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My family are mostly fit (not skinny - fit). Being active is the norm in my family, and we always had an early dinner at around 5pm and only 2 meals a day instead of 3. My grandmother would insist on walking to places and doing housework on her own into her late 80s when she passed. My mom is about the same size as she was in her 20s, and walks everywhere. She’s been active since was a teenager. My dad goes on runs at least 5 days a week, and it’s a habit he’s maintained for decades. My siblings…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/26 06:21 AM
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I think it can vary from person to person. I knew after our very first date, and I remember telling my girlfriends I had a very good feeling about him after that date. He said he knew after our third date, and less than a month later, he proposed. We got married two months after that. We’ve been together 6 years now. We were the same age you guys are now. Yes, he is still my person.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/25 10:54 PM
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Do you really want to be married to someone like this? He is not a Red Pill man, nor does he love you. This is not love. The best you can do is to not spend anymore than the 5 years you already have on him. I'm very sorry you're in this situation but thank God you aren't married. You do not owe him anything in spite of whatever support he may have given you previously. You are not his wife, and he is not your husband OP. Please look after yourself, and leave.
/r/RedPillWives27/05/24 09:25 PM
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I use both together. :) I use FW more for spiritual/feminine guidance and LD for the practical skills I can apply to my marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/23 02:53 PM
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You’re a lot like me! You’re 18, I would suggest trying to meet guys on your own first (I did this through dating apps, where I filtered very very heavily based on what I wanted for myself. I’m assuming you know the types of things to talk about on a first date to quickly assess whether the guy’s worth getting to know further. That’s exactly what I did. I only ever talked/went out with 3 guys over the course of about 3 years since I wasn’t in a rush and was focused on I wanted before I met the 4…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/23 06:28 AM
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Seriously? Focus on what you can do to better yourself/your relationship rather than shitting all over other women. For starters, come here to learn from other women/share tips of your own. How embarrassing.
/r/RedPillWives10/02/23 07:10 AM
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As a Muslim woman who grew up and is intimately familiar with the culture, I can tell you for a fact that for him to ask that of you as your boyfriend in the first place is him overstepping his boundaries. It’s perfectly fine for him to want you to dress more sexily at home if you lived with him and if he were your husband, but for to ask that of you in public is indicative of his lack of protective instinct over you, which is not normal for someone of his upbringing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/23 05:12 AM
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Your response to OP’s question is much better worded than mine was, kudos!
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/22 12:44 AM
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I've been bodybuilding for 10+ years and I look lean, fit, and curvy. If you don't like the way your traps are looking then cut back on the exercises that make use of your traps. In my case, it was deadlifts and my inability to not engage them at higher weights - so I do those never now and my traps have shrunk back to their original size. You don't need to do deadlifts if getting strong/powerlifting/functional strength isn't your goal. In my case, it was only ever about the aesthetic gains and …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/22 03:52 AM
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No worries. I’d recommend cluster lashes over eyelash extensions actually. I find they don’t do as much damage to the natural lash as extensions do, and they can give you a similar look to extensions based on how many you apply. Difference is that upkeep would be on a weekly basis rather than a monthly basis.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/22 04:59 AM
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On the daily? Around the house - jewelry (earrings, necklace, anklet, bracelet), and eyeliner. I don’t ever take off my jewelry aside from the earrings when I’m in the shower/sleeping. Eyeliner only takes 30s to apply in the morning after my shower. I also like wearing cluster lashes in place of mascara. I reapply those about once a week.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/22 04:49 AM
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Yup, I thought the same way you did when it came to having the option to go back to work if I didn’t like staying home. My husband also deposits a fixed amount every month into my savings account, on top of giving me his credit card to spend on our household necessities + whatever I want. This is an arrangement that works well for us, because I still get to watch my personal savings increase while having access to money without having to ask for permission etc. I hope it all works out for you! W…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/22 11:00 AM
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I’ve felt similarly since I was a teen but I went on to get my degrees and eventually work in the field I specialized in. When meeting my now-husband I brought up that I wanted to be a homemaker and I didn’t care for a career regardless of what my job/education said about me, and it fit right in with his desire for a wife who’d focus on the family/home and be supportive of him rather than her career. He was happy with me working if I wanted to, but he wouldn’t touch a dime from me because he wan…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/22 12:05 AM
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I see you, fellow meal-prepper 👀 And yes! I always want more friends!
/r/RedPillWives30/09/22 11:03 PM
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And James Hetfield.
/r/RedPillWives30/09/22 01:10 PM
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Me! I live in a medium-sized left city in a red state. I was a die hard metalhead when I was younger and still have loads of remnants of that in my style as an adult, with the clothing and makeup styles etc. Doesn’t help that my interests are tomboyish and my hobbies are male-dominated. But I am very conservative. Not ashamed of it either. Am a trad housewife type, very feminine with my husband, always have been. My appearance just wouldn’t suggest it.
/r/RedPillWives30/09/22 03:45 AM
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Deal with what exactly, if you don’t mind me asking? Me and my husband (both inexperienced) waited till we were married for religious reasons, but the amount of sexual tension between us, the little allegories we’d make about “after marriage”, and some conversations about sex were enough on their own for us to have an indication that we were probably sexually compatible before we ever did the deed. You can’t know things for certain till you’re married of course, but if you’re both honest and com…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/21 10:14 AM
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I get an allowance from him to do whatever I want with on top of grocery/household expenses money, and have a pretty substantial savings account from when I worked. The allowance is not sufficient to cover laser hair removal, and he’s not so rich that it’s something he’d be able to afford without feeling the pinch. I refuse to draw any money from my savings account to pay for this since I regard that as rainy day money - not money I’d use on things which aren’t urgent. I quit my job because I co…
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 07:16 AM
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Will edit later with the questions.
