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On and off over the past several hours, I've read through your post history after seeing this post. What a ride that was. I'll offer the following points in no particular order: I don't think she cheated either. You really glossed over your wife being raped at gunpoint by an ex, and you don't seem to realize how jumpy that would make her about things like you pushing for a hard no, forcibly hugging her when she gets out of hand or unexpectedly slapping her on the ass with a belt. There's a reaso…
/r/askMRP26/10/21 08:00 PM
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OYS #8 - Written Tuesday, October 26, 2021 Mid-30s, 5'9", ~183 lbs, ~23% body fat, not married, no kids It's been a couple of months since my last OYS. I got sick with what I thought was a sinus infection since I usually get one in late summer/early fall each year, but I just got worse and worse, so I'm pretty sure it was COVID. I'm vaccinated, but it put me on my ass for a few weeks to say the least. I've spent the past few weeks since then just catching up on things and working out 2-3 times/w…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 07:11 PM
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I read through this post, your last few OYS posts and the post you made about folding laundry. It looks like you've figured out that most or all of your major problems come down to seeking validation from external sources. NMMNG is probably the piece of basic RP-recommended reading that addresses this dynamic the most, but I feel that it does sugar-coat the severity of the situation and its causes to a great degree. Subsequently, WISNIFG is useful for other reasons, which I'll touch on below. Yo…
/r/askMRP12/08/21 11:26 PM
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OYS #7 Mid-30s, 5'9", 181.8 lbs, 23.3% body fat (navy), not married, no kids Lifts: Squat 135 lb 5x5, Bench 105 lb 4x6, OHP 70 lb 5x5 and various others Reads: WISNIFG, NMMNG, Practical Female Psychology, Mindful Attraction Plan, various others Physical I'm down 11.4 lbs in seven weeks. It might be a bit more than that considering the massive dump I took about 15 minutes after I weighed myself. I have a pretty bad sinus infection right now, and being sick like this just absolutely drains me. I'v…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/21 01:09 AM
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I want to be this passionate about something else Make a list of shit you want to try. Go down the list, trying the different shit until you find it.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 03:37 PM
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What's up man? You've got a lot to learn, so I'll just point out a few things that may be helpful in no particular order. Make sure that you read WISNIFG (When I Say No, I Feel Guilty) as well. NMMNG gives more macro-level advice on what has happened from a 50,000-foot view while WISNIFG gives more micro-level advice on how to deal with individual interactions. Stop talking about what you're doing with her. Stop threatening to move out, stop talking about how you don't deserve what she's put you…
/r/askMRP03/08/21 03:36 PM
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OYS #6 - Written Monday, August 2, 2021 Mid-30s, 5'9", 183.0 lbs, ~25.0% body fat (navy), not married, no kids Lifts: Squat 125 lb, Bench 95 lb, Rows 85 lb, OHP 70 lb, DL 175 lb 1x5 (all 5x5 unless otherwise marked); also doing lat pulldowns 71 lb 3x10, hamstring curls 70 lb 3x10, ab machine 50# 3x10 and dumbbell curls 20# 3x10 Reads: WISNIFG, NMMNG, Practical Female Psychology, Mindful Attraction Plan, various others Business and Finance Things went better this week than they have in probably t…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 03:28 PM
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I used to wonder why the men here were so hard on new posters when I would randomly browse through once in a while. Now that I've actually been watching regularly for a bit, I completely understand.
