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It is becoming a new norm! It's actually the largest group, in many countries, that uses assisted reproduction (donor/IVF). In some countries, like Sweden, there are so many single women who are becoming mothers through assisted reproduction that women who are in their mid 30's are told that they are too old, because they have to wait in line for years, according to a article on the BBC. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/av/world-europe-56859427
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 11:20 PM
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Exactly! They think that just because they've done something that requires minimal effort from males, they're something special. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2GR4ZE2YRFc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:28 AM
14

Exactly! It's human to make mistakes. It's the mistakes we make that we learn from. Those who have never made any mistakes have never learned anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:48 PM
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How to elongate the dating process when men try to speed it up? Love the suggestion! I would also love to hear that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:46 PM
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I would also love to hear more from single mothers' experiences! Especially SMbC, since there is no "stress", or feeling of "need" for a man. There is more relaxed dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:44 PM
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I know this sounds stupid, but mine is, I envision what he looks like sitting on the toilet, doing number two. That helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:43 PM
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This is the most interesting one that I have read: The Great Cosmic Mother: Rediscovering the Religion of the Earth by Monica Sjöö and Barbara Mor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 03:23 AM
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Reminds me of something I have seen here before. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hjkt1l/this\_is\_why\_its\_key\_to\_vet\_and\_follow\_fds\_this\_is/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:59 AM
1

Agreed. And seems like fewer and fewer of them do. I know it isn't normal, but I get a little kick out of it, knowing that they don't get to reproduce. I hope, and wish, for more women to become single mothers by choice. This means no patriarchal involvement, which means less patriarchal culture taught to the child, young fresh (as it has been checked by the receiving clinic) disease free sperm. These males who regard women as objects for their pleasure, for them to use, shouldn't be able to rep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:55 PM
8

Agreed, absolutely agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:39 PM
41

This is what always gets me. They have to put in a minimal effort, and they can't do that even! Or, they won't do that even!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:24 PM
95

Absolutely agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:18 PM
9

I know I'm weird, but this actually makes me glad. 😊 I don't mind LVM's having problems performing. Maybe this will make them stick to their internet habits and stay away from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:32 AM
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I'm just curious, is the thick accent disappearing in the south, especially as people go to uni's and such, or do young people as well as the old still talk in that heavy southern, "them flowers are perty nice", way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:27 AM
9

It's just beautiful to raise a child or children on one's own. The child will always have a safe haven, no matter whether males may come or go. There is no quarrelling with a male about how to raise the child, what boundaries to set, etc. Also, the child is never used as a weapon by a male who only wants to hurt, as much as possible. I think it is far better to raise a child/children on one's own rather than in couples. A HVM will see the child as part of the mother, and love the children as muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:14 PM
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Is this it? https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/g7ggz6/men_and_their_biological_clocks_why_you_shouldnt/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:22 PM
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She's right. The studies done on women having difficulties having babies in their forties have been done with male partners the same age as the women. Women who use sperm from clinics (meaning, from men in their early to mid twenties) rarely have problems getting pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:17 AM
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If males are born to lead, then why are women better leaders? 🤔 https://hbr.org/2019/06/research-women-score-higher-than-men-in-most-leadership-skills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:50 PM
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Men will always be selfish, according to science. I've realised that trying to change that, or hoping for that one unicorn, is impossible. https://www.insider.com/new-research-shows-women-are-more-generous-than-men-2017-10
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:30 AM
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And this has always been the case. So how many inventions that historically were made by women? We don't know. We just know that males historically have stolen what women have created and claimed it as their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:17 PM
5

Exactly! Men have a hunter instinct. They enjoy it if they have to prove themselves. That's just natural to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:06 PM
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That's far too kind. I would only have given half that. Too obvious. Maybe not to men though?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 09:38 PM
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Exactly! Agreed! Males have it easy. Especially since so many are lv. Just put in a little bit of an effort and they'll stand out. That's all they have to do today. Yet that is too much to ask for, it would seem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:42 PM
