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You're not very bright. I'm done here.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 05:06 AM
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What else do you consider to be very important.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 12:53 AM
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Thanks man
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:02 PM
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I think as a young guy, it's a pretty critical time in my life to have my bank account go up.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 01:37 AM
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To develop your mental capacities and to think outside the box? To not only rely on a certain job? My job already needs a lot of mental capacity. Thinking outside the box is nice but that's not a good enough reason for me. And I would be getting a second job. Though, apart from expertise at certain hobbies, I doubt it'd cost much There's the opportunity cost of not working. Might as well do both - having a job and individual interests. Fulfil your productivity the way you want Good point. I have…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 01:35 AM
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Yeah I was busy studying for my boards for a couple of months and I guess she couldn't handle that.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 10:03 PM
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Lol what counts as cool shit going on is my question then
/r/askTRP03/03/19 02:08 PM
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I definitely had something real if we were together for 4 years
/r/askTRP03/03/19 02:07 PM
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Good one
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:42 AM
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Maybe I did
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:19 PM
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She hasn't
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:18 PM
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I think she was just scared of commitment. We met young (20) and I think she wanted to see if she could do better then come back to me later if she couldn't.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 07:39 PM
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It's crazy, some days I feel 100% over her.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:14 PM
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Thank you but the thing is I have no fucking clue what went wrong.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:52 AM
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Using social media to connect with friends and as a creative outlet helps distract me temporarily :(
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:26 AM
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Fuck sorry to hear that. Did you block her on social media? I think that's going to help me.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:49 PM
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Damn okay
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:12 AM
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Some people say that but then there's others who say to fuck as many women as possible immediately so I don't know
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:11 AM
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Thanks man
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:10 AM
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Thanks buddy
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:09 AM
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Only thing that could have used some improving was my body but that's such a fucking easy fix. Maybe the excitement faded after 4 years but I don't know what I could have done about that.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 12:09 AM
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I've read the rational male. The war brides theory explains why she was able to move on but not why she left in the first place. The second part about hypergamy is the only plausible explanation. Here's the thing though, I'm objectively a really good catch. I'm genuinely a high potential male and I'm already realizing some of that potential. I think she was ignorant of the market (the value of other guys she could get) and just got plain greedy for something better. She knew me. She knew what I …
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:48 PM
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Not to sound rude but she’s probably been thinking about it way longer than you think and it wasn’t a decision overnight. Well she didn't fucking communicate how she was feeling.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 10:56 PM
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I know she's over me. It's just upsetting at how easy it was for her.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:41 PM
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The day after the talk, we told each other to cool down for a week. She texted me yesterday morning and I still haven't responded.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 05:14 PM
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She came back within a week
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 05:45 PM
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You can safely assume that she’ll be back within 6 months to 2 years. She came back within a week
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 05:42 PM
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I think I'm going to unblock her. I'm not an angry little bitch anymore.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 05:09 AM
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They are trying to understand how to be you What do you mean by that? As far as blocking, I'm on the fucking fence about it. I don't know what she'll think if I unblock her. Should I? I want her to still be scared of the idea of losing me forever though.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 03:33 AM
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That was beautiful, thanks man. I have a little more clarity today. I understand how much I fucking scared her about commitment talk at the restaurant. It wasn't about it being freeing, it was about how easily I gave away my commitment. When in reality, I was just ecstatic to finally get the job I've been dreaming about for the past 6 and a half years. That's what happened. I scared her into thinking she'd have to marry me which understandably scared the shit out of her.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 03:29 AM
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I was depressed for about two or three days. I'm just still confused right now. I'll admit I still have some anxiety that's been fucking with my sleep. I don't know what I'm supposed to get out of your story though lol What are you recommending I do? How long were they apart? How can she still respect him when he took her back? Are they happy now?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 03:53 PM
