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I posted about this over on uh, politicalcompassmemes when this study was new and most people across the political aisle were recognizing it as a problem. Though there were some who bent waaaaay over backwards to try and rationalize that it was acceptable sexism.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/26 04:42 PM
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Everything you say is valid and I'm sorry if what I said came off as dismissive. I may have been projecting how I felt years ago onto you, where I was initially very disgusted to about "taking a lead". But if you really cannot feel attracted to that way, then I can't force anything onto you. I did write what I did out of care, even if it wasn't ultimately productive. I can still wish you well, everything considered. And FWIW, no man in his right mind should expect anything but the coarsest, most…
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/26 01:36 AM
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What is wrong with what I said?
/r/EverydayMisandry25/07/26 08:15 PM
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I'm going to be absolutely real for a second, and it's a very inconvenient truth that society doesn't tell you and women don't tell you when you grow up as a young man in the 21st century. Women, on some level, and by-and-large, want patriarchy in relationships. This is a part of the dating and loneliness crisis which the media will never talk about either because A. it makes women look like liars or B. it sounds vaguely conservative and we can't have that, "liberals click our articles not konzu…
/r/EverydayMisandry25/07/26 01:58 PM
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Slide 1 is just wrong. Most men can make perfectly fine partners. Slide 2. Saying that relationships give love doesn't make people lower their standards. It's basic fucking human relations. Just tonight my girlfriend and I were talking about the labor gap between men and women in relationships... it amounts to 2 hours a week of chores after you include men working more. It's not ideal, but also, there can be other factors besides just... exploiting women. Like women wanting to do more chores, or…
/r/EverydayMisandry25/07/26 04:35 AM
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The term incel was something which was gender neutral and was a supportive word for a community of people who were lonely but desiring romance. But like a lot of things, a toxic slurry of the mainstream media and the cultural left came along and weaponized the term. The former, I think, did it as a fearmongering thing to generate clicks and thus money, and the latter because they wanted more ammo against the right. However, as I've repeated noted, incels are not rightwing. They're evenly distrib…
/r/EverydayMisandry24/07/26 06:10 PM
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It'd also end up on the news about how a VIRAL online post GLORIFIES and PERPETUATES violence against women.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/07/26 06:06 PM
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Anyone who tells me how empathetic they are... I assume they are very empathetic selectively. At best.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/07/26 11:28 PM
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"I've talked to my daughter about women being more emotionally intelligent and more intelligent than boys" You sound like Europeans and white Americans teaching that their white kids are superior to black people and Native Americans in the 1800's. Once you try the "replace 'boys' with 'minority' test", you cannot go back.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/07/26 10:28 AM
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They won't. Bigotry against men is engrained into modern culture and if you don't believe it's okay to slaughter unborn men then you're a misogynistic weirdo Bible Thumper.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/07/26 10:25 AM
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This obsession with "centering" any Earthly person or ideal is super concerning tbh.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/07/26 11:23 AM
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In five years she'll also be wondering why the kids are all being raised by "boy moms" and "women with internalized misogyny".
/r/EverydayMisandry19/07/26 11:21 AM
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Oh crap, where do you live, if you don't mind me asking? That sounds terrible.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/26 12:47 PM
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I think you're correct here about the general culture. My research seems to corroborate what you're saying about "advertised" because getting a definite number on how many shelters accept men vs. women was downright frustrating... most DID lump togethehr men's shelters and homeless shelters because "Well, men are more likely to be homeless!!!" That's of course, not the question. The question was about having safe zones for men from their abusers. It looks like there's about 2000 women's shelters…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/26 12:25 PM
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They'll say that "nuh-uh, men do it more" by using the skewed data of the CDC. I've almost consistently been called a misogynist or a conspiracy theorist by liberals and leftists when I tell them that the CDC makes the definition of sexual violence against men so narrow that most instances of a woman raping a man isn't counted. https://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/ TIME covered this in 2014 and the CDC hasn't changed their methodology, to my knowledge, since. Relevant information: A much bi…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/26 12:21 PM
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She was also arrested for biting a cop during this protest.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/26 12:15 PM
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I did some research on this. There absolutely are many DV shelters and homeless shelters which host or serve men; the MRA claim that there's "only two" in America isn't quite accurate. There's only two that serve exclusively men in cases of domestic abuse. I will agree that male victims of IPV or DV are less likely to get help just because they make not recognize the signs. And, while overblown, there absolutely are cases where feminist/left leaning groups opposed care for men who were victimize…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/26 12:14 PM
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There are also women who magically start treating someone better because they went from being a regular dude to a trans woman. Because... they often carve it out as "Cis men bad". Yuck.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/26 04:11 AM
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Emotional labor was originally a socialist theoretical term used to describe the difficult aspects of service related careers where people had to smile and just be pleasant at unfortunate circumstances or tense situations, such as waiters being hit on, cashiers being harassed for company policies they never implemented, or simply explaining terms to the customer as a salesman. It posits that these people are often underpaid because their work wasn't simply in the movement and sale of goods but a…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/26 04:09 AM
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"That being said, I 100% get where people are coming from when they object to saying “men gave women rights.” It feels similar to saying “white people gave Black people rights.” Like…. Ehhhhh, sort of ig from a certain perspective but putting it that way leaves a lot out that would put some needed respect on the topic. Human rights are inherently universal so it’s less of a “giving” rights to others; more like “I’m gonna acknowledge oppressing you is wrong and stop now.” I agree that human right…
/r/EverydayMisandry13/07/26 12:43 AM
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That's true, actually.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 06:13 PM
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Well my point with the minority thing is that what we do know is that is was all-male or nearly all-male governments who decided to give women the right to vote, whereas we don't know whether women at-large wanted it at the time. I think it's probable that the majority of women wanted voting rights, among other things, but we don't know for sure. This could've been something forced on the majority of women without their wish, which then was accepted by women after it happened. Also, ultimately, …
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 06:10 PM
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How do you know there wasn't altruism involved? There were many medieval rulers who wrote laws, well before modern feminism, meant to help or empower or protect women, such as Alfred 'the Great' of England (particularly interested in preventing SA), Alfonso X of Spain (clarified and guaranteed property rights to married women), and Emperor Justinian (numerous things). They didn't do any of that by women protesting. Even here in America, some of the founding fathers like Benjamin Rush were early …
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 12:10 PM
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I didn't downvote you, for one thing. Now, explain why I'm misogynist for pointing out that men were the ones who gave women rights and fought in the armies to ensure women could continue to have rights?
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 11:53 AM
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100% of the people who gave women rights were men relinquishing exclusive rights that their sex had. We also don't know how popular feminist movements and things like women's suffrage was among women in the 1800/early 1900's because there was no polling.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 11:50 AM
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Yeah I'm not sure in what Islamic society she's wearing that stuff around the house.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 11:49 AM
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I looked up her account, regrettably. The entire account is just hating men. Though, wherever she lives, she has some type of ties to a brand which sells clothing in America, and claims to have a boyfriend.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 11:49 AM
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The biggest thing about the idea of the Trinity being a churchly, institutional conspiracy is that... why on Earth would the Church make up the Trinity as a doctrine unless it actually believed it? The Arian-sympathetic bishops were numerous at First Nicaea. The path of least resistance was for them to adopt Arianism. Constantine, being an unbaptized and unlearned Christian, wasn't particular on whatever the Church decided, just that it decided on something concrete. The Germanic groups like the…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 01:54 AM
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These people probably think that the Lord of the Rings is sexist because it stars nine men, and racist because a blog told them that orcs are based on black people or Asians.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 01:35 AM
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I don't mean to turn this into a huge theological debate, but it is very likely that the Bible had almost entirely male authors. At bare minimum, Paul's Epistles were written by himself, some by his adopted son, Timothy, and some by his students/pupils who wrote in his stead. Luke almost certainly wrote his part of Acts and his Gospel as well (barring a couple hiccups here-and-there, he was pretty historically accurate on things, such as accounting for wind currents in the Med. properly, as well…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 01:33 AM
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The idea that Christ's divinity is a later invention is one which is quite persistent among both atheists and some Evangelicals. It's really quite strange. Early Church Fathers like Ignatius of Antioch, Polycarp of Smyrna, and Irenaeus of Lyons (all living in the 1st and 2nd Centuries) all professed Trinitarian views of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit as one.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 01:29 AM
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I feel obliged to mention as a huge fan of C.S. Lewis that, while I've never read his fiction works, his non-fiction and persuasive essays are extremely good as well. Even when I don't agree with him, I can say that he makes brilliant statements in a succinct and simplistic way and see where he comes from.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 01:27 AM
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They wonder constantly why men are moving rightwards, rejecting modernity, returning to religion in (slightly, the difference is exaggerated) greater numbers, bringing back Biblical gender roles, and more. Gen Z men have lived their whole adult lives with the pop culture and mainstream media blaming us for all the problems we didn't create, dehumanizing our problems by victim blaming even when the fault lies with the nature of the world/the system, and blatantly disregarding male deaths in war a…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/07/26 12:26 PM
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It's what I hear about men having to pay higher premiums for insurance until they're ~25 (A. how is that even legal, and B. not even based on reality as young men drive more, so the amount of accidents that happen per mile driven is actually higher among women under 25 than among men), men working the grimy jobs that women very rarely even consider doing, men enjoying more physical hobbies, and so on.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/07/26 12:14 PM
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In a charitable interpretation, I think that they have bad experiences with men online. People who date online are generally a lot less couth than your typical single person, and (almost) everyone knows that. You tend to get people who are awkward at best, or actively malicious towards the opposite sex at worst, with "good" people getting snatched up quickly. You have women who waste people's times for months with false promises and malice, and you have men who immediately ask for sex or want to…
/r/EverydayMisandry04/07/26 05:11 PM
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I think you would like the rhetorical concept of "thought-terminating cliches".
