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Replacement rate is 2.2. To have that some families need to have 3. But since if you tell people 2-3 they’ll only have 2. You tell them 3-4 so they have 2-3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:23 AM
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They still had a few more than 1 like most people today. We can find a balance where people have 3-4 kids and no one works the mines.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:30 PM
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We don’t even have kids to throw to labor. And the upper class didn’t do that. So I am for the military boarding schools they did have tho. No weird incel stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 07:57 PM
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That’s the old culture definition. The new one is just a blanket we don’t owe people anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:07 PM
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Like I said, stabilize the economy and solve the climate crisis then we’ll talk about having more babies You have to do both at once. I worked as an engineer at a plant. We had two sets of goals. Cost reduction and production increase while maintaining quality. I thought as an eager young engineer we should focus on production increase because the cost reduction kept making the quality issue harder. The senior engineer rightfully said we need to do both at the same time. And we will. And we did.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:31 PM
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It’s not really a right wing panic when it’s taken as a serious issue even by left leaning governments in Europe. The current system for pensions needs a population equal to or larger to be sustainable. (The pension system is basically a buddy system where someone entering their career pays for someone who’s leaving) We either have to fix the issue. Or we have to gut all social services and become some libertarian hell to avoid a monetary crash. Kinda serious issue. Victorian policies were harsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:24 PM
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The general wellbeing and preservation of the human species. These roles/traits either evolved or were created (depending on your belief system you can take whichever argument) for a reason. We’re soften them just a bit this century and the birthrate just dropped off the cliff. So it seems like we not only need to preserve them. We need to keep them at Victorian levels or we’re cooked as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 06:16 PM
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Because the enforced roles from birth are like stop signs. Needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:45 PM
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There’s the old school culture where this is stringing her along and he’s being a dick. And there’s the new culture of you don’t owe people anything from which he did nothing wrong. If you believe in the former that’s fine. But the issue is everyone switches to the one that’s is convenient for their purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:38 PM
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I don’t know about your school but the female teachers at mine were basically the same height as the students. The male teachers were the only ones who actually looked like to us as “adults”. If the guys at 14 are 5 7 and the teachers are 5 5. I’m sorry but there will be a basic level of questioning the hierarchy that’s exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 04:34 PM
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You can’t have an ugly skeletal structure. That’s not how it work. Fam just accept the gym. It will be your home. It will make you hot. You just need to also eat right and that’s it. And this heigh obsession. Fam there are always shorter girl and guys. Just start spitting game at the culture with short people. Got a homeboy who’s 5 8. Does he complain? No. Does he shoot hit shot at every Mexican shorty? Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 04:55 AM
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This lack of standards on one side. And high standards on the other is not gonna work. The ladies would be more willing to have realistic expectations if yall stopped giving attention to every woman with a pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:26 AM
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This is ridiculous. What do you think attractiveness is? What is its utility. Why is clear skin, nice figure, good smile all attractive? These are health markers. They show your balls work or you can produce children. That’s it. It’s not some magical stat in D&D. It has a real correlation to how much you weight AND how much muscle you have. If you’re not fat. And you’re unattractive you probably either need to bulk up. Or fix your diet to fix your skin and maybe fix your teeth. After that everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 03:25 AM
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80% of attraction is your body weight and body composition. Athletes are all decent looking for this basic reason. A nation like the US where the average guy is either overweight or skinny fat will mean the girls will find the average guy ugly. It’s not that hard. I’m not a good looking guy. Never really was. But I had no issues with women. Why? I had abs. Shirts looked like they fit on me. I could wear my friends outfit and it would look like a good fit because I had decent muscles and low body…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:53 AM
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I’m in the between generation. And the issue is both sides. Gen Z act all autistic. And that’s causing a lot of problems. Gen Z girls match with me more on these apps then anyone else because they go after mellenial dudes after recognizing we know how to take them on a date and dress half decent. But also older folks don’t understand how these apps have ruined dating. Before the apps everyone and I mean fucking everyone was in a relationship. Now no one is. It’s crazy. Even the nerdy guys at sch…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:47 AM
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Going to answer a purple pill. Yes. Half yall dress like bums and are overweight. The only question is why do most dudes not also think the chick are unattractive when the average person in the west is unhealthy and overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:44 AM
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They can’t. That’s the issue. Hookups and sex before marriage and casual sex all have this expected understanding that everyone basically does the most selfish thing and everyone understands it. It’s like nightclubs. If you (and I don’t think it’s a good idea). You realize it’s an unspoken agreement that everyone is out for themselves. The girls get in for free. The men pay. The ladies enter the dance floor and the men follow. If you’re good looking they dance with you and maybe ask for a drink.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:41 AM
