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You are absolutely delusional lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:31 PM
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Hahaha, no one deserves anything from anyone else. But you're fooling yourself if you think men will still love a woman and stick around with a lack of sex, barring extenuating circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:57 PM
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Ba dum ching!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:26 PM
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Thick, all day every day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:22 PM
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No chodes for AquaChip?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:25 PM
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But what about girth?! Why wont someone please think of the girth?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:18 PM
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I'll take Lycra Spandex for 300!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:17 PM
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Not exactly the way I would have worded it, but that's actually pretty legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:16 PM
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It's a scriptural loophole though. Bang her in the ass for Jesus Christ!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:14 PM
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SEA?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:04 PM
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That the world is unfair. It always has been and always will be. Yes it is very unfair for men right now in the dating world. Yea, it is very possible you might never be able to attract a woman. But we live in one of the greatest times imaginable. At least for the next 50 years or so before the effects of climate change really kick in to the catastrophic issues. That leave the majority of your life to pursue all kinds of other pleasures and hobbies. Yeah it really sucks when women wont give you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:56 PM
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Well I would presume the polls dont allow for more than a few options. I haven't posted one. But if true, you would either need to post all the band sizes or just pick a size and run with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:31 PM
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To serve man... it's a cookbook! It's a cookbook!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:52 PM
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Like some kind of cartoon meme guy complaining about being too fat to see his dick. Haha. No worries though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:50 PM
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Some of the dudes here claim to be very successful. I guess all of them are liars?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:46 PM
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The Marie Condo cock method. I approve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:46 PM
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What's the best girth circumference?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:44 PM
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Goog god I regret clicking that link
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:22 PM
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You're not. They're just being overly pedantic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:21 PM
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Cargo shorts are the best
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:20 PM
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So in their minds it's important to support the women creating the content but shame and demonize the men actually consuming the content?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:17 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:05 PM
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Haha, even successful men are whining about it too you know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:05 PM
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Haha, well I stand corrected then. Still stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:03 PM
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I've only ever heard women complain about porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:41 PM
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Move to an island that is uninhabited wilderness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:40 PM
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Lmao, fuck off. Purge week zing!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:04 PM
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Because it's 2021 and every dumb shit now has a platform online. These people IRL likely wouldn't even talk to a woman. It's just online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:00 PM
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Fair enough. But the problem in those cases isn't porn. It's addiction. If you have an alcoholic in the house you dont have alchohol. That I can understand. But the insecurities are way more the bigger deal. An insecure woman will claim her man is addicted to porn if she catches him watching it twice, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:57 PM
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Yeah, watching pornography isn't cheating. I suppose I'm just simply incompatible with someone who feels otherwise. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:54 PM
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Seriously, what the hell is up with women's intense hatred of porn, even ethically sourced porn. And it seems to be growing. Women are so insecure they not only need to police all of men's sexuality through shaming tactics, they also need to ensure those men who can't get sex dont even watch it. And women who would not allow the watching of porn inside of a relationship, that shows such a weak sense of self esteem and major control that it's a huge red flag. I can only understand it in the case …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:50 PM
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I think this is true for sure, but I dont think it's malicious. I think it is just female psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:32 PM
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Yeah, it isn't fair at all. If it makes you feel better the vast majority of only fans girls make almost nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:30 PM
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Yeah that's some old bullshit. Women expect the guy to be able to read her mind during sex for her preferences. Probably the only reason my relationship is successful is that she told me what she likes in the sack. It's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:18 PM
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If we are just talking physicality solely, oh I'm a hot 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:14 PM
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It's a good James and an excellent remake, but the remake is even harder than the originals (minus the save nonsense). The hitboxes are rounded causing edge deaths and some tricks like walking on ropes dont work any more due to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:52 PM
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Also, I thought you meant an actual chat. Like a chat room some subreddits (rarely) have. Not just the daily post called chat. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:51 PM
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Why yea. I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:50 PM
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There's a community chat? Where do I find it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:46 PM
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Is it though? Sounds like the American spirit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:40 PM
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She treats me well. I treat her well. I dont tendnto spend a lot of money on her because she doesn't like it. But sometimes I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:36 PM
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This is going to sound sarcastic but it is genuine. I hope your therapy eventually yields results and you are able to find inner peace. It sounds like you have a lot of a demons to overcome. I truly do wish you the best. But you should probably stay off of such toxic reddits like this one. These places will twist people with even the healthiest mindsets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:34 PM
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Man, you really should seek professional therapy. I'm being very genuine here. Your mental health is very worrisome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:07 AM
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Indeed. And those are the types of thoughts I try to focus on, rather than the thoughts of how easily replaceable I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:47 AM
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It's good advice. I'm in a relationship myself and find this sub is making me think toxic things that are not healthy. I'm taking a long, perhaps permanent break, from the pill o sphere after purge week. We'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:44 PM
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If I were a Chad type? Oh hell yes I would be a mimbo. A year for a long while. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:37 PM
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Man, you never quit. I wish you the best of luck and inner peace. I hope you find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:35 PM
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Oh lady, I'm definitely not an incel. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:29 PM
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Imagine the things he could do with the antenna too...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:26 PM
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You missed the point entirely, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:23 PM
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This hits home. I have a beautiful long term partner. I am ugly. She could replace me in a second and I would have genuine issues finding another woman, let alone an attractive one. The best I can do is just enjoy the time I have with her now. She might be able to replace me, but for right here and right now I'm happy. I focus on the happiness I have now, rather than the probable future dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:22 PM
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I find these post you make offensive on behalf of the late, great Alex. You should be ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:23 PM
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I imagine her as a super tall and thin old white woman. Not athletic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:20 PM
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Okay, but what's a femoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:18 PM
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I have no idea what any of them look like. But Smurf gives off hot woman vibes to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:09 PM
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How much time do you think it will take?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:35 PM
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Can we get a TLDW summary on that 16 minute video?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:34 PM
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I've been with the same woman for more than 10 years and we aren't married. We have no plans to get married. Marriage and family laws are so stacked against men that the risk isn't worth the benefits. The ONLY way I would ever get married is with a prenuptial agreement AND a postnuptial agreement, with a clause allowing for marriage annulment (not divorce) if it isn't signed by a certain time. Guy, there is NO REASON to get married. Women are the ones who push for it the vast majority of times, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:27 PM
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Not to kidding the welfare state which is a huge topic of discussion but it definitely exists and single moms are the highest users of the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:04 PM
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If women are then only ones who have the right to choose then women have no right to complain about the choices they choose to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:48 PM
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That women are just as shitty of people as men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:42 PM
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Lmao, oh please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:19 PM
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Pretty much nothing actually. I'm pretty ugly and I have an unfortunate and unattractive body shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:17 PM
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Or, just allow for financial abortions. If a woman is allowed to kill a life then a man should at least be able to abandon it when he has no legal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:14 PM
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Whose there?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:05 PM
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Obvs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:24 PM
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I will never get married without extensive legal documentation protecting all of my retirement accounts and investments. She would need to sign a prenuptial agreement AND a postnuptial agreement and we would need to keep our financial and retirement assets separate. It's really sad but marriage is such an enormous risk for men that it no longer reflects the economic and social reality. The only reason to get married is if you want kids. And even then I dont see why a marriage should be so import…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:59 PM
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Damn that is pretty scary. Haha. Never get married without both a prenup and a postnup agreement gents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:52 PM
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Then don't listen to women. In fact, dont ever listen to women when it comes to being successful with women. Never. Listen to the men who are living the life you want to live. You dont catch fish by listening to the fish, you catch them by listening to to successful fisherman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:51 PM
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Act like an average PPD woman and double down and gaslight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:48 PM
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Very nice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:33 PM
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He's not wrong though, lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:20 AM
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I feel the same. I'm kind of thinking purge week is my swan song. But also, I'll probably be back. It's all strangely addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:15 AM
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💩
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:27 AM
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Ah. I see. I was just taking the piss. I'm a bit of an old coot. I appear to have misunderstood the spirit of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:24 AM
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It's purge week though. Isn't that the point?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:11 AM
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/close thread Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:58 PM
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Ba dum ching!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:52 PM
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Yeah but it's also purge week. Come on. You can take a little bit of ribbing, can't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:38 PM
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This is a revenge fantasy that wont happen. But, if you try really hard maybe, just maybe, you'll grow a larger penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:38 PM
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You're showing your age there grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:36 PM
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You just love stirring the shit pot, don't ya? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:35 PM
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What's wrong with wanting a woman big with boobs? It's absolutely no different than a woman wanting a man who is taller than she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:46 PM
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Fortunately, it's a small minority of the populace in general. Don't sweat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:44 PM
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Jesus christ I'm an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:43 PM
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Oh scenario 2. No fucking contest. The no porn thing is pushing it, but hey, you gotta take your wins where you can get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:35 PM
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That first image is so unreasonable that all it does is show women in an incredibly nasty way. But this is confusing because it appears the image is supposed to be mocking the guys right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:33 PM
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That was the most simpy thing you have ever typed. Come on man. You can do better. I've seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:27 PM
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It was entertaining and compelling. But it was also pretty lame and a lot of the aspects of the actual production were very lame looking. For example, the series tried so hard to make Front Man a scary and dangerous villain. But he looked so stupid and silly that it was just lame. But I did enjoy it. No regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:25 PM
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What I have learned is that it really depends on your generation. I'm older than the average reddit user, but younger than some of the 50ish folks here. What I've noticed is the older ones are stuck in their ways and see the issues plaguing the younger ones as not being legitimate and really showing their rigid thinking. They are dinosaurs who are incapable of new lines of thought and also the most solipsistic. And the younger ones are too involved in their own legitimate struggles, but also ref…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:22 PM
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Pics or it didn't happen. Actually, on second thought, scratch that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:08 PM
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Awww. Thanks! ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:06 PM
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You people are all fucking nuts, you know that? Between the gaslighting cruel women, the pathetic whining men, and the sheer unreasonableness from both sides (but especially from some of the nastier women). You people are God damn insane. But very entertaining. I love to hate you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:04 PM
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Aren't many host clubs in Japan often essentially brothels?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:02 PM
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Who wouldn't want to impregnate Olivia Munn? Hubba hubba!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:53 PM
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Well, neither are virgins, even if Zapp has only had sex twice. So not incels. Definitely not Chad's either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:39 PM
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If I woke up as a woman I would date men. So much easier than dating women, by several orders of magnitude. Women are so deeply solipsistic about dating issues and gaslighting that it certainly wouldn't be any different dating women as a woman. And presumably if I woke up as a woman there would be a statistical high probability I'd be attracted to men anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:02 PM
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What the hell is a moid?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:45 PM
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What the hell is a moid?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:44 PM
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Poppy is certainly a trip. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:35 PM
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You are one of the truly and consistently nastiest pieces of work I've seen on this subreddit. Seriously, what do you get from being so cruel to people online?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:34 PM
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Reportedly she's pretty hot, so I'd be down. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:32 PM
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All the gaslighting about how problems men face
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:34 AM
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I genuinely feel sorry for midwestufohunter. She's absolutely insane, but from the details I've gleaned, there's quite a tragic backstory and a lot of trauma. Still nuttier than squirrel crap though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:17 PM
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A deal is a deal, or so I assume!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:41 PM
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Yay! Now let's find out if I live up to my username.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:38 PM
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Haha, so true!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:37 PM
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If catcalling is actually sexual assault to you, you must live in a world so terrifying that we must be living on different planets. Sexual harassment? Maybe, sure. But sexual assualt?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:53 PM
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How about the differences between the bachelor party and a bachelorette party? Lol. Bachelorette parties are often way more loud, obnoxious, and out of control. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:49 PM
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Dude, take a chill pill. Don't have a chill pill? Take a chill strip. Put it under your tongue, it dissolves, chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:56 PM
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You know, that comparison is remarkably apt. That's good advice too. I think all men should internalize the reality of the red pill's descriptive and observable elements (stay away from the prescriptive toxic communities), adapt, and move on with strength and knowledge, even if it is hard. Good post. One of the best I've seen here actually (in my personal opinion).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:54 PM
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I think you're giving them too much credit to even consider what those people do machiavellian in scope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:48 PM
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I said it mostly in jest. I should have tagged it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:23 PM
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It attracted me for some reason (older than average reddit user guy here with a LTR, basically married without the paperwork). I just can't shake this place. I would like to think I'm pretty even keeled and pretty reasonable. But, you know, I'm likely just as crazy haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 10:21 PM
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If most woman were honest this would be the most popular answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:03 PM
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I can only go by what I've seen so far, but it appears to be both as far as I can tell. But you never know, it might turn out to be really good. We'll see I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:55 PM
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3, 2, 1 let's jam
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:54 PM
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I mean, who knows. I don't really know their preferences. But in my mind it doesn't look good. The characters, or at least the male characters, are way too old. The production values look pretty shoddy and even the original anime creator has gone on record saying he doesn't like it and that he has no control over it because he signed the rights away in the 2000s. There's a lot of fan backlash from for race swapping and changing Faye's costume, but I don't really care about those issues (I mean, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:27 PM
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Yeah, I don't disagree. But if you look carefully at the intro they released they make a couple of very basic production mistakes that any film 101 student knows. For example, during the handgun firing montage you can clearly teel there's no force feedback from the guns, and the actor's hands are just being raised without feedback. Once you see it you can't unsee it. This is a very minor point, but it does speak to this being a pretty shoddy production.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:28 PM
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Wow, the live action Cowboy BeBop show on Netflix looks really bad. And I'm not even talking about the wardrobe changes. But just the show looks pretty rough. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:56 PM
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Holy cow. If that's actually true it really explains so much about this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:04 PM
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Cold approach IRL. I wouldn't have stood a ghost of a chance dating online, even before it went insane like it is now. I am an ugly guy with an ugly body, but my personality is top notch, butnobline you don't even get a chance except for your face. Even if women don't want to be approached IRL anymore, I ways recommend doing it anyway. They might not like it, but I don't like having a true 0% chance either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 07:50 PM
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Considering I have very few full and true dealbreakers, I'd probably rather be with someone then be alone. But honestly, I truly think that if were ultimately honest with ourselves, 70 to 8o% of all long term relationships are from people settling. I don't subscribe to the idea that settling is necessarily a bad thing, when our expectations for our partners, especially from the female perspective, are frankly unrealistic and unreasonable for reality. But I think this might be a very unpopular op…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:35 PM
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I'm ugly, and I have a beautiful partner. It's always very shocking to people. I'm also a really big dude, both with fat and muscle. I have an ugly face and an ugly body shape, but my partner is gorgeous. It can, and does happen. There are people out there with very weird and skewed aesthetics. Another friend of mine is even uglier than me, and he also has a gorgeous wife. When once we were drunk and providing examples of people we're attracted to, all of hers were of really ugly and weird or se…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:30 PM
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My heart breaks for you. She sounds like a terrible human being who treats people like genuine garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:55 PM
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It's my understanding that most early human tribes, and I mean EARLY human tribes were mostly matriarchal. It makes a lot of sense if you think about it. When all your men are out persistence hunting for days to feed the small tribe, and you mostly didn't live to "old age" past 30 so there were no older patriarchs, someone has to call the shots back at the cave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:40 PM
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Bah, more of the same shaming tactics. It's not that hard to understand. Sex is an extremely important part of the male psychology, whether it's deep, passionate, and emotionally charged sex like women mostly need to experience to get satisfaction from sex with men, and then there's the physical release of hormones that allows a guy to calm down and be more rational. For the former, it's an entirely different category of sex that for the most part just doesn't have a female equivalent. You can s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:32 PM
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The cultural significance of that video really cannot be understated. I feel as I really understand our society on a deeper level.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:22 PM
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Haha, those are great. Peak shitposting, without being personal. Nicely done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:34 PM
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So personal attacks abound and you get to see what people truly think of you? Oh this is gonna be good! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:57 PM
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You mean the air strike? If so, yeah, that would be me! Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:55 PM
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What the heck is purge week? Is it exactly what I think it is? How often does that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:48 PM
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Haha, oh man. Probably a good fit for this sub too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:43 PM
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Oh man, that guy dressed in white attached to ceiling just a few seconds into that compilation would be terrifying. Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:38 PM
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I'm feeling a bit down in the dumps and anxious today. Post your favorite jokes, or links, to something that you find hilarious! I'll go first: https://youtu.be/Awf45u6zrP0
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:28 PM
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I dated a woman with bipolar disorder once. It was the most miserable experience of my life. But she was also extremely crafty and manipulative too, and an emotional terrorist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:20 PM
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The problems stem from female libido being too fickle from the male perspective, and the male libido being too overwhelming from the female perspective. From the male perspective, it's extremely frustrating how fickle the female libido is. She could be in the mood, and then you say one wrong word, and now she's as cold as ice, seemingly at totally random points. Or, she gets an email from her boss with bad news and she's just psychologically not able to be turned on for days. Or any number of ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:18 PM
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I don't have many absolute dealbreakers, but I do have a few: Not being an independent thinker Having tongue, mouth, nipple, or genital piercings. I know, that's rather trivial and shallow, but they gross me out on a fundamentally visceral level that I can't get over, lol. Acting and behaving in an aggressively masculine way Being a misandrist, a member of misandrist group think, or extreme feminist group (I'm pro feminism, but the extreme groups are just awful). I guess throw being an aggressiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:11 PM
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I mean, it's your list and you're free to have whatever you like. But I think it is short sighted. I didn't have any female friends until well into my 30's unless they were the girlfriends of guys I was already friends with, and I've never thought of women in that way. It's your list though, no judgement from me, but that particular point I suppose hits a bit of a raw nerve because I never had any until I was already older, even though I tried. Lol. Just ignore me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:06 PM
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Yeah but the topic was absolute dealbreakers, and you listed, frankly, a huge amount of things, much of them are rather trivial. So which is it? Is your list all absolute dealbreakers? If you say some are more malleable than others, those aren't actually dealbreakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 06:00 PM
11

Not having female freinds is an absolute dealbreaker for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:57 PM
5

...yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:56 PM
2

This is one of those gendered issues that I have no opinion on. Our wedding traditions date back to a time that is no longer representative of the world we now live in. And while the metaphors involved might no longer make sense, I can't be bothered to care about it, truth be told. Maybe thay isn't particularly helpful toward a debate, but of all the issues happening between men and women, a white wedding dress is the last thing I'm going to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 05:14 PM
2

If the finger is brow , but the face is yellow, is the emoji guy suffering from jaundice?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:13 PM
2

I kind of feel like if most people were honest with themselves, the majority of relationships would be that way. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:49 PM
3

The thing I admire most about her is that she is an independent thinker. And that she is smooth enough to get out of almost any social interaction with ideologues she disagrees with. I wish I had that ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:47 PM
3

You definitely need to report back and let us know how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:44 PM
4

Against which race, the human race?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:18 PM
3

Knowingly, and purposely, giving someone a deadly disease that will kill them without an absolute fortune spent in a lifetime of antiviral medications isn't illegal? If true, then there's no hope left for us. We've reached peak stupidity and should just pack in the towel. Maybe the next dominant species to develop sentience will do better than we have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:05 PM
1

I don't understand. How does women's liberation equate to a full collapse of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:59 PM
1

I don't understand. How does women's liberation equate to a full collapse of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:59 PM
3

I don't understand. How does women's liberation equate to a full collapse of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:59 PM
2

Yeah, that's another blind spot. If you're informed by a doctor and you're sterile, is it still your fault? There are some many issues to think through. I'm totally okay admitting my ignorance on how to fairly structure laws, but in our current legal framework it might not be possible. I think the best path forward is for male birth control to be finalized, rather than waiting for the law to catch up. Granted, it wouldn't help the STD half of the equation, but it would definitely stop baby trapp…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 09:24 PM
1

Not to mention the simple impossibility of getting it through our severely broken political system, even if it was possible. Our two sides can't even agree that the sky is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:46 PM
1

The descriptive portions of the red pill are fundamental aspects of life all heterosexual males should understand and be made aware of. The prescriptive elements, and the ideologues and toxic rhetoric that exists around it, is awful and should be avoided. I'm not sure how you can separate the two though. I have yet to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:43 PM
3

Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:40 PM
1

Sure does. It's happened to me on 3 separate occasions! But I do recognize that this is a statistical improbability.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:36 PM
3

Lol, well, I suppose it depends. I self-select out of most debates here because people's view of the world is so fundamentally different than my own that it's impossible to see eye to eye, or they operate in really bad faith. If I discount those, probably a good 75% of the time? But it's hard to say that I am "right" since there's no "true" answer to the types of questions this sub examines.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:26 PM
1

Crotch goblins? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:20 PM
6

You used salami instead of unsliced prosciutto, you plebeian.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:03 PM
2

You mean, in life overall? Or here on this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:59 PM
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I think it already is a crime to knowingly give someone a deadly disease, even sexually, in the case of HIV with intent. Proving it... wow that would be hard. Baby tricking is absolutely terrible and should also be illegal. You know, the easy answer is "you get what you get for not wearing a condom" and that attitude really bothers me. Don't get me wrong, I agree with it for sure, but THREE separate times in my life condoms have burst on me. I understand this is a statistical anomaly, but if it …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:54 PM
1

I have a long term relationship, and a fair number of freinds, but very few of them I would consider to be particularly close. I do have a few very close freinds, but not maybe. I don't go out much, truth be told, but when I do it's usually not drinking or bars. It's a hike, a board game club, escape rooms, experiences, etc. I will say though, that while I have a social circle (and I'm continually trying to expand it using things like Bumble BFF), and I have a fairly well calibrated EQ, I still …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:46 PM
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STDs and baby tricking should be prosecutable, but I have absolutely no idea how that would work in a way where it isn't he said she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:12 PM
2

Haha. I'm always sober, even with friends, these days. I don't like what alcohol does to me, so these days I stay away from it. But even I admit it would be more fun with it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:50 PM
1

Any Cradle fans here? If so, did you like Bloodline?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:49 PM
1

Hmm interesting take. I appreciate your reply, especially as one of the sanest people here. I'm not entirely sure I agree with you that there is always a level of depth. Of course everyone has a reason (for good or ill) for what they do. But that doesn't mean levels of depth are implied in communication. For example, I might say, "I had a really awful day today so I need a few hours of alone time to unwind and process in my nothing box." But what she hears instead is, "He sees me as a fundamenta…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 05:14 PM
3

