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I notice you didn’t refute any of the points I made, you simply went off about some point on education. So perhaps you’re reacting to your own insecurities, my comment made you feel insecure? Doesn’t mean I’m wrong, you simply didn’t like how you felt after reflecting on yourself. That’s okay, that’s how growth takes place :-) But I stand by my comment. Sex is an intimate thing. You don’t do it “to” someone, you do it with someone. It’s a very different mindset. And yes, it takes a bit of securi…
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:18 PM
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I think a shift in your perspective might help for starters. Thinking about sex as something you do “to” someone versus ‘with’ or ‘for’ is making it about you. If you’re trying to memorize tactics in bed then you’ve already failed. Check out r/sexover30 and read about how experienced couples approach sex.
/r/seduction09/05/20 03:05 PM
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Frame control is a concept associated with persuasion, not just seduction.
/r/seduction23/01/20 02:08 AM
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I understand where he’s coming from, the point of me asking the question was to force a conversation about it. It’s difficult for some men to shift their point of view and opinion of women from negative to positive, I get it. They have a lifetime of experience and poor perception to back up their beliefs. The purpose of the original quote that was posted is to get men to move beyond that poor view of women. It’s not the women! And so the need to point out that there obviously are bad women out t…
/r/seduction08/10/19 09:22 PM
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Then stop looking like a fucking goblin. Why should she lower her standards? The hard truth that men seem to never get is that women do not have the same criteria for attractiveness. Men keep assuming that women are all about looks. More specifically, shallow men who are all about looks assume women are the same. They are not and they value different things like social hierarchy, ambition, kindness, and sense of humor.
/r/seduction07/10/19 08:08 PM
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And there’s A LOT of needy men that aren’t rooting for women... The point?
/r/seduction07/10/19 08:02 PM
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If only more people understood this golden nugget of advice...
/r/seduction07/10/19 07:59 PM
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Then it’s worth it. Check out that book. It may or may not help in this situation, but I promise you it will help you in the future. Good luck in working everything out!
/r/seduction29/09/19 04:27 PM
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Do you love her?
/r/seduction29/09/19 04:18 PM
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“5 Love Languages” If she is telling you that you don’t get her or you don’t love her and without a question you feel you do, read this book and it will answer everything. And this is not a seduction topic, this is dating and relationship advice. If you feel this is somehow related to seduction, that may be part of the problem.
/r/seduction29/09/19 04:07 PM
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Boundaries is one way to say it. Another is ‘having options’ or ‘non-committal’. Any of those creates an air of undecided interest. You’re not all in and she needs to prove herself worthy. And it seems like today guys have a real problem understanding that mindset. They think being non-committal or wanting a woman to prove herself means being a dickhead or anything but charming and a gentleman.
/r/seduction18/09/19 08:09 PM
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Great advice!
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:35 PM
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Wit is a product of multiple elements. Mental agility, intelligence, and confidence. I think the one factor that will help improve wit most dramatically is confidence. As your confidence improves and you focus less on her perception of you, and focus more on having fun and projecting yourself, wit and charm grow exponentially.
/r/seduction30/07/19 02:00 PM
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