PerfumedPassion Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Women need to stop acting like it’s men’s fault they have to work Honestly, it sounds like he's looking for a slave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 08:24 AM
3	I don't think women love men the way men love women and that's not a bad thing I would die for my husband but he's the only man I would. I don't think my love is all that different from his.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 03:48 AM
2	Passport bros is the only real solution for average and below average men. And men and women should agree with it Why do so many passport bros care if they can earn our approval? Why don't you just do what you're planning to do without notifying everyone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 03:44 AM
–	Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different. A lot of men do indeed care about a woman's income, you do not speak for all men. Most expect women to pay 50/50 on bills while still expecting her to do most of the chores. Men also used to be slimmer, men are just as fat as women these days. I don't discuss my personal life here so I have no idea how you came to the conclusion that I'm single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 05:08 PM
1	Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different. Sounds like you have really high standards for a partners physical abilities. You have the option of doing the more challenging activities with your friends. Couples don't need to be attached at the hip.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 05:03 PM
1	Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different. It never occurred to me that every person I date be perfectly equal to me in physical ability. I've dated fatter and thinner, athletic and non despite being a very physical person myself. I never worried about them being as physically fit as me, so I don't relate to your mentality. It just comes across as fatphobia which you should be honest about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 01:59 PM
1	Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different. That's not been my observation and I work out regularly and have for over a decade. I don't think it's about lifestyle or keeping up, you just clearly display a bias of looking down on overweight people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 01:51 PM
2	Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different. You do realize not all fat people are sedentary. There are fat people in gyms and on walking trails..	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 01:22 PM
1	Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different. He clearly talking about overweight men rejecting overweight women, etc. Which is very much a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 01:17 PM
0	Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different. Just as you don't owe anyone effort in courtship, no one owes you any romantic or sexual interest. We aren't equal, women still carry an incredibly unequal load when it comes to providing domestic labor and child care, all while most women work full time. Men benefit from women's increased income when it comes to paying the bills men were primarily responsible for and still receive women's continued labor, while women get so little from men. We have far less reason to initiate relationships now …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 12:47 PM
1	Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different. I think it's obvious that OP is pointing out that the very same men who abuse their bodies by overeating, using drugs and alcohol then turn their nose up at the same type of woman all while claiming to want their looksmatch. Either many men are in denial about their own looks or they won't admit their own hypergamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 12:35 PM
1	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness That's your opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 06:38 PM
1	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness It sounds reductive and resentful to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 06:22 PM
1	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness Whatever. Looked like a question to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 06:09 PM
0	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness I took it as you asking OP for a reason for her preference when you asked "because you like him?" I gave an answer on why that would be less likely seeing as most people don't even know if they like each other on a first date or if both have the same intentions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 05:32 PM
1	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness Currently over 80% of women over forty have a child. That's a very big majority. Projecting fewer women will have children before they get close to reaching the end of their reproductive years is a guess at best	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 05:16 PM
-3	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness And as I already explained, unless I knew the man ahead of time, the first date is with a stranger. If a stranger asks me on a date he should offer to pay. I don't know his intentions and I'm not interested in wasting money on a man pretending to be interested in getting to know me when all he wants in nsa sex. That's my reason for preferring men who offer to pay. You asked why someone might prefer that and I can't make it any clearer	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 05:14 PM
2	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness I disagree. Paying shows a man's level of interest regardless of reproductive ability. And some infertile and childless women go on to have or adopt children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 04:56 PM
-2	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness Most women eventually have children so her point is far from moot	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 04:51 PM
0	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness There is no proof most women don't want kids. The reality proves most women have them. Women would be foolish not to care whether her partner has the resources to support her and her offspring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 04:50 PM
1	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness No one asked you to change your opinion just pointed out the obvious disagreeable tone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 04:46 PM
-2	Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeableness If it's the first date I don't know if I like him. If he asks he should be willing to pay. I'm not interested in dropping money on someone who might be wasting my time expecting easy, free casual sex when that's not what I'm looking for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/26 04:44 PM
3	Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is Entitlement This is my take. If interest is mutual and you meet on a dating app or dating event there should be discussion about the type of date and the budget for it. Both parties should expect to spend something. But cold approaching someone and expecting them to expend money on you at whatever location you choose is unreasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 03:29 AM
3	Women need to influence other women to adapt to a male centric love system instead of following a female one to make society better Women who have children are not healthier, happier or longer lived.. total opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 02:09 PM
1	Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves. Well it was the only group you mentioned...	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 01:57 PM
