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People will call bullshit but I actually fell in love at first sight once. Like my jaw actually fell on open when I saw him and I said “that’s the one!” He was (and still is) the most beautiful man I’ve ever seen in person. Too bad he was 20 years older than me, my superior in a professional setting and worst of all, gay. I never did get him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:43 AM
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I laughed my ass off about that. Ah yes, Switzerland, land of ham-beasts and uggos despite being one of the richest and fashion forward countries in the world. Gtfo! He keeps saying 9’s only exist in Eastern Europe and couldn’t possibly exist somewhere like Switzerland. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:48 AM
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I honestly don’t believe your story is real because ??? women just don’t act like that. Something else must have occurred to set that divorce in motion. What’s far more realistic is for a woman to keep her low value partner but cheat on them with a higher value partner, i.e. have your cake and eat it too. Men would probably act similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:58 PM
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This is a random tangent not related to the post, but I feel like you have it backwards since most men I know go on boys trips pretty often - fishing trips, weekends in Vegas, getting a cabin in the mountains and doing manly stuff like hiking, ski trips, etc. My husband goes on a lot more boys trips than I go on girls trips, and a lot of the guys I know in my life are similar. I think when men do have a tight knit group of friends it is much, much tighter than any group of women could ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:43 PM
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Bingo. Women will deny it all day, but just like men they only care about looks. Hell, take this example - of course they’re gonna fuck Pierce Brosnan, who still looks sexy at 70, over some random, average faced slob in his 30’s. If you’re a good looking man you will have no problem at all pulling women, including younger ones. If you’re an average or less than average looking fella it just ain’t gonna happen. If you think money plays that much of a difference, it doesn’t. No one cares if you ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:03 AM
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I’m a woman and I can verify your second paragraph is true. I’ve both watched it happen and unfortunately, in my younger blunder years, engaged in that kind of behavior. If any woman doesn’t admit that it happens she is either very sheltered, asexual or willfully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 08:01 PM
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Yup! I’m glad your enjoying the hair haha. For me it was tattoos. I know a lot of guys (and people in general) hate tattoos, but pregnancy ruined my legs with varicose veins anyway so I’m just gonna tattoo them because I want to. Take it or leave it. If someone doesn’t want to fuck me because of some ink in my skin I really don’t care. I can find someone else who will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:08 PM
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Women are always in competition with other women, regardless of their age. So yes, a single 30 year old is in competition with both single 20 and single 40 year olds because they’re all in the same dating pool. This is exactly the same as men. On the other hand, it is true many women are obsessed with aging and trying to avoid it. The younger women remind them that they are in fact getting older, and subconsciously they are bitter about it. I think women in general are always afraid their man wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:27 PM
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This is a bad idea lol. Romance novels are genuinely just porn for women. You can choose your preferred type just like on a porn site - extremely rich pretty boy, buff military guy, cute divorcee with a dad bod, genius level thin nerd, exotic foreign guy, bad boy mafioso… you get it. Don’t forget they always have a huge dick too. It’s like a dude searching “milf”, “Latina”, “big tits” etc. It’s all a fantasy. Just like a regular woman is never gonna be a porn star no regular guy is gonna be a ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:11 PM
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I guarantee the friend is stunning and OP is an uggo, but OP just can’t see it and assigns these numbers to people that are totally arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:15 AM
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Absolutely yes to 1-3. And you should be doing that for a child of either gender to give them the best chance at success in life. 4 and 5 are way to invasive unless there is an actual issue (dwarfism, facial deformity, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:35 AM
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The SA that occurred to me was when I was young and attractive. I’m now in my 30’s and highly unlikely to be the victim of a random attack and also wise enough to not trust that my male “friends” won’t do something to me. I would feel differently if I was molested as a child, I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:23 AM
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Lmao, can you undue sexual assault that’s already happened? Like a magic reset button? If you can, yes. If you can’t, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:44 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:40 AM
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It’s just an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:36 AM
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Well, idk then. Maybe he is self sabotaging himself in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:36 PM
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He must not be as handsome as he (or you) thinks he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:25 PM
