PeteInq Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	How to get any girl you want, period. Good shit. Alfred Adler's concept of "social interest" is about exactly this kind of warm prosocial attitude. Very helpful.	/r/seduction	11/12/20 09:17 PM
2	No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experience In that case you are in a good position. Just get in touch with your desires and act through them. You will find that this will guide your actions (eye-contact, proximity etc).	/r/seduction	29/10/19 12:53 PM
2	No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experience Yes, you very likely can. The first step is to get out of the fixed mindset of being deficient. Game is a skill set that anyone can learn. For more on how to think in terms of skill and not in terms of inherency, look into NLP, "growth mindset".	/r/seduction	27/10/19 10:29 PM
2	No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experience Means you've got the platonic stuff covered, but are probably afraid to show desire and intent. Book of pook can help you with that. In short: feel the fear and do it anyway. With exposure it becomes easier.	/r/seduction	27/10/19 10:25 PM
1	Challenged men 30+, how to keep positive? I'd suggest picking up TM from Juline to get rid of those limiting beliefs.	/r/seduction	02/04/19 12:05 PM
3	My Pre TRP relationship vs my Post TRP Relationship Yes, the book is called "Radical Honesty". It is easiest to start experimenting with this over text. You might want to check this article: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/386027	/r/TheRedPill	15/08/18 01:02 AM
2	My Pre TRP relationship vs my Post TRP Relationship This needn't be true imo. As long as you are not needy, you can express your true personality. Even feeling down can be shared as long as one is not looking for approval. Brad Blanton goes in depth into this - how one can be oneself, not be a pussy, and at the same time be attractive.	/r/TheRedPill	14/08/18 09:34 AM
1	Feel your emotions, don't express them AEDP is a new and respected therapy that covers this. See "Living like you mean it". AEDP describes how feeling emotions 'till completion brings you to a "core state" of vitality, strength and warmth.	/r/TheRedPill	09/07/18 10:22 PM
12	Yet another story on how to get rid of your former soulmate Yes, this is key guys. As long as you are not trying to get any validation from her in any way when you are sharing you will be good. See also https://www.rsdnation.com/node/386027	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/17 02:16 PM
0	Yet another story on how to get rid of your former soulmate IMO it depends on how one asks for support. If one shares honestly without trying to get any form of validation, you will probably be good. Basically - as long as you view yourself as at least equal to her.	/r/TheRedPill	12/10/17 02:13 PM
2	How do I avoid pity whoring? Great self-honesty, man :) A couple of suggestions: 1) Give yourself the compassion you seek from others, and you will stop needing it. See Kristin Neff among others 2) Practice expressing yourself unconditionally - also the bad stuff - while letting go of trying to control the outcome or trying to get validation. This can be difficult due to anxiety of rejection, but can be handled if one first practices doing it over text online - preferably with a person you can risk to lose. The topics don't…	/r/seduction	06/09/17 02:58 PM
2	Girls find me extremely boring Sup man, chiming in. I've got some advice for you that you might find interesting. I agree on what is said on here about the problem is being needy and seeking validation. The solution is to "be oneself". So- how does one go about doing that? Anxiety ususally comes in the way. On the relational plane, you can start by not trying at all when you are texting girls. Treat them as you would a close buddy. See this RSD forum post for more. On the personal plane, you can start to acknowledge and own w…	/r/seduction	01/09/17 07:44 PM
1	Struggling with inner game and self confidence dude, check out self-compassion by kristin neff. :)	/r/seduction	16/08/17 09:11 AM
2	How to actually love yourself. you can look at it like this. Under a fight/flight response one possible response is "surrender" - submitting - giving in - you get it. This comes from a place of fear This is not the same as the acceptance talked about in this post. The post talks about self-love - coming from a place of love - not fear.	/r/seduction	16/08/17 08:33 AM
1	How to actually love yourself. sup man. I idenitfy with your position, so I want to share a couple of resources I've found in my search for self-love. Kristin Neff - Self-Compassion This book makes it possible to go thorugh the shame shift OP went through without waiting for a meltdown. This is the main resource I wanted to share. However, you might also want to check out these other resources: * Unlocking the emotional brain Good book on how new therapies can fix long-standing issues much faster then previously believed * Se…	/r/seduction	16/08/17 08:26 AM