4	Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves. You may not personally expect anything from women but I'd argue that puts you in a very small minority. For the population of men that do date women, there's a great deal of expectation from their end. Naturally women have their own expectations. It's up to each individual to decide what's reasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 01:55 PM
2	Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves. Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 01:50 PM
2	Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves. Only white supremacists are complaining about women not reproducing enough? Seriously? Either way, white men aren't the only one's pressuring their partner to reproduce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 01:49 PM
3	Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves. Honestly, if he believes men bring so much more value than women he really should consider dating men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 01:46 PM
9	Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves. If you believe "many" women behave parasitically why not simply opt out of dating? Isn't it entitled of you to think you can dictate the terms of dating and what women should get out of it to us? Isn't expecting access to women's time, sexuality and reproductive labor while expecting to give nothing in return parasitic of men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 01:41 PM
3	Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves. Half of the women in my country and age group don't have any children because we don't want to face the repercussions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 01:33 PM
8	Many women want a man who is "generous" without being generous themselves. This is the only sensible statement on this subject I've seen you make. Women really need to stop bringing children into a collapsing and anti woman world where their contributions and sacrifice isn't valued, especially by men. By that same token men need to stop nagging us for children and stay at home dads and husbands should stop exploiting women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 01:29 PM
–	Do transmaxxers finally prove women do have it better? You deliberately chose to make your life harder by going on testosterone? Do you pass and have first hand experience or do you just trust men when they claim to have it worse than women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 08:10 AM
1	The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women. Yes, it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 05:03 PM
1	The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women. Fair enough. I find a lot of men want and expect it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 04:44 AM
1	The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women. It's very important to me. This particular thread is overrepresented by women who dislike receiving. This is not the norm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 02:32 AM
1	The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women. Do you think most women want your bleachy, snot textured load in our mouths? Many of us find it repulsive but allow it anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 02:26 AM
6	I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnel And no one really cares if or why you chose to drop out of dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/26 07:13 AM
2	Men often look for a stable relationship in order to have a regular sex life. Say goodbye to your chances. You can't gain consent through deception.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 08:30 PM
0	Men love and respect pick mes Nah, simp is the term you're looking for	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 02:56 AM
–	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? What evasion? You asked if I profile based on race and religion and I answered. Yes, I do. If they're men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/26 03:55 PM
1	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? Speaking personally, I "profile" pretty much all types of men as potentially dangerous because of how much higher their propensity for violence is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 04:58 PM
1	Do you think most guys suffer the consequences of the actions of the few that are dangerous? Statistically men commit over 90% of violent crime. Being more cautious around the person almost 100% more likely to harm you just makes sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/26 04:24 PM
–	Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth rates You didn't give me an example of what society has done, but rather what my parents have done. And to access that technology, food, clothing etc. as an adult I have to work to earn the money to access anything I want or need. Society has never gifted any of it to me. That doesn't sound like a good enough reason to demand I risk my life giving birth and spend hundreds of thousands of dollars raising a child. What equivalent sacrifice should men be expected to make?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 05:37 AM
–	Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth rates What do we owe to society? If we owe a lot as you stated then give me several examples of what you think we owe and why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/26 03:56 PM
2	"Man or Bear" argument is a striking example of women's tendency towards in-group sensationalism and overdramatization She named and quoted more than one, where's your retort?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/26 05:04 PM
7	Q4women would you date a trans guy? The belief that it's possible for a human to change their sex. I understand that presenting as the opposite sex is healing for some people and I empathize with that as a gender non confirming woman. But I can't pretend to believe that we can change sex for someone else's benefit and it would lead to constant conflict and hurt feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 09:08 PM
3	Q4women would you date a trans guy? No. Not because I don't find them attractive, I've found quite a few attractive actually, but because we have incompatible viewpoints. No. Not because I have anything against bisexual men but because by dating trans people they prove our views are incompatible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 07:15 PM
3	Is there a way to make dating fair for men ethically - without reducing the rights of women, or challenging the autonomy of others? Of course periods have everything to do with reproductive function, you can't reproduce without a menstrual cycle. Men getting murdered by men has what exactly to do with the subject? So, you think a reasonable solution to avoid rape is for women to never leave the house? You can't be serious. If anyone should be forced to stay home it should be men. Y'all are doing the majority of the murdering and raping	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 02:40 AM
8	Is there a way to make dating fair for men ethically - without reducing the rights of women, or challenging the autonomy of others? I can be as celibate as I want and still won't be able to avoid painful and expensive periods. And I'm guessing you forgot about rape?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/26 10:22 PM
–	it’s depressing that money feels like the only way out . Red pill advice I actually agree with. Dating people you can actually attract instead of complaining about rejection from people out of your league. It really should be stated more often as this would solve the majority of these cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 01:31 PM
2	Women defend lesbian relationship instability and it exposes the whole narrative A would-be father's feelings about a woman's abortion don't compare to a woman being forced to birth a baby she didn't willingly conceive, being unable to abort an already dead fetus and going to prison for a miscarriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 06:41 AM