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 05:53 AM
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He's not into porn, but he's someone whom I've noticed gets very easily grossed out by lots of things, ie. his own blood, a raw chicken, a dirty diaper, loads of different foods, etc. I used to work in pathology so I wonder if I'm just less grossed out by things than the average person is or if he's more easily grossed out by things than what's normal.
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 05:49 AM
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A couple of months. I just hate it's not something completely controllable like weight/physical fitness.
/r/RedPillWives06/06/21 05:41 AM
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Agreed. I met my husband through OLD. Best believe I filtered heavily based on religion, shared values, and politics. Why waste time dating someone you can't marry because of differing values and religious beliefs?
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/21 05:57 AM
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I don't live in Dubai but Namshi.com is a personal fave. Loads of stylish modest options. Pricing is very mid-range, but I'm not into fast fashion and don't change my wardrobe every season so it works for me. I'm 24 for reference.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/21 04:52 AM
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We've been together about 7 months now. He hasn't always been this way. His lateness has always been a thing but it used to be an hour late, not 3-4 hours late/not turning up at all. He says that ever since his job has gotten this new big-wig client he's been up to his ears in work, and that's absolutely true, I don't doubt it for a second. He's been neglectful of the relationship ever since they've acquired this new client and I try my best to support him when I do see him by giving him a place…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 12:47 AM
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Definitely something for me to mull over. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 12:38 AM
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Thank you so much. I'm thinking of going for the first option for now. He does have a lot of things going for him, and this reliability/time management issue is the only bone I have to pick with him. You wrote about not prioritizing your gf in the past tense, has that changed since?
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 12:36 AM
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Think about this down the line if you were married with kids. Forgot to pick them up from school? In fact ask yourself if you would let him treat your kids how he is treating you. This nags at me a lot. If I can't rely on him for basic simple things, what would happen if something bigger and more urgent came up? Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 12:33 AM
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Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 12:31 AM
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He wasn't doing it maliciously -- he just had terrible time management skills and unmitigated ADHD. his unreliable behavior affected every aspect of his life and relationships with everyone. This is exactly what it is and this is why I've had trouble knowing how to handle the situation/react. It's one thing when someone has bad intentions, but it's another when they just... are that way. I really appreciate you sharing your perspective on this. It's something I will have to mull over a while lon…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 12:31 AM
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This is exactly how I feel. He's absolutely lovely when we're together, so I wanted to check that I was not being unreasonable. Thank you so much for your perspective, I never would've seen it on my own.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 12:57 AM
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Thank you for the advice. I know I can't change a man, but I really wanted to make this work with him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 11:54 PM
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Thank you for the advice. I can't change him, but this kind of behavior kills my respect for him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 11:52 PM
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It's fine to change plans. It's not fine to change plans and not let the other party know when those plans have been changed. I am not the center of the universe, but if I wouldn't treat his time so flippantly, I expect the same from him.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 11:51 PM
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He does, he comes from a good family. But yeah, every single time this happens it chips away at my respect and love for him. Thanks for the advice.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 11:48 PM
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Does he at least tell you he'll be late though? I don't mind if he's late - I get it, things come up last minute. But he doesn't have the consideration to at least inform me beforehand, or even last minute. That's what frustrates me. I once made us a really nice dinner spread taking into account the fact that he would almost certainly be late. He never turned up, and I was left waiting hours hungry because I wanted him to get home and have dinner w me. He knew we had plans, and i reminded him th…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 11:46 PM
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if you were presented with a man particularly well endowed with those big 5 traits then you might convince yourself to see that "type" in him. I.e. you might choose to believe you can "bring out" the caregiver in a person or you might be more inclined to see those "caregiver" traits in a person when he has those "big 5" traits. Oh absolutely, you're right. I once knew someone with those "big 5" traits - a bad boy type I was enamored with - and I did try to bring out the more caregiver traits in …
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 01:11 AM
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I have a personality type more so than a physical type. I'm consistently attracted to family-oriented, kind, driven, intelligent, handsome, funny types. There's been physical variation... but personality-wise I definitely have a type. All those traits mesh very well with mine, and they're things I actively look for in a man. Of course I am attracted to height, confidence, fitness, extraversion, etc, but they're icing on the cake; I couldn't date or marry a man who lacks any of traits of my "type…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 10:55 PM
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Believe me, I'm just as disgusted by feminists who push for Sharia law and bleeding-heart liberals who welcome massive numbers of Middle Eastern refugees and opportunists into their countries with no regard for the threat they pose to the future/security of their homelands and their people... and I understand such rhetoric to be reactionary to what's going on, but it doesn't mean it should be encouraged or disregarded. Marginalization is one of the building blocks of religious extremism after al…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 03:45 AM
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That's true but I'm frustrated at all the anti-Muslim, anti-Arab rhetoric that's been increasingly showing up on here and RPWi. I've been a member of this community for the last 3-4 odd years and this is a relatively new development. It's pretty worrying to me as a RPW Arab Muslim woman.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 02:21 AM
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Like her being Muslim makes her a bad person.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 01:58 AM
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