This is absolutely true. Most men don't communicate based on subtext or subcommunications. Women are often looking several levels below the surface for intended meaning, when it often doesn't exist at all, especially when communicating with men. This has been a constant issue in pretty much all of my relationships with women. Even my current lady, who has known me for a long time, often has to settle herself down and remind herself I'm just saying exactly what I think, and there's no hidden dept…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:56 PM
1

I am in a loving long term relationship, however, after 40+ years I can definitely confirm the 80/20, or some percentage close to that, is totally true. And to your point, I live in a suburb, and it's about 30% families, 70% single people. Plus, decades of dating, and talking with other men, and seeing what my good freinds go through (both male and female), definitely has proven to me it is true. At least until women are older and settle, and the legion of desperate men will take any woman they …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:47 PM
6

What do you mean too moral?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:18 PM
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I think we have a fundamental disagreement on the world we live in. That's okay. Disagreement isn't a bad thing. Specifically, I don't disagree with you that a lot of the people you're talking about are below average. They very well could be. That's not in contention. What I disagree with is that the average women's minimum standards are pretty low. In my experience, and anecdotally the experience of pretty much every man I know who isn't extremely physically attractive, the standards of even be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 06:15 PM
3

I recently read The Gods Themselves by Isaac Asmiov. What a great book. The book is ostensibly about an alien society interacting distantly with humans. The aliens have three genders. Can you imagine human society with 3 genders? That would be nuts. Three times the amount of misery! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:10 PM
3

Isn't it the very nature of life to be a depreciating being? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:10 PM
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Not when the barrier to entry is already absurdly high and the average man simply cant even get a foot in the door with the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:05 PM
3

What rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:52 PM
3

I wasn't trying to judge you. It's just such a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:46 PM
3

So, you never had sex outside of already knowing he wanted to impregnate you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:01 PM
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I'll tell you why. Because feminism is not about equality between men and women. It is solely about uplifting women, and if men get uplifted as a result that is a bonus. But it's not about equal rights, it never has been, and never will be. Feminist groups are extremely authoritarian about men's rights issues and exceptionally censorious about them. Don't get it twisted. I don't think feminism is a bad thing, and it has done a lot of good. But people who claim it's about equality are only kiddin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:35 PM
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I think this is true. I am an ugly man with a very unfortunate body shape (although fortunately my height and shoulder width make up for some of these deficiencies), but I just so happened to meet a woman who had a very skewed sense of aesthetics and really dug it. Likewise, I have a very ugly freind who has an astonishingly beautiful wife, who also has a strange sense of aesthetics. These women ARE out there. They are just rare. But if you can find one that clicks with you, it's your best shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:27 PM
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I see. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:24 PM
2

Wow, you're really going out of your way to twist their point towards your own sense of femininity being equivalent to victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:23 PM
2

Yikes! Well in that case I would agree! But this is much more subtle and random then that. One day, out of the blue, a guy might use a phrase or do an action their little brother used to do. Or maybe they are at a restaurant and order the same meal as a previous husband who cheated on them. Just, anything really, on a subconscious level. And then, boom, their entire opinion of their guy is fundamentally and permanently changed. It's very common, and exceptionally unfair, and usually women don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:16 PM
1

I would think, if we had a magic wish, the better solution would be to lower male horniness rather than increase female horniness. When we were evolving and competing to be the dominant species, male horniness was of paramount importance. But now that we are undisputed champions of our planet, and our global population is already on the brink of being unsupportable, we don't nearly need to reproduce as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:44 PM
1

...or I was just joking back?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:59 PM
1

Men and women are mortal enemies for most people who frequent this sub. 90% of people here are just looking to fight and provide a lot of moral posturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:29 PM
1

You forgot the release of the first smart phones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:24 PM
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Conversely, you could say that women's extreme sensitivity is also toxic over minor things adults should be able to hear. I'm just trying to play devil's advocate here to demonstrate this isn't a gendered issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:24 PM
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Man, it's so sad. This just happened to a friend of mine. Turns out his woman was talking to another guy behind his back for six months. She was almost certainly cheating with the guy too. It's pretty brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:22 PM
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I agree, but it is sadly very true. It really does happen. And quite often. Obviously I only have anecdotal evidence, but it's happened at least once to almost every man I know. Women on this forum have discussed it before and openly admitted it's a real thing that even though don't understand, but it's like a light switch was flipped and it can never be flipped back the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:21 PM
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Touching grass is such a lame term
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:33 PM
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No. They won't. Men will never leave dating en masse. It simply will never happen. At least not enough to cause changes in the dating landscape. While the populations in western nations are decreasing the overall world population is increasing and non-western nations (with some exceptions like Japan and Korea - and arguably those nations have been greatly influenced by western ideals). And even if it men did leave en masse, it wouldn't change anything. It hasn't in Japan or Korea. It's just made…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 06:16 PM
1

The species would go extinct in such a scenario, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:30 PM
1

For those who have done cocaine, is this song accurate? https://youtu.be/5xVp1mauGnU (Obviously I'm just joking)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:58 PM
2

Use it in all cases, even if it doesn't grammatically make sense. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:39 PM
1

Oh man, I'm afraid to dig into their post history. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:31 PM
2

I used to be really good freinds with a "Chad." The amount of women he pulled with zero effort was truly astonishing. It was almost surreal. Fortunately, if he knew they had boyfriends or husbands he wouldn't sleep with them. Which meant we could remain freinds, since I wouldn't be able to stay friends with anyone who knowingly did that. But yeah, it is shocking how often women will cheat with an attractive man. It really makes me wonder why men are the ones so depicted as vile cheaters in the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:28 PM
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I was with you until the last sentence. Women behave like this too and use similar logic. This isn't typical "male logic." It's logic from an emotionally sick person who happens to be male. This level of depravity isn't a male exclusive. These women hes sleeping with, if any of this is true at all, are almost certainly using similar logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:25 PM
1

It can never go too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:21 PM
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Call her The Matriarch with absolute cynicism. Lol. Be sure to always use the definite article too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:20 PM
2

Ba dum ching!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:18 PM
5

I prefer the term jovial.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:15 PM
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If me considering you actively, purposefully, and going out of your way to ruin relationships is beta behavior in your eyes, so be it. Lmao. Also, you called yourself scummy and a peice of shit in your own post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:58 PM
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Not to be rude, but that's remarkably poor advice. While I'm genuinely happy that women have interest in you, but the vast majority of men will live their entire lives and never be hit on or approached by a woman. If most men didn't take the initiative, the vast majority of men would be single virgins for their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:56 PM
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Alternative take: when you behave in a scummy manner, you're going to attract scummy women, regardless of their relationship status.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:47 PM
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This actually extends to every facet of life for women who do this. It's a psychological block, I think. For example, I was at the dog park with my good freind who struggles with his weight. My dog park is frequented by a few, let's call them, extreme feminists (I hate them but I tolerate them since our dogs are such good freinds). Well, he was talking to one of them and the topic of food came up. Just inane chit chat about local restaurants, etc. He then started talking about how he's trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:43 PM
2

Haven't they been making what they call "Buddha Butter" for decades? Lol. Pour that over popcorn and voila.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:45 PM
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It's deeply damaging. And the thing is, it's always been this way. But previously, your scope of knowledge was limited to your direct knowledge, your surroundings, and the knowledge of those around you. With the creation of the internet, all the data and double standards, and the fundamental toxicity of it is available to young boys. They, like all children, internalize it all. Much of it is subconsciously internalized, but I think the revelation of this knowledge at such a young age, is a big r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:32 PM
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If I could hug you I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:59 PM
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I see what you mean there. I don't disagree, actually. Except on one point. Res Pill ideology is pretty diverse too. Probably not as diverse as feminism with its decade of academic and societal focus, but if you put 5 red pilled men in the same room, you will get 5 different answers on nuanced topics. But in general, yes I actually agree about their blaming feminism as a general catch all. Red Pill ideology is a bit more homogeneous. But I have a theory on why that is. Women are born into femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:56 PM
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Stop interacting with women for a while and focus on something in your life that brings you joy. I'm not suggesting go full MGTOW and avoid women altogether as much as possible. But dont go out of your way to interact with women outside of regular everyday interactions, and definitely don't seek romance for a while. I'm not saying demonize women or hate them, just try to stay away from them for a while if you can. Obviously I'm excluding people you already know and care for in a non-romantic way…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:23 PM
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Feminism isn't an ideology? Well, I guess there's no point in continuing the discussion then if we can't even agree on something as basic as that. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:07 PM
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Different people with different viewpoints are responding to you. Not everyone feels the same on all topics. Telling "those people" to be consistent is similar to telling all feminists to be a consistent monolith of opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:47 PM
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If you think this is bad, have you looked at FDS lately? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:46 PM
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This isn't a realistic take. You can't really know that about someone unless you know them exceptionally well. Which limits your potential dating pool to a very small number of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:13 PM
1

Then it sounds like your mind is already made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:10 PM
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Yes and no. The reality of the situation is that love is not like how it is in the media. It takes a LOT of work. A LOT. It takes a lot of sacrifice and concessions. Over a long period even the smallest of these can breed resentment. It isn't easy. And, if I'm being truly honest, I dont think most contemporary people are fit for it. We have become too selfish and too entitled. I honestly and truly think most western people are not fit for it. The con is that it takes a tremendous amount of work …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:31 PM
2

For me personally, traditional feminine energy is a good answers(and I dont mean 1950's stay at home wife stuff either). But the feminine energy I am immensely attracted to has all but vanished from the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:52 PM
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I dont think you're going to get an explanation that makes sense to you. Many women (probably the majority) will justify it by any means necessary, and most men will not, but as a man you just have to take it because if you physically respond back you're done for. Yeah, it's veey unfair. But unless you can undue human nature, and the societal zeitgeist, it just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:22 PM
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Fair point, and well made.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:20 PM
1

As far as I can tell there doesn't seem to be an establishment for feminism. It seems like a bunch of groups fighting amongst themselves until they come together on specific women's rights issues. But I'm kind of a dinosaur myself, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:13 PM
1

I didn't really realize there was an "establishment" for feminism. As far as I can tell it's a bunch if misaligned gender activists all fighting each other over ideology, but they come together for certain things to benefit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:09 PM
6

You missed the part where I said it was about younger relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:07 PM
2

If that's the case why is anti-porn such a staple of the more hostile viewpoints like FDS or PinkPill?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 09:00 PM
6

Not even remotely. You're comparing apples to oranges. 90% of men will have sex with 90% of women. 80% of women will have sex with only 20% of men, other factors notwithstanding (and don't stand on the exceptions to the rule - there are always exceptions). All the current dynamic does is give a small handful of men an amazing amount of options and the vast majority of men with almost nothing. At least for the majority of younger relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:57 PM
1

No. Straight male. Now a transgendered lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:35 PM
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What? I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:09 PM
1

Yeah that would be too much. Lol. She didn't do it for the attention, but it's a nice byproduct
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:08 PM
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Oh? Elaborate please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:04 PM
1

Are you referring to the economic theory, or that I scared people away due to being large like an actual juggernaut?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:02 PM
3

My lady is a very beautiful woman, but she rarely gets hit on by her own self reporting. No one has ever hit on her in my presence, but that has more to do with me being a large and scary looking guy. Most people are afraid of me. But she says she wasn't ever hit on a lot, but her more average freinds are hit on constantly. I think guys are just a bit too intimidated to hit on beautiful women in public. But who knows. I could be wrong. I've been wrong many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:40 PM
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As far as I'm concerned, good. Marriage and family laws are seriously outdated and no longer reflect the sociopolitical or socioeconomic reality. The laws need to be rewritten from top of bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:32 PM
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u/midwestufohunter, have you ever seen any UFOs in the midwest? I lived in the midwest for many years and saw a few. Whether they were optical illusions, weather balloons, etc, I can't say. But I definitely saw a few out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:18 PM
1

I'm a gamer and I love it. You can be a fan of something and not be part of the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:29 PM
1

My good freind just came out as trans (male to female). She's currently really struggling with transitioning to the female gender roles, but she's significantly happier, and is now bring flirted with by guys on a semi-regular basis. She told me that just any form of positive attention from people breathes life into her like night and day. Women really don't understand just how isolating and lonely being a guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:19 PM
2

Forgive my ignorance, but what does the blue hat emoji symbolize? Other than a blue hat, I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:12 PM
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Sundresses are the best
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:40 PM
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Oh come on, that one wasn't that bad. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:19 PM
1

Periwinkle?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:08 PM
1

While under normal circumstances I would agree. But they aren't taking themselves out of dating. Quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 06:26 PM
1

Man I hope so, but my instinct is telling me that the vast majority of the insanity is legitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:01 PM
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I just spent about a half hour on FDS, and my goodness, I can't even understand how those women function in reality. Try sorting through the controversial posts some time and really take it in. The level of insanity is off the charts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:35 PM
3

It makes perfect sense to me. I mean, people fear what they don't understand. A lack of knowledge is at the base of most fears. Most people, if they are afraid of the dark, aren't afraid because of the darkness itself. They are afraid that they don't know what's around them and don't have a full sense or knowledge of their surroundings. And really what's more unknowable than death until it happens? While religion is on the decline in the west, and more and more people are becoming materialists (…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:56 PM
1

Well it depends, did you just ask her out and was turned down, or did you confess undying love or something else dramatic in nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:18 PM
0

Sort of tangentially related here, but you know what's fun? Extreme sexual dimorphism. Like the deep sea angler fish where the males are incredibly tiny, defenseless, and are essentially parasite on the females. Or take for example the elephant seals where the males are enormous compared to the females and have to be careful not to crush them. Nature has some very weird stuff out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:07 PM
1

I think each relationship, even the closest of marriages, should have three accounts at minimum. One for each person and one for the couple. I think it's only good sense. It would be hurtful if you didn't have that arrangement, and you thought everything was on the up and up, only to find out she had a secret account. It wouldn't hurt me that hard, and I would see the logic in it quickly, but the gut reaction would be at least slightly hurtful. For like an hour. And then I would get over it. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:00 PM
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https://youtu.be/TycfDgg4acY no matter which pill you subscribe to this is still hilarious, and probably pretty accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:24 AM
3

Does that include yourself? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:18 AM
3

Alright then problem solved. If they don't care anyway, then they won't complain about it. I seriously doubt that is true, but let's say that it is. Okay, there's no problem. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:17 AM
3

Well, sure. But that doesn't mean it's mutually exclusive to what I said. I didn't say they were doing it to be attractive. I said they couldn't complain about not being attractive to men. That doesn't mean that's why they're doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:33 AM
4

Nicely said. Mad respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:03 AM
0

You would hope. But this is Reddit. You know it would be just as much of a #@$% show. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:36 PM
6

Actually this makes a lot of sense to me. Thanks for posting that. It is an interesting way to think about it. I would add the following though: the same women who choose to emulate the male behaviours then have no right to complain about men who find them unattractive because opposites attract, generally speaking. Men are generally looking for feminine women and women are generally looking for masculine men. So the further you align to the mannerisms of the other side, the more you will be unat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:25 PM
4

This is true. One partner focusing solely on the career and neglecting the personal side of the relationship is a good way to kill any bond, irregardless as to which gender is career person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:19 PM
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Haha, I love this answer. So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:17 PM
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Oh man, the comments section in this one is going to be a gold mine! I hope this one really takes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:17 PM
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So, it sounds like you're mad that there is an injustice in the way society views men and women. Hey man, you're not wrong. Yeah it sucks. But you're equating those feelings of social betrayal down to the lowest rung of the problem where you're first impacted by it. But women wanting you to pay on a date is pretty far removed from your emotional reaction. There's no fraud being committed by these women. They aren't promising you sex. They also aren't individually responsible for your feelings or…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:08 PM
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I am, admittedly an odd duck, but I would find it awesome. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:58 PM
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While I would never get married without both a pre and postnuptial agreement to protect us both, I would be stoked if a woman I loved asked me to marry her. How flattering is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:57 PM
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What do you mean they have natural immunity? Did they already get COVID before and have the antibodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:55 PM
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Why not just get the vaccine anyway and don't tell them? Why do they even need to know? It doesn't involve them and you are your own adult. I don't tell my mother every time I do something I know she wouldn't like. Although at our ages she would probably just laugh at it now. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:54 PM
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I mean, come on my guy. Even you have to realize this is an extreme viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:45 PM
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Or, maybe, juuuuuust maybe, people have different tastes. Lol. But yeah, the majority opinion is that it sucks. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:17 PM
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Well, I was taking the piss out of his viewpoint, but I don't disagree. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:16 PM
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Yeah, they ceased production (again). It might be another 20 years...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:16 PM
1

I miss Tab soda. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:47 PM
4

I actually had a gay guy complement my butt the other day. It gave me a huge morale boost for a solid week.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:44 PM
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You should consider a sleep apnea study. Despite what the populace at large thinks, it's absolutely possible to have sleep apnea and barely have any fat on your body whatsoever. Obstructive sleep apnea can happen even if you're underweight. I knew this guys who was rail thin, not an ounce of fat on his body. Lean as all hell. He had one of the worst cases of sleep apnea I've ever seen. And neurological sleep apnea has no correlation whatsoever to your physical throat. Just food for thought if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:40 PM
1