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Take it a step further. No sex before marriage. At this point it’s becoming clear folks can’t handle it. The main issue is that you seem to want something that’s impossible. Everyone wants to be a bad bitch and have sex before marriage. But yall ladies basically got played into thinking that giving it out for free was enlightenment. It’s a shame yall fell for it. Just accept maybe grandpa was right. But yall won’t because you ladies both want two contradictory positions. To have sex like playboy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:34 AM
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Thing is that western men are probably the most feminist men in human history. Most men in human history being like Iranian and Afghans. Even in Rome your father could legally kill you and nothing could be done as the father literally owned the women in the family. Most women outside the west view western men as Prince Charming for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:15 PM
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They’re the most pure feminist men probably in human history. 99% of human history the men were closer to how they are in Afghanistan and Iran. And the rest they’re like the men on Russia and Poland. If yall knew just how restricting being a woman was in Japan and lot of other industrialized countries
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:14 PM
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Every women on the planet with any intelligence is critical. What’s being debate is the specific “I hate men” toxic mentality that is more normal here. I had my sisters visit our cousins back in some Asian country. The moment they started that up and it was more times then they could chalk it up to a joke my aunts and cousins had to had a whole intervention with them telling them that it was a bigoted worldview. Like there is a level of vulgarity with the speech about gender in the west. The men…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:10 PM
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The whole tsundere character type is made from the idea that the few women with that mentality are just softies on the inside. It’s that un normal to have someone truly hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:06 PM
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You live a wild world if you think Arab women are going to be thrown in jail for saying they hate men. They’ll be praised because then there’s no fear she might fall for a bad boy and elope. But they don’t outside of some jokes because this whole “I hate men” thing is weird to most of the world. Most women outside the west would say you’re some “weird lesbian” if you say that often and be ostracized.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:05 PM
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I’m a natural flirt. Like if you put me in a convo with a girl I find even a medium level of attraction I’ll accidentally say things that are flirting. Like at work a while back ago I think a coworkers said something along the lines of “don’t take it to heart” and I responded “ain’t letting you have my heart yet” And I had to change the convo quickly. I have no poker face also so women always knew who I liked. It’s not good. I had a reputation in high school with “letting girls on” and in colleg…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:38 AM
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Worldcup is on and it’s on everyday. When was I supposed to watch the movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:12 AM
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The education system is mixed. You need to separate the guys and get them 1 to 1 training. The women will always be an excuse to why they shouldn’t be better. Like even on here. You tell dudes to dress better and they’ll say “but bitches will date Brad and all he does is wear gym shorts “ If you separate them then they’re no competition for women but competition amongsts themselves for their own improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:19 PM
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Our collective feelings of achievement
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:10 PM
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Everything is a milestone. From walking to learning to drive to getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:58 PM
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Grow up fam
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:15 PM
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I would be the first person to oppose it. The world has a natural order. Women are the first quest. If you can’t pass this bar then no kids. It keeps people who can’t socialize from harming the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:58 PM
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I think that’s also a viable route. But try adopting without a wife. The system will (and rightly so) reject you. If you can’t even keep a partner you won’t be able to handle a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:35 PM
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Surrogacy is just taking advantage of poor women who have to sell their bodies and lose their child (the one who gave birth to you is your mother genes be damned) to provide for their other kids. I don’t think it’s a viable route for ethic individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:30 PM
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That’s my second sentence bro in my comment dude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:57 PM
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Women, cars and material possessions, status, and children. To get kids you need woman. Cars and material possessions is hard in an economy that’s one shot many blue collar jobs they used to know. And this will happen to the women sector jobs when Ai comes into the picture and yall will feel the pressure also. Status is became obsolete about a century ago when scholars and writers stopped being respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:57 PM
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What do you think the Russians were doing in Syria in the 2010s? They were raiding and pillaging? They’re currently doing that now in Ukraine You want to model civilization after international pariahs? No russsia is an example of what happens when civilizations collapse. Theyre back to pillaging You may be shocked to learn movies aren't real life. The art comes from the subconscious Nope. You're not gonna be able to red pill your way out of this. This is economics not red pill. This is the econo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:55 PM
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Aaaaand you lost me. My goal isn’t to get anyone How are you not seeing the disconnect between using manipulative lies to get sex and a genuine connection born from authentic interaction? 99% of pickup was just how to say high and start a conversation. Basically a salesman being taught to pretend to be confident. Most of those guys were going to malls and doing cheesy pickup lines. That got rejected and now you got red pill which is far far worse. It's dishonest and manipulative to mislead other…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:52 PM
