a reason to approach any one and turn them into pivots or wing girls. If I find myself more attracted to them later then I just pursue that. This puts much less pressure on me to approach only the most beautiful girls and it helps me seem interested and engaging to everyone I meet since everyone has value. Sometimes I wil…	/r/seduction	31/03/17 11:49 PM
3	What are your go to lines to keep the conversation going? I come with a list of local events that I will be checking out in the month and discuss them. (meetup.com or eventbrite) I use tricks from scam school when dealing with groups I'll do some cold reading and joke role playing like talking about where we are going to go on our first honey moon playfully. I try to listen to one book from audible a month and engage in a conversation about it, or ask for a recommendation for one. My openers are usually classic indirect openers I prefer the above more …	/r/seduction	29/03/17 07:27 PM
3	Field report (FR) - first one writing, not a good result. This is an awesome first step, go you :D the approach I like to do is always have a location or event planned before hand and use that as my opinion opener, for example. This will only take a minute, you have a cool style and look like you know the area I was planning to taking some friends out to a cool restaurant later this weekend I was thinking ("name your favorite restaurant") what are your thoughts? Where would you bring your crew" Then on the walk out you can more naturally say "Thanks fo…	/r/seduction	28/03/17 11:52 PM
1	How to seduce a Co-Worker with a boyfriend. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5vk7GLP4GFk	/r/seduction	28/03/17 10:47 PM
1	How to seduce a Co-Worker with a boyfriend. Let me rephrase that, its the skill / quality sets that make you so valuable you get girls as a symptom. Its impossible to get any girl, but you'd be surprising how easy it becomes to find the right girl when you focus on the below. Skills to help with others are communication, bearing, event planning and empathy The qualities to refine ourselves are self-awareness, self-improvement and then displaying self-worth.	/r/seduction	28/03/17 08:40 PM
3	Is there a good guide someone could link to small talk? Classic Opinion Openers are good. Having events planned for the next week you can talk about then ask them out to is also good. state your interest first then ask them for theirs or there thoughts on them. Doing the 3 value opener with groups of 2 or more is particularly good. -the 3 value opener is a game I play where I have friends write the 3 traits they admire the most about the other on a card then the friends have to guess what each trait is, it tells you a lot about there values Also doin…	/r/seduction	28/03/17 06:32 PM
4	How to seduce a Co-Worker with a boyfriend. Man up, stop focusing on one girl when there are millions out there. Whenever you focus on getting a specific girl, instead of a skill set that lets you get any girl you are doing yourself a disservice. You are basically sacrificing long game, for short game that can ruin your reputation and the respect of those around you. Getting the girl can happen but don't put forth any additional effort that takes away from building a better social network. I always have a weekend get together where I invi…	/r/seduction	28/03/17 06:17 PM
2	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. Heres a temp link to the proposal details and a screenshot from my incomplete blog. http://perfectz.com/?p=78	/r/seduction	09/10/14 05:00 PM
1	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. I can interpret this question two ways. Do you want help on how to game without alcohol or are you looking for alcohol free venues. Gaming without alcohol If you find yourself too uncomfortable while sober to approach girls. Focus on Indirect Game. Routines, and stacks.. Why you ask, alcohol gave you courage because it was something you could rely on to get you over the hump. Instead depend on a plan or a strategy I find that indirect tends to have the most straight forward strategies. Mystery o…	/r/seduction	09/10/14 01:08 PM
1	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. Trail by fire, I've had nothing besides torrents, a simple pick up membership, these very forms, youtube and modeling myself after people I meet that instilled a strong sense of charisma in me. Actionable item I wanted to build from outside the community as much as possible so I told my friends I was doing a podcast. I would invite them over and record haters and supporters comments on what I was doing. The insight I got god damn, sometimes I was so deep in it we get mind washed by the propagand…	/r/seduction	09/10/14 12:44 PM
1	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. Yes, of course don't push your friends away. Just let them slide away.. the people who were causing the most trouble I just deleted from my phone and only store there number in word doc. I stopped calling them or inviting them places unless they initiated with a positive news. I gave them a 3 month vacation from access to me. Then I would invite them to coffee to test them out if they were still a hater i kept them on the once every 3 months list. Eventually I didn't have time to manage all of t…	/r/seduction	09/10/14 12:31 PM
1	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. I've found this statement is never true, there's always some value to be added, but I will play devils advocate here and assume you have no value transparent to you. Here is a few tips. This is something I will post a walk through on here later but hopefully one of the more pro guys in here will first :). Sappy answer Appreciating another person, being interested in there opinions and offering them opportunities to express their values inside itself add a strong emotional value to most women. Ha…	/r/seduction	09/10/14 12:25 PM
