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| 0 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple? | Question For Men | Pfacejones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 08:39 PM |
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| 2 | I'm starting to think men don't consider women they're not attracted to to be womenYou just need to deal with the philtrum and lip area to look more feminine. The eyes skin and everything else are good. Look into some kind of lip filler or lip flip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 08:31 AM |
| 2 | The reason men get "friendzoned" more than women is often because there's a Masculinity + "Does he say / do the right things to turn me on" component to women's sexuality that eliminates her male friends from contention.What makes them a good relationship prospect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness isIf her face is feminine, there are tons of masculine looking women who suffer the same loneliness. Women are not immune from suffering due to being unwanted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 05:23 PM |
| – | Dread works for creating attraction even if it destabalizes the relationship and thats okayWhat is dread.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 05:05 AM |
| 9 | If you think there’s inherent moral injustice in you not getting sex or relationships then you are entitledIt's painful to admit to oneself that one is gods biological failure and a casualty of natural selection, its easier to just be angry about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent womenIt's embarrassing lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 10:54 PM |
| 4 | Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent womenHey thats interesting about the flute thanks for sharing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?Yes...when I was young there were a lot of cute boys my age. As you get older there are fewer and fewer. I think age Robs attractiveness out of everyone but I believe it affects men more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typePeople don't know how to do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 04:11 AM |
| 0 | The world needs more Sigma males, men who are completely ultra self-sufficient and don’t rely on validation from anyonePeople with schizoid personality types are like this. Not to be confused with schizophrenic. They need nothing and just kind of observe. Their lack of participation in things is a net loss for us because they can be very nonpartisan which is what we need now more than ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:35 PM |
| 15 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themYeah I couldn't believe that was part of it. This older richer guy pursuing me didn't give a fuck if I thought he was gross so long as I was willing to sell myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Society is one giant psyop designed to exploit and extract value out of people.Hear hear. Find joy in nature and pure consciousness. Fuck reproduction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Do your feelings towards women come from jealousy or genuine disgust?By unfuckable do you mean physically unattractive etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doHistorically speaking Men have not been bred or selected for looks and or how much lust they inspire. Possibly because women's choices have never mattered up until recently. I think in the future men will be more attractive and this is just some kind of natural selection or speciation at work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 06:05 AM |
| 4 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?I mean sure everyone deserves a place to vent about their feelings and be authentic and vulnerable. you are right there are probably zero places for men to do this safely and without judgment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 11:30 PM |
| 1 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?so you are suggesting just giant public areas to vent and complain about not being good looking enough for women to fuck or what are you suggesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?I feel like I am losing track of what we are debating would you not feel that internal satisfaction within one self, and even possible acceptance of living a happy solitary life, would do everyone a world of good? if people were able to say, if I get a partner, great, if I dont, I ll be okay. if everyone were able to have that sense of inner peace would that not be the most optimal way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 11:08 PM |
| 4 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?because bitterness does nothing but rob you of the rest of your life. not everyone gets what they want and that has been how it is since the dawn of time. its not being inauthentically fine with it its about getting to a deep and natural profound acceptance that doesn't hurt you, cause you grief and cause you pain over things you cant change and have no control over everyone deserves internal peace even if outward circumstances are not to their liking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:56 PM |
| 5 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?women's rejection is the same as their need for womens approval. if you cant use sheer will to change womens choices you have to use sheer will to change what you need from them. so are you just saying you want an open space for men to complain about women not choosing them? but if that is the only thing that is ever said how can they ever be anything but bitter and angry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:35 PM |
| 4 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?the way the speech frequently sounds always has an undertone of the women being at fault. else if it is purely for self growth and finding joy in life regardless of their sexual situation that speech should be highly encouraged | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:21 PM |
| 1 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?the mens grievances are valid of course because I believe it is possible for them to be in emotional pain from not getting what probably is at its core a biological wound. we are after all still animals. I think there should be some discourse on how best not to be enslaved by biological urges to the point that nothing else matters. I do believe with regards to the discussion however, the purpose should still be with the goal of finding fulfillment even if your desires cannot be consummated i do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:17 PM |
| 6 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?I think something like we do not necessarily need to be enslaved by our biology needs to be in public discourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:06 PM |
| 6 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?thats very aspd of you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:57 PM |
| 3 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?I agree that the lack of community is one of the biggest issues in modern society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:42 PM |
| 3 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?because not getting that you want or need hurts yeah I get it, but there is only so much wallowing one can do before it destroys oneself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:40 PM |
| 1 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?do you have a better or any other solutions etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:35 PM |
| 5 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?thats the same as compromisjng, if they sleep with you for resources and green card overseas and are nice to you etc its still a way of compromising, which is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:35 PM |
| 1 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?they can either compromise or Not compromise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:31 PM |
| -2 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?you are right the solution is easy to See but not easy to execute, i agree it can be a hard and arduous journey for some to come to terms with solitude as well as to find ways to enjoy and thrive within it, I suppose I wish there was a more concerted effort in teaching people how to learn to be alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?if you cant get another person to meet your needs or desires through their free will your options then are what ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:18 PM |
| 6 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?there's a lot of people who say. my friend is unemployed and does nothing and girls throw themselves at him while i am working on myself and grinding away and nobody cares etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:10 PM |
