PhantmShado Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Woman gets rejected for a job because she wore a t-shirt and was late, complains that it's sexism Honestly, it will probably bar her from all small to mid size companies, but there are A LOT of openings at the big ones (Google, Facebook, Amazon, etc) and if her technical skills are actually up to her claims, she could very well pass into one of them with no one checking.	/r/MensRights	18/04/15 01:03 AM
6	Woman gets rejected for a job because she wore a t-shirt and was late, complains that it's sexism I'm right there with you. Every time someone mentions "fashionably late" in a non ironic manner what I hear is "Hi, I'm rude and proud of it."	/r/MensRights	18/04/15 12:38 AM
8	Judge: FBI fitness test discriminates against men And there are probably a lot of people that do work out regularly, and have for months, and still can't. It shouldn't surprise someone old enough to have been in, and now out of, the marine corps that different people's bodies have different proficiencies at both building and maintaining muscle, as well as many other things as it happens. That's why it's important to have one standard of what it means to be fit enough for the FBI. We can all agree that as much as it sucks, a man with no legs sho…	/r/MensRights	13/06/14 02:20 AM
-3	Nice article. Body shaming men and their choice of attire on the beach. What about them makes it "obvious"? Please explain without usage of circular reasoning.	/r/MensRights	12/06/14 11:40 PM
4	Some of the worst twitter trolls are women and not men - contrary to media stereotyps I mean, this isn't news, it's an opinion piece. And the title makes it sound like some actual studied statistic is being revealed, while nothing of the sort is going on. Also, it propagates the idea that men are stoic emotionless machines which is one I at least personally want to see no longer being mindlessly repeated. Men have feelings too, lets stop encouraging the idea that they don't.	/r/MensRights	11/06/14 06:42 PM
3	After seeing so many commercials where dads are portrayed as bumbling, clueless idiots, this ad by Dove was refreshing. Before they made the line I was using Dove soap anyway because they put lotion in it, and with my somewhat dry skin, it generally makes life more comfortable. Now they have this Men+ line, and it's cheaper (also has half the lotion, but still good enough for me), so overall a plus in my life. They also scent it more towards a "manly smell," so that's nice, since scent is sort of part of fashion, and it's nice to have a product that identifies it's the right one.	/r/MensRights	11/06/14 06:20 PM
3	After seeing so many commercials where dads are portrayed as bumbling, clueless idiots, this ad by Dove was refreshing. I'm kind of in the same spot, and my reaction is I usually feel like I have no idea if I even want to have kids one day, so then I rule it out for the risk of my parents living on in me, and not wanting to do that to another human being. I've also kind of come to full acceptance that I don't have to interact with my parents anymore, nor spend too much time living in the past over what they have done. They're just people, and in ways not particularly good ones, but the world is full of those, and…	/r/MensRights	11/06/14 06:15 PM
2	Feminism "puts women on the level of a vindictive battle": Pope Francis chivalry -> chauvinism	/r/MensRights	10/06/14 09:57 PM
12	What Is So Wrong With Being Anti-Feminist? Did you watch that interview with Dean Esmay? I'm in the middle of it, but had to pause to comment that holy hell is he a patient person. I'm not sure I could quietly sit for some of what's being spouted, especially when the hosts don't even give me the chance to rebut like they're doing. EDIT: I saw a tweet I couldn't believe actually went to air on a news show, so just restarted to see if I missed anything else like that, and noticed the hosts DO cut off Dean to give Heather a rebuttal. Eventu…	/r/MensRights	10/06/14 06:48 PM
-2	What Is So Wrong With Being Anti-Feminist? Your metaphor confuses me, but I don't really care anyway, I'm just commenting to say you have a very nicely appropriate username for the subreddit.	/r/MensRights	10/06/14 06:46 PM
2	#YesAllWomen: facts the media didn't tell you One she didn't cover that popped up in my feed: 70 of 71 of the mass murders (4 or more victims) in the US since 1980 were committed by men, with multiple articles repeating this and sourcing the youtube video https://www.youtube.com/v/HPFcspwbrq8, which itself didn't source the number. Due to failure to provide a source it took me a bit to trace down what the heck she was talking about, because "from 1980 to 2008, at least 4,685 people have perished in 965 reported incidents of mass murder" (ht…	/r/MensRights	10/06/14 06:19 PM
