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Well, to be honest, your ramblings were more coherent than the article. Although I'll still say that a woman who is beautiful and interesting would not want to have to "earn" attention either. Interesting and well read people need higher level games than that. Of course, it makes sense to only make genuine responses, and it is also silly to just fill every single space or stress if you're validating her enough. Also suicide to feel or act as though you are in any way below the woman you are appr…
/r/seduction27/04/14 03:35 AM
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And if you’re one of those rare, beautiful women who read great books, have interesting stories and are able to capture my imagination…I still won’t use filler words. But I will see you more than twice. Well, I am. I'm not sure if I'd capture this guy's attention. I do know if he acted like what I was saying was boring all night, I'd never see him again. Not even angrily or spitefully. The hard truth about beautiful and interesting women, is that they know they are beautiful and interesting. A g…
/r/seduction27/04/14 01:17 AM
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Sorry man just got that impression since you brought it up, ignore that part then
/r/seduction24/04/14 06:34 PM
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Well you need to be comfortable in your own skin. I've met incredibly sexy balding men, incredibly sexy fat men, even sexy sweaty men. What they all have in common is an awareness of their virtues and their flaws, so that they are confident in the virtues and know how to manage the flaws. Although flaws isn't a very good word for it, because none of us want a perfect person anyways. I would recommend finding some outfits you feel confident in and allow you to forget for at least a moment that yo…
/r/seduction24/04/14 06:10 PM
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I'm just curious, do you have many lady friends or any sisters or some such? The more you talk to women on a platonic level, the easier it will be to approach them on a romantic level (not the specific woman, just women in general). But yah girls don't call guys creeps for no reason. Not that the guy actually is a creep, but that there was behavior that the woman perceived that way. Pick up lines are a major no no, of course, and are often how things get creepy. Or those lopsided grins that guys…
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:47 PM
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Cognitive Behavior Therapy, which is pretty much just trying to focus on what you are doing and why so you can redirect habits, typically done with the aid of a therapist. And then Dialectical Behavior Therapy. Which I have never heard of before or participated in so here's the wiki
/r/seduction03/12/13 07:50 PM
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It might be better for you to just focus on being aware and in the moment. When you do try meditating, remember that the point is to just let your thoughts be. You don't have to focus or not focus on anything. Just let the thoughts bounce around in there to start.
/r/seduction03/12/13 08:36 AM
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CBT is very similar to meditation if there is anyone out there uncomfortable with the term meditation.
/r/seduction03/12/13 08:30 AM
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I'd wish you luck, but this is all up to you. Instead I will say happy travels :) This is a great journey to undertake
/r/seduction28/08/13 08:42 PM
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I would probably tell myself "You are not as independent as you think you are, and still need to learn how to be comfortable in your own skin. You will never be comfortable around others if you are not comfortable with yourself." Also "Just talk to people! If someone looks interesting go up to them and bring up the topic that made them look interesting. Like, talk about the game last night if they were wearing a jersey. To keep a conversation running, ask questions related to what was just discu…
/r/seduction28/08/13 08:33 PM
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From what I get from people it is a combination of the fact that I was attractive (I really believed that I wasn't, and I still really believe 90% of attractiveness is related to your cleanliness and style), and that I was really friendly while not seeming attached to anyone. Hilarious really, considering I was actually very desperate for friends or any sort of support group (at the time, things are better now) But really, if you don't want to be intimidating, I think you just have to reach out …
/r/seduction28/08/13 04:30 AM
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I'll never forget when my coworker told me he had wanted to hang out with me for years but I was incredibly intimidating. I was floored. I was always terrified in social situations and had a terrible time making friends. Here this guy was telling me that I was oozing so much confidence that I was unapproachable. It fixed everything. I realized everyone else was just as afraid of initiating contact as I was, and someone has to take the initiative. So I started reaching out to people. Now I am one…
/r/seduction27/08/13 11:19 PM
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..but then it would still cost a large amount of money, no?
/r/seduction22/08/13 06:31 AM
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Yah he is only committed to dinner with two of them. One of those dinners is a "romantic" one with candles and if he can cook.. dinner in is always an option. Bubble tea is cheap, and he has open options for the fourth
/r/seduction22/08/13 06:08 AM
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This is all sorts of bullshit. I won't sleep with a guy I don't know. This is personal preference. I like a level of familiarity and to feel as though I can trust this person not to betray me in some sort of a way. If you gave up on me after 3 dates just because I wasn't ready yet you'd be short changing yourself something fierce. (seriously, I am in to everything, especially threesomes, not even joking) Absolutes are a bad idea, see?