I joined a Krav Maga gym for a few months once. The first session, one of the trainers, was this tiny little woman. She purposefully singled me out for a class demonstration because I am a big dude. In my head I was like, "I got this." She had me on the ground in 2 seconds and I was at her total mercy. She continued to kick my @$$ for weeks. Lol. Size and strength, both of which I was way above her, are nothing compared to training and practice. Honestly, I think all women should seriously train…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:26 PM
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https://susquehannasignal.com/content/images/2020/07/dog-and-man-pants_o_6381235.jpg You sure about that? (Obviously it's just a gag for fun, don't think to deep into it, lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:00 PM
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Indeed. She also wants to posture from an intellectual high ground while remaining incredibly closed minded in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:46 PM
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Lol! Isn't that what pants are for?! Ba dum ching!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:27 PM
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Sounds like your mind is made up no matter what anyone says. Why should we bother? You're posturing as if you're coming from a position of good faith, but all you're doing is directly insulting people's ideas you don't agree with, and casting all men in the same basket. If you want to have a real debate about something with actual nuance, I'd be more than happy to talk to you about whatever you wanted. You don't have to agree, but you do need to engage with it in good faith, otherwise it's just …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:20 PM
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This only makes sense if women saw all men as being of high value, which they absolutely do not. In essence, it's given a small percentage of men an unbelievable selection and the rest of the men almost nothing. But on the other hand, while it's definitely harder for average men to get sex now, it has provided an arena where sex wasn't socially restricted mostly to marriage. In other words, while it has completed screwed over the average man in some ways, it's kicked down the door in other ways.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:09 PM
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Who said anything about harming anyone? You're doing what you always do and purposefully twisting everything into the worst possible interpretation against men it could possibly be. Look, it's very simple. We censor and lie by omission in nearly every human interaction. When my coworker walks in the door looking haggard I don't say, "Wow you look like total $%#@ today. Your hair is messy, you haven't shaved, and your clothes are wrinkled." I lie by omission and just ask, "You okay man?" When my …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:27 PM
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If you consider basic lies of omission that are required ror everyday interactions to be an active and pernicious form of lying, then a lot of the things you post actually (finally) make a lot of sense. I wish you nothing but the best, truly, but I think our world views and the way we observe basic human interactions, are fundamentally incompatible. If I viewed the world through your lens it would make me want to give up. Best of luck to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:38 PM
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Unless you're an EXCEPTIONALLY attractive man, you can't just come out and say, "I only want sex from you." You will be shut down and out with near 100% certainty. If a man wants sex he doesn't have to actively lie (unless you count lies of omission as an active form of lying, and if that's the case then I have nothing for you because almost every single human interaction involves some form of lying by omission and self censorship of what you really want to say) but if he outright reveals his in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:28 PM
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Oh wow. That's... really disheartening to hear. I mean, I knew things were bad, but it's hard to conceptualize middle aged women being that out of touch with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:40 PM
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Man, it isn't that bleak. The average woman may have slightly unrealistic standards, but they aren't that out of sync with reality. It isn't that doom and gloom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 12:30 AM
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This reminds me of a personal anecdote. I was hanging out with my lady and I told her that I gave up trying to understand her. I described her like a puzzle, but the rules keep changing at a rapid pace and conflicting. By the time one puzzle rule is solved, two new ones have been introduced. So I stopped trying to figure her out just accepted that it's impossible. She seemed put off by that for a little while but later admitted that it was true when I pointed out that she doesn't even know her o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:23 PM
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And cosmically speaking, even that is meaningless. It's all about perspective. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:17 PM
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Well, in the immortal pages of Calvin and Hobbes, "The key to happiness is to lower your expectations to the point where they are already met."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 11:13 PM
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One time I was walking down a street at night with my pal. It wasn't in a dangerous part of town whatsoever, but there was still the occasional prostitute on the corner. As I was walking, a car pulled up about 10 feet in front of me and a prostitute got in the car. They went up about one block before the car slammed on the brakes. The woman got out, slammed the door, and shouted so loudly that I'm sure everyone within running distance could here: "Awww hell no! Not for all the money in the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:29 PM
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I have to say, and I know this is basically a cliched platitude at this point, but I'm so grateful I didn't grow up in the age of social media, instant media (other than television), and the internet. None of this stuff was available (except tv) until I was an adult, or almost an adult anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:12 PM
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And women leave when the money/provider stops flowing. Women leave when the commitment gets tough, and responsible for 80% of the divorces. We can make generalizations from the data we're given, but dont focus on one side of picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:07 PM
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Well, yeah, but I was referring to this as a hit of a gag: https://youtu.be/KD_1Z8iUDho I'm showing my age here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 07:34 PM
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Indeed. No argument from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:24 PM
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I've seen dozens of women post their insecurities of their men watching porn. There are near daily posts in FDS and PinkPills about it. As a group, women in general seem to be overwhelmingly against their partner watching porn. Of course this is just internet observations. In reality, in most successful relationships, I have absolutely no idea what's going on in their bedrooms or porn usage. But I imagine most healthy relationships aren't totally opposed to it. But I don't know. I don't make a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:54 PM
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It took me a long time to learn this, much longer than it should have, but the problem isn't with nice guys (I don't mean "nice guys" but genuinely kind guys). The problem is that kindness correlates to agreeableness, which lends itself more toward passivity. Women aren't unattracted to nice guys, but are unattracted to passive guys. Kindness and passivity tend to go hand in hand. At least that's what it used to be like. Over the last 15 years or so it's really seemed like kindness itself is see…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:36 PM
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Don't cry for me Argentina
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:23 PM
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I can't stand that show. Lol. But I do know it has its major fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:02 PM
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No kidding. And dropping people on strike 1 is just ridiculous to me. No one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes no matter how amazing of a person they are. I hate this idea of waiting for perfection. If we never took anything other than perfection there would be no progress whatsoever on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:57 PM
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Not really. IRL I've heard more men talk about this stuff openly and publicly than ever before. Things are changing, especially as Gen Z is growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:46 PM
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Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:38 PM
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To quote Hank Hill, "It's like a tire fire. Trying to put it out only makes it worse. You just gotta let it burn. Grab a beer and let it burn."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:34 PM
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I'm fine with it. My significant other can watch all the porn she wants. I wouldn't watch it with her though, as it freaks her out to watch it together for some reason (I still don't get that, but I realized I don't need to understand it, just respect it and it isn't a big loss anyway). I don't think she watches it very often though. Maybe twice a month? Maybe even less than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:02 PM
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You are my purple pill hero <3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 02:36 PM
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You said that you "cannot [understand]", indicating that it was not a possibility. And I never suggested anyone abandon anything. The whole point of empathy is understanding where the other person is coming from, not to entirely abandon your own viewpoint. But that's fine, if you're unable, or don't want to, or cannot, or whatever word you want to use, I believe I've gotten to the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:36 PM
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I never said I understood it. I said I try. You just said there was no way because you aren't a man. I also am not criticizing women for anything in this thread. I didn't criticize any women for anything. I just asked you why you can't try to understand it. You're one of the saner people on this sub and I was really hoping to engage with you on this topic, but your defensiveness is throwing me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:25 PM
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Apparently we live on different planets. Yours sounds a lot nicer than mine. Can I come stay on your planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:15 PM
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Why not? I'm not a woman but I do my best to try to understand their perspectives and where they're coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:13 PM
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I think the disconnect might be that you can still have a healthy view of women, while still understanding their group psychology based on observable behavior and working from averages rather than exceptions. But a lot of people on this sub... are definitely not like that. But to be fair though, the worst vitriol I've seen on this sun usually comes from the women. Which is rather telling if the sub is mostly men. But I get the sense the people who are drawn frequently to this sub are not the hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 08:06 PM
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So you prefer Black Mages to Red Mages? Lol. J/K
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:19 PM
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I'm not too terribly interested in the finer points, but since I brought it up I at least owe you a reply. On misrepresenting the issues: His point is essentially that the red pill is a hatred indoctrination platform with no substance and that it serves as a platform for cult mentality with no consideration of the actual content or messaging of the red pill. He makes it abundantly clear that the content isn't worth your time due to the cult. First of all, I'm an older guy, and the descriptive co…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:13 PM
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Hmmm, well, I just watched that video and it actually kind of made me lose respect for him. I wish I hadn't watched it actually. Man does he really misrepresent the issues and serves more as a hit peice on Kevin Samuels. Also, the advice he gives at the end of the video is straight up absolutely wrong about being emotionally vulnerable toward women. He was right about the red pill having the potential indoctrination effects on young people though. The comments section on that video is pretty vic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:42 PM
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Man, that guy's jawline could cut diamonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:23 PM
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Niche appeal is definitely better than no appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:22 PM
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They didn't have phones in the 1300s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:42 PM
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Why? Because of a discussion about sex toys?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:50 PM
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Was yours inspired by my post from the previous daily thread? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:48 PM
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I very seriously doubt it with every fiber of my being. Bit if it's any consolation, I seriously hope I'm wrong and you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:15 PM
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Me too. By far my favorite movie. I still watch it at least once a year. I'm embarrassed to say that it was pretty influential on me in terms of my story sensibilities (God help me). That's actually funny that out experience with women has been so different in regards to that movie. Literally, every single woman I've ever talked to can't even tolerate the film. One time a local theater was playing it as a one-time event and I took a date to see it. It was the second date. She ended up breaking u…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:39 PM
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If depends on how much cash and gems he sucks up into the ghost vacuum. My favorite ending is actually where he gets a bird house. Haha. Or maybe I'm confusing that with Wario Land.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:32 PM
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If a woman truly has that much of a problem with me watching porn, she's gone. Not only is it indicative of controlling behavior, it also means she's very insecure (to me), and also has emotional regulation issues. These are all major red flags to me and what I want from a woman. We were a month or two (maybe 3) when this topic came up in my relationship. I kindly told her that I would watch porn if I wanted to and we made a deal. I would watch it as much as I want as long as I didn't tell her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:30 PM
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Mario never gets Peach. She will rarely award him with a kiss, but that's it. She even outright rejected his marriage proposal is the most casual and cruel way possible in Mario Odyssey before trying to ditch him on the moon. Lmao. Mario would have better luck shacking up with DK than Peach
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:19 PM
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You must realize it's a joke, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:17 PM
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Waluigi
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:17 PM
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While I'm not married, I've been with the same woman for more than 10 years so it's basically the same thing. My MiL really likes me (and pressures me constantly into giving her a grand child, and she is relentless and merciless about it), but my FiL doesn't like me much at all, but we've never discussed it and we probably won't. I don't like him much either, he's one of those guys that very casually cruel with his sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:16 PM
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You know, while I would prefer a housewife type of partner, I honestly can't blame a woman who doesn't want to be one. It is a pretty big risk, and the future is never certain. I've had this conversation with my own partner many times. I've told her that I would prefer she be a housewife if we ever have children, but I would totally support and understand her if she didn't want to be one. And I know she wont be. She enjoys working. She would be miserable as a homemaker. What I don't like are all…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:09 PM
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I can't speak for all guys, but I actually prefer my women to be t on the thicker size, some extra fluff and all. I'd prefer a larger woman to a really thin one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:05 PM
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I really doubt it. It's almost surely here to stay, and it's just going to get worse and worse. Even if it is here to stay I strongly encourage you to get off of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:04 PM
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"She's not my girlfriend man, she's my #$%&ing lady friend!" Fun fact: I've never known a woman who could even borderline tolerate that movie, haha. With the one exception in that my good freind just came out as a trans woman, but that is a pretty strong statistical outlier. I know they exist out there somewhere though, lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:03 PM
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Interesting. I'm personally not into women with a lot of tattoos because I think they're kinda unclassy. But that's just my personal preference. I find it surprising that the manosphere has an issue with them. I'm lightly red pilled (lightish red... pink? Franklin Delano Donut!) but I don't consider tattoos to have anything to do with gender relations or be gender specific. To be clear, a few tattoos are fine, but people with giant tattoos are a turn off for me. I would still date a woman with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:25 PM
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"What makes a man Mr. Lebowski? Is it being prepared to do the right thing, whatever the cost? Isn't that what makes a man?" "Hmmm... Sure, that and a pair of testicles."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:17 PM
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I like it how you say you read 400 replies, but cherry pick the three you want to hear, and you somehow twist that into reaffirming your own premise. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:08 PM
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On the plus side, if OP sticks to her guns she will almost certainly not find a man at all. Therefore the problem solves itself and men wont have to deal with her. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:03 PM
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Why should a man chose a woman who dictates his porn usage if he isn't choosing porn over her? Why should a man choose someone so controlling and fickle?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:57 PM
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FDS, antipornography, 4thwavefeminism, etc, not to mention the posts she's already made in this topic. Her ears, and mind, are closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:50 PM
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Why do you continue to engage with her? She's clearly operating from a position of bad faith and her mind is made up. You'd be better off cutting your losses than trying to debate her. Just a quick glance through her posts demonstrates she's an ideologue who won't really listen to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:47 PM
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The you have a level of imagination purity that is rivaled by very, very few.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:44 PM
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If a woman told me it was porn or her, she's out the door. I'm too old to live with others defining me. Plus, such behavior is indicative of either controlling behavior or self worth issues. I'm not into either these days. Besides, a woman who has such a strong reaction to porn (if it isn't causing a problem, i.e. him ignoring her for porn), then I honestly don't see the problem. Why should it bother her so much? Self worth issues is all I can understand. I've caught my lady watching porn once a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:42 PM
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I actually got cat called today by a group of much younger guys. It was such a novelty and gave me a bit of a temporary ego boost. It would have been best had a lady done it, but I'll take my victories where I can get them. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:40 AM
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At the end of the day men and women are just different and have different needs. People can deny it all they want but it's still pretty true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:35 AM
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That's not at all what I said. It would still be harassment, just not sexual assualt or coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:02 AM
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Misery loves company. I don't think it goes any deeper than that, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:32 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:01 PM
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I've never actually used one. Or seen them for sale come to think of it, even inside sex shops. But I've also never sought them out so it wouldn't catch my eye unless I was trying to find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 04:00 PM
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I'll just say this, and this is the perspective of an older guy, any women that's playing hard to get or being wishy washy about consent, or saying known when she wants you to keep going, should be RUN away from ASAP. First of all, life is too short, hard, and difficult to put up with games or shit tests. Second of all, any woman who does that and puts the entire onus on the guy, including the ambiguous stop/don't stop stuff, isn't worth your time. That's only the beginning of the emotional game…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:57 PM
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Haha. Maybe some products just aren't meant for YouTube unboxing videos I suppose. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:48 PM
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Considering I've been in the bottom or that percentage my entire life, I internalized that when I was like 15. But this topic goes deeper. Even super good looking men are harshly judged by women for having sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:47 PM
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Haha, oh I figured all of that out like 20 years ago. I got over it quickly. It was just inexperience and a lack of knowledge. And the part about why they still bother with men was hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:43 PM
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Well if that's the case then the vast majority of men are gross and disgusting because even when in marriages and such they still masturbated a lot. Lol. I think anything related to straight male sexuality, no matter how tame, is seen as gross and disgusting unless the guy is exceptionally good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:42 PM
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No idea. But the vast, vast majority of women are absolutely repulsed by a man who owns one. And if it isn't the vast majority of women, the ones that are repulsed by it are viscerally repulsed by them to a heightened degree that seems beyond reasonable. Just my opinion anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:38 PM
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Hmmm, maybe. You have a logic behind what you're saying, but it seems far more likely to me that's it's more of an instinctual repulsion without any logic. Any logic to their opinion would probably be deduced later. But that's the best theory I've heard yet. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:38 PM
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Haha, I have no idea, lol. In the defense of those men though, every woman whose ever shown me their sex toy revealed it was pretty massive. Not all have been enormous, but every partner I've ever had already pre-owned a vibrator that was much larger than the average man. Plus they usually vibrate, twirl, undulate, etc. I've personally never felt threatened by them (well maybe I did when I was much, much younger in my very early 20's) but it does make me wonder why sex with a man would ever be p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 03:35 PM
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Since there's so much discussion on sex toys today, here's a question I've always wondered about. Women are often encouraged to get sex toys. But if a man gets some, like a fleshlight for example, he's scorned by women as a creep and a pervert. Maybe this stigma is dying, but even when I was in the dating market 15 years ago it was extremely taboo. I've always wondered why that is. It never made any sense to me. But gender relationships usually didn't make sense to me back then, and even less so…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:50 PM
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Haha, I know right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:45 PM
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I don't know. The women on the sub are absolutely insane. The men are too, but the women are leaps and bounds crazier than the men, on average. Exceptions apply. Best to just ignore it and focus on the exceptions actually (which is a weird thing to say) because 90% of people here are a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:43 PM
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If you actually look at the activites they define as "coercion" it's flat out ridiculous. Repeatedly asking for sex? That's harassment, not assault. That's just nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:36 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 07:16 PM
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In my experience, if you state your intentions upfront and they aren't for a committed relationship, you're done. She's out and it's over. Unless your an exceptionally good looking man, or have enough other qualities to overcome it (obviously wealthy, etc), you're done. Even if a woman is DTF already, if you come out and just state it she will be instantly turned off, even if it's what she wanted as well. Of course there are exceptions. There are always exceptions. But the vast majority of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:57 PM
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When I was online dating more than a decade ago, I went to three dates in a row where the woman in reality looked nothing like her picture, or it was the same woman, but her images were so heavily filtered, used amazing lightning, makeup was beyond incredible, etc. I got so fed up I quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:54 PM
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I had never heard it but I understood it immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:51 PM
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True. Also, in my experience it seems like older women have a much harder time with compromise than most men do. But this is totally anecdotal evidence based on my own observations and life experience. I have no data to officially back that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:49 PM
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Well, I suppose what is defined as a "major" compromise likely changes dramatically for each person. But yeah, I don't know how people are able to have LTRs without being able to compromise. Most likely they don't, which probably speaks volumes about the growing isolation and selflessness of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:18 PM
2

