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You can hit me up in a dm if you'd like. However this post was 8 years old, from when I had recently graduated. I might not remember a lot of it any more, depending on what you want do talk about.
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:01 PM
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What if my life goal is to play videogames while fapping every 30 minutes? Challenge completed, I say!
/r/seduction11/03/21 01:42 PM
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You need to explain a lot more context if you want valuable advice... Noone's gonna know what a decent move would be just based off of knowing you've had a phone call and not knowing how it went/if you are vibing/she's into you.
/r/seduction27/12/20 05:46 PM
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Why exactly do you need to hang that dude out to dry in public, because he did a shitty approach? That guy is a douche, but so is the Lauren chick for posting that shit publicly on twitter. Just reject the guy and move on - be mature about it, even if he wasn't. This post is worthless on this subreddit.
/r/seduction09/10/20 05:53 PM
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I'm gonna prioritise bedtime and abandon this discussion. I wish you a good night, stranger
/r/seduction10/09/20 07:29 PM
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It's not harsh. It's hateful. You're obviously being triggered by something he said, and then insulting him as a reaction. This man has said nothing directed at you, and you're taking it personally. By all means, go ahead, this is the internet and you have free speech, but don't act like you're being productive, and taking a moral highground throwing mud around because you dislike the topic.
/r/seduction10/09/20 07:11 PM
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He's talking about how to adapt a mindset to put less pressure on the interaction, and not put the girl on a piedestal when you're not sure she's gonna commit, and your knee-jerk reaction is to twist that, rather than contribute to a constructive discussion... Hope it helped you went something off your chest.
/r/seduction10/09/20 07:04 PM
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Now that's just a hateful judgment based off of very little information about him.
/r/seduction10/09/20 06:59 PM
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Several reasons make it less effective. It's superficial and she gets it all the time. By complimenting some choice she's made about how she presents herself, your compliment comes across as more genuine and not sheer flattery. You've put thought into what you like and why. She'll attribute your compliment to something she's been very conscious about in the way she presents herself, not just to her level of attractiveness.
/r/seduction31/08/20 03:49 PM
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Don't compliment her looks, but feel free to compliment her style.. Like, I like how well your earrings match your dress, Nice choice!
/r/seduction28/08/20 07:47 PM
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Shit this is motivational as hell, and I needed thaty in tje place I am right now - Thank you!
/r/seduction21/08/20 06:14 AM
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I think tightness is more a psychological turnon than a physical one... As long as there is friction along the shaft and a bit on the head, it doesn't have to wrap tightly around our dick, clamping on to it for dear life.
/r/seduction30/07/20 08:18 AM
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I'm not huge - if a girl told me I was huge while we were fooling around, I'd probably stop for a second, and if it became a habit, I'd probably have to talk to her about it, cause the lying to make me feel good would make me cringe instead. No reason to lie about how tight she is or how huge he is, just compliment something else you enjoy... Like how wet she is, or as you pointed out, how hard he is.. Just plainly how good it makes you feel... I feel like the lying to try and please someone tak…
/r/seduction30/07/20 08:16 AM
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You're funny!.. Thanks for the warning buddy!
/r/seduction29/07/20 05:07 PM
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I fail to understand your reasoning as to why some stranger I don't know, would be my moral obligation to be loyal toward, rather than that being the concern of the person who is doing the cheating, ie. The girl who has a boyfriend. You can call that cowardly if you want - I call it a very thoroughly thought out moral compass, that doesn't just involve immediate emotional knee-jerk reactions. I can understand you have an emotional value here, that guys shouldn't fuck someone in a relationship, h…
/r/seduction28/07/20 10:02 PM
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Correction: the 100 girls are shitty persons. He has no moral obligations involved in the affairs (I assume - if he does have a girl himself he is member of the shit-club)
/r/seduction28/07/20 06:09 PM
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Congrats mate! I was 22 myself when I first had sex. It's great to get past that barrier of uncertainty! Good luck on your journey :)
/r/seduction27/07/20 05:41 AM
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Sexual harassment is more like if your sexual advances persists, after she gives off clear signals she's not interested... I guess the issue is, there's not a lot of open talk about this in society... When something is harassment, and when it's just playing the game... And then there's the guys that don't get the hints she's giving, and thus stir the "harassment waters". Don't be afraid to approach and test the waters... Just navigate after the feedback you're getting.
