PetyaDuncheva Archive

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21	How do you indicate to a guy that you’re interested? Ask him out? Engineers don't get hints, stares, looks, facial expressions and so on. They understand clear and direct language: 'Hey, join me for coffee between lectures?' 'I heard about this cool club / nice restaurant, but I need company, so would you be willing to join me?' I met my now-husband at high-school. He didn't get hints (we are both engineers), so I invited him to join me skateboarding (that was our thing back then), then we went and had beers up on the rocks of one of the hills in …	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/23 06:28 AM
8	Feeling inadequate around rich and educated (future) in-laws. Exactly! OP's boyfriend isn't with her because of her diplomas or her money, so she should focus on her strong traits - being a loveable person, taking good care of her boyfriend, being grateful and respectful to his parents. I was in similar situation. Been with my boyfriend-now-husband for nearly 18 years and we have 3 kids now. I've gained my in-laws' full trust and support through* being an awesome wife and mother to my family and showing gratitude to them for raising my husband the way he i…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/03/23 07:59 AM
6	Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young. I agree and I disagree. I've seen firsthand motherhood being a terrible ordeal and ruining a woman's life - my mom. And I I've seen women handle it with grace and intelligence to which the outcomes are a happy family - happy cooperative children, happy calm wife, happy prosperous husband - and this being done with 3+ kids at that, while I was a single kid in my family of origin. Now I have 3 children. Yeah, motherhood is stressful and tiresome at times, but so was my job. And come to think that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 09:13 AM
1	I'm so used of wearing jeans- how do I transition to wearing pants? I'd say you transition straight to dresses and skirts (like I did). Some years ago I went through some serious depressive episode in my life, so much so that I actually started going to therapy (which was widely unpopular in my country back then and maybe still is). I was wearing skinny jeans, classical vans and body fitting tees - I thought I was sexy and feminine. My therapist suggested I change my appearance drastically and start dressing feminine. "What do you mean? Am quite feminine, all my…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/23 01:06 AM
9	What do you believe is the solution to the imbalanced dating scene situation? Yep, one of "most people" here. Am not too familiar with red pill - does it deem important only the body count or does it consider family history important, too? Because I come from a broken family and am quite familiar with my "family models" and I have to work really hard not to replicate them in my marriage and child rearing. People coming from good families, with stable family values, good communication, accepting parents and so on, might see marriage as a piece of cake (am only guessing, I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 11:01 AM
2	What do you believe is the solution to the imbalanced dating scene situation? Let's not blame porn, nor men. Let's put the blame on the fathers and mothers of both genders, who didn't get taught how to think long term and deter pleasure and instead seek immediate satisfaction, validation and dopamine. Long term relationships and marriage is hard work for both sides and pays out only in the long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/22 10:51 AM
3	How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information? I see your point, thanks for sharing. My mom seems to have been quite an alpha as she managed to trick my alpha dad into proposing. Unfortunately they separated while I was in high school and later divorced. Curiously enough I was quite beta in my teens and early twenties :D Don't know what am now, am striving to be an alpha mom, I guess xD For the record, I've had only one partner my entire life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/22 05:57 PM
3	How do you think the dating game would change if body count was public information? It is because am old (34), that I am somehow not disturbed by the fact that my parents had/have sex? If they didn't, I wouldn't be alive, so am thankful for that. Anyway, am assuming whoever is disturbed by the fact that parents are sexual creatures, is teenager or younger. Am actually curious to know how my parents scored in the dating game. And to answer the original question: am also curious how other people have scored, but since am happily married, I don't really care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/22 01:30 PM
1	How much effort do you put on your looks? Oh, finally! Someone who takes reasonable care of themselves! I was honestly starting to get scared reading the comments in the thread - ranging from "I barely change clothes, not to speak of other things" to "40-50 minutes just on hair everyday". My routine is similar - wakeup, 2 minutes skincare, 5-7 minutes makeup (eyeshadow, eyeliner, lipstick), quick side braid on one side if hair looks greasy (another 2 minutes), clean clothes, wake up kids, breakfast, yada yada. Workout sometime during th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/22 09:06 PM
19	Trying to view men in a positive light: impossible Back in my days (I was born in 1988), the boys I hung around talked about role playing games, trading card games, hack and slash RPGs and programming (D&D, Magic the Gathering, Diablo)...even when they were without female presence around, or maybe especially when they were away from girls. Rarely have I heard a girl being mentioned (far from discussed) and they quickly changed the topic when I was within earshot - maybe common sense, maybe just being tactful / well raised, who knows :) Sure, the…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/22 08:51 PM
1	It's not about what a man has, it's what a man makes you feel that matters. True or false? Without reading the description, I first thought about a female friend of mine talking about a guy with the typical bad boy vibes - doing drugs, having no money, no stable job, nor place to live and no plans in life: "I don't care what he makes (has), I care how he makes me feel!" Apparently he made her feel quite special for some time. Then she got tired of his lack of direction and motivation in life. But reading the description, you are talking about something completely different :D	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 11:00 AM