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They would rather their son be alone than to be a successful jerk. I've asked women in real life this question and thats the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:59 PM
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Ohhh. Yea she's with a guy they live together and have a baby. Last guy it's been maybe 3 years now actually. I'm surprised lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:55 PM
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No she went from one to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:54 PM
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I've seen a woman with black rotting teeth whose breath projects the smell of fucking FECES 5 feet in front of her, date 5-6 different guys in a 1 year period. I've seen tons of hideous monstrosities and hideously obese women dating, getting married, having kids. If a woman is forever alone it's by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:00 PM
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Talked about sex with my last girlfriend and I asked how early on did she know that she likes being abused and raped? She said she knew as soon as the first time she had sex. Like that sub shit was on max just waiting for her to wake up to it. And I didn't unlock my kinky side until I was fucking 33 or so. What's up with that? I have read so many stories from women saying how they were always into freak shit. Always into being abused. What about that? You ask women about sex and somehow every wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:26 AM
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Hell, I've seen plenty of Incel men post their pictures and they're legit handsome but dress like their mother dressed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:33 PM
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It doesn't matter cuz it's all about energy. The right guy with the right energy can do whatever the fuck he wants. The rules on where and when to approach are only for those men who women see as annoying pests or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:42 PM
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I wish I could believe it but the comments some percentage of them would make would at very least indicate that a good chunk were if not disgusted, very very disappointed. They would come up to me thinking I was Mr. Chad. And when they realized I wasn't they would make a comment. Something along the lines of 'I wouldn't know what to do with her anyways.' It was a sex thing. I know now because girls still do this to me but I'm not how I was in the past anymore. They run up on me and they're looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:02 PM
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I don't know. It's hard to see it that way because of the way they looked at me. I did approach or attempt to ask out a few girls. The reaction when they saw I was nervous was clear as day. Like they saw a guy who wasn't confident and it disgusted them. Maybe the girls who approached me were just confused. But I don't think they were. Many times a girl would say something like "oh, you wouldn't know what to do with this" or something of that nature. I mean even men bullied me and would talk abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:45 AM
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It's just strange to me to think that a person cannot tell the difference between being rejected, a someone who is awkward, shaking in their boots and stumbling over their words. Like it feels very obvious to me when someone is nervous. It's as if they never even heard of such a thing as a socially awkward person. They're so absorbed in being social that they didn't know it was possible to not be like that. Is that even possible? Can a person be that blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:26 AM
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Is it forgivable or even normal, that in the past women would approach me and flirt, and look disgusted and repulsed by me after realizing I was socially awkward? Like, I'm not mad that they didn't want to date me. But why did they have to go from looking happy and interested to repulsed like I had done something vile to them? I got the same reaction on the very few occasions where I tried to approach a girl. I say hi and they look interested and say hi back. But I could only control the social …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:14 AM
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There has to be one for reasons I mentioned above. Many of a child's decisions are made by their guardian. A child cannot consent. A child cannot choose what to do with a lot of things. But an age must be chosen where the child is free to choose what to do with their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:17 AM
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Age is just a number. The context is what matters. And there's a lot of context to pick through. It's not the age gap itself that is bad. It's the perceived consequences of said age gap. Consequences being, young girl damaged by being taken advantage of by an older man. But that is not always the case. Is there NO situation which an older man can date a younger girl? If not, why not? How is it there can be no possible moral coupling? To say the age difference is a problem is to say that the age …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:39 AM
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I didn't say age is irrelevant. I said morality cannot have a number. That is because the number chosen is arbitrary. Though again, as time goes on and people study the brain they found that the brain doesn't stop developing to 25. Maybe they can find a logical pragmatic number from concrete phenomena of actual reality. But otherwise the ages that we choose for a person to be autonomous is arbitrary. Based on culture that could be based on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:53 AM