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I tend to get s*xually explicit messages when on OLD. And no, I don't ask for it. For a long time I thought I did, by doing something wrong. But asking males on a debateforum I was told, "we have to do so, otherwise we end up in the friendzone". I'm thinking that with that kind of talk and pictures so early on you'll never end up in the "relationship-zone" either. I've given up on OLD. It seems to me like HVM doesn't go online to look for someone. Smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:45 PM
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Thank you, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:47 PM
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They banned r/banfemalehatesubs!!!! What the he...???!?!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:43 AM
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Be careful! I find that I've just grown, not bitter, but yeah, a bit bitchy when it comes to pickmeishas. I just don't have the patience any more. Which is a bad thing, because I have to be kind and show humanity when talking to people who's views I want to change. It's impossible to change someone's view by being, harsh, attacking. I do that too much. But it's important that they hear it. I think you did a good job at explaining and being friendly. I upvoted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:59 PM
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"i was not attacking you at all—i was more interested in discussion" You can start off a debate without attacks. You didn't. You felt you had to insinuate that I didn't care about victims of abuse. You are still trying to frame it like that. Look, you felt attacked because you're a pickmeisha, there's no need for you to get all defensive because of it. You can feel sorry for pickmeishas all you want, but this is not the forum for that. If you want to feel sorry for pickmeishas, instead of helpin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:12 PM
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All women are likely to become victims of abuse. Not being a pickmeisha doesn't prevent that risk. " i'm not attacking you" "i was pointing out a bit of cognitive dissonance" That's definitely not an attack. No no, not at all. You defend the pickmeishas who in turn defend and support the abusers, while claiming you feel sorry for the victims of abuse. Don't you see your own c.d. there? You just had to attack me for not cheering this pickmeisha on, didn't you? Why is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:48 AM
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I do feel sorry for victims of abuse. I wasn't unclear there. Why are you trying to pretend I was? You can feel sorry for this pickmeisha without attacking me. How about that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:32 AM
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I know I'll be hated for saying this, but meh. I don't feel sorry for her. She's chosen this all by herself. I do feel sorry for victims of abuse. But she's just doing this to herself. It'll be an expensive lesson, but she'll learn. Some have to fall in order to know the ground is there. Some have to fall several times to know the ground is there. Some don't have to fall in order to know the ground is there. Some never learn, no matter how many times they fall and fall. I don't feel sorry for he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:25 AM
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This is what you call a "red flag".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:35 PM
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If you let yourself be worried about men, you'll just turn in to a pickme. Don't give them advice, don't help them. Otherwise you'll just start feeling sorry for them, and they'll use that against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:23 PM
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If that would have been true, he would have failed miserably. FDS has taught women not to accept men who don't make an effort, and it has actually taught some men to make an effort. There have been a few men in here, trying to masquerade as women. There is just something that doesn't feel right when men do that, try to write as women. So no, not true. Just a sad little man who can't get any, and is upset because of it. So he tries to troll instead and take his anger out on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:52 PM
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It's so easy to hide cheating in other places on the mobile that I wouldn't take this as confirmation of "not cheating". No, I won't explain, there are prying eyes about in here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:51 PM
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Of course! Take care, sis! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 06:20 PM
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There is a myth that women do this to help those who can't have children themselves. Just like there is a myth that prostitutes choose to be prostitutes out of free will, because it makes them happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:59 PM
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I spoke with someone from the Ukraine today. She told me this has been on the media there, but no politicians in the Ukraine care. Also, there are a lot of people in the Ukraine without a job, without any money, who have children, who therefor have to go without food. When you see your own child go without food you will do almost anything to get that child food. So this is not done "out of kindness", but because the women are desperate. But it's not something done voluntarily. The whole, "helpin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:37 PM
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Know your worth. Know your worth. And never ever be afraid to dump a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:31 AM
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Reminds me of, "tu es fotu", by In-grid. "Tu m'as promis d'être ta reine, j'ai eu pour sceptre un balai" "You promised me I'd be your queen, but you gave me a sweeping broom as a sceptre"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 08:58 PM
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"But he told me it was by accident, he didn't mean to, it just happened, he actually loves me after all". I've tried talking a pickemeisha from a really bad relationship with a really really LVM. She started personal attacks against me instead, and all the abuse she had told me he put her through? I just didn't understand him, he was ACTUALLY a really loving and kind person who was really sorry. When a pickmeisha is in hard denial there is no helping them. They have to see for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:06 PM