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No of course not but the subject here is the ladies and from What the stats have been showing there not the ones falling behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:45 PM
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The issue with putting women in the military is that they always abuse them. Until we first fix normal society I don’t think we can fix the military. And the 30% I’m talking about with the guys is them having completely different trainers that aren’t the military dudes. Like barbers, old Uncs in the community with game, stylists, and with your addition therapists. Maybe a chief or two so they know how to cook a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:20 PM
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Issue is they don’t have a good example. For all the shit the pickup artists used to do. They atleast used to make it clear that it was a skill issue. Something that could be fixed. But the backlash to them after they became let’s be honest wild and crazy was too much. Many, even on here, saying that it’s manipulation and that the guys should bring “their authentic selves” which is stupid because we’re all cultured for a reason. We’re better the animals because we conform to a high level of soph…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:18 PM
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Because the generals and the system is basically only trynna make soldiers. I would change it to 70:30 split. 70% of the time they can go make them soldiers to defend the place. 30% would be them getting useful skills to be employed outside of the army, how to talk to women, how to dress well, and even having them be brought to malls and coffee shops to practice respectfully talking to women. The women would know the boys are in town to practice what they learned on being respectful and since th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:15 PM
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I think two things have happened The average standard amongsts men have dropped. I remember the 90s. My uncles used to spend cash to getting dressed up a bit. They used to have a cologne collection. Have watches and random rings for style. Clean cars. And a very respectful tone when trynna flirt. And they’d take Nos with some level of pride. And before that our grandads had suits for days even when they were broke. The average dating has gotten harder. I’m not that old but I was having an easier…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:01 PM
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Dude as a dude. I don’t like most dudes. I think a lot of guys don’t get it. But once you get your shit together. Have an ok car. And ok job. Get some clean clothing. You realize most dudes are to god damn childish. I wouldn’t marry my sisters to these slobs. I’ve always said that every family should have atleast 3 kids so there’s a set of brothers and sisters. Because damn you don’t see the women’s perspective until two conditions are met You have your own shit together You try to help your own…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:56 PM
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The reasons why is tho. The men are broke and can’t provide an adequate lifestyle. They’re uneducated or lack sophistication because they’re not cultured fully. They lack hygiene and are childlike because they weren’t patented correctly. What’s giving yall ladies the ick is basically you guys knowing that there’s something wrong with the men. And there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:49 PM
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That’s a fault of biology. At the end the reason why we’re men and women in the first place is that procreation can happen. If that wasn’t the case you’d have to strip humans of those things and the androgynous person made is basically a tall child. Regardless the solution thankfully is simple. We have to fix the economic and just make upwards mobility something that’s feasible for the average man. As long as they have a fair shot. Then their failures are their own and the success are their own.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:47 PM
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I think this shit is just downstream of economics. Fix the economic and social mess so that people have the decent shot at upwards mobility and everyone will be happy. Women won’t concede on the standard of living they went. So we have to make sure young guys with ambition have a shot at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:45 PM
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All that shit is downstream of economics. Dudes who have good jobs and work don’t spend there times worrying about what hoes at the bottom do. But since they’re broke they have to spend more time in the cellar of the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:44 PM
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Raiding and pillaging has been a thing every time civilization breaks down. What do you think the Russians were doing in Syria in the 2010s? What do you think happening in Sudan now? Even in American movies. When the society breaks down they immediately go show people doing that. But that shit is destructive and you can’t have a culture. So the rich and powerful work to get young guys married ASAP and working ASAP. So they don’t go into the whole joining the neighboring arming thing. Now I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:34 PM
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I personally think we’re no where near what the fear mongering is saying. But that we’re in the path of it. Which is what the concern is. Go to a random Friday night in any city and folks are having a blast. But we saw with the last election it doesn’t not take many men being disgruntled for the social contract to break and shit hit the fan real quick. We’re just lucky our version of modern day mousallini isn’t competent. If he was we’d be cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:27 PM
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The social contract of civilsrion is that every dude gets a wife or atleast a decent shot at one so they don’t follow the guy who’s telling them to raid and pillage. Mess with that even a little via not allowing economic / social mobility (the things they need to get wives snd family) or just not allow them to have wives and family due to random reasons. And they just go back to the raid and pillage route via following or voting for facists. Thankfully it’s not that bad yet. And we have time to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:26 PM
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But their sisters did. And it was because the men were killed and the women were taken as victims. Like half of Europe’s is related to the Vikings. Not by choice. History is dark
