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I think real masculinity amounts to more than that. Like focus, determination, drive and community. I feel like masculinity has more of a community drive than the feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:22 AM
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The thing is today you don't really need the traits that elevated humans above other species. I would say we need those things now more than ever. There is political instability in many western countries that were typically stable before. Worldwide there are over 25 million refugees and we are facing down a serious climate crisis that threatens to wipe many of us out. There is actually quite a lot to do. Strange that men feel they struggle to find a purpose. In this modern culture, what kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:40 AM
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Then it is that culture's role to raise the men it needs to sustain itself? I feel like an identity that is "created" is going to be inherently fragile compared to one that comes naturally. If the natural driver of masculine behaviour is testosterone ( which has it's pros and cons) then what are the cultural drivers? It would seem like the natural drivers would stay somewhat constant but cultural ones are obviously going to change over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:15 AM
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There's no crisis of "masculinity", however there is poor parenting, weak fathers, and single mothers, who create weak limp sons who are barely men. So you think men are created and manliness is not a natural state?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:44 AM
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As long as men define their masculinity as being opposite to the feminine "other" there will be a crisis in masculinity. The feminine stands on it's own. Beauty, softness, nurturing and endurance exists independent of the masculine. Men need to find a definition of the masculine which is similarly independent of comparison to the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:38 AM
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Ah, because of the people who were directly affected by the inequalities, actually. Look, you seem to have some dream that your wage and conditions would go up if women took their shoes off and got back in the kitchen. Women in the workforce are not your problem. People like Mitch McConnell, who basically get paid hundred thousands to whittle away at your work rights and health care are the problem. CEO's who see no issue paying themselves millions while laying off thousands are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 09:42 PM
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Because he's already living the alternative? But I guess unlike women in the suffrage movement and those who fought against slavery, he's still quite comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:40 AM
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So you think Mitch McConell is your ally, and "angry feminists" are the ones holding you back? Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:18 AM
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Ultimately I think people will start correcting their expectation of male children and raise them differently. How are young men able to stay at home and not earn or educate themselves unless someone is enabling them? Eventually parents who overly enable their male children will die out and the next generation will learn from their poor example. Some parents in times past literally outsourced the raising of their sons to future businesses and spouses, taking a "boys will be boys" approach. Now t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 11:27 PM
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And what's being done about it? Oh yeah nothing, so why bother getting out of bed in the morning if you can be supported by welfare or a zero hour contract job with very few hours better than you would be if you put effort in? As a university educated male, aren't YOU the one supposed to be doing something about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 11:21 PM
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Then heterosexual women are not for you, sir. Rare is the man who can make a woman sexually aroused based on his looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 03:20 AM
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Not who you asked, but you're missing the part where guy 1 has already subtly rejected her, and that's not sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 02:24 AM
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How would you know if I was new here or not? Dude, you don't know anyone here. You need an internet reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 09:10 PM
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OP says she is a woman. That does not mean they are one. This is something about the internet you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 10:38 PM
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What a fantasy thread. We all know a man is going to throw everything he has at the woman he really wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 12:55 AM
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Do you know any women not contributing to society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 12:42 AM
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Women - Stop them seeing each other as competition and make them realise they need solidarity in order to raise the next generation effectively. Men - There is a rising neuroticism in men which is the cause of all this manosphere bullshit. I would remove that neuroticism so that men would occasionally put down the video game controller and actually go out and contribute to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 08:24 PM
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There's no false equivalence. You expect your friends to help you with your boner so I was wondering if you helped your friends with theirs. You say you would. OK then. I personally couldn't imagine thinking that someone owed me sex just because we're friends. I wondered if male entitlement was behind your reasoning but that does not seem to be the case. Maybe you experience male sexuality as a burden and something you need community support to get through. Perhaps when you propose sex to people…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:51 AM
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Not only do you constantly have a distracting boner around women but you also start feeling like you are going through so much fucking hell with your dick and they don't care at all. If they did; they would fuck you at least once or twice. Yeah? Can I ask how often you help out your gay friends with their boners? You must fuck them at least once or twice right? As a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 12:51 AM
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You don't need to look too hard. I'm sure they're all disconsolate after some time in your company.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:48 PM
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I just look for sad women on Tinder. I bet you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:44 PM
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Are you a doctor? Do you carry out an examination to determine this barreness? If not, any resulting pregnancy is not truly accidental and something you secretly wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:39 PM
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You're absolutely right. All women are lying vultures trying to get your sweet, sweet sperm to make babies with. That allows them access to the big fat paycheck you will then provide for the next 18 years (snort). The only thing you can do is protect yourself by taking full responsibility and staying the hell away from all women. You're a responsible guy right? So you know all this and if you get a woman pregnant you probably planned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:30 PM
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I'd be the best piano player in the world, if I only played piano!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:23 PM
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Men literally refer to their wife as a "ball and chain". But no, it's women who are wrong if they don't immediately refer to their husband when asked about a completely different subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:36 AM
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Beautiful love story.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:03 PM
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Because I don't want to be targeted online by pedophiles? Which is reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:00 PM
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I am not threatened? I'm just trying to open your mind. People out there have different desires, agendas and modes of being than you do, conservative lady. The fact you think any person who keeps some things private must be trying to lay some trap says more about you than about anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:54 PM
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Or maybe she doesn't intend for some online date to ever meet her children at all so she doesn't mention them. If I just want to date and have adult times, my children are none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:48 PM
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I absolutely knew women who waited to tell men they were moms after meeting Maybe they wanted to make sure they weren't targeted by men who are interested in their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:37 PM
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If you are a member of a privileged class, it can be hard for you to understand how your thinking about the rights of other groups can be so so extremely offensive. Somebody trying to intellectualize BLM into ALL lives matter probably thinks they have a considered opinion. But the fact is, it's not your neck getting stepped on. If you thought there was a good chance it was YOU who'd be getting asphyxiated in broad daylight over jaywalking, you'd want immediate action. Privileged men mouth off ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 03:46 AM