/r/EverydayMisandry02/07/26 02:32 PM
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Correct. I don't use the term "fascist" lightly (I pretty often recall "What is Fascism?" by Orwell before using the term), either.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/07/26 01:32 PM
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CMV, collective guilt is a fascist way of thinking, regardless of what party/ideology uses it.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/07/26 01:18 PM
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Considering most incels are neither right-wring nor violent, too. They might not even be disproportionately violent. It's just that the media explodes with sensationalism when one does commit a crime. They are just regular jobbers who are depressed, terminally online, are just unlucky.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/07/26 01:16 PM
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New reddit's notifications are kinda wild lol. I hope I didn't scare you
/r/EverydayMisandry25/06/26 12:02 AM
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Hi, honeybee :)
/r/EverydayMisandry24/06/26 11:54 PM
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I thought feminists pointed out this, in isolation a good sentiment, that "women don't exist just to serve men", and look at how some like to regard men...
/r/EverydayMisandry24/06/26 04:23 AM
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Did I say that the main purpose of a woman's life is to give birth? When did I say that? I said a *part* of an *ordinary* woman's life is to *at some point* become pregnant and that is a good thing. The vast majority of a woman's life is not spent being pregnant, I did not say that every woman has to give birth, and I didn't imply woman should have as many babies as humanly possible. I don't know how to read your words other than grabbing for a meaning I never stated. I almost think you read my …
/r/EverydayMisandry23/06/26 11:47 PM
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I'm glad someone pointed this out. I am politically mixed. I have mostly liberal/left ideas, but some very conservative ones, and I've become incredibly traditionally minded towards the importance of families and natalism. Even if you believe that conservative = more likely to be misogynistic, no one can doubt that the evidence is mounting that misandry and anti-family attitudes are becoming more common among liberals and have been for 30 years now. It's no wonder that even in 2026 midterm polli…
/r/EverydayMisandry22/06/26 10:33 AM
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Hindu guy cooked very hard with the last slide. Like, he did. This claim by the Hindu woman... does not pass the "replace men with black people/another racial minority" test.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/06/26 12:35 PM
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Modern media narratives tell young men that they initiate relationships too often and also too little. The only path forward for us lads is to care less and ask out women when we dang well feel like it and aren't being creepy in the process. Like, trust me fellas, this works.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/05/26 09:48 PM
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... then she goes and marries a very masculine football player. Many such cases.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/05/26 09:45 PM
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There are absolutely women who hypergamous by nature, though. In my experience it's in the minority, but from my perspective as a man, they're probably about 15% of women. Still, 1-in-6. There are women on websites such as this who will try to pen a pseudohistorical theory that the Church mandated monogamy in the Early Middle Ages to "force" women to marry mediocre losers, because a large subset of women would rather be shared by a rich, successful man than your average Joe. Weirdest allegation …
/r/EverydayMisandry25/05/26 12:29 PM
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That's what people like OOP don't understand. It's not that we don't sympathize with the hardships that women go through. It's just that your response of hating men and making the culture more discriminatory is a horrible and counterproductive direction!
/r/EverydayMisandry25/05/26 12:23 PM
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Women don't pretend it's anything else. I've repeated the joke, though not with the same wording, Sh0eonHead did about men vs. women's fantasies, and my female friends have always found it hilarious. "If you ask a guy what his 'hear-me-out' is, it's like some conventionally attractive woman with maybe one or three conventionally unattractive traits. If you ask a woman, it's probably like a Tolkien orc or a DnD kobold with masculine features."
/r/EverydayMisandry23/05/26 01:13 PM
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Remember that being forced to penetrate is not considered rape if the victim is an adult, according to most Western governments, including the United States.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/05/26 01:03 PM
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I'm someone who's a traditional Catholic, but I have no issue with a woman going to college in the least, especially if she feels called to a white-collar job. But because I see that men and women are different and equals in dignity, I must sound like the biggest, patriarchal asshole imaginable when I say that there shouldn't be scholarships for exclusively women at this point. They seem to have no problem getting into college. If society was about equality of opportunities it would favor merito…
/r/EverydayMisandry23/05/26 01:01 PM
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Yeah, both young men and some women, I remember reading, are increasingly turning to blue collar work or apprenticeship programs for long-term career stability. And I'm all for it. I'm an engineer, and I can definitely tell people that unless your job straight up needs a degree, like, needs-needs a degree, it's not worth going to college anymore. The trades are in demand. We need more people in construction and infrastructure. Modern tooling helps women on the job. We can do it. The universities…
/r/EverydayMisandry23/05/26 12:56 PM
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I've seen even weirder. This is something I've seen numerous times on Reddit and Instagram, feminists claiming the most outlandish explanations of early hominid times are responsible for human sexual dimorphism. I don't feel comfortable explaining some of them.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/05/26 02:25 AM
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Absolutely horrible. I had no clue that happened... ... even ignoring that, the original voting laws for the vast majority of countries only let landed men vote or had poll taxes. Most men straight up could not vote even if they were white. Women were absolutely seen as people too. There are laws going back to the Viking Age which were written specifically to protect women and books from the time confirm that Anglo-Saxon women owned property (in some areas it was rather common, too).
/r/EverydayMisandry22/04/26 11:16 PM
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TL;DR a progressive (so there may be heavy bias at play here) source claims that only a third of young British women under 25 have a positive opinion of men, with nearly a third having actively negative opinion of men. This contrasts with how only 7% of young men under 25 have a negative view of women." British women under 25 were twice as likely to not want children than men under 25. Something which likely bodes extremely poorly for the future of the UK. I don't have the statistics off-hand, b…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/04/26 01:08 PM
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Honestly most statistics feminists try to cite are empirically untrue or so manipulated as to be untrue. It's sad. I wish we could have discussions about how to minimize crime and violence without needing to spend hours on end untangling junk data and half-truths by activists.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/03/26 08:06 PM
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Sometimes nuns can be public facing- though it would be more accurate to describe those that face the public as "sisters" and not necessary "nuns". Also nuns historically were sometimes teachers for male students.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/01/26 02:12 AM
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Down the article it mentions a nun abusing a boy but there are more sources.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/01/26 01:18 AM
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https://whyy.org/articles/invisible-victims-survivors-of-sexual-abuse-by-nuns-demand-to-be-counted/
/r/EverydayMisandry23/01/26 12:50 AM
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My ex girlfriend would send me kind notes and music she played just for me when I was depressed to remind me I wasn't alone. We're no longer together for other reasons, but even if I'm over her, I will always feel gratitude for the fact that she treated my feelings of sadness or emptiness with a humane approach. No minimizing, no ridicule. She somehow knew if I was having a rough day from my tone of voice, and whether I was getting more often or less often depressed. She didn't have to do that- …
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/25 03:08 PM
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Not sorry, but dating trad, conservative, or nonpolitical women is far better than dating liberal women. Especially if they're traditional, they often have their hangups and expectations but at the end of the day they are more respectful to their men. All men want is peace and a piece. Giving a man those things freely and happily is considered evil now in our insane, 21st century world.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/25 03:02 PM
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I'm pretty sure that despite the rhetoric you see in the media, the plurality of self-identified incels are liberal. Which tracks with young men being plurality liberal. The political identification of incels has never strayed far from the norm.
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/25 03:01 PM
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It's (edit: one of numerous reasons) why I no longer identify as liberal. It's not hard to follow the tracks. If everything is political, then so are relationships. Men are entitled to relationships, they say. They see male desire for relationships, even if strongly and sincerely felt, as an expression of possessiveness and oppression. So they must reflexively tell men to stop feeling like they do and emphasize women "going their own way". It's tiring. It's so tiring. No one for the last 300k ye…
/r/EverydayMisandry16/11/25 03:00 PM
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Powerful words by your priest and therapist. I'm glad you have that spiritual guidance as someone else who has been hurt. Of course we should listen to ancient wisdom. A lot of it gets lost in our overstimulated, overly-plugged in world.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/11/25 04:07 AM
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No doubt. I've tried to be as informed as I can about the topic, especially since I'm very active in Church life and am a mandated reporter through safe environment training courses I took through the Church. I don't profess to be a fully neutral voice here.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/11/25 03:46 AM
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Not at the moment. I am going to bed soon, but I'm sure you could find reading about it. From what I remember, and I could be wrong, it was rare among nuns. Even among diocesan priests, it depends a lot on your country. Some countries priests' were less likely to be predators (like in the USA and Spain, I think) than the general public. Sometimes it's more likely (Chile). Of course that doesn't excuse any cover ups which happened in the past, but like I said, the mainstream media somehow both ma…
/r/EverydayMisandry13/11/25 03:42 AM
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small segment of churches actually oppress women therefore dumb argument with no evidence is understandable No. I reject this this-or-that type of thinking.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/11/25 03:26 AM
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Devout Catholic here. Yes nuns were sometimes involved in committing crimes against boys and men during the sexual abuse crisis. The crisis was not limited to diocesan priests as it's often presented in the popular media (which somehow both exaggerates and understates the scale of the problems which were faced in especially the 70's with this horror).
/r/EverydayMisandry13/11/25 03:24 AM
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Yep. Sexual barbarism was basically a dime a dozen in the world as depicted in Genesis immediately after the Fall of Man. Also, wow, it's almost like sexual crimes in Scripture were committed by both men and women, just like in real life! "There is nothing new under the Sun," Ecclesiastes 1:9.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/11/25 03:23 AM
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I mostly agree with this post, especially that last part. I think men hadn't much choice but to protect the women for the reasons you stated. But women did work a lot too in the Middle Ages out of the home!