/r/seduction13/07/20 07:36 PM
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It's not mysoginistic. Stereotypical is the word you're looking for. He doesn't hate women because of the belief that he thinks most women are good at this, and guys suck at it.
/r/seduction08/07/20 07:37 AM
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As a tool to open possibilities of women to find a match for a long term fulfilling relationship. The ones chasing tail forever will never fill that empty void of validation they're trying to fill from banging left right and center anything that moves. Set yourself a valuable goal that's fit in with what you want out of life.
/r/seduction29/06/20 03:58 PM
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Hilarious? More like childish and as a person taking advantage of others. Good stuff. If it were a woman gaming a guy into buying her free drinks or giving her shit for free it'd be just as hilarious, right? Guy comes off as a douche with his response "I can PM videos of me fucking hot girls if you don’t believe me", "Currently working on building an online business with the same game tactics to game overweight women into giving me money"... The morality of this dude is highly questionable.
/r/seduction29/06/20 12:33 PM
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if your dick is out, it has the highest chance of actually leading to sex. Initiate the conversation with my dick out - got it! Thanks!
/r/seduction25/06/20 07:55 AM
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Thanks for the updates, it's really interesting to see how your interactions work out, and it's nice of you to share your experiences with us!
/r/seduction20/06/20 06:36 PM
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When you're saying it, is it in a playful tone of voice, or what? The words in and of itself can come off as a negative intro, but most lines work with the right spark in the eyes, depending on your personality
/r/seduction20/06/20 06:07 PM
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97 percent of all statistics on the internet are either from the book: "made up", or the sequel: "personal experience estimation"
/r/seduction10/06/20 09:38 AM
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Next step is finding out where she lives and buying a good pair of binoculars.
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:36 PM
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Psychologist in the house... In Denmark you only get diagnosed in the psychiatric system which often times requires your local doctor or school psychologist like me to refer you with a hypothesis of autism, and the psychiatry will then confirm or offer other diagnoses to explain the symptoms described
/r/seduction22/12/19 10:34 PM
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You can usually sense from the conversations whether or not she's writing as if she wants to meet up, or if she is just saying she's busy (as a way to avoid meeting up any time soon)... In the latter case, I stop chasing and leave the interaction to focus on other stuff. In the first one, I'll throw out possible date times her way, and if she can't, she'll likely give new suggestions back. If a girl doesnt give back new possible meetup times, then that's likely a sign she doesnt actually want to…
/r/seduction14/08/19 11:11 AM
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Beware of confirmation bias - the tendency to look for rhings you believe and discarding signs of the opposite. You may be heavily observant of rejectful body language and paying it too much attention, and the insecurity you thus display because of it, could be reinforcing more of those reactions.
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:26 AM
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That's why they call it number 2
/r/seduction11/07/19 01:48 PM
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Sorry to be the guy to tell you, but if she's acting like this towsrds you when she has a boyfriend, she'll likely do the same to someone else if you become her next boyfriend. A girl not showing appropriate relationship boundaries is bad news for your emotions. If you just want sex from her, and have no issues with being the guy on the side, go enjoy, but this girl doesn't sound like someone worthwile investing your emotions in. You'll get burned.
/r/seduction28/04/19 08:43 AM
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Honestly, the game is based on what is now ancient ideas about how to approach pickup from a superficial standpoint. Its good, and helpful, dont get me wrong, but it doesnt bring about a healthy foundation for bringing girls into your life. A much better work to lean on would be "models" by Mark manson, who describes a more self-respectful way of going about dating.
/r/seduction27/04/19 07:26 AM
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If you think it's wrong of her and too much of a shitty comment for her to make, why do you wanna make friends with her? Would you want to if she was a guy? I wouldn't tolerate feeling like I was being shittested by one of my female friends.
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:59 PM
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Well, that last bit is a really sad perspective on women, that may have had a tough break in life, to be at a point where they feel connection when being mistreated. Empathy is free of charge, and girls deserve it just as well as us guys who've had a hard time do.