If you know you're being petty and the fight is your fault, why are you waiting on an apology. It sounds like you should be the one apologizing to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 09:05 PM
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💩💩💩
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 08:08 PM
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To be fair, it would be a challenge not to impregnate Olivia Munn due to those excellent genes. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:54 PM
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Man, that sounds horrible... at least to me. Why would I want to disappoint multiple people? Ba dum ching!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:40 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:39 PM
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Yes in aware of the bystander effect. My point is, if you're a guy, you're essentially screwed by it. I've known women who were in trouble and while the majority of people might not help, people definitely will. If you're a man in trouble, you're absolutely on your own. Even the crying in public bench stuff shows this, on a much lower lecel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:28 PM
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At all times, just a few buildings down from your current location, is a Frank Reynolds inspired orgy... which is really a buffet for old, paunchy, and weird people. Do you think the shrimp is frozen or fresh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 06:06 PM
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It reminds me of that episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm when Larry wouldn't sleep with a woman because she had a picture of Geroge Bush in her house. And his freind was mystified, "I'd $%& fuck her with a Bush mask on!" Haha. Love that show.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:13 PM
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I feel like this would only work of you're a very good looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:10 PM
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I'll take this a step further. Twice in my life I was very seriously injured in a public space, once where I was clearly in extreme physical distress and in open agony. No one stopped to help. No one called an ambulance. Women walked far out of their way to avoid me. Men didn't do that but just walked right by me. If we didn't live in an age of smartphones, and I couldn't dial 911 on my own, I might lost lost a leg. My point is if you are a man who is not exceptionally attractive, you have to in…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:07 PM
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I've made tons of compromises, everything from small things to major things. I think any actual strong relationship requires a LOT of compromises, especially over the long haul. People who aren't willing to compromise are going to have a very hard time. No one is perfect. There is no perfect man or woman out there for you. We are all broken and messed up in one way or the other. If you're holding out for a perfect partner that requires no major comprises, I think you might just be waiting foreve…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:02 PM
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I am in one of such relationships. I've been with the same woman for more than a decade. She is a gorgeous woman, and I am... not a good looking person. She honestly thinks I'm good looking though, unless she's been blowing smoke up my butt for ages, so I have no choice but to believe her. I'm a 4/10 and she's a 9/10. I have no explanation other than that there are people put there with very skewed aesthetic standards. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and there are people out there who are …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:57 PM
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Be that as it may, it's still impressive. Very, very few people, ESPECIALLY Americans, could do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:55 PM
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Like what kind of safety measures? Like cameras and lights and things around the house?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:59 PM
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So... in other words you basically compromised on nothing except something you already wanted to do anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:57 PM
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Wow. You guys are far more willing to compromise on thing than the average person. Very few people could be in a relationship with a political opposite as well as religions (or lack thereof). I have no idea how you guys make it work, it seems impossible, but bravo my good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:55 PM
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I too have a very attractive partner. I am not attractive at all. I'm actually fairly ugly. But she genuinely thinks I'm attractive. Go figure. There are always going to be people with a skewed aesthetic standard. It's just a numbers game until you find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 01:08 AM
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What is that a sub? Is it a parody of FDS or are they posting really FDS posts? I'm unclear on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:41 AM
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Lmfao you made my night! Haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:39 AM
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Ouch. Man, guys are screwed no matter what. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:32 AM
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Why not listen to both? Listen to both sides, and decide for yourself. The truth is always somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:04 PM
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Speaking of which, tonight was fun and all, but can I borrow some cab fare to get home?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:46 PM
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How you can make the best arguments, and people just wont accept them no matter what. So you decide, screw it, and take the piss from them a little bit. And then they claim they "won" because you stopped caring about their brick wall mentality. Ah well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:56 PM
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Or maybe decades of life experience proves what works and what doesn't. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:49 PM
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It's been my experience over the last 4 decades that if I ask a woman to have sex with me, it's a firm and absolutely solid no, even if she's really into me. People, in particular women, want to be finessed, for whatever reason, even if they already want sex from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:48 PM
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Interesting and very nuanced take. I can't say I disagree with any of this. I would add though, that young girl's socialization also seems to expect equality and special treatment at the same time, which is a paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:10 PM
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I've had three different condoms break on me in my lifetime. Definitely not anywhere near perfect. But other than sterilization there's nothing else currently available to my knowledge that is as effective for males. Vasalgel, if eventually approved, seems to be a particularly good candidate for male non-permanent birth control, if it ever gets off the ground and approved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:37 AM
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Gay guys is the answer you're looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:40 PM
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I think it's well known this isn't a new phenomenon, it's just now it isn't localized with the technology we now have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:39 PM
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Any alien species capable of reaching Earth presumably can reach other planets with greater resources than what Earrh has left. Robots, maybe. What if the robots took over and then the aliens invaded? Aliens VS Robots sounds excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:14 PM
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Lmao. Yikes!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:11 PM
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I said I was being hyperbolic. It was a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:42 PM
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Honestly, this sub has made me fear for the future of our species. Lol! What's the next great dominant species that will take over the earth after we stupid ourselves into extinction? Something that thrives on a hot house environment, I would guess. Maybe some kind of lizard? And yes, I'm being purposefully hyperbolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:31 PM
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Having traditional feminine energy (this doesn't mean be a 1950's housewife), but that's become so rare that it's borderline extinct outside of religious communities. But sadly those some communities have a lot of regressive problems that I am not fond of either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:47 PM
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Well, your thought process certainly matches your user name.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:52 AM
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Haha, I feel that way all the time. I'm so old, why the #$%& do I care? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:32 PM
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Okay. Then stop seeking support from men for women's problems. Stop seeking support and validation from outside sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:30 PM
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And when they do just that they are shamed and ridiculed and called pathetic losers, mostly by women. However when a woman does it she is called strong and empowering. It's not really a valid solution in either case, and if it is, it needs to be destigmatized. But it won't be. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:31 PM
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As hilarious as that concept is, women would let the species go extinct entirely before they used that wall. Haha. You're have better luck just shipping genetic materials back and forth and funding artificial wombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:28 PM
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With artificial wombs around the corner you never know, it might be possible soonish.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:26 PM
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Do our tax dollars pay for abortions? I thought that was a myth. Lol, maybe I'll do my own research instead of asking people online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:17 PM
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Conversely, there's nothing worse than having a hated nemesis, only to find out they don't even know who you are. Lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:13 PM
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Its worth considering that they were all true before, and always have been, but the the tools were limited thus creating an equal playing field. Before the internet, dating was a very localized experience. Now it is global and the tools (especially online dating) have changed every single aspect of it. You're comparing apples and oranges, even if you have some good points in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:11 PM
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That's nonsense. She could have left any time she wanted. She wasn't a prisoner. Besides, it was consenting sex and I had a right to speak my mind as much as she had to speak hers. And I have to look out for my own perspective first. If you think that is wrong, then we have completely and fundamentally incompatible world views and will not be able to come to form of understanding. If you want to infantilize her, take away all her agency and the ability to make her own decisions or leave, that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:55 PM
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There was no strong arming. I just laid out the data. We were too young, too poor, and not emotionally mature enough for kids. She agreed, and got the pill the next day. She didn't want to, but she agreed once we talked about it. It only took a few hours of talking about it. If you consider that strong arming, despite her having all the power in that situation as to whether to take the pill or not, then I don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:45 PM
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Legalized and destigmatized prostitution, financial abortions, and major changes in marriage and family law. Other than that, I don't think much else can be done without massive cultural or biological shifts which I do believe to be truly impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:38 PM
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That's... exceptionally difficult to believe. But I'm not that interested in debating the finer points of the Plan B pill. The point was just to relay male experience with abortions and that's the closest I've come. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:32 PM
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Not to mention, the average guy gets so few options that if he did try shit tests he would be alone truly forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:28 PM
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Not just a cultural shift, but a biological shift as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:26 PM
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Nah man. Even nature has its night owls and social instances. Scientists think that about 1 in 20 people are naturally loners and night owls. This goes back to early humans when someone had to keep watch at nights.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:24 PM
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I never said it was an easy solution. But as far as I'm aware, other than an actual abortion, there's nothing else you can really do in such a scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:16 PM
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Uhm, honestly, it sounds like we're in agreement. They can fathom it if they want to, they just choose not to. The results are the same even in the reasons we deduce for it are different. Like most things though the truth is likely somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:42 PM
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I havent read it but just the sound of it reeks of fiction to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:39 PM
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No. Not under any circumstances unless there was absolutely no way we would cross paths professionally. For example, if I were a hospital surgeon (I am not), I might consider dating someone in administrative collections or something, but it would have to be very far removed. And even then probably not unless she was really special. The juice isn't worth the squeeze. I wont even be alone with a woman at work any more, let alone date her. It's just bad news and really setting yourself up for troub…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:37 PM
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I don't have one, but I have had three condoms break on me before, and was super lucky all three women took the Plan B pill. One of then required a lot of convincing but she took it. That's as close as I've ever came to an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:33 PM
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Hmm, you got me there. It is true that most gay relationships with men almost always have some sort of open component. I know plenty of them. I've never asked how effective it is for their happiness and the well being of their relationship though, as that's a pretty ride and private thing to ask them. Or at least I felt that it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:31 PM
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They have sex on easy mode. But sex is only one aspect of life. An important one for men, but not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:08 PM
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Well, even when confronted with evidence most women will just waive it away regardless. There's nothing you can do against a culture of gaslighting other than abide it or fight it. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:07 PM
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A lot of it is cultural too. Not every part of the world has the same standards of cleanliness, and the west is notorious for being way more into cleanliness compared to the rest of the world. I've done plenty of world traveling and lived all over the place, and people in western influenced nations are much more into it. This isn't to disprove you, just expand on the data set.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:03 PM
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I don't know man. I understand why women don't like porn when it has a negative impact on the relationship. But that's more unusual than people think. When done with a healthy mind, it's no problem. The same as someone who drinks, it's not usually an issue for most people. I've never understood why many women can't even tolerate the existence of porn, let alone refuse to be a relationship with a man who watches it. That's demanding so much purity of imagination and really speaks to a lot of inse…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:00 PM
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Why is this an upside? It's a genuine question and I'd like your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 12:55 PM
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Perhaps the issue isn't the existence of this, which has been around for decades, but the changing goal post and how how excessive it is becoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 12:52 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean. I'm talking about compliments I've received from women. Not men. The compliments I've received from men have nothing to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:06 AM
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Think what you want. You don't have to agree. But I'm trying to offer a different perspective. If you don't want to accept that, that's fine with me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:04 AM
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I just said it was a sad situation. No one owed anything. But it's still sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:40 PM
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I'll be honest, I don't like abortion. I mean, no one likes it. But I really dislike it. However, I do think women should have a legal right to it (which means I'm equally hated by both pro-choicers and pro-lifers). But this law seems particularly pernicious. I hope it doesn't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 08:30 PM
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Ok. Apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:53 PM
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Before I started my high paying "proper career" I worked in construction. Man, that fing sucked. But a major benefit was being able to joke around, say what I want, not worrying about offending everyone around me with an off color joke that would have been hilarious to most people even 5 years ago. There is definitely something that lightens the soul about being in a male friendly environment with other guys, the kind of places and careers that just don't really exist anymore. But on the other h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:20 PM
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I can tell you that even if they are physically attracted to their partners, many women are bitter that they are attracted to men at all. Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:16 PM
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In my roughly 4 decades of like on this planet I have maybe been complimented by women perhaps 3 times. Once a decade after childhood. I'm excluding family members. What I can tell you is that it is so rare that those compliments I've held on to deeply and mean more to me than any compliments I've received, even from close freinds. That's how little acknowledgement or validation men get from women.whether women are justified in being so aloof with their compliments I'll leave to you to decide. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:15 PM
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If that's how women truly are (and for the sake of this post and the argument let's assume it to be true), then it isn't about vilifying them. Or at least it shouldn't be. But it's to point out that men have significant challenges in the dating market. Very real ones that are swept under the rug as those same women gaslight men and say it's all their fault, are told them are toxic, indoctrinated to hate themselves, etc. Just even a basic form of empathy or acknowledgement would go a long way, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:13 PM
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Maybe. I think the vast majority of long term relationships are "settling" though, especially from the female side. But I agree that it certainly doesn't make it right or good. But whatcha gonna do?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:08 PM
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Most of the male gay couples I know (and I know a surprising lot of them, statistically speaking) all have some form of open relationship or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:02 PM
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I think it has far more to do with the prominence of Christianity and early church values that founded the country as opposed to what women would allow. But the result is essentially the same, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:01 PM
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I used to be a bigger fan of hers, but over time her videos became more and more SJW cringe to me. But that video was a pretty good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:00 PM
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Or how about fixing the planet and ensuring our species has a home for more than the next few generations. A human hivemind would be cool, assuming the head of sad hive mind had its priorities straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 06:01 PM
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Maybe you're just an usually compatible or malleable person. Everyone I know describes their relationship as a struggle in the long term. 0r maybe I just suck. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:53 PM
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Disagree 1000000%. Relationships are hard work even if you're with the right person. Significantly morso if your with the wrong person, but still very hard even with the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:10 PM
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I can't agree with this at all. If this were the case, absolutely no cold approaches would be possible. Considering in my own personal experience, my odds of getting a date increase DRAMATICALLY with the cold approach. The short term casual approach works better, as you describe, but is rarely possible. If you think that makes me an idiot, well then fair enough. But then this idiot has had much more success using the idiotic cold approach than any other types.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:30 PM
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Personally, I find this incredibly sad and really speaks to how selfish most women actually are. When you're at your lowest point you should be able to not have to constantly reassure your woman that you will be okay so her needs can continue to be met. Men NEED to be able to have a safe space when they are at their lowest point. We're only human. No human can be absolutely strong 100% of the time. And at their weakest point it's fundamentally sad that they feel they still have to be reassuring …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:56 PM
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I don't know. I've been trying to understand women's physical attraction for decades and I still can't understand it. I don't think they really understand it either. For no reason a woman might randomly just get a weird vibe, totally out of the blue, and all of her attraction for a guy is gone. My advice is stop trying to figure it out. Just accept it's not really possible to understand from the male experience and go on with your day. To steal a line from King of the Hill, "It's like a tire fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:47 PM
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Well let's put it this way. I've been in a successful long term relationship with a wonderful woman that I love dearly. It's coming up on 12 years now. If this relationship fails, that's it for me. I'm checking out from women dor a good looooong while. Possibly forever at my age. I won't go MGTOW or anything, but I have to tell you, more than a decade of dealing with a woman is more than enough. I've seen women on this sub say the same thing about being with men long term. I only date women so I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:40 PM
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So your experience with women in your mind somehow firmly documents that as a universal experience anyone can achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:31 PM
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The problem with IOIs is there is a truly fundamental misalignment of communication with them. Women, who think they are being obvious as all hell, are in truth often being extremely vague. Women need to be much less subtle and much more obvious with their IOIs. But for the vast majority it simply won't happen. So IOIs are pretty much wasted on most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:28 PM
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Well what's the alternative? It isn't really men's fault that women's standards have risen to what is essentially unobtainable levels for 90% of people. It's really the internet's fault and the communication tools we now have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:25 PM
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I have never dated a bisexual, but I imagine the primary downside is they would have twice as much temptation to cheat or branch swing. When your pool of partners is 99% as opposed to 50%, that's quite a lot more temptation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:47 PM
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Was that comparison really necessary? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:18 PM
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I certainly no longer share my emotions publicly, nor my opinions. In fact, I don't really even share my importantly held beliefs with anyone, even my friends any more. I'm always socially punished for it in one way or another, so why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:17 PM
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That's an extremely regressive view to take. I bet you most people don't even know those laws exist. I know I didn't until recently and I've been on this planet for a long time. It's a very counter intuitive leap of logic to think that just because you're acting like a dad for a little while to a kid that isn't yours that you would suddenly become financially responsible for that child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:15 PM
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If you're just looking for sex, and only sex, then don't listen to a word a woman tells you. Not a single word. Listen to the men who are (roughly) the same level of physical attractiveness you are that are successful. You don't learn to catch fish by listening to the fish, you learn it from the successfull fisherman. But just be aware, that unless you're already very, very attractive, you will most likely have to resort to things like small lies, lies of omission, and other generally skeevy beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:30 PM
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For some people, especially younger people, they are often the same thing in their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 01:41 PM
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The only ways to put the genie back in the bottle is to remove the technology allowing for it (not going to happen) or a massive majority of men go MGTOW (also not happening). This is out reality for the foreseeable future. I see no way of realistically turning back the clock, and it likely isn't possible anyway. But it isn't all doom and gloom.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 10:38 PM
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I don't often agree with you, but on this we're 100% in sync. Everyone is miserable. The happiness index is plummeting. But this is surely a result of the things you listed rather than equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:45 PM
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I mean, come on bro, this isn't that hard of a concept. Women, in general, have much more on the line then men do women it comes to sex. Due to their organs having a much larger surface area of mucus membranes they are much more susceptible to STDs, let alone pregnancy. These are big risks for women to take. Let alone a stranger forcing themselves on them, probably in a violent manner, and mentally and physically traumatizing them. Not to mention women are just physically weaker and in many ways…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:13 PM
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Seek help amigo. You're losing it a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 12:17 AM
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Well, what I said, I said from my personal point of view. I find dealing with women like this absolutely exhausting. I'm an extremely strong person, but I don't want to work all day in a punishing and stressful job (extremely lucrative which is why I can deal with it) only to have to continue that way at home. But hey, that's just me. I'll take a 5/10 woman over a 9/10 woman for some freaking peace in my life. What I define as toxic doesn't mean you need to define it the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 08:34 PM
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Haha, I feel the same way with my relationship. If it ever fails (although going on 11 years now) I'm done. Trying to deal with another woman has no appeal to me any more. Don't get me wrong. I love her to death. But one and done is enough for me. Dealing with the stress of women is a once per lifetime effort. Haha. I'm sure the exact same is true of dealing with men. But I don't date men, so I can only speak to the experience of being with women. But I imagine it's the same, just with different…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:56 PM
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Fair enough, but at the same time, wow that sounds like a horrible partnership. Even i If was the ultimate Alpha I would just leave rather than trying to deal with so much stress, constantly having to stand up and deal with BS. No thank you. Life is too short to waste on such a toxic relationship, beta, alpha, or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:52 PM
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I didn't realize such surgeries existed for height extensions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:47 PM
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Most of my female freinds have ridiculous standards. About ten years I sat down with one and we went through it and I literally made a list and then teased her about how she will be single forever. Well, a decade later, she is still single, and growing more and more bitter and misandrist because the man she feels she deserves doesn't exist. This is an extreme example, but even my married female freinds and sort of admitted they settled (they didn't say that of course, but easily reading between …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 06:41 PM
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Usually the long term ones are quite detached and happy. But it does take a while to get through the "red pill rage." After all, one doesn't go MGTOW unless seriously hurt, so a lot of younger, newer ones are the raging ones. I know quite a few MGTOWs in my actual life and the older ones are the most chill and coolest people I've ever met. The younger ones tend to be a little insufferable for the reasons above.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:17 PM
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That seems to be the case for a lot of ladies as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:38 PM
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Cold approach for the win. Unless you're extremely good looking your online dating prospects are essentially zero. I'll take a 5% success chance over a 0% success chance. And I absolutely don't care if women don't want to be cold approached in reality. I don't want to be absolutely invisible online either. Too bad. Lol. At least I'm always respectful and I'll leave her alone if she is giving me the bad vibes. But I've had absolutely no success in online dating after years of trying but I do alri…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:22 PM
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I was with you until the back half of your post. Honestly, you dodged a toxic guy, but it sounds like he dodged a toxic person too. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:06 PM
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Nah man. Women just have an unbelievably skewed sense of what is creepy. Anything that makes women even vaguely uncomfortable is creepy. They have expanded the word to rhe point where it has no meaning whatsoever. I've been called creepy for walking my dog in a public park. I've been called creepy for eating ice cream from a cone in public. I've been called creepy for having to reach around to grab some apples at the store because an incredibly rude woman was blocking them while talking on a cel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:38 PM
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If we take out the involuntary physical attraction aspects, which seems to be the intent of your question, then the answer is: not much. Other than emotional validation, which men aren't really able to receive from anywhere else in our society, women offer exceptionally little (except sex, but again you asked to not have those answers). This isn't to knock women down, but the traditional aspects of femininity I am immensely attracted to, and of which I find value in a long term partner, are esse…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:28 PM
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I was raised by a stubborn ignorant optimist so when I was younger dating women with those traits was an absolute turn off for me. Now that I'm older, and I've been with an intelligent optimist for more than a decade, if she ever leaves me I'll give the ignorant optimist a try. The older I get, the more I think the best parts of life aren't the big moments, but the small little moments of fun sprinkled throughout life. Ignorant optimism lends itself much more toward those than the other personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:11 PM
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As far as I can tell this seems to be already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:06 PM
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As long as she makes enough where our combined income leads to us not being poor, I honestly don't care at all, children or otherwise. A women's career is absolutely meaningless to me as long as it doesn't make her miserable and we make enough to not be poor. Children or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 02:04 PM
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That's going to change SHARPLY from younger millennials and Gen Z though, I imagine. My gut feeling is it will reduce to maybe 60% or so. But that's just my gut feeling based on a lifetime of experience observing trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:19 PM
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How do you convey that in your Tindr pictures? Genuine question for the curiously minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 12:06 AM
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I really hate that gender-specific sporting/gaming events exist for sports that don't involve inherent physical strength. All women's chess tournaments, female only balloon tournaments, women only trivia leagues, etc. I absolutely hate these. If it were reversed people would be SCREAMING discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:24 PM
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Yeah, no way, unless you're insanely hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:21 PM
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This is the absolute TRUTH. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:20 PM
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It's not misogyny but a lot of women will tell you that it is. A lot of women consider criticism of poor behaviors of an individual woman to be rampant misogyny as well. Those people are not worth listening to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:19 PM
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My wisdom knows no bounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:18 PM
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Lowering your standards to the point where they're already met. Now that's the true key to happiness. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 07:21 PM
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And yet, you have all kinds of half naked photos on your instagram and an OnlyFans page. It certainly seems like you're fine encouraging such behavior when you.profit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:16 PM
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I would imagine some of that has to do with scarcity. Let's say you have a male dominated field. With fewer available workers they can demand to be paid more. Then women enter the field en mass, increasing the supply by 55%. Since there is now an abundance of workers for employers to choose from, they have reduced their scarcity and value, and as a result can no longer demand higher wages. I assume this would be true if the genders were reversed and men entered female dominated fields that pay w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:21 PM
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Could an argument be made that the development of human societies are natural and normal, and therefore, the obligations that come with them are as well? I'm not specifically arguing for "traditional" gender roles here, just seeing if your argument sticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:16 PM
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While I'm not a MGTOW (been in a relationship for 10 years with no plans to ever marry and she knows this and is okay with it), I can definitely see this as a point as where a lot of MGTOW comes from. At a certain point, just putting in so much time, effort, sweat, and money into getting an average woman with nothing more to offer than sex and entitlement just isn't worth it. I'm sure when my lady leaves me I'll take a good long break from women. Don't get me wrong, she's an amazing woman, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:14 PM
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MHW?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:08 PM
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Not always. Sometimes you are almost truly barred from seeing your child entirely. It happened to my freind. The court ruled that he had no custody and no visitation because the mother, with no proof, claimed he was abusive. Criminal charges weren't filed against him though since there was no proof at all, just her word in family court. It took him two years of hiring a private detective and gather evidence that she was a liar and a manipulator, and then he had to sue her just to get visitation,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 02:00 PM
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This could happen. If the vast majority of private businesses mandated their employees must get vaccinated then the government would comply. The government is essentially controlled by businesses by proxy anyway and the government always just does what corporations want, except for the very rare once in a generation public reform entitlement changes, but we already saw that recently with the Affordable Care Act and probably wont see another one for 30 or 40 years. Just my cynical as hell view th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 01:05 PM
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Wait, paternity tests are illegal in France? Wth..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 01:01 PM
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What good reason would there be for a father to not be able to see their kids as long as they are a good parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 12:59 PM
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I mean, you're argument fails because women getting worse and more entitled isn't mutually exclusive to men getting worse and more entitled. Both can be accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 12:51 AM
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They want to be equal and still be special. That's all it really comes down to. Exceptions exist of course, but you have to operate on probabilities and not possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:35 PM
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Shaming doesn't work when the people you're shaming don't care if you live or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:32 PM
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Wow, he touched a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:21 PM
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Okay Scaramuchi, you can believe your alternative facts. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:15 PM
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Oh man... that joke is hilarious, but it's so painful to realize that it is so true. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:09 PM
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Your personality is not your belief system though. I feel like we are just arguing denotations this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:05 PM
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Yikes!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:04 PM
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No he's right. It's not really possible for a full personality change. Even if you put the work into it. Even people who want to change can only change their reactions and work on game. It doesn't change their "core processor." I'm not saying they can't work on themselves (they can and they should), but having good game and a full actual personality change are entirely separate things. I'm not even talking about male/female dynamics. This is just basic human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 11:02 PM
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Lol. I didn't think your answer would be amusing, but I actually totally get it. Lol. I feel the same way with the genders reversed. If my lady leaves me, I'm probably tapping out. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 11:17 PM
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11 is pretty late, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:33 PM
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That's a rather extreme reaction. Why would you go straight to the coven?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:26 PM
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I dont really agree with that. If it makes it easier for women to get dates it makes them easier to find the right guy, just by the laws of averages. The more you date, the higher the probability of finding the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:49 PM
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If it was half of all life that would be truly catastrophic. If it was half of all intelligent life then that is something. But half of all plants, bacteria, and animals? That would be truly disastrous and likely Earth wouldn't be able to recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:34 PM
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But it makes for good movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:29 AM
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Congratulations! You win the internet!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:07 PM
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Sometimes I find it fun to think about the person I'm posting towards, their posting history and habits, and wonder what they picture when they are reading my messages? Like, the mental images of myself as thought up from other people who don't know me. I find it very entertaining, especially so in this subreddit. Maybe we're all picturing each other as misogynistic/misandristic sociopaths running around. Lol. Okay maybe that's too dark. But it does make me laugh sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:48 PM
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Males generally don't get this sort of advice or social conditioning when they are growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:26 PM
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I'm an older guy here, probably ones of the oldest guys on this sub (turning 40 soon), although I cant really state this with authority and everyone's ages are hidden. But I get that sense anyway. Regardless, my thoughts on this flip flop a lot. My life has taught me that very, VERY few women are worth the effort they demand. Most have very little to offer as life partners outside of their beauty. I don't necessarily blame women for this, but our extreme capitalistic and narcissistic society for…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:16 PM
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No argument from me. If the world had half the population it does I think it would be an objectively better place in every single possible way. But at the same time I can't support 50% universal omnicide. Lol. Fortunately that's why fiction is great!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:46 PM
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Thanos had a point, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:28 PM
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Because it actually is worse than it used to be. I'm an older guy I've lived through what it was like. It's always been tough, with lots of entitled people out there, but once smart phones and dating apps became the norm people's sense of entitlement skyrocketed, and problems in the dating market became global as opposed to being localized.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 05:18 PM
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Theres definitely some truth to that. Both my own mother, and my lady's mother, have independently chastised us for not giving them grandchildren. And when we ask why we would even want kids anyway for ourselves they both said, "Because having kids is what you do/did!" So theres definitely some truth to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:03 PM
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If a man avoids every woman who self identified as a feminist then he will never find a woman outside of very niche or foreign communities. Besides, feminism isn't a bad thing. Radicalized feminism is. Unfortunately that seems to be the growing norm. Or at least the loudest voices within the community, but that seems to be the norm amongst all communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:09 PM
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Maybe I'm paranoid, but I would be absolutely terrified to have sex with a drunk woman, even if I was drunk myself. Even then potential for a false assault claim, or her changing her mind after the fact, is too much worth the risk. I felt the same way 20 years ago. But maybe I'm just an insane paranoid person. Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:58 PM
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America was once a gleaming beacon of hope. Now it's a corrupt wasteland of lies and dashed hopes. To be clear, there are MUCH worse places to live. But as far as first world nations go? Man, America has fallen so far that it might be easier to burn it down and try again then to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:03 PM
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If the Apple iPhone is the Fire Nation does that make BlackBerry the extinct Air Nomads?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:12 PM
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I'm just under 40 and I've been around for a while. I can confirm things are very different now. And you can blame it on me being too old, or wanting the "good old days," but it's just objective observable reality. The real turning point was the proliferation and ubiquity of smartphones. Everything changed once smartphones were introduced. Yes, these issues existed before, but they were localized to your immediate vicinity. Once the entire world was opened up to everyone, everything shifted. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:07 PM
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Good advice until your last sentence. While I agree with it, a lifetime of experience, and the reality online dating says the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:57 PM
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The fact that its terminology popping up in the news, the growing manosphere, the rise of male sexlesness, I suppose we will have to agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:35 PM
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I've spent decades, approximately 4 at this point, primarily interacting mostly with men (not to ignore women or anything, but it's not unusual for your primary interactions to be with the same gender you are) and the vast majority of them in the last 15 years have expressed this. Anecdotal of course, and feel free to discard it or think what you like, but you would be remiss to discount it, and given the rising manosphere and red pill becoming pretty mainstream, it cant be ignored. But I'm not …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:50 PM
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Any woman who gave me more than one shit test within a few months would cause me to flee whether I passed or not. Life is too short to deal with other people's bullcrap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:18 PM
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Do they though? If they do, I absolutely guarantee you that the average man feels that women no longer value men as a whole. We are bombarded with it from every single angle at all times. In my own life I've heard dozens of women openly state their resentment that they are even attracted to men. Maybe some traditional women may value men, but they are disappearing very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:08 PM
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If you read his post he never blames women for it at all. In fact he praises their freedom and says it's a good thing. Stop looking for fights and stop twisting people's words.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 02:57 PM
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Anything that criticizes any aspect of a woman, even for reprehensible behavior, is considered misogynistic these days. I don't think you saying botched plastic surgery making a woman look weird is misogynistic, but I can see it being rude and in very poor taste. But a banable offense? That's weak on the parts of the mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:20 PM
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Generally you don't go MGTOW unless you're naturally a hermit (and in those cases it isn't really MGTOW but wanting to be isolated from all people regardless of gender) or you've been deeply burned over and over. I'm not really sure you can separate MGTOW from some of the inherent misogyny that comes from being scorched by women for a lifetime. But often I have noticed that the older MGTOW men, after they have burned off their red pill rage, are some of the chillest, most interesting, and happie…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:17 PM