/r/EverydayMisandry13/11/25 03:09 AM
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I think it's rather pathetic how intolerant people use the largest, non-specific terms possible to sound profound.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/25 03:02 AM
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Oh I see it now. I'm tired lol
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/25 01:07 AM
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Very politically incorrect opinion: this is why we have the patriarchy. It's because ancient men were like "okay so if we're going to die much more often hunting animals and warring for the tribe and we're going to direct the tribe as scouts through the wilderness, we should also be in charge, right?" And the rest of history has happened. And right now it's still "Men need to get food [men are disproportionately farmers, hunters, and fishers in the West], fight the wars, and explore the cosmos."…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/25 01:04 AM
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That's what I'm thinking. Is this even misandry...? Like I'm confused.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/11/25 01:01 AM
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Woman finally actually gets jailed and not a slap on the wrist for committing a horrible felony, online feminists call it the patriarchy. Of course. I knew it. I know that if the justice system actually punished women in the same way as it did men, they'd still call it misogyny.
/r/EverydayMisandry04/11/25 01:15 AM
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Men are not allowed to complain about suffering ever. You cannot have empathy for more than one group or person at the same time, apparently.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/11/25 03:32 AM
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Given how much money gets flooded into stuff like Tiktok and Reddit to destabilize Western countries by foreign actors/up liberal causes to induce right-think (see the tens of millions Democrats put into things like this site)... it's not organic.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/11/25 03:24 AM
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It's too incel-y for me. They're not super bad about it but it can reek of "I've never had a girlfriend and will not even try".
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 11:04 PM
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Exactly. Welcome to the real world. If you're as good as a man, then prove it. Walk a mile in a man's shoes. I challenge men to do this, too. To look in the mirror.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 11:01 PM
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Man and wife is an antiquated way of putting it. I don't think people are intentionally saying that to be demeaning to women.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 10:53 PM
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OK. And we call people "dicks" too. Either genital insults are acceptable or they're not.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 10:47 AM
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Based and actually understanding anatomy post.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 10:43 AM
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She's going to be lonely or embittered in middle age unless she changes, I'm afraid. I hope she changes.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 10:41 AM
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Can you name some examples in how it is the case in language, speech, daily life, and in work? Common examples? Not scenarios which are obviously immoral and get HR involved as fast as flies on rotten fruit?
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 10:41 AM
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Fair. I was just saying that it isn't entirely unprecedented.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 02:10 AM
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"Nevertheless, this [crossdressing] may be done sometimes without sin on account of some necessity, either in order to hide oneself from enemies, or through lack of other clothes, or for some similar motive." Saint Thomas Aquinas, in Summa Theologiae Saint Joan of Arc also famously wore men's clothes on this justification, as there were no women's uniforms for military service.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/10/25 01:14 AM
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Also even in Christianity, it's been Church tradition to permit men to wear women's clothes out of necessity, safety, or even comfort in private. It's only deemed wrong if done for "fetishy" reasons. Modern feminists retain this idea that men dressing as a woman would being "fetishy" while totally permitting women to dress as men is a definite double standard.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/10/25 04:39 PM
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Even radical Islamists will pull the "think of the women" when trying to endear people. Like... they know that protecting women is a simple, human psychological drive.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/10/25 11:57 PM
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75 deserters, and somehow the entire male sex are nothing but cowards. Even if her logic made any sense- it doesn't- why are all men at fault? Collective punishment once again proves extremely dumb and immoral.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/10/25 11:55 PM
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Very glad you understand!
/r/EverydayMisandry16/10/25 12:35 AM
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Boys having a tough time in school compared to girls. Basically every one I know who notices this are like "well boys are just assholes and stupid".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/25 10:27 PM
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I still reject the idea that men are raised to be "wild and free". It's certainly never something I've experienced growing up. It was always girls who were given free passes for bad behavior.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/25 09:55 PM
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I've seen this on social media too where liberal women complain about conservative men being much better to date lmao
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/25 09:53 PM
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No. We disagree but you are fine. I am mostly mad at people who levy blatant double-standards for children.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/25 09:52 PM
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To be fair, the idea that she "had to deceive to have sex with a heterosexual man" is weird, plenty of guys would happily fuck a transgender woman, even preop. Agreed. But yeah, she a rapist, stop defending her... Disclaimer: I don't hate trans people, but I feel very strongly about the following points. Feel free to disagree. I'm absolutely ecstatic that this happened, that the judge booked this rapist. This is a hill I will die on- I think it's completely rancid in the trans community that som…
/r/EverydayMisandry13/10/25 10:32 AM
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I think I fell in love with her when she told me that she felt like she "could've done a lot better, could've loved him more sincerely, and could've treated him with more kindness" with regard to an ex she had when she was 21. That attitude and decency was so attractive fr. My ex was not perfect, of course. No one is, but she was good to me.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/10/25 10:26 AM
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I don't think a lot of these women understand that the reason a lot of times a man seems disinterested is because men are generally more detached from things than women are, which isn't a bad thing. In fact, it's probably a good thing. If both partners cared so deeply about certain topics, you'd probably get a lot of fighting. Hence the lesbian divorce rate. Also, I don't doubt there's a bunch of lazy men out there, but again this is just not taking a step back and realizing that people in gener…
/r/EverydayMisandry13/10/25 10:25 AM
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I've remembered things about my partners, taken care of them, and been invested. According to these women, I'm a unicorn or 'one of the rare good ones'. Screw that. That would still be patronising. Something I often pay close attention to with the women I date is how she talks about the men in her life. Fellas... there's not many better indicators of what she's going to do to you 10 years from now than how she talks about her exes, her father, and her coworkers. If everything now is about how al…
/r/EverydayMisandry13/10/25 10:19 AM
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Like exactly, these same people who are against bootstraps rhetoric are the first people to say "pull yourself by your bootstraps" to literal young boys.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/25 10:13 AM
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While I don't agree with that last part as my view on sex is probably fundamentally different from yours, I will also say that you bring up a generally good point that nominally, feminism should've reduced the pressure for men to provide, but it kinda hasn't from a social point of view. The increasing of standards among the segment of women seems to be of the fact that they want to enforce certain male behavior.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/25 07:06 PM
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No, not "tomato-tomahto", there are absolutely segments of the right who thoroughly disparage Andrew Tate and the red-pill movement. As it turns out American conservatives don't like a criminal wannabe Muslim dude, and many still aren't misogynists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/25 07:02 PM
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You specifically said "Andrew Tate", not "right-wing men."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/25 01:00 PM
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Andrew Tate is hated or otherwise unknown by the overwhelming majority of Gen Z men. I think being a Tater Tot is probably the lamest thing any man could do tbh
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/25 03:54 AM
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A few exceptions (like someone’s grandmother who owned stocks in the ’50s, who was probably extremely rich) My grandma was not extremely rich lmao If women today still face barriers to accessing high-paying jobs because of discrimination and social control, doesn’t it seem obvious that things were even worse back then? Women now earn the majority of university degrees, yet they’re still overrepresented in lower-paying fields while men dominate higher-paying ones. Because men choose to work these…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/25 03:45 AM
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Yeah if you can vaguely blame the culture or the memetic vibe of a society, you can blame the society (via what to me is effectively a composition fallacy) for... well, anything you're not happy about.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/10/25 03:23 AM
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Girl power stuff has been mainstream in the media for several decades now. It's not like women woke up recently on that. I don't disagree that historically (and we're talking like 100 years ago) women were socialized to be mothers primarily, however. Look up the term "mental load" or the number of women who work full time while also being expected to do all the household labour. It’s been a gradual evolution from indoctrination to liberation. I would really appreciate it if you didn't assume I w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/25 02:57 AM
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One from women having more autonomy over there partners, they no longer have to settle for mediocre men that they would have before Problem is that they've had this full autonomy for forty to fifty years and are only now "acting on it". Why?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/25 12:40 AM
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This is all very well said.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/25 12:38 AM
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You speak well. I am someone who cares a lot about the women in his life, and I try to understand people's plights. It's something I feel is a duty from me as a husband (I'm unfortunately not married, but you have to practice to get good at something), that I understand what women go through. I would similarly want my wife to empathize with me and some of the battles men face without judgment and malice.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/25 09:46 PM
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I have speculation about this. But it's not an explanation that I think this subreddit would particularly enjoy. I posted this here as someone who mostly lurks and thought you all would enjoy it and make good conversations out of. I will say that this is not meant to be an incel malding post. I've had girlfriends in the past and am actively dating, or trying to. I'm in a good position in life and feel confident in myself and my appearance. I was moreso opening up counter-arguments good men can u…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/25 09:44 PM
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"Until your husband owns everything in his name" Imagine living in a reality with jet planes, nuclear energy, AI, the Internet, digital entertainment everywhere, Vtubers, desalinization, and more, and not realizing that the Married Women's Property Acts were passed almost 200 years before you were born.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/10/25 03:12 PM
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This exactly. I don't understand what's so hard to get about this. If you need to hate men and bring men down, you're not equal. You think you are but you are not. If you are better than man, prove that you are. But the fact that you need to resort to hate proves you as an individual are not greater than the average man.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/10/25 11:54 PM
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I remember watching a video where a bisexual woman said she stopped dating women for the simple fact that lesbians want to be spoiled but never spoil their partner.
/r/EverydayMisandry03/10/25 11:40 PM
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Yeah you're right. You know feminists love playing the card of "Women don't exist for male enjoyment" but it sure is curious how they react when men don't operate exactly, down to the smallest of exhales or awkwardly-worded affections, as they want.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/09/25 11:05 PM
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Men struggling women most effected, it's all men's fault for why love is dead, it's all men's fault...
