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Inner Game Phenom_Mv3/r/seduction28/03/25 10:08 PM
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No. That’s not being true to yourself. The practice you should however put in is to treat all women the same. Talk to people wherever you go and master your social skills. That way when it’s time to approach someone you like, it’ll make it much easier
/r/seduction11/08/26 04:09 AM
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Believe it or not lots of younger women date 20-30 years up
/r/seduction04/08/26 03:57 AM
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Your dad is a wise man who understands outcome dependency totally fucks up your chances with whatever you desire to attract in your life. Instead of saying, “I will be satisfied when I achieve X tonight”, which for most dudes is getting lucky, he adopts the reverse-approach, which ironically sky-rockets the chances of you getting the desired outcome. BE the energy that is aligned with the outcome you want to attract. ACT like you already know everyone in the venue, and assume strangers you haven…
/r/seduction04/08/26 03:51 AM
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BPD
/r/seduction02/07/26 12:40 AM
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You’re probably not over the ex
/r/seduction27/05/26 07:10 AM
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That’s not what an avoidant is. This term is being misused. She’s just not interested in you. Avoidants 100% date people they’re interested in. They start avoiding when the real feelings start to develop, thats the difference
/r/seduction25/07/25 07:05 AM
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Learned this the hard way
/r/seduction03/07/25 08:47 AM
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This post is good but it’s too black and white. Some women will show these things to you but still be interested - the difference is it’s Low interest vs high interest. You could still be in the game
/r/seduction02/05/25 10:46 PM
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You can do everything right and still get ghosted. There’s a lot of avoidants out there
/r/seduction25/04/25 02:35 AM
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Sounds like an avoidant
/r/seduction18/04/25 10:31 AM
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Best tips to maintain interest? In a LTR
/r/seduction23/03/25 04:13 AM
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When you say started hinting, did she say things like where is this going? Or was she way more subtle
/r/seduction20/03/25 02:44 AM
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Elaborate
/r/seduction03/02/25 07:52 AM
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How does a fearful avoidant affect this? I was dating a woman for 3-4 months and when she caught feelings and I slowly reciprocated with her, she began to pull away slowly
/r/seduction03/02/25 07:46 AM
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Wait hold up - all advice I’ve read is that she should be asking you or hinting at the commitment and not the other way round?
/r/seduction03/02/25 07:44 AM
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“I’ve done everything” - herein lies your issue man. There’s nothing to do you need to adopt the right mindset, socialise and banter with everyone you meet you need to develop aura
/r/seduction14/09/24 05:25 AM
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You can still be wholesome and have game. Just be masculine and direct/decisive without fear which gives an edge to you
/r/seduction10/09/24 09:57 PM
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Act like you have no competition. Shouldn’t worry about it
/r/seduction13/08/24 04:10 AM
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Match and mirror
/r/seduction17/06/24 07:56 AM
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Money, and money
/r/seduction05/06/24 11:34 AM
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Offer them the mystery box
/r/seduction23/04/24 11:00 AM
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At least you have closure too, instead of saying what if. That way moving on is easier
/r/seduction11/04/24 03:08 AM
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Best answer here
/r/seduction19/02/24 10:39 PM
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Read the book I guarantee you will get something out of it.