5	Can we put something in the sidebar to explain how we're not even remotely related to the red pill? No, there's an infinite amount of things that we're not even remotely related to. There's no reason for us to explicitly call them out, especially since the differences are already plenty clear if people actually care. You're seeing comparisons from people that have an agenda, be it to promote misandry (I want to be clear, I don't think these people are promoting feminism because I'd like to give their movement the benefit of the doubt, I do think they're promoting misandry), or to drive ad reve…	/r/MensRights	03/06/14 05:07 PM
1	"Don't let them silence us" -- AVFM's best response ever to an attack, in this case to the feminist threats against the Men's Issues Conference. This video is focused, human, empathetic, and well produced. The global, diverse faces of all races, sexes and genders is wonderful to see. #congrats I decided I was more than tired of her when she said something about this not being the soviet union. That being said, as much as I wish this conference didn't need my contribution to happen, I think it is highly important for our first amendment rights to be protected, so if my contribution can help there, I felt it imperative that I donate to the cause, and so have done just that.	/r/MensRights	02/06/14 06:26 PM
1	"Don't let them silence us" -- AVFM's best response ever to an attack, in this case to the feminist threats against the Men's Issues Conference. This video is focused, human, empathetic, and well produced. The global, diverse faces of all races, sexes and genders is wonderful to see. #congrats I don't know for sure admittedly, but I imagine that most police forces aren't staffed such that they can spare people to just stand at doors, since I imagine most groups aren't staffed that way. That would mean the police force needs the money to actually pay staff to do that, and unfortunately, that's rarely included in the budget. It would be nice if our taxes could afford everything that we wish they could afford, but alas, that's something of a pipe dream. Don't like it? Vote Democrat. As f…	/r/MensRights	02/06/14 06:13 PM
1	A Gentleman's Guide to Rape Culture - AKA How to Cater to Misandric Paranoia I honestly have no idea what this was. It read partly as satire of #YesAllWomen, and partly as factually inaccurate #YesAllWomen propaganda, and both mashed together with no rhyme or reason. Also, it felt a lot longer than it was because he kept not actually saying anything, because everyone knows whoever protrays things in the most clever manner is right, not the person who, you know, portrays things with actual facts.	/r/MensRights	31/05/14 11:06 PM
10	TIL ALL women live in constant fear of most men. I'd love to see some studies supporting this. Honestly, I'm 5'11" and male and if I'm walking at 3AM at night, and I see someone else walking, I try to be on the other side of the street from them. That is a natural reaction anyone should have, male or female. It seems to me there's a certain dearth of empathy inherent in their movement. Like they assume that because they feel fear, and they don't like it, that it's just them and that damn it people need to respect their fear and act accordingly. They seem to completely lack the ability to …	/r/MensRights	30/05/14 11:06 PM
-3	Female divorce lawyer tells it like it is Except I don't have a problem with #NotAllMen. Likewise, I think we CAN disqualify this with a #NotAllWomen. I'm not saying she doesn't have an audience, and an audience that needs her services at that, but at this point it seems like we're starting to pander to ourselves. I mean, the fact that there ARE lawyers on our side isn't new or surprising information, it hardly qualifies as "Men's Rights News".	/r/MensRights	30/05/14 07:59 PM
1	So I saw this tumblr post about Eliot Rodgers on my facebook feed. I think Barbara Kay put in pretty well in her article at http://goo.gl/7Oy1mM: It doesn’t matter whether the heterosexual males in question are completely crazy: If they’re crazy and misogynistic, then … well, they’re not really crazy, they’re just an extreme version of what it means to be a man.	/r/MensRights	30/05/14 06:55 PM
