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| 7 | You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly ImmediatelyIt is what gives you some kind of leverage over a broad when you are a man. OR. You could not call them "broads" like a Victorian-Era Sailor hanging out "by the docks". 😂 But because it isn’t easy for a woman to find a man that she lusts after (who actually wants to seriously be with her in return), when she DOES find this “rare” gem, SHE is much more likely to be the “SIMP” in the relationship. 👀This is what happens when you spend 16 years trying to "guess" something you could just ask, if you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 09:33 PM |
| 10 | You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly ImmediatelyWrong, wrong wrong. Unlike men, women can go from seeing a platonic male friend to being a romantic relationship and do so frequently. Because respect, sincerity, and being there for people are sexy traits. Those men fuck AND get 'the good women". Good god "Women don't know what they want" - yeah we do. As individuals. Just like you. And when a man doesn't want to get to know a woman as a PERSON (ie: friendship), we know immediately. Because it's so rare for men to remain "respectful, sincere, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Very few people out there actually want an "equal partner "I think you need a math lesson. Tabulate how much of your salary yous have left if you were paying a sex worker, a live-in Chef, Governess, Housekeeper, Teacher, Personal Driver, Dry Cleaner, Dishwasher, Psychologist, Professional Cuddler, the Mommy you didn't get, but needed, and add that shit up. How much money do you have left, amigo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 12:12 AM |
| – | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapseThat's because the men would be gone for weeks or MONTHS on 1 hunt for a large kill. Who do you think handled all of the maintenance, tools, food, crops, children, protection (from animals & human threats), etc while the men were gone? Do you think women didn't fish? Most societies lived largely (what would now be called) "Pescatarian" and "Vegetarian" diets. Fish, fowl, & small game were primary sources of meat, whereas as those large, long hunts for a buffalo were for the TEXTILES that they co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 11:25 PM |
| – | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapseEvery facet of human intellect requires emotions. Your brain can function with limited or dimished emotions due to a medical condition, but emotions directly affect the following (not a complete list): Cognitive function, processing, memories, learning, recall, risk assessment, prioritizing choices, problem-solving, social awareness, morality... I think it's safe to say that the above are critical "intellect", don't you think? Maybe all that "looking for enlightenment through emotions" (ie: util… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 10:50 PM |
| – | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapseI cannot even begin to cover all the fallacies here...many of which come from a fundamental inability to understand, some from wildly patriarchal gaslighting (heaped upon all of us), but definitely some is just you feigning ignorance. There has never been a time when women had equal rights, equal protection, and equal representation under the law in America. Not 1 singular day. You posit so many things, but ignore the obvious - only ONE group is consistently and relentlessly targeting women's ri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?That's not what I said. I said literally the opposite of that. I said initial attraction for SEX-ONLY is different than long-term attraction for a relationship (which still includes sex). Any "man" that would disagree either has poor reading comprehension like you or is a teen who doesn't know how sex and relationships actual work. I'll be kind and assume you're the former. Maybe you should read what I said again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Are you asking why men should relax those standards? Or if I would? A hot body/face doesn't last. And a hot body/face doesn't mean you're emotionally or romantically compatible. Nor does it mean you have shared values, interests, or life plans that align. I mean there's a lot of things that don't matter for sex, but matter more long-term (sense of humor, intelligence, kindness, friendship, morals, honesty, religious/political views, etc). The list goes on and on. But initial attraction and long-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 07:17 AM |
| 3 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?If I'm looking for a "sex-only" thing, I tell the guy right away, as I almost always approach men first. That's not "disrespectful". And for sex/flings...surprise!! Women also care about a hot body & handsome face! Just like 100% of RP guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 06:24 AM |
| 9 | Speaking from personal experience, what do never married woman over the age of 34 look like?I mean, I'm never married (I believe in monogamy, but not the legal contract of marriage), have one adult child (no father, so no drama, single mom by choice), am 41 and am physically attractive to most. I'm not perfect, of course. But I look good, am educated, have had my own place/car/income since I was 18. My total "debt" is under 5K, I live simply. I love my kid and my pets. I like remaining independent bc that's how I was raised. Normal parents (though very strict & religious) - they've bee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | “Tired of taking care of a grown child”Yup. Everything was in my name, which is good in that I didn't have to deal with him too much after the fact, but bad in that all his financial screw ups landed on me once he was gone. I'm still paying off his debt. But it's worth it to have him gone, 💯. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 03:38 AM |