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So now we have to have a debate about why the legal age is considered 18 and not something else. I don't know about you, but I'm no expert on why they chose age 18. So there's no point debating that. 18 is the legal age where I'm from. Some might argue it should become 25. But I know this. Children must have their parent or guardian make choices for them. Mentally disabled people might have a similar restriction on their freedom. The age at which we grant a person personal autonomy varies in dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:46 AM
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I didn't back track anything. I don't feel like you're being honest. As long as they're legal age I'm perfectly fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:35 AM
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Words with no context have no meaning. If you're not going to type more than one sentence in an attempt to make an argument, I'm not going to play along. I'm not angry. It seems to me that you are. I don't know if you're interested in a real discussion or if you're just pissed off. Repeating a single line means nothing to me and I don't see your point. Please make an effort and try or I'm just done. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:28 AM
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Not going to reply to someone who has nothing to say. That's not how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:25 AM
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I didn't say that at all and it is not equivalent to my statement. This is about consenting adults. A child is not capable of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:21 AM
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I disagree. What is moral or amoral depends on the individual and their actions. Amoral is a man who grooms a victim. Moral is a man who dates someone and genuinely loves them. Morality can't have a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:15 AM
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I see all too often how people say a man who is older has no business dating an 18 year old. What they are saying is that the man is wielding his age, experiences and maturity, as a weapon to entice younger ignorant girls. But what they fail to mention is there's plenty of girls who are chomping at the bit to be with an older guy. In their minds he is probably still wrong for being with her even though she's doing the chasing. They believe the moral action is "sorry you're too young for me."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:22 AM
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I've seen a lot of dudes marry the first girl who gives them pussy too many times. It's true that some dudes will do anything to make sure you stick around especially if they think you're the last pussy they're gonna get for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:32 AM
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I don't want to date but it's not women's fault. I'm just not happy with my life and it's all fucked up. I literally can't be with someone. I can't date. Not only would it not be right, but I would be doing a disservice to myself. I'm just not so young anymore, that I'll do anything and ignore any problem in order to be with someone. Now I'm like I want to enjoy my life and have the right kind of girl with me. I can't find that the way things are now. I'm just too fucked up in the head from my l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:20 AM
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Who has the solid critique of university level perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:43 AM
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Can't help it. A lifetime of social isolation, ostracizm and bullying has fucked me up beyond belief. It's all good people generally think I'm normal now. The war is still raging inside. But at least now I can talk to pretty girls and not disconnect from reality until she is gone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:53 PM
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My voice is crazy deep but I have bad anxiety so I hide it. Sometimes it comes out by accident and the way women react, they are shook lol. They like it for sure. You'd think that would change me to not have anxiety around it but I guess I still have fear of being noticed by people and so that's why I hide it. I can't help it I'm broken as fuck. All I know is the ladies sure do like a deep voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:44 PM
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For me in the past, girls knew I didn't know what I was doing. They would say I wouldn't don't know to do with her. Which for her was true, because girls like that want aggressive guys who are going to spank her and choke her. But not every girl needs or wants that. But that's what you have to project competency of, when you interact with certain women. Some of em are freaks. Girls would say shit to me and I would just freeze not knowing what to say or do. They lost interest fast. And THEY appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:40 PM
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I think it's a lot easier for women to swallow the pill and go their own way than for men. For women, most have experienced plenty of shitty men in their lives. Little girls get dicks flashed at them at the bus stop type shit. So the general attitude in the culture is different. There seems to me to be quite a large percentage of men who are the absolute worst scum on earth. Sick pedo fucks. Rapists. Violence. Weak men so attached to their "masculinity" that they abuse their wife or girlfriend. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:17 PM
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To me all of this is bizarre. What percentage of men are really like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:51 AM
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I thought it was normal to want your SO to be your best friend but I only see women saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:46 AM