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:16 PM
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They won’t get excluded. 3 things that may happen The birth rate will drop and these billionaires will see their own future getting tested and they’ll put in a facist who will force change. The birth rate drops and countries like Afghanistan and the Amish and other places where they don’t give a damn about equality become the people who win the future. The birth rate drops snd the men become foot soldiers for some facist tyrant. Imagine it andrew Tate was someone who could have ran for president…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:10 PM
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Dude. That’s just the social contracts that’s been signed since the dawn of civilization. They get wives via marriage. And they don’t raid and pillage other villages. Take away the marriage and the social contract breaks down and you’re back to nomadic step tribe / Viking actions. Marriage was the beginning of civilization. It created a means that allowed for there to be stability and allowed men to focus on building the culture. And not like animals where they spend 90% of their time either eat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:05 PM
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There was always 10-15% of dudes who never wanted to be married. So when the marriage rate is 100% those 12% were annoying fucks. But now it’s that everyone’s not getting the married. The 12% are happy and the other 88% are pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:01 PM
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Yeah and they’re raided and pillaged. Those unmarried men were foot soldiers for what we call in the modern world fascist uprisings and leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:59 PM
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It’s not an option. They’re hardwired to get married or burn the place to the ground. Marriage is the social contract keeping young dudes from raiding and pillaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 01:58 PM
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You get the worst of both of them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:17 AM
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See we used to throw guys like that into volcanos. But yall said that’s not cool anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:17 AM
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My homeboy who’s good looking doesn’t need to go out. He has like +200 matches on tinder, and a dozen plus convos going on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:16 AM
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Yeah one day these kids will grow up to becoming the biggest right wing facists who will ban this stuff. The world usually equalizes that way. I’ve seen on TikTok already the kids born from surrogacy getting mad and asking why their parents didn’t let them meet “their real mom”. Shits wild
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:14 AM
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We got monarchy in many countries and they’re all a mess. Democracy is a mess to. But they’re not anything more then small weak countries. Monarchies in this era don’t work because any visionary king would be murked by the letter agencies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:08 AM
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He’s a Zionist. I don’t know why people are surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:20 PM
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Yeah that’s why half these dudes are sleeping with their students.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:17 PM
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I don’t know why someone asked me this. But yes. Dancing especially the bachata sensual type is cheating and sexual in nature. Yes twerking on another dude is cheating. And like BJJ let’s not pretend as if there’s no sexual elements between the two opposite sex partners at that moment. This isn’t just because we know all those folks constantly sleep with each other but it is a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:01 AM
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Another reason to ban dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:58 AM
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Men are the drivers for all this degeneracy and collapse of culture. Who’s paying for these escorts and OF chicks ? Dudes. Who’s pushing to sleep on the first date knowing these chicks are impressionable ? Dudes. Who’s legalizing prostitution. Who’s funding the the red light districts. Who’s going on instagram and DMing every girl. Who’s swiping right on every chick. Who’s sleeping with women they know they wouldn’t ever admit to much less marry? Dudes. We can’t fix the culture if we don’t have …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:55 AM
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Everyone who says in here they have bad luck with women because they’re bad looking sounds so funny to me. I looked like and still look like a goblin and had through persistence dated women in the past fine. I think the main issue is that today there’s no grace from either side. I used to try pick up lines and the ladies would give me tips on what work and what doesn’t back in the day. Not put a camera in front of my face. I’m in my 30s now so I remember the old days of dating. We used to litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:27 PM
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Or you go through something really changing. Like trauma or war. Put that nerdy quiet dude in a war or serious sickness and he’ll come out a different person altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:22 PM
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It’s ok if you look like Ana Hathaway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:21 PM
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Go the solar panel + battery route like Pakistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:19 PM
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Someone take away the podcast mikes from people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:19 PM
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Not really. If something happens that one thing. But it’s to complicated with to many rules these days. Dating apps suck and you can’t approach anyone at the gym or at work or anywhere that I actually see anyone. If someone recommends me someone I’ll maybe go on that date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:10 PM
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It’s actually not that bad. The more time passes the less it matters. I think I just got to give it that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:00 PM
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Put that cat on a rooftop with no access to a drink and that was me last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:12 PM