| 4 | “Tired of taking care of a grown child”My recent 9 year relationship was like this. He was a highly intelligent, financially successful guy. But he was a Harvard Graduate from a wealthy family, who's parents taught him he can do no wrong/is perfect. So while there were other issues contributing to me kicking him out in 2020, he would lay around & need to be told to do basic chores, he'd disappear for an entire day and not call text (then act like it was normal), he was irresponsible with our shared money (I managed all the bills & ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?Why would I tell him needs to be better than 90% of men to get a girlfriend? That's ridiculous. My son got his first real girlfriend at 16. They've been together 2.5 years now. So I tell him to make sure he has his own life, goals, college, and when he moves out...don't move in with her or any other partner until he's at least 28, etc. That he needs to live on his own (or with roomies) and focus on his education, career, and goals first. Not to get married unless he specifically believes in marr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 02:25 AM |
| 0 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Everyone has to learn self-discipline. Over actions, feelings, emotions, urges...everything. No one said it was easy, but that is the only way to be a functional human. Girls are taught to suppress everything about themselves from birth. Teens read magazines about bettering themselves (often harmful, sometimes helpful), and most people who read self-help books, choose therapy, etc are women. A lot of men don't want to be bothered being introspective, doing therapy, reading books, or learning to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Why do people expect men to 'just get it' when sociosexual development takes years in other primates?Especially since they talk about how their "value" goes up at age 30 and 40, but "can't find a good woman". Then they list things like "damaged women, women over 35, divorcees, widowers, women with kids, single moms, women with high body counts" as "not good enough" types of women for them. When a majority of women in their age range (25 - 45) have at least one of these attributes, as do men. On top of it, the way they describe these women is so disrespectful & disdainful that it's clear they're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Is sex actually an issue?Are you asking for personal opinion? For me, sex is rarely worth the risk for a woman (in the US, now that all sex carries the risk of forced birth). I don't mean totally, but if I had to put it on a list of things I care about/think about...it'd be maybe #30. I'd be a lot more upset if someone told me I could never ride a rollercoaster again than never have sex again. My response to the latter would be "meh". Intimacy is different, but women can get that from a variety of people/sources without… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Dating After 30 - The Dating Flip - Does It Exist?I'm 41 and have a grown son (so I'm a "single mom", but done "momming") and wouldn't consider dating a 55 year old man. I'm not saying others shouldn't, but when women who are in their 30's and 40's come here and say "I have no problem getting good men who are my age or younger"... men lose their minds or shriek "outlier!" I have only dated/had LTR's with single, never-married, childless men. The only thing that has changed for me since dating at 20 vs dating at 41 is that we all look a bit olde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Attractive men are really rareI have no idea. I'm guessing it's bc I'm 5'7 without shoes. Men obsess over women's height if she's tallish. The insecurity, complain if we wear 2" heels, etc is unattractive bc they're not CONFIDENT. I've also only dated men slightly younger than I am, but don't usually find out until I'm already attracted to/dating them. Probably the way men don't notice every little bulge, belly poof, or bit of cellulite until women harp on it, complain, point it out, and make themselves seem insecure (thus l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How often do you get approached and asked out in public?Ugh. So I though the 2 years of masking/minimal outings would lessen male attention. Especially since incels say I'm invisible (41). Just waiting for that glorious day! I stuck to grocery stores & places like target and still do (fully masked). Yet men in dark parking lots have said weird stuuf like: 'Hot Body!" &" "Nice jog" (actual shit pervs said just in the last 6 months). Even worse was my 6'0 son was with me (masked) so these pervs had no idea if they were saying this in front of a brother… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 07:20 AM |
| -1 | Attractive men are really rareI mean, I'm 5'7. The hottest overall BF I ever had was 5'9. I've since only dated men 6'0 and above. But their height? Never thought about it. It's a problem with THEM. Not most women. We don't care. It's dudes that care. It's a shame, too. Bc very 🔥guys have shitty self-esteem! We love hotties. Your height (or ours) is easily adjusted if it bothers you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 06:53 AM |