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Not only that, they whip themselves into a tizzy over internet stories that are clearly made-up to further the purpose of whichever internet pundit is shopping it. Then they literally believe the world is full of women who do crazy porn sex, just not for them. And they blackpill themselves over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 01:37 AM
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Cool, I don't want to have to pay for your choices either. Like your irresponsible choice to use fossil fuels. I still have to. So drop this weak ass argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 09:46 PM
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I'm all about men having their own frame and not putting women on a pedestal. That is all very healthy. Why then, does it seem like red pill related forums cannot effectively curate their spaces to keep naked, blind misogyny out?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:45 AM
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I think it is up to each individual man to decide what it is he wants in life, then to pursue that goal to the best of his ability. It is OK to be confused about what this is in your late teens and early twenties. This the time when one should be forging their identity and false starts and mistakes are to be expected. The manosphere has the potential to be a wonderful tool for men to get each other through this difficult life stage. Sometimes good advice and guidance can be found there. Too bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:23 AM
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It's not that he is short, it's that he considers any woman who gives him a chance as beneath him. They are overweight or lazy, you see. And shallow too. He doesn't like women who like him, and he attributes the ones who don't like him to being shallow about his height. Plenty of short, married men out there. But those men like themselves and the women they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:04 AM
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No, they are adults, making adult choices. You just don't like those choices because when women have a choice men don't get to be the centre of their lives anymore, and you came of age in a strange time in history where men are still raised and culturally conditioned to be the centre of things, and women are getting the freedom to finally put themselves at the centre of their own lives. You've been raised to expect too much, rather than to be an equal partner who can look after someone emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:35 AM
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Women having choices is such a doddle isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:10 AM
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PPD: Women should be more choosy! That way they won't become single mothers. Also PPD: Women are too entitled and choosy, if she doesn't fuck on the first date she's a golddigger looking to get a free ride!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 02:07 AM
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"You people" You are spending too much time on the internet if you assume everyone you talk to belongs to one internet subculture or another. Time to get outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 10:01 PM
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I invite people out and pay for it all the time. They return the favour. Hence I have no need to see someone just for a meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:22 AM
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Yes precisely. It seems we are not compatible. By all means, do not date me or people like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:21 AM
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Excellent. You just demonstrated why we need to have these kinds of traditions. The way people handle these customs shows their character. You learned something important about that man's character, and hopefully you stopped dating him. This is how things are supposed to function.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:20 AM
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Nah. Everyone is entitled to accept the best offer. When there are whole forums dedicated to contributions of women make to society rather than T&A, that's when I will listen to men. Before that, you know where you can put your hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 07:32 AM
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I mean, I already proposed a solution in this thread for men who think women's only utility is sex. If all you want from a woman is sex then by all means go to the women who are selling it and save everyone time. I fully endorse and encourage you to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:54 AM
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I don't think I am taking advantage by accepting a dinner out. The man invited me. By all means, restrict yourself to cheap women if that is what you are comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:03 AM
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why would any man who is attractive enough to other women such that they don’t mind who pays want to pursue any type of relationship with a woman who does? Because that's the woman he wants. If you're the type of man who thinks all women are interchangeable so it's OK to go with the "cheaper" option - Well you go for the cheaper option. The only person who appreciates you for what you are is your mother, if you are lucky. Everyone else is looking at your potential, even as a partner. Maybe if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:01 AM
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I'm married now thank you. The men who didn't pay for dates were not inherently better men. They were more anxious, less generous or they had other women they were invested in and were trying to sidepiece me. I am a very loving, generous person. I am not compatible with a nickel and dimer. The whole worldview of a man who would nickel and dime is not a worldview I want to marry into or have children with. Especially not when I have experienced the opposite. People paid for me merely to attend pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 02:11 AM
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Sure, or if a man is preoccupied with the sexual element of a relationship, to the point where it is all he thinks about when he takes her out and he can't stop wondering when it will happen, well that's not really leaving room for something "real" to develop either. If he can get his sexual needs met professionally, he can then perhaps date with a clearer head. Say with an abundance mindset rather than a scarcity one. This means there is more room for something "real".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:44 AM
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I mean, I think that is absolutely fine if you want to move on after a few weeks because you don't see your goals materialising. That's totally fair, you live your life the way you want. There are women out there who use sex as manipulation, I'm sure. People who want to manipulate will use anything, money, kids whatever. But there are plenty of people out there who just have different timelines on when they're comfortable moving things forward. As you pointed out, you feel first date sex is too …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:39 AM
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I didn't ask about the first date, I asked about your ideal timeline, a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:30 AM
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OK, so that's your ideal timeline. That is absolutely fine. And just to make sure, you don't think she's too casual and disqualify her for sex if she does it after a few weeks?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:28 AM
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I also don’t want a woman who is going to set terms on sex. But at the same level any woman who will have causal sex proves she has zero attachment to sex. So any approach to sex is wrong? Perhaps you would do better to explain exactly the correct way a woman should agree to sex, since you have a strong opinion on it, but no clear correct way expressed it should be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:21 AM
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Sounds like the woman who took your virginity had some dark triad traits of her own. So basically, you were too shy and awkward to do the apporach on women when you were a virgin. You needed someone who wasn't too concerned about social mores to break the virginity ice for you. Now you have direct experience of why people with dark triad traits get laid more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:18 AM
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I know who I am and I'm not too worried about your opinion. I come here and give advice for a reason. I'm not here looking for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:08 AM
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It’s nice to have while I am looking for something long term. After women have been doing this method of dating for years so why not men ? So I was just responding to what you said. Your terms for finding an LTR are your own. Since most people date casually while looking for an LTR, you think most women are not worth an LTR. Therefore when you date your main goal is sex, as stated. I don't think you need to worry about dinner dates if you just want casual hook-ups. If you are vetting a woman for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:06 AM
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Yes men lie in many ways and women are often caught out. But at least I got a nice meal at a nice restaurant on the journey. Men who don't pay for dates are not inherently more honest or good, they're just cheap. I don't waste my time with cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 01:00 AM