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Homeboy invited me to a hang at his place while I was in the city. He invited some more folks and she was one of them. She’s been in a relationship and I more or less am the reason why we broke up so I’ve been respectful of it (ie being nice and avoiding her because I can’t tell her how I feel). So the latter basically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:11 PM
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I don’t have a gf. The girl I fell for was a girl I previously dated. We broke up for dumb reasons (mostly on my end). We later became amicable friends after I apologized and explained my side of the story. Now she has a bf and I respect that relationship. I just was in the city for work and a mutual friend invited me to hang without telling me she was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:09 PM
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I wish. I’m double that age now lol. I spent my teen years and 20s grinding on working because I was poor growing up. In my late 20s I fell for a girl and later broke up and basically never got over her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:55 PM
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Met up yesterday with the one girl I loved but never told. I thought it was going to be a quick chat about life and just leaving. But we spoke for hours on the balcony overlooking the city on a cool June night. I think that’s going to be one of those memories that I’ll think of into my 60s. Pure nostalgia. Had to end the convo and leave the conversation at the very end. Walked back to my hotel couldn’t sleep so I went to the rooftop deck and stayed awake til sunrise. Then went to work today. Nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:16 PM
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Why? It doesn’t help society in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:10 PM
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He’s not a good friend. He’s kinda a douchebag. Also add the spoiler warning thing so people don’t get spoiled
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 06:28 PM
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I watched obsession yesterday. The Asian Sarah girl > Nikki. No one can tell me otherwise. The main character is so stupid it became evil
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:58 PM
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I have an offer to an nyc company. Have to decide if it’s worth moving across the country. Doesn’t help that the one girl I ever loved lives there and now I’m questioning if my decisions making skills are being effected by bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:57 PM
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I don’t know if it’s the same. Since the ladies I’ve talked to seem to not want the divorces. I don’t get why they’re patient on their side I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:41 PM
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A massive fine unless he went to jail. Then it’s whatever time he served + a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:40 PM
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Arranged marriages usually are still consensual. Like I can say no. The issue is the pressure. The expectations. The responsibility. That’s when people fold. And I can’t in this instance so I declined and got some heat for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:57 PM
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I don’t know how that can be done but I guess theoretically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:52 PM
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My family is from one. But I live in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:49 PM
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Undisciplined men are controlled more by fear than they are of honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:49 PM
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Tell him to hit the gym and become huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:04 PM
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Good on paper is the issue. Good on paper fulfills a lot of what the ladies want. He’s stable, comes from a good family, dresses decent. He may be kinda ugly but they can get him to hit the gym to fix this one flaw. But for guys her having a decent job, good family and dressing well is nice. But she stays home when they have kids so the career pros disappears. And every girl dresses well. So really the guys don’t get much of what they really want. (A pretty face). While the girls get some of wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:01 PM
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Have a boyfriend/husband next to you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:56 PM
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The prevalence of hookup culture has ruined romance. This shit used to be sweet and cute back in the day. Now there’s a high chance she and he just slept with many people and are bringing that baggage to the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:55 PM
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Steal it back 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:52 PM
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I used to be pretty angry at the old heads on my community for divorcing their wives or trynna get second wives / mistresses back home secretly in their 40s/50s. But seeing how much my parents are trying to force me to marry for duty (a girl whose family reputation is good and is good on paper) I can see how it happened. A lot of old heads when they were young men seemingly married the girl that was the on paper right choice. Because of responsibility and so on. But after like 2 decades they bur…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:49 PM
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There’s levels to it. I also was in Greek life for a bit and while everyone slept around. What you might not have seen is the degree to which the mid looking girls doing everything 10x more to get the same level of attention. The prettiest girl usually had a bf or slept around a bit. But the ones truly craving male attention and being the side chicks and doing all the craziest stuff? They were the ones who couldn’t compete with the other women on a game of pure looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:56 PM
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They don’t use those photos 😐. Chat I’m cooked right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:12 PM
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It does tend to agree. So I said “my friend”. I might need to press it harder
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:11 PM
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Most probably. Depends on how good looking you are. I had a female friend who was a model and every single dude we knew were trying to sleep with her. I grew up with her and already dated and it didn’t work out (I broke it off on my side) so I’m immune. But damn I felt bad for her. Lots of dudes were always hitting on her. She used to call me when she was on the subway so less guys would hit on her since I was FaceTiming her. The guy at the front desk at the hotel got her number from the system …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:56 PM
