PerpetualCatLady Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	I went deep down the PUA rabbit hole and can’t seem to fully pull myself out despite how much I’ve moved away from red pill as a whole. Any advice? To add onto this for OP: a lot of toxic masculinity, PUA, redpill, etc., type of content do is reinforce the idea that men can only get emotional intimacy through sex. Women are viewed as the tool for men to release their tension instead of developing friendships with anyone, men or women, and being able to emotionally connect with another human besides the human they are fucking. Sex is such a small portion of our lives, it's no wonder men are miserable if they can only feel any emotional conne…	/r/ExRedPill	22/05/25 02:11 AM
3	Is it really a red flag if your girl has a celebrity crush? If your significant other is completely devoted to you, they will be up your ass 24/7. That is not fun. Even couples who are hopelessly in love still need moments to themselves. Having someone that obsessed with you is craaaazy. Now, worried about cheating is a different thing. You just have to trust the person you're with until they prove they are not trustworthy. Worrying about her seeing another human and immediately jumping to leave you should only be an issue if you have zero personality an…	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/25 01:04 AM
7	Dealing with contradictions I do agree that women can absolutely have some terrible and shallow dating profiles, but right now I'm trying to help you, so I'm going to stick to that. Okay so you want to find a wife and start a family. You need to shift your mindset about dating. The reason I say this is because you list off a bunch of qualities you are looking for in a woman that don't mean much of anything. You want to find a woman who is a good person that you are compatible with on life goals, core values, and romantical…	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/24 01:11 PM
9	Dealing with contradictions Please don't take this as an attack on you or your character, because it isn't meant to be. But your list of what you want is very shallow and immature. It sounds like a list of checkboxes on a dating app. What are you looking for from dating? Are you trying to find a monogamous relationship? Eventually get married? Are you looking for someone to spend your life with? Are you just looking for a regular hookup? I'm not judging if that's what you want, I'm just trying to figure out what you want. …	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/24 01:02 AM
3	Attacking a man because of the medicine he takes is literally a part of toxic masculinity. Question, should people who are diabetic take their medication? Should someone with high blood pressure take their medication?	/r/ExRedPill	20/12/22 01:00 PM
2	Can a woman verify this for me? Part of what you are describing is what feminists call "toxic masculinity." Part of toxic masculinity is men pursuing sex with women no matter what, to the point they scare/frighten/coerce women into sex and think this is somehow a victory, but the woman consents because she'd rather live to see another day. Men with this worldview see sex with women as an adversarial conquest, the woman has something he wants and he must trick/coerce/convince her into giving it up to him. This is why, as you po…	/r/ExRedPill	26/06/22 05:35 PM
2	I don't think this sub is the place to quit redpill anymore. I see more women here to humiliate redpills than men who want to get off the redpill now. This place no longer looks like a safe space. This also may be due to a language barrier with OP.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/22 01:24 AM
3	Male rape victim here. Red pill took advantage of my trauma induced insecurities. Feminists have also helped me way more with my ptsd than MRAs and red pillers I am so sorry for what happened to you, and I admire your strength in figuring out who you are and what matters to you.	/r/ExRedPill	25/09/21 02:15 PM
8	What do you think of this guys. I like to think i left the paranoia and lack of trust behind but this Twitter thread made me sick to my stomach brought back all kinds of terrible memories A lot of them say "blow my back out" which is kind of strange that they would repeat the same thing over and over, which tells me it's just a dedicated troll.	/r/ExRedPill	21/09/21 02:17 AM
10	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" I don't understand you. You're dismissive of the struggles of tall women, of which I am one, yet you claim your height affects your attractiveness. I have had many men tell me over the years (including friends) that men don't like to date women taller than them because it feels emasculating to them. So I feel you on the height issue, I just wish you'd be less dismissive about it.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 03:13 AM
3	How do I stop feeling like a shit every time I get ghosted? You need to keep in mind that people ghost for a ton of reasons that have nothing to do with you, other than they aren't interested anymore. Many of us in the US are raised on "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all," and women in particular are raised to avoid conflict. So many women feel that saying nothing is kinder than outright rejection. I have also done some online dating by meeting men via apps and talking before meeting in person. I have been ghosted by some o…	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/21 02:12 AM
3	How do I stop feeling like a shit every time I get ghosted? It absolutely happened in 1995, it was her not answering the phone and letting it ring to the answering machine, and then not calling you back.	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/21 02:03 AM
4	Q4All Why do you think it so that liberal wow no refuse to date conservative men even though they are more masculine and chivalrous? Also why is it that conservative men get so upset about this? It is possible for human beings to support policies that do not directly affect them, but affect others. It happens all over the globe, and quite frequently in the US. Not every single decision humans make is always 100% in their own interest above everyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 08:27 PM