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Yeah they do, but the older I get the rarer they occur. Also, my partner hates the concept of girls or guys nights out. We fundamentally disagree with one another on why the differences are important. But they are still a very rare occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:05 PM
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Well, they aren't necessarily wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:11 PM
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I don't think this stuff is as fringe as you think it is. I've heard lots of talk like this in real life, mostly at my local dog park and when eavesdropping on strangers (not purposefully, but like, if I'm at a restuarant you cant help but hear what people are saying in the next booth). It's still pretty fringe now, but I don't think it's as fringe as you think it is, especially amongst the younger crowd. In just ten years this sort of talk has grown a lot. If it continues, the growth will be ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:10 PM
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I'm not sure women's biology is the source of your last point. But they sure are socially and toxicaly conditioned to have a mental framework where they are unable to conceptualize the plight of many men. I don't think female biology plays a role, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:51 PM
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Mostly that women aren't worth the effort. If I wasn't already in a relationship now (10 years going strong thank goodness) I probably would go MGTOW for sure. But not toxicaly so. I wouldn't fume, rant, and rave about women. But I definitely would give them no attention or mental headspace anymore. Besides, I'm of the age now where I kind of prefer my own company and those of a very select few. If my lady leaves me, I'll probably drop out of the dating market. I wouldn't be totally shut down an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:48 PM
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Nah, I'm cool with it. I spoil my partner constantly, but I'm fortunate to make enough where I have the ability to do so. If my financial situation were different I wouldn't do so, but I'm also very much into the idea of separate finances. So whatever she wants to do with her money is okay with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:19 AM
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Damn. What a scumbag. That's awful. I'm so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:17 AM
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Because most people with common sense don't waste their time on subreddits like this one. Except those without common sense like us. 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:16 AM
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I could be with a woman whose primary goals are career driven. But for me personally, she would have to turn off that intensity when she was with me. But the personality types that drive people like that (male or female) usually can't be dialed back so easily. Just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:10 AM
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Lol, well I can only speak to my personal life experience. But from what I can tell, once you get put in the friend zone there's no getting out of it. Maybe more handsome men can pull it off, but I sure can't. But that's alright, I've had success in finding a partner using other methods. This isn't to say that my personal experience is the reality for most relationships, but I can only confidently comment on what I have lived.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:06 AM
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I'm definitely not at all convinced of that. The entire philosophy of FDS is specifically about making the guy you want to be serious with wait while banging other men you don't care about. There's clearly explicit choices being made there. You might not be able to control who you're attracted to but you can certainlly control how you categorize and treat each person you're attracted to. So no, I don't buy that argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:46 PM
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One thing I've never been able to understand about women in general is how their empathy works. Women can be the coldest and least empathetic creatures on the planet, until they (seemingly arbitrarily) decide not to be. 99% of men are invisible and get no empathy no sympathy, usually not even common courtesy (to the extent of non-invisible interactions that is). But if you manage to crack her heart open (by accident or otherwise), the amount of empathy and love I side of them can be seemingly en…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:43 PM
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...and? A rose by any other name smells as sweet. If it's a bad tactic, it's still a bad tactic under a different name.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:38 PM
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But we are living in a material world and she is a material girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:36 PM
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...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:34 PM
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I'm very tall and my face in asymmetrical (ugly), so I certainly hope not. That would make me feel even worse! Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:38 PM
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With the declining birth rate increasing exponentially, along with environmental factors including climate change, it might actually be the end of the world. Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:08 PM
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Mine too. But if I hadn't withheld the fact that I was a virgin I would never have gotten laid. Besides, lies of omission are barely lies at all when it comes to early dating. Not volunteering the fact that you're a virgin is hardly a lie. If she asks directly, "Are you a virgin?" that might be one thing. But evasive answers to generalized questions aren't really lies at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:06 PM
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Dude, just a white lie. You're being too honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:09 AM
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Women want traditional men without being traditional women. It's not going to work. We will adapt of course, but there's going to be a tremendous amount of lonely single people until we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:02 PM
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Did you know the name of the Michelin Man is actually Bibendum?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:01 PM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:37 PM
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I agree that it's hypocritical of women to think/behave that way, but I disagree that women's contributions to creating society were less important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:29 PM
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Men may have built the physical infrastructure and logistical aspects of society, but women still had an integral part of building society. Men could have mot built the means of production without women taking care of children and domestic duties. I'm talking about pre 20th century here (things are obviously very different now). So we need to give women credit for building society as well. A society can't be built without both halves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:26 PM
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Invest in a strong and professionally written prenuptial agreement AND a postnuptial agreement (make it a condition that if the postnup isn't signed the marriage is annulled rather than divorced). Protect yourself. Keep all assets pre and post marriage split. Or just don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 04:52 PM
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I'd go for a Sunday morning date and hit up the $5 craps. Best odds in the house (although at that price you're not going g tow in much, but at least you'll have a good time)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:03 PM
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Tasty stats? Would that make excel delicious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:57 PM
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Not to mention I've also been in a loving relationship for more than 10 years, but thier presumptions, attitude, and lack of empathy speaks volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:48 PM
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I'm not saying one way or the other what women should do. They can do whatever they want. But just realize that many, many, MANY men no longer care if women complain about men being "creeps" because it's so overblown and overwrought with extreme exaggeration. It's become so sensationalized that most men I know just roll their eyes now at all and won't help a woman or take her seriously if she's complaining about men being creepy, unless there is a documented pattern of behavior from a singular i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:25 PM
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I'm not saying one way or the other what women should do. They can do whatever they want. But just realize that many, many, MANY men no longer care if women complain about men being "creeps" because it's so overblown and overwrought with extreme exaggeration. It's become so sensationalized that most men I know just roll their eyes now at all and won't help a woman or take her seriously if she's complaining about men being creepy, unless there is a documented pattern of behavior from a singular i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:13 PM
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Talk about an expensive first date though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:46 PM
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Look at it this way, at least you were given a chance. Most men barely get any chances at all. I'd rather be given 15 chances a year to make a connection rather than 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:40 PM
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Because sex is pretty much fundamentally important to most men as one of the few places where we can obtain validation and feel desired by women. It's also fundamentally important towards the very basic building blocks of a relationship, at least in our contemporary society. Plus, you tend to focus on what you don't have rather than what you do. So if you never get to have sex that will be what you focus on. And because sex is so fundamentally linked to men's own internal sense of self worth if …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:36 PM
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I'm not victim blaming whatsoever. I'm saying I have an issue with the reported data and the analysis of it. None of that is victim blaming. My greater point was "creepy" behavior is extremely overblown. But "creepy" behavior as it's now culturally defined in the zeitgeist is ridiculous. That's not victim blaming. In fact, I'm not really sure how anything I wrote can be taken as victim blaming. I'll give you the underreporting though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 02:01 PM
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I looked at the data you linked but if you look at the source, that 1 in 4 stat includes coercion lumped together with rape. And it even goes on to say that lying to get sex is part of that. While it can be a shitty thing to do that's hardly sexual violence. As a result that stat is bunk. Plus I remember it got a lot of criticism from statisticians back during the Obama presidency too for including elements of feeling pressured to have sex as well. I'd have to see other data sources but that sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:28 PM
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You got me. I'd like to know as well. Lol. If I had to guess, it's because I'm not an attractive man. And I guess eating ice cream from a cone can be seen as sexual? All the kicking maybe? Not sure, just a guess. And women seem to be viscerally disgusted my male sexuality unless the guy is attractive. So maybe she interpreted it as sexual and got grossed out? I don't know. I was walking down the sidewalk minding my own business when it happened. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:22 PM
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There is absolutely no way that stalkers and abusers make up 25% of the male population. That would mean every 1 in 4 men you randomly see are committing awful crimes. If that's what you truly believe then I feel very sad for your world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:42 AM
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Actual legitimate creeps? Maybe like <5%. "Creeps" that way most women use it? 105% with a 5% margin of error.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:57 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:57 PM
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Yeah but that's not really true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:41 PM
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That's an extremely selfish was for women to view the world, and other people. But most human beings are extremely selfish. So that logic does indeed track.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:31 PM
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"Creepy" behavior has been absolutely twisted by women. I've been called a creep for walking my dog in a public park and essentially ignoring everyone. Ive been called a creep for eating ice cream from a cone in public. I've been called a creep when an obnoxiously rude woman wouldn't move away from the apples so I had to reach from the side to get some. I've been called a creep for jogging at night. I've been called a creep for walking to my car in a parking lot that just so happen ed to have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:53 PM
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That's an absolutely insane high percentage that cannot be accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:49 PM
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This reminds me of some of the things much older women have told me in my life. For example, at the end of the day, they would much rather work with men than women because women are terrible. Lmao. I can't necessarily agree or disagree on that, but it is funny that it's a recurring thing I've heard many times from old women. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:03 PM
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I'd love to read about that. Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:01 PM
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Why do you think women can be so hostile about it? I'm not setting you up for a debate trap, I really want to know your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:57 PM
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Way back in the day when I was struggling to lose my virginity I had several women stop and simply refuse to sleep with me (even though they were previously going to) once I revealed I was a virgin. Eventually I kept it a secret and then it finally happened. I'm not sure why women have such a hard time with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:23 PM
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Well there needs to be a happy middle ground somewhere right? If all you do is talk about your problems but never do anything to solve them then that is obnoxious. If all you do is work to solve problems but bury your feelings and internalize frustration then you're hurting yourself. There should be a happy balance somewhere. But few peopl (male or female) seem to be able to reach this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 02:23 PM
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Most women in my life have straight up confirmed this to me for decades. I've heard many women openly resent the fact that they are attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 05:31 PM
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They value themselves so highly because western society raises girls to feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:54 PM
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It will never happen in the USA. We cant even get universal healthcare, let alone universal basic income. And even if we did, our culture is so messed up all it would do is cause the prices of everything to be raised to match whatever income was provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:35 PM
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Probably true. But if your culture is dying out due to not reproducing then it was doomed anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:10 PM
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If they want attractive men who are willing to compromise then they themselves better be attractive women who are willing to compromise. I cannot comment on their attractiveness, but just a read through that sub shows very few women there who would be willing to compromise on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:47 PM
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Capitalization and punctuation are our friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:07 PM
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They already are, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:59 PM
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BILLY MAYES HERE WITH SPA 4 YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:57 PM
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Sounds like it's time to get off Reddit mate if its hurting your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:54 PM
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I'm pretty sure Billy Mayes used to paint his beard on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:51 PM
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I suppose if that were the case we wouldn't have become the dominant species on the planet. Survival of the fittest doesn't work when even the worst genetic candidates are viable. But then again, now that we have wom the survival race, it is strange to still be shackled to obsolete instincts (obsolete in the sense that we aren't being actively hunted by everything on Earth at all times).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:09 PM
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Zing!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:56 PM
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Ugh. Someone gave you gold for equating male sexuality with pedophilia? What is wrong with the people on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:51 PM
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Hard to say. Women call men creppy for the stupidest of things. I've been called creepy for eating ice cream in public from a cone. I've been called creepy for walking my dog at night. I've been called creepy for buying apples at the store and reaching around a super rude and obnoxious woman who was blocking the fruit. I've been assumed to be creepy my whole life and people go out of their way to cross to the other side of the street so they don't have to walk near me. So it really depends and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:57 PM
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You know what, I'll give it another shot. Once I'm done with the new Mario Golf (yeah, my gaming is ALL over the place, lol) I'll try again and really give it another go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:22 AM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:19 AM
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I often feel like I'm losing my sanity when I go through this subreddit, but it can be fun. But dang is it a brain burner sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:11 AM
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From my, admittedly short, time here, midwestufohunter seems to go our of her to cause trouble? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:54 AM
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Just out of curiosity, what sort of posting activity level would qualify as a lurker?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:52 AM
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True, but I'm not going to check the creation date of every account and history on all the insane posts. If I did that on this sub I'd be check every third post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:26 PM
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...I mean you might have a point or two in there, but your first point is just... I mean... come on man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:41 PM
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This was a decade ago, and I think he would rather not revisit the experience. He refuses to talk about it these days. But that's good advice for male rape victims in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:10 PM
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On the highway though? I think it's illegal in pretty much every state for pedestrians to be on the highway unless their cars break down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:36 PM
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I tried getting into that game but I just couldn't. The controls are so complicated and very unintuitive. For example, the talk button is the same button as drawing your gun. By the 30th time I accidentally pulled out the gun from just try to talk to someone, thus causing panic and shootouts, I put the game down and never picked it up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:24 PM
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A good buddy of mine was raped. He was extremely drunk and was telling the woman no. But she proceeded to arouse him while he continued to say no but was too sloppily blackout drunk to physically stop her. She was not drunk. He was laughed out of the police station. It's definitely a very sad situation and I don't know how to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:07 PM
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Oh. Yeah. When you used the word "pioneering" I got confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:58 PM
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What are Japan and Korea pioneering in? I'm not sure I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:54 PM
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What was the thing that solved your dating problems in one swoop?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:39 PM
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At my age I would prefer an average woman if I was single. Beautiful people are high maintenance and a lot of trouble, lol. I'd take an average woman with a great personality over a beautiful woman with issues. But again, at my age, it's all about minimizing hangups. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:29 PM
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What does that mean? Like, a sugar daddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:05 AM
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I've noticed this sub is full of them. It's becoming intolerable, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:46 PM
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What are you even talking about? First of all, my partner is a brilliant woman with her own agency and ability to self actualize. Plus she is also quite beautiful. She could leave and have me replaced in an afternoon. If she wasn't happy she has no reason to stay. She's also mature enough to realize that following a few strippers on Instagram is no big deal. Also, what's all this nonsense about feeling entitled? These instagram women are voluntarily revealing their bodies online. Unless you're c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:41 PM
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I meant men's sexuality is tied heavily to the visual. Not their lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:38 PM
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Well, that's fine. But I would never be in a relationship where that was a dealbreaker. It speaks volumes toward a women's insecurity and immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:19 PM
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I'm not complaining. I'm in a long term (10+ years) relationship and we are very happy together. My only point was it's such an immature standard to have. And following some strippers on Instagram has hardly being addicted to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:18 PM
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Yeah, it really is. If my partner demanded I not follow hot chicks or never look at porn I'd be gone in a second. That's an unbelievable amount of imaginative purity to demand from a man, who is a very visual creature, and is not getting enough sex in general for his preference (very, very, very few men get as much sex as they would prefer). Then that speaks volumes about your own insecurities. Unless it's a true addiction problem then you're making a dealbreaker over something very petty. But h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:47 AM
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What? It's a hurdle for men to not follow some strippers on Instagram? My point was, if a dealbreaker for the woman is that he follows some strippers on Instagram then she is being needlessly picky and expecting ungodly amounts of imaginative purity. It's such a low level thing to have as a dealbreaker for women, is my point. If they're so insecure that their guy is following a few strippers on Instagram then she's going to be alone forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:44 AM
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So what? If that's dealbreaker then I cant even imagine how you could grow as a person with a partner. That's such a low level line in the sand to draw.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:39 AM
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If that's a dealbreaker for you good luck. You're going to need it. That's such a pointlessly low thing to draw a line in the sand on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:34 AM
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No way man, socks and sandals are pure sex appeal! They are here to stay! Especially when paired with white pants after Labor Day!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:27 PM
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Nothing has actually improved my life in any way. I have, however, been totally disabused of the cultural idea that women are the more empathetic gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:40 PM
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I really don't have any except for two. The first is morbid obesity. I don't even really mind large or "fat" women, as long as they aren't absolutely and morbidly obese. The second dealbreaker is piercings anywhere other than the ears. I find those absolutely disgusting, viscerally so if they are on or in the mouth. But that's just my personal preference and I certainly don't expect people not to get them if they want them. They just gross me out. 🤷‍♂️ There are plenty of women I wouldn't date d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 05:01 PM
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I've heard women tall about this smell thing many times in my life. Many times. I've never heard of a man caring about a women's natural smell. I wonder if it's something pretty much only women care about (obviously not BO of course, just the natural body smell).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 04:42 PM
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When did white socks go out of fashion? Aren't those just the basic socks? Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:47 PM
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The smell thing has always greatly confused me. Lol. I don't think I will ever get it, but it's definitely a real phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:43 PM
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I seriously doubt that will change the experience for 90% of its user base. But what do I know. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:32 PM
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I agree. I was just wondering from her perspective while it's guys who get so harshly criticized for being into anime when it's just as popular with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:13 PM
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Are they actually gay or are you just being crass? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:23 PM
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I'm not that interested in debating the point further. It's a distinction without a difference from my perspective, even if itsnt from yours. Ultimately your mileage may vary. Plus, it's a specific outlier case as far as I can tell. You can keep debating it if you like, but I'm not that interested in this branch off topic to the main one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:04 PM
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Ah, yes, well that is a different story entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:38 PM
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I'm not justifying his behavior. I'm saying that: not worthy =/= a lack of success =/= you didn't try hard enough. But it's fine if you disagree. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:08 PM
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Maybe. But either way it all worked out and I'm very happy with how things eventually turned out. I wouldn't have met my current long term partner otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:44 PM
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He said his college had no women and his university had a very small percentage overall. Just by laws of competition it sounds like he didn't have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:28 PM
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Take another read. There was no point in there where I blamed women solely and put all the onus on them. I also made it clear that I didn't feel entitled to attention from them. I did speculate that their sense of wanting attention from more handsome man due to internet platforms training them to feel desired for that, because that's just human nature. But I made it very clear that my failures in dating in my early life were entirely my fault and that I didn't have expectations of women. But I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:20 PM
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This, in my experience, is the absolute truth. Plus, women want to be actively pursued even after they have been married. In my own relationship (not married but very long term) I've noticed the same thing. It can be absolutely exhausting, and usually when things are bad between us, it's often because I have stopped pursuing for a while and gotten comfortable. It does suck. It would be nice to be pursued for once, rather than constant effort. But it's better than being alone usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:55 PM
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If you're already at the boyfriend level, then she liked you before that point. If you havent been lying about your personality, wouldn't you want to just keep doing what you were doing? If you were pretty serious then keep it up. If you were fun and romantic keep that up too. If it's you regular personality already it should be no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:50 PM
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Regardless of the rest of his comment (which I don't care to get into), he does raise a very intriguing point I would like your opinion on. I mean it in good faith, this isn't a debate trap. He's definitely right about a major increase in gaming and anime circles ballooning with female participation. While gaming is still about a 60% (rough personal estimate - I make no claims to the accuracy of this and it could absolutely be wrong, just my personal experience) male dominated activity, anime ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:41 PM
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Why? It's no "weirder" than the garbage of reality television people consume insane amounts of. Or any form of sedentary entertainment that requires a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:34 PM
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Woah. What kind of hook do they use to try to get those video game playing guys to join?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:30 PM
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It doesn't mean he isn't worthy. It means he hasn't had the opportunity. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:23 PM
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That's very interesting! I'd like to hear your opinion on why you personally think that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:22 PM
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Well, I do value them as freinds. I didn't want to risk the friendship, even as a joke. Some were also married. But those that weren't, it really wasn't worth it for me to jeopardize what we had. I don't need a significant other in my life, I can get by without one even if it would have been lonely. But I definitely need freinds. And the older you get the harder it is to make new freinds. Like, actual close friendships. Especially as a man if you aren't into beer and sports. So it just wasn't wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:17 PM
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I don't know. I'm in a long term relationship right now (10+ years, going strong, yay!) but I have really struggled my whole life with women. Quite badly. For my early years it was my own fault. I openly admit that if I were a woman I wouldn't have dated me at all until my later 20's. For many reasons (both personal and environmental), I didn't have my own side of the street cleaned up. After I got my act together, but before I met my current lady, I struggled with women. I'm not a good looking …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:36 PM
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Your second paragraph is definitely true. I know of no solution except to ignore what women want and approach anyway in a respectful and non-harassment type of manner. They might still not want to be approached any more, but what is the alternative? Having a 0% chance in online dating if you aren't very attractive? Nah man, forget that noise. If I'm going to be rejected regardless I would at least want to have a 5% chance rather than a 0% chance. It sucks for the women, but it especially sucks f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:07 PM
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It's not really his fault he grew up in an age of abundance, economic growth, and non-radicalization. He just got lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:25 PM
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Yeah, I agree. It must have to do with feeling rejection. Condoms also have a reputation for being infallible, but they aren't. Maybe it's an issue of education too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:36 PM
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Radicalized feminism and gynocentric media. Don't get me wrong, I am actually quite the feminist, but the movement, by and large, really has shifted. Yes, yes, yes, the definition is equality and yadda yadda, but in practice (where it actually counts) it really has sort of devolved into shaming and demonizing men, especially amongst what is now being called fourth wave feminism. It's poisoning young women's minds just as much as incel movements are poisoning young men's minds. It's looking prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:01 PM
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Run for the Senate on the issue anti-licorice vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:53 PM
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This is the same for all major movements. Feminists are just as guilty. People will manipulate data and lie to prove whatever point their particular group wants to prove. This applies to all groups regardless of intent, politics, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:48 PM
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"This is simple. Don't fuck women you don't trust to not humiliate you for your bed performance." This isn't really possible unless you are a mind reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:45 PM
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Twice in my life I've had a condom break on me. I was EXCEPTIONALLY fortunate that both of them were willing to take a Plan B pill. I'm just saying they aren't perfect. That's certainly no excuse to not use them though. But I would say wear a condom AND use the pull out method. Although, oddly, in my life of experience almost all of the women were deeply offended when I pulled out while also wearing a condom. Strange. I have yet to find an explanation to that and I've asked a few women about it …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:44 PM
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I once asked my lady what Victoria's actual secret was. Her response was instantly "padding." It was so obvious. We laughed for a solid five minutes. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:18 PM
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As a businessman myself I find this very intriguing. Like, VERY intriguing. It's advertising 101 that the more attractive the salesman/models are the greater your products will generally sell unless there is a different "hook" (like the dollar shave club or all those male body washes you see pop up in ads with that weird bearded guy). I am very interested in seeing how this pivot from VS works for them since the new models they have chosen are not very attractive. They aren't even good looking i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:13 PM
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And do you sleep peacefully at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:11 PM
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Probably not, for the same reason feminism is derided based on the loudest and most obnoxious members with radical ideas. The worst members of a group are generally what comes to define a group due to humans having a very high negative confirmation bias. It's just human nature. So no, I don't think any social movement can be free from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:06 PM
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The truth is, the concept of "love" is pretty much bullshit. Or at least how we have come to view it in the west. There's no such thing as a prince charming or a perfect woman. Love is freaking hard. It takes a LOT of patience and work. Even for the strongest and healthiest of relationships. Very, VERY few couples after ten years or so still have traditional feelings of love for their partners. Don't get me wrong. There is absolutely fondness, attraction, emotional investment, etc. But the fairy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:18 PM
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I wasn't aware of the data before some of my posts in this thread. I've come around a bit on it once others pointed it out. But I remain unconvinced that there is a model that could work. Perhaps the Vegas model, which appears to work well and also has lower human trafficking due to how their subcontractor system works. I want to be very clear here though. Under no circumstances could I support a system that increases human trafficking. I remain unconvinced that there is a way to do it that will…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:51 PM
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I have a hard time believing that using less attractive people will help sell their products, even if their target demographic is women. Attractive people sell more things. This is advertising 101. I am interested to see if it works though. As a guy I really do not care either way, but as a businessman I think it is foolish. But who knows. I've been wrong many time before. We shall see. I personally am quite interested in the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:39 PM
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Hey come on now, let's not knock sweet lady licorice down. She never did anything to anyone except be delicious!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:35 PM
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Thus my use of the term "generally"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:31 PM
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Well I think it's actually pretty cool of you to go through their post history before just writing them off, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:56 AM
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Like what kind of keywords? Do you think it's a false equivalencey to be a Kevin Samuel's fan and automatically equate that with bitterness and anger just for being a fan of his work? I'm not making any claims about the content of this guy's posts. It's a real question. I'm trying to learn how women think on these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:19 AM
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If anything, I imagine your profession gives you some pretty interesting insights into the male psychology during the post nut clarity / vulnerable phase of post-sex. Not making fun on you. For real. I bet you've heard some really candid revelations about this subject from older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:13 AM
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The average user of this platform has never heard of that show. Lol. We be old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:05 AM
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Wow. Tell us how you really feel. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:00 AM
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I was with kind of with you until the final paragraph. That sounds more like a failure in parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:45 AM
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What country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:38 PM
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In a world where empathy isn't valued, especially when it is for the plight of men (of which things are definitely getting worse and the vast majority women simply do not care), perhaps there is something to be said for men transitioning to an "empathy is useless" mindset. It would make for a much sadder world, but it might be necessary at this point. I'm not really advocating this stance yet, but the more I educate myself on these issues the more it seems potentially necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:10 PM
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I never said any of that was okay. You're projecting your own emotions onto what I said about how a legalized and regulated business should run. If the reality doesn't match, that doesn't mean I think it's okay, it means I didn't have the actual data.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:00 PM
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They generally aren't unless they got together when they were much younger
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:55 PM
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The older I get the less important it is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:38 AM
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Only a small handful of states recognize common law marriages in the USA. Those places are: Colorado, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, New Hampshire (for inheritance purposes only), Oklahoma, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas, Utah and the District of Columbia. I don't live in any of those states.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:01 AM
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I don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:37 AM
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Did you even read? Twice I admitted my own ignorance on the topic and admit if I'm not correct. Stop projecting your own feelings. All I said was I found it hard to believe. Seriously, what is your problem? And also the ad hominem? Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:36 AM
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You could just try not getting married. I've been with the same woman for more than a decade with no plans of marriage (unless we sign extensive prenuptial and postnuptial agreements). But your mileage may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:24 AM
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Actually yes. Happiness in the USA has been declining at a steady rate for the last decade according to the UN happiness reports. I seriously doubt it has anything to do with issues between the genders, but this is a pretty well documented phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:18 AM
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Nah. Doesn't bother me any. I'm just saying he isn't the only one acting like up. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:12 AM
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I mean, you're right in that there are many women out there that are like this. But you would be remiss to waive them all off as such. The vast majority of women aren't manipulative monsters purposefully out to hurt men. Things between the sexes in the USA might kind of suck right now, but women in general aren't evil creatures. They're just human. Flaws and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:09 AM
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That may be, but your "help" was given in an extremely mocking, insulting, and condescending tone. If you think anyone would respond positively to that sort of thing you also have a fair bit to learn. Just a neutral observer to the exchange anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:05 AM
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No, probably not. But you can't educate everybody. You can just do your best. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:52 AM
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That's not really what I meant, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:57 AM
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ZING!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:28 AM
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It's been my experience that most women really do care, they just don't admit it. But it's more of a minimum / maximum threshold issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:27 AM
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They do when online dating though, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:25 AM
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No one has to lower their standards. Women just have to realize that if they only seek the top percentage of men, those men have absolutely no incentive to settle for them when those same men have a huge amount of options similar to those of the average woman. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 12:20 AM
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...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:39 PM
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Except therapy still has a huge social stigma on it (which there shouldn't be but still very much exists), isn't covered by many, if not most, insurance plans (and many that do have sessions caps) and is not as easy to obtain as people think or say it is. Even the Affordable Care Act didn't help very much for the vast majority of Americans who get their insurance from their employers. ACA doesn't specify which types therapy that off-marketplace plans have to cover. I know several people who want…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:52 PM
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So you're dismissing an entire.movement because of the bad actors within it. By that logic any group above about 20 people is worthless. That's a fundamentally unsustainable view of any group dynamics involving human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:40 PM
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I think the biggest key is the age thing for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 08:02 PM
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I'm not disputing that. I'm just saying the source isn't what you think it is. That doesn't change the data though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:59 PM
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Just FYI: I looked this up, and Harvard International Develooment Society do not draw those conclusions themselves or state that. They simply, and solely, cite this paper on their official website about the topic: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=1986065 I am not educated enough on the topic to make any further conclusions, but it was just an FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:34 PM
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According to what? Your post cuts off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:20 PM
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Assuming it is accurate (I'll leave that for you to decide), it would be pretty easily explained simply by the 80/20 thing, yadda yadda yadda.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:18 PM
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Well I am in a committed and long term relationship. But I'll remember that if I'm ever single and in Europe! Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:04 PM
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From the (admittedly extremely limited, and I'm upfront about that and my own overall ignorance on the topic) articles I've read, those "populations" appear to be strictly across gender line regardless of political leanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:01 PM
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Pro tip!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:58 PM
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I'm not convinced of this. And even if it were true, that would already be the case now, just pushed underground and made exceptionally more dangerous than it would be otherwise for everyone involved. Even if it wasn't perfect it would still be an overall safer system. But I don't claim to be an expert. I just don't see how a legalized and regulated system could possibly be worse and more dangerous for every participant than the current way things are. It just seems extremely counterintuitive, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:58 PM
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Is that actually true though? I find that hard to believe if it was properly managed and inspected. But I admit I haven't done any research and I am prepared to admit that I'm not correct. But if it's done properly, and not just a set it and forget it model (which it most likely is) I find that very difficult to believe. But again, and I want to be clear, I'm not stating this as fact nor am I claiming to be any kind of expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:54 PM
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Guess not! I'm still learning about all this red, blue, and purple pill stuff. I'm older than most people here though, but a lot of these things I learned many years ago just through life experience. I'm still picking up the terminology though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:33 PM
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But isn't that the point of creating a safe and well regulated environment to protect everyone? For example, I used a casino metaphor in a different post. If you want to go roll some dice, the majority of people are going to go to a casino that is a physically safe and highly regulated environment rather than going behind the building in the shady alley to roll dice with the gun holding drug dealers. If prostitution was made into a safe and highly regulated environment, the human trafficking wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:28 PM
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Ah. "Bath" threw me off. Lol. Makes much more sense now. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:23 PM
1