/r/EverydayMisandry30/09/25 10:52 PM
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These women also create misogynistic monsters in the first place. Those who give hate receive hate. It's just how the world is; it's how sins fester. I hope you and your wife are well.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/09/25 10:50 PM
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Not sure why you're at neutral, this is a 100% correct lol
/r/EverydayMisandry30/09/25 02:23 AM
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I ask out women a lot IRL and I've never had this happen to me, but I'm also 5'11" and am just able to (partially fake) confidence. I feel bad for short, nerdy guys, I really do. They do not deserve the abuse that women give them and are sadly encouraged to give because of current social trends.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/09/25 01:04 AM
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as should every other woman in their little cabal who was abusive, harassing, shaming or commented on his physical appearance. I agree but it's not going to happen. And it's not going to be recorded anywhere, so feminists can continue to say that false accusations are a myth.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/09/25 01:02 AM
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No one hates "boy moms" more than bitter women. Actually, who the Hell says the term "boy mom" unironically unless you just hate males?
/r/EverydayMisandry28/09/25 03:28 PM
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Growing up and realizing the insane double standards and double-think numerous feminists have in dealing with men.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/09/25 03:26 PM
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That's a really good, if also morbid and sobering, point. (Also from what I understand, marital rape was technically illegal, but it was either not taken seriously or downgraded to sexual assault/harassment because at the time they believed that marriage was a matter of "implied consent by the spouses"... regardless, it was good that the law was changed.)
/r/EverydayMisandry26/09/25 12:05 AM
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I'm like, actually convinced that at least a quarter of the women (maybe the people in general) on Reddit could be diagnosed with some personality disorder. The enormous ability to completely dismiss pain when it's for a group they don't care for is seriously a sign of mental disturbance or extremely rooted propaganda. And I am not someone who likes to armchair diagnose stuff.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/09/25 12:03 AM
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Stealing this term. I knew there had to be a name for it.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/09/25 12:00 AM
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Most I imagine would be against concealed carry too, something that would (at least in theory, but perhaps not in practice) allow even weak men to protect a woman from a criminal in public.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/09/25 11:57 PM
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"Anyone who thinks men aren't emotional has never disagreed with, argued with, or slightly insulted a man before" Maybe if you're my father or my brother who are shit at argumentation and get angry easily during debates, but for the most part my bros can completely disagree on religion, politics, patriotism, diets, which women are pretty, and so forth and not make a fuss about it. In general I noticed that women will be more inclined to entrench very deeply and lash out and ostracize when you di…
/r/EverydayMisandry24/09/25 01:52 PM
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I say women are generally more emotional than men. I don't think most of anyone until 25 years ago disagreed with this idea. Being generally more emotional than a man is not a bad thing. Also, I believe I've read that in certain ways men can be more emotional. Men tend to fall in love faster, for instance. There are individual men who commit crimes like the women in the comments in the post say over dumb stuff, and they're manchildren. Honestly you can see this hypocrisy by the "I hate being cal…
/r/EverydayMisandry24/09/25 01:47 PM
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I think what she's trying to communicate is that men look up to other men and look down to women. This can be true, but it's painted as an absolute of male psychology, which is misandrist. There are many men who admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, imitate, idolize, and form profound attachment to, their wives. I did all these things to my ex girlfriend. She stunned me with how strong she was given the things she'd been through in her life. I loved her for her strength and her smiles despite t…
/r/EverydayMisandry20/09/25 12:30 PM
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The "woman always right" and "pregnancy is worse than a World War" plus typical Reddit hysterical tone stuff aside, I don't actually take issue with this. I think she's being a bit controlling but I also think he's being immature. This should be a lot more about the baby, their marriage, and not themselves.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/09/25 12:08 AM
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It's based on the idea of "emotional labor" in relationships, that men are in kahoots with each other to treat their girlfriends or wives like therapists or emotional vomit buckets. I'm sure some men do this, but you can go basically anywhere online to see how some women view men expressing any emotion. Sometimes when I read feminist perspectives, I just see that this woman clearly sees her husband as nothing more than a paycheck and a cum factory, and what he gets out of it is a bad attitude if…
/r/EverydayMisandry18/09/25 10:27 AM
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The amount of people that... just don't get this is actually really testing, to be honest.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/09/25 01:19 AM
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Cultural conservativism is usually marked by things which are traditional or in-vogue some generations ago within a given society. For these fellas, it's that they are churchgoers, are family-focused, and are patriotic. I am these three things but I'm not politically conservative.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/25 10:46 PM
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I don't know is my genuine answer. All I can say is that I've known devout, bi Catholics who simply choose to date the opposite sex, and a few (but not many at all) celibate gay Catholics. I've also met Catholics who misunderstand doctrine and mistreat LGBT+ people. Most devout Catholics I know- my mother included- feel bad for the pain that trans people go through. However, a trans man would not be included in a Catholic men's group.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/25 10:44 PM
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IDK about political conservatives but the men's and volunteering groups in my Church are some of the most positive, masculine groups I've ever seen. Guys getting together to help the community, discuss parenting issues, give guidance to younger men, and give back. I certainly feel more respected and built up by them than almost any other group I've encountered. I certainly feel more at home with groups like them than I do with literally any left-leaning group. And BTW? I was raised by a very, ve…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/09/25 01:22 AM
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Even TIME Magazine way back in 2014 was reporting about how inaccurate statistics about sexual violence towards men is. TIME. Magazine. We have not much listened in the last 11 years, but I'm confident the winds are changing...
/r/EverydayMisandry10/09/25 10:24 PM
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Notice how it's "money" and not like... community service or something, if we're even playing by this ridiculous premise.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/09/25 02:41 AM
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In short, identity based shakedown artistry. Stealing this one. Pun intended.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/09/25 02:40 AM
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Yep, 100%. The idea that masculinity is a source of death is completely un-Scriptural and disgusting. Remind for us all who lead the Israelites from Pharaoh? Or the one who saved Nineveh from a horrible fate? The... Individual on the Cross? Let's just ignore the Biblical roles of marriage and priesthood as well, while we're at it. Or the many duties placed on men that they might not abuse their naturally greater strength over women... The Prophets and Prophetesses of old, literal or figurative t…
/r/EverydayMisandry08/09/25 10:25 PM
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It's programming through colossal amounts of social media overexposure. Deliberate tampering with language and statistics to ensure "proper" thought patterns. I think most people lean somewhat towards conformism (which is not inherently a bad thing IMO) but man does it seem like feminists online are a total hivemind.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/09/25 10:22 PM
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Yeah FR. She is like "all men are horribly misogynistic losers but MY man is great and so sexy and strong and awesome"
/r/EverydayMisandry08/09/25 10:20 PM
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Thank you for sharing your experience. The most I can say to you (me being an unmarried man) is to love your wife and do good to others.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/09/25 09:52 PM
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Future generations are going to look back at us as being asocial losers.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/09/25 02:38 AM
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Those are the exact feelings I went through. I think I have been fully healed by meeting my girlfriend online. While not together anymore, I felt very understood and loved by her. I mention her a lot because she genuinely was good to me and because I want to spread hope to people here who feel like all women might hate them.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/09/25 12:12 AM
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Wow these people in the comments, okay... Getting the wrong game system and getting the wrong style of mirror set for your girlfriend are not the same because their functions are different because game systems run software, whereas vanity sets are for beauty care which you can do with any vanity set. This is a false analogy. Imagine casting aside your husbands over bad gifts and then forming a support group about it instead of just sitting down and really working on the communication about gifts…
/r/EverydayMisandry04/09/25 11:51 PM
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These sorts of comments absolutely wrecked my mental health when I was younger. I was always told about how my behavior as a man could easily be perceived as harmful. I "listened to women" and guess what? It nearly completely socially crippled me and drove my anxiety so high that it went to the Heaven and back. This extreme overpolicing of men's behaviors- that every last thing a man does in the presence of women- is exactly why we had the laughable and memed-about article from the NYT. https://…
/r/EverydayMisandry04/09/25 04:46 PM
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This statement of "women have realized their worth" is a very likely unintentional but still 100% actively-the-case that it's a dig against women in previous generations. I guess any woman in the past and in traditional countries don't know their self worth because they're like... dumb, or something, compared to the totally smarter 21st century feminist...
/r/EverydayMisandry04/09/25 12:35 AM
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You see Dagger, it's different this time because our beliefs are sciencerific, because testosterone is actually rather dangerous, objectively. It's true!
/r/EverydayMisandry02/09/25 11:32 PM
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A mystery for the ages, I think!
/r/EverydayMisandry02/09/25 11:30 PM
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I find that there's a lot more acceptance for bisexual women than bisexual men. The whole "men are sex fiends" thing must be absolutely horrible when you consider uncharitable bi stereotypes.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/09/25 12:24 AM
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By leaving an active warzone, they are protecting their lives, their genes. And making a new generation, that if raised right will have ties to their motherland. To misquote Sergeant Reznov: "Which do you think will lead us home? Fucking around with foreign boys, or helping our boys fight the invaders?!"
/r/EverydayMisandry01/09/25 02:01 PM
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Vile news to be sure. These studies seem to have limited sample sizes and be funded, so their validity isn't exactly foolproof. But still.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/08/25 03:38 AM
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Is it actually true that most OF subscribers are married?
/r/EverydayMisandry29/08/25 02:53 AM
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Girl your entire profile is about generalizing men, opinion disregarded.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/08/25 06:15 PM
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But you play off as a joke when people have pushback to it. Is there a specific term for a motte-and-bailey where you use a joke to cover up your nonsense? Because there should be. As that is what this is.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/08/25 12:29 PM
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I know this is a meme but there's so many people, men and women, who actually think like this. "Oh you're passionate about things? You're ROMANTIC towards a woman? That's clearly the sign of... HOMOSEXUALITY." The expectations of stoicism for men are sometimes completely ludicrous. I hope these people never turn around and say "Why doesn't he make me/you feel attractive [pleading eyes]".