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She wasn't selfish either. She said she wanted both of us to grow and meet new people. She was okay with me doing the same.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 12:44 PM
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This comment is incredible. Thank you so much for taking the time to write it. This should seriously be its own post if it isn't already. The problem is I'm still really fucking hurt and confused right now so I don't know what to say. I will come back to this though. Thank you for helping me realize what I'm worth in one of my darkest moments.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 01:47 PM
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I'm just going to use the first two paragraphs then see what happens. Look, I know I can find better pussy but I don't want to lose someone that I know I have an amazing connection with and someone that I have four years of a really happy history with. It's not about scarcity. Or I might just tell her this then cut it off: I don't think I can ever take you back after what you said. I'm worth so much more than this.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 01:17 PM
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Fuck man I don't even see the point in using that. Even if she comes back she fucking admitted she wants to see other people. The only possible solution would her coming back this week and apologizing profusely.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 02:09 AM
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Humor me, what do you think of this: You seriously misunderstood what I said at the restaurant. I wasn't fucking proposing. I wasn't promising you anything. I was just ecstatic about the job news and got caught up in the moment. I wasn't thinking straight. I wasn't guaranteeing you anything. If you got the better job at (Hospital) and then if I eventually decided one day to introduce you to family, and if they liked you a lot, then maybe after five years we'd talk about the relationship being an…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 01:37 AM
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A woman is worth keeping ONLY while the thought of better than you isn't part of her reality. That's what the break would prove though
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 01:23 AM
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What would happen if I take her back?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 01:22 AM
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The last night she fully said "I love you" was the night I had the conversation with her at the restaurant.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 01:04 AM
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This was really informative. It's going to take me awhile to digest though before I can even respond to it.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 01:02 AM
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She still sees me as that alpha. She's just scared of wondering "what if" for the rest of her life. I threatened her that this would be an irreversible decision and that I would block her out of my life forever. We agreed we both should cool down. I know she doesn't want to lose me.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 01:13 PM
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Fuck I already realize what's going to happen. I'm going to tell her our relationship is special. She won't believe me. I'll tell her yeah we might find other people. But the whole problem with this is that she's greedy. Greedy for what's out on the horizon. But we all know she won't be able to play that game forever. That level of dread and realization will just make her drift further from me as she realizes these are her best years to find a millionaire dude in their 30's like her older cousin…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 01:03 AM
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Did I do the right thing by blocking her on social media? I didn't want to give off a triggered vibe. Rather an abundance "I can do this too" vibe. That I showed her I'm not scared of losing her.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 12:00 AM
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Okay this is one of the realest comments so far. I completely understand where you're coming from. All the TRP shit aside, the reality is that she's in a place of emotional confusion. She is and so am I. I've never felt so confused in my life. If you can keep her faithful and loyal and not constantly looking over her should for something better... then by all means stay with her. It's possible for everything to work out and you two to be happily together. What everyone here is telling you, is th…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:49 PM
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Yeah no one is trustworthy. The thing is, this actually makes me respect my girl even more. She was honest about it. Which makes me think if I should make this irreversible or not. Besides this shit, she was amazing and we really fucking enjoyed each other's company. The job market for pharmacists is shitty in the northeast and literally a couple days before this happened, she was willing to move to Bumblefuck nowhere for my job with me if it came down to that (it didn't). You guys don't underst…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 10:48 PM
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Oh well. Her family knows who I really am.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 09:57 PM
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It is a very important lesson and I'm determined to learn from it. This was a wake up call for me that I wasn't doing enough somehow.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 07:35 PM
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And now I made it very clear to her that her actions have consequences. She thought she could do whatever the fuck she wanted for years and still have me ready to go with open arms once she's had her fix of nearly infinite dick. She told me not to do anything rash and for us to cool down and talk again in a week.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 07:33 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. I have some loans that need to get paid off though so I'll be working on that for the foreseeable future.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 07:31 PM
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I feel like I started to man up a little more today. Thanks for providing some common sense in this thread.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 07:28 PM
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Thanks for that
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:07 PM
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I spoke to her. I told her if we go through with this it's likely to be permanent. She finally understands that now. We're going to take a week to cool down and reevaluate. The problem is that's how she feels. I feel guilty as fuck because I've been fucking other women. I feel like this is karma. That it's only fair she gets a chance to live too. I fucked so many women and she's stayed so loyal. This might be insane to say but giving us a break would even the playing field psychologically.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 02:01 PM