/r/askMRP31/07/21 09:04 PM
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Thank you for that. It pretty much comes down to what I expected, but that was a good read talking about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/21 11:08 AM
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Could you elaborate a bit or give me a link to where someone else has already elaborated? I searched the askmrp and marriedredpill subs and didn't see anything about it. I've seen a few vague comments here already about it not being recommended without any explanation. Just curious, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 08:53 PM
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OYS #5 Mid-30s, 5'9", 184.6 lbs, 16" neck, 39" waist, 25.0% body fat (navy), not married, no kids Lifts: Squat 115 lb, Bench 90 lb, Rows 80 lb, OHP 65 lb, DL 165 lb 1x5 (all 5x5 unless otherwise marked); also doing lat pulldowns 71 lb 3x10, hamstring curls 60 lb 3x12, ab machine 50# 3x10 and dumbbell curls 20# 3x10 Reads: WISNIFG, NMMNG, Practical Female Psychology, Mindful Attraction Plan, various others Business and Finance The past few weeks, I've been bitching and moaning about getting two t…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 02:26 PM
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OYS #5 Mid-30s, 5'9", 184.6 lbs, 16" neck, 39" waist, 25.0% body fat (navy), not married, no kids Lifts: Squat 115 lb, Bench 90 lb, Rows 80 lb, OHP 65 lb, DL 165 lb 1x5 (all 5x5 unless otherwise marked); also doing lat pulldowns 71 lb 3x10, hamstring curls 60 lb 3x12, ab machine 50# 3x10 and dumbbell curls 20# 3x10 Reads: WISNIFG, NMMNG, Practical Female Psychology, Mindful Attraction Plan, various others Business and Finance The past few weeks, I've been bitching and moaning about getting two t…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 02:25 PM
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OYS #5 Mid-30s, 5'9", 184.6 lbs, 16" neck, 39" waist, 25.0% body fat (navy), not married, no kids Lifts: Squat 115 lb, Bench 90 lb, Rows 80 lb, OHP 65 lb, DL 165 lb 1x5 (all 5x5 unless otherwise marked); also doing lat pulldowns 71 lb 3x10, hamstring curls 60 lb 3x12, ab machine 50# 3x10 and dumbbell curls 20# 3x10 Reads: WISNIFG, NMMNG, Practical Female Psychology, Mindful Attraction Plan, various others Business and Finance The past few weeks, I've been bitching and moaning about getting two t…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 02:23 PM
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The fundamental problem here is that you're not experiencing attraction to your wife. That could be due to you jerking off all the time. You should try not doing that, especially if you're watching porn while you do it. Yes, I realize it is not healthy choosing my hand over her, but I am choosing to not have awkward and unsatisfying sex with someone I have no desire to have sex with. If you're having awkward and unsatisfying sex, then it's because you're bad at sex. That's another area where you…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/21 11:31 PM
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Mods decided to shut down asktrp in an effort to move people to a new site. It's probably not a bad idea, but the new site is a bit of a pain in the ass to use. People understandably don't want to use the new site, and askmrp looks a lot like asktrp, so they ask here. I suspect that another sub will be created sooner rather than later as a playpen for asktrp refugees in the meantime.
/r/askMRP26/07/21 02:53 AM
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The common thread of this post is you basing everything around your wife's feelings. I'll point out a two places where this is particularly palatable. My wife said she wanted to live closer to her parents, which is 60-75 mins from where I work. I asked her what justified me being in a car 2 1/2 hours per day? She said ease of day care with so much family near. I said well I lose 2 hours per day at home. 10 hours/week. Are you going to be making dinner, cutting the grass, doing the laundry, prepa…
/r/askMRP26/07/21 02:43 AM
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In my experience, because you've been so conditioned to live in the frame of whichever woman you're around, frame is usually something that you have to experience to understand, and you can't really be told what it is and really get it. Because of that, if you're starting out, I would suggest not really worrying about trying to understand and have frame as a concept right now. Instead, in the pursuit of it, you'd probably be much better served by observing STFU, reading WISNIFG and NMMNG a coupl…
/r/askMRP25/07/21 11:05 AM
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You have a massive logical flaw in this plan: ...and the thought of someone else having the ability to nuke my marriage doesn't sit well with me. A prostitute has this same power. ...and I know that she isn't going to be adding my wife on Instagram if I decide not to go back. You don't know that at all. The only real difference other than cost is that your wife will be more likely to stay with you if you're caught fucking other attractive women than if you get caught fucking prostitutes. The dif…
/r/askMRP24/07/21 08:59 PM
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When /u/PreEntertain asked you why your wife was going through your phone, history and whatever, you had the following response: [She] has my passcode because I never had anything to hide. I think this is a microcosm of your primary issue with your wife: You have a lack of boundaries due to whatever it is you think about her feelings. For example, you should have never given her your passcode as a very basic boundary. If and when she wanted your passcode anyway, you should have maintained that b…
/r/askMRP23/07/21 02:25 PM
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Your primary tool you have to reward or punish behavior is what you do with your attention. However, for that to work, your attention has to be worth something, which means you have to be worth something. Is this the same girl you posted about having nudes of her ex that you found? If so, why are you still with her to begin with?