/r/EverydayMisandry28/08/25 12:27 PM
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I was pretty confused at this as well. Also you double posted under this comment.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/08/25 05:06 PM
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I agree, unless someone is speaking very much in academic terms, I find it suspicious why the use of the term "female" or "male" in place of "women" or "men", respectively. It feels like a tacit way of othering, somehow. It's not a red flag but it's definitely yellow at least. May not agree with every point OOP makes but I can agree with the general idea that women mention of being called "female" as being bad vibes.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/08/25 01:31 PM
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Being friends with someone who could become attracted to you always carries emotional risk. It is unfortunate if friends cannot survive one wanting to be a lover. It is also unfortunate for the one who has the newfound crush or love because they might well feel responsible for the end of the friendship, or they might not want to jeopardize the friendship in the first place. But again, with this "sexualization" and "dehumanization" thing. I don't see how on Earth this man was doing any such thing…
/r/EverydayMisandry27/08/25 01:27 PM
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It could mean OP found it funny or too real as well. Skull is very versatile lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/08/25 02:10 AM
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Yeah these arguments are so frustrating to me because it feels like the feminists who make it so badly want to change the culture, but have no idea how to do it and just continue to moan without giving concrete examples or understanding the nuances of these situations. Obviously sexual harassment and assault are totally wrong, but dismissing men whenever they are anxious about this new "culture" that feminists want is the exact way you make more people against you. You have lots of young men now…
/r/EverydayMisandry25/08/25 12:09 PM
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It's completely screwed, my guy. I say go to the media anyway and get it covered wherever you can. You're being a good father and have 100% just cause to report on your inability to act on your good instincts.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/08/25 11:57 AM
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It's the wrong insult for the guy, yeah. Lot worse and more accurate things you could say about him.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/08/25 11:54 AM
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Why does this seem to be a recurring trend among straight and bi feminists, they somehow get married in large numbers to the small numbers of "good men"?
/r/EverydayMisandry25/08/25 11:54 AM
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"Guys why don't people support my ideas anymore they're only hateful and will lead to future discrimination"
/r/EverydayMisandry23/08/25 01:29 PM
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The reality is that outside of one study which feminists love to quote yet is A. an outlier, B. has been picked at for some weird methods (like how women in legal separations or women with military husbands were very oversampled), marriage has been shown time and again that it makes both men and women on average much happier. Marriage provides benefits to children- or rather, that stable, married couples tend to provide the best outcomes to children. It's not a guarantee but it's the best overal…
/r/EverydayMisandry23/08/25 01:28 PM
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Sadly very real, the amount of people who claim to speak for my ethnicity (Vietnamese) is too damn high as well
/r/EverydayMisandry23/08/25 12:38 AM
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I'm so tired of beauty being considered a "patriarchal standard" as if evolution didn't program people to like certain things after millions of years of climbing in trees as primordial primates. Is it that same patriarchal standard when women have strict height requirements? No. It's not. I don't care what a woman's type is. I only care what my woman thinks, my lover, my spouse. I only care if it's someone who comes in, tries to pollute the culture with their nonsense, while having no sense of s…
/r/EverydayMisandry22/08/25 06:29 PM
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They're morons. And hateful. It's that simple. Some people don't have a lot of empathy. Some people display strong in-group bias and use that bias not to help their own kind but to lord over others.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/08/25 06:25 PM
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Yep, proving that a woman's feelings are more important than a man's security, while providing him with neither good feelings or security. That's the MO of these people. This is why I basically tell these people to screw off. A man for once doesn't want sex and their immediate reaction is that "it's imposibr that menn d0n't want secks u just r a badd lovr"
/r/EverydayMisandry22/08/25 06:22 PM
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That's because racism is acceptable when white, liberal women are upset.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/08/25 02:40 PM
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Yeah no, in my experience among Gen Z, the most racist fuckers are white, progressive women. I'm a half-Asian, half-white guy so I speak from experience. I see racism from both sides, and while it was historically worse with conservatives, among Gen Z specifically it's "enlightened racism" by the far lefties in America.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/08/25 02:38 PM
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Imagine being paid to write nonsense. Must be nice.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/25 11:05 PM
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It's certainly a man's world in many countries (Afghanistan, Saudi Arabia, China, Southeast Asian countries in general) but I wouldn't say that that is the case in Western ones or ones with very "progressive" cultures. There are inequalities, yeah, but there's nothing stopping women from getting PhD's, owning businesses, owning homes, choosing who/if to marry, getting credit cards, seeking professional help or policing, becoming cultural figures, running for office, or anything else. The only re…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/25 01:42 PM
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There are entitled men. Yeah. I don't think you should date entitled men. But for the majority of men who are just normal dudes, good luck getting a good boyfriend with that attitude. I know I can seem to have a cavalier attitude about these comments, but I'm speaking the hard truth. You can go ahead and talk a big game about "male entitlement" but don't expect people to think you're a loving and understanding bachelorette when you go into every relationship seeking to put down the will of your …
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/25 01:34 PM
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It's the same deal with how women who get mad about men approaching when she's intentionally dressed nicely and wearing makeup are implicitly telling me that women who actually do want men to approach them while dressed nicely are wrong. I just don't care anymore. If I like a lady, I ask her out boldly, tell her she's beautiful, and I make my intentions very known. Every time it's gotten me a date or she was extremely flattered but politely declined. Far as I'm concerned that is a 100% success r…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/25 01:29 PM
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Women online disrespecting the men who have to risk their blood, limbs, and sanity in the horrors of war has convinced me that around 10% of Gen Z women could clinically be considered psychopaths. I always stress "online". No woman I know IRL aside from my sister says shit like "well men started the war hur dur". They might not care about geopolitics but they're still, like... functioning people and feel bad about the men that have to fight?
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/25 03:53 AM
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However another aspect to look into is how women like in this post are actually, pretty fucking full of internal misogyny. They’re the ones ranting about what they are admitting they see as a natural “curse” or biological inferiority. And the fact this woman says she’s just a “vessel made for childbirth” is so very telling. I think a lot of views these women claim all men have about them is just their own projection of what they hate about themselves. I think that's it. I didn't want to do the p…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/25 03:32 AM
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Horrible man in a position of cultural presence. Let's do it.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/25 01:16 AM
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They ought to, and are a big reason that, despite being raised a Democrat, I no longer identify with the party.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/25 01:16 AM
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Catholic spouses are to be equals. I can explain further in DM's if you want to know more, if not then no worries or pressure.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/08/25 04:04 PM
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I'm glad you understand despite not being of the same faith as I. You wrote about it very well and accurately, I'm very pleased! It's hard to talk about. A lot of people don't seem to understand it, either deliberately or not. I just don't like wrongdoing being done, and to me it is just a sign of great moral depravity to misuse one's relationship to forcefully impose your will on someone else. That's not love. A lot of feminist women do not fully love their man or any men. They might have some …
/r/EverydayMisandry20/08/25 03:58 PM
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I see male feminists in their relationships and they don't often seem happy. Some definitely are, some definitely are not. It's painful to see "lovers" boss about their boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband. I'm in a lot of different social spaces IRL. I go to trad, Latin Mass parishes sometimes (I'm Catholic) but I also hang out in secular crowds and go to parties and the like. It's the same shit, different venue if I see an angry man bossing about his clearly stressed out wife in trad circles or i…
/r/EverydayMisandry20/08/25 03:48 PM
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Lots of women online: "As a man you cannot do the following. Play video games, because it's juvenile. Start a family, that's patriarchal and you want a mommy bangmaid. [33% chance] Go to the gym, because gymbro culture is toxic. Flirt with or ask women out in public, that's creepy and I don't go outside to be sexualized. Be on Discord too much, because that's so lame [but it's okay for women to spend all days on Instagram]. Consume sexually improper material [but OnlyFans models are fine to sell…
/r/EverydayMisandry20/08/25 03:38 PM
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In-group bias plus decades of feminist rhetoric getting more radical. Or rather, the radical ideas of feminism which were once rejected have become more normalized. Things are starting to change, I feel. I've seen more women IRL talk about misandry as a real problem. W's we can take, however small.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/08/25 03:31 PM
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I don't doubt there is a lot of distinct struggles that women go through when it comes to their bodies, not at all. I sympathize with a lot of them. I hope to one day have the opportunity to care for my (future) wife's needs and struggles. But if your body gives you such troubles and you feel some type of way about it, then what is stopping you from being kind to those who are okay with their female bodies or to men? Is it just a matter of envy? There are many women I know who admire the strengt…
/r/EverydayMisandry20/08/25 03:26 PM
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I mean, that's the logic of male conscription, yeah. Except countries in decades past at least tried to honor those who died or were permanently injured in action.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/08/25 02:00 PM
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This is why if I hear a progressive woman talk about men making money (especially if it's more money than she does) or about him being a provider, I always ask something like, "So what do you like to cook?" I've made a few enemies doing this but I really don't care. Sometimes they act (or are) surprised when they hear me say that and pretend like they never suggested anything, and we're cool afterwards. If you want traditional gender roles, cool. Just don't ask for them and not provide them in r…
/r/EverydayMisandry18/08/25 01:59 PM
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Yeah. If you talk to most incels, they're basically ordinary dudes who lack self-confidence and maybe have psychological needs. The legacy media blew up stories about Elliot Rodgers and others and changed the public opinion to that "every incel is a right wing t$rr%r!st" even though it's completely false. Incels have about the same political distribution as the general population, are not much more likely to commit crimes (uite a number are too demoralized to commit crime let alone cook their ow…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/08/25 03:39 PM
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It is an everyday issue to me because I live with one and am unemployed so I don't really have many options. I may not be physically assaulted by this person (my sister) but her hostile behaviors, hatred of men, and emotional abuse is still very real. And again, hearing how women will FBI crime statistics about men and people lapping that up as some kind of progressive yaaas moment, while calling people who cite FBI crime statistics about Hispanics or black Americans racist is such a gross momen…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/08/25 01:39 PM
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They basically have a cult's decree that promotes homosexuality as being more virtuous (for women) than heterosexuality.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/08/25 01:34 PM
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If they are a loud minority, then why is it so hard for feminists to criticize them? If men are making a mountain out of a molehill, then why can't you concede that it's a molehill and let the criticism happen?
