Pheasantluvr69 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	Should I tell girls I'm seeing about dates that I am going on with other girls?	Conversation	Pheasantluvr69	/r/seduction	27/05/22 11:24 PM
9	How to get over oneitis?	Inner Game	Pheasantluvr69	/r/seduction	03/06/22 02:44 PM

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2	How can I (M22) ask her (F21) to shave down there? “Could you shave your pussy for me”	/r/seduction	21/08/22 03:46 PM
-4	Why does this subreddit say to never take dating advice from women? Because the advice they give is not always very helpful and sometimes actively detrimental. “Just be yourself” and “be confident” are vague truisms that you will hear if you ask a woman how to be attractive which have little use out of the context of your own life. Also a woman will tell you that being vulnerable to them is attractive and that wearing cologne is unattractive which are both the exact opposite of the truth generally. For a woman, being attracted to someone is very pleasurable but …	/r/seduction	21/07/22 12:42 AM
1	Bf isn’t good in bed and idk what else I can do to help him get better, feels like I’ve tried everything. Try taking tantra classes together	/r/seduction	12/07/22 08:55 PM
3	Online dating seems dead for me post pandemic. Is it like this for others as well? I disagree. I think most men and women would rather find a good match over racking up hook ups. Not that that’s a bad thing at all, I just think that if you actually surveyed men you would get a different result than what you think. It is a lot rougher out here for guys on dating apps, that is for sure, but this guy went from getting a ton of matches and dates to none at all for seemingly no reason. He clearly can get dates despite how the games rigged against him. It’s just that the app isn’t i…	/r/seduction	30/06/22 03:41 PM
48	Online dating seems dead for me post pandemic. Is it like this for others as well? Probably the apps algorithms intentionally manipulating you by not showing you the girls who would be interested in you in order to make you crave more validation from the app and pay for premium services	/r/seduction	30/06/22 12:51 AM
2	Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to them Yeah… so how about we share and post about the natural efforts rather than whine about this shit	/r/seduction	17/06/22 01:50 AM
12	Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to them Like wtf does this have to do with seduction lol.	/r/seduction	16/06/22 09:24 PM
1	Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable? I don’t feel like writing another novel to address your counterpoints I have other responsibilities to tend to today, but if I were to boil it down I would say that some social realities cannot be simply distilled into a scientific study and trying to understand them empirically won’t do a good job of describing them. However if you want to understand a problem generally it’s worth it to induce your understanding from a general level, so since you love citing studies, research the Harvard implic…	/r/seduction	08/06/22 05:01 PM
1	Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable? It was about your assumption that men have a monopoly on resentment over rejection/abandonment, which I think was silly. It may not be as likely to result in a violent crime in women but it’s just as likely to result in toxic behavior in the 99.999% of rejections that don’t involve violent crimes.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 04:23 PM
1	Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable? Lol you’re going to unironically cast aspersions about who is more likely to commit an unspeakable atrocity between the two genders but you’re unable to find humor in a little condescension? Don’t you think that’s a double standard?	/r/seduction	08/06/22 03:46 PM
1	Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable? You replied a ton of evidence and logic to an unserious joke. Something only the most butthurt among us do	/r/seduction	08/06/22 02:42 PM
1	Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable? Of course I am generalizing and there is a lot of variance in emotionality in men and women. I’m just making making an obvious observation about culture and biology that holds true for the most part. In familial and personal relationships womens emotions are valued more than mens emotions. One of the most powerful thing a modern woman can do is “victimize” herself so that others listen to her and do her bidding. Not to say that misogyny and toxic masculinity don’t exist at all, but there is a do…	/r/seduction	08/06/22 02:32 PM
0	Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable? Simmer down lol you’re proving my point.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 01:32 PM
0	Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable? Also you ever heard the phrase “hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” lol women get plenty butthurt after rejections.	/r/seduction	07/06/22 08:41 PM
1	Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable? I agree and disagree. Women are certainly more emotional than men because they are socialized to be more emotional and express and discuss their emotions more. Men have emotions obviously, but they aren’t socialized to use emotions (except anger) or talk about them for the most part and relying on emotions as a man will usually lead to much worse outcomes than a woman doing so. They also have menstrual cycles and some hormones that regulate mood and behavior fluctuate a lot more in women than me…	/r/seduction	07/06/22 06:14 PM
8	Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable? I think part of it is just the nature of online dating. If anything feels wrong to her about you in the early stages of dating whether it is real or you did something that reminded her of her ex or whatever she’s probably not gonna be patient with you because women have a lot more options than men and she hasn’t invested anything in you yet. Women are also more emotional than men and trust their emotions more. If she associates negative emotion with you at any point she might assume it is solely…	/r/seduction	07/06/22 03:36 PM
2	How to get over oneitis? Love is something you build, not something you find. I like this a lot it resonates with me. How you feel is not a predictor of reality, and your ego is never more important than the culture. Thank you for sending this passage	/r/seduction	03/06/22 04:13 PM
1	How to get over oneitis? Very true but not the answer I wanted to hear at all lmao. I have been using meditation to bring this sort of awareness up and try to unlatch from the nipple of oxytocin. It has been working to an extent, but making that connection is still a moment to moment struggle for me. your brain doesn't know you aren't a helpless baby Very wise. I will forgive myself and try remind myself of this when I can. Thank you for the thoughtful response.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 03:29 PM
1	How to get over oneitis? I've talked about it with my therapist. He doesn't think so. And I have enough control over it that doesn't have any positive symptoms like harassment, stalking, emotional outbursts, panic attacks or anything like that. It's just all in my head. I'm also very comfortable being alone in general from a non romantic point of view.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 03:12 PM
1	Women nervousness Maybe she was gonna be nervous no matter who was gonna approach her. It could have nothing to do with you and you don’t have anything to worry about	/r/seduction	03/06/22 02:57 PM
3	Women nervousness Don't be nervous yourself, and make your approaches natural.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 02:47 PM
2	Should I tell girls I'm seeing about dates that I am going on with other girls? did this... it worked fairly well. She did not respond for a day but after I reached back out she was definitely more into me. Thanks ChadMagic	/r/seduction	31/05/22 09:30 PM
2	Should I tell girls I'm seeing about dates that I am going on with other girls? I told her I was "meeting up with a friend later" and she did not respond for a day but after I reached out again she seemed a little more into me. She certainly got the message I was trying to send. She started projecting to me about how all the guys in her hometown "treat girls like princesses but act like they have the whole disney princess roster all to themselves" So even if their initial reaction is negative, it still might be beneficial for you in the long term as long as you do it subtly…	/r/seduction	31/05/22 09:25 PM
45	Thinking about dating/hooking up so much I’m losing focus on my career goals. Advices? If you spend all your time hooking up you’re gonna regret not having higher ambitions and if you spend all your time on your career you’re gonna regret not spending your youth chasing more women. Your efforts aren’t in vain though. Just by putting yourself out there and trying new things you are learning and getting something out of it. Rome was not built in a day. The progress might seem just as slow if you spent all that time trying to further your own career. My advise is sit with yourself an…	/r/seduction	31/05/22 04:27 AM
19	Why does Pete Davidson date so MANY more Hollywood A-listers than his peers? He found out that some women are so attractive and high status that they are out of everyone’s league and nobody even asks them out. Now he’s just running though them	/r/seduction	24/05/22 04:12 PM