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If you don't approach the hot women at a bar, someone else is going to. If what you're doing is working then why change it?
/r/seduction27/03/17 10:31 PM
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There are girls outside of your college, too. While religion is definitely a deal breaker for a lot of people, you shouldn't let that deter you. There are indeed shallow folks out there that will dislike you for such a small aspect of your personality, but that says more about them than about you. Always be honest. Telling someone you're not religious seems like you're beating around the bush. Perhaps say "I don't believe in a higher power/being". Edit: my college has an atheism club. Perhaps yo…
/r/seduction27/03/17 07:58 PM
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As far as the mental barriers (nervousness) goes, it helps to flip the situation on you. Would you appreciate her trying to brush against your arm? Would you have liked to kiss at the end of the date? Chances are if you say yes, she'd say yes too. Not 100% of the time will this work but it's a good start to where you're trying to be. To help streamline this process, try picking a date where you'll be active. Go hiking, bowling, putt putting, etc. The more you two are moving around, the higher ch…
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:22 PM
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Are you really going to be that busy after you graduate? Maybe, but chances are you'll have free time. Sounds like you're getting antsy about settling down. Bars aren't just for meeting people for a bang. I know many couples (some that have been married 20+ years) who met in bars. I met my ex girlfriend of 1.5 years in a bar. Seriously, you never know who you'll meet on any given night. Source: am a bartender. The cold approach at college could be related to the college experience (classes, majo…
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:03 PM
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Rings on certain fingers have stereotypes for the most part (besides a wedding band). Not every guy with a pinky ring is a mobster or a pimp, know what I'm saying?
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:59 AM
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I've seen that be done as a promise ring before. Not always the case, though.
/r/seduction27/03/17 03:51 AM
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You're right, I wasn't stating facts. Recording is a potential way to better yourself socially if it works for you. Though, from a legal standpoint, it could be bad news bears if someone didn't want to be recorded and posted to the internet assuming they knew how to find the videographer. I wouldn't want to potentially ruin someone's reputation or publicly embarass them for the sake of proving to Reddit I approached and talked to them.
/r/seduction20/10/16 11:08 PM
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Sounds like you're a booty-call man. Chill out on texting her so much, you're coming off as needy/insecure when you barrage her with messages and she doesn't respond.
/r/seduction20/10/16 07:59 PM
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I'm a young, 27-year-old guy I lol'd at the redundancy. Sorry! Simply put, the "ideal" bedroom is a clean one. Wash that cum sock that's been sitting in the corner for months, along with the rest of your laundry Make your bed Spray air freshener every once in a while (we smell nasty). I also invest in candles for night-of Have some decor that makes your room personal to your tastes (Bikini Babe Posters do NOT count) Condoms (lube?) Fresh towels nearby for cleanup Also, a lot of guys forget to cl…
/r/seduction20/10/16 07:53 PM
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Are you serious with the one you're with now? If so, this is lust and I think every man experiences it at some point. Go rub one out, the feeling will pass soon enough. If you aren't serious...then it's more of an open play. I'm not telling you to stop seeing her, but the feeling of "what if" may loom over you. Why not see both? Who knows? Magical girl might turn out to be trash while the one you're with now could end up being perfect for you. At the end of the day, you should do what's best for…
/r/seduction20/10/16 07:42 PM
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If the girls being recorded aren't actresses, then it's creepy in the sense that they haven't given consent to be recorded. Sure you can blur out a face but plenty of the videos don't. I know I wouldn't want people recording me and posting it on their youtube channel without me knowing about it, then getting obliterated by the internet in the comments. Side note: If OP is speaking his mind, it's the farthest thing from insecurity. Don't bash someone for thinking differently than you.
/r/seduction20/10/16 05:15 PM
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I'm a student too so I totally understand not being in that mindset immediately after class or studying. Talk with other people you know to "warm up" before you go out to game. Chat up with the staff at the coffee/lunch place you go to (if they aren't busy). Talk to a friend or relative on the phone for 5 minutes. Believe it or not, talking to myself works for me--not quite as much as talking to others though. Jamming out to loud music puts me in a good mood and therefore gets me talking as well…
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:34 PM
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Don't fuck hookers Wait a day to see if the pain fades. You might have just had rough sex or a reaction to the condom. Most STD's won't even show up on a test for at least a month after contact. If it continues to hurt, see a doctor.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:25 PM
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Granted, there are times when dating in general seem to be bad. Everyone gets busy. However, I do believe that you should try it any chance you get. What's the point in waiting until you've achieved X goal or Y accomplishment? Why not build up dating experienece and THEN accomplish more goals? What if you're never satisfied with your professional or personal goals? Just go for it. Dating is fluid with life...you should try as much as possible. If anything, a woman finds it attractive that you ha…
/r/seduction20/10/16 02:03 AM
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I know daygame means endless opportunites but I still feel weird trying to talk to a girl in the library or passing by a building and whatnot. How would day game be any different than meeting someone new in class or at a group/club? I actually prefer the anonymity of random public places. If you get rejected, there's not any tension because you'll likely never see them again. Perhaps you should try joining a new club or activity. Try expanding your social circle; cool people hang out with cool g…
/r/seduction18/02/16 11:01 PM
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Just wondering what your group interaction is like. I used to have a "Cory" in my social circle when I first began learning seduction. He would be like our trojan horse for conversations; if all went well, I/we would join in and most of the time we'd come away with multiple women. Perhaps try something like that?