/r/seduction05/07/13 05:11 PM
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Oh I just interpreted that it was easier online, because then you know if they are interested in the same sex. Nature of statistics, eh?
/r/seduction01/07/13 09:07 PM
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I love data. Where was this information pulled from? Quite interesting, although I imagine expected, how the homosexual crowd seems to almost exclusively meet online.
/r/seduction01/07/13 01:27 AM
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haha you are welcome!
/r/seduction17/06/13 11:36 PM
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He means actively use and continue to develop the skills that you have. :P It's funny because this is a part of cognitive behavior therapy too. Where you embrace your good qualities and work to grow them, instead of getting all down about what you're not good at
/r/seduction17/06/13 10:31 PM
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My pleasure! I like popping in here on occasion, I feel a female perspective is good for the subreddit (assuming it's not 2x attacks haha)
/r/seduction17/06/13 10:09 PM
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It is in the confidence, but with two other requirements You can legitimately back the confidence up (ie: you really have skills in 'X' area) You are quietly confident. In that you are so confident that you never feel the need to tell people how great you are. You know and that is enough for you and you couldn't care less if other people knew. (of course simply by believing this you carry yourself in such a way that people know, but that's the point, they see it, you shouldn't have to tell them)…
/r/seduction17/06/13 09:49 PM
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It's hard to say when not being there. If she just got a text and is drunk the girl could very well just not realize she was tuning out. If that is the case just turn to the bartender and get a drink. Or better yet, tap her on the soldier and whisper "I'll come back" and then go do something else. She might come find you or you could run in to her again. Who knows, she may even say "no, don't go" and then you're her center of attention again If it is a little more clear that she isn't interested…
/r/seduction09/06/13 12:01 AM
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As a girl going to second this. Don't bitch at me, I will immediately think "yah, fuck you" and walk away. If you're so insecure that you try and flip the tables at me just because I was trying to get out of a bored situation you kind of just proved you're not at my level. (using inside voice so you can see what these girls are thinking; and should clarify I would flat out say I am not interested but people like that are rare and you gotta be prepared) Remember, if you're going after the top 10%…
/r/seduction08/06/13 10:45 PM
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I think the exact point is to consider if she is getting clingy. If the girl is clingy, OP is suggesting just letting them know your intentions instead of writing them off. If the girl is not clingy, she obviously understands you're just friendly and things aren't serious until you have that talk If she is clingy, she is likely one of those people who are in the instant relationship mindset category. It's only fair to let her know that you guys are just dating right now and you're not looking fo…
/r/seduction06/06/13 01:41 AM
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What is good about OP's post is they describe how a man can initialize. A surprising number of women are entirely down with a threesome, but it typically goes better if it is a woman that initiates the whole thing. For a guy trying to be the one to initiate, this advice is about as good as it gets
/r/seduction01/06/13 04:32 AM
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All very good suggestions, but it was a totally different angle that helped me. I just embraced that I love everyone. It kind of levels things out. I love her, and I'm going to love her, and the next her, and I definitely love that other her. It means I can frequently be in company that I want to be in. It means that any person it clicks with, I'll be happy, cause I love them. And if it doesn't work out it's all good cause I'll love the next one too. Even if I fall out of love with someone it is…
/r/seduction22/05/13 11:21 PM
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Well part of your process should absolutely be reading her signals. You certainly wouldn't choose that for your first interaction. If they seem interested in speaking with you, then this move is definitely ok. I wouldn't actually put a finger in the ear though
/r/seduction20/05/13 10:37 PM
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It creates a little acoustic air pocket. Kind of like how they design many symphony venues, just on a mini scale. The air pocket blocks some of the highs that would come from the music. These cause the most auditory confusion (no idea what a techincal term would be), so blocking them helps you to hear better. The air pocket also amplifies your voice since it acts like a little echo chamber As a girlfriend of a DJ, I can confirm that this is a highly effective way to have a conversation in a loud…
/r/seduction20/05/13 10:26 PM
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As a girl, excellent idea. In addition to the benefits you mention, it is also a fairly sexy act for many women: a light touch near sensitive ears, intimacy. It's non intrusive and not creepy, assuming you've been accurately reading her signals up until that point. But of course, keep it short. Not many people are in a club for the endearing conversation
/r/seduction20/05/13 10:23 PM
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Best feeling in the world. I wish it on everyone
/r/seduction04/05/13 05:02 AM
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Well rest assured there are many women such as myself who are simply happy and flattered to meet new people so long as they aren't approaching when we are obviously busy or keep pursuing when we've closed the conversation
/r/seduction12/04/13 07:22 PM