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Literally last week she was down to move to Bumblefuck nowhere with me because of the job market and now this happens
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:50 AM
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I just don't know where this came from. Before I got the job, I was thinking about moving to the middle of nowhere for work. She said she was up to do that with me. This was a week ago. I don't know what happened.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:05 AM
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I don't fucking know and it's killing me
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 04:41 AM
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I get that. I really fucking do. I just needed to let her know that this decision will very likely be irreversible forever and now she knows this. I'm sorry I'm going to take a fucking break from reddit. You guys give amazing advice but I don't want to lose her because of my fucking ego. We're grown ups that can talk shit out and that's what we're doing. Look for an update either here or asktrp in a couple of weeks. Thank you everyone.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 02:39 AM
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I'm sorry I can't do this. You guys don't fucking know what we have. I'm giving her a chance to cool down in a week and to get back. I let her know that the decision will be irreversible if she goes through with it.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 02:36 AM
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It's not all roses. I have an insane amount of student loans. Thank you though and good luck
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 02:35 AM
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I'm in fucking tears knowing what's about to happen. I just can't believe it. She'll never be the same person again. I really want to text her what the fuck happened. I just want to text her: "I'm really confused right now. I can't believe 4 years came down to this." Because I am fucking confused
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 12:21 AM
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I'm talking to girls right now but I'm still so upset. You're right she'll get her numbers up stupid fast and stupid high. Fuck. Makes me want to just message her and try and fucking stop this. I'm so fucking hurt.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 12:03 AM
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Tell me, what do you think is the complete truth and what do you think she will say instead
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 11:38 PM
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Hmm what do you think she'll say?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 11:37 PM
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I'm already on my next moves. Have a dating app with matches and it's going well. I'm just so nauseous. It feels like I'm about to give a presentation but constantly. I'm probably never going to open up to another LTR. I can't risk this shit happening again out of nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 10:32 PM
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I'm just fucking angry that she thinks I'm just a provider. That I'll embrace her with open arms again. I shouldn't have even let her speak to me for longer than 5 minutes yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 10:28 PM
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I had a long-term fwb before.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 10:05 PM
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Yeah I'm experiencing constant nausea/anxiousness right now. I feel a little sick
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 09:07 PM
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This makes a lot of sense. I want to keep my dignity. I won't be contacting anyone. I'm sitting with family and friends now and I just have an uneasy feeling. Almost like a mild nausea/anxiety/butterflies. I don't know what it is but it feels like I'm always close to breaking down.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 08:59 PM
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I mean I literally just got pied in the face yesterday out of nowhere. It's still processing. Deep down I just want to text her mom and let her know how her daughter fucked up. Her parents would probably agree she fucked up. It'd be nice to let them know what their daughter did.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 08:07 PM
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Only sexual
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:45 PM
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You're right. I'll see how things go. I think I did the right thing by blocking her on social media though. She needs to feel that she fucked up at least a little.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:44 PM
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Yeah I told her about how some girls that fuck 30 or 40 guys aren't as respected. She said that number was just ridiculous. She's already seen 4 dicks I believe. She'll be well over ten by the time she hits the wall though. I just feel so disrespected...
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:42 PM
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Yeah I changed my mind. I blocked her.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:33 PM
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I'll drop them off if she asks me
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:32 PM
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I don't want to go through a restraining order kind of thing.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:17 PM
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She really did break my trust. She pretty much straight up told me she can do better.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:16 PM
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Fascinating. I'll look into it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:14 PM
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Lol I couldn't find her address. It's either that or dropping them off at her door myself
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:13 PM
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Yeah if she did this insane shit once, how do I know she won't do it again? If she ever texts me begging, that'll be my response.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:03 PM
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Yeah except I won't be accepting her with open arms. I blocked her on social media so I think she understands that now. That's crazy you mentioned that about the hair. Yesterday, the day we broke up, she had her straighted for the first time in a long time...