| 3 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?I am basically saying that they should start on that journey now as it does take a lot of hard work but they seem to not even be aware of it as an option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:03 PM |
| 3 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?that there seems to be a lot of angst and suffering regarding the topic and I wasn't sure why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:02 PM |
| 7 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?this advice applies to everyone, if you cannot get what you feel is necessary from a person, just be Alone, and like the other guy said, tons of women are just choosing to be alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 08:58 PM |
| 10 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?my main point is if you dont like the compromises you find yourself having to make, then just accept a dignified solitude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 08:54 PM |
| 8 | men are mad they dont inspire lust. but is the solution not so simple?I would feel the same way. anyone who despite their best efforts who cannot attain what they wish to attain. or what they feel is necessary to attain, Needs To Be Content with Dignified Solitude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusionif you cant find enjoyment in being close to a person in ways that arent sexual and the sexual lust is the most important thing to you but it is not happening to you what choice do you have but to either. 1. accept a dignified solitude or 2. compromise. not everyone gets what they want in life, so many peiple get nothing that they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusionthats what I said in another comment. you need to accept where your looks fall in the attractiveness spectrum. if you are not content to be loved For who you are by way of personality and resources, and you Require Lust, but do not Inspire Lust, then you have to be content with some kind of dignified solitude. if Lust isn't important to you then who cares, marry who is attractive to you and who likes you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 08:33 PM |
| 4 | Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusionits one hundred percent biology. even younger men look better than a 50 year old man. keep in mind it is also biological that younger attractive women are also more attracted to attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusionyes, unless they are fully asexual they have the Capacity to experience it but some may have Never experienced it just because they themselves arent attractive to the people that would trigger the lust in them, so they dont even Know they're capable of it also want to add that for a majority of women experiencing the highest lust possible is also jist NOT that important to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusionsome men need to accept that they dont trigged visceral lust. acceptance is hard. then the next step is can you live with dignified solitude or are you willing to have someone with you who doesn't experience visceral lust through no fault of her own. we are all limited by our own biology. it is not mens fault for how they look and it is not women's fault for how seldom they feel attracted. blame biology but we have no real solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 08:05 PM |
| 5 | Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusiondid you read? He said women dont experience lust toward a Majority of men. Some select few they do. but there aren't that many of them around. Majority does not mean All. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemic"acceptance" is a difficult task that people arent taught how to do in the right way. its not taught in school and its not taught in adulthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:57 PM |
| 1 | The gender war epidemicbiology should've just made everyone of equal attractiveness. I feel a lot for everybody as I can see the pain and discomfort of both situations, one person being a wonderful soul but physically it isnt possible for them to inspire a lot of physical desire, and one person being aware of the others wonderful soul but their own physiology cant produce the amount of lust necessary to overcome the lack of physical desire. we are all limited deeply by our biology and it causes a lot of pain for every… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:44 PM |
| – | If women "hit a wall" then why should we bother with marriage?a significant population of men will just find that impossible. a significant population of women would also find being attracted to their aging husbands impossible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 01:46 PM |
| 5 | Most of us are here because we're shallowlol. everyone that likes me is shallow and so i try my best to treat them so badly so that they stop caring as much about looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 07:16 PM |
| 3 | How are ugly couples sexually attracted too each other?I dont know. I lived with an ugly guy once and he had an ugly girl over and I could hear them having sex and moaning and I was mortified | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy is real. But what's wrong is saying that it's "women's fault." Or that women are "Sharing men."I do find dating a married guy wrong on the premise that he already made that commitment to be married to one person. I just mean in general if the set up of society involves either joining small harems with a 10/10 or have your own 2/10 id pick the former. I do not mean 10/10 in looks alone i mean 10/10 in mind body and spirit etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 12:18 PM |
| 4 | Hypergamy is real. But what's wrong is saying that it's "women's fault." Or that women are "Sharing men."id rather share a 10/10 guy than have my own 2/10 guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Men obsess over achieving a variety of women, to their own detrimentcommitment, if you haven't internally decided is the noblest of virtues, will seem nothing but a cage, and a Death. you must decide that commitment is important to you first and foremost. almost everyone is unqualified for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him?you just have to be 1 physically Very attractive and 2 be drenched in the specific set of pheromones that react with hers. it's happened to me 2 times in my life and it drove me so mad with passion and lust and obsession that I got slammed with 2 cease and desists when they broke it off. I have no idea the number of guys I've slept w in my life too many to count and too insignificant to remember compared w these two. idk why I am being downvoted, primal lust is rare in women and this is the only… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 10:13 PM |
| 8 | Fierce Competition Is an Underrated Reason Behind Modern Dating Struggleswhat? there is definitely an in between | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?yes I have met several. they are engineers who are either very short or very facially challenged. they are also kind of pixiy as well so it makes it difficult for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 06:47 AM |
| 21 | The Type of Women Normally Chased by MenI am not stable and bpd/npd and I am chased until they realize it's more drama than they can take. then I am blocked and told the cops will be called if I contact them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Rejecting anyone for any reason is fine, the end, dating is inherently selfish, discriminatory and judgemental.why can't the top quintile of both genders just breed until almost everyone is attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 05:45 PM |
| 14 | Outside of sex work your "league" is what you can get.5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Who is more successful in dating - the "Pick Me" girl? Or the S.I.M.P.?Lol this is really accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 12:37 PM |
| 6 | Who is more successful in dating - the "Pick Me" girl? Or the S.I.M.P.?Yea agree with the person who said she's ugly, she looks like a man, If she had even 10% feminine traits on her either face or body she would find someone. I almost feel bad for her. But then I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 12:35 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Love and romance is dead by the time people are in their 30s.maybe true if you're ugly and depressing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 02:23 AM |
| 3 | For men who do get approached, do you mostly get approached by women you actually want?What do you look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 11:43 PM |
| 4 | Please help - I don’t love when my husband is silly leading up to sexDon't know why this made me lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/23 02:15 AM |
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