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Extinction. Not of men as a whole, but of these LVMs. Just like nature intended. Men who can't satisfy a woman will not bring their genes on. Simple nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:01 PM
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"The word in my language for a woman getting married is synonymous with imprisonment". Greek. The language is Greek. Also, "marriage" is a curse word in Greek. Not joking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 10:13 PM
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😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 07:51 PM
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I don't mean to be rude, but here's a post that has some great answers to your question. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fdhfnd/how_to_answer_questions_about_your_old_dating/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:57 PM
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Sure love exists! The strongest love there is is the love between a mother and her child. This is the love we grow up with and know, from we are children. This is the love we search for in a partner. Which can never be as strong... You're quiet right, this is my experience as well. The love we search in a partner is more dependent on chemical reactions as a result from feeling safe, cared for, close, touched, respected, loved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:20 PM
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Oh, there is a lot of "else". I just find it hilarious that his meat only diet didn't cure him, as he claimed that others who suffered from depression was at fault, for not eating meat only diet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:39 PM
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He has sold people this claim that if you are depressed you just need to be on a meat only diet and you'll be fine. In other words, "if you aren't fine, happy, feeling great, it's your fault because you haven't been on a meat-only diet". https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/stephaniemlee/jordan-peterson-daughter-mikhaila-meat-carnivore-diet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:27 PM
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Yeah, Jordan Peterson is an LVM as well. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DTwEFa5NW2k
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:44 PM
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I can't help but wonder if it's nature's way of preventing... men's sperm age like milk, and goes out of date. If they still manage to impregnate a woman after 40, there's a large risk of complications.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 02:06 AM
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Men, both LVM and HVM, have one focus, one goal, in life, one thing they live for: to spread their genes. The difference in HVMs is that they have learnt to focus on more things in life than just their natural purpose. So it's not the only thing on their mind 24/7. This is why men become pornsick, and women don't. Men have a natural need that they can use porn to satisfy. If men didn't have that natural need, they wouldn't pursue women. If they didn't, they wouldn't improve themselves, try to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 02:03 PM
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It's better to have the baby first, and then find a man who can also be a social father. Having a child on your own, as a solo mother by choice, means that if it doesn't work out, the relationship, if he turns out to be a LVM, then the child will not be used as a weapon to hurt you by. And the child will always have a safe harbour, a safe place. No matter what. My experience (with men) is that it's far far far better to have a child on your own, before you find a man. That also helps you vet men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 01:26 PM
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Men's purpose in life is to spread their genes. That's all they live for. That's why dick is so abundant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:04 AM
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This is why you stay far away from LVM's. Vet, vet, vet. http://whisper.sh/stories/8ab04371-a6b5-4d3f-8498-370e9e7aae17
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:59 AM
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When men don't contribute, but expect women to be their slaves (unpaid work), separation follows as soon as the woman can manage on her own. When men do their part, there is a far less rate of divorce. Quote: "Her research in Sweden found that divorces after promotions were most likely in couples where the wife was younger than her husband by a larger margin and took a bigger share of parental leave (which, in Sweden, partners legally have the right to split evenly between them). Couples who wer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:46 PM
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Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:04 PM
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I just have to... Of course he's looking at her breasts! Of course. -_- Otherwise, I agree with what is already said. I can't help who or what I'm attracted to. It's not a choice. I can choose not to act on who or what I'm attracted to, but I can't choose to be attracted to... say Trump. Attraction is not a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 02:15 PM
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I would have responded, "I guess Freud was right after all about gay men seeing penises everywhere in everything".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:00 AM
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Just go to https://www.reddit.com/r/DarkTriadWomen/, hit "sign up", and you'll get a message telling you what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:04 PM
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The story I read a long time ago was that he was with a friend who tried out as a model for Mr Clean, never thought of modelling himself though. But the people there thought he looked great, so they asked if he'd mind to model as Mr Clean. And that's the story I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:12 PM
1

Agreed. Also, random facts, Mr Clean (google if you don't know) was actually a fireman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:14 PM
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There is a reason to why these men are attracted to jobs where they have power over others. It's not because they care so much for others and feel the urge to be helpful, that type of men become nurses (male nurses can be quiet sexy, btw). I live in Europe, and I've talked with a few women here who went to the police academy here. The one thing these men talk about is training, training and muscle building. What to eat to build muscles, how to build muscles, and so on. It was like this 10 years …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:11 PM