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 06:01 PM
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Yeah I totally agree. I'll be in my 30's before I consider getting into another one.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:38 PM
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Yeah she even said she has been thinking about it. The longer she waits to beg to come back the less her chances of succeeding. If I don't get a text from her begging for another chance within a month, she will be forever dead to me.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:36 PM
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Religious family wasn't ready for me to introduce her.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:33 PM
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Yeah she had a lot of good qualities and I'm thankful for it. I had to show strength and block her though. I don't think I'll be okay with taking her back after she did some "exploring". It genuinely repulses me on a new level.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:32 PM
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Great advice. My parents know this too so I don't know why they keep harrasing me about it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:22 PM
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I could text her mom and ask for it...
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:16 PM
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I mean I don't have her address. I'll try to look for it in our texts
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:14 PM
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She's going to be at work around that time. Nothing for me to cave into.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:10 PM
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Yeah she really fucked me over, I won't.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:08 PM
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Expect we had a really solid foundation. I don't know what else I could have done.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:08 PM
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I like that idea. It's like a formal fuck you. I don't even remember her apartment number though lol I have a dentist appointment next week that's close to her place. I'll slide her keys in an envelope under her door.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:06 PM
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She wants to go fuck other men. It can't have been that special for her, can it? Hit the nail on the head. She's not cheating when it's already over. I'll be getting options soon.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:03 PM
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Thanks for that. All completely true. We spoke for 15 minutes yesterday at her apartment when she started the conversation then I left and that was it. I could have handled that conversation a little better but I also didn't want to come off as a psychopath. I shouldn't have even given her those 15 minutes but whatever. That's the last thing she ever got me.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 05:00 PM
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I will come here or asktrp in times of weakness. I obviously still have plenty of beta qualities and will come here for advice when necessary.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:56 PM
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Well we could have built a family but not anymore. You're right, living through a relationship isn't really growing.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:55 PM
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I guess so. It's hard not getting comfortable after this long of a relationship. I probably did show plenty of beta signals and it has hurt me.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:52 PM
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Thank you. I was lucky enough that we didn't even share a social circle. My social circle barely even knows about her. We met on tinder. Cutting her off will be a relatively easy process compared to other break ups.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:50 PM
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It's slowly starting to hit me.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:49 PM
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I'll be too repulsed to ever stick my dick in her again. She fucked up and she's going to have to live with that. As far as the blue pill dream, I just want to have kids one day like most normal people.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:48 PM
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I don't think I even want her as a fuck buddy. I'd be too repulsed by what she has done. There's too many fish in the sea to go back to her for cheap pussy. It's a scary thought that I will forever be a pillow to land on in her eyes now. It won't be happening on my watch though.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:45 PM
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Yes yes yes. I didn't realize this last night but this morning it hit me. I have blocked her and will ghost her. If she texts my phone for her apartment keys I won't even respond. I'll just slide them under her door and leave. I realized that letting her get any other words in will only hurt me. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:42 PM
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You're right she isn't. She was active on messenger really late last night, much later than usual. I know she must have been fucking someone she had lined up, fuck her. I've blocked her for my own health.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:39 PM
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Way ahead of you, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:37 PM
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Trust me I will be seeing other pussy and soon. I know it will help tremendously. I know I have a bit of oneitis, not going to deny it. It's hard not to after 4 years to be fair. But I will treat her like any other useless tinder match and block her.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:36 PM
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I don't want to lose my social life too. I blocked her this morning on all social media. Doing this as early as the next day of the break up will really hit it home that she fucked up. This sub has helped me see the light, as it always has.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:33 PM
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Thanks to this sub, I definitely realize now that I gave a huge beta signal when I gave her the offer of finally meeting my family. She's good looking she might be able to find another provider down the line after she's had a gluttonous amount of cocks. What I can promise you is that that provider will not be me. I'm sorry you went through something similar. I'm sure it was a tremendous opportunity for growth though. You're absolutely right about the older generation. The thing is, she has a gre…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:30 PM