| 0 | Attractive men are really rareI dunno. I think men with a lot of tattoos, piercings, cute kids (I'm 41 so I expect kiddos), and a love of metal music are hot. I'm 41 so I've never dated a dude that's older than me or is divorced/has kids (I have 1 adult kid for reference, never married.) I prefer men my age or younger (within 3-5 yrs either way). I LOVE kids, but find most dudes my age don't have custody of their kids and that speaks volumes. I'm not attracted to men who play with guns, are misogynist /pretend they want to "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 06:36 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Unmarried women, why do you think the men you want aren't asking to marry you?They do ask me to marry them. But there's nothing in it for me. So I've said no 4 times. Not bc I oppose marriage for others, but I don't benefit myself. Even if the "perfect man" asked me, I'm not interested. Men are largely a burden I just don't need/want vs staying free. But those exes/men (most of them, to be honest there's like 2 of 8 I don't want to be friends with) are otherwise good people. I'm just not interested in contracts that don't benefit me. I like freedom. It's no deeper than th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.Also, I'm not contradicting myself. I have a lovely son. He may have kids, making me a Granny someday. But he has no father. You're very behind the times. And by "times" I meant 2003 when i chose to have child, but no man/father/marriage in the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.If I was the "exception" there wouldn't be endless articles about men being lonely and women opting out. It's also not "new". When men inevitably die early, women avoid marriage and enjoy friends, kids, fam, etc. Men who lose a spouse remarry ASAP traditionally. Both are fine & whatever is best for all, but literally all studies say men require a wife/LTR for health, while women gain nothing from it. Not a judgement, it's just the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menOK. But even a woman who is wildly into a "pump & dump" (or for women; "Leave your boots on bitch") scenario...they're still considering if his penis is worth the cost, risk, side effects, and possible physical outcome of casual sex, unwanted pregnancy, and forced birth. The emotional aspects of a casual sex relationship are an aside compared to the latter. I could get into the cost/effort of make-up, hair, clothes, a night out, grimy sheets, possible UTI/Bladder infection (even if using condoms… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menI'm not sure if you're agreeing or disagreeing with my comment, but yes. Men genuinely don't understand that we don't WANT to view them as a threat, but if we want to live... we have to. And it's because other men/many men have made that a statistical reality most girls/women understand from a ridiculously young age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?LOL. Thank you for your service, sir! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 03:14 AM |
| 0 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.What you miss is that I don't care if I'm alone. I enjoy it. I can have a full family, grandkids, great grandkids, etc without ever settling for a man (or partner in general). I'd rather have NO man, than one that isn't AT LEAST as proficient, self-reliant, & stable as I am. If I never have a LTR again, that's OK. If an impressive man comes along, that's OK too. That's common among even happily married women who are widowed early. They are relieved to be free. And there are countless studies & s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 02:35 AM |
| 0 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.I was using the "corporate" you. Not you personally. I don't have any ex-husbands or baby-daddies bc I knew I wanted a child, but didn't want to be tied down to any men, so I chose to be a single mom from the start. Of course my standards are higher. A decent parent wants their kid around the best possible human. You don't LOWER your standards when you have a kid. That's illogical. I'm not sure what you find delusional. I've been financially independent with my own place since I was 18, done hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.No, it's not. She just isn't willing to settle for whatever you were offering. Most women would rather be alone than settle for someone who doesn't offer enough to be worth her trouble. I'm a never-married, single mom (one kid who's grown now). I don't have any ex husbands or "baby-daddies", and have been managing my life, home, finances, and career for 20+ years. I'm free to live how I please. So of course my standards are higher now. Most people my age (41) have baggage. A bunch of young kids,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menI would agree that "dating" is harder for men in the general sense. Women can go out and find a nice man to go on dates with with little effort. But men also tend to ignore statistical and medical facts that say women have to endure all of the side effects of birth control, pregnancy, and most importantly safety. Men don't like to hear it, but the worst a rejected man faces is embarrassment, lowering of self-esteem, and perhaps a clingy woman who can't take a hint. Women have to assume every man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 04:12 AM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?Well a "singles mixer" is by definition a "place where singles meet up to get dates/romance". Sooo... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 10:48 PM |