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What I have learned is that men lie, but money does not. Look, dinners and evenings out are what I enjoy, so I want a man who truly enjoys that as well. If you hate fancy restaurants and feel like it's some kind of chore to go to one with a beautiful woman, then you do not have to do that. Arrange dates the way you mean to continue. Abseiling, video games whatever. Because I like fancy dinners, a fancy dinner is a good way for a man to invest and show compatibility with me. There are other women…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 12:36 AM
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That's great. You are free to stop seeing someone who you think is just with you for money or blow. Nobody is forcing you to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 12:30 AM
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We live in a capitalist society. I didn't make it, I was born into it. I didn't enter the dating market expecting for men to pay, but once they did, what am I supposed to think about guys that don't? Am I really supposed to think the man who wants to split the bill is as interested and invested as the guy who takes care of it? I see all you guys here trying to set a new standard where you want to "educate" all men not to pay for dates. But if you're really that allergic to paying for dates you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 12:09 AM
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OK, so say for example, you are man, I am a woman, and we both have the attitude that we want long-term eventually but in the meantime, casual sexual relationships are ok. You ask me out and I say OK. We go to coffee and you want to split the check at the end. The two guys I dated before you shouted me the coffee. You're making me split. I'm not going to go "ballistic", I'm just going to quietly clock that you clearly don't value my company as much as the others guys did. Trust me, we're not get…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 11:42 PM
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It is clear from your post and other replies that sex is your main goal and concern in courting a woman. You say that if courting does not end with you reaching the goal of sex then you feel any investment you have made is wasted. Since sex is your main goal, and you do not enjoy women's company for it's own sake, I agree that you should not pay for dates so women know you are not invested in them. Furthermore, may I suggest that you look into prostitution. Those women are offering sex, which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 11:27 PM
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None of those represent the same risk as being maimed or killed. If I am to believe this sub, and a number of other pop culture references, careers, families and fortunes are all made by men in the effort to get laid in the first place, therefore they are replaceable once they have served their purpose. Lorena Bobbitt, on the other hand, well maybe she still gets laid, but not by anyone she can physically overpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:20 AM
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Imagine if these unattractive women you would get off with were actually big enough and strong enough to restrain you in any circumstance. Imagine if you grew up with constant news stories about how unattractive women had beaten or killed men just like you when they gave them a chance. Then imagine that you were not likely to have an orgasm if you did have sex with one of these women, but if anyone heard you did have sex with her, they would call you slut and act like you now have to fuck every …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:59 AM
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So, if I yell at you will you give me a diamond necklace?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:07 AM
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This is a really good point. I would say my husband was more emotional than me, but not when I was pregnant. Ho ho, I was a sensitive little teacup when I was pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:05 AM
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Any shortfalls experienced by unmarried fathers likely stems from the confounding variable that they are more likely to be poorer (and thus less likely to be able to afford any kind of counsel, much less effective counsel. Married men are likely to have more money, since that's what makes men marriageable in the first place. But such men need not marry. Yes this is true, and a very interesting point you make. It's a fools promise when the commitment isn't lifelong...why give up even one solitary…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 04:17 AM
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If you can't promise fidelity, I wholly support you not promising that. Nobody should be making commitments they cannot honour. However I think it is even more dangerous for men of today to father children outside of wedlock. Unmarried fathers do much worse in family court then men who married the mother of their children. If it comes to that, of course. Men who do not marry their children's mothers seem to do much worse getting custody. However OP is interested in lifelong commitment and is gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 04:01 AM
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Well the same goes for women and their husbands. All any gender can so is vet potential partners the best we can, but life has inherent risk. Still gotta live it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 02:18 AM
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Feels like you are talking about two different sides of human nature here. We have our biological needs and impulses, we also have an intellectual, spiritual, higher self the strives for meaning and perfection. This is the nature of humanity. If you desire to enter a long-term, romantic relationship with a person, you will have to accept their humanity, and they will have to accept yours. In our immaturity and our anxiety, we desire someone who only has the higher self, but that is unrealistic. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 02:05 AM
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Yes well despite what Wachowski now says, I never saw The Matrix as a gender allegory but a capitalist one. The Bad Batch specifically gives the female character a mate choice between two men who offer very different things, so I feel this more closely resembles the debate that takes place in this forum, if you could call it that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 01:54 AM
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I agree. The plot is somewhat weak. The film is visually stunning though. And it kind of pissed me off. Maybe that's why I keep thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 01:28 AM
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I know papers need to fill space (print and virtual) but I was quite surprised to see this article. I think you are spot on. This is a filler article that basically amounts to nothing. But hey, even journalists are entitled to phone it in some days I guess. I have noticed that journalism standards have fallen a great deal during Covid, and that is understandable. As to whether women worry about MGTOW, well... It's like this. There have always been men who have eshewed marriage. Look back through…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:50 AM
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Hah wait till you see the mustache Keanu is sporting in this film. You may change your mind ;) Yes it is on Netflix, so available to most people I would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:40 AM
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If you want accurate advice, you first have to be honest about what you want advice for. The advice for getting a one night stand is going to be different to the advice for getting a wife. From what I can see, there's a whole bunch of in-between things men want as well. Forever girlfriend No relationship but plenty of attention and validation from a variety of women A bangmaid who will turn a blind eye to my cheating An untouched, naive virgin who will expect next to nothing from me Lady in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 12:08 AM
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OK I stopped at number three. Monogamy is hard for men. Hard snort at that one, mate. I'm supposed to be grateful you're faithful to me? That's a pretty low bar, especially coming from this dude. Am I supposed to think he has sooo many opportunities to be unfaithful in the first place? Nott as many as I do, but I don't expect a prize every time I don't increase our risk for getting an STD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:51 PM
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Seems pretty simple. If you change your social media to show you are with someone after only a few months, you then have to change it back again when it doesn't work out. If you are not close enough to me to know who I'm dating without referring to social media, it's probably none of your business anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 09:39 PM
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My thought process is wanting to emulate the sexual objectification of an athlete or frat star @ a college party, stupid I know, but that’s the pinnacle of alpha for a guy in his 20s imho. Do you mean you want it to be as easy for you to get sex as (you imagine) it is for these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 01:45 AM
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Before birth control and modern medicine, women were literal slaves to their own reproductive cycle. Lack of birth control meant you were frequently with child, limiting your ability to work. Lack of modern hygiene and maternal care meant women often suffered disability or death with childbirth. Countries with the highest inequality today are countries where women do not have access to reliable healthcare and birth control. Although these women work very hard just to survive, they suffer constan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 02:08 AM