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ChatGPT says I’m not ugly. But every run club I go to they crop me out of the photos 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:52 PM
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There’s this misconception about body count. Everyone here points to like the cheerleader aesthetic or other types of pretty girls. No it’s the mids. Unless she’s an escort the girls who are decent looking aren’t the ones with the crazy figures. It’s not even every girl. Most girls it’s like 2-5. The ones that go triple platinum are the girls like the nerdy looking 4-6s. The ones who are cute enough for guys to swipe right on but they’ll never actually date her for real. Think like Grace Yao on …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:48 PM
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I didn’t pay for it lol. The company I’m at had this whole mental health push and they gave us free therapy credits
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:54 AM
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I tried that and it didn’t really work. Guess that’s not how it works for dudes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:55 AM
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Theoretically. I don’t understand the mechanisms behind it. I think I just need to find someone better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:57 AM
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Therapist said that the reason I haven’t had a good relationship in 5 years is that I’m in love with a girl I used to date and that I won’t admit it to myself and that’s causing a mental block. That “I’m secretly hoping for her or my preferences match her because I’m trying to find a replacement”. I think she’s probably right. But admitting I loved this girl is something I don’t got the balls to do. But she was right that my preferences for women (tall, good smile, and sharp features) is somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:53 AM
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In middle school I ended up breaking my hand and getting a boxers fracture. Never healed it. I’m wondering now if I should get it fixed or leave it alone lol. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:08 AM
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It’s as illegal as to discriminate against them for their looks. Extremely difficult to prove even though I’m sure it’s done often.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:59 AM
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Good luck you may end up being sent to El Salvador.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:49 PM
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That sounds morbid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:47 PM
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We kinda killed every other predator. You can if you want come to Kenya and go out to the outskirts. Then you’ll have atleast 2 predators (lions and leopards) and if next to the water hippos and crocodiles to deal with if you think humans are rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 11:46 PM
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Tall people are disproportionately represented in CEOs and high end bankers. It’s more like an unspoken rule
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:46 PM
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I would disagree and say it’s socially appropriate to be heightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:55 PM
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Feel like everyone one of these is internalized misogyny personally but I’ll answer It's easier to get hookups. It’s easier to get diseases. M F sex has way lower chances of HIv then M M sex Gay men are still men. Masculine communication is direct, linear, and straightforward. All relationship conflicts can be resolved with ease and minimal emotional baggage. What I would need from a spouse is something I can’t get from like ChatGPT Men have higher sex drives. Both partners will have roughly equ…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:52 PM
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Arranged marriages were closer to “you both were childhood friends growing up a should try to atleast see if this works out”. Not some slavery contract. I think folks in the past because there were so few people that were single and around the same age had to look past looks and go off of personality and character. Which I think is a better model. The paradox of choice the modern world makes just makes everyone unhappy. And I’m not a black pill dude. I literally discovered another path. Just mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:12 PM
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Just got back from a game of basketball. One of the guys is tall and good looking but he has some scars that throw off some of the symmetry on his face. The guys in the group always thought he would have luck in dating since he looked cool and was decently tall and muscular. Ended up telling us that he’s had basically 0 luck and was bullied a lot for it growing up. I always thought the whole look maxxing side of social media was full of shit but dam. This dudes tall has a good job and is muscula…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:59 PM
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I deleted Reddit for a bit to do my masters. And now I’m back to shit post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:25 AM
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Reddit’s rate me put me at an 8.5 when I posted on there a while ago. So I’m technically slightly above a mid 😤. Regardless the point stands. You don’t need to be a model. Most folks are. And you’re probably not competing against them unless you live in like a model ridden city.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 02:21 AM
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People talk about looks as if it’s something binary. But I’ve been called handsome randomly by a stranger at a mall once. And also when one time I was walking to get pizza and there was a club I accidentally was walking with these two women and there was a dude who thought I was with them and said “what the fuck. You???” I’ve also been ignored in public. And also whenever I date a woman the other women don’t bat an eye and approve (also their moms love me). Girls in one city I’ve lived at didn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:57 AM
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It’s the chicken vs the egg story. If approaching women is demonized only demons will do it. If it’s normalized then the chances of more interactions which means more chances of bad interactions. T
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:50 AM