/r/EverydayMisandry17/08/25 01:32 PM
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OOP would've never put down her rifle and traded chocolate with the enemy if she can't even respect the funeral of the men in her own country.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/08/25 01:30 PM
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This is why I don't really have an interest in this conversation. I kinda saw the writing on the wall where this was going. "My ideas are this, they're the only moral way, and if you're not with me, you're against me and you're against God human rights". We're not going to agree on this idea that everyone should just capitulate to progressivism. I'm not even opposed to things like universal healthcare and anti-poverty programs, mind you. In fact I've spoken favorably of both numerous times on th…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/08/25 04:10 AM
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Well as you make everything so relative, we know you aren't a progressive. I'm neither a moral relativist nor a progressive. I am conservative in some ways and progressive in others. I was asking rhetorically here what your answer would be to those people. I also see how human rights, or "human rights" in this case, are often used as a cudgel against certain countries and not against others when it's convenient for political groups to do so- left or right. Or, to really kick a hornet's nest, how…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/08/25 03:47 AM
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Exactly. Equal rights, but not equal punishments, apparently.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/08/25 02:43 PM
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Yep, celebrating drugging and cheating on your hubby. Very yas much empowerment. Criminal behavior slay.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/08/25 12:31 PM
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I got no problems with age gap relationships as long as they're both adults. However, I really, really don't think people in their 30's should be trying to rizz up people who just graduated high school. It feels weird.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/08/25 12:30 PM
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Dude the absolute stupidity of the feminist historical claim about monogamy. No, that was not how it worked at all. Romance and romantic love were not invented for bad men. Monogamy was deemed more moral because it gives everyone, not just the rich and gorgeous, chances at having a family and being loved. Why would the patriarchal nobles give up and adopt monogamy (ostensibly) unless it benefitted more people? Men, BTW, are more polyamorous than women. It is on the whole a greater demand out of …
/r/EverydayMisandry13/08/25 12:27 PM
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Yeah, I have met extremely few progressive women IRL or online who genuinely believe in the "open up and be vulnerable" thing that people tried to push when I was in high school. They still want stoic men or regard negative male emotions as dangerous/annoying/entitled. Sometimes both. Ironically most of the women in my life who actually practice this are traditional women. It's almost like emotional labor was always considered a part of relationships and marriage or something...
/r/EverydayMisandry13/08/25 12:23 PM
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They have long since embraced the fact that negative generalizations about men are a cornerstone of their outlook. You're right. It's acceptable to generalize groups that are perceived to have it better, even if you divide these groups by immutable characteristics like sex, race, or lack-of-disability.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/08/25 12:20 PM
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You mean they vote for liberals, who by the rest of the world's standards, are conservatives No they aren't. Democrats would be left wing in many, many countries standards. What you're talking about is that they'd be center in some of the Western European countries. This was a lie made up by the morons who invented the Political Compass. And in terms of social views, American liberals are radically left by most of the world's standards. You either stand for human rights or you don't. I agree. Bu…
/r/EverydayMisandry12/08/25 03:08 AM
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Treating men as completely possessed sex demons is doing unfathomable harm to boys on so many levels...
/r/EverydayMisandry12/08/25 01:47 AM
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No True Scotsman. They vote for progressive candidates, they speak for progressive causes, they oppose conservatism at-large, and largely partake in liberal-coded culture/hobbies. They're progressives. Just people with bad behavior in addition to being progressive.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/08/25 01:43 AM
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"Yeah YTA. It's really rude to not accept a gift." OK this isn't really to do with misandry but tangent here: for people who claim to be really tolerant and anti-imperialist and shit, they sure do moralize from the perspective of western, cultural norms. Like a lot. It's very normal in a lot of cultures, especially poorer ones, to not accept a gift because it's too grandiose. It's considered polite or humble, even, because the one getting the gift may not believe they've done anything deserving …
/r/EverydayMisandry11/08/25 12:25 PM
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Please understand. Their moms, growing up, only told them 174 times to not judge books by their covers. If she had told them a 175th time, they'd know not to judge books by their covers. Please understand.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/08/25 12:22 PM
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Yes. A lot of progressive women have this mentality. They on the one hand claim that sex isn't a reward for good behavior but will absolutely reward "good men" with lots of sex and submit to him. I've talked about this with my ex girlfriend, back when we were in a relationship together. This relationship was really good. But I questioned why women would always say that "sex isn't a reward" but then say that every man around her is bad and deserves to be single. I also uestioned why some of these…
/r/EverydayMisandry11/08/25 12:18 PM
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It sadly will not surprise me if the abuse rate increases in Gen Alpha relationships once they get old enough because it sounds like we Zoomers, in our stupidity, have impressed upon the youn'uns a culture war to the nth concerning gender.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/08/25 12:14 PM
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this body positivity crap is only for women Yeah 100%. Only about one-in-ten of the people I've heard unironically use terms like "fatphobia" or "body shaming" were not either obese women or upper-middle class women, or upper-middle class obese women. And hey, I'm definitely not shaming anyone for being overweight or obese. I don't know their life. I find both thin and thick women attractive. But it's just a point that I've noticed.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/08/25 11:38 AM
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I know I go on about it a lot, but this might be the worst instance of "if you switch the genders" I've seen on this sub yet. Actual r%pe apologia. I don't think this person deserves to be a cashier, let alone a lawyer, to be honest with you. Because a cashier might have to face the public and witness a sexual crime.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/08/25 01:52 PM
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Bruh I know this is a screw-misandry forum and all that but I think it's straight cheating to be posting from anything 4B related. Like, the movement, on top of being rare, will breed itself out.
/r/EverydayMisandry31/07/25 11:25 PM
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Also, this is a SPECIAL ED teacher!
/r/EverydayMisandry31/07/25 11:24 PM
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I will watch it at some point. I think you bring up good points, but I don't fully agree with you here. Men are still more likely to murder their partners (though 40% of spousal murders are matricides, not uxoricides), more likely to sexually abuse children, and commit r%pe. I generally agree that both men and women are fully moral agents. It's just that men's evil and women's evil don't manifest themselves the same way.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/07/25 12:53 AM
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Hearing about emotional labor has been one of the most damaging things to my life. Like, okay... I struggle with depression and am a hopeless romantic. I believe in true love, in helping your beloved become the best person they can be, unconditional promises, love-ever-after, the full nine yards. I know it's out there. Maybe it doesn't happen to everyone or even the majority of people, but it does happen. And I want that exact thing for myself. In my relationships, I have some codependent tenden…
/r/EverydayMisandry30/07/25 12:21 AM
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I wonder what they'd think about me where the only songs I listen to by woman are: hymns whose authors are female, a lament written by a woman in the 1700's, Annwn, and Stevie Nicks. None of these are popular with young women. My music taste is just very eclectic and old-fashioned. Actually, I might be wrong, but I remember Stevie Nicks saying at some point that women are harsher on her than men because she "sounds too masculine" or something. I've heard a number of women my age say that exact t…
/r/EverydayMisandry30/07/25 12:07 AM
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"We should just ban poor people from parks and restaurants, they commit the most petty crime. I'm not saying it's all poor people, but it's most of the time poor people committing petty crime." If you can't understand how evil this sounds I don't know how I can help you.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/07/25 09:48 PM
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"Entitled to a fit woman in her 20's" No. No. I hate seeing this word. Yes there are entitled people in both sexes. But you simply dreaming about or desiring a certain kind of person to date or marry is not entitlement. I could blabber on about my biggest hear-me-out qualities in a woman; doesn't mean I believe that all women must have those traits, that I will mistreat women who fail to possess those traits, or that I deserve to have a wife with such traits. Also I keep seeing feminists bring u…
/r/EverydayMisandry28/07/25 09:45 PM
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You know the saying "when you're used to privilege, equality feels like oppression?". Well. Women were definitely mistreated in history and now and their rights were uniquely infringed upon in history. However, it's important to remember how much of historical patriarchy was about spoiling women. This is why if a woman ever wants to talk a ton about "equality" it's a red flag to me. Because she might be on to something, but there's a good chance it's that she wants the historical benefits of pat…
/r/EverydayMisandry28/07/25 09:41 PM
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"I don't even want to acknowledge [a man because of xyz thing]", yeah that's a collective guilt thing bud. Like maybe a sexist man has had bad work experience with a woman, does that mean he's right? No. Also the responses are plenty sexist, like shitting on their desks and saying "fuckallmen". Really?