| 12 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?You could whisper quietly out an open window and horny single dudes would somehow hear it, organize, and be there in 10 minutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 10:46 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Do women get as upset if there are all women at a party like guys do if its a sausageparty?No. I seek out places where there are no men because I want to be safe & enjoy myself. And I don't want to be hit on/bothered by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 10:41 PM |
| 11 | According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference?I mean, I'm 41 and stopped dating permanently 2 years ago (age 39) and threw my significant other (38M) out of my house/my life after a 10 year, live in the relationship. I don't plan to date ever again because my only child is now 18M and busy with college/work, and I just don't have use for a man (romantically). I'm all set as far kids, am free to do as I please/go where I want, and I've been financially independent of others (including men) since I was 17. Basically, I don't want to take care… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Where are all the good looking people IRL?I mean, I'm 41 and turn heads even in casual clothes and no make-up bc as far as strictly attraction...women can merely leave their home and be hot. Dudes don't understand how easy it is for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 05:14 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on lying about sexual inexperience to avoid a catch 22?There's no reason a man or woman should be asking their partners "numbers". There's no correct answer. Any more than 1 causes feelings of insecurity, jealousy, etc in many people, while "0" causes some of the issues you describe. That's why no one over 25 will ever ask nor answer. It shouldn't be a part of the discussion because it's harmful to both people, with zero benefit. Don't lie. Just say what's true "I'm not comfortable asking or being asked bc there's no beneficial answer". If a person … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 06:57 PM |
| 3 | A world were women would all behave like TRP would tell them would be worseIm 41 with a grown child. I'm done having kids. But not done having awesome relationships, sex, or Friendship. And I never had a husband or "baby-daddy" to do it. We're opting out bc of you and people like you. Women are happy with or without men. Men suffer without women. This is medical & statistical fact. Maybe examine what MEN are doing wrong to make this happen. Or don't. Women don't actually care. Men do. Keep centering yourselves. It's gotten you SO FAR, amirite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 04:32 PM |
| 2 | A world were women would all behave like TRP would tell them would be worseLook at you. Just talking about what's good for men like women aren't even people. Just prizes or objects for sex. This attitude by men is why women are opting out. Because we can have whole-ass families, love, hugs, and friends and be fulfilled. Maybe you should consider asking men why they're so hateful & miserable without sex or women. It should be easy to talk to men about how things affect men. It's all you've ever done. And look where it's gotten you. Surely, talking MORE about how women &… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 04:27 PM |
| 0 | theory: men are shit at dating because they don't have types like women do and try to appeal to to wide of a netYou've made my point for me, so I thank you. Women can't assess whether or not a man is a threat. So we treat you all as a threat until we know (or hope) otherwise. If you think threats are "creeps in alleys" you're ignorant to the stats. But women aren't. Only 17% of sexual assault, rapes, and murders are by "stranger danger". The rest are people we know and trust. Bosses, male friends, dates, spouses, family, acquaintances, etc. This isn't an opinion. It's a statistical fact. Women (and childr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex?Because women can get laid easily, men cannot. Women choose...men "present". And apparently, what men are "presenting" isn't good enough. I'm not saying it's fair or right, but to simplify...thats why. Most of the things men used to present (security, money, protection) are things women can easily gain themselves. So men have to offer more now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:54 AM |
| 2 | I don't agree that getting relationships is quote on quote " The same difficulty" as both genders.It's because times have shifted for women, but not really for men. Women always had the burden of BC, abortion, preg, adoption (etc). But as of approximately 15 years ago, women were 50% of the average American household income. What didn't increase was men taking on the the household duties/child-rearing in those households. So women are questioning what a LTR or Marriage really adds to her life (bc it's no longer money and def not help in formerly "female duties")... so what's the point/advant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:50 AM |
| -1 | theory: men are shit at dating because they don't have types like women do and try to appeal to to wide of a netI mean, it's right in my profile that I'm a Feminist. So good job, Nancy Drew! But every woman (Feminist or otherwise) who's "looking right through men" in day to day interactions are not thinking about your sexual value. They're assessing you as a threat or not a threat first. Statistics aren't "Feminist". Men are the biggest threat to women, children, and other men. That's a fact. Our assessment of your attractiveness or dateability happens AFTER we determine you're not an insta-threat. You ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:32 AM |