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Yeah she looked at me differently yesterday when we talked. I would almost describe it as her eyes were subtly angry or repulsed at my very existence with me laying on her bed. She gave me a look I hadn't seen in the entirety of our relationship. It's a horrible realization but I know she has lost attraction and I will not fight for it. I have blocked her on social media to send the message that I am the prize and that she was nothing but another whore. If she wants to text my phone she can but …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:15 PM
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Yes 100% agree. The only way she will ever get another response from me is if she begs me to take her back and soon. I'm not going to wait until she hits the wall. If she waits more than a couple months before begging for another chance it will be 100% over.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:55 PM
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It happens with committed celebrities too bro. No one is immune. I won't be speaking to her for at least a month. My reasoning is that if she realizes she fucked up and gets over this phase quickly I might consider speaking to her again. If she waits years, it's 100% over. Regardless, I won't be responding to her ever again unless she begs me to come back and soon. This feels like the most insane shit test in the world.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:52 PM
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She's knows that I'm what? A responsible man looking to have kids and a family some day? It's not such a fucking weird thing to want man. I just want to have a family one day like everyone else. I hate this so much. I was never building my life for her. It was always for myself. I was just inviting her to join me in it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:47 PM
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That's a good point about frame. I'm going to keep mine and not speak to her for at least a month or longer. I just don't know what I'll do yet if she decides to come back in a few weeks.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:44 PM
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What should I do if she comes back crawling in a couple weeks? Her parents are going to kill her when they find out what she did. I think if she realizes she fucked up soon I might consider taking her back.. I don't know yet. If she waits until she hits the wall at 30 or even a couple years from now it's 100% going to be a hard no from me, that I'm sure about.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:41 PM
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There's not a lot more that I could have done. Her family are very good people though. We got along very well. I think when she eventually drops the news to them that she broke it off for such an idiotic reason, they're going to smack some sense into her. If this happens in a couple weeks or in a month or two, I might consider taking her back, I don't know yet. If she comes back when she's 30, used up and smacked into the wall, it will be a hard no 100%.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:37 PM
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Thanks for the insight. It sucks cause this just happened yesterday though. When she hits the wall and realizes she couldn't do better, I don't think I'll be okay with taking her back in after she was used up. Right now the thing that's on my mind is, she's a smart girl. She might realize this within a couple weeks or months. What should I do then? I know how shitty the quality of women is in this market.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:32 PM
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That's exactly what it is. I won't be responding to her for months. We had something amazing though and I don't know how I'm going to react when she inevitably comes back.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:29 PM
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It just sucks that one slip up might have fucked over years of work. I'm not going to reply to her inevitable messages for a month or two or more. It feels like I'm going through the hardest shit test in the world right now. That she wants to see how I react. Am I beta that's going to beg her to come back? Or do I know I can do much better than her and not even bother replying for months. I know she's going to come back, the thing is we had something pretty fucking special. I don't want to be a …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:28 PM
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It has. It just sucks that one slip up might have fucked over years of work. I'm not going to reply to her inevitable messages for a month or two or more. It feels like I'm going through the hardest shit test in the world right now. That she wants to see how I react. Am I beta that's going to beg her to come back? Or do I know I can do much better than her and not even bother replying for months.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:23 PM
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I think that might be the best chance I have of saving this. I won't be responding to anything she sends me. She might get a reply from me in a month or so. That'll let her know I'm not scared of losing her.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:20 PM
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You're right. It was very disrespectful. The thing is she thinks I'm going to be okay with taking her back like her dad was with her mom. I won't be. I don't know how to get that across.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:18 PM
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The thing is, getting my dick wet is about the easiest thing in the world. Having a once in a lifetime kind of relationship is a lot harder. I've tried seeing other chicks before, none of them were ever as well rounded as she was, especially psychologically.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:16 PM
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She knows I have the ability to get laid if I want to. The problem now is that she thinks I might be okay with getting back together when she's done riding some new dicks. I won't be. I don't know how to get that across to her. I do want to see her message me, not going to lie.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:12 PM
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You're right. My parents just keep harrasing me about it and it resulted in the stupid conversation that ended my 4 year relationship.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:09 PM
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How's she going to know I can do better? We had a really amazing relationship. It sucks so much that one conversation about commitment from me ruined it all. The thing is, she thinks I'm the same type of breed her father was. That I'll be okay with getting back when she's done riding strange dick. I won't be. Is there any way to get this message across besides blocking?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:08 PM
2