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:03 AM
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Hey man. Listen, you need professional help to deal with your past traumas. Do that first and the women will follow. Seek out a psychologist and get help.
/r/seduction09/01/19 08:51 PM
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But I wanted the TL;DW version .. Thanks for the brief
/r/seduction02/01/19 08:25 PM
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How do you make sexy vibe? 😊
/r/seduction02/01/19 04:52 PM
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Good post :) In regards to what to say I wanted to add something that felt natural to me. My last gf said something along those lines when I unvited her over to watch a movie (she said "I wont be spending the night"). I didn't think of it as a shit test, but more of her not eanting the pressure of me expecting sex if she didn't end up feeling like it since we had just gotten to know each other. When she said it, I simply replied "we won't be doibg any thing you're not comfortable with". What thi…
/r/seduction18/11/18 08:04 AM
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Dont overthink this.. You had a date. You got to know each other. These two girls didnt want to take it further, or you would have had sex with them. Something between you and the girls, they didnt feel clicked the way you felt it did. Accept that it wasnt meant to be because you weren't right for each other, and keep looking for other, better, matches to you. I'll suggest you read msrk manson "models", to achieve a mindset where this doesnt demolish your selfesteem or confidence. The "what did …
/r/seduction15/11/18 03:57 PM
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Let's not go generalising all women here. You're right that this one incident could have been handled better - doesn't make the entire female population douchebags, we gotta remember that
/r/seduction10/11/18 08:12 AM
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I am not arguing she is anyone's property. Nor that society should in any way be in any bisuness here. Those are your words. My question arises out of a matter of morality and ethics towards the man you're "stealing" her from. The one she has obligations to as you put it. Is it fair for a woman to cheat on her man thinking they are in a monogamous relationship then? And what do we gain from helping her to cheat? My last relationship, not that it makes me proud (quite the contrary) started out by…
/r/seduction22/10/18 07:37 PM
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Is that winning though?
/r/seduction22/10/18 05:09 PM
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Read it - #WorthTheInvestment
/r/seduction11/10/18 06:44 PM
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Alright alder. Listen. If you've been together for a year, there's a fairly good chance he won't react the way that you're fearing. IF he does, and you cant talk about it and work it out, the two of you are not right for each other regardless. To be very honest with you, I have to wonder why he would be with you for a year, if he didn't find you attractive, and thus want to have sex with you. I suspect he will - maybe he is shy too? Afraid of how you will react? As Apollo said, the easy way to g…
/r/seduction08/09/18 06:31 PM
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How old are you and what country are you from Alderfae?
/r/seduction08/09/18 06:07 PM
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You're forgetting: Signs of high status, like good looks, are also signals women pick up on before an interaction even begins. This can be used to increase chances of attraction even if you feel below standard in the looks department. Looks arent everything though obviously it's a helpful factor.
/r/seduction25/07/18 05:08 PM
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It's so hard to detect sarcasm through the monitor as a looking glass, don't you agree? :)
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:53 PM
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Making out doesn't equal her knowing you. Gotta play it more casual in the beginning, offer her to come join you for something you're doing, or just ask if she wants to hang at some place fairly interesting... Also, she might just have been looking for some fun that evening, not looking for anything further. She might have regretted it afterwards. She might have a bf. Who knows? We don't, and we can't keep ourselves guessing over it. Early in a relationship, or a connection rather, asking a girl…
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:52 PM
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Came here to read this. Solid advice. :)
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:21 PM
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If i want to get to know someone or secure my social status in a group of new friends, I ask people i dont know: "hi, who are you?" "hi, im phenxz" or similar... Take the step to introduce yourself and inviting the unknown to introduce him/herself. It gets awkward if noone does, so just be a confident guy and do it
/r/seduction20/02/16 08:32 AM
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In my humble opinion, you should start working on that. Focus on what your strengths are, and what you like about yourself. Drawing confidence from your selfesteem will make your mentioned issues seem much smaller, to you and the girls you're into. If you are very selfconscious about what you find are flaws, that will shine through. Does that make sense to you?