5	Women defend lesbian relationship instability and it exposes the whole narrative You get irrationally angry at the sight of lesbians but have the audacity to call someone else homophobic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 04:37 AM
1	Women defend lesbian relationship instability and it exposes the whole narrative Western women in many US states don't have the same reproductive rights as men which results in our incarceration and deaths.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 04:30 AM
–	Women who prefer men without facial hair are creeps. Bonafide creep here	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/26 06:10 PM
–	What makes you not to want to date a woman? Butches would give any woman a better experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/26 03:08 AM
–	What makes you not to want to date a woman? This, just this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/26 03:06 AM
0	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? The articles you linked specifically mention homeless and sex worker trans people, not trans individuals across the board. Girls who run away from home and engage in sex work face extremely high levels of trafficking compared to girls from safer environments. These articles primarily focus on the risks associated with poverty and abuse which can happen in both groups. This isn't trans vs cis it's bad home/abuse/poverty vs a privileged upbringing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 11:42 AM
2	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? I live in a red state, I don't need to be lectured by you about how regressive they are. Violence against women is on the rise here too but they still won't call it the hate crime that it is. I would like to see your studies showing trans people are at much greater risk of being assaulted and trafficked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 03:07 AM
2	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? Ask him yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:59 PM
2	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? His comment from seven minutes ago states "Yes. Women are more privileged than trans people."	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:58 PM
2	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? Dude..he just posted another comment that literally says he believes women are more privileged than trans people. Read it yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:56 PM
2	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? Why don't you read his comments instead of claiming I'm baiting people?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:54 PM
2	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? He literally just responded, yes, women are more privileged than trans people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:51 PM
1	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? And for clarification, even if he only meant me and not women as a class how would he know my level of privilege in this brief exchange?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:49 PM
1	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? No, you're wrong. He literally responded that he believes women are more privileged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:47 PM
0	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? I didn't and still don't see any facts or studies that prove trans people are more opposed than women and girls. The onus to provide proof of this position is on the person making it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:44 PM
1	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? I'm starting to wonder if he even knows what identity politics are. It really is dumb, I just wish it wasn't so common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:39 PM
1	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? In the same paragraph you claim to not be misogynist you also claim women are privileged? I can't take you seriously. At least I'm not such a coward that I deny my own biases, I own what I am.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:28 PM
2	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? At this point I'm only responding to avocadolanche3000 so everyone reading this can see his hypocrisy and seething hatred of women. The wildest part of this debate sub for me is seeing men come up with the weakest arguments to supposedly prove women aren't and have never been oppressed and even if we were a long, long time ago it doesn't come close to the oppression males face today. I wish it didn't upset me as much as it does and that I could laugh about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:22 PM
5	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? Who are you to tell me how to identify? Do you tell trans people how to identify or only women? You complain about my supposed bigotry while unabashedly being a misogynist yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:12 PM
0	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? You didn't prove that trans people are The Mostest Oppressed people of all time. You just stated an opinion. Your opinions don't prove that I'm delusional or insane. How could you possibly know what life is like for cis women? At least I gave factual reasons for my perspective. But thanks for proving that men hate women regardless of their own political ideation. Men like you serve to only reaffirm my man hating stance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 08:04 PM
2	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? I just read your comments and I want to let you know I appreciate what you take the time to do. The fact that you had every pill arguing with you proves how universal misogynistic attitudes really are. These same men have the audacity to question where misandry comes from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 07:51 PM
0	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? Very similar experiences growing up a tomboy myself. Never being treated like I was part of the team even though I was one of the better players. Getting teased and mocked for having boobs and generally being female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 07:36 PM
6	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? Everyone has to deal with men, what are you talking about? Do you think all lesbians live on the isle of lesbos?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 07:25 PM
2	Q4W: I was surprised by all the misandry I see in this sub. Where do you think women learn to be misandrists. If you are personally misandrist, where did you learn it? How can women unlearn it? How the fuck is it insane to think trans people are less oppressed than women? Trans people haven't even existed as long as women have? I can be incarcerated for having a miscarriage in the state I live in, nobody is getting arrested for being trans here. Never mind the women and girls the world over being stoned to death and genitally mutilated just for simply being born female. There's no way to identify out of this oppression. Typical leftist bro looking for any excuse to dunk on women. As lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 07:22 PM
1	Would you date someone who is bisexual? I wouldn't recommend a job in science, you know nothing of human anatomy. If a vagina were indeed an open wound it would constantly be closing or scabbing over in an attempt to heal itself. The myriad of feminine hygiene products are a testament to misogynistic attitudes towards women's bodies and the predatory greed of corporations trying to capitalize on women's insecurities and shame. Something men like you contribute to. The shaft of the penis is similar to the thinner skin one might have on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/24 06:46 PM