Ah. "Bath" threw me off. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:22 PM
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If the sexual market was regulated and made safe, then trafficking shouldn't be such an issue for legitimate businesses operating under the law. I could be incorrect, but isn't that the whole point of safe, well regulated environments? You're much more likely to go to a casino and play craps where everything is regulated and physically safe then you are to go play street craps around the corner with the shady drug dealers who are packing heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:22 PM
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Lol, I can never tell if your posts are serious or if you're just pulling our chains.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:17 PM
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What's her sub? I don't know the non-joke account. I'd be interested in checking it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:11 PM
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You think it's really that simple? I suppose it could be, but I don't know. My instincts tell me it has to be something deeper. But I have nothing except instinct to base that on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:02 PM
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I suppose we are in agreement then about the male/female thing. I'm reserving judgement on the whining comment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:00 PM
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In that case why not regulate it and make it safe and well protected for those women? I fail to see the logic in such a half measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:00 PM
2

That's awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:54 PM
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Yikes. Sound cheaper to fly to Vegas, rent a car, drive an hour to the closest legal brothel and do it there. Holy miley. $1,500 for a bath? Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:54 PM
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What's the problem with allowing men to be prostitutes too? Equal opportunity for all to pay for sex, especially if it is regulated and made safe. I fail to see the issue if it's legal for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:52 PM
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Many women seem to be utterly and viscerally opposed to prostitution on a fundamental level, even in highly regulated and safe environments. I think it has more to do with emotional investment on their part, but I can only speculate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:51 PM
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While true, for those that just want the physical part before it turns into a mental issue, legal prostitution would be a benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:50 PM
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Yes, and? That doesn't disprove what I said. I said I couldn't comment on how large they are growing, just that they are becoming more publicly known. If you want to equate that to nazism I suppose you would be correct, but I wouldn't want to make such an equivalency, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 05:45 PM
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They are absolutely becoming more mainstream and up front in the public consciousness. Whether they are growing or not, I can't say. But they're definitely becoming a lot more public.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:00 PM
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It doesn't hit its stride until season 2, fair warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:57 PM
1

I think you're greatly discounting the economic factors involved, but I cannot say that you're incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:17 PM
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It seems fairly obvious to me it's way more about economic factors than anything else. That's what all my instincts are telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 12:13 PM
1

Have you watched Community? The female cast on that show is great. But Tina Fey is indeed absolutely hilarious. She's truly one of the GOATs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:51 AM
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Ah yes, it works now. It must have been down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:14 PM
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If this sub has taught me anything is that women being more empathetic and merciful is an antiquated notion. They are absolutely vicious and unforgiving. I've always had a relatively negative opinion of men, but man, this sub has really changed the way I view women. Now I'm an equal opportunity hater, I suppose. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:07 PM
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Good take. Men don't really get emotional validation from anyone at all unless they work tremendously hard to get it. It's very disheartening for younger men especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:00 PM
1

Interesting take. Good analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:57 PM
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What exactly is the Pink Pill? I tried googling it but it wasn't really apparent and 90% of the results are for a blood pressure drug. ThePinkPill.co you mentioned gives me a 521 error. Do you mind sharing the philosophy of the Pink Pill? Not a trap or anything I'm genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:49 PM
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What do you bring to the table? You expect him to pay, provide, be fit, etc. But what do you have to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:17 PM
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I've never heard of such a thing, but I believe you. People are crazy. It seems ridiculous to shame someone for propagating the species, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:58 PM
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Never heard that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:57 PM
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54% of Reddit users are American, so the majority of Reddit users cannot easily and legally obtain sex for money even if they wanted to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:15 PM
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Numbers 4, 6, and 7 for the win.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:10 PM
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Why do you think that is? I'd appreciate your viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:08 PM
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Oh please. You're confusing fake internet points in a subreddit filled with toxicity (from both sides) with critical thought. Also, I am not touch starved and out of touch with reality. I've been in a healthy long term relationship for more than a decade and we are very happy together. My life isn't filled with spite or hate or cruelty towards others or filled with weirdness. Many posts I've made in this subreddit have dozens of likes, but that doesn't necessarily mean I feel that I've "won" a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 02:15 AM
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Lol, it's a common joke. So common it even in 30 Rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:04 AM
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One man you found attractive said that. Other women in this same thread are also saying it is perfectly normal at his age. Get over your own opinions and realize your experience is not objective reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:52 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:43 PM
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Thank you. You give me hope that this species isn't hopelessly devoid of rational thought and empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:21 PM
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Doesn't surprise me. But yeah, it's rare to get such candor. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:18 PM
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Your other post hasn't even been up for more than a hour. You're jumping to conclusions (whether they are right or wrong) awfully quickly based on a very small sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:13 PM
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Extremely so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 11:10 PM
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It's because your post is TMI from a female perspective because women don't understand (and also don't want to understand) how male sexuality works, especially younger men, because it is absolutely demonized in the current zeitgeist. I get your intent though, you were trying to compare apples to apples, but it won't be well received here. This subreddit is hopelessly toxic and devoid of all empathy between both genders (but especially men). But to be fair your post was a bit graphic and very few…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:49 PM
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You are really projecting your own feelings there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:41 PM
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That's even worse then. If the guy is unattractive (I have no idea) then his basic sexuality is somehow even worse despite the fact that he is going out of his way to leave these women alone. This sub has really lowered my opinion of people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:13 PM
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IKEA is a notorious relationship killer, lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:08 PM
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...just another example of men demonized for their basic sexuality despite not doing anything at all while this guy is ACTIVELY leaving these women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:05 PM
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Jesus christ. How do you justify equating basic male sexuality to pedophilia? What is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 10:04 PM
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Definitely agreed about the "wants" portion of the answer for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:41 PM
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...no? Men's suits have nothing to do with victimhood. At all. I never claimed otherwise. I was just correcting what I believed to be misinformation about corporate fashion sense. Corporate fashion sense has nothing at to do with victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:39 PM
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I see. Yes, agreed. The date was so specific (rather than saying "the late 2000's" or something like that) I thought you were referring to a highly specific event.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:30 PM
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Come on. Let's not exaggerate. The average boomer had little to do with the current face of things. The average boomer worked 9 to 5 and had no decisions in policy, how the world worked, or the future. They, like the vast majority of humanity, had very little say or influence in how bad things have gotten. It was the few in power that really messed everything up. It's easy to write off an entire generation for destroying our future when most of those people were just cogs in the machine like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:36 PM
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Seconded for the most part. Just out of curiosity, what happened in 2009 to cause the shift in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:32 PM
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I mean, you're not wrong per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 05:17 PM
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This is definitely true. When I was a much younger man I was what is now referred to as an incel (got through it by the time I was in my late 20's more due to luck than anything else, but once I finally achieved it a huge weight felt lifted from me and I was able to focus on self improvement and not be stuck in a toxic cycle of self hate). One thing women cant seem to understand, or really just truly don't care about, is just how important sex is for younger men. And not even just sex, but the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 02:11 PM
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Yeah, but no one is going to google all aspects of their life and every app they use or look up statistical data on every aspect of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:35 PM
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Only to a certain extent. The goal of suits is not to stand out. Even with an athletic cut suit is still hides 80% of the shape. If you disagree that's fine. We just have a fundamental difference of opinion that can't be reconciled I suppose. Nor am I interested in doing so in something so silly as suit cuts. Haha. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:19 PM
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I think all men need to be educated on it and then let them make up their own mind. Some of the elements in the red pill philosophy just need to be said, but the toxicity and prescriptive elements are pretty awful. But the basic content? All men need to know this. As for the rising of it, honestly I believe it has far more to due to economic and technological issues rather than basic tenants of human behavior that are causing the rise of this. But hey, what do I know? 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:02 PM
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So the problem is addiction, not pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:37 PM
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I wasn't referring to that. The people I know who craved the emotional intimacy were single men. I wasn't referring to anyone using these services who are in a relationship. But answer your question: I would think it would be because there's a lack of intimacy in the relationship or she is withholding sex (whether it is his fault or not, I couldn't reasonably say and it would be on a per-person basis). If that is the case it would be better off to end the relationship. But it is also very hard t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:04 PM
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But suits make men all look the same. The old corporate adage is there for a reason. "Men dress to be invisible and women dress to stand out." Or at least that's how the old saying goes. You might personally find men in suits to be attractive (most likely culturally ingrained due to status and power) but they are not at all designed to make men stand out on a physical level. They hide all the forms too. Athletic men with sharp, generally overwhelmingly considered attractive, V shaped physiques a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:47 AM
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You know, it certainly feels that way at the moment. But I can't tell if there's any reality to this, or if our cultural zeitgeist is just really messed up right now. After all, just because I feel something doesn't make it true. But I definitely agree that it certainly feels that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:42 AM
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There's definitely truth to this. I've known a few guys who spent thousands of dollars on cam girls, and barely any of it was the sexual side of it. Of course there was some involved, but a lot of it was just talking and having a momentary fake girlfriend experience and the illusion of having someone care about them. It was very, very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:37 AM
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If that's your reasoning then any debates, studies, and polls that measure large population groups are also not right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:01 AM
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"Some" is an under exaggeration really. But I'm in agreement really. I have no idea why it's such a boogie man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:58 AM
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The correlation would be men messaging hot women to be torn down (which is basically online dating). The women call in to his show. Kevin Samuels isn't contacting women, they contact him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:36 AM
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"Same standards for living" reminds me of an old Chris Rock stand up routine. Haha. Men are incapable of going backwards sexually and women are incapable of going backwards in lifestyle. This has nothing to do with the topic at hand, but it is amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 01:00 AM
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I really couldn't tell you for certain. But if I had to guess, no I don't think they would find it that rare, which is why very few of them tend to commit unless they actively want children or are too old to care about kids any more. Or, alternatively, they have access to a much different dating pool. Hypergamy and assortive dating are both very large factors. A high value man has access to a huge dating pool the average man doesn't. The whole 80/20 thing. Yadda yadda yadda. So a man is such a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:58 AM
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Good luck! I mean it. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:43 AM
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Yeah, but also really sad. I should take a break from this sub. It's really depressing. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:36 AM
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Genuine question: you want a high value man, and you feel you deserve one, but would you honestly expect one, who could have any woman they wanted, to pick you? I'm not trying to be mean or rude. I'm really curious as to your thought process. It helps me understand how women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:35 AM
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What are your preferences, as you state in D? I'm really curious because you seem like one of the more level headed and reasonable people in this sub. So I'm really interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:32 AM
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Cost of living has absolutely skyrocketed. Wages have been stagnant for a generation. Basic needs like housing, healthcare, and food have tripled in price. Entry level jobs are requiring a masters degree. Student loans are crushing for a lifetime. Rent in all major cities, where most of the high paying jobs are (and let's face it, most blue collar jobs are dying up due to automation outside of the trades, hell, even white collar work is being automated away) has tripled in the last 10 years alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:20 AM
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I took a look through there and those charts, but I didn't see any eyes being opened. Just more people having no empathy in either direction, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:25 PM
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Oh, just ignore her. All of her posts are in bitter ramblings of a major misandrist, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:03 AM
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It takes much longer than 6 years for a true cultural shift to occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 12:01 AM
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The red pill is definitely entering more into the mainstream, but I bet it will not become more mainstream until Gen Z has kids. It's still seen as being for "losers" or "pathetic" men who just cant get girls, rather than a genuine shift in human interaction dynamics. By 2023 most men might be aware it exists, but it wont be destigmatized until Gen Z has their own kids. I have no data to back this up, but I've seen how long it takes for these sorts of things to change in the public zeitgeist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:59 PM
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The latest one I could find that focused on gender happiness as opposed to countries was from 2013.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:07 PM
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My views on marriage have evolved considerably. I greatly respect those men who are willing to do it, but to me the risk is absolutely phenomenal and not at all worth it. I've been with the same woman for more than a decade. I told her very early on that while I am into commitment and monogamous (I have never cheated on anyone, although in her past she did, but she was young and in college, and while that doesn't make it right, I would be remiss to hold a youthful indiscretion against an adult) …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 02:49 PM
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You're right. I just looked it up. It looks like the closest legal brothel is about 45 minutes to an hour away by car. But hey, you know, if he wanted to rent a car for a single day that ain't too bad! A place called the Chicken Ranch. Lol. Bot exactly an enticing name. According to their website they also offer transportation to their place from the strip. The website specifically states a limousine though, so the most economical method would likely be a car rental instead. Although it does say…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 03:29 AM
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Prostitution is fully legalized in Vegas, by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:36 AM
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Agreed. Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:06 AM
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Like most things in life it's probably somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:05 AM
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While I absolutely agree with you America has its major problems, being priced into poverty is hardly solely an American concern. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:52 PM
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Like most things in life, the truth is almost always somewhere in the middle. Hypergamy, especially amongst younger women, is absolutely real. Assertive mating is also very real. It's definitely a combination of both, plus twisted through online dating where women have quite the advantage over men (be that for better or worse). It's column A and column B. You're right on the money my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:50 PM
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And yet, you wasted your time with a reply. ZING! Just playing, don't get bent out of shape. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:44 PM
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Hello neighbor! Fancy meeting you here. Come join me for breakfast some time. I'll serve you weed and waffles. Lol, J/K
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:38 PM
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Assuming social media magically vanished without government intervention I'd be pleased as punch. I've been alive long enough to see the before and after social media, and I can confirm it has done nothing but make the majority of us more miserable, especially younger folks. Is this confirmation bias? Quite possibly. But I do my best to be as objective and fair as possible in pretty much all things I do. So I would like to think that I'm not just projecting my biases. But I can never be truly ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:37 PM
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What's even weirder, if your username is accurate, we could potentially even be neighbors. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:33 PM
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Well I've already given you my advice in another thread. But to be honest, this is probably the last place you should be seeking advice on how to have sex. And yes, I am absolutely aware of irony there. But to be fair the previous advice I provided was unsolicited. Lol! Ain't I a stinker? My observations have lead me to the conclusion that this is a hopelessly toxic subreddit from both males and females. Yet I find myself strangely addicted to it. It's like finding a wreckage and being unable to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:26 PM
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That's not exactly the way I read OP's stance. But if that was the intent then we're in agreement after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:16 PM
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Take a look at my post in this thread. It's very long so I don't want to copy/paste it. But it would explain it. I definitely don't agree with cheating though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:50 PM
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Yeah. No. Pornography isn't new whatsoever. Prostitution is the oldest profession on earth. During the height of the Roman empire there were sexual theaters. Fertility gods have been worshipped since the dawn of civilization. Nudity has been painted since artwork has been pursued. Pornography has been a constant in human civilization since the dawn of time. The instant access and intensity of it is new though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:50 PM
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I couldn't disagree more actually, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:28 PM
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I see where you're coming from. While people are going to go out of their way to be difficult on the prescriptive definitions you're using, I understand your intent. Or perhaps I'm interpreting things differently from your intent. But a widowed single mother is a far more attractive option than a divorce single mother to me. With a divorced single mother you will always have to deal with the baby daddy issues which is a whole bag of drama. If she is widowed, of course there are other emotional i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:19 PM
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I would never be in a relationship where porn was banned. If anything, porn has been an exceptional benefit to our relationship. I'm not constantly harassing her trying to get sex every day, and she doesn't have to stress so much about keeping me sexually satisfied. I was also very up front about this early into our relationship that unless she was willing to give me sex on a near daily basis then I was going to find other ways to releasing my own tensions. And she said it was fine as long as I …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:03 PM
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No problem my padawan
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:55 PM
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I get you man. You're not alone. I too worry in my own career field of similar things. I'm extremely hesitant to take on a female mentee and I will not be alone in a room with a woman at work under any circumstances if she is my subordinate or peer. Women will conflate and make fun of us and say we're insane, but this is a rapidly growing trend amongst male leaders. In fact, now that I think about it, pretty much all of my male peers feel exactly the same way, with the ones I've talked to about …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:40 PM
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It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking Reddit represents the real world. I was a much happier person before I discovered it. Sometimes I force myself to uninstall the app for a few months. It's just so utterly toxic and negative. Yet I keep coming back to it. Lol. Maybe I have my own mental health problems as well. But I can honestly and truly say my life was a lot happier before broadband internet became the norm. I feel like it sucks you in and spreads the negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:25 PM
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You're going to be called creepy even if you don't approach a woman. You really can't win. There's no point in focusing on it though. Easier said than done, I know. The one upside is, if it doesn't crush you, it does help you build up a really tough outter shell and you can put up with people's BS a lot more in other areas of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:21 PM
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Could be! It's not the theory I would go with, but your guess is as good as mine. The truth is probably somewhere in the middle of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:18 PM
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I hear you man. My advice is to keep at it anyway and just develop a really tough outter skin. Unless you're very good looking you don't stand a chance online. So what's the alternative? Women may not like to be approached in reality any more, but men don't like being completely and utterly invisible online either. Something has to give. And when presented with two alternatives, one where you have a 5% chance versus a 0% chance, and that 5% chance doesn't actually harm the other person, you gott…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:12 PM
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There have been dozens of times in my life when I've been out and about with a group of friends, many of them women and a guy will "shoot his shot" as the kids say today (lol). Usually in a pretty polite way. When she turns him down and he leaves I cant tell you how many time I've heard a woman say, "What a creep." But then 2 hours later a more handsome guy tries and she's into it. This isn't a complaint. Just an observation. Your mileage may vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:58 PM
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I have. Many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:34 PM
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Again, I could hazard a guess based on decades of life experience, but I don't think it would be a very popular guess. Lol. But, I'm sure we can all draw our own conclusions. I've read a few of the studies in full, and abstracts of others, and many draw different conclusions. I have my own theories, but they would only be educated guesses without certainties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:27 PM
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I honestly don't know, but I could hazard a guess. Several studies have consistently shown that women's general happiness has decreased while men's happiness is on a very slight increase. And at the moment, across a large population, men are currently tly slightly happier than women. Both since the 1970's. The unhappier you are the more likely you are to drink. That would be my best guess anyway. But I do not claim it to be factual. It is just a theory and educated guess based on life experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:37 PM
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Well, I think it has less to do with the concept of single mothers themselves, and more to do with the perceived entitlement of those mothers. If you look at online dating platforms, there are a lot of single mothers on them. A LOT. Many of those profiles can be summed up as: "I bring a ton of baggage, but I want your money and support, but you will never be first in my life, and you still have to be in the top tier of men to even get my attention, despite the fact that all I'm bringing is my ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:37 PM
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I don't think I would date a single mother. To be clear, I have absolutely NOTHING against single mothers. I was raised by one. They are strong, resilient, and often hard working (for the sake of their child). But I would not want to raise another man's child, nor would I want to spend my own hard earned money on another man's child. And even if I did, I will never be seen as that child's father in that mother's eyes. I most likely would never be able to discipline that child how I saw fit. I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:49 PM
2