/r/askMRP23/07/21 02:13 PM
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I read through the few posts you've made on the topic, and I'm pretty sure that your only reasonable option here is divorce. You've poisoned the well, you don't even like her and she has a history of being a complete nutjob. Your whole "I want to keep my family together" thing isn't really helpful for your kids. They will be worse off being in this fucked up environment than if you leave.
/r/askMRP22/07/21 10:43 PM
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I'm not sure why you're so obsessed with her orgasming when she doesn't want to. It really seems like you want it for your own validation, especially how you talk about it making you feel like shit when she's done after like 15 minutes.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 05:58 PM
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You don't have to get married to start a family. The typical response to me saying that is something like, "Yeah but it's best for the kids if they grow up in a marriage..." Except that premise is flawed for a variety of reasons, the least of which is not that it's based on statistics from old data that does not reflect the current state of things. If you want to have a family, then have a family, but I have to suggest that you don't get married.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 05:57 PM
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I read over your OYS after reading over this. My initial impression is that you don't understand that "be attractive" and "don't be unattractive" are two different things. You seem to have the first part handled to some reasonable degree, but you're sucking absolute ass at the second part. Copying from your OYS: STFU. I’m starting at the basics. I DEER. I DEER so much. I might be the best DEERER of all time. I try to drill the logic and reality of the situation in her head all the time. And I en…
/r/askMRP21/07/21 05:54 PM
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Hey, thanks for the response. Hey Vartanovich. I lol'd. Take a look at your post here, and see if you can pick out the demonstrators of lower value, or as we say in the industry, DLVs. I see a lot of DLVs here. That's probably the case. I've been coasting through life just doing the bare minimum for a long time. Could you give me a few examples of what you're talking about specifically? So you want to be a FM, eh. Good for you. But until you have the life you want, you don't get to do what other…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/21 05:49 PM
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OYS #4 - Written Monday, July 19, 2021 Mid-30s, 5'9", 186.0 lbs, ~25% body fat, not married, no kids Lifts: Squat 100 lb, Bench 85 lb, Rows 75 lb, OHP 65 lb, DL 145 lb 1x5 (all 5x5 unless otherwise marked); also doing lat pulldowns 60 lb 3x12, hamstring curls 50 lb 3x12, ab machine 50# 3x10 and dumbbell curls Reads: WISNIFG, NMMNG, Practical Female Psychology, Mindful Attraction Plan, various others Business and Finance I've been wanting to get more structured in this space, and I've always foun…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/21 11:10 AM
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My wife suggests that there may be some action tonight. Most women, your wife most likely included, say a lot of dumb shit that has no basis in reality. You could probably sit and write a long list of such things your wife has said. Given that, a question you could consider is this: Why are you taking her at face value on this? Put another way: Stop paying her any mind when she says and does this type of shit. Completely and totally ignore it. Don't make any smartass remarks about how she never …
/r/askMRP20/07/21 12:51 AM
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You've already gotten a lot of structural, macro-level advice, so I'll just point out a few things that stood out to me on a smaller scale. I stop, and break the STFU rule: I point blank asked her, “when did you stop being attracted to me?” The first thing that came to mind when I read this was the Iron Rule of Tomassi #8: "Always let a woman figure out why she wont fuck you. Never do it for her." I told her I wouldn’t smother her on this (like I have in the past), and that it was our own respon…