1	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. Speed dating is so easy, and so much faster, and has the added practice of helping you practice number closing and all that, I really recommend that path but this idea does interest me. Give me the website link I'd love to sponsor one of my old students through that and see how it works out for him and report back to the community. Also make sure to write if you take the plunge we need to talk things out on here so we know whats acutal good advice and services, and how to avoid just marketing hy…	/r/seduction	09/10/14 06:40 AM
1	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. I definitely think my next article will be on this, it seemed to generate the most interest. at any rate I'll hit you with some of the high points. First time I got 8 dates the second time I got 6, all together costs me about 120 dollars first run. 80 dollars the second run. I meet tons of girls but not to many with my exact criteria, such a bold move attracts a certain type which wasn't my type. I used 6 different dating sites, I came up with a strategy to find people with the highest response …	/r/seduction	09/10/14 06:23 AM
5	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. If you have an elance account, you can see all the details of the job here.. https://www.elance.com/job/51382153/proposals?bidid=51391048#bid_51391048 the person I'm talking about was the contractor named May D. If I see an interest (more upvotes or questions) I will post a how to outsource your dating post for next monday. Note I want to mention I don't recommend this approach, although it can work, it helped me grow the least.. this is really only something to do for kicks and not if your seri…	/r/seduction	09/10/14 05:27 AM
1	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. Tribes: We Need You to Lead Us , and poke the box.. I am a technical architect by trade, so purple cow was my acutal favorite book but that was unpick up related. His talks actually had the biggest effect on me as I find his writing style to beat a dead horse every now and then.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDtkBsWgzWE	/r/seduction	09/10/14 04:30 AM
4	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. Yeah I hired a bunch of teams using elance.com to run my dating profiles... it was really trippy experience. Found one who would work for 4 dollars an hour in spain who acutally did the best job. I got the idea from a Tim Ferriss Youtube video.. if your interested I can write an article on that or give you the details via PM.	/r/seduction	09/10/14 04:24 AM
8	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. First comment, Nice brother awesome to hear your out there making a change for the positive in your life. I do have some bad news though your concern is on the wrong step of the game, at first you just want to learn to walk up to people. My rule for new students is the first thing you have to do is getting rejected as badly in front of us 10 times and if you’re willing to do it and laugh with us dinner and drinks are on me. This is because rejection doesn’t matter at first, step one is being com…	/r/seduction	09/10/14 01:26 AM
2	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. Models by Mark Manson, I listened to the audio book and everything he said was a compilation of, I wish this was the first thing I heard. Very honest even when it hurts, and encouraging of a more positive type of player.	/r/seduction	08/10/14 07:40 PM
1	Two Part Question: How does one fucking small talk? How does one stop comparing himself to other guys? There is a concept in pick up called rapport, which helps us build a back and forth between people. The book How to win friends and influence people will help immensely with this also studying NLP Neurolingustic programming helps as well if your looking for a book that's torrent-able. On the non-book side, you could practice writing short stories every weekend, just start with one paragraph you'd be amazed how much the intellectual exercise will help you have a bank of experiences to pull from. …	/r/seduction	08/10/14 07:16 PM
2	Advice I want to pass down to next generation of budding players. I recommend watching scam school, by brian brush wood to get started. Then moving on to disturb reality youtube videos. I then would recommend the book the royal road to card magic or card magic by oz pearlman. If your in the atlanta area, just tell me I'll take you out and we'll do street magic in the local park.	/r/seduction	08/10/14 06:54 PM
1	What do you think would happen if an average-to-above-average-looking guy walked around an area confidently asking girls for hugs? When I took my first student, I found he was totally afraid of touching people, and because of it although he approached constantly he still gave off a very creepy vibe. So I gave him a project. When we went out every time he had to high-five 20 people, then salsa dance spin 10 people as his opener, and then hug 10 people. At first it was a mess, he couldn't get high fives, he just came off as a creepy and it was kind of rough but it ended up teaching both of us a whole lot about confidence, and…	/r/seduction	06/04/14 02:14 PM
2	I'm going to practice my night game for the very first time alone, do you guys have any tips? I hate going out alone, but it is the best way to get better faster. I had to for a while, because I decided to go out every night for a month, and none of my wingman could support the frequency, heres my favorite experience. I live in ATL and went to a club called Vanquish, that was pretty ghetto fabulous. Which was quite intimidating, as I'm shy and I'm not exactly overflowing with street creed. It was the type of club you'd see in a rap music video. I went early so was one of the first one th…	/r/seduction	06/04/14 02:01 PM