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Day 100 of gym girls trainer / worker at my job being mad at me. I wanted to ask for something and got in a 2 person line waiting for her to get done with answering the guys in front of mes question. She answered him and when I walked up she walked away. So I put my arm out (I have very long arms since I’m 6 4) to block the path. She was surprise and I used that moment to get the answer. In that moment I was just trynna get something so I wasnt thinking. But ever since then she’s been giving me …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:48 PM
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I’m starting a business working and also trying to switch jobs. I can’t figure out which one to prioritize. So far I’m thinking Work so I can eat Switch jobs so I can find a job I don’t hate Start a business so I can make more money. This is what I spend my time trying to figure out and trying to fit into my schedule. This is why coffee dates are the best. Anything else and any dude truly working has no time for the other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 06:42 PM
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I’ve went to many. This was just the last one in my town I didn’t go to. And they all were either no shows. Or dudes. And who said I was lonely? I was bored. And yes the dating market is terminally broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:49 PM
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Went to a meetup. It was 100% dudes and 100% mostly folks in their 40s. That was very interesting. Gonna just write that app off my list because the demographic is just not that good. Dating apps have been the usual mess. Deleting that after just 2 weeks of realizing why I got off of them in the first place. So now I understand how bad the dating market is. It terminally broken lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:22 PM
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Because we know how the left looks in clothing and how right looks in clothing. With a black shirt the fat on the left one is visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:20 PM
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⁠Most communities explicitly due to women’s request are against men joining to find wives. ⁠Even if you find one. 90% of the time it’s mostly dudes. Every soccer league every meetup. Every startup incubator I’ve been to has been just dudes. ⁠None of this matters if you’re ugly. You need to fix this issue before all else. Lose the fat. Get ripped. Fix your style and get a good haircut. And once you do 3. Or if you can do 3. Then community no longer becomes necessary since you can just make a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:19 PM
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Pay a match maker. Like the old days
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:14 PM
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You have to get hobbies that are related to activities both genders do. I recommend tennis or the other tennis clone sport gen Z are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:30 AM
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At some point I have to realize all my old friends are kinda not what I need doing forward. This was a good reminder. At some point they got to grow up and they never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:29 AM
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I don’t have any of that. Hope he listens
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:25 AM
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Yeah I’m basically just waiting to see if he chills out. If not I’ll tell him to go to the doctors. I can’t do much other than that. He’s not at a place where he’ll listen to me and I’m not in LA anymore. So he’s kinda have to be an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:23 AM
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No clue. But it’s very odd that he’s doing a lot of things never does. Like he just landed this gig as a cartoon animator. Dude spent his whole life wanting. Moved to LA. And now all he talks about is other things than the animation. So I’m thinking the city may have affected his choices. Or is crashing out. Don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:08 AM
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It’s the complete change of personality. And sexuality also. Randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:54 AM
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Fun fact. I once dated this one girl. And hit on her friend. Later down the line I met back up with her years later when she was in a relationship but that first night I didn’t know. So I did the usual flirting and being physically to close to her. She never once told me to not do it. And later I realized she was in a relationship. My stupid ass continued being flirty but I stopped out of respect for her relationship. And then went on to date her friend. Two things I’ve learned She actually did …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:04 AM
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Think one of my friends is completely spiraling out. Dude told me he’s taking the depression medication (which is good but he never mentioned depression before), now apparently gay and dating a dude, gets drunk and high almost every Friday night, and tried to get into a multiple person hookup. Every one of these events are not the usual I expect. He just recently achieved his dream and got the job he liked. I can’t comment to much because he believes I can’t understand. Apparently being able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:00 AM
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She wants to take away our daughters ring from here 😰
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:51 AM
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I propose we give it to our daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:49 AM
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Why did she pick such a girly ring for her future husband ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:48 AM
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Depends on the humans. If they’re Spartans I think 20 can take a gorilla. If they’re the Chechens. Khabib can submit. And the gorilla will need to be dropped off 2 years in Dagestan.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:44 AM
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Screenshot the error and send it + the assignment to the professor before 11:59. Next time don’t be a bum. Do it early
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:41 AM
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Mixing sex with legal profit is cocaine to an economy. It’s cheap dopamine that sounds good until it’s too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:43 AM
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Its to gray area to regulate. It’s like when they legalized all drugs in Portland and tried to regulate it and it became a city filled with heroine zombies. Some demons can’t be tamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:38 AM