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Sorry I gotta chime in and say 50-60 year olds (and beyond) are definitely having sex. Swingers clubs are full of the 45+ crowd. Both older men and women are all on HRT now and have regular libidos, but also it’s not like you shrivel up and die after age 30, jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:23 PM
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I don’t think adults should be messing with literal teenagers, but once you enter your 20’s you’re an adult. When I was 20 I fell madly in love with a man 18 years older than me. I wasn’t coerced. I wasn’t manipulated. It was me who wanted him, not vice versa, and actually the fact that he didn’t really want me is what ended us (among other things I will not get into). So long as everyone is above the age of consent love is love and I don’t think it’s anyone else’s business what goes on. (This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:35 PM
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Is my menstrual cycle still in affect? If it is, then as much as I’m having now. A lot during my fertile window (2x a day at least), a fair amount during my late luteal stage, and once a week the rest of the time. If I don’t have a menstrual cycle due to the infertility mentioned above, then at least once a day regardless. I wish I had that sort of libido, but being a post-puberty female I am very limited in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:44 AM
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I feel bad about both of the virginities I took :/ everyone deserves to lose it to someone they love *caveat, I lost mine to someone I loved who didn’t love me back. It sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:47 PM
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People in this thread are acting like it’s crazy, but discussion regarding people’s personal sex lives has never come up at any job I’ve ever worked - and I’ve worked in quite a few fields, some male dominated and some female dominated. Who tf is telling anyone they work with that they’re a virgin? The discussion only goes as far as “do you have a spouse/partner/whatever”. The most sexual anyone has ever got at work is some horny guys I worked with in a kitchen talking about what hot famous chic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:20 PM
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The case of Agafia Lykova (who has survived alone in Siberia not only without men, but any person at all) proves this wrong. Call it whataboutism, but all organisms have the drive to live and will do what it takes to survive. We’re just so far removed from our instincts people really believe that men must provide for women without exception when that’s just not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:51 PM
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This is a certain kind of guy, but any guy who thinks aggressively driving a certain kind of car or motorcycle makes him sexy is a huge ick. Like dude you are not as cool as you think you are, and no I don’t want to die in a high impact crash in your overpowered Charger or your crotch rocket. Really I think it’s a symptom of a man thinking an external thing can make him more masculine - it just can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:26 PM
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I agree she is aging well, but I think she is very generic looking. But to each their own, I just feel like she is not as special in the looks department as people make her out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:28 AM
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Meh, I think she’s kind of generic looking plus she has no ass. But I’m a straight woman so maybe not the best judge of female beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:27 AM
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Taylor Swift is a billionaire. That alone makes her one of the most powerful people in the world. She’s also mildly attractive and very popular, of course there are dudes who would gnaw off their own arm to be with her! Imagine you marry her and she dies - that entire fortune, or at least most of it, will be yours. It’s a Bluebeard’s dream, and make no mistake, those guys are out there. (male version of black widows for those not in the know)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:10 AM
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PCOS is not caused by high testosterone, it’s caused by high progesterone and low estrogen. The testosterone then goes out of whack because of the other two. A woman with truly high testosterone would present as a man who’s gone through puberty (see trans people on HRT for examples). People with PCOS have very specific physical markers for the disorder, and at the end of the day it is a syndrome with clinical features that one needs to be formally diagnosed with. It’s way, waaay more complicated…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:21 AM
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I’m 34 so a little out of the range but.. If we’re talking serious relationship I will only do 20 years older (54) to 10 years younger (24), so that age range is out of my preference. Sexually I will go down to 21, but never below that. Fwiw I have an 18 year old nephew so I see 18 year olds literally as if I raised them. I mean I changed his poopy diapers and potty trained him so there is no way I would take an 18 year old seriously 😂 you could literally be my kid (if I got knocked up at 16)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:54 PM
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From my POV it seems like most men are also insecure. Otherwise they wouldn’t spend money on gym memberships, accutane and hair systems. Men on average have worse skin than women as well, so I don’t understand why they don’t just use makeup? Like you said, kings used to. It’s not like there’s anything inherently feminine about makeup it’s just men suddenly decided it wasn’t “manly” to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:45 AM
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Of course, they’re the exception! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:43 AM