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/25 02:59 PM
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What I was highlighting is what a clearly sexist man would say about women. The sexist things women say about men and men say about women aren't too often the same.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/25 02:25 PM
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Yeaaaaaaaaaaah this is icky, innit? I'm pretty liberal/progressive about a lot of things, gender roles is not one of them. I think a lot of traditional gender roles- which can absolutely be misused, poorly practiced, or stupid- are largely practical and romantic. In my fantasy worlds, both the men and the women display many qualities I find heroic. The men are protective, strong, but also emotionally aware and empathetic to the needs of the women in their society. Women have the freedom to do as…
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/25 11:09 AM
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I remember how feminists were complaining about how medieval medicine (wrongly) believed that sperm were basically eggs that got deposited in the womb during sex, since it basically took away women's part in reproduction. While it's certainly possible that this bad science came about from misogyny- it's pretty likely if you ask me- it's also certainly interesting how rapidly it's become normal to diminish men's purpose in society/the family.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/25 11:02 AM
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Yeah, that's it. These settings basically feature the mass disenfranchisement and possible slavery of men, and it comes from a mind of someone who either thinks that women were enslaved en-masse across history (false) or hasn't thought through the implications of "men have no value and must work for their betters' advancement". "Men having no value and making it themselves" is literally an Andrew Tate talking point. And it's the one that resonates with the most young men, even ones that hate him…
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/25 10:59 AM
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If I'm on social media and I hear a woman talk about "the bare minimum", I automatically file in my head that this woman does not want a husband, she wants a manservant who parrots her entire gamut of political opinions on top of serving her. It's like a 100% correlation too with thinking that her husband is the only good man alive and every other man is basically a demon. Also, I sometimes hear it IRL. By women who are never in relationships. They have some female friends they act... weird arou…
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/25 10:56 AM
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"All women benefit from from the actions of disobedient women. It keeps men from their rightful place as heads of society. It allows women to perform the barest minimum as wives and daughters and still feel good about themselves. The existence of disobedient women grants 'good' women awards for basic submissiveness." Could you imagine the reaction if someone posted that? I'm pretty sure you couldn't even post that above statement in the most trad-y forum on Reddit without it being panned, and I …
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/25 10:51 AM
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It's called the narcissist's prayer. I did not make it up.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/25 01:57 AM
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This is a genuine RIP Bozo moment.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/25 05:20 PM
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Uh, yah, that's it. Slide 3, that's just it. Until feminists actually condemn abusive women and explicitly ostracize or criticize women who are immoral, people are going to associate feminism with the really awful types. The problem is that they don't. And it seems like most groups in general, either as a part of the human condition, likely exacerbated by the internet, have such a difficult time self-reflecting or policing their movements against the worst actors. That said, I've never seen a wo…
/r/EverydayMisandry26/07/25 11:24 AM
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What server is this on? r_ feminism??
/r/EverydayMisandry25/07/25 01:15 AM
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They probably celebrate it too since Pedro is such a good lad for agreeing with everything feminist!
/r/EverydayMisandry25/07/25 01:14 AM
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Sounds like you're going to need to sincerely learn to empathize with men, if you're so worried that strangers on the internet will be able to rock his moral foundations.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/07/25 04:28 AM
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Sounds like the differences, when averaged out, are pretty minimal, and we should not be treating this as a gendered issue but a general commitment issue.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/07/25 03:31 AM
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"I'm not convinced that men are capable of the same love that women are." Yeah that's your trauma speaking. I'm going to be charitable here and say that, since otherwise I'd (verbally) tear this argument into shreds. I would begin by saying the amount of men in history who have chosen to risk their lives for their families, countries, and so forth absolutely dwarf the number of women who have done the same. You ever meet a female firefighter? I've met a single firefighter who was a woman.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/07/25 03:29 AM
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Imagine if a man said that he would refuse to engage with female coworkers, saying that they were "clearly incapable of the job" or that "they are all just a bunch of overpaid children". Always, fellas, play the game of "reverse the sexes" or "change the group in question" with these ideologically charged, emotionally stunted folks.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/07/25 05:33 PM
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You're working really hard here to not understand how genetic determinism is fascist. At least you tried? Wait whoa now, is determinism fascistic? It is simply a statement of belief in the realm of "nature vs. nurture" debate. What's fascism is "let's take all the people who are disabled and kill them", not "I think some people will, by their traits, be better at x, y, or z." You're so close, if you'd just allow yourself to not be so wilfully ignorant. Buddy I never attacked you. Again, what's a…
/r/EverydayMisandry22/07/25 04:32 PM
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"That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it." ^ basically Reddit feminists whenever a man goes through any romantic woe. It's the narcissist's prayer dressed up in language about how men need to be tough and "equality".
/r/EverydayMisandry22/07/25 04:18 PM
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This is 100% correct.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/07/25 03:00 AM
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Quotas are inherently discriminatory and against the concept of fair play and meritocracy. I get helping people who have been historically discriminated against. But this is ridiculous. Make the women earn these positions. I'm done with playing nice with feminists about quotas. If men are as stupid and lacking as they claim and that women have "done everything themselves, men just need to get off their asses and stop being incels", then let women actually SHOW they're better than men.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/07/25 02:59 AM
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Once again we see how a lot of feminists are wanton towards male victims of sexual violence. She doesn't bring up the worst point, though. Would he be able to opt out of child support immediately or only after the woman was shown to likely/definitely have been a r%pist?
/r/EverydayMisandry22/07/25 02:57 AM
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I actually get tilted when I see happy face emojis and stuff after bs like this because it always follows some woman making the most selfish, passive-aggressive, or discriminatory comments and dressing them up as kindness. It's not kindness, it's actually mean. Stop trying to pretend that it's nice.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/07/25 03:07 PM
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The difference between what rohan said and your argument is that people who are disabled or something else are not choosing and did not choose to be disabled. The woman in the above post is choosing to be an idiot and willingly choosing to not carry on her ideas through childrearing. That's the difference.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/07/25 03:06 PM
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This is something that I genuinely really hate about dealing with people who are like, Gen Z (I'm 25...) and younger Millennials, it's that instead of just seeing someone's behavior as a function of them just living their life or having a different perspective on things, we instead have to over-moralize, emotionally escalate, and psychoanalyze the person in question instead of just doing what anyone normal would've done in prior generations and just say "what a blabbermouth" and then move on wit…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/07/25 02:59 PM
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Almost all of the issues you just named in the end are caused by the patriarchy . It was other men (much often rich men) who designed and mainly enforced those systems , regardless if you didn’t . False. Domestic violence shelters which are male only are often closed or forced to be co-ed by women's groups. Men would absolutely still be the soldiery of countries even if all politicians were women- in fact, I'd bet money that a matriarchy would be just as likely, if not more so, to abolish female…
/r/EverydayMisandry20/07/25 04:52 AM
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Yeah these are the exact comments we don't want in this subreddit.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/07/25 04:45 AM
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He's a freak but I'll give him credit where due: good job. Literally was just ragging on him yesterday lol
/r/EverydayMisandry20/07/25 04:44 AM
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Yeah what is bro on about
/r/EverydayMisandry19/07/25 12:37 AM
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Men cannot get pregnant.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/07/25 03:59 PM
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I'll offer a seat for a pregnant woman, elderly woman, or a disabled woman. But I'd also offer a seat for elderly or disabled men. It's only fair.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/07/25 02:18 PM
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I'm so sorry they do that to you. I've had people minimize my experiences as well. Some feminists they are... Also, this is proof of why technocracies don't work. Technocracies will on paper do everything by the averages and the statistics- which don't get me wrong, are very important for examining the needs of society- but their decisions will always ignore the individual's suffering and instead alleviate the suffering of what it seems to be as a "larger group". It's red-line-go-up but for a go…
/r/EverydayMisandry18/07/25 02:15 PM
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Agreed. Also the word "epidemic" is a loaded term [edit: in this context, not in terms of medicine]. It almost implies there's been a massive rise in crimes against women. Murder and IPV is in general below pre-pandemic levels. https://www.npr.org/2025/06/30/nx-s1-5448852/murders-down-nationwide-covid Also IIRC, the amount of men killed by their wives is nearly equal to the amount of women killed by their husbands. Of course, feminists are silent on that point...
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 08:09 PM
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The problem with a statistic like this is that it's possible for all of that 19% to be hate crimes and none of the murders of men could be hate crimes. Now to be clear, I'm not saying it's impossible for a man to be the victim of a hate crime. I'm just saying that it's possible that men or women both are simply killed for reasons beyond misandry/misogyny. I'm against this idea that feminists present that every time a man kills a woman, it's because of misogyny (without the reverse being true, th…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 07:48 PM
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Male suicide isn't always because of misandry but it can definitely be an aggravating factor. I've had suicidal thoughts in the distant past- past those dark days now, thank God- but given how not-seriously we take men's mental health issues and demonize our sexuality and such, yeah, it's a problem.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 07:45 PM
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You know it's a wild thing when a country like Japan could joke that "at least our birthrate is higher than theirs".
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 07:43 PM
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Skull emojis indeed, wtf
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 06:43 PM
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It's good they fixed it in America, at least!
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 06:43 PM
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Honestly man, go for it. If you have no bad intentions then there's no harm. Don't care what people say. Allow your heart to be free and experience that sacred feeling of love.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 06:42 PM
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Yeah I hate how people are infantilized. I get a lot of flak for this but I've told people that if I were in my late twenties I'd date a woman in her early twenties if we were compatible. Even some people who've known me a long time told me it was predatory and too much of a "power imbalance". I asked them how it was and they said that "you're more experienced in life by then". OK... how does that make it predatory? What makes it predatory is if I gr$%med her or if I used my experience to manipu…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 04:11 AM
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I dated women in their thirties when I was 22. It definitely happens.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 04:08 AM
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That one slide about the woman being married to her high school sweetheart just confirms my desire to never date a liberal feminist who is straight. "I hate all men! Except very specifically my husband. All men are terrible but I alone have found a good man." Doesn't that just sound so romantic to be one of the good ones, brothers?