Thanks man. I don't let them get to me.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:05 PM
0

Yeah you'd be right. I know it was something special because we went 4 years with barely even an argument. She's going to realize eventually that we had a once in a lifetime kind of relationship.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:05 PM
2

Tbh my frame would come and go over the years. I would have been okay fucking around for a couple more years. My parents turned me to a fucking simp when I lived with them. Every other fucking day I would hear a "joke" from family about when I would eventually bring a girl home. It eventually got to me and led to me having the convo with her.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:03 PM
5

I thought the imperative was to find the best genetic material. Finding a variety is more of a guy thing.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:00 PM
1

Yeah I genuinely fucked up bringing up the conversation. That's all it took, one conversation, one fuck up and it's 4 years down the drain. It's annoying because I have plenty of friends and family that are getting engaged at my age. I thought she would be happy when she finally got she wanted..
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:59 PM
1

With her? We'd go for less than an hour because she'd get sore. She's always had the problem where her vagina hurts after 20-30 minutes of fucking at most, no matter how much foreplay and lube we had. I had one fwb that could go two hours plus of fucking, I'll probably reach out to her soon.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:57 PM
1

You're right, I'm probably dead to her.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:54 PM
2

Yeah I'm thankful for that
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:53 PM
1

It's really fucking disrespectful. The fact that she thinks she can fuck tens, hundreds or even thousands of guys then come crawling back to me when she realizes she fucked up and needs a provider.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:52 PM
1

You'd be right too. A lot of guys focus on different things when they grow. My focus has always been about money because when I was growing up, we didn't have too much of it. I always envied those people with a lot of money, the infinite problems it could solve. Looking at life through an objective lens will show you that no matter what fucking happens, having money will always be better than not having money
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:49 PM
2

Yeah you're right. I fucked up bringing up this conversation. That's all it was. One fucking conversation at a restaurant. I wasn't in the right state of mind. I had gotten the job offer over the phone that day. We were so excited and happy. I let my guard down in my ecstacy like a fucking beta. Of course she was going to bring up that conversation herself eventually. One mistake after 4 years of maintaining frame and it all goes to shit. Wow. Like I said to some other guys, I think she did me a…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:45 PM
3

Well put. My own mother is the same way. Never satisfied with life, always wanting something more no matter what she has. My parents have stayed married though because of our culture and religion. We had a beautiful thing but I think it's ruined.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:28 AM
15

All valid points. Dating apps have irreversibly fucked LTRs for the rest of time. My family is really religious. I'm somewhat religious. She really wasn't at all. Luckily for me, there's a lot of single ladies at several of our churches looking for a good dude with the same background and ethnicity. I'm going to wait a couple years if I ever I do another LTR though.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:25 AM
1