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I am glad :) I will respond soon
/r/seduction11/04/13 03:40 PM
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And since I am in the "we are all attractive" mode right now. Take a look at number 2. He is attractive. Society tells us he shouldn't be, but he is. So guys, start embracing yourselves already! (well.. ladies too, but we seem to be rare in here)
/r/seduction10/04/13 10:25 PM
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Why are you unattractive? It's impossible for me to believe this is outside of your control. I have seen attractive people of all types. It's not about what you were born with, it's about embracing and accentuating what you were born with. Seriously, only difference between me and you is I look good when I don't try. So, if the only differing factor is effort.. why are you unattractive?
/r/seduction10/04/13 10:20 PM
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Learn "social dance." Things like the jive. You can do this through youtube videos with the help of a good friend I am entirely serious It sounds stupid and dated, but a girl loves to be twirled around by a man who knows how to lead. Not only that, the basic skills you will learn can easily be adapted to casual dance as well. It makes it so you also know how to dance in a fun way, instead of resorting to the awkward attempt of lining up when you thrust your hips If you're that guy who can pull o…
/r/seduction08/03/13 06:47 PM
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I want to address the "hurt" comment. I understand why it hurts. It feels like a personal affront and the easiest thought to pop up is "there must be something wrong with me." But the reality is it likely has nothing to do with you. (If you are being respectful, are clean and decently dressed that is.) There are all sorts of girls here. Some could be gay, some might already be in a relationship, some might have just gotten out of a bad relationship, they could be asexual, they could be out on a …
/r/seduction08/03/13 06:44 PM
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It's also a myth because not all girls will be in to you. There are techniques that will work on a large number of women, you can build your confidence, dress well, keep clean, play all your cards right. There will still be those girls that are not interested, who "friend zone" you, and that will sometimes be for no other reason than that is the most they would ever be interested in. Just want to point that out. I know you guys in here are not the culprits, but I am sick of the whole "why won't …
/r/seduction04/02/13 06:40 PM
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Yah for sure!
/r/seduction19/11/12 08:04 PM
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Do you like electronic music? The EDM scene is full of a much more open type of people and my man and I tend to see success at electronic events. It works well for us both to go out and be friendly with girls together. This could work for the both of you as well as this way she doesn't have to initiate but is still involved (this makes the potential more comfortable as well).
/r/seduction19/11/12 07:59 PM
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How old are you? I'm just curious because methods for this will differ depending on your target group (age and culture). So what age range are you in, what age range are you looking at, and what type of person are you looking at (partier, sportsy, etc)?
/r/seduction19/11/12 07:06 PM
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If that means that things tend to be shitty for you, that sucks. The only answer I've found for that is if you ever feel better for just a little bit, jump on fixing things within yourself that will make the world easier to deal with. With lots of effort, things do get better
/r/seduction11/10/12 12:21 AM
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Well then I hope that your day goes better. If not, I hope tomorrow is the best day you've had all year
/r/seduction10/10/12 11:51 PM
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You did not, although the tone in your posts suggests at least some level of offense
/r/seduction10/10/12 11:39 PM
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Meh, some of us are in to it. My boyfriend's pet name for me is cunt and when he uses it I get all tingly in my special places. I am not a shallow woman or whatever other views you may have of women like myself. You are equally degrading to give the implication that women that would "put up with" comments like "a sure thing" are lesser women. There are no cut and dry rules here. You find out what you like and seek out those that can provide that for you. That is a good thing, not a bad thing. If…
/r/seduction10/10/12 11:10 PM
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That is indeed tough to define, as there are many different causes for any personality trait out there. The only way I could put it simply is that a lot of people are just not honest with themselves, for varying reasons
/r/seduction31/08/12 09:22 PM
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Well thank you! And best of luck. Just remember that everything is a step, nothing is a stopping point. Don't get stuck on one thing but continue to branch out as you find success
/r/seduction31/08/12 06:48 PM
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Yes that is a damaging scenario to everyone. It is very important to learn how to pick up on cues that your attention is unwelcome and to develop the skills to move on at that point rather than take it personally. Otherwise this woman gets it in her head to be afraid of attention from guys, and the AFC guy/gal gets more insecure which effectively removes the skillset s/he has built so far
/r/seduction31/08/12 06:47 PM
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You're pretty much saying there is no point to anything unless you can be positive of your own gain. That is so dangerous as many things don't immediately appear to be gainful that are probably in reality your best options. Learning how to treat people you don't value like a human being does wonders to help teach you interaction and empathy which are vital to most human interaction.