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There is a difference between following, and being led. You follow of your own free will. You are led, no matter whether you will it or not. I don't mean to attack you or criticise you. It's just, there is a difference between what is your free will and what isn't. He shouldn't be the one telling you to submit to him. But going to him and feeling safe around him, with him, is different from feeling small around him, being told by him what to do, how to act. I don't know if that makes sense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 12:36 AM
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Definitely true. And they enjoy humiliating women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:51 AM
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I agree 100%. Men have their prostate, so they enjoy being penetrated. This is why they don't understand how much it hurts for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:56 AM
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I don't think it's that video games, or porn, make men bad, I think it titillates men because of their nature. Especially LVM men. I have seen this very close, just like she has. And there is no stopping it. I think point 5. is very true, especially about their nature. Of course, the obligatory, "not all men". And this is why vetting is so important. Why it is important to be selective, choosy. So these men do not continue to ruin families, women, children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 05:54 AM
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You have to un-learn that you have to put everyone else first. we are both on the executive board of a relatively small club at our college Then I hope, for his sake, that he stays civil about it. If he can't, if he acts immature about your break up, he doesn't belong with other adults. I know this is hard to think, since you are used to put everyone else first. But you need to learn to think like this. Or you will always put others first and that means... put yourself last. Don't do that. You d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:06 PM
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"My penis is special"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 03:32 PM
10

That is what I was thinking as well. That, and men regard women as objects. You can not respect an object. They also hate it when your education is better than theirs. Ask me how I know LOL How do you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 06:29 AM
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Men: "Bwaaaaahhhh :'( You don't want to f..k me, that's because you are a trash woman with trash values" Also men: "Bwaaaaahhhh :'( You f..ked me, that's because you are a trash woman with trash values" You can never win with LVM men. Never. They will just tear your confidence apart and suck you dry of any joy of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 01:20 AM
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It's a man. There is nothing to get. It's wrong, in his mind. Well, it's wrong - unless he's doing it. I'm serious, this is how a lot of men work. Yes, red flag, can't handle impulses, LVM, clearly. So the outrage is real, because he wants to be the man who degrades his love of his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 08:38 PM
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Exactly! If you made a mistake 4 years ago, and it dawns on you, then it's as simple as... You have made a mistake 4*365 days ago. Do you want to make the same mistake tomorrow? The day after that? The day after that again? Just because you made a mistake in the past doesn't mean you have to make the same mistake every day for ever. If he doesn't want to change for the benefit of the child/-ren, then you have to. #KickHimOut2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 08:29 PM
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I never did give her any leeway. TL;DR - if the t-shirt had a different message the situation would have been different. You are trying to start a fight. If you do go on with that I'll block you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 01:15 PM
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Be that as it may, the t-shirt isn't. If the text said something along the lines of, "You have to be a socialist for me to be willing to suck you off", it would have put the choice in the hands of the owner of the t-shirt. As the text stands now it seems like the person isn't choosing, just in a state of despair and therefore doesn't have a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:23 AM
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There are several things that happens to men when they do that. One is the well known strangling of their dicks. They use so much force and abuse their dicks so much, in order to cum, that there is no way for them to be able to feel much, if anything, from regular sex. But the second problem is also that their brain gets... oxytocin, I think it is called? The reward system that is also bonding, from watching porn, watching women be abused. Which makes it impossible for them to be turned on by re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 03:17 AM
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I'm pretty sure it's the no-part he doesn't understand. Men usually hear their voice in their head talk over and louder than others around them. That's why there are men who think no means yes, if he wants it to. Most of them take it to mean maybe, like this man does. This is why we have to tell them over and over and over and over again that no means no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:57 PM
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I don't think he is asexual. If he uses anabolic steroids, he will most likely have acquired erectile dysfunction. Anabolic steroids is artificial testosterone. A man who uses much of that will have his balls shrivelled up, since the body is trying to stop the overproduction of the testosterone it sees. This will also have the side effect of loss of sexual appetite. The funny thing is, they do it to make themselves more attractive. But in the process they kill their own ability to have any offsp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 01:13 AM
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TheOGJammies: Wow, you have a lot of energy, taking on all these haters. You are doing a great job! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 11:10 PM