/r/seduction14/02/16 03:36 PM
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How is your sense of selfworth? You seem to have a lot of focus on all the things you think is wrong with you.
/r/seduction14/02/16 09:17 AM
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First off, you're not supposed or expected to solve her problem. Let that sink into your head. We guys are oriented toward problem solving, theres a problem? We gotta fix it!... Thats not what she wants/needs from you. Most people are simply thankful when somebody listens and recognizes what they are going through or have experienced. If she opens up and tells you vulnerable stuff about herself, it's her trying to connect with you. Be cool about it by recognising what she finds problematic, you …
/r/seduction09/02/16 06:44 AM
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It will always be the person in a relation who has the responsibility to convey non-interest in a pursuer. The pursuer has nothing to lose from trying to start a relationship with someone already in a relationship. Morals are complicated like that, but why on Earth would I give a rat's ass about some girl's guy, if she seems interested in me?... Mind you, I would never date a girl, if I could get her to cheat on her BF, because she'd likely do the same to me. I'd bang, but not date. When kids ar…
/r/seduction03/04/15 12:22 PM
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"thugswagyolo420 is my daddy"
/r/seduction18/03/15 04:16 PM
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I'll recommend Goodlookingloser's very detailed "approach anxiety" program. It's free (at http://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index ), and he breaks down on a day-to-day basis what to do, and most importantly, he points out with psychologically valid arguments what to focus on and what not to focus on (ie. you're not allowed to try and get a woman's number for the first exercises, as to detach you from the outcome, in an effort to get you used to engaging women.). Simple pickup also …
/r/seduction05/03/15 07:38 AM
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Well, to specify: they work if they are part of your natural communication. Take what works for you, and throw away the canned materials that dont fit into the puzzle that is you ;)... Ie. Over the last year I've learned to say: "Hi, I don't think we've met, I'm Phenxz". It doesn't get much more canned than this, but it comes natural to me, and I'm comfortable in using it (which is where canned material is a positive crutch in learning game). I can see myself saying "do you believe in magic?" to…
/r/seduction08/02/15 12:09 PM
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Yeah!... Oranges too
/r/seduction08/02/15 11:58 AM
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Hello all Going to throw this in here, for those who find it relevant to their current level: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program I've looked through this program, and it seems to be really good in taking a step-by-step approach to beating approach anxiety, if that is your basis for doing a 30-day challenge. I would suggest doing a program like this, as I can recognize a bunch of succesful principles used in exposure therapy that is used for psychologically treating anxieties. Discla…
/r/seduction08/02/15 11:29 AM
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I think that is oversimplifying it. That will likely be true to some women, but definitely not to all, as we are all wired differently emotionally and instinctively based on our genes and past experiences. Sounds like your fear of the worst case scenario speaking. Is it possible it may only matter to her (instinctively AND emotionally) if it matters to you? That she may respond to your dry-spell fact based on how you communicate what you think about it?