/r/seduction31/08/12 06:27 PM
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Congratulations! I started doing this years ago and now homeless people are just like anyone else to me. It certainly does help in other areas to realize that if you can relate to people so drastically different, you can relate to anyone. It also helps in that it makes you realize that everyone really is the same, even this guy asking for change. It brings the whole world to a level field Also it feels great to treat people like a human that you know never are treated as such. I like to think I …
/r/seduction31/08/12 06:24 PM
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Talk about whatever it was that made her interesting to you. She's flattered, and it's the quickest link to finding something in common that will kickstart the conversation
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:52 AM
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No, but if you need them around so badly that you are practically begging them it says a lot. You are insecure. Maybe you are obsessive. Maybe you would be controlling or abusive (as excessive neediness is an early warning sign). Maybe you can't take care of yourself. Or perhaps you have no drive, since apparently you don't have enough to do in your life that you have to call this girl every 10 minutes. It's not a matter of pretending you don't care, it's a matter of loving all aspects of your l…
/r/seduction26/08/12 08:25 PM
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Some guys, perhaps. I do find that women in general are considerably more sexual, but I have certainly met some sexual men in my life.
/r/seduction01/08/12 05:26 PM
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Just letting you know this was one of those times where I read the comments for not really any reason, and encountered information I can use. Certainly a lot of cross over in ideas throughout varying situations
/r/seduction01/08/12 03:42 AM
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The two of you just embodied what is now the 4th point. "You can learn something from everyone." I enjoy things that almost appear scripted
/r/seduction20/07/12 11:04 PM
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I don't think it's so devious as that. It's kind of like cold calling for leads. You just ask everyone, in hopes one will bite. If you've ever been down and out to the point where you don't care about pride anymore, you'd understand. Often conversations I have will open with "Can you help me out?" to which I say sorry nothing on me man, how's your day going? And they're still all buddy like :) I mean I'm not stupid, there are criminals on the street too, but in my experience a lot of them just c…
/r/seduction19/07/12 06:16 PM
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It's easier for bums. I try to interact with them a lot here, it helps bring them to a human level and supports my belief that we are all equal. Anyways, they all act like that with everyone. Like they know everyone. Something about having to depend on others changes the way you view things I think
/r/seduction19/07/12 01:23 PM
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Over-analyzing? Let's all take some classes on communication that are backed by sound Psychological study and try this conversation again There are so many things.. mirroring for example is your best bet, where you slightly mirror the actions of the person you are talking to. It builds strong rapport. Something like bye! is also playing on similar ideas. Just like I never ask someone I am calling if it's a bad time, I always ask if it is a good time. The way you present yourself has massive cont…
/r/seduction12/07/12 09:01 PM
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Disclaimer: In certain situations, yes, you can touch other girls. But be extremely careful. Example: polyamorous type couples that enjoy bringing ladies home with them
/r/seduction11/07/12 09:22 PM
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-Redacted- the votes have spoken, my advice was either bad, unwanted, or in the wrong place (no comments to indicate which) and so I have removed it. For anyone curious, I was touching on playing to the right demographic and using myself as an example to explain this
/r/seduction06/07/12 04:21 PM
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You are welcome! I would recommend just looking for things in him that you either wish to emulate, or that reinforce things you already like about yourself. This makes it personal for you, which makes it a lot easier to come up with material, but also it makes you appear more genuine than others because of the level of engagement, which provides you with a better response from them.