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Also, when a defence comes like that, without any accusation against him, he is trying to deny what he himself is thinking. He is thinking it because he knows it's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 01:45 PM
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For two reasons. One, as several have mentioned here, because these men go on the red pill forums and read all about "how to make women beg for your schlong". And they actually believe that crud. Two, because men don't reflect on what their own errors or mistakes are. This is why they think it's women's fault for not choosing such perfect and without blemishes men as them selves. They only think about what they want, not about what a woman wants and how to be attractive for women. I think it's t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:45 AM
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No idea. The post has been removed on my end as well. The poster seems to think there is some way around it; there isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 06:25 AM
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They like to feel superior, "strong". (yeah yeah, I know, "not all men!", but quiet a lot)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 08:18 AM
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Exactly my impression as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 01:44 AM
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Yeah, no, I decided from pretty young that I was never ever going to try to "save" a man. I hate it when women play dumb in order to try to make themselves attractive to men who are easily scared by independent women. Those type of men are usually a-holes. They're projects that will never change, just suck the life force out of you. I stay well clear of men who lack in the empathic department. Maybe some can change. But most will suck you dry of any jeux de vivre you have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 12:58 AM
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Never so grim it isn't useful for something. Meaning, it makes it far easier to discern which men don't have empathic ability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 12:29 AM
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Exactly! The problem is that not everything is supposed to breed to the next generation. The problem is that monogamy and oppression of women have made it so men don't have to compete or prove that they are breeding material. This has only turned out poorly, not just for women, but even for men. These men prove that. Genes like those these men have are supposed to be weeded out, not be bred to the next generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:55 PM
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And then they become bitter and think that, "women have too much freedom", "feminism has gone too far", etc. They don't reflect on how this sounds on the other end. And the only people they turn to are other bitter men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 04:00 PM
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He is trying to hurt you, get to you where it hurts. Don't give him the satisfaction! Don't respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 03:27 PM
7

I don't have much to add, because I think you have gotten some brilliant replies already. But just this small thing, believe in your intuition. If it feels bad/wrong, it's because your female intuition is trying to tell you something. We have that sense because our forewomen have had to rely on it for thousands of years. Not always that you can put words on what is wrong, you just feel it. That's your intuition. Trust it! Use it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 10:50 AM
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When just looking for sex, and that's all people use tinder for, honestly, I'm looking for someone who knows his stuff, who can give me a good time, who doesn't just jackhammer, who looks good as well. It's part natural, the best adapted gets offspring. It's part what's good for me. Women have had it really bad for thousands of generations. I don't feel sorry for men for the simple sake of not getting any. Complaining about that is just laughable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 07:13 AM
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Exactly my experience as well! Men, far too many, do not self reflect. A lot of men are even touchy when it comes to joking around about him in any way that can be interpreted as negative (even when exaggerating so it should be very obvious it's just a joke, like, "no no, I don't think you can handle both bags, you're far too weak, I don't think you can handle more than one"). I don't think it is just cultural though. Because a lot of our culture, no matter where you are or grow up, consists of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 02:35 AM
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The uglier they are, the nastier and more bitter they are. In my experience, if you try to reply kindly to them, in order to dismiss them, they become bitter and vile. Then they block you. Because you don't want to play with their pee pee's. I don't think men reflect on their own self. Not on their looks, or how they act. But they sure do love to judge women on anything and everything! Which is probably why they all message women who they have no chance on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:56 PM
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Men wants an experienced virgin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:02 PM
1

Precisely what I thought I'd comment as well! Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 04:32 PM
1

"She"? Post history says: " I (m19) made it seem I played a close friend (f17). 📷 So let’s start off, it was a while back when I (m19) got somewhat intimate with a girl (f17) I knew from church. " https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/d1obd5/i_m19_made_it_seem_i_played_a_close_friend_f17/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 04:00 PM
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Thank you sis! Exactly! Also, we do not manipulate (make men do something they do not want to do). We'd prefer it if men were frank about their intentions. If they do not want to pay for dinner on a date, that's fine! But we don't want to date a man who doesn't want to pay for dinner on a date. Men are still free to say no to paying, and we are free to say no to dates. As long as people are open about it, no one is being manipulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 12:15 PM