| 2 | theory: men are shit at dating because they don't have types like women do and try to appeal to to wide of a netI think it's because as former smokers (or perhaps Americans {obvi don't know where you're from}) actual smoking is "taboo" in the US/Canada now. I don't regret quitting. But I enjoy a good cig occasionally and men def look hot smoking. I agree. Until the long term shit kicks in. But we're talking initial attraction here.🔥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:15 AM |
| 0 | theory: men are shit at dating because they don't have types like women do and try to appeal to to wide of a netI thought you were referring to specifically "attraction" as in "swiping" or getting that first shot/date based on arbitrary pics or vids on dating sites. Successful relationships are a whole different ballgame for both! But initial attraction doesn't hurt! ETA: I didn't know women approaching men was "weird" until a bunch of dudes were like "it really said something that you approached me first" like 20 years ago. I find men react with relief and happiness. The worst that comes of it (IMO) is w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:08 AM |
| 4 | theory: men are shit at dating because they don't have types like women do and try to appeal to to wide of a netThis is extremely truthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:04 AM |
| 2 | theory: men are shit at dating because they don't have types like women do and try to appeal to to wide of a netI mean, I'm a woman...vape instead of smoke, but I LOVE tattoos & dyed hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:04 AM |
| -1 | theory: men are shit at dating because they don't have types like women do and try to appeal to to wide of a netWe're not viewing you as "date worthy or not" in the situation you're describing. We're first and foremost "ignoring you" bc the first thing we do daily is assess your threat-level to us. AFTER we assess your rapey/assault/murder threat level, only them are we honing in to consider atrractiveness/dateability. When we're looking "through you", it's survival. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 06:02 AM |
| 4 | theory: men are shit at dating because they don't have types like women do and try to appeal to to wide of a netHuh? What do you mean? Men take a shower and show up. Women spend days agonizing over their "look". If you mean "approach", I'm biased because I've always approached men first. Even back in the early 2000's and still think it's odd more women don't bc it works like 95% of the time. And on the hottest dudes. I feel like even hot dudes are relieved and happy when a woman approaches them first and the response has always been positive for me. Women should totally ignore the idea that men don't like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | theory: men are shit at dating because they don't have types like women do and try to appeal to to wide of a netWomen absolutely have types. For me, physical traits are wide, but I def have "immediate attraction" standards. I like men with very dark/black hair and dark eyes (especially men with Native American features) or men with curls and a Nordic, blonde look. I don't care if they're tall, but men do. So I'd rather not deal with dudes who are insecure about me being 5'7 (because in most shoes I'm hitting 5'8 to 6'0). BUT, if they're secure about their height...I'm down for any height on a man. I like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 05:53 AM |
| 0 | Women LOVE to throw out the classic “it’s not your ____ it’s because you’re a misogynistic asshole” yet misogynistic assholes are consistently the ones getting laid. This alone proves that women are unable to have an honest conversation about dating and discredits anything else they have to say.Because 1. Women have casual sex, too (meaning if he's hot, he's good enough for a one night stand). 2. Women can be misogynists, too. 3. Getting laid is easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?No, not generally speaking, but it's young as hell to be totally free with your kid in college. It was only a few sentences to read. I feel like you didn't try very hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?I can't say I'd date a man younger than maybe 28...(bc I'm 41 and it's creepy), but I've dated a lot of men in my life, and not one of them was older than me. Though most were 3 to 6 years younger. It's not intentional, I just find older (as in older than me) men to be a bit more sexist, "helpless" (as in wanting a woman to "take care of them"), and often too tired/boring (like asleep by 10pm and napping by 6pm). Whatever age woman you're looking for, there are many who like younger men in all a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?41 and never married (mom to an 18M). But ended an 8 year long, awful relationship in 2020. Remaining single is my plan (mostly bc I'm so young to be done raising kids/free to do as I please). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 12:25 AM |
| 2 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER haveYou mistakenly think women opting out of dating or relationships is a judgement on men as a whole. Many women realize their standards are simply not going to be met, so the preference is opting out having a family (or not) alone. I'm not totally clear on why you think women would want to "settle" merely to avoid being alone. Some people are loners, some people know their standards are won't be met, some are merely looking to avoid the stress of caring for another adult human (emotionally, physic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 06:10 AM |
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