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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	First date with girl from last FR, I'd like some advice on this one. Sir, you are pathetic. The only thing you did here is giving this guy a bad feeling for absolutely no reason. He explicitly notes that he has sticking points, and therefore hopes that we at seddit can help him overcome his sticking points. By making him feel like he failed, and giving no explanation what he can do better and such, you are no value here on Seddit. Next of I want to ask OP how much literature he has read, other that Seddit.	/r/seduction	23/09/11 01:30 PM
1	[FR] preplanned outing with ex's friend. First FR attempt No need to thanks me, I will try and use my knowledge to help everyone I can! :) I've been in your situation myself, you start of pretty well, but feel the momentum falling away a few moments later. It's frustrating as hell and your mind can think the best way is to eject / bitch out. Even when you see the "train wreck occurring" or you THINK you're losing momentum, try and do something completely counter intuitive. You already feel a little awkward, so why don't try something "silly"? This way …	/r/seduction	20/09/11 02:21 PM
2	Making a long-time friend see you in a new sexual light I like the "guiding" of a girl. It's elegant and natural. I don't know how i think about putting both my hands on a girls shoulder, but that's me. The main point with kino is that YOU feel comfortable doing it. Just try and don't think about it that much. A few things you might consider trying are; High five (I love this one), telling something about her fingers / nails, say something about her hair and touch it etc. It's hard to come up with "good" examples, but try to be the fun guy who just t…	/r/seduction	20/09/11 01:52 PM
1	[FR] preplanned outing with ex's friend. First FR attempt Good read, although I can't imagining staying that relaxed / calm / neutral while we're both sleeping in the same bed. Nice that you were able to lead the group, but try to "be fully in the present" as mehow would say. It sucks when you lose focus and therefore the set (as you discribe) " I try to reestablish some comfort and interest, but it's not really working." try to analyse why, it might help you improve :) Good luck sir!	/r/seduction	20/09/11 01:36 PM

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