/r/seduction18/02/16 10:52 PM
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Some men can get away with describing women negatively like that. However from what I've witnessed more often than not, those relationships don't last long and if they do they are very toxic while they exist. I can vouch that a respectful / gentlemanly approach works much better for me.
/r/seduction18/02/16 10:48 PM
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Do you ever do group approaches with your boy Cory?
/r/seduction18/02/16 10:42 PM
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I suppose by establishing my intentions clearly at the beginning, then I can't be in the wrong later on. The thing is that I don't act like I'm head-over-heels for the girl but I'm trying to balance that with keeping interest in her. You make some good points, I'll put them to use.
/r/seduction14/01/16 01:07 AM
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Looking at your frames, I could perhaps see where I'm going wrong. I'll hang with the girl 4-5 times a week. In my mind, though, if I say straight-up that I don't want a serious relationship then I expect that to stick but it doesn't.
/r/seduction14/01/16 01:03 AM
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Try and explain it more like you are casually dating rather than trying to sleep around. Just tell them you aren't sure which type of woman is right for you and you aren't ready to settle down. I'll give this a shot. Just seems like there's not a better way to say "I want to spend time with you and have fun but not be committed."
/r/seduction13/01/16 07:30 PM
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That's just confidence. Silence doesn't necessarily mean awkward, it can actually come off as being very strong if you play it correctly.
/r/seduction23/12/15 01:17 AM
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Solo game will make you stronger. Wingmen are awesome but most interactions happen without one anyway. To answer the question...going out solo or with a buddy/group are essentially the same thing. However when going out alone, you don't have someone as backup. Learn to be a lone wolf. In my experience, going out alone I aim for a lone girl. Less intimidating than a group..in the beginning at least.
/r/seduction23/12/15 12:40 AM
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This is interesting to me. I go to college in GA. Been to Athens but haven't gamed there (because I was in a relationship at the time). Haven't pursued seduction anywhere but Georgia. I've been to Atlanta and have decent luck there. I can totally relate to the women going after old money...it's a little ridiculous how much you can be perceived as insignificant if you're not in a fraternity or don't have a 2013 mustang. It doesn't phase me but I had assumed it was this way everywhere. Thanks for …
/r/seduction10/10/15 03:54 AM
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Atlanta
/r/seduction07/10/15 01:30 AM
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Georgia
/r/seduction01/10/15 11:19 PM
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Good point. Well, at this point you're determining if she's worth chasing after or not. Sounds like she's playing hard to get. I'd drop her like a fly tbh, if she really wants you she'll come back around.
/r/seduction29/09/15 10:24 PM
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It's awesome that you're "doing you". Have you tried incorporating seduction into every day life rather than going out with an intention to pick up women?
/r/seduction29/09/15 10:01 PM
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Straight up ask her what her intentions are, or even better: tell her what your intentions are. A snapchat in a thong is a blatantly obvious green light.
/r/seduction29/09/15 09:54 PM
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I think the joking kind of context is key. I don't think it should be used/taken seriously for a woman you don't intend to turn into something serious. The cheesy grin is a perfect way to give that subtle joking effect, and it usually illicits at least a smile or a giggle out of her.
/r/seduction29/09/15 09:48 PM
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Bartender checking in. Couple of pointers on the bar scene: It's awesome that you're getting out into the bars. They're super sociable places where everyone is there for the same thing: To wind down and have a good time. You mentioned you had social anxiety, just bear in mind that people go to bars to meet and converse with new people. You're never in the wrong for approaching a person/group and trying to join in on the conversation. Try checking out lots of different types of bars. You'll notic…
/r/seduction28/09/15 03:02 PM
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I'm a drinker. I think alcohol in moderation is fine. It's a well-known fact that "going to grab a drink" is typically a casual and relaxing date. Note the in moderation bit. I'm guilty of having gotten too tipsy (noticeably more than her) on multiple dates and thats something I'm actively improving on. It gets weird and definitely throws my game off knowing that I'm on a different level so to speak. I'm also a big proponent of at least learning the basics of seduction while sober. If you can le…
/r/seduction25/09/15 03:23 AM
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Expand on her answers a bit before asking another question. Instead of "ask-answer-ask-answer" aim for "ask-answer-elaborate-comment-ask" Or something. Have some input to the conversation.