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It seems like most women just can't fathom why a guy would feel disgusted about the prospects of becoming a woman's beta bux, her backup plan, after being denied her youth and prime. Because most women earn their own money and have no idea what you're talking about with all this beta buxx shit. Correct me if I am wrong but I feel like most women genuinely believe guys, especially those that become more attractive post highschool/college, should just accept getting picked later. Thinking guys mag…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:33 AM
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Women I know who participated in ONS would have sex with men they saw as LTR potential straight away to check for sexual compatibility. Most women I know wait to have sex because they wait to have sex. They don't do ONS at all and they like to take their time and get to know a guy first. People on here talk like all women jump into bed straight away if the guy is hot enough. I suppose that could happen but I've never seen it. Some women are the type to go to bed early on, and they usually aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:33 AM
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I will now use my magical vagina to manipulate my way to the presidency.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:10 AM
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I feel like young people in that age range today are more conservative and straight-laced then when I was in that age range. However, when I was in the age range, I was able to move out of home and support myself on a minimum wage job working only a couple of days a week while studying. There's slim chance of young people having those opportunities today. Rising costs in living and the roll back in protections for workers has seen to that. The lack in life opportunity in general can be directly …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 12:29 AM
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Perhaps we shouldn't let them operate heavy machinery. Or be elected to office.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 12:11 AM
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I am not going to read it so I'm checking cliff notes too. How can women manipulate men if women are dumber than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 11:57 PM
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Only if you can demonstrate with a real live girl you have trained.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:54 AM
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Cyndi Lauper sang an accurate song about what girls wanted way back in the eighties. Most of the men I know won't listen to it, but the information has always been there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:50 AM
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There can be five foot six alphas. It's not about height. Alpha energy is the energy of a man who takes care of business. Russell's energy is the energy of the fun friend you see it at festivals. Good for a good time but you don't want to hitch your wagon to it because you know sooner or later he's driving it straight into a ditch. Look Russell is great. I'm not trying to dis Russell at all. Not every man is an alpha and that's just fine. Russell brings alot to the table in his own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:49 AM
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Most people can't answer this because what is happening is happening on a deep, subconscious, survival instinct level. You need to understand human female pregnancy and how difficult and dangerous it is. Once you do your research on that, you should be able to see that men who get many women are indicating on many levels (including pheromones) that their genetics are worth putting your life on the line for. Then, maybe you'll get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:18 AM
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If enough guys took this strategy, you ladies will REALLY hate what you have to look forward in your 30's when you settle down and itch for a baby. Trying to tame a drug dealer or celebrity doesn't really work. Russell Brand is now married with children. I'm sure life isn't perfect, but it looks like his wife knows what she's getting into seeing as he left her once before to go marry Katy Perry. Different people have different lives. What do YOU want from life? Unless you want to marry a mid-thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:39 AM
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The most sexually successful person i knew was a drug dealer on my college campus. He had different women in and out of his bedroom constantly. He didn't even remember half their names. Probably the most 'romantic guy' i know. OK so that guys sexual strategy is to be the fun guy. he's like Russell Brand. The women sleeping with him clearly aren't looking for commitment. IF you see that guy as successful and you want what he wants, do what he does. Deal drugs and promise women are good time in be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:13 AM
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I think this is projection and it is men who are being ruined. So many of you seem to spending your days looking at instagram models and then projecting that out into reality. There are plenty of other women out there, but you are whinging that insta-Stacey's standards are too high. I mean, ok. Maybe insta-Stacey will be miserable one day. Meanwhile plenty of Becky's working in finance, STEM and other non-glam industries are single and the guys out there smart enough to look for them have their …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 12:52 AM
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OK, let me see if I can challenge some assumptions you make here. The obvious one is that when women are young, they get so much attention that they don't have to ask the question 'why'? OK, we know why. It is very obvious to us. Women spend 12-14 years on this earth before all of a sudden men start being "nice" to us and there enough of those men who are crass enough about it to clue us in. There's enough media and commentary out there warning us that we're past it at 30. Our own families will …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 12:21 AM
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She is with the husband not because she is attracted to him, but for resources, stability and comfort. Women can do that for themselves these days. Unless you are getting them from the streets. It's been explained to me before that some men source their partners from the "streets" so to speak because it gives them confidence she won't leave. However it seems nothing really gives these men confidence, because then he has to spend his time disbelieving every word she says because he can't know she…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:57 AM
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So you're saying that a woman really likes and wants to do the sex act, but she's refusing it to her husband to serve some imperative? What imperative could that be? How would it serve her to not do something she likes and wants to do? The real reason is because they don’t find him attractive Why would she marry someone she does not find attractive? Why would some sex acts with a man she found unattractive be ok and others not? Especially if she likes the sex act, as you have posited. They only …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:33 AM
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So you're saying even if you hated pegging, you'd keep doing it for hot girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:38 PM
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I think my point is, that a man spending more on a woman does actually prove he likes her more, whereas a woman doing say, anal in the past and not the present does not mean she liked the other dude more. Say a past girlfriend who was really hot talked you into letting her peg you. You didn't think you were going to enjoy it but you went along with it because you were young, had a scarcity mindset and she was hot and you wanted to keep her happy. You find out you hate being pegged, you decide no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:45 PM
0

Most women can buy their own dinner out. Comparing sex to food is a bad analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:27 PM
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If you try and find out you like it, you probably want to do it with your life partner, yes. But if you are young, don't know what you like and are experimenting with something taboo, who are you going to run experiments with? Look everyone's different. I'm just pointing out that some people run these experiments with randos because it makes it less risky for them in their own personal calculations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:26 PM
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And why would she want you to stick around? You're talking about her worth and her value, you still haven't established yours. Sticking around? Bad smells stick around. Why would an 18 year old want you? Why would a 48 year old want you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 10:24 PM
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The exciting men who women cheat with get anal even though they deny it to their beta husbands. Why would a woman cheat on her husband to have sex that is not going to get her off? That's like saying a guy wants to cheat on his wife by buying a house for another woman but not fucking her. Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 04:46 AM
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In a world of self-centred dolts, the emotionally intelligent man is king.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 04:43 AM
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I was not equating a housewife with a bangmaid. Some women get to be bangmaids without even getting married. A housewife is someone who has chosen to manage the home as her priority calling, and that's just fine. A bangmaid is someone who may still work full-time, may not be married, may not even have children - but is subject to over-the-top expectations from the man in her life in regards to service and sex, as though he were entitled to those things from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:34 AM