/r/seduction13/02/24 12:16 AM
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Okay then good luck my man. Bit of insecurity on your part IMO
/r/seduction13/02/24 12:14 AM
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An example of vulnerability is from your own profile: posting your tinder and hinge profiles to gain some sort of feedback and/or validation. It’s not something that’s faked, for some reason this word scares you as if it’s a sign of showing your weaknesses. Read Mark Mansion’s book models to fully understand the term and how you can apply it in your life
/r/seduction13/02/24 12:12 AM
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You’re still “chasing” to some extent by buying her a drink and meeting up with her. Don’t confuse the word with washing her feet
/r/seduction13/02/24 12:10 AM
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Your interpretation of chasing women is completely different to mine. You have to put in some level of investment to attract anyone, it doesn’t have to be high. Do yourself a favour - look up narcissistic personality disorder and avoid acting like this like the plague. You’ll run into too many problems later in life faking shit
/r/seduction13/02/24 12:07 AM
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Because high quality women love this. Unless you want to chase sluts for sex
/r/seduction13/02/24 12:05 AM
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You guys are confusing the real meaning of vulnerability. Just means being your true self unapologetically and opening up to build a real connection with someone
/r/seduction13/02/24 12:03 AM
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Says what bro science lmao, you keep showing your fake persona then. It doesn’t work long term
/r/seduction12/02/24 11:58 PM
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You’re being vulnerable when you ask them out, share your passions/dreams - anything that might evoke rejection or disagreement. It’s called putting your balls on the line, if you can’t do that you’ll never succeed With high quality women so just play it safe then
/r/seduction12/02/24 07:24 PM
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You’re hanging around the wrong women
/r/seduction11/02/24 07:05 PM
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You’re confusing dumping your emotional baggage over your partner which is self-serving over being secure in expressing yourself. Two different things champ. The key is not to be over invested in someone over yourself
/r/seduction11/02/24 04:59 AM
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Bullshit. Read Mark Mansion’s models for more info on vulnerability as a man. Not being vulnerable is actually a sign of insecurity and can come off as neediness because you are actively withholding your emotions based on the fear of how your partner will react
/r/seduction11/02/24 04:36 AM
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Many toothless women throwing themselves at this guy😂
/r/TheRedPill19/01/24 06:32 AM
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FOMO? Lmao, change your mindset. Be committed to whatever decision you make and practice gratitude. If you’re going to live life with a FOMO attitude it will leak into all areas of your life and you will miss enjoying moments. Went to the gym (damn missed out on some time with the buddies). Went out with buddies (damn, missed some time at the gym). Just fucking enjoy life it’s the only one you have. Besides, being male has its perks, older men can still attract hot women so why feel regret now y…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/23 09:48 PM
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You’ll regret that move years down the line.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/23 09:18 AM
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Yeah man, definitely do that. You can maintain your masculinity/interests and hobbies and make her feel special at the same time. Just try and be empathetic and make her feel loved
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 11:30 PM
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Wake up to reality and stop abusing your partner
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 11:18 PM
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Dude, it’s not that fucking deep. And you’re labelling “women” in a one size fits all category as if they all behave the same. The women you’re speaking of who are easily manipulated have weak, probably narcissistic fathers in a society that’s full of them. Keep that same energy for men bro. Most people here adopt this philosophy as cope. Women like confidence - however, it’s EASY to mistake narcissism for confidence if you don’t have a good role model as a parent - men or women, women being mor…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 10:03 PM
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In your opinion. Nobody's stopping anyone from therapy or fixing trauma. By settling on the fact that you are one and going out to date with the intention of getting womenit sure as hell sounds like you’ve accepted things as they are / to continue as a narcissist, which is a highway to future problems. You can change Quote the fragments where OP is saying that. I don’t have to because that’s what textbook narcissists do. They use manipulation to get what they want, and behind closed doors they a…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 07:16 PM
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Money doesn’t always equal happiness. A lot of rich narcissists are fucking miserable bro. We need to differentiate between true confidence (high self esteem and self worth = levels) and vs faked (low self esteem, constantly stressed and insecure, manipulative to get their way.) There’s an article I’ll try and find but scientific studies showed that narcissists are more likely to develop health problems later in life because of how stressed they are trying to uphold a fake image. Not to mention …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 07:53 AM
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Bro helping out narcissists instead of giving the correct advice - go to therapy and work on your traumas. Believe me it’s a highway road to divorce unless your goal is just getting laid by manipulating women :/
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 07:20 AM
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You are displaying covert contracts with these women without even realizing it. What do I mean by that exactly? Your brain: “if I do x y and z for this woman she will be interested in me” Women read this stuff easily, they have great intuition. Do you really think that’s genuine? Instead, when you do things for people aim to do it with absolutely no expectation of something in return. Don’t be nice for the sake of approval or getting laid, treat someone with respect because it’s the right thing …
/r/seduction07/09/23 09:05 PM
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Great story man, I’m glad you had that awakening and you’re onto bigger and better things now! Drinking a bit of booze one day helped me in a similar way too. Kept losing girls’ interests for being too nice. I mustered the strength to sit down next to this one girl a couple of days before our massive annual college party who I had the biggest crush on, we exchanged numbers and said we’d hang out at the party. On the day and After a few drinks, the liquid courage kicked into full swing and I text…
/r/seduction21/05/20 10:51 PM
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To be honest, and especially in regards to millennial girls - they don’t usually like to move too quickly in terms of first text message to “asking them out”. there’s a fuck tonne of beta guys trying to get quick booty calls from girls and you’ll automatically be unique if you do it this way. After tonnes of experience texting girls, I find that texting is an excellent tool to build rapport - but the key is not making friendly connections for too long. Once you find the girl is “vibing” with you…
/r/seduction08/05/20 09:48 AM
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A+ post my man, keep the content rolling
/r/seduction24/11/18 12:27 AM
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