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 04:06 AM
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Absolutely real. My dad and I do 97% of the cooking in our home and it's been this way for most of forever. The remaining 3% of the time is mom making rice porridge when we're sick or sharing cut fruit/fried eggs with us. It's appreciated, and I get that Mom doesn't like cooking... But seriously, we're defying the stereotypes haha. My dad, the liberal white man, cooks for the socially conservative Asian woman.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 04:02 AM
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And the whole argument of "women do more housework so they don't need to spoil their partners" is dimensions of narcissistic. This is an argument that I see a lot of feminists and misandrists bring up consistently, but it goes against their own ideas because it almost seems like by saying this they support having women as "maids"? "Women doing more housework" is a real concern for many women as women tend to value cleanliness more and some men really are negligent or abusive, but it ignores the …
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 04:00 AM
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Yeah, they don't outright say that they only want neurotypical men to date, but they basically act like any mental health condition will make you undateable and result in emotional labor on your girlfriend... I hate the idea of "emotional labor" so much. Relationships should not be transactional and take accounts. If you have to tally up rights and wrongs the relationship is either over or you need to seriously sit down and talk about issues. But helicoptering your partner and treating them as t…
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/25 03:56 AM
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The fact is a lot of men are doing calculus in their brains to determine whether he's doing too much flirting or too little with their girlfriends because too much will be perceived as insincere and too little suggests he's unattached. Don't get me wrong, women also don't want to seem desperate, too. But I find a lot of women ignore how much thought goes into a guy simply saying to his girlfriend "You look wonderful tonight" while not trying to sound like a fetishy creep. Also, as someone with a…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/25 08:58 PM
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You should check out places like r incelexit, where the female posters spend time berating lonely men for having been suckered into incel ideology and tell them they don't deserve women unless they're wealthy, mentally neurotypical, feministic, and good in bed. That they don't deserve women, at all, until they "deserve it". In a previous account I was active there, and well, it only made me feel more lonely and hated by the world. Because what else does that say to a struggling man? The only con…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/25 08:51 PM
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Whatever their reasons their movement will go away by itself since it is 2.1 women/children below the replacement rate. I feel bad for a decent number of 4B practitioners. Probably a lot of hurt women without direction or good men in their lives.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/25 01:46 AM
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Men kill themselves almost four times more often and use therapy way less. If that’s “the opposite of ignored,” we’re using a weird dictionary. Not only that but a lot of therapeutic care is specifically designed around talk that soothes women better than it suits men. Men like practical solutions and the hard truth to their problems. I've run into this problem very often with especially female providers. Nothing against them as people. It's understandable they don't get the problems men go thro…
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/25 01:45 AM
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The paradox also is a lot of them will later complain that there are not enough "marriageable men" That's exactly what's happened for a lot of single Millennial women hitting 40. Luckily, most Millennials at 40 have been married.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/07/25 01:39 AM
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Cool! Also here's something, from those bad ol' days of gender roles: “When a man loves a woman, he has to become worthy of her. The higher her virtue, the more noble her character, the more devoted she is to truth, justice, goodness, the more a man has to aspire to be worthy of her. The history of civilization could actually be written in terms of the level of its women.” Bishop Fulton Sheen, Catholic bishop, in the 1950's.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/07/25 09:07 PM
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What does capitalism have to do with some boys being mean to girls in romantic relationships?! Like I'm not some corpo bootlicker- I believe in a mixed-economy society- but how is capitalism related to gender roles? Are you off your meds? "People who would, to use your example, mock men for crying or use 'gay' as an insult, are not feminists." That's just blatantly wrong plus a No-True-Scotsman fallacy. I've experienced lots of self-identified feminist women who constantly make fun of male tears…
/r/EverydayMisandry14/07/25 08:23 PM
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For god sake why can’t us men support each other.Apparently there are groups of women that that get the ick when we come here and support each other and vent.All communities like this we just want to be loved and love our self and talk about our problems and help each other but apparently they don’t like that. Because they think the "patriarchal society" is sufficient enough that every man has to, by default, not feel lonely, isolated, mentally ill, or whatever. It's repackaged privilege tiering…
/r/EverydayMisandry14/07/25 04:03 PM
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Do not date disloyal hoes. Date only women who promise monogamy and do not display hypergamous tendencies. A hypergamous woman will always choose a "better offer" the second it comes. It's inevitable. It's what she's attracted to. It is like asking someone who is strictly gay to be in a heterosexual relationship- it asks them to drop every last bit of their true attraction style for a relationship they will never be satisfied by. So pay attention to her attitudes about money, experiences, and li…
/r/EverydayMisandry14/07/25 03:59 PM
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Wasn't there some fake paper submitted as an op-ed that was just Mein Kampf but replaced the nouns to be feministic, and it got published in various magazines lol
/r/EverydayMisandry13/07/25 04:15 PM
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A really sick part of me hopes that a big, Western country like France, Germany, or America has a truly evil, autocratic chief executive who is female so we can hear feminists shut up about how evil men are in governing. Just kidding! No they won't, they'll blame the woman's evil on patriarchy.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/07/25 01:09 PM
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How the hell does one arrive at the conclusion that they should feel solidarity with abuser rather than the victim because abuser has same genitalia as you. Hatred, plain and simple. Hatred drives you incredibly, incredibly, stupid, even if you were previously an intelligent, well-adjusted person.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/07/25 05:20 AM
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"Among the leading causes of death" https://www.cdc.gov/womens-health/lcod/index.html From 2021, I can't see IPV here as a leading cause of death at all... Yes, bad facts used to justify celebrating the deaths of other living, breathing, human beings. These people are demons.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/07/25 05:18 AM
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Ah yes, women who make men happy or like men. Now seen as "gender traitors". They found that calling people "race traitors" wasn't working in the shaming department, so they found a new way to be... hateful to LGBT and misogynistic! I wonder if there's an overlap between misandry and misogyny both. Like, is it more likely that if someone is misandric, that they also hate women too?
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/25 08:46 PM
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You have the proper mindset of a good husband. Best of luck to you man, really!
/r/EverydayMisandry10/07/25 10:17 PM
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OK! I think I'll do it the next time I see them. A number of my cousins are currently pregnant, too. Also, SAHD? That's a real dream.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/07/25 06:45 PM
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I think what OP was doing was specifically pointing out the exclusion of boys in the victims of war, which is, of course, outrageous. ... wait, are you being sarcastic, or offering a counterargument in good faith? I can't easily tell.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/07/25 01:30 PM
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She really needs help and a good male friend, I think. This sounds like a miserable way to live :(
/r/EverydayMisandry10/07/25 01:28 PM
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I really like children and want my own one day, but I always feel nervous about asking my cousins if I can hold their kids because I don't want to seem forceful or creepy.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/07/25 01:28 PM
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if the men who hate women would only take [the] advice from the women who hate men about how to live wiithout having to deal with those people they claim to hate I'd be really, really grateful. How can someone be simultaneously so stupid and so smart at the same time? Somehow you are aware enough to point out that one behavior is less maladaptive than the other, but your response to it is basically "well hating men doesn't hurt me, so I'm okay with misogyny as long as it doesn't hurt me" instead…
/r/EverydayMisandry09/07/25 07:11 PM
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Whenever I see posts that point out that most assault and murder victims are male, and someone responds by saying "but who did the attack?" I know whatever moron who said that has a fundamentally dysfunctional way of looking at the world. No, you asshole, it really doesn't matter whether a murder victim was killed by the same sex or not, it matters that they're dead. YOU'RE the one who's dehumanizing the dead because you want a moral leg up in a pointless gender war!
/r/EverydayMisandry09/07/25 07:06 PM
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Ships mostly don't operate by that rule, actually. In actuality, men tended to survive ship disasters more, but most women who survive said they were able to do so because of the sacrifice of the sailors and crew who stayed to help them. https://apnews.com/article/women-children-crises-value-gender-titanic-24526080537db00a78945bfb2112f86d The survival rate of men on ships being higher is what feminists use to argue that men don't care about women, when the testimonies of the women say otherwise.…
/r/EverydayMisandry08/07/25 08:58 PM
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Marlin saying "You wanna pull the gender card? Let's pull the let's not die card!" Him muttering this line has made me wonder what he's been saying all these years. That's gold lol. I ought to know since Finding Nemo is probably my favorite movie ever.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/07/25 05:34 PM
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"Men have been trained to believe that women are disposable" Feminists keep saying this crap all the time and I really want to know what their source is besides their loser for a father or their jerk of an ex-boyfriend. Really, since when did society ever say that women were disposable? Not some red-pilled weirdo who dumps his gf as soon as she gets a gray hair or gains a pound. Not some misogynistic old man who's off his meds. Western societies as a whole. Isn't every medieval tale of knights g…
/r/EverydayMisandry08/07/25 05:28 PM
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I'm very pro-natalist and pro-family but it's very much for the best that this woman never raises a child until she has a much healthier attitude towards the inalienable quality of 50% of the human race.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/07/25 07:51 PM
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No, it doesn't surprise me one lick that it's real. You saw the communist bloc and the fascist states of the 20th Century do it to free speech and by brainwashing our youth. Those who are aiming to brainwash the youth and kill free speech are now doing so with the approval of their own conscience by claiming it is doing so in the name of preventing crime and helping spread kindness. C.S. Lewis predicted this. It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. …
/r/EverydayMisandry07/07/25 01:22 PM
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Of course the asshole in the above screenshot tacitly makes it about herself instead of feeling sorry for the kid who was abused or the male coworkers who might be losing their jobs. The whole "men don't see women as human beings" thing is pure projection by online feminists.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/07/25 01:20 PM
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I'm so tired of this. I just want people too love each other more, but truly, the inability to respect ourselves and others is original sin. Bury hatchets and build bridges, not brandish axes and burn bridges, I say.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/07/25 11:21 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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