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Sure, and if that makes you happy then that's your business. But as a young girl, I was raised to look for true love, and equal partner and a good companion for marriage. You can see how the "red pill" aspect comes into it for women who are smart enough to observe what men are actually looking for in marriage. Men are happy to get their intellectual conversation from other men. At home they want an incubator, cook and cleaner. Bad deal for women :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:21 AM
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I think the biggest truth that shocked me and would have changed the way I acted when I was single was realising that men are not looking for an equal partner. They'll deny it till the end of days, but now I have become older and observed who my friends actually settled down with; it's clear the majority of men are looking to marry a bangmaid. It's not that women marry up, it's that men prefer to marry down. They want someone dumber, a little plainer then they could usually get and they want som…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 02:33 AM
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I would direct my son to this advice from Dan Savage. You're having a hard time getting girls. That sucks. I remember what it was like when I was 15 and wanted boys and couldn't get any. It sucked. But the sad fact is that most 15-year-old boys are repulsive--that is, most 15-year-old boys are awkward, half-formed works-in-progress. The fact that girls physically mature more quickly than boys means most girls your age already look like young women and they're attracted to older boys--and there y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 12:13 AM
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Right. So both genders have options over controlling their fertility. Therefore a conception represents the failure of both genders and is both of their responsibility to resolve. Just because a man doesn't like the way a situation was resolved, doesn't mean he has no responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:53 AM
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My argument is that you have options over your own fertility. A woman getting her tubes tied involves abdominal surgery, a vasectomy does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:59 AM
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You have an option a woman does not have. You can get a vasectomy and freeze your sperm for use when you are ready. That's some pretty foolproof birth control right there. What's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:49 AM
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It's worse that that. Say Person B accepts that Person A will not have anything to do with repairs. Person B pays the full cost of the repairs themselves and keeps the car. Over the next 18 years, Person B takes good care of the car and even upgrades it. The car becomes a classic. There's a knock on the door. Person A now wants to see the car when all the hard work is done. He even gets to drive it whenever he wants even though his driving history is shit. See, children grow up and want to meet …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:43 AM
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We were divorced seven years later after she told me she had never been attracted to me. That's really shitty. Sorry that happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 05:44 AM
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He needs a page where he puts in bullet point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:47 AM
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Ugh, how do you even read that? It is written so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 01:17 AM
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This thread has taught me those who complain women lack empathy for men really want women in the age range of 18-24 to give them free therapy at a level it would take a professional psychologist at least eight years of training to provide. Men like this will refuse to get real mental health help, and do not approach older men or women for this empathy they seek so much. This leads me to believe they are the type of men who try to elicit pity from women and once they have their attention try and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 12:23 AM
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People could sexualize me all day every day. I don't think it'd bother me. How about your uncle? The one you used to rough house and play hide and seek with? How about one day, shortly after you bud breasts you notice him looking at them and licking his lips? How about your middle-aged teacher? Rubbing your shoulder when they are helping you with your math problem? How about your doctor? The one you went to with a really worrying problem, but they're too bust flirting with you and telling you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 05:54 AM
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She's just describing the origin of the phrase. Stop being so rude and reactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 05:49 AM
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Instead of acting for "Men's Rights" it might help if you focused on a specific issue and championed that? I don't know what you mean by Men's Rights because that covers many issues that I may or may not agree with. However, if you came at me with an action plan for men's homelessness, or compensation for older men injured due to physical labour, that's something I could grasp and get behind. What particular men's issue do you feel should be protested?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:32 AM
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In all honesty, I think I went the other way. I was always taught to look below the surface and give the underdog a chance. I dated safe, responsible guys who I liked, but ultimately found we had no chemistry and they were... weak in bed. My husband is tall, dark and handsome and when I met him he didn't have a dollar to his name. Everyone thought he was a fuck boy, including me. But I had just come out of a really long relationship with a dead bedroom and figured it was time to have some fun. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 01:29 AM
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Is this the so called oppression that women were trying so hard to get away from in the 1950’s ? You know why the 1950's model didn't last? Because it didn't work. Men became alcoholics, women got zonked out on valium and children grew up to rebel against everything their parents stood for, for good reason. It's not a great idea to have small children in care for entire full-time working week, but sometimes that's the only solution some families have. Families need to work out what works best fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:17 AM
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OMG you make so many assumptions for somebody who clearly hasn't lived any of the things he is trying to judge. Not every woman who gives birth is automatically the best person to look after small children. Even if she is the best person, it's not the best model to have any two people cooped up together all day without outside stimulation - which is what can happen to mothers who stay home for a variety of reasons. If someone does stay home with kids, that does not automatically mean the other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:37 PM
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I don’t think sex selective abortion is morally right no matter what the gender. I was thinking more of sperm selection, so this gender determination happening before conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:13 PM
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NEETs are not giving me any economic power, and my modest proposal means NEETs are less likely to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:11 PM
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I don't know if people are being serious, much of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:07 PM
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Wow interesting. Her wikipedia page lists her as a female supremacist. I think a 10% male population would be too low and I am not a female supremacist. I thought of this in answer to the complaints men make here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:06 PM
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You can select for sex in male sperm. So I guess the to limit male birth we would limit each family to having one son only. Once they have their son, if they want more children they submit to conceiving with sex selected sperm to ensure girls from there on out. No forced abortions or killing of babies. However people not following the law will be neutered (after completed pregnancy).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:44 AM
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I'm new. Did this sub once experience a golden age of intelligent debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 09:38 AM
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Kicking out young men from their community must be so sad for them and their immediate family. However in this case we are just preventing the men being born, so no harm done?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 07:46 AM
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I feel like angry women complaining is much less dangerous for society than angry men complaining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 07:44 AM
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You checking me out ;) Pretty sure you can check my subscriptions too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 05:43 AM
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I am not subscribed to FDS. There are more things in heaven and earth then in your philosophy, u/slackforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 05:33 AM