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Darwin's law says that the best adapted will reproduce. The thing is, women are adapting. Also, it's us women who choose who to mate with, who gets to reproduce. Men don't choose, men just want to put their wieners wherever they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:51 PM
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You mods are responding so quickly to all the reports. I have just two big words to all of you: THANK YOU! You have no idea how much I, and probably many more, appreciate it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:21 PM
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Sometimes it's hard not to. https://i.ytimg.com/vi/3Nzk_EZOfs0/maxresdefault.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:19 PM
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Same here. Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 03:17 PM
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If it looks like a moid (nick), swims like a moid (post history) and quacks like a moid (the post) then most likely it is a moid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 01:01 PM
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https://i.ytimg.com/vi/3Nzk_EZOfs0/maxresdefault.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 11:40 AM
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You mean, I should look up research done in the 50's, 60's and 70's? Back in the time when there was a stigma for children to grow up with divorced parents? No thank you. The "research" of that era was heavily skewed. Here, have some more modern research! Oh, and since you called it "bullshit", I threw in some Oxford too. https://phys.org/news/2011-01-kids-mom.html https://www.huffpost.com/entry/lesbians-child-abuse-0-percent_n_781624 http://www.startribune.com/male-caregivers-linked-to-two-thir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 10:57 AM
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Scientific research has shown, time and time again, that children are just as well off, if not slightly better off, with a single mother as with two parents. Not so strange, since these are children that have been wanted and loved since long before they were born, or even created. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/07/160704082717.htm https://www.marketwatch.com/story/research-shows-single-moms-are-raising-kick-ass-kids-2018-03-20 https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/07/17070509533…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 09:13 AM
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A man who loves a woman will love her children as a part of her. And on the contrary, men do want single mothers. I know quiet a few single mothers by choice, none of them have any problem attracting quality men who want to be a part of their families. I would never call you a man, though. So who this "we" you are talking of is, I have no idea. https://www.telegraph.co.uk/family/relationships/why-men-secretly-want-to-settle-down-with-single-mums-like-me/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 10:57 PM
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Yet another moid posting his wet dream of "what women are really like".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:51 AM
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You are totally right! And that's what we teach here as well. When the relationship turns into something stable, something serious, that is another matter. But if you want to rid yourself of these type of "take take take" men before there is a serious relationship you have to screen them and stand firm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:42 AM
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The intention is that if you find a man who is willing to give, rather than take take take, there is a far greater chance that he will be helpful, understanding, supportive. Men who just want to take take take won't be. And that type of men would never pay on a date. So it's a way of filtering out this type of men. There is no ill intention behind it. And this is how these men are using you: they make you think this is evil, that women shouldn't have the right to be treated equally well as men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:26 AM
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And that's what people on this subreddit are saying as well. Which is why people here don't accept men just taking. Men are taught that they can just take, demand, not make an effort, and women are taught that we have to sacrifice ourselves to help the men, to always support the men. What we are saying here is that we don't have to take all that "take take take", from men. That we have an equal right to get as well, that we don't have to just give.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:21 AM
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Hey, sis? You are being used by the men. I see a few profiles coming here from that subreddit, to troll us. Tell the men to come here themselves instead of sending you and other women here. Don't let them manipulate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 12:58 AM
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You're right about that. But they still only had to prove themselves to another man, never the woman they were interested in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 12:26 AM
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Post history. Look at the users post history. One comment degrading a woman and one post, where he lets it all out about his p..n fantasy. And then this post. So obviously he is in love with a man that is shorter than him, and he loves to wear high heels while looking pretty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 06:26 AM
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The problem is, males have had it easy for centuries. They have just been able to pick a woman and say, "I want to marry her". As long as the father of that woman approved, he could. She had no say in the matter. So men have not had to prove themselves, which means that bad behaviour among men have not been screened. This is what we see today, a lot of moids don't know how to court a woman, how to take women out on dates. How to be interesting. There are a lot of men who are boring on dates. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 06:13 AM
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I think you should be open about your sexuality. If you are attracted to another man, then give in to your feelings. And I'm sure you look really pretty in high heels, for a man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 06:02 AM