/r/seduction08/02/15 11:18 AM
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Sounds to me like you're the one who has a problem with it having been so long. Why is that? Do you need to prove something to yourself? To the next woman you're going to sleep with? I'm not trying to be provocative in asking, I'm genuinely interested why this is upsetting you. It's been about a year since my last lay. I don't have the sexual drive to be a "player", and I don't care that it's been so long, other than for the fact I've noticed I start to find a lot of girls attractive I wouldn't …
/r/seduction08/02/15 11:15 AM
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Ikast/herning
/r/seduction21/11/14 08:09 PM
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As dubknight pointed out, there's a big difference between having confidence and projecting it. If you want an "easy" fix for projecting confidence check out Amy Cuddy's posture hack. This is a scientifically proven method of increasing the hormones of your body that increases the feelings of being dominant and feeling more self confident. I started out using this a few years back when I first learned about it. Not because of a lack of inner self confidence, but because I tended to get nervous i…
/r/seduction09/07/14 07:48 AM
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In the relation to picking up in short-term hookups, sure. In relation to having the best life quality one can have, and in relation to long-term relationships - not so sure :)
/r/seduction09/07/14 07:36 AM
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Because men are the dominant and sexually aggressive gender. We're the pursuers, so women become the commodity (excuse the objectification). So when an attractive woman no longer is tied to a man, all she has to do is convey this to other pursuers, and she can have a new man in a short while. Men on the other hand have to pursue new women, and be rejected by the ones already taken or not interested, which is a harder task IMO. There's pros and cons to both sides of being either a man or woman wh…
/r/seduction24/06/14 07:03 PM
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I don't agree with the distinction, making the world so very black and white - categorising someone as a peasant. Taking myself as an example, you may at first hand find my goals egotistical, as the focus is primarily on the benefits to myself. However, delving into my goals I am now a psychologist, working in a field helping children to better thrive in the school environment, and given the choice, I would prefer to use my expertise in family therapy, aiding families struck by hardships of unhe…
/r/seduction22/06/14 05:25 PM
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Why would my main goals in life be anything but selfish? Are your goals altruistic? Do you dream of curing aids, world hunger? I don't. And I'm definitely not ashamed of it. Quite on the contrary I pride myself of being able to take care of myself, and value what I want for myself in llife, which a lot of people neglect to do in modern days - bringing about needless depression, anxiety and whatnot as a consequence. But I'm startiing to ramble off-topic. Being highly inspired by evolutionary psyc…
/r/seduction22/06/14 04:33 PM
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I don't get why I should have grit... Why should I have passion and perseverance for a long-term goal I'm very happy with my life, and feel like I have reached what I want to achieve in life? I have pursued a career in psychology, and have fulfilled this with a master's degree. I have 2 children whom I love very much. I have no other passionate goals, other than developing my own self with new skills, and adding a steady girlfriend to my life... I feel like there's so much focus on a man having …
/r/seduction19/06/14 02:59 PM
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That... Is a real insightful saying! Never heard that before - have an upvote good sir.
/r/seduction18/06/14 03:17 PM
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I would love to see this infield :)... I happen to be a psychologist and find social dynamics fascinating. My current bet would be that your staring at her feet to kill the conversation comes off as intentionally and thus not nervous/beta if you will. It comes off as a strong suggestion, when it is followed up by intense physical escalation, and thus a sign of dominance, determination and confidence. But that assumption depends entirely on my visualisation of how the process pans out, and could …
/r/seduction15/06/14 10:03 AM
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Let her go. Why fight for her affection if you're indifferent? ... In regards to setting limits to what you find acceptable from her as a friend. Ofcourse you should tell her if she's treating you badly you won't be her friend. That's called self respect. Would you let a guy friend shit on you and just forgive and forget and keep taking it the next time? No, you'd tell that dude to stop being a dick or GTFO. Tell the girl to stop being a dick, or to take care the door doesn't slam her ass on the…
/r/seduction12/06/14 05:09 PM
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You weren't though. You asked her specifically about her relationship. Every couple have different boundaries on where the line for cheating is crossed. Yours may likely be more strict than mabden's and her boyfriend's, but both are equally valid. When flirting with a girl, there's no way to know what kind of relationship she is already engaged in, and where her lines of cheating goes to. Her and her BF may be perfectly fine with kissing random people for all you know. Studies have shown that th…
/r/seduction11/06/14 08:26 PM
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Me too! Let's be besties!
/r/seduction10/06/14 06:34 PM
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Nail strauss made a point in "The Game" of saying that the only way a confident man (or person I think it was) can take a compliment is by saying thanks... Whether he is right or not, I don't know, but seeing as I always got (and still get at times) awkward when being complimented, I just stick by saying thanks, and that works just fine for me.
/r/seduction10/06/14 06:23 PM
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Agreed. Real time constraint. I wondered how someone might use false time constraint professionally, as that is a technique used to get your foot in the door, which I can't see any use for in therapy. However, blisssster might inspire me to become wiser.
/r/seduction09/06/14 02:22 PM
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I agree, and can nod in recognition of having learned similar things indirectly during my education. I was simply wondering if you went through a proces where there was more emphasis on these elements.