/r/seduction24/09/15 09:32 PM
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First off, I thought your "Bc you send out of focus pics?" response was both smart and hilarious. When girls get short with me (or occasionally mad, like your situation) I simply don't respond back. It's not even a seduction thing...it's an "I don't tolerate assholes in general" thing. I wouldn't have given her the time of day for even a response back after she started going off on you. One of two things happen: either she'll respond back later and apologize or she won't respond back at all, in …
/r/seduction15/09/15 04:51 AM
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Saw a dramatic recreation in a documentary once. Must be true.
/r/seduction09/09/15 07:13 PM
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Sounds like the initial meeting went well but the texting game fell short. You may have come off as desperate during the phone convo. I personally hate texting, I would rather call to set up a first date and it usually has more success than setting up dates via text. When you replied "another time maybe" the little word "maybe" comes off as having a lack of confidence.
/r/seduction08/09/15 11:39 PM
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The external success probably makes the initial stages of attracting a woman a little easier, but it can be quickly debunked if the personality doesn't match. Continuing the car example, I can think of 3 guys off the top of my head that I know who have some badass rides (ages 21-25). Yeah, girls gawk over the car/truck but the conversation usually goes south (quickly) because their personalities and styles are rather dull.
/r/seduction08/09/15 02:43 AM
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IMO the transition can be as blunt as you want it to be, as long as you have some conversation topics brewing in your head. Imagine a scenario: you just finished a dick joke, she's giggling, so let her giggle a bit until she goes quiet but still has a smile on her face. Immediately change the subject to something more personal. Remember, your goal is to stand out from the other chumps that talk to these women daily. Anybody can ask "what's your major, what do you do for a living" etc. I suggest …
/r/seduction08/09/15 01:08 AM
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There's a difference between small talk and a conversation where you're getting to know someone. Perhaps you should be more humorous during the initial conversation, then transition to a slightly more serious / interested tone when you know both parties are interested and engaged.
/r/seduction07/09/15 05:46 PM
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Are you simply walking up to them and asking them to dance? If you keep getting turned down with such a blunt approach, go for a conversation first instead of jumping straight to it. I don't have much experience with frat parties, mostly because the greek life at my school is a joke. The times I have been to parties the greeks tend to stick with their own cliques more often than not, and the sorority girls tended to be more protective/cock-blockish. Hopefully your school is different. IMO Random…
/r/seduction06/09/15 02:59 PM
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Going through this now. Semi-seriously dated girl for 3 months and I'm recently single again. Right now I'm just talking to EVERYONE (the guy at the gas station, waiter/waitresses, classmates, coworkers, customers, etc.). Also my eye contact has been shit and I remember that being a huge part of my game initially, so I've been working on that. Trust me, it's been easier re-learning seduction rather than learning for the first time.
/r/seduction06/09/15 02:43 PM
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OP noooo....
/r/seduction04/04/15 07:28 PM
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I'll definitely utilize this. Thankfully I'm going to know about 25% of the people there so getting introduced shouldn't be difficult at all.
/r/seduction03/04/15 08:45 PM
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Keep building conversation in class when you see her next and tell her how you like to cook sometimes. If you can cook then invite her over for dinner one night. If you can't cook, look up a recipe online and pretend you know how to cook, then invite her over for dinner one night. Seriously. I'm in college too I know the being broke struggle but a bottle of wine and simple chicken/vegetable/grain dinner for 2 can be kept under $20. It's a near-guarantee that if the dinner goes well she'll want t…
/r/seduction03/04/15 08:42 PM
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I actually model a lot of my own game from observing black guys tbh. Their confidence is always through the roof and the "I don't give a fuck" attitude is on-point. Yeah, some white chicks just go for the black guys to begin with but, more often than not, it's the fact that lots of black dudes just have mad game.
/r/seduction03/04/15 08:32 PM
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Every girl KNOWS what "coming over to watch Netflix" means. Hey, she might already be down to commit to it. Popping that question this soon is probably moving too quickly for most women, however. I suggest setting up another date and, if it's going well, you could suggest coming over for netflix and DINNER (netflix and wine can be deciphered as "he wants to get me drunk and fuck me.") Also depends on your plans for this woman. Are you planning on strictly keeping it friendly or are you wanting t…
/r/seduction03/04/15 08:22 PM
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