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It's still better with a social father, a man who steps up to take on the father role, than to be attached to a man for 18 years. Then he is the father because he does a good job as a father, not because you don't have a choice. Being a donor and being a father is not the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 04:13 AM
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Thank you! You are too kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 01:50 AM
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Is it possible to have some "pre-check" of posts before they are let through here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 01:48 AM
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Regarding the downvotes, it's not "us", it's a brigade of moids that hate this sub. ALL posts get downvoted here. It's just that there aren't enough upvotes to counter their brigading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 01:44 AM
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Translated: "which subreddits should I visit?". Just so you know, it's not because I care enough about your comment that I translate it, it's because I care about my sisters who might be fooled in to thinking your comment has some value that I'm translating it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 01:23 AM
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If he's 39, then yes, you should divorce him. Considering that you're only a freshman. https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/cvmwkn/first_day_of_high_school/ey53i6j/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 12:00 PM
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This is truly empowering and inspiring! Thank you! Link: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-7599771/Teen-girls-branded-awe-inspiring-dancing-abusive-voicemails-exes-TikTok.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 05:08 AM
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When I was younger I believe men and women to be pretty equal, just with different bodies. But I've come to see more and more that men have a different nature than women. To men, sex is important because they have an urge to have sex with as many women as possible. If they don't have sex for several years they grow impatient, angry, bitter, dangerous. Don't be kind. Kindness only eats at you. You will always feel that standing up for yourself is something bad, if you are kind. I say straight out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 05:06 AM
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Only to men who don't treat women with respect. I am sure that if you start treating women with respect someone will give you a hug some day. https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/dk83zr/cozy_christmas_sex_is_the_best_sex/f4bhg8q/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 04:15 AM
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If you want to know how we know you're a moid, look at the next sentence. You were mansplaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 03:43 AM
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We believe men can, that men are capable. If a man wants to be boyfriend material he has to show some respect for women. A woman with self respect does not want a man who does not respect her, who does not build her up, support her. There is nothing hateful in that. Claiming that men should not have to respect women and should be able to demand, is hateful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 09:19 PM
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I hate Pickme's. They ruin so much for us women. Rather than have a standard... they have none. They teach men that it's ok to be abusive, to not show respect for a woman, that he can get away with so much crap. And then men never learn, since they don't have to. And so they never change. I have no sympathy for Pickme's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 09:04 PM
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Also, the way they think of a prostitute is a desperate woman who will do anything for him to give her some money. So that in his mind, he can rationalise it with, "she's actually desperate for me". In psychology there is a term for that: projecting. ;) These men have been taught that they don't have to put in an effort. They think they deserve, just because they have a dick. I just find it laughable how childish their minds work. I think it will change though. But that change doesn't happen ove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 09:11 PM
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That's an odd way of ageing. Because in this comment you are at least 16. https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/cmgjb8/ok_so/ew23mq7/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 08:55 PM
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It's not about manipulating (making someone do something they do not want to do), it's about finding quality men (men who do want to put you first, who do respect you, who do want to please you).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 08:34 PM
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And that's the thing. Once you see that, you can't "unsee" it. That's the natural order. Women create life. Man comes from woman, not the other way around. Men are created by women, and when asking men to envision a pregnant woman, or a mother with a child, they always envision themselves as the child, never as the mother. That's their natural place, serving women, not the other way around. Men are created by women to serve women. When men are put in the role of serving, they are calm, at peace,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 08:24 PM
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MaLe EmPoWeRmEnT https://www.huffpost.com/entry/republicans-oppose-violence-against-women-act_n_5ca68295e4b047edf957b5e1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 07:10 AM
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Research shows that sons of single mothers by choice do turn out much better than boys raised in a mother-father-household. If you're in for a good read on the topic, I'd suggest Peggy Drexler's "Raising boys without men" (google it, it's a cheap, but good, book). ​ Quote: Q: Do boys raised by single mothers develop more "womanly" traits such as expressing themselves better, being more in touch with their emotions? You use the term "head-and-heart boys." What does that mean? A: The boys I interv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 05:31 AM
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Where their delusional thoughts come from is hard to say. Not sure if it is cultural or genetical. But moids tend to become violent if they find a woman sexy and she turns him down. That's not just experience, that's science. https://www.psypost.org/2019/04/study-provides-new-insights-into-why-some-men-behave-aggressively-toward-women-who-reject-them-53592