/r/seduction17/05/12 03:22 AM
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I know a guy who is smooth as they come. He has a girl, maybe 2 or 3, every single weekend. His facebook wall is covered in bitches. His phone is always going off with blondes, brunettes, redheads I know this other guy that is super quiet, and doesn't even pursue anyone really The first guy these days has no friends, and can't keep a girlfriend worth shit, he still promotes all the same things, but you can tell he's lonely and unhappy. The second guy. Well he is with the girl of his dreams, an i…
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:25 AM
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Always go with what has a grain of truth. Sexiness is so easily apparent in those that are so comfortable with themselves, that they can appreciate great qualities in others. So don't think of this gentlemen as a threat you need to show your dominance over. You already know you are amazing. This man isn't your competition, but a peer and a colleague. Remember, only those that are completely confident in themselves happily can give out compliments to others without the underlying fear of diminish…
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:02 AM
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So glad you described this on the deep level All these people talking about changing yourself (and being afraid to change yourself) aren't talking about their selves at all. They are talking, exactly as you've put, about changing their behaviors or response sets. But they don't even realize that Yes, change your response set, change the way you act. Totally! The way to change those things, is in to the things YOU would normally do. The problem though, is a lot of people can not even see who THEY…
/r/seduction17/05/12 01:26 AM
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Well if we're just talking fucking, totally different story If you're just looking for a one night stand being a bit of a dick seems the most helpful way, and looks are pretty much the deciding factor (necessary level of attractiveness going down with desperation and being easy. in other words, people with too much or too little sex)
/r/seduction31/03/11 11:19 PM
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Well yes, of course appearance matters. The thing is if you take care of yourself and dress well, anyone can be "attractive". You don't need perfect features to pull it off.
/r/seduction31/03/11 03:57 PM
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I don't know what you want from me. I'm crying right now? Is that better? :/
/r/seduction31/03/11 03:44 PM
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some people would disagree with you :) and it's okay you don't think so, it would be quite a feat to be attractive to everyone on this planet
/r/seduction31/03/11 01:59 PM
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oh, well, excuse me I'll go to a scientific study..... hehe, it's not that serious. Everyone in this thread was like HOT GIRLS WON'T GO FOR THE NICE GUYS. When actually, we do, and giving a real life example such as myself is more legitimate than saying women should go for nice guys
/r/seduction31/03/11 01:12 PM
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Here is me: http://photos.modelmayhem.com/photos/081211/13/49416312a4b0f.jpg (kinda NSFW) And actually, the nice guy gets the cake. You know, threesomes and everything, along with unconditional loyalty and love She's wrong on a few points (as someone mentioned her "jaded against the bitches who actually get guys" thing), but her sentiment is correct
/r/seduction31/03/11 12:33 AM
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I was just trying to point out how this is a problem in more areas as well. As you can read in my post, I said I know this isn't possible to change
/r/MensRights28/12/10 02:09 AM
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Stuff like this is lame In High School I went to the same school as my cousin, but we never spoke. Not even once. When she was born her mother took her from my uncle and said that she didn't want her daughter knowing him or any of her family. She's the only cousin I have on that side that is the same age. She has a whole family she knows nothing about
/r/MensRights27/12/10 05:46 PM
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A woman's perspective: Let's imagine a child raised by a single mother. This child is also a female, and will learn most of her world views from her mother. Dad was gone when this daughter was pretty young so she's not quite sure why. She just knows she misses Daddy Then Mom starts seeing another guy, and they move in together, and a new life is started. They get well in to their life, and then Mom says we're leaving. Again, this daughter doesn't understand. She's gotten a vague understanding th…
/r/MensRights27/12/10 02:39 PM
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gaurdian? No credibility, especially if they are still saying he is being charged for rape, which he is not.
/r/MensRights24/12/10 05:55 PM
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I'm sorry but this article was really poorly written. I do support honest education for children, but I don't think that is going to fix the issue. The false rape claims need to be stopped. I think people making false claims should go to jail. They've ruined someone's life while also making it much harder for real victims to get any justice. I don't hate many people, but rapists and those making false rape claims - I hate them, there is anger in my heart that can not be properly expressed in reg…
/r/MensRights22/12/10 04:09 PM
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