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Point taken. Controlling birthrates is always problematic. However men here insist we are facing a big societal problem now and the ideas they propose are no less fascist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 05:32 AM
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and if you don't have a family, you won't be spending too much if you are a man. From what I can see single men spend the most. How many gaming consoles and games do you have? How upgraded is your pc? How many gigs do you go to and how often do you drink? Do you drive a car or a motorcycle? Many single men I know have both and get a boat to top it all off. Men's hobbies are generally way more expensive then women's hobbies. Men will go out and drop 5k on archery gear and then bitch because a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 11:49 PM
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You base this on the assumption that we need low status men to work harder and be more productive because that is better for society. Assume for a moment that I am a corporate overlord. I have already outsourced my manufacturing to developing country overseas so I can save money by exploiting poorer, younger, less powerful workers. I honestly do not care if they are men, women or children, so long as they are cheap and easily replaceable. Frankly, my next logical step is full blown automation, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 11:51 PM
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That's a bit of stretch though, isn't it? A man loses his temper and beats his wife to death, I'm responsible for his upkeep in jail as taxpayer. Shit happens. Taxpayers pay for problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 06:21 AM
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If some woman with a serious mental health issue is trying to start a relationship with you, you are well within your rights to refuse and to not get involved. Is there someone in your life telling you any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 05:04 AM
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The point is that women joking about cutting off dicks is not threatening, because it hardly ever happens. It's so rare that it happened once 27 years ago and people still talk about it. It's a bit different if a man wants to make a rape joke because there's a pretty good chance I'm actually going to hear about rape if I watch the news tonight. People shouldn't joke about either, really. But I think too much and I wonder about why men can "take" the joke when it's about raping women and that hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 04:02 AM
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I never used to block, I would just let things fizzle out because I'm fine with neutral, or I'm fine with saying no if he comes back in a serious way. I think FDS gives the block advice for a very good reason though, and that's the hamstering you're trying to do now over whoever this most recent guy was. You're trying to come at it from a powerful angle, but at it's core you're still trying to make excuses for him and questioning your own decision to cut him off. His mental health is not your co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 03:19 AM
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I swear it's women who really need more honesty and a "red pill". What if I told you that person A is not really joking either? You see a group of men talking and joking about women and rape, what you are seeing is a bunch of men testing the water. They're making sure they are among their own. Sure they're not going to form a gang and go a raping that night. But when the circumstances allow, like a war, or a trip to Thailand. Well, what happens in the East stays in the East hey boys? Person A, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 01:43 AM
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Because they are not arguing in good faith. They want women disempowered because they imagine it will deliver them their bangmaid wife or that it will make them feel better some way. They are weak men trying to punch down. What really worries me, is that other men do not effectively police them, and let them have hate spaces where some truly egregious shit is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 01:00 AM
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Bet I can find ten women who have been raped before you can find even five men who has had their dick cut off by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 12:53 AM
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Pssst. They're not joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 12:49 AM
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I'm not feeling the least bit challenged. I feel fine right now. A little hungry. Which question did you need answered? I did not see you pose a question. Went back and checked. You seem invested in the idea that your behaviour can change your outcomes with women, and I'm sure it can. However my argument is that advising young men to play dominant and "take what they want" is bad advice on an internet forum where you don't really know your audience. Furthermore, there are deeper, more instinctua…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:20 AM
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I'm calmer than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 02:20 AM
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Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 02:13 AM
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You are in fact, trying to mansplain female arousal to a married woman. You don't seem to be that unintelligent so think about this. Think about the advice and the message you are putting out there and who might be reading it. Think about the level of argument and reasoning skills of the some of the men you see here and think about how spreading the advice "just be dominant and take what you want bro" may affect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:56 AM
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She doesn't know jack shit because she has no experience. She may prefer to be dominated... by someone she is attracted to. It is literally the worst advice I can think of that men can arouse a woman by "taking what he wants". Attraction precedes this step, she has to be attracted to you FIRST, before this will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:28 AM
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Hamstering? She's a catholic virgin who says in one breath she's disgusted by the thought of him touching her and in the next that he should push her up against a wall. That's the "horse's mouth" you want to listen to? You want to believe women are crazy, so you only listen to crazy women. Rational women will walk away from you and you'll be surrounded by the crazies and reconfirm to yourself all day long that women are crazy because all the ones around you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:50 PM
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Not to brag, but, my son is kind of handsome, thus the Gaston reference. I guess the point is, the alpha is not necessarily going to be happy, unless he learns to look below the surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:10 AM
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Yes ok. If you really need a win today go ahead and take it. Fist bump to you, good sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:47 AM
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OK well, your communication is not as obvious as you seem to think it is. Paring it back down to this: You basically ridiculed the notion that men have something to fear when women try and utilize their sexuality to get ahead in society. Ok fair enough. There is an argument to be had here. But please leave Weinstein out of it. That guy is a white billionaire who has fucked some of the most beautiful women in the world and could have kept on doing so, had he not been greedy and evil about the few…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:36 AM
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What are you trying to say? That because some women willingly engage in casting couch behaviour that other women deserve to have their homes broken into and violently raped? That women who engage in sex for profit are responsible for the victimisation of women who do not? Because that is a metric fuckton of mental gymnastics you are performing to avoid just holding a man accountable for his own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 05:06 AM
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An established actress refused his casting couch. He stalked her. Breaking into a woman's house and raping her is winning? https://www.npr.org/2020/03/11/814051801/harvey-weinstein-sentenced-to-23-years-in-prison Such win.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 04:51 AM
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OK. Well not much of what you said is coherent but I will address one point. You realise that Harvey Weinstein wasn't your average casting couch dude, right? Because heaps of those guys are still out there doing what they do. The problem with Weinstein, is that he didn't just withhold opportunities from women who wouldn't sleep with him, but actively went out and destroyed their careers. If he had just left it with not casting them, he'd still be out there fucking young starlets today. But that …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 04:25 AM
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Eh, it's another women can't win scenario. Woman has sex because she enjoys sex: slut Woman has sex because she wants deeper, long-lasting relationship: Pickmeisha, simp Woman has sex for personal gain, like money, or promotion: soulless succubus out to destroy men eventually somehow. Woman does not have sex: prude, broken, child. TLDR: Women may have an "ulterior motive" or they may not. Doesn't matter, women are always wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 03:03 AM