Never said I was the shit but okay.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:19 AM
7

Yeah you're right. 0 attention will always be the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:03 AM
1

I wasn't sure if I wanted to disclose that tbh
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 04:02 AM
3

I totally agree with you. Doing that now.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:49 AM
3

You're right I won't waste my energy on it. I know my value isn't the best. I'm good looking but I also have loans and I could be fitter. I think objectively speaking, I'm a 6.5 and she's maybe a 5.5-6 out of 10 according to the sub true rate me's standards.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:48 AM
5

Registered pharmacist in the northeast. Came with loans though
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:45 AM
6

Lol I was literally fucking other plates. I had abundance mentality. All the dread in the world wouldn't have stopped her from wondering what else is out there.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:36 AM
1

Nah I think I'll be okay fucking around for a couple years guilt free. She honestly did me a favor. My bank account thanks her as well.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:33 AM
39

You're right, it's not healthy. I'm going to be focusing on myself.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:31 AM
3

Of course I don't know but if she was cheating she wouldn't have said some of the things she said. And it's low 6 figures right now.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:06 AM
-7

Lol I know literally right now she's babysitting. But maybe later she will be. I will never view her in the same light again, that's for sure... I also think she's either at her peak SMV or close to it. I'm nowhere near mine. It'll be nice to let her see what I become.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 03:03 AM
1

Probably worth more than me tbh. I'm 24 and got a good job but I still have a ton of student loans too. My net worth isn't shit right now. On the other hand, she's in her prime and a cute blonde in her mid 20s. So good for her. This is better than each of us resenting each other for never exploring and not seeing other people.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:59 AM
2

Yeah in the dating world, the business world, and life in general. Brutal shit happens and there's nothing we can do about it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:51 AM
2

That was beautiful, thank you. I have a fuck ton of loans that might take 4-5 years to pay off on my salary and if I live at home. After that though, it's stocks and real estate till the cows come home. Maybe a porsche cayman somewhere in between if I find a good deal.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:46 AM
1

I got rated on the true rate me subreddit. I was told I was a 6.5 a couple of times. I think she would be a 5.5-6 by that sub's stupid high standards.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:43 AM
5

I am extremely thankful. It would have fucked up my family too if they found out I was seeing someone behind their backs for so long.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:38 AM
2

I really tried my best to mix up the sex. Both of us orgasmed every single time at least once. She is definitely a great girl and it might work out for her. If that happens, then congratulations to her.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:35 AM
2

Yeah I'm just really repulsed with ever getting in an LTR again. I'd be lying if I said it didn't hurt. I'll probably wait until I'm 30 before I ever think about this again, sorry mom and dad. They might to have to look to my younger brother for grandkids now.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:31 AM
-12

Love that. If I block her, she won't be able to see the man I become either. I really want her to see the end result when I'm in my late 20's and early 30's: Fit and driving around in a fucking Porsche.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:29 AM
-12

Lol thanks for that. I just don't want to message her. And if I block her I'll always wonder what she had to say to me. I'm not taking her back regardless.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:25 AM
7

There won't be any checking in on my part. She asked for a break and she's going to get it. I'm actually grateful for the time she chose to do this. I wouldn't have been able to interview right if she did it before I got a job. It also would have fucked my relationship with my family if she did it after I introduce the fact that I've been seeing someone for years behind their back.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:20 AM
1

Thanks for the advice. I'll be coming back to this often. I won't be restarting contact. If I feel that it's getting painful to still have her on Fb and the like, I'll block her.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:14 AM
3

Yeah I seriously thought about getting her something. That's over though. It is pretty shitty but I also understand that's female nature. It's like when a kid gets his hands in the mud. You don't chop off their hands for it, it's expected.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:10 AM
2