/r/askMRP19/07/21 01:40 PM
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If you're going to do dirt, then you need to do it with a level of skill. Leaving your phone around for this girl to try to fuck with your relationship is just asking for it. As far as handling the LTR (or ex, whatever), that's probably just done, and that's fine. There are plenty of pretty girls on the pretty girl tree. With that said, you can't keep the plate. She has to go. No more sex with her either for any reason whatsoever. She has shown that she will go to extremely lengths to sabotage y…
/r/askMRP19/07/21 01:29 PM
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The thing that stands out to me first is that your post didn't mention anything about you telling her what you wanted. For example, there's nothing about telling her you want to sleep in, if she can be more quiet, shut the door, take the kid downstairs or whatever. As a result, everything here is coming across as a covert contract where you expect her to do X, Y and Z, but she doesn't know that, and then you get mad about it. I think it's the book "No More Mr Nice Guy" that talks about the idea …
/r/askMRP19/07/21 01:25 PM
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OYS #3 - Written Monday, July 12, 2021 Mid-30s, 5'9", 187.6 lbs, 16.5" neck, 40" waist, 25.8% body fat (Navy method), not married, no kids Lifts: Squat 85 lb, Bench 75 lb, Rows 65 lb, OHP 65 lb, DL 135 lb 1x5 (all 5x5 unless otherwise marked); also doing lat pulldowns 60 lb 3x12, hamstring curls 50 lb 3x12 and ab machine 50# 3x10 Reads: WISNIFG, NMMNG, Practical Female Psychology, Mindful Attraction Plan, various others I think I'm going to start breaking this bitch up into sections instead of j…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/21 10:55 AM
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You're seeking validation from your wife in very severe ways. Most of this surrounds a covert contract you have that if you do [list of things like this walk idea, working out, having a good career, etc.], then she will validate you by [acting right]. She keeps acting toward you like you've described, but you keep trying to do nice things for her to get her validation (ie: expecting her to act differently than she always does). This is important because your validation-seeking behavior is almost…
/r/askMRP10/07/21 10:50 PM
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I've looked through your post and comments. I'm just going to point out things that stood out to me, mostly in hopes that it'll reinforce my own understanding, and you can take them for what you will. I've done the work. Be careful here. That sounds like a bold assumption for someone whose wife doesn't want to fuck him all that much. While you have obviously done plenty of work, and I wouldn't want to discount that, putting it so definitively like you've done all the work that there is to do is …
/r/askMRP10/07/21 11:38 AM
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OYS #2 Mid-30s, 5'9", 188 lbs, ~25% body fat (Navy method), not married, no kids Lifts: Squat 80 lb, Bench 65 lb 6x6, Rows 60 lb, OHP 60 lb, DL 125 lb (all 5x5 unless otherwise marked); also doing lat pulldowns 60 lb 3x10, hamstring curls 50 lb 3x10 and ab machine 50# 3x10 Reads: WISNIFG, NMMNG, Practical Female Psychology, Mindful Attraction Plan, starting Book of Pook this week I checked out a local chess club last night that was at a Panera about an hour away. It turned out to be a dud (5-6 p…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 05:40 PM
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OYS #1 Mid-30s, 5'9", 188 lbs, ~25% body fat (Navy method), not married, no kids Lifts: Squat 70 lb, Bench 55 lb, Rows 55 lb, OHP 55 lb, DL 115 lb (all 5x5) Reads: WISNIFG, NMMNG, Practical Female Psychology, Mindful Attraction Plan I found this place through Rian Stone's YouTube channel and Rollo's blog (specifically "Mental Point of Origin") and aftering seeing that the main TRP sub-reddit didn't seem to have what I was looking for. I ended up there because, while I see different girls and I'm…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/21 12:19 PM
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