1	Rejection is a wonderful thing Interesting conversation with Seth Godin who reinforces your beliefs. "Those who succeed are not those who never lose, but those who have the most interactions." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDtkBsWgzWE	/r/seduction	02/04/14 02:33 PM
3	I had another melt down Sorry this is going to be long, but two points to consider. Point 1: If you don't believe in the product your selling, why would anyone else buy it. How can you devout yourself to something you don't believe in. My first week of infield, after 2 months of studying material. I found myself learning to talk to people but not really pushing myself over the edge. I got rejected over 40 times in one week. So I decided I needed to do something, anything different. So the next weekend I worked as a sel…	/r/seduction	02/04/14 02:28 PM
-1	Molly(MDMA) and Pick-up If you really want to gain a skill you would want that skill regardless of mental state . I don't think I'd ever recommend using something that makes you not yourself if you want to ingrain or learn new habits. Sure if your goal is just to pick up a chick that night then whatever if it works, but if your goal is to learn and build a skill fuck that.	/r/seduction	02/04/14 01:54 PM
1	I need your help guys. Social life is falling. Try meetup.com and search for new social groups to join. Find a bar or restaurant with high traffic and become a regular. Sign up for a thrillist account as well, or search attractions on yelp and weekly go to events. Also try https://www.joingrouper.com/ if you have two friends to go on dates with. Lastly approaching groups is a good a idea tell them your new in town and are trying to find cool people to get to know, and if your in atl drop me a line and we'll approach together.	/r/seduction	01/04/14 02:05 PM
1	This subreddit and PUA in general is serious over-thinking and mental masturbation!! You really have to change your approach... Approach angles? Learning to half-face smirk properly? Are you kidding me??? formula: 20% theory 60 % approaches/action 20% personal life prep work. I agree with the poster, deskchair PUA's are lame, but if your spending 3x time in the field than you do on forums or reading books, every week you'll be fine. To be honest you should only really be testing one or two techniques at a time to keep your approach as controlled as possible so you can actually rate the differences anyways. I don't think a wealth of information is bad, I'm super psyched people are digging that dee…	/r/seduction	01/04/14 01:38 PM
1	Acting strange when passing by the hot girls in the street? Don't know how to react, when to make eye contact? How to fix this? Please post how that goes, I love to be inspired by other people pushing the limit.	/r/seduction	01/04/14 05:17 AM
2	How to cold approach with other AFCs? Ruby is the name i use a lot, since when I started I tried a ton of a different names, and too many times there was a you know so and so, exotic names are harder to get tripped up in that way. Also this is one of my favorite songs :) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qObzgUfCl28 .	/r/seduction	31/03/14 08:12 PM
1	How does escalating look like for more quiet, low-energy, intellectual guys? My comment is play to your strength. Figure out a conversational thread or a story where you can sexually escalate naturally. I usually do fake palm reading, or ring reading, or even tell a story about salsa dancing and show the girl how we were dancing by grabbing her. One of my favorite training routines was from style's annihilation method video. In the conversation you work in that your the worlds best thumb wrestler and challenge the girl. Then cheat viciously and then when you win give her…	/r/seduction	31/03/14 07:48 PM
5	Acting strange when passing by the hot girls in the street? Don't know how to react, when to make eye contact? How to fix this? I had this problem when I began as well. I read a book the 4 hour work week and it mentioned a comforted challenge that improved this over time I added my own twist and now I put my friends trying to learn sharper skills through it, and when I feel ocular-ly shy put myself back through it. Buy a pair of sunglasses and for 2 weeks go to the mall food court or another public place and practice staring everyone who walks by in the eyes. They won't be able to tell if you are staring right at them be…	/r/seduction	31/03/14 07:35 PM
3	How to cold approach with other AFCs? Some of my standard rules. I try not to approach in groups. I always stagger my approach so after a few minutes my friend can slide in with a value opener, or another conversation point. Also you all should be talking to each other looking like your having a good time. we have a rule one person approaches the group then after a few minutes the others approach with the line. Have you seen ruby. This gives you the chance to tell your wing to go away by simply saying. "No she said she'd be here lat…	/r/seduction	31/03/14 07:25 PM
2	How do you stay motivated after a bad/embarrassing rejection? How do I stay motivated, my stragety is to keep a list of attempts and write down a list for four things I did right or have learned that I will follow moving forward, that I want to make a standard, and then one thing that i did wrong that I want to work on from that approach, and also remind myself the goal isn't to win its to fail as many times safely as possible that way I can learn as much as possible and get a skill over the long term. So for example I would write down this is my journal. …	/r/seduction	31/03/14 07:15 PM