The thing is, that's the only culturally appropriate and responsible way to have kids, which I wanted. I understand that's probably not ever going to be in my future now.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:07 AM
29

Interesting concept and it makes sense. When I brought up taking things to the next level, what she always wanted, she realized that when push came to shove, she wanted to not only ride the CC but that she could do better than me. She very well might so congratulations to her.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 02:03 AM
2

I didn't know it was possible for hypergamy to fuck up this badly on her end.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:59 AM
2

I get what you're saying but it would have been nice to have kids some day. That's probably not going to be in my future now.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:57 AM
5

I'm not saying she deserves better than me, just better than being totally shit on since she hasn't really don't anything to deserve that. I won't be restarting the relationship and I won't be initiating contact probably ever again.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:54 AM
5

The grass isn't always greener. She's going to learn a few things about economics, especially about undervaluing an appreciating asset.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:40 AM
5

I'm a firm believer of capitalism. I'm going to let the market tell her what she's worth.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:36 AM
3

Trust me, I have 0 female friends and plenty of plates for the same reason. I just don't see the point in letting her feel worthless. Either way we won't be getting back together so how she feels doesn't matter. I just don't want to be shitty to her because she was never shitty to me. I was going to get her a solid valentine's day gift but that's over though.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:34 AM
0

I agree. I just don't want to be rude because the relationship was good while it lasted, I genuinely think she deserves better than getting blocked. I'm going to let her message me and that'll be the end of it. Trust me, her family will let her know she fucked up for me.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:28 AM
6

Yeah we're not going to be speaking for a couple days and probably going to officially cut it off in a couple days when she texts me.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:24 AM
4

Yeah I understand. I wonder how quickly she's going to realize that different can be a lot worse. Yeah no need to be rude, she asked for a break and trust me she's going to get it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:22 AM
5

Yeah that makes sense. I recently graduated from pharmacy school and it was a little similar. She only has her undergraduate degree and is currently working as a waitress. I really could have given her a decent life. I knew this day could come but it still caught me a bit off guard. Her parents are going to be angry as fuck at the decision she just made.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:19 AM
82

Thank you so much for that. You have a very valid point. If we had gotten married in a year or two, I would have been destined for divorce rape. I already knew there was a chance of that but my conversation with her confirmed it. If anything, I should be thankful she did us the favor of not going through that. That's a very interesting point about the hypergamy. I felt because she gave me her best years that I would reward her with commitment but oh well. Not only did I work on myself, I treated…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:16 AM
1

Yeah and if she doesn't she soon will..
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:08 AM
12

Thank you brother, that makes me feel a bit better about myself. I'll admit deep down I did have similar thoughts as her but I always thought that was such a stupid reason. She even said verbatim, "I wish we met 2 years from now." The problem is, I don't think I'll be willing to take her back after she's ridden the CC for two years. I even dropped a TRP bomb on her. I told her it was actually a positive that we met when we were young and didn't have astronomical n counts. I told her a lot of guy…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:06 AM
5

I know there's always someone taller, fitter, richer, better looking etc but you're right, there's always room for improvement on my end. I'm just curious what else she plans to say to me after four years. I won't block her just yet but I won't initiate contact either. And I'm way ahead of way of you, I've been spinning plates.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 12:59 AM
57

Yeah if anything I'll leave her on "seen". While my shape is decent, I have plenty of room for improvement so I'll be working on that. Otherwise, doing well with my job and paying off some student loans are going to be my main focus. I'll admit, my game has stayed sharp. I feel a little guilty. She's stayed loyal but I have a couple of plates ready to go.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 12:56 AM
17

I warned her, if we take a "break" there's a good chance I won't be there for her when she decides to come back. I really was considering taking the relationship to the next level but I don't know if I ever could with her or anyone now. Fuck. I should have known though. Her mom did the same shit. Met a great guy early on and decided he wasn't the one for her. Years later, they got married. I don't think I can do that though.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 12:13 AM
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