/r/seduction09/06/14 02:20 PM
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Artificial time constraints and asking for help was never an integrated part of my psychological education. Were you specifically taught these during your education? I wonder, because it seems to me those two are more oriented towards building rapport outside of professional use, and I can see why my education didn't go into building rapport with those two means... Do you use them actively professionally? And do you feel they are working for you?
/r/seduction09/06/14 07:08 AM
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http://www.30.simplepickup.com/ Basically kinda like rules of the game by strauss, but different challenges focusing on different things, and with a video instruction and demonstration of carrying out today's challenge in the briefing session. It's fun, but you could easily make challenges yourself if you want to, as long as you make sure to push yourself out of your comfort zone by doing them - that's the whole point, realising that your perception of social boundaries can be expanded and thus …
/r/seduction07/06/14 06:31 PM
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I think to myself: When I'm old and on my death bed, I'll regret my life so much, if I haven't had the balls to engage strangers in conversation and gotten to know attractive women through doing so. That gave me the balls to start Simple Pickup's 30 day challenge - And now I gotta stick through it so I won't regret it
/r/seduction06/06/14 02:44 PM
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Either I'm not like normal guys...OR...other guys don't express themselves like I do because it's not culturally appropriate for guys to be "softer". Or, both you and other guys are normal AND other guys don't express themselves like you do. Gotta remember that different people want different things and are turned on by different things in a girl. About 6 months ago I came out of a 5½ year relationship, and went out with my male cousin, and build a connection to a girl that I could easily get la…
/r/seduction06/06/14 05:12 AM
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During my time studying psychology, before I achieved my degree, I wrote my bachelor degree about attraction between the sexes. During the research period of this project, I learned that neutral attraction, which most of us would coin "liking", is influenced by a lot of factors. One of these factors is that we like people who are like ourselves. According to theory, the technique of mirroring a person's behavior produces this result behaviorally, and will thus increase neutral liking. Not attrac…
/r/seduction28/05/14 06:11 PM
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Massage is a good way to get physical fast. Who doesn't want a good massage? If you're confident in giving a good massage, simply tell her to lie down, and start giving her one. You can have the movie running or not, that doesn't matter too much - I would prefer to turn it off though, to focus her senses on the touches she receives and further her enjoyment. Also, you can simply make sure the two of you are spooning. It's a great and natural way to escalate slow and steady, first by holding hand…
/r/seduction21/05/14 05:24 AM
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never heard of the manual before :O... has it been out long?
/r/seduction18/05/14 05:56 AM
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I guess where you and I differ is that what you look at as prejudice, I look at as a coping mechanism for rejection. I find that looking at the intentions behind the words makes more sense to me than the literal use of the words, and I sense the intentions are not to be prejudical (is that a word?)
/r/seduction18/05/14 04:46 AM
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Different strokes for different folks... Some guys don't want girls as friends, only girlfriends or fuck buddies.. And those guys are entitled to that view of the world. It's also fair that you find friendships with women worth it. Nothing is the right way to think - that's how genocides are started (exaggeration, but you get the point). Edit: To clarify, I myself prefer female friendship as much as male, I think both types of friendship bring valuable elements in my life. But what I get from a …
/r/seduction17/05/14 05:48 PM
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Even if he is mysogonistic, you're being equally presumptuous assuming he is, based off one statement he might very well have picked up from this community (ie. one of many community norms). The statement itself reflects no hate towards women, however, it does reflect a way of framing rejection so as to get over it faster... Even if it is wrong, it serves a purpose, and you are making a fool of yourself pointing fingers towards others, when while you're doing that, you're generalising one statem…
/r/seduction17/05/14 09:48 AM
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so you're addicted to women pissing into your mouth from women?
/r/seduction17/05/14 09:44 AM
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a smile on the face goes a long way... and if you're feeling frisky, a creepy smile easily expedites most eye contact duels
/r/seduction14/05/14 02:47 PM
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indeed... I'm not about to watch 1+ hour of "mind hack" to find out it was garbage, because a random dude on the web claimed it to be good. At the very least provide a summary... This post is extremely low effort
/r/seduction14/05/14 02:41 PM
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I think paying extraordinary attention to the things you shouldn't do is an unhelpful way to go about seduction. We tend to do more of whatever we pay attention to, so paying attention to what you find you're doing succesfully will make you better at performing that behavior and increasing your game more efficiently than trying to avoid doing a whole list of things.