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 05:08 AM
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I think so too. We live in a patriarchy, where women are conditioned to think it's important to cater to men's egos. But I also see more and more women seeing their own worth and understanding that they don't have to. I think things will change very much in the next 20-30 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 05:03 AM
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We don't have to turn to bonobos for that. We do have matriarchal societies around still today. And yea, they are a peaceful society without violence. https://www.spiegel.de/international/zeitgeist/the-mosuo-matriarchy-men-live-better-where-women-are-in-charge-a-627363.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 04:24 AM
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Yeah, they are doing research in to it. But wars don't last for centuries. So I don't think wars are the reason. Also, quite possible that rich men had far more children than not rich men. But the reason they were rich might have been because of better skills, i.e. something to do with the genes. So, that does not rule out the possibility that it might simply have been that they were high quality men. Quote: “What we’ve found is that there are significant differences in the history of human male…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 02:52 AM
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Looking at your post history: you're a moid. You must have gotten lost somewhere, because you don't belong here. Run back to MGTOW and live your miserable lonely life over there. Bye bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 02:42 AM
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Good post, sis! I would also like to add, science has found that historically, women used to only mate with high quality men. Meaning, much fewer men than women had offspring. Because, well, the bad ones were seeded out. https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success There is a natural need to protect against pregnancy when dealing with less than high quality men. https://www.ctvnews.ca/lifestyle/women-are-less-likely-to-care-about-condoms-with-attractive-men-study-1.4435103
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 02:37 AM
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It's odd, I think. Because, all men want to have sex. Yes, all. Not all men want a relationship, but all men want sex. It's in their genes, they want to spread their genes as much as possible. So you would think that men who didn't get any would improve themselves, make the best of themselves, so they'd be as attractive as possible. Instead they turn in to this vile, bitter, resentful, red shining beacon, warning every woman miles away to stay clear of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 09:54 PM
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Funny, it's never the men who have sex who complain. I wonder why that is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 09:22 PM
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Don't have them, period. It's just a way for men to manipulate you. And men will manipulate you if they find that you have a crush on them. Secondly, crushes, the feelings, die after a while. Find another man, have sex with him, and find a new, same thing, and your crush will be over in no time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 08:50 PM
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I feel the same way. My only advice is to get several quality dicks and rotate. That's what I do. I had the problem of developing crushes on my FWBs, when I used to only have one. But I have found that if I avoid having sex with the same man twice, I stay clear of all that. So get several quality dicks and rotate, is my advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 08:46 PM
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Also, research shows that it's harmful for children to grow up with a poor excuse for a father. There is no harm to children growing up without a father. Children actually do better both in school and in life, growing up without a father. Which might seem odd at first, but considering that there is no bickering regarding how to raise the child, there are no conflicting rules ("dad said I could stay up until 10!"), and not the least, the child forms a stronger and more loving bond with the mother…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 02:00 PM
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It is always better to have a child/children through sperm donor rather than with a man. And I'd advice that to anyone, even in their 20's, who wants children. Having a child with a man means you are locked to that one man for 18 years, minimum. You lose a lot of freedom if you have children with a man over having a child/children on your own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 09:50 PM
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Because women have choices, and those choices does not include them. That makes them hateful and resentful. They want the "good old days" back, when they had all the choices and women had none.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 09:45 PM
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The impression I got from browsing a bit of that was that they are doing their best to convince themselves that it's not their fault that they don't have any girlfriends or wives, so it's a coping mechanism. They are just looking for reasons to hate, so they don't have to blame themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 09:44 PM
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Yeah, go on, tell yourself that, if that makes you feel any better. I know quiet a few women who have chosen to become single mothers by choice. None of them have any problems finding men who are interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/19 12:50 AM
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I would add, don't have a baby with a man. Married, or not, don't do it. It binds you to that one person for 18 years. It is far better to take charge of your own life, and have a baby/babies through a donor. That way, if you partner up with a man and it doesn't work out, the child won't be used as a weapon, and the child will always have a safe harbour, always. And yes, be clinical about it. You are searching for the best genes you can find for your child/children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/19 02:22 AM
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