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So what? The real question is why don’t men also hide their shame? I’m sorry but a lot of you fellas should try some concealer and foundation to hide your bad skin. Or how about clear or black nail polish to fix your messed up nails. This is a stupid argument. Everyone wants to look their best, women just figured out how. Men should follow suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:19 AM
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Eh, women definitely aren’t hornier than men. Women are at the mercy of their menstrual cycle. For the average woman this means one week of high sex drive (ovulation), one week of moderate sex drive (very late luteal phase) and two weeks of practically zero sex drive. Men don’t have this, they just tend to hover at high-to-moderate all the time. People get confused though. Women are just as kinky, just as perverse, and enjoy sex much much more than men but desire less of it. And that’s okay, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:55 AM
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No, because female against male rape is usually more manipulation based (be it with drugs or otherwise), and even when it is a physically violent rape there is the societal expectation that men cannot fight a woman even if they’re fighting back. I will agree with you that victims of female on male rape are in a lose-lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:00 AM
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Sure, that works for strange men you might encounter (and I do carry pepper spray), but what if your partner loses his cool and physically assaults you in your own home while you’re defenseless? If you have a gun in the home it’s a 50/50 chance who gets to it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:58 AM
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I’m talking basic hand to hand combat. Once you involve weapons it’s a different story. A man can easily strangle a woman to death over a simple argument, a woman cannot do the same to a man. And sure, either one can get a gun afterwards and shoot the other, but I’m not talking about those instances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:58 PM
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In terms of physical strength only, then yes. No woman could ever be as strong as the weakest man. Testosterone is a hell of drug and it does insane things to muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:42 PM
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The strongest woman is only as strong as the absolute weakest man. And most women are far weaker than that. A man can physically destroy a woman very easily, be it sexual or not. Once I was accosted by two friends of mine, jokingly when they threw me to the ground during a prank - one was an out of shape fatass and the other a feminine gay guy. Their strength scared the actual fuck out of me. If either of them wanted to kill me with their bare hands they could have easily, and these were the wea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 10:56 PM
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Wrong. James Gandolfini actually was very attractive despite his weight, and it had nothing to do with his “status” or whatever the fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:27 PM
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So long as the income is by legal means I would not have any issue being with someone like this. Of course should something happen to their income I would expect them to find other employment or income revenue, but as long as they have an income that’s really all that matters. Their life would have no bearing on if and what I choose to do for a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:53 PM
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Okay, I had to look up Mila Kunis without makeup and, really? That’s nightmare fuel? She looks like any random woman in the wild who you wouldn’t look twice at, but nowhere near “nightmare fuel” and if you truly believe that then you’ve clearly never seen an actually ugly person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:34 AM
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Well one particular guy was very overweight and resembled Drew Carey. He was bi and was sleeping with both men and women, he was very funny and outgoing and didn’t want for anything sexually. It is true he is probably the exception to the rule, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:42 PM
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I didn’t say anything about looks? Fwiw these guys I’m talking about ranged from average to attractive, and while there wasn’t a true uggo amongst them, some of these guys were nothing special really. They all just surrounded themselves with women and so opportunities presented themselves. The average ones with lots of female friends seemed to get laid more than super attractive dudes who never hung around girls and only picked up chicks at bars. Just from what I saw, obviously individual experi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:23 PM
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Extroverted, but also surrounds himself with women. Lots of female friends to hook up with on occasion, and then getting to know the friends of friends, etc. A lot of these dudes are not “stereotypically masculine” because they have more common ground with women, but they definitely do have more chances for sex. Next in line is guys with a good mix of male/female friends, for similar reasons. Guys who only hang out with other guys rarely get laid as often. This is just my observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:35 PM
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I realized at an extremely young age that I was ugly. Other kids would call me “fat girl” and teachers were always mean to me for no reason. At age 6 or so I thought it would be fun to be in one of those beauty competitions (think toddlers and tiaras) so I could wear a pretty dress and have my makeup done. I brought this up to my mom who just scrunched up her nose and said “you have to be cute to do those”. I was crushed. I remained fat for a lot of my childhood and teenage years. People would s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:25 AM