/r/seduction10/05/14 06:36 AM
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Hey. Guy with Master degree in Psychology here. Stopped by quickly just to note that inner game is basically a fundamental thing that we work on during therapy with our clients. Getting to the root of a behavioural problem is basic for both cognitive and psychodynamic therapy, so that would definitely be helpful to you. As others have stated though, it's not cheap. But it definitely should help you with any sort of inner game issues - If you go that route make sure you get an authorized psycholo…
/r/seduction09/05/14 04:14 PM
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I think you think you are better at reading people than you are. Enjoy the presumptuous life bro.
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:49 PM
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Reddit (or seddit) works in mysterious ways. I guess it did come off as contrived, that I became enthusiastic about your article. But hey, watcha gonna do
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:39 AM
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Sorry to disappoint. Just an anthusiastic student of the world of attraction up in here.
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:36 AM
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I do. Because I want to save the images and videos in it for later, in a nice document I can always get my hands on while offline.
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:35 AM
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lol, I guess conspiracy theorists are everywhere I can't persuade you either way, whatever I say, but I can state that I do not know OP in any way, but I admire people who gather good techniques for the rest of us to use. It saves me the personal time to do that. Also, I don't believe I've never posted on here before. I rarely do, but I don't think in the long time I've been a subscriber that I've never posted anything before. I could be wrong though. I think I said thank you to the guy who post…
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:34 AM
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thanks for the tip - I might use this :)
/r/seduction07/05/14 04:53 PM
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Great! Btw. Is there any way this article is downloadable, so I can have it in my archive of great stuff to keep around?
/r/seduction07/05/14 04:38 PM
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This is good stuff man! You're doing the community a grand favor gathering good techniques like this for easy reference! More articles like this would make me a permanent subscriber to your site.
/r/seduction07/05/14 04:05 PM
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My ex, whom I had a 5 year relationship and 2 kids with, said the exact same thing. That my being a good dad was easily gonna get me attraction from other women. I personally think that only applies to some women and not most - and since she is very interested in children obviously she found it attractive... Anyways, the point being that is my experience as well, being a good dad can work in your favor - just dont introduce the kid and woman like they need to know each other for good untill a fo…
/r/seduction25/04/14 08:49 PM
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I agree with you totally... I (and the rest of us) wasn't there, so it's impossible for us to know the atmosphere this all happened in. If she was playing a bit, I might've been more aggressive and keep pushing - If I get the feeling she's just deflecting to make me chase her a bit more and that'll make it more hot for her, I don't mind being persistent - all part of the dance... But if she genuinely and in all seriousness tells me no, even once, then sex is off the table for that evening - I do…
/r/seduction11/04/14 09:28 AM
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You can't keep them in a zone you want them in. You can't keep them in a zone they don't want to be in - FTFY
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:54 PM
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My point wasn't how to treat them, my point was to stop the expectation that every woman will find the same behavior to signal either confidence of insecurity. It's all relative to quote a famous someone... The way I communicate, you communicate and whoever else communicates their being and game is ofcourse how it is, nomatter what girl is the target. But the way we communicate ourselves is interpreted differently from girl to girl, so we need to stop expecting every girl to fall for something s…
/r/seduction22/03/14 10:31 AM
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It doesn't though. Seddit needs to stop generalising women like everyone is the same, as HappyJerk pointed out, every date and person we attract is an individual being and a case-by-case basis. Every person on Earth (not just women) interpret the things we communicate differently, based on their previous environments and experiences. One girl may very well find a date reminder confident and direct. Another might very well find it bit annoying and a sign of insecurity... Text messages are especia…
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:06 AM
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Shit dude, if there was such a group in denmark I'd go for it
/r/seduction20/03/14 06:27 AM
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An addition: If you want to turn the mood sexual, when you've glanced from eye to eye, don't look away. Instead look at her mouth. I do this and might also lick my lips while doing it, signalling a strong sexual vibe. My last girlfriend's mood would be very visibly affected when I did this on her.