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Every time this happens the number of human trafficking spikes in a country because the underground pumps are able to be more bold act more in the open and the courts are hindered because now every case has to be doubted. “Is the someone who’s being abused or just another disgruntled employee looking to sue”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:34 AM
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People are just becoming more religious as a whole. Not just church. And a lot of women are becoming religious just not going to the church.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:32 AM
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I forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 11:59 AM
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Make yourself someone who’s high quality and has a lot going for themselves. People naturally will gravitate towards someone who’s respectable and loved by the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:09 AM
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You can go to ChatGPT and substitute her face for someone kinder. But the point stands. Imagine having a bikini photo. And the next girl looks like this but not in an office but at like a picnic: https://media.istockphoto.com/id/1398994132/photo/happy-businesswoman-using-a-digital-tablet-young-leading-businesswoman-using-a-wireless.jpg?s=612x612&w=0&k=20&c=BM3E3osJBZSukhs98G6vn7HXe8QQTExGaymi2a61T3E= You end up looking like trash. And that’s important for the folks to know. A woman in a bikini o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 05:05 AM
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If you marry her at 22. She’s going to be in your mind as beautiful as the day you met her. Others will see her age. You will see her glow. So get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:55 AM
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You don’t. We like our sanity and whatever that is needs to be banished to the shadow realm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:53 AM
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She’s Egyptian Run. If she’s part Lebanese. Run faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:52 AM
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Water lots of water. And make sure to have good shoes. That have already been broken in. Don’t buy them like right now. And pace yourself. Understand your limits and take breaks when needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:50 AM
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Just say the type of unhinged shit you say to your homies. Just minus the sexism and racism a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:49 AM
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That’s a dude. Don’t send the photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:48 AM
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Redownloaded data apps as the meetups are just dudes. Ladies. When you post bikini photos and sexual photos. You do know that like right after there’s women who post photos making themselves look like royals and professional headshots? The sexy photos and bikini photos are trashy. Because the next girl looks like this in all her photos: https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcReKxStq9u7sWRXkAq75gufdLuxpiEPvMWJcXrNZvtKRA&s=10 Like do better. Showing off skin doesn’t fix the face. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:46 AM
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It’s not the lack of options. It’s just that it’s extremely toxic and not conducive to a good sane mind. Also the type I get isn’t as good as I’ve gotten from real life. People say I have bad photos but it’s just better in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 11:47 PM
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I have and it’s the age range issue. Everyone either in their late 30s or early 40s. I don’t know why. I’ve been volunteering since middle school and it’s always been that way. 20s women usually do volunteering events with their sororities and those are separate events done exclusively by them. Very little overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:28 AM
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He needs to go to therapy and plastic surgeons need to be toss in dungeons for feeding on people’s insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:26 AM
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Did they check for mono? My classmate was out for a bit in college and it ended up being that. Just made them hella sleepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:25 AM
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Close. Similar company. And sadly it was a permanent move. My department manager thought it was a hip young city and would be a good business move. I thought it wasn’t a bad idea. But I was wrong. Everyone is more attractive and easier to make friends with in Boston. And boston isn’t NYC or Tokyo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:19 AM
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Yeah that’s why I think something new needs to be made. Like the soccer leagues cost $100 to sign up. And you don’t know if there are women. And after signing up for 3 seasons last year for 3 different leagues it ended up being 100% dudes in 2 of the “coed” leagues and 80% dudes in the third. I also signed up for a pottery class and it was mostly grandmas. 10/10 experience tho I got lots of snacks and bakery treats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:51 AM
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Coed soccer was 90% dudes. Austin soccer scene is a dude fest lol. Volunteering had mostly grandmas. Nothing wrong with them I just ended up doing everything and they made me carry everything. The issue I think is that neither of these are stuff women in their 20s do in mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:47 AM
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It’s just not my vibe. And from what my friend at work are telling me it’s a shit environment. And they’ve been single longer than I have. I think there needs to be something better invented. Or more young women need to go to coffee shops without headphones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:44 AM
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Everyone is like “move to Austin it’s a great city”. Never been in a more lame state capital (aside from the one time I visited Albany NY but we all know NYs true capital is NYC). Everyone here is just extraordinarily boring. Someone send me back to Boston.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:42 AM
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Looks don’t matter if you have no venue to use them. I’m a decent looking guy. Years ago I posted on rateme subreddit got about an average of 8-9/10. I’m 5-11/6ft depending on posture and have a “cute” (hate this term but is is what it is) face for a dude. A bit younger looking side but not bad looking. Issue is Parents getting on me for not getting married and friends for not dating. Thing is. I’m an engineer that works with 90% dudes. Everyone’s like “don’t use dating apps meet people in the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 03:38 AM
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