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It would not make any difference to me if both were equally physically attractive. However, if it’s a serious relationship I pick 5 years older and if it’s purely sexual I pick 5 years younger. I’m 34 fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:42 PM
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I was always told that you never make the first move on a man and you never ask for exclusivity first either because that shows you’re either desperate or a psycho. I’m not sure when the dynamic changed. The book “The Rules” was treated as gospel in the 90’s-00’s, and it pretty plainly states that men do not want stage five clingers. I’m a naturally very submissive partner so if I wasn’t married and had to navigate dating today I guess there’s no way I’d ever find a serious relationship 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:10 PM
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As someone who has had a ONS, no, not even close! If a woman has true “burning sexual desire” for a man she is going to try and corner him into a committed relationship. Would I have accepted a ONS from a man I wanted sexually because it was all I could get? Sure, but it’s not all I want. Also, the one time I did do it was because the opportunity presented itself and it seemed like fun. I was attracted to the guy but did not have some sort of insane “desire” for him. Most other women do it for f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:57 PM
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The 65 year old Tiffany Chen is a movie producer based out of Hong Kong and is married to another man. The one DeNiro is with is a 45 year old nobody from America. A simple google search and looking at google images will tell you this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:45 AM
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DeNiro’s partner is only 45, there is a film producer with the same name who is 65 that I think you are confusing her for. But even still, some people would say 45 is hopeless but there you have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:29 AM
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I doubt it has anything to do with you not being white. I sent a DM.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:22 PM
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Are you attractive? If you’re attractive then people will overlook your issues. If you’re not, well, you know the answer. That goes for both genders. Also, from one BPII person to another be kind to yourself. I suggest checking out r/bipolar2 if you’re not already on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:06 PM
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I can potentially see people, especially women, putting off settling down since there is no incentive to beat the biological clock. If you can combine your dna non-sexually with anyone else and skip the imperfect process of creation of gametes (and the issues that arise from advanced maternal and paternal age) then there’s no reason to rush. This will never happen though, and if it does it will be controlled by the super elite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:59 PM
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My unbiased opinion is that men and women hit the proverbial “Wall” at exactly the same time. It’s 50. You can take a look at tons of famous people who have been photographed their entire lives, both male and female, and see that it’s around age 50 where they stop looking like themselves and start looking like an old person. Of course a minuscule amount of the population will either age extremely well or be able to purchase surgeries/medications that slow their aging, but those people are incred…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:23 PM
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I’m confused what you mean by this, since she got married at at 40 (well past the so called Wall) to a literal billionaire? Fwiw I think her husband is quite unattractive and far below her on the looks totem pole, despite all the money, but they seem happy together so good for them. Also, I’m certain there are many men who would marry her if she was single. Maybe not young ones, but ones around her age for sure. She is very attractive and has a lot of influence in Hollywood, that’s worth somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:19 PM
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If they nitpick everything about your appearance from the get go, that is a bad sign. Within the first month of dating I had an ex who was constantly nagging me about my posture and the pants I wore to work (he didn’t like Bermuda shorts, but those were the only shorts the office I worked for at the time would let me wear in the summer. He took offense to them 🙄). It only got worse, and soon he took an issue with my natural hair texture. If you’re supposed to be in the honeymoon phase your partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:15 PM
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As long as marriage exists as a legal construct then affairs will always be stigmatized. It’s essentially someone reneging on their contract. I think on a personal level most people do understand and accept that affairs happen, and don’t care about what happens to other people, but of course no one wants it to happen to them. You just want your partner to breach your contract? Of course not! At the end of the day, it’s up to the individual if they want to accept their partner’s affair or not, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:32 PM
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Hard disagree, I have tons of friends who are gay guys and they are the most misogynistic men on the planet. I will say that men do have an inborn desire to own a ‘harem’ regardless of their own sexuality. Many gay guys I know love flaunting the crowd of women they’ve gathered into their inner circle and are seriously jealous and butthurt when a straight guy ‘steals’ one, and it has nothing to do with sex. So while I don’t think gay men want women’s approval they definitely want their attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:59 AM