We're already seeing exponential rises in shooting violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:20 PM
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If you think there will ever be UBI in the USA you are sadly mistaken. We can't even get universal healthcare and universal pre-k. The USA would be totally okay with everyone except the 1% was living in abject poverty. I think the dystopian future you predict is a ways off, but even if it did exist, we would be living in dirt poor shacks and still not get UBI. And even if we did get it, the prices of everything would just be jacked up to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:03 AM
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It depends on what you mean by lying. If you mean withholding information, like a lie of omission, then everyone is doing that to everyone else at all times. If you mean lying as in telling you a falsehood, then no. That is wrong. But if an average man were to sit down with 100 women and straight up say, "I don't want to date you. I just want to have sex with you." Then the average man would never have sex ever. But the average man isn't necessarily looking solely for sex, despite what you may t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:34 PM
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Haha yeah, agreed. Believe it or not I've had this discussion with a lot of friends. All the women admit to being into it and the guys are mostly disgusted by it. A small sample size of a few dozen people at most, but enough to convince me. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:23 PM
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Totally unforgiving? What if they go to lengths to make amends? Just curious. It has nothing to do with topic, but I'm just wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:20 PM
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I totally agree. Unless you're exceptionally attractive, if you straight up tell a woman, "I only want sex and that is it" they're gone in a puff of smoke. I agree you shouldn't lie about it, but if you're that direct and up front about it you will never have sex unless you're dating for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:12 PM
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In my life I've only ever done this once. I never lied to her though. But I never say her down and said, "I have no interest in a long term relationship and just want to have sex." If you do that you're basically done and she won't sleep with you. Game over. So I don't feel bad about misleading her, because I truly never did. And also in my defense she never brought it up either, but I got the sense she wanted commitment, and I did drop several major hints (but not outright say) that I just want…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:09 PM
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If you ask me prostitution should be legalized and destigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:55 PM
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God that's horrible. While I personally don't believe in abortion I do believe a woman should have a legal right to have one. But it sounds like that law would make it impossible, essentially. That's so wrong. I hope that law dies a fiery and painful legislative death.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:35 PM
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Those people are nuts. If an attractive woman asks a man out he'll be super excited about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:27 PM
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Absolutely not. I don't know a single male that would feel that way whatsoever except those who just love the chase, but those men are most likely pick up artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:26 PM
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I think a major problem is that women don't understand that the vast, VAST, majority of their IOIs are just far too vague and subtle for most men to even remotely pick up on. It isn't that men are stupid, we just process emotions and things very differently than women. Women will often think they are being extremely obvious, but in reality they are absolutely not. Women really do need to be more obvious and up front about these things. 90% of men, except the ones who are very successful with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:25 PM
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I'm not a fan of abortion. I think it is wrong personally. But legally? I think women should be able to abort. The Texas law, while I'm not familiar with it, sounds horrible and I imagine that it will not survive. But who knows. With the new Supreme Court we very likely could be looking at a new wave of reductive reproductive rights. Which would be awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:13 PM
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You don't have to settle. But the reality is that OLD has significantly stacked the deck in favor of women. You don't have to settle, but you also need to realize that if the vast majority of women are all competing for a very small fraction of men, those men won't settle either. Why should they? So no one is going to get what they want except that very tiny percentage men at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:41 PM
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........just wow. The mental gymnastics going on in the sub has really burned me out and drained me of a lot mental energy. I think it might be time for me to take a break from this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:00 PM
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It's called online dating. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:58 PM
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I can't necessarily say I disagree with you. There are aspects to his message that I cannot support. Other aspects I can. It's so hard to get a sense about him. I think he's definitely right confronting women about what they bring to the table and how their worldview is just absurd. But he does absolutely a lot of double standards I cant support. Like I said he causes very mixed feelings in me. But at the end of the day, I guess the views speak for themselves. I don't know. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:48 PM
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On the bus in the city actually. I decided to just start talking with her. She clearly didn't want to talk at first, but she didn't have headphones in, and once I made her laugh she loosened up. Coincidentally we got off on the same stop, and there was a Starbucks across the corner. So I invited her to coffee. I'm not an attractive man, but I am confident, and funny (in a really particular and strange way), and we just hit it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:44 PM
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It's a mix of both, I think. Women's standards are exceptionally high. But men are also checking out in huge batches, but not just because of women. It's certainly a part of it. But when the culture brow beats you down for 20 years with radicalized feminism becoming the norm while conditions for men become worse and worse, but you're told to just man up, yeah it sucks. In addition a lot of it is based on economic factors too, automation, the devastation of the middle class, a total lack of any s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:41 PM
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Wow. This is amazing. Thank you for sharing this. I'm not being sarcastic. It gives me hope that some women out there might still, rarely, appreciate what men are and what men can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:14 PM
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I would actually agree that there is truth to this. But ONLY if you're meeting people in reality and not OLD. If you aren't an 8 as a man online you're absolutely invisible unless she's looking for support. I say I'm 4, possibly a 5, maaaaybe a 6 if a woman has skewed aesthetic standards. But my significant other is easily a 9 (maybe an 8 depending on your preferences). It's so much harder to meet offline, but if you're average or below average your chances improve dramatically. When a woman jud…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:52 PM
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Kevin Samuels, to me, has a lot of issues. He has a lot of problematic elements to him. He's also an entertainer and not an educator. However, he does make exceptionally well articulated (if brusque and direct) points about how many younger modern women are absolutely delusional in their expectations. He has drawn such a huge audience very quickly because he is giving a voice to what so many younger men feel but can't say themselves. In some ways he's a deeply toxic figure and in other ways he l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:00 PM
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Millennials are still the most childless generation to date. We are sprinting towards a Japan situation. We would already be there if it wasn't for our large influx of immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:39 PM
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No. What I said was female progress has been advanced exponentially due to power social interest groups and new ways of thinking. The exact opposite is true for me. That's why they aren't pursuing relationships. If that's "men are victims" rather than a rationale as to how we got into this mess then I've got nothing else for you. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:00 PM
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...how does it not?!?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:37 PM
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When you have several generations of people focus solely on women's issues a d stigmatize and demonize men who want to bring up their own issues that need to be resolved, and then laugh at their face, it's no wonder so many men just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:19 PM
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Agreed, but unlike Japan where they suffer in meek silence, I predict a rapid increase in gun violence if America goes the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:46 PM
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If that were the case why, in this specific example, was she so offended that I gave up and started walking away? If she wanted to be left alone she should have been overjoyed that I was leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 07:51 PM
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I didn't say they should. I just said they don't, so I probably shouldn't care about them either. And, yes actually, I do care about those issues. But women's issues have entire movements dedicated to providing progress on those issues. Men are entirely on their own. But my point wasn't to make them care about men's issues. The point was to say if they don't care I should probably stop caring about women's issues as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:47 PM
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Man, oh man, can I relate to this. On average, it has been my experience approaching women that they contribute almost nothing to the actual meat and potatoes of the conversation itself. It's so frustrating. Before I met my current lady I got so sick of it I started just walking away in the middle of conversations. Once a woman got angry and questioned me on it. I told her, "Look I just spent 10 minutes struggling to talk to you and you maybe said four sentences. I can't do all the conversationa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 06:35 PM
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I think it goes without saying that the USA is entering its Twilight years as the sovereign nation, but I seriously doubt it will fundamentally collapse within our lifetimes. But perhaps this is a misunderstanding of definitions. By "fall apart" what do you specifically mean? That the entire political and governmental infrastructure will collapse and we will be a lawless nation? Or just that we will be much weaker than we once were and no longer a global seat of power?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:47 PM
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Well sure. I agree on a primal level the majority of women (not all) will always be attracted to the bad boys. But at a primal level I will always be attracted to DD cups, but that doesn't mean at a certain maturity level I don't understand that just because she is hot to me that she is a good fit for me. It's not exactly fair to hold it against women that they are attracted to "bad boys." But it is totally fair to judge an adult woman woth full agency and an understanding of herself to do so. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:41 PM
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I'm spoken for. It isn't my immediate concern. I'm just responding to the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:38 PM
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Where are you getting this information? I'm not trying to challenge you on it, but it is counter to what I have been reading. And I always want to educate myself as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:19 PM
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Yes it was. Lol. But I also think it's a bit hyperbolic to think the USA wont be around in 15 years. It will take longer than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:18 PM
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I think they do, at a certain point, but by that point "all the good men are gone" and it's spun around and turned on men like.pretty much everything is. But what can you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:16 PM
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Lmfao! This genuinely made my day!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:08 PM
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Oh come on now...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:06 PM
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The solution is four fold: Legalize and destigmatize sex work. Yes, this is not the best solution. Many men want sex to be meaningful, paying for it makes it much less meaningful. But when you have an open wound, a bandage is better than nothing. Feminism is a wonderful thing, but it needs to focus on men's issues just as much as they do on women's issues. Yes, yes, I know the standard talking points is that it's all about equality etc. But in practice this isn't true. Men's issues events are co…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:49 PM
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Magical vaginas... are you Larry David? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:42 PM
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If you think a barista or public school music teacher can live a cpmfortable life you're sadly mistaken. If you mean just barely eeking by a substandard and economically poor existence, then yeah maybe. I guess it depends on what you define as subsistence living. But yes, I think I see what you mean. Men have traditionally over contributed to society. I can easily see that snapping back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:39 PM
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I agree that relationships aren't that bleak yet. But career prospects are plummeting at an almost absurd rate due to our frankly ridiculous systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:36 PM
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Too late. The time to prevent that was just before Reagan got elected. We've been sprinting downhill ever since while China is moved uphill slowly, and then exponentially. It's too late. Unless something absolutely massive happens China will overtake us quite easily within the next 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:35 PM
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It wont happen because those same men still need to clothe, feed, and house themselves. Unless they want to be homeless they have no choice but to keep contributing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:33 PM
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Many young women are absolutely attracted to the bad boy. This in unequivocally true. Most women age out of it eventually, but by that time many men these days who were so burned by the same women just go for younger ones. Sad, but that's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:31 PM
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Haha. I love your metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:18 PM
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Fair enough. For what it is worth, most of men who regularly get laid are pretty up front about it. But I wouldn't presume that's the case for all of them. But when you have 80% of women throwing themselves at you there isn't really even an incentive to lie about it. I would guess that it's more average men who lie about their intentions to women. Since they get so few opportunities they cant just come out and say they aren't interested in a relationship and just want sex. Average men have a muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:16 PM
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Objectively my life is pretty good. I have a woman I've been with for more than 10 years. We aren't married. I am not struggling financially. And yet, interestingly, my mental health is worse off than it used to be when I was in a much more stressful position in life. And if I were to pinpoint it, I think it might be because of the internet. It's hard to not let the relentless amounts of negativity online bring me down. I don't know why that is. I could simple stop looking at the news, stay off …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:38 PM
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In this metaphor what do the seagulls represent? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:33 PM
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I don't know why it might be. I've never particularly cared what a women's sexual history was unless it was dozens upon dozens of random men. Like a 50+ count would be a big red flag for me (likewise if I were a woman I'm relatively confident that would also be a red flag). But on average, most people aren't having sex with dozens of people. Unless it is excessive, I've also wondered why other men have issues with it. A part of me thinks it might be jealousy though. Despite what some insane peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:26 PM
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Yes I do actually. Combine two or three indicators of interest at once. Don't just smile at a guy. Smile at him while twirling your hair, or rubbing the top of your drink, etc. Or smile while raising an eyebrow. It doesn't have to be those (admittedly poor examples), but a lot of women think smiling is enough. It really isn't. Many men just aren't socialized in the same way and wont pick up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:17 PM
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Come on man, I know there's a lot of anger on this sub, but women as a group are not stupid sheep. They are just as easily capable of seeing through BS as men are. Probably more so actually considering they are generally bombarded by men. I mean, I don't have data to back this claim up, but just because women do 80% of consumer goods purchasing doesn't mean they are more easily manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:15 PM
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To be honest, I don't think many modern women would be openly accepting of this harem lifestyle you are predicting. It just isn't going to happen. But to go along with your theory (which I am extremely dubious of) I would predict a huge rise in gun violence, far more crime, and just an overall bad situation. It has much less to do with women or harems, but in situations of bleak outlook people turn to crime and violence as a potential way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:13 PM
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And the indicator needs to be rather obvious and not subtle or vague. Men often don't pick up on these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:09 PM
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How is it the responsibility of men to educate women against their own instincts to gravitate toward the same men? Why is it always the fault of men no matter what? At what point are women responsible for their own behavior? Apparently never. And honestly, I know a few of these guys. This is purely anecdotal of course, but the few guys like this I know are pretty upfront about not being serious, but these women pursue them regardless. Apparently men are not only responsible for their own behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:07 PM
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My views on marriage have evolved considerably. I greatly respect those men who are willing to do it, but to me the risk is absolutely phenomenal and not at all worth it. I've been with the same woman for more than a decade. I told her very early on that while I am into commitment and monogamous (I have never cheated on anyone, although in her past she did, but she was young and in college, and while that doesn't make it right, I would be remiss to hold a youthful indiscretion against an adult) …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:15 PM
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Let's not forget that Americans wont go quietly into the night like Japanese men. I predict a major rise in gun violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:20 PM
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Off topic, this reminds me of a hilarious Wanda Sykes standup comedy skit about doing the dishes. In the bit, the woman gets mad that the husband didn't do the dishes, but she doesn't confront him. She just let's the situation get worse and worse until the house is a mess, there are no dishes, and they are eating their food off of napkins using toothpicks. Then the woman snaps and berates her man terribly and ends with asking how he could do this to her. His only reply was "@#$%&, this is how I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:18 PM
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If the market is going to have a major downturn, what makes you think that men's statuses are going to increase? In reality very few men actually rise above the socioeconomic conditions they are born into. If the economy tanks, it's going to hit men even harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:24 PM
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If 80% of women are choosing the same 20% of men, that is the choice and actions of women. Men are not responsible for the actions or choices of other autonomous people. Honestly, the mental gymnastics people like you constantly post are absolutely fatiguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:17 AM
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I was thinking the same thing. At what point do women have any sense of the responsibility in this mess? Never, it seems. It's always the guys. Even when we have the data to show that the women are choosing the same roughly 20% of men consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:10 AM
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Also an even further rise is gun violence for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:08 AM
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Why not? I'm not a Mexican but I can judge how much Iike or dislike Mexican food.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:11 PM
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That stopped being true 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:05 PM
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I wouldn't go that far. Indoctrination from such a young age can be hard to break. If a woman instills these sorts of traditional ideals into a boy that no longer apply, he should be educated and helped. Not scorned and told that he is a simp and deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:04 PM
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Sex work should be legalized and destigmatized in the western world. It would honestly solve a lot of problems. Not the best solution, I'll grant you that, but when you have a bleedung wound, a bandage is better than nothing, if you will forgive the severity of the metaphir.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:01 PM
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There's a group of really nosy/bossy/entitled radical feminist women who frequent my local dog park. I go there with my dog almost daily and hear them constantly whining and complaining about everything. One day I got so sick of it I told them that, "Feminism is the best thing to ever happen to men. After all, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" They didn't want to hear that at all. Haha. Same concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:58 PM
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I wouldn't respect a man who demanded their wife earn more than them either. But I can't write out all aspects of a particular philosophy on every post. But I do appreciate your willingness to engage with me without insult. A rare thing these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:18 AM
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Perhaps the problem is the specific word of "entitlement?" Honestly I get the sense that we are actually in agreement but are getting stuck on the highly specific details?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:00 AM
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I would hardly say a $50,000 difference is not exactly comparable. But assuming it was, if she draws a hard line that he must earn more money than she does, yet she has full autonomy and the ability to command a high salary, then yes I have no respect fro anyone who would draw a hard line in the sand. It would be likewise unreasonable for a man to demand that of his wife. I honestly don't feel like this is a strange position to adopt. Why does it rub you the wrong way? Genuinely curious here. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:58 AM
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Hmm. Good question. I feel probably not. BUT! I also feel that if a man has no legal right whether to have a baby or not, then he should be able to bow out entirely if he wants to. He shouldn't be held legally responsible for a decision a woman makes he cannot have a say in. I think men should be allowed to not be fathers, but st the same time, they cant come in later and try to be in that child's life. I think the punishment should be extremely severe if that happens. This is almost surely an u…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:53 PM
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As the old adage goes, "It takes far more effort and energy to disprove bullshit than it takes to say it."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:49 PM
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It's true. Women want to be fully independent and focus on their careers (which I absolutely think they should have the right to), but still expect a man to make 150% more than her. You cant have it both ways. Women want to equal and special at the same time. Not all women, but a huge quantity of them. And hey, that's their prerogative. But at the same time I absolutely don't respect a women making $100,000 who refuses to date someone who isn't making at least $150,000. But no one needs my respe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:43 PM
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While true, it's also worth noting that 90% of societies protectors are men as well. Men exemplify the best and worst aspects of humanity. Take that how you will, but, it does men fairly polarizing as a population.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 09:41 PM
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I used the word "entitlement" to show that women's standards are far too high. And the data backs up my point. It has nothing to do with me. I'm in a committed relationship. I don't want them to have sex with me. It was just an experiment. Women can do whatever they want, and if they want to price themselves out of the dating market because their standards are so ridiculously high (thus their sense that they are entitled to the top 20% of men or they don't want any) that's their business. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:42 PM
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I'm like a 4, probably. Would be willing to date a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 11:20 PM
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Yeah this is where she lost me. I have no idea what the heck she is talking about. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 11:19 PM
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This is probably the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 11:15 PM
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You're leaving out the internet and dating apps, which have caused an equal and sizable shift in human dating interactions which we are still discovering and adapting to because it is so new. And it's really done a number on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 11:14 PM
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So he's a nutjob then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:37 PM
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I would say men are significantly over criticized and seen as expendable by society. However, it doesn't have much to do with name calling and pejoratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 06:34 PM
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Who is talking about entitlement? I never said I felt entitled to it. I just used it as an illustrative example of how the standards of men and women are very skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:29 PM
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Well, by that logic, why shouldn't I use and treat everyone like garbage? If I'm a good talker why shouldn't I con people out of their hard earned money? If I'm a powerful mover and shaker in the financial world why shouldn't I embezzle funds because I can get away. If my neighbor is moving furniture and trips, and is pinned underneath an armoire and i see this happen, why shouldn't I ignore them. It doesn't benefit me to help them. This sort of thinking is why the western world is falling apart…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:56 PM
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I get called creepy all the time for simply existing. I'll be shopping, and reach for the apples while a woman is blocking them by rudely standing there while playing on her phone, and I'll be called a creep. You can't win, so I stopped caring a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:17 PM
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I watch it every day, essentially. I've never felt any dissatisfaction or negative impacts whatsoever from it. I also told my lady very early in our relationship that I was not willing to give it up unless she was willing to give me sex any day I wanted it. So, no problem there either. She gets what she needs and I get what I need. Her condition is that we don't talk about it and I don't try to watch it with her. And that has worked wonderfully for both of us. I fail to see the problem in most c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:57 PM
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True enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:27 PM
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It's hardly the fault of men that women no longer want to be cold approached Iin reality, and that women are voluntarily choosing the same 20% of men. Women are hypergamous, the vast majority of the selectors in the animal kingdom are. We are animals. It's just now we have the tools and technology to enhance that to a degree never seen before. This isn't the fault of men either. Women can do whatever they want. But they can't have their cake, eat it too, AND scorn men because they voluntarily wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:25 PM
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Ah. Then I stand corrected. I guess I'm just thinking about older men who are going MGTOW. Sometimes I forget how young Reddit leans compared to my own age. Younger men who go MGTOW probably are indeed quite angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:05 PM
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MGTOW is really misrepresented a lot. They aren't frothing. They are doing their own thing and trying to live their best life. It works for some, but not many, I don't think. Human being are intrinsically social animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:54 PM
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I'm not single. I've been in the same relationship for 10 years. And I don't police anyone. Their logic was, "I see why you're upset by things, but don't be." Which essentially amount to women having their cake and eating it too, but men just gotta starve and accept it and be happy about it anyway. If that was the kind of logic everybody had then there would never be any societal progress about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:53 PM
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Sure, women can do whatever they want but then they cant whine and complain and moan about toxic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:43 PM
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We are so far gone as a culture that college aged women were saying it was sexist that women consume 80% of products? Jesus Christ we have fallen as a society...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:39 PM
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The Red Pill has a lot of truths to it. Far more than most women are willing to admit (but eventually do admit to it given enough time and pressure). But it also has a lot of toxicity to it and keeps on being enflamed and exaggerating the issue for (mostly) younger people. I don't know how to bridge that gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:37 PM
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Women, when they care about someone, can have incredible empathy and emotional insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 03:27 AM
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Jesus isn't that the truth. I'm straight and I get hit on by gay guys all the time. Been hit on by a woman once in my entire life, and I'm older than most Reddit users. The experience of men just doesn't translate to those of women. At all. But yet gay men will still give average men a chance. It just does 5o show that women's standards are way to high and entitled. And it's only getting worse as online dating becomes the primary form of meeting people (if it hasn't already). I'm in a long term …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:24 PM
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You're right, but dating apps have thrown EVERYTHING out the window. You can be an average man, have your shit together, and have a great personality and get absolutely nothing for months and months and months due to online dating. The average guy stands absolutely no chance whatsoever. The real world is the great equalizer. But women don't want to be cold approached anymore unless you're very attractive. It's just how the world works now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 08:29 PM
-1