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I can easily say I'm the kind of guy you're looking for. Girls I've dated have been shocked that I bought them tampons or something. Because apparently dudes are afraid to be seen buying tampons. Like I'm buying them to shove them up my ass and everyone knows or something. And I know all too well what you're talking about. Dudes who IMO are all consumed by toxic masculinity and are constantly afraid to be seen as anything other than what they believe as men they must be, lest they become worthle…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:41 AM
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I read your other comments too and a little bit of your debate with the incel guy. I generally agree with what you're saying. I've told this story before here but people get mad and downvote me or accuse me of lying. But I got to work with almost entirely women, who thought I was gay (because I was shy) so they let me see the things they hide from straight men. (Now any woman who reads this will comment about how I'm lying.) Anyways, I saw the girls go bananas for dudes who were the opposite of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:20 AM
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I think you're right to want someone who is being genuine. Because that's basically what you're doing right? You're putting up barriers for him to hop over and prove to you it's more than meaningless sex. But you're wasting you're own time. You could maybe find a way to vet men that works a bit faster eh? Like maybe just be upfront and honest about what you want and most guys will disappear. But that's what you want. You want to weed out the ones who don't want what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:08 AM
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I would like to propose a change in the definition of "nice guy." I think the reality is that most nice guys are simply men who ingested the belief that male sexuality is scary and evil to women. Which to some degree is true. Men be raping women and showing teenage girls their dicks on a street corner, among many other terrible things. The nice guy recognizes how men wield their sexuality like a weapon and use it to abuse women. The nice guy doesn't want to be like them. The nice guy understands…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:42 PM
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It's all good. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:45 AM
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But there's so many men who are unwanted and don't know how to fix their problem. Thus the red pill has arisen into mainstream consciousness. In search of the answer "what do women truly want?"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:43 AM
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I agree on the porn aspect. Men have porn for every single female body type imaginable. It's not the same in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:42 AM
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Sounds true to me. But I think that it's a spectrum. The guy you listed is the ideal. Just like for men our ideal is beautiful and sexy woman. But nearly all of us settle for less than ideal. I feel like men do have a chance in the dating world. They just need to understand what the ideal is, their own relative attractiveness in relation to that, and to work with what they got. But that guy you listed doesn't leave much room for normal men to relate to, so I guess dudes are just lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:41 AM
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Lmao. I never joined in the first place. I've been alone since I was a little kid. I literally had no friends until I was an adult. Bullied my entire life. I fought a lot. Bullies wanted to beat me up. Lucky for me mom put me in karate age 8-10. I never got beat up and handled bullies easily. Fought all the way through high school, fought people in the military. Always by myself. Always multiple dudes ganging up on me. Why? I still don't know. I just always saw the "real man" shit as BS ever sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:40 AM
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Mommy bangmaid lol. I never wanted that. I prefer equality and cooperation. But I suppose I always was an outsider in that regard. To me it's bizarre to want submission. Absolutely bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:30 AM
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Good lord you need to go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:05 AM
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Why are you so angry? What's the point in being here if you're gonna act crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:04 AM
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Maybe but frozen pizza is still pizza. It's still kinda good. For men any sex is still kinda good. It doesn't seem to me that the same is true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:33 PM
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You're projecting onto me again. This is starting to become silly. Girls like me. I don't subscribe to any red pill content. However I do search for truth. And that's why I'm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:19 PM
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I'm not blaming anyone and I never said I chose porn or I made any choice. Stop projecting onto me please. I'm not saying men are a monolith. But is it not clear to women that if a woman wants to maximize her chances of being with someone she wants, she must look her best? That is what I'm saying. I'm saying women know what men want. I'm saying in reverse, men are not so clear on what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:18 PM
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I'm not complaining and I'm not mad or upset. You're putting that on me and projecting that onto me. I'm not deflecting I'm not doing anything weird or emotional or crazy. I'm not saying it's women's fault that men don't know what women want. But it's still a fact. The point is to bring men to whatever understanding is necessary so that they believe they know what to do in order to pursue dates sex and love. Men need to know what women want. That's all I'm saying. That's all we want. There's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:16 PM