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Honestly I just think the age-gap shaming is the moral dilemma du jour of online slacktivists. It has little to do with the actual age or “scarcity” of people involved in those relationships and it’s more just shaming people for having preferences. I get shamed just for defending them! I’m in an “age appropriate” marriage but I dated much older people in my 20’s, and at 34 would gladly date a 50-something if I was single. Hell I’d even consider a 20-something. Really as long as everyone involved…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:59 PM
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I haven’t watched enough of The Office to know when they were and weren’t dating, but when Pam is with the other dude on the booze cruise then yeah that’s cheating lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:35 AM
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Yeah, the idea of such a thing is so asinine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:24 PM
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For me it’s anything physical (sex obviously, but also snuggling/fondling/kissing/the intimate sort of hugs you only give a sexual partner) but also a certain amount of non-physical stuff as well. Such as: sexting other people, sending random dick pics, giving his number out to other women, ignoring me in favor of another woman, having a “work wife” (ugh, so disgusting), or otherwise treating another woman like his girlfriend even if nothing physical is involved is still cheating to me. Things t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:33 PM
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Yeah he is better looking but seems really douchey lmao so not much better!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:54 PM
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Well, first off this is fake and only filmed for the views. As for me personally, sure, the fact that he’s a stay at home husband is no problem. He even mentioned in the video he was getting some work done so it’s not like he’s not working, plus it seems like he keeps their household going. If I was working two jobs I’d also expect my husband to do the daily chores, etc. So this setup would be fine. However physically he is unattractive to me so I wouldn’t go for this particular dude whether he …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:56 PM
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Yes, exactly. Even male friends of mine are similar, and they have no problem letting me know how little they respect women even including me sometimes. My opinion means nothing to them and I’ll always be below a man on the social hierarchy. *They’re still my friends because we have shared interests and memories, but I don’t condone their prejudices
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:17 PM
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Taking women’s opinions into consideration and appreciating their contributions. Most “women’s work” is seen as inferior to men, but when a woman holds power over a man it makes him even less respectful because that is seen as emasculating and infantilizing to be subordinate to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:15 PM
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Being respectful and having genuine respect are two different things. Yes, almost all men, and people in general are respectful when in public. But no, I don’t believe most men have genuine respect for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:24 PM
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You overestimate how many Disney adults there are. Also most of these Disney stories were works of fiction long before Disney ever adapted them - Beauty and the Beast, Little Mermaid, Aladdin (1001 Nights), Sleeping Beauty - these were all stories in their own right written by other authors. If your problem is with the source material, your problem is actually with other people not involved with Disney at all. No Disney princess ever gets wasted and still gets her prince. Most are beacons of mod…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:49 AM
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You’re completely right. Whenever someone is saying age gap relationships are so gross it’s a single woman in her mid-late 20’s who still acts like a kid. These people always spout that saying “your brain isn’t fully developed until age 25”, which might be true, but the reality is both women and men are in their physical prime and most fertile years in their 20’s and that’s when they need to be experiencing life and dating, etc. They make ridiculous claims that being attracted to a person betwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:41 PM
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I have dated men significantly older than me (I was 19 when I dated a 30 y/o and 20 when I was with a 38 y/o) and it had nothing to do with “looking and feeling younger”. I connected with those guys because we had amazing chemistry and they were very attractive despite their age. We got along just fine and nothing was ever “forced”. When I was 22 I dated an 18 y/o and the same things applied. Age didn’t factor into our relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:36 PM
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This will never happen because the government will never let it happen. They don’t want to raise the hordes of fatherless children when they could just dupe some schmuck into paying for the kid. If I’m not mistaken, France and Israel have already banned paternity and even basic genetic testing for this reason. That being said I do think it should be mandatory, but not for the parents - for the child. Every child deserves to know the truth behind their conception and their potential genetic issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:00 PM
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This really depends. It’s rare that I ever want to “be” any character regardless of their gender, and more so just relate to them on a human level. I have empathy for victims in horror movies but would definitely never want to be them. Take a male fantasy movie like “Conan the Barbarian”. I feel empathy for him since he is enslaved as a child and happy for him when he becomes self actualized. I never want to be him though. I just asked my husband if he wants to be Conan and he responded with an …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:38 PM
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Anything harder than alcohol and occasional weed is an absolute hell no. I grew up in a household with a drug user (my brother has had issues with cocaine, adderall, meth and even alcohol). I’m just sick and tired of that life and drug users are the most annoying people on the planet. My empathy and sympathy for drug users has run dry. Fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:39 PM
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Most of my FWBs/filings were attractive enough to me that I would have committed to them if they wanted that. They didn’t want that, so we remained casual. That being said, most were very average looking. I have experienced visceral lust, but for men who are way out of my league and would never look twice at me. I have never, and will never, have the chance to sleep with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:26 AM
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Yes, I have dated/slept with bisexuals in the past. It’s not a big deal so long as they will be monogamous to me, and cheating with either gender is a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:47 PM
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I think this hits the nail on the head. People 30+ are usually on dating apps post divorce or after the breakup of a years long relationship. That kind of stress will rapidly age both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:12 PM
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The man I was most in love with in my life was not the man I ended up marrying. I do very much love my husband, but it was never the all encompassing “I would die for this person” love like I had for the other guy. The thing that made me love him was just literally a crazy, animalistic attraction to him. He was average looking and overweight, though relatively tall, but I was just addicted to him and the smell of him. It’s a long story, but it was actually love at first sight. He’s also very int…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:58 PM
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This largely depends on the person, but the short answer is yes. I am also ND (adhd and bp2) so I acknowledge beggars can’t be choosers, and often times other ND people are the only peopel who understand certain experiences I’ve had in life and can relate. My husband for instance is neurotypical on paper, but if he was evaluated I 100% think he would also have ADHD as well as ODD, and we had very similar experiences in school as kids that we bonded over as adults. So yeah, it all depends, but su…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:35 PM
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You are probably correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:47 PM
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I don’t see men as villains at all, I just think they see love differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:46 PM
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Here’s a few random thoughts: I think men are a lot more carefree, but don’t realize that they are. Of course everyone has to adhere to society’s standards to a degree, but men by in large do whatever they want whenever they want and don’t think twice about it. Men also aren’t afraid to take risks when compared to women. Men aren’t really interested in “love” at all, just respect and adoration from others, i.e. it’s all one sided and being given to them by others without reciprocation. Men as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:34 PM
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Probably just experience, since I’ve also been an office drone for a long time! A lot of those guys are unfulfilled and bored with life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:52 PM
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A man’s profession really doesn’t matter so much to me as long as he actually has a job that makes a living wage. That being said business owners seem interesting, but I’m sure the reality isn’t great. Engineers and architects seem sexy. But middle managers and generic office drones strike me as the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:22 PM
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It’s hard to describe but that particular event wasn’t a compliment, I could tell this dude did it a lot and was trying to get some sort of reaction out of me. Now that I’m really thinking about it he probably was just making fun of my looks right to my face but luckily I didn’t give him the reaction he wanted. I have had the more typical yelling from a car cat-calls happen, but that’s just annoying and not as malicious and creepy like this guy was, so probably a bad example.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:19 AM
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I have been cat called a few times in my life, but it is not the daily occurrence it seems to be for other women. And when it does happen it’s usually a very bizarre encounter (i.e. one time I was crossing the street and an old man just smiled at me and said ‘you’re very pretty’. To this day I’m not sure if he was making fun of me or cat calling me to be honest). The sad part is I’ve been actually sexually assaulted in public though, once a guy groped me on a city bus and another time a guy (mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:06 AM
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To answer the first question, no women aren’t hornier than men on average but they do have periods of hypersexuality due to having a menstrual cycle. Men are low level horny all the time whereas women have no libido two weeks of the month, mid libido for one week and extreme libido for another week. That’s on average of course, everyone is different and it’s a spectrum yadda yadda but you get my drift. Anyone saying women are continuously hornier than men is incorrect. However why would anyone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:58 AM
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