-2	Female divorce lawyer tells it like it is Honestly, this seems kind of vilifying of women. I don't think it's any better than what they've been doing to us, and I don't think this is the correct subforum for it.	/r/MensRights	30/05/14 06:50 PM
2	"I'm not going to apologize for something I haven't done" This is the type of attitude we should adopt. This video is relevant to a thought problem I have been having lately, maybe others can chime in: I'm personally still trying to work out the right way to phrase "you can't blame me for the fact you're afraid of me when I have done nothing to make you afraid" so that people doing that understand it's a problem. Because I can see where their misinterpretation stems from: they're afraid of men and they ARE admittedly afraid for very real examples. Even with the fact that the leap from singular inc…	/r/MensRights	30/05/14 06:46 PM
4	Did you know that saying that you aren't a rapist is silencing discussion? And if you have something to say about it, you can "drink big cup of SHUT THE FUCK UP." The problem with ignoring both is that, as shown by this #YesAllWomen explosion, there's nothing "lonely" about this way of thinking in feminism. We're at the point where we need to somehow get people to understand this isn't right, and it's not the crazies we have to convince, it's the people that we thought were friends.	/r/MensRights	29/05/14 08:03 PM
9	Did you know that saying that you aren't a rapist is silencing discussion? And if you have something to say about it, you can "drink big cup of SHUT THE FUCK UP." Yeah, I heard about this #NotAllMen thing just last weekend and tried to gain understanding what was wrong with men defending themselves from baseless accusations, because that seems perfectly reasonable to me. I got the response: The problem with NotAllMen is that is sidesteps the issue that EnoughMen are like that to have caused all women to live in some state of fear or heightened alert. That the men who claim to not be like that would rather tell women they're wrong for feeling that way than…	/r/MensRights	29/05/14 07:58 PM
2	A Group is Trying to Cancel the Men's Rights Conference in Detroit. Here's What you can Do. It says '466 needed' still for me.	/r/MensRights	29/05/14 12:22 AM
18	Wheaton has finally gone off the deep end Seriously, this in general. There's something going on where apparently defending men's rights at all is taken to mean you yourself are one of the dangerous ones. I didn't realize how much this was the case until last weekend which was the first time I heard about #NotAllMen. I proceeded to question someone posting a #YesAllWomen on my feed to explain it to me, because it didn't seem to make sense that a hashtag about saying "Hey, could you please stop insinuating my having a penis makes me a mo…	/r/MensRights	28/05/14 07:24 PM
6	Time to get positive. What would help alienated men? Well that's pretty much your answer then. Be the one to stop that. Start explaining what's wrong when people do things you don't like, and that it does in fact make you feel crappy. And when you stay out late with buddies talking about feelings and just trying to sort out your lives, and have female friends say "oh, so you had a girl's night out then" inform them that no, you had a human's night out.	/r/MensRights	27/05/14 11:20 PM
18	Why am I being compared to a mentally ill, narcissistic, racist, misogynist, sociopathic serial killer? It's fine that you object to that idea. We're not oppressed. It's not fine that you object to that idea as a reason to object to the MRA movement. This is a movement saying we still have rights that deserve protection. So, with that in mind, what about us having rights do you object to?	/r/MensRights	27/05/14 07:09 PM
20	Barbara Kay: Elliot Rodger’s horrible acts co-opted by feminists I have to say, this weekend prompted me to anxiously search if anyone was on my side. I was beginning to feel extreme panic at the fact that any response to this movement, regardless of the content, if it wasn't insinuating men are primally evil was thrown out as being part of "the problem," or in some cases worse, ie. terrorism. However, having seen: "It doesn’t matter whether the heterosexual males in question are completely crazy: If they’re crazy and misogynistic, then … well, they’re not re…	/r/MensRights	27/05/14 06:14 PM
9	Barbara Kay: Elliot Rodger’s horrible acts co-opted by feminists Trying to devalue the text of this post by calling it satire really just raises the question of if you know the definition of satire more than it devalues the post.	/r/MensRights	27/05/14 06:09 PM