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Got to admit, this is the truth and what I want for my son. My parenting in regards to this will be trying to teach him to vet women properly. As I notice many men seem to have no concept of this or that they should vet partners at all. Many guys seem to think like Gaston - "She's the prettiest girl in the village, that makes her the best!" - without thinking about whether they are compatible at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:37 AM
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I suspect there is actually a pheromone problem here. She's not attracted to him because the relationship has led with the head (good on paper), but the basic chemical messengers she needs to get that he is a good genetic match are missing. Her reasoning about needing him to "take control" is just what she has come up with as a Catholic virgin, and exactly the kind of theory a catholic virgin would come up with. She's obviously been raised to feel shame about her body and natural sexual desire s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 01:19 AM
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You're telling me there isn't a single other person in a better position and more experience to give that role too. I agree she's well-articulate. So you admit she can do the job? Is the fact that you also find her attractive supposed to stop her from getting the job?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:43 AM
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I thought we had already established and agreed on this point: We are not a simple species, that's for sure. But I see that you are bringing up rape again and I'm beginning to doubt your good faith so I'll address your main points via your OP. Women do not select for any criteria that would be useful in survival settings I feel I have successfully argued that your original idea of a survival setting: aka pre-historic or hunter-gatherer societies was highly misinformed. The fact is high endurance…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:06 AM
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Well if you want to talk about India we're moving from hunter-gatherer societies to agricultural ones. The idea of women as chattel are intricately tied to primitive agricultural societies. Agricultural societies no longer need women to spend most of the day gathering food as family now stays in one place and the food is managed seasonally on one site. A woman's place is now to support her husband and sons as they work the land by preparing the food they make and keeping them fed through the day…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 04:10 AM
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What is the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:49 AM
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Because society has forced artificial guidelines that unbalanced the sexual market place Some of those same Aboriginal tribes regulated the SMP in their communities by arranging age-gap marriages. Young men were married to older women and vice versa with older men being married to younger girls. The older partner's job was to provide sexual and marriage instruction while they benefited from the youth of their partner. In turn, the older partner would pass and then the younger partner would age a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:45 AM
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I agree with your point about empathy. Everyone needs it. It's just that many men seem to think it should be a one way street headed their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:40 AM
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Well in pre-historic times risking it all on one rape to make one baby who may not survive childhood is not a great strategy but I will not quibble. I don't think humans are that comparable to chimpanzees but you may want to look up Robert Sapolsky and his work with baboons if that sort of thing interests you. His theories on whether humans are pair bonding or not based on how we compare to other animals is very interesting. On whether women are the selectors in humans - I think it's probably no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:33 AM
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Wait, I thought I had heaps of men around and my life was rainbows and bunnies and I could never know what true loneliness is? You are confusing me, which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:22 AM
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But none of those matter if you can't get the man to commit commitment from a man is the difference between survival and death in pre historic times. Examination of bones, hair and nails from pre-civilised times show that more than 80% of the diet was from gathered berries, fruits and nuts. That is what was commonly believed to be provided by women. Therefore, it would be reasonable to assume that men depended more on women for food than the other way around. Commitment from any one man was not …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:19 AM
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There, there. I bet there's a lovely lady out there waiting for you to come along. (See how empty sympathy is?)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:07 AM
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Well I tried telling you the truth. But hey, I'm sure you'll find someone. Just keep being yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:51 AM
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You hate women so much you that you dismiss them as living lives of rainbows and bunnies who could never understand your manly problems. You hate on women, dismiss what they say, and then expect sex and sympathy. I cannot spell it out for you any clearer than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:44 AM
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Why should I sympathise with someone who blames me for all his problems? Why should I sympathise with someone who would like to systematically socially and economically disadvantage me so I'd be forced to become his bangmaid? Should black people head back south and volunteer as farmhands to help out all those poor tragic farmers? Everyone suffers rejection. Most people better themselves, find solace in family and friends or adjust their expectations. The manosphere creates toxic online communiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:33 AM
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I have sympathy for sexless men. Heck I've thrown out a few pity fucks in my time. What I don't have sympathy for is men who use the internet to make a hate parade against women and then have the gall to turn around and ask for my sympathy because they're just lonely and male suicide rates are really high doncha know? Too bad you led with and keep falling back into misogyny then. The world is absolutely brimming to full with excellent causes you could devote your life to. But no, you all want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:23 AM
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Yes. If men stop being so thirsty it will deflate women’s egos and give not only myself but every man out there a better chance. No. What will truly give you a better chance is to stop thinking the social media you consume when you feel "thirsty" represents women everywhere. Plenty of women would never dream of using Tinder for example, because it has a bad reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:20 AM
4

Oh you're married? Can I ask how old your wife is? Do you find her disgusting yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:10 AM
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You know there are women out there who don't do any of those things? You would have to get up from the computer to go out and find them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:04 AM
3

Yes, and other drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 01:15 AM
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If what you mean by relationship is; having a woman be your personal slave, then yeah, Feminism threw a spanner in those works alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:07 AM
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Well I would have thought the woman who looks like Danny De Vito would. But you say no and I can say that you might be right in many cases. Women are better at being alone than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:54 AM
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Not if you look like danny devito. You could date your looks-match. You have taken proactive measures in birth control, kudos for that. Dating down for better looks and more security is a legitimate strategy though. I'm not going to say you shouldn't. However, if that's the strategy men are using, they should take responsibility for their own choices and not make sweeping statements about ALL women being parasites etc etc. Not all women. Just the women they date, as a result of the dating choice…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:44 AM
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If my husband had a bastard child that drained our finances and redirected money from my children, I would feel pretty damn affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:35 AM
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OK put it this way. BOTH partners in a hetero relationship take this risk. She might cuck, he might have a lovechild that he gets hit up for child support for, taking a toll on their family finances. Therefore, this is a risk both men and women face equally and not just something men specifically have to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:21 AM
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So... unless you are using the only strategy that is available to the guys that are actually struggling in the SMP? Is it though? Seems to me looking around you could become pretty high value just by being decent and having integrity. A little integrity and insight would go a a long way. Because I don't like competition. I like to know that I am the best option she has instead of just believing it. By avoiding playing on a level field, you never get to experience being chosen. If you date down a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:18 AM