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I keep saying that men are still confused about what women want and I get downvoted. So I want to know, what do men want in women, what do women want in men, and how are they different and why? What is so obvious about what women want, that apparently everyone here sees so clearly? What is the point of this sub and the red pill, if men aren't constantly confused and searching for the answer to "what do women want?" Everyone here knows and yet all I seem to see is confusion. If I point out the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:52 PM
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You're not seeing what I'm saying for some reason. What I'm saying is that men don't know what women want. I feel like that's true. We want to take accountability but if you dont know what women want, you have a choice. To continue to try and fail and humiliate yourself. But I mean we are all human aren't we? At some point your self esteem can't hold up. Men want to take their own attractiveness into their own hands and try our best. We just don't know what women want and we give up after being …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:45 PM
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That's not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is, women know very clearly what they must do to attract men. And generally, the answer to that is look her best. Am I wrong? I think men don't have that much confidence in knowledge about what to do to best make yourself attractive to the opposite sex. Am I wrong? I mean what is the red pill here for than?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:43 PM
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Right but the point is, he chose porn, because women would never choose him. And he chose porn, because he has no way to know in what ways to improve himself such that his choice could be porn, or women. Rather than only porn. Men want to take accountability but we don't know what women want. Since we don't know, and men keep failing over and over, they give up and go for porn. There's endless advice out there and all of it is conflicting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:39 PM
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I think men want to "take accountability." But that implies they know what to do. What they are doing wrong. And how to change it. For women it's easy. Look your best. Am I wrong? For men it's like....some other shit. And that's why the red pill exists. Because men don't know what the fuck women want. I'm lucky. I'm 6 foot tall and girls flirt with me anywhere I go. But I'm not special. I can be wearing ugly shoes dressed like a homeless bum, no haircut having ass, balding and shit looking crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:27 PM
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I think it's all down to the experience of the woman. Take men. Do we need a woman to have confidence in order to have sex with her? Absolutely fucking not. Sure, men may demand confidence in a woman for a long term relationship. But just for sex? We don't give 1 iota of a fuck about confidence. In a relationship a man may require confidence from his SO, because in the past he dated women who turned out to be nuts. Undateable. Lacking confidence and riddled with anxiety and fear that other women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:46 PM
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The perfect woman for me is that X men character who can become any woman. I would have her looking like a completely different woman every single day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:43 PM
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I don't think people will agree with you on that. Why would a straight man have sex with men? But I know from reading a book on psychology that "deviant" sexual acts are committed by people who are restricted from access to their preferred sexual outlet. Psychology supposedly has known this since the early days of Freud. But, it's not something I could provide resources of or sything. I read it in a psychology book about the history of psychology since Freud, what they learned and what has chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:25 PM
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Nope. I just see so many questions on reddit asking about this exact topic. What it's like to date men vs women. Comes up all the time on ask men and such like that. I swearsomeone asks this question every single day on reddit and there are bi men and women who say the same thing. Women are a pain in the ass to date and men are easy. I've read enough of these comments that I'm pretty much convinced that it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 08:15 PM
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Personally I've read a lot of comments from Bi men who talk about this exact topic. The difference between dating men and women. Every comment is basically the same. Women are a pain in the ass and men are not. Can't put it any more simple than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:25 PM
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I hear that in China women are almost 50% gamers. He'll, I heard more women than men play video games in China. Someone is lying. I don't know the truth. I'm not going to come over articles trying to determine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:57 AM
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This is a long one because I ended up realizing a lot of things after reading your comment. I could just keep it to myself or maybe make a post somewhere asking about it. But I figure since you triggered it I'll share it if you care to read: I am basically a complete loner who occasionally gets dragged out of the house. I was a social outcast my whole life. I don't know why but what you said just seems to help me a lot with perspective. I guess the reality for me is, that the girls I had sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 09:31 PM
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I've had sex with every girl I've been with on the first night. Don't know what I'm doing that's so special. I guess I am decent looking and 6'1" