PeripheralxMvmnt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Medications All good my dude. You take care of yourself too.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/19 09:10 PM
1	Medications I hear you. It's helped me though, so there is hope I guess.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/19 06:12 PM
1	Medications Started taking Buproprion (150mg) two months after she moved out. I was an emotional dumpster fire before it. It doesn’t make anything better, and it doesn’t make me a zombie. So I still feel everything and have to process it. But it helps me stay focused and functional for my kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/19 04:23 PM
2	Nice side effect of divorce Same with a lot of my bills. It’s pretty sick. Haha	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/19 02:49 AM
1	Finding support afterwards I’m still in the early stages of this shitshow, but I have been where you are (and am still, in a way). The best thing I can say is just start. Getting out of the house is a start. If even to the grocery store or gas station to just walk around near people. Just get out. Pick a state road and just drive until you end up somewhere. Getting out of the “retreat mode” is hard but is important. And make sure you do it at least a few times a week if not everyday. Just keep up with it.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/09/19 04:45 AM
2	Advice on Dealing with STBXW Solid advice. She didn’t do this for you. She did it for whoever would look. You were just in the crossfire. Find yourself. Then find someone who respects him.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/19 02:50 PM
6	First weekend alone. This is the worst part. Worse than you missing her. Worse than whatever is going on. Focus on your projects. It keeps your mind from wandering and keeps your hands busy and away from vice and shallow bandages. And spend the time working on yourself, with a promise of always being there for the kids when they get back.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/19 12:16 AM
3	Separated/Divorced Men, what was helpful during the grief(e.g. books)? The Obstacle is the Way is helping me a lot. Stoicism helps keep me grounded and reminds me what is really important.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/19 03:24 AM