/r/seduction19/03/14 06:23 PM
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Pull her to the bathroom.
/r/seduction19/03/14 04:10 PM
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People work up being alpha like it's the most important shit ever... There's a huge difference in being confident and being alpha, and to expand on what you're saying, it's about being confident with yourself and your fetishes, rather than having an alpha fetish.... I'd say rape-fetishes were pretty alpha, but that don't mean women want you to have that either. It's about being confident and accepting yourself, and finding that you are worthy of not only everyone elses love, but first and foremo…
/r/seduction17/03/14 02:23 PM
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That's my dream personally.... I don't want to date a ton of women, but I need to meet a ton of women, to pick out the ones I find worthy to spend the rest of my life with... The one I see having that future with. I'm no PUA IRL, but I've learned the theories of PUA to be apply what works in my life and help me increase the amount of women I can meet.
/r/seduction16/03/14 08:37 AM
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Went through my first breakup 2½ months ago with a 5½ year partner, it still affects me from time to time these days. Would love to have had a break up guide for that part of my life. Mostly I just wanted a new girlfriend to replace the skank, but this might help too :)
/r/seduction16/03/14 06:30 AM
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Lol :D... That's funny stuff! I gotta ask tho, why would she go home with you to charge her phone? Don't you think she has one at her place? ;)
/r/seduction14/03/14 07:02 AM
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I don't understand why she would ask if he's asking early. That would be totally weird of her. I've made dates a few weeks in advance before, simply due to planning my schedule. Never has someone found it weird to arrange a date a good time in advance - Hell, I just asked a girl I know, 1 hour ago, if she's doing anything 8 days from now, as I'm in her neighborhood there, and not willing to travel to that area unless I'm doing anything else. That's no different reason than being occupid the next…
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:03 AM
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What is this? What did I miss?
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:23 AM
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Good plan. However, Supaluprt does have a point. I read a scientific study a little while back, that investigated what happened when initiating a new relationship in terms of the effect on heartache from a previous relationship. Jumping into a new relationship would cause heartache to diminish, and provides scientific proof that the best a good way to get over someone is to get up on the horse again. That said, I wouldn't advice doing it just to do it. Introspection is an important part of life,…
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:15 AM
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I recently went on a second date with a girl I might or might not end up liking... During the date I leaned heavily toward the not-side. I told her straight up in a polite and empathising manner, but I didn't lead her on, or lie to her. The day after I asked her how she was feeling, as she was obviously upset when she took off after I told her. She said she appreciated me being honest and doing it straight away (She was originally planned to spend the night with me, but I felt it would be wrong …
/r/seduction12/03/14 04:07 PM
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So what, let the man feel good about himself, downvote the post if you don't like it, and move on. That's how the system works. To OP: good on you for pushing through and getting with a woman you find a 10!
/r/seduction12/03/14 04:01 PM
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As mark manson put it, the most important sentence is to "stop proving anything to anyone, including yourself". Once you let go of having to prove anything, you wont be blaming anyone for the way you behave amd the way you live. You'll simply live.... Thats a lot harder than I make it sound though :)
/r/seduction09/03/14 09:38 AM
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I agree with you... It doesn't make your chances of hitting it off with the girl any poorer by sending a followup text, so why not do it? Unless your ego is too fragile that it can't take 2 unanswered texts. But then you should focus on inner game rather than your principles and methods of text game.
/r/seduction06/03/14 07:28 PM
1

Also read about cold reading in general, as this is what the cube relies on
/r/seduction05/03/14 11:13 AM
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Thank you for this!
/r/seduction01/03/14 11:16 AM
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I have yet to come while being blown... ever... Again, as with women, not every man is the same.
/r/seduction22/02/14 02:08 AM
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however, we all learn from each relationship.. we may not learn everything about what we want or dont want, but IE. I know from my last long-term relationship that I need a girl who can clean up after herself, so that's on my must-list
/r/seduction17/01/14 09:56 AM
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Walk up and introduce myself as ShitMachine, got it... That'll be a good icebreaker :D
/r/seduction22/12/13 07:53 AM
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