There are many MRA groups that do so. Many on college campuses (the same places where second and third wave feminism flourished) and they are consistently shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:16 PM
3

Not entirely true. Anytime there's a men's right movement, these issues are brought to light, or any progress for men is trying to be made, feminists line up to protest, call us names, tell us to man up, and block any male-centric progress. Because in their minds, any progress for men hurts women somehow. This is especially true in the college campus cultures where this sort of indoctrination really is hit over the head of people. Feminism has been an amazing thing, and I will forever support it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:59 PM
6

So you want women to have it made and men to just accept it and deal with it without issue? That's even more lopsided.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 02:49 PM
1

You're doing the same thing. AND you're on a subreddit specifically designed for such topics. You can't complain about it. Well, I guess you can but you're just going to look doofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:28 PM
6

Human beings are social animals. The vast majority of our species craves a close bond. It's hardwired into the deepest parts of our psychology, male or female. There's nothing "lacking" from people who desperately want a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:07 PM
8

Yeah, but men will "date down" but the vast majority of women simply will not do it. It's like they just aren't psychologically capable of it for whatever reason. To be clear, I think women can have whatever standards they want. They certainly should have the freedom to have sky high standards if they want. But it's often these same women that denigrate men and are essentially misandrists when no one can meet their standards. Even that is fine, really, but you cant complain about something you y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:04 PM
1

It's lowered my opinion of men as well. But it has significantly lowered my opinion of women... by a rather substantial degree actually. But to be fair, I'm an old cynical bastard anyway, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:36 AM
2

It's a sense of purpose caused by societal blame and the economic realities of the first world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:32 AM
1

Men and women's sexual needs are often fundamentally incompatible. Many men don't need to have a romantic connection to enjoy sex whatsoever. If there is a romantic connection it will greatly amplify it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:23 AM
1

If you feel this way, then what's the issue? If you really are a top tier woman then you should have no problems finding the guy you want. I fail to see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:17 AM
1

I'm grateful I'll be shuffling off this mortal coil right as things are truly getting bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:52 AM
1

Oh I absolutely agree. Marriage is an outdated tradition that greatly empowers women and brutally punishes men. It was absolutely necessary back in the day. But not any more. I will NEVER get married without a prenuptial AND postnuptial agreement. The risks are outrageous compared to the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:08 PM
1

Wow. You're so ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:05 PM
2

THANK YOU! One of the reasons my current lady and I work so well together is that we showed each other what we liked. It would have fallen apart pretty damn fast otherwise. I find it absolutely amazing that the majority of women won't do this incredibly basic thing. I really doubt it has to do with embarrassment. Far more likely in my mind is that women use it as an immediate discriminator and just go for someone else because they have near unlimited options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:04 PM
1

If we are going strictly by physical attractiveness? Yes, surprisingly most women I have dated were at least a few steps above me. But that was before the majority of dating switched to phone apps. I wouldn't have a chance in hell now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:02 PM
1

When I was a younger man I dedicated so much time, effort, blood, sweat, and tears into trying to "understand" women. I eventually gave up and realized that it's not possible because young women don't understand themselves (young men don't understand themselves either but more on that later). To be clear, it isn't because they are stupid, or can't think critically, or they are total slaves to their feelings, or any such type of thing. It's just that young women can't predict how they will feel a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:58 PM
4

I hate to say it, but you're right, I think. But it isn't all doom and gloom. As gender relations fracture more and more it will reduce populations, carbon emissions, reduce pressure of resources, etc. Maybe us stupiding ourselves into decreased population sizes will be a net positive for the human race. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:46 PM
2

It might have traditionally stood for virginity, but come on let's be real. Some traditions just don't match reality any more. In our contemporary era virginity is not a reasonable demand any longer. Should we go back to having dowelries and ensuring her father approves no matter what and keeping our bloodlines pure too? I mean, these are hyperbolic examples, but the point is some traditions become outdated given the societal changes and contemporary realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 10:44 PM
2

I find your second sentence hughly dubious. But it sounds like you are an atypical online dater. That's good! It gives hope for single men everywhere (I'm not single, but I certainly have been).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:33 PM
3

Data from dating apps and speed dating has shown that 80% of women do want the same 20% guys. Well, it's conflicting because some have a 70/30 ratio. But the point is the same. After they pass the 80% filter, sure other discriminators would kick in. But unless you pass the immediate test, the major of men are absolutely invisible to most women. Of course there are outliers. There are always outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 04:05 PM
1

Well it's definitely not happening in the USA. Jesus, we cant even get universal healthcare and common sense gun law reform, or any sort of social safety net. Even your place sounds like a liberal paradise compared to the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:22 PM
6

Men can't get pregnant and have no legal say what happens to a pregnancy. They literally and figuratively can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:11 AM
2

Universal day care and pre-k would indeed help solve the problem for the vast majority of the middle class
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:08 AM
7

I didn't have an argument. All I said is that most men just want a little validation that dating is heavily stacked against them and it made my day. Sorry if that upset you, but I can't help who provides that validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 05:10 AM
9

Yes I understand that. What am I supposed to do? Be more upset because of her admission? At least she's willing to admit it it's true and not solely the fault of men. I can't control who posts what and who admits as to how they look. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:59 AM
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What's the problem if she is fit and good looking? What does that have to do with me appreciating that she admits that she is in a privileged position in the dating world? She's at least admitting it and not constantly putting the blame on men for everything. I give her credit for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:24 AM
21

First of all, to have a sugar you need to be relatively wealthy. There goes 90% of men. And yes, hookers are available, but if that's the counter argument that women are so picky that you're better off with hookers then no wonder men are peacing out of even trying. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:25 AM
11

This is true and I'm in absolute and total agreement. But then at the same time you cant complain that no one can meet your standards when your standards are way too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:50 PM
9

It is unreasonable when 80% of women want the same 20% of guys and the other 80% are absolutely invisible to them. This is interesting because I've seen you post a lot on this sub and we have agreed on a lot of things except this one. Haha, maybe it's not interesting at all. Maybe I'm just keen on pattern recognition. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:49 PM
-1

Just because it might be a distasteful metaphor doesn't make it inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:37 PM
10

Thank you. That's all most men want to hear. Just an acknowledgement and for men to not be demonized because women have decided to play it a certain way because they have the privledge of being able to do so. This is all most men want to hear and to feel validated and not criticized for just being a man in the dating world. This made me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:32 PM
3

I think it was Chris Rock who said, "For a man to think a woman is interested in him all she has to do is be nice to him twice in his lifetime." Lol. If it wasn't Chris Rock then I apologize. Maybe it was Kevin Hart? Cant remember. It was many years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:16 PM
9

Frankly, I don't give a care if you believe me or not. Any proof I could provide wouldn't be believed anyway. And even if I could convince you, why would I go out of my way to do so? What am I going to do? Track down an old freind who is god knows where, get us in the same room together, and hold up a sign with my username? Find an old picture of us together from 15 years ago (if one even exists - this was before smartphones were ubiquitous)? You'll just say that could be anybody and it still is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 06:06 PM
14

I'm definitely NOT a "Chad" by any sense of the stereotype. But I was very good freinds with one until he moved out to LA to try become a porn star (no not kidding) and then he vanished and stopped returning all methods of communication. The guy lived quite a life I can tell you that. Everywhere he went, women flirted with him, grouped around him, and he got laid any night he wanted. I'm not even exaggerating. He would at a woman and say, "I'm banging her tonight." And he almost always did. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:54 PM
1

I'm not single. I'm just trying to examine things from all angles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:44 PM
1

So, basically, you're endorsing a nihilistic black pill philosophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:48 PM
2

Oh no. They have too many amazing options. What a burden. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:10 AM
2

It's almost like a philosophical argument. I'm not even being a smart ass. You could write an essay about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:08 AM
1

What the hell? Where is that coming from? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:05 AM
3

I hate to say it, as I do tend toward the random acts of kindness mentality, but I do find myself less and less willing to help out a woman I don't know. I'll help out women I have a friendly relationship with, but if she's a stranger... 90% chance I'm not helping her unless she is elderly. Which is a shame, because just 2 years ago I would have helped her. It makes me sad for myself too, because I used to like the feeling it gave me to help people out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:04 AM
1

I used too, for sure. Then I started realizing other people couldn't give a shit about me, especially women, and I stopped being protective of helping others. Twice in my life I have been severely injured, once I was on the ground bleeding and crying for help. No one stopped. No one called an ambulance. Several women walked by me, only one even looked at me and she just shook her head and kept walking. It's been that way my whole life. Totally invisible a d no one giving a shit if I lived or die…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:58 AM
1

I really wish it was socially acceptable to sign a pre-sex contract. It would make things so much better for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:44 AM
2

Okay come on. Let's be real here. I'm a guy, and I've been around the block many times. Women, while they may have their problems, are far from 2 dimensional beings. Let's not forget at the end of the day they are still human. I mean, these are our mothers, sisters, aunts, cousins, friends, etc. They are not all 2 dimensional. Yes, many, MANY, women are bad people. But so are many men too. I'm not trying to justify women's bad behavior, but you're misguided to think they are all bad people and 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:43 AM
1

Childbirth falling precipitously in the USA too. It's only offset by an endless flood of immigrants. That's not an anti-immigration stance either. Just the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:31 AM
1

Perhaps, but by that point they usually have a child. And that's totally fine. Nothing wrong with that. But it's going to be difficult to find a man that fits their high standards that also wants to raise another man's baby. It is what it is I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:29 AM
1

Haha, as a guy I would prefer female friends I'm not attracted to. But in fairly sure this is an aberration of an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:25 AM
1

Then we're all doomed haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:21 AM
2

I didn't say it was inaccurate. I was being sarcastic in face of overt misandry. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:13 PM
3

You're ignoring the question. If you're the average man, even if you don't "need" a relationship, you still don't have options. It's good advice you give, but is exclusively for the female life experience. It does not apply to men at all, unless they are extremely good looking, or have an enormous social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:09 PM
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If you think men's standards are anywhere near the standards of the average woman you're kidding yourself. This isn't to knock women. They can do as they please. But the average man's standards are way lower than the average woman's.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:04 PM
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This is the 100% truth here. Men will often lower their standards. Women almost never do. Sure, some will (no single group is ever a monolith), but the vast majority wont. I can't even tell you how many single women I know is my real life who constantly say they would rather be alone than give a single concession for a man. It's just going to get worse. Who know, maybe the children of Gen Z will be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:02 PM
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If you say so. But when vegetables cost more than prepackaged garbage and meat is $12 a steak, and the cost of living is skyrocketing while wages are stagnating, and you have kids to feed on a limited budget where you cant afford healthy food... yeah, okay, it's all about self control. Self control is a part of it no doubt, but if you think that's the only reason why obesity is rising exponentially in certain countries (coincidentally all the countries with the greatest wealth disparity on the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:55 PM
2

This only works when meeting in reality. It's thrown entirely out the window for online dating (which is the vast majority of how people meet now)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:41 PM
4

Jesus... tell us how you really feel about men why don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:39 PM
3

Nah man. There is a lot more to it than that. It's way more about wealth inequality than people choosing to eat junk food.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:37 PM
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I'm not married. I will NEVER be married (unless there is copious amounts of legal documentation including prenups, postnups, healthcare proxies, etc). But I might as well be considered married. I've been with the same woman now for more than a decade. I was lucky enough to find a woman who didn't feel the necessity of being legally married was a deal breaker. She's a unicorn. But to answer the actual question, while I am not married I basically have the same perspective as a married man. And ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:32 PM
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Not to be that guy, but from an actuarial perspective your hands most definitely have value. Lol. Most life insurance policies specifically price out body parts in case you lose them. Usually just hands, legs, and eyes though. Anyway, I just wanted to be a pedantic ass and contribute nothing to the discussion. Carry on. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:27 PM
1

Examples? I'm not trying to debate you. I really want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:47 AM
2

This is an extremely good observation, one I think hits the nail on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 12:11 AM
1

I don't think any amount of societal or technological changes will change basic human nature. Men will still be thirsty as all hell. Women will still be hypergamous. Unless there is a fundamental shift in the human experience I really doubt these very basic biological drives will change. It's certainly possible that at a certain point of technological advancement it might change. But we are far from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:46 PM
1

Where did that 1 in 9 stat come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:42 PM
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That's not necessarily true. The vast majority of men never get beyond the means they're born into. Very few men rise above that. So men are not inherently an appreciating asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:40 PM
1

No, it's that women wont stay with a man long term unless he marries usually. So if he loves the woman he will have to marry her to get her to stay. But many men are finally learning otherwise and that's why marriages are decreasing exponentially. It also helps that the traditional values are dying off very quickly. And the internet provides all the empirical data to help people make better informed decisions. You can now quickly Google all the laws in the world, where even just 10, possibly 15 …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:17 PM
0

No, you said it was a prosthesis and they would never be actually fulfilled. You can live a fulfilling life without children. Look at millenials.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:14 PM
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No one is going to go MGTOW (unless they're a hermit) until they get burned by women, society, or the system. It usually takes multiple burns. Once they go MGTOW they're going to be hurt and bitter for a while. Probably for at least a year or two. But then they figure out how to enjoy it and chill out immensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:11 PM
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This is the truth right here. When you have 30+ matches a week, why wouldn't you use any little thing as a discriminator?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:57 PM
4

Or China
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:55 PM
1

I don't mind if my views are challenged as long as I'm not being judged for doing what I feel is right even if she disagrees. In my opinion this is a very rare quality from people who challenge your views. But who knows. I could be projecting. 🤷‍♂️ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:42 PM
1

I didn't say it was the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:07 PM
1

I don't know, lol. Shes actually older than I am by about a year. I guess I didn't think about it very much. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:06 PM
1

Oh totally, but NOT in online dating. It's based entirely on looks and a 1.5 second decision based solely on a photo (for both genders). In reality there are many ways to be a 10/10 guy without being a Chad. But online? Lol. Good luck man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:50 PM
1

It does exist, you just need to stop listening to the narratives and find happiness within yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:29 PM
2

Well then I feel like you found yourself a unicorn. Most excellent my freind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:26 PM
1

Well I'm only speaking from my experience. No one else's. No type of woman, or culture, is a monolith. But there are trends and cultural differences that tend to run in similarities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:21 PM
0

As a white American man I have had endless issues with American women, regardless of ethnic background. Endless issues. However, I have had very great success with immigrants and expats. My current long term relationship (10 years and counting) is with a Mexican girl who came to the US when she was 3, and was still raised with a strong sense of ethnic culture and ideals. The difference is night and day. I'm not washing my hands of all American women, but contemporary American women have almost l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:04 PM
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Or maybe the juice isn't worth the squeeze when there are much easier, and more fulfilling options, elsewhere. Of course, I have no idea. I've never done international dating for wives, but it makes sense to me. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:53 PM
2

When 80% of the population is in the big city, and that's where almost all the major opportunities are, this is easier said than done unless you're self employed with the ability to do your job from anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:51 PM
1

Disagree. But I appreciate a reply that isn't an attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:43 PM
1

Those that want to be serial killers for hookers would do better now on the streets rather than safe well regulated environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:41 PM
0

I agree. They don't want to pay. If they have a legal safe way to obtain sex, even if it isn't particularly validating, it's better than nothing and would help reduce hatred and violence if nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:40 PM
5

Honestly the best thing we can do is legalize and destigmatize sex work. If a sexless male can easily get laid, even if he has to pay for it, it would do amazing things for their self esteem. At least a little bit. It would give some men the motivation and push they need. I'm not even joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:33 PM
3

I don't even think people's personalities are fully formed a d well developed until late 20's too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:28 PM
1

The stigma of men dating younger women will likely start to be less frowned upon as the fracturing of dating continues. But it will always be deeply frowned upon by women of a certain age, since they will be the most negatively impacted by it. But so it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:57 PM
1

That was true before online dating. Now a sledgehammer has been taken to the whole limited social circle interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:55 PM
2

Haha, nice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:40 PM
1

The average person is either obese or significantly deformed? What? I've been on this Earth a long while now and the number of "significantly deformed" people is quite minimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:01 PM
3

This is the truth. Feminine energy has almost been all but lost in western society. Even a homely woman is far more attractive, I would even say significantly so, if she has that feminine energy she will definitely seem a lot hotter. Men are immensely attracted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:58 PM
0

Marriage is a broken institution and the laws need to be heavily changed. The marriage rate is plummeting for a reason because men are finally catching on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:38 PM
4

Yeah, but you don't even get an opportunity to get to the relationship if you don't meet her levels of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:20 PM
1

MATH!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:12 PM
0

This is definitely true for younger people. But I think once you get to adult age and go to school most people are on equal footing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:26 PM
1

Depends on the state really
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:29 PM
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Yeah, this is absolutely not true and varies wildly depending on the state. Indefinite alimony still exists is many states and a lot of conservatives states still have absolutely unfair laws heavily biased in women's favor (which used to make sense but no longer does given the modern economic situation). Not only that there is the fact that pensions, 401Ks, and retirement accounts are absolutely devastated in divorces. You can work and save your whole life and have have it ripped away because sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:29 PM
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We care about divorce because 9 times out of 10 the man is one who gets screwed a lot harder than the woman. This isn't always true, and is changing pretty rapidly, but the trend still exists. And alimony is absolutely crippling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:23 PM
5

Women were definitely different and it had nothing to do with being more or less independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:36 PM
5

The men in previous generations were also dealing with very different types of women than we are today. These changes have been forced upon us by economic realities and increasingly radicalized voices directing the narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:35 PM
2

While this is true, I would hope most women above the age of 25 would be able to figure this out through critical thinking. But that doesn't appear to be the case. This isn't really a knock on women though. Not at all. Most humans, male and female, are pretty bad at critical thinking when it comes to things they have been indoctrinated to believe from a young age. I myself still have trouble seeing through certain thoughts and feelings I was taught at a young age that aren't necessarily true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:16 PM
3

Yeah, they completely left of all of the other containers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:13 PM
2

What is one right marriage allows you to do that other legal documentation doesn't with the exception of tax benefits and health insurance sharing? I'm genuinely curious because I've looked into this and found nothing other than those two things that can't be replicated without a special type of co tract that already exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 10:12 PM
3

For me, personally, a high value woman is a woman who provides traditionally feminine energy, which feels like it has all bust vanished outside of religious communities (but sadly a lot of those same communities still have some fairly sexist beliefs about a women's place that I don't necessarily subscribe to I'm today's economic realities). Here is what I define as a traditionally feminine energy: Supporting their man when he's down and not criticizing him for it, appreciating his own masculine …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:43 PM
1

That... well that's startlingly hard to believe. I'm not saying your wrong. But if 50% of men are uninterested in women entirely that's an absolute catastrophe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:21 PM
3

The root of the problem isn't women themselves. It's our culture. Our formative years are so important to us and what we value later in life. Sadly, in our culture, we've raised young girls to think they are special, they deserve everything because they women, and that there is a Prince Charming out there that already meets everything they want without any work or time. Then we tell these same women that men are scum and trash and that men are the root cause of all their issues. The modern woman…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 06:20 PM
2

Is the problem really so bad that herbivores are becoming that common? I thought it was still a relatively rare phenomenon. Maybe like 10% of people are going that way. But maybe not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:06 PM
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I don't know. I'm a man I wouldn't say it to a woman. It's so rude. No one deserves to be criticized when they are out in public just doing their own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:39 PM
1

I see. I will take your word on this since this I am far from knowledgeable on Japenese relationships. But if all that is true, it's no wonder that herbivore men are on the rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:36 PM
1

Which culture is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 10:56 PM
2

Huh. I hadn't thought about that. That is true. I think most people using host and hostess clubs know that it is fake and meaningless and that it isn't actually curing their lonliness. But having said that, it's definitely better than nothing, and while it might not seal the wound, a band aide is better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:06 PM
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At that point, why not just get a vasectomy? Pretty safe. Not unaffordable out of pocket. Don't have to mess around with hormones, untested and potentially dangerous drugs, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 09:04 PM
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Can you elaborate on your first paragraph? I am very genuinely interested in which topics have opened your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:48 PM
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You're right. But to be fair it is also extremely difficult for men to make those close social circles too. Men have a very difficult time make friendships, at least in the USA or other major western nations. I'm in a long term relationship ship with an immigrant from a poorer nation and she is always shocked how hard is it for men to make freinds in the USA and that she feels so bad for men in the US. Anecdotal evidence, sure, but it is what it is. As far as those older men go, yeah that's pret…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:48 PM
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It will take another generation or two. The current ones are too far gone in their thinking already.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:51 PM
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Men often have extremely limited social circles so this makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:47 PM
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Nah, most of the people here are just men in the 20s and early 30s who have nowhere else to go to complain about this stuff. They almost surely aren't all abusers they're just lonely and feel spurned by women for being ignored. I think it speaks more to your mindset than theirs if you're thinking they're all abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:45 PM
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I don't think it will be quite the same for the USA, as our culture places more emphasis on the individual. I think it will be mostly the same but there will be a lot more vocal complaints about it leading to further radicalization in both extremes. People won't mostly suffer in silence like they do in Japan. I think there will also be a lot more violence against others too, not just themselves. Especially with all of our guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:43 PM
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This is absolutely true. Nations will be forced to take in more immigrants as well if they want to survive. Just because rich nations are pricing themselves out of having children doesn't mean humanity as a whole is dying out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:40 PM
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It does? I've yet to come across that content at all. I totally believe you though. I can't imagine why the manosphere would care though. I would think they would be pleased by it, so they don't have to take care of another man's child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:20 PM
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