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Interesting. So you sympathize with rich millionaires who are likely to suffer from gold-diggers? You sympathize with the man who had unprotected sex and is not dealing with a unplanned pregnancy and whining that his partner will not subject herself to an abortion? You sympathize with the cuck, which to be fair, that situation does suck. With all this sympathy going around, I rarely see any for women in this sub. I am truly surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:12 AM
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But a man sticking his penis in a woman so far on the shallow end of the gene pool she thinks single motherhood is a good deal is okley dokely?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:43 AM
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Your name is psychedelictree and you think listening to anything Kanye West says is representative of any kind of social group. Something tells me golddiggers are never going to be a real problem for you, you can relax. If she's with you, she actually likes you for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:30 AM
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So in your mind, a woman getting a nominal amount of child support from a man is a "benefit" she gets from having a short term relationship with him? Like, she'll be out of work herself for a while and trying to raise a child on a welfare and percentage of your measly wage, if you even pay it, and that's a big win for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:09 AM
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Where is abortion legal exactly? You're on an international forum, mofo. Are you even sure abortion is legal where you live? Get the fuck out of here with your half-formed ideas. Having to pay a nominal rate of child-support because you wouldn't wear a condom is literally the LEAST society should expect from you. The only way out of that is to pay women a living wage for having babies. Make motherhood a paid job. Something tells me you wouldn't go for that idea either though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:01 AM
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Sir if you are trolling you are doing an excellent job. Please accept this recognition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:38 AM
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Maybe your insecurity stops good things happening too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:44 AM
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It's not really something that happens though? Just like I wouldn't really kill my cat. Maybe you have more reason to worry this will happen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:18 AM
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Out of your league, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:33 AM
2

Leveling up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:21 AM
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You intimate that the women you dated all stayed with an abusive ex for financial reasons. So they were poor. Poor enough that they had to put up with abuse. All the women you have dated have been poor. You date poor women, why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:15 AM
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May I ask how travelling, netflix and tacos are passive vanity? Honestly interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:12 AM
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The truth: The women you date all have abusive exes. IE. Women who are attracted to abusive dynamics are also attracted to you. NEXT!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:59 AM
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You admit you would throw a woman out if she told you the truth about how bad you are in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:58 AM
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The truth: If women keep cheating on you, you are bad in bed. NEXT!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:46 AM
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The cat has no risk. The man has. If my cat displeases me, I can take it to the vet and have it killed. I would say the cat has much less power in a relationship with me than a man has. My cat does not care if I have a baby. In fact, a baby is a disadvantage to a cat. If I give a man a baby it's literally the best thing I can do for him as I've fulfilled his biological imperative FOR him, at much higher risk to myself than to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:29 PM
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Yet you project a great emotional investment onto me. From two and a half sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:45 AM
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I lack empathy? I posted this thread pretty generally. It's easy for people to shrug off on one hand, might get through to someone on the other. Just had a little stroll through your post history and it's full of personal attacks on others. Chip on shoulder? Bitter? Lack empathy? You're looking in the mirror not at me, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:28 AM
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I have worked hard on myself to become the victorious internet champion you see before you. It infuriates me to see grown men inhabit the dregs of the internet and blame all their problems on other people. Just be better. That's what the rest of us are doing. Stop hating women and good-looking men and find your niche. Nobody wants to spend time with a whiner and a blamer. I'll pat the cat instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:07 AM
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My cat does not give the least amount of fuck that I owned another cat before him. My cat does not lie awake at night and wonder if I loved the other cat more. My cat is secure in himself as a cat who lives in the now and deserves to be loved and respected as he is in this moment. You could learn from my cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:01 AM
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Depends on how they are getting them. If he's a true silver fox who has something to offer and the relationship is mutually beneficial then good for him. If he's manipulative or predatory and got the girl because she has low self-esteem or needs a roof over he head, that's yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:46 AM
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This is the answer. It's the delusion. It indicates the guy hasn't got a good grip on his reality and where he is in life. Remember when Twilight was huge and you saw all those middle aged women lining up to drool over Robert Pattinson who was 21 at the time? Do those women inspire respect? No. You're embarrassed for them. It's cringe. Men past 35 who think they can get women that age inspire the same cringe feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 12:34 AM
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I agree with this. Also, if your goal is marriage you should not be in any "LTR" unless he has proposed. Any LTR that is not explicitly leading to marriage is a waste of your time and a man should merely be a part of your rotation until then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:41 PM
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I'm cashing out of this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:34 AM
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Maybe they should stop sleeping with their secretaries then :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:31 AM
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And men sleep with their secretaries and abandon their wives when women stay at home. A woman who is the breadwinner has just as much disincentive to divorce as a man does - child support, alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:23 AM
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If it's so great, why don't more men stay at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:46 AM
2

If you once got into a fight at a bar, say five years ago, should I treat you like you're a violent person who could get into a fight at a moments notice? Should I refuse to go to bars with you at all and huff and puff if you have a drink? Just because you got into a fight five years ago does not mark you for a violent man for life. A man who got into a fight when he was 21 could be living by a different set of standards and at no risk of fighting at 26. But if I follow Manosphere logic, if some…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:25 AM
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Ah ha. No they all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 10:37 PM
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Cool cool. Clearly you don't date much. Or even talk to women outside of this sub much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 10:34 PM
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I mean, men have choices too. What's your point? The argument was that women are valued merely for being. I suppose we would have to define what it means to "valued" and what the nature of this "being" is to argue effectively. My point is that I do not feel valued or even recognized for who and what I am, but am most definitely valued for the potential of what I can provide in care, sex, breeding etc. Therefore I extrapolate that women are expected to fulfill a role to be valued allbeit a differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:11 AM
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You cherry-picking the part of my response that benefits you proves my point too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:49 PM
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I am a woman. I have never once in my life, felt valued for who I am. Sure, I'm not expected to get a job and provide financially the way men are. But I am expected to get the coffee, cook the holiday meal, remember everyone's birthdays and occasions and provide the appropriate recognition. I have been asked more than once to give up paying work to do unpaid labour for sick relatives. I am subject to social censure if I do not live up to my expected role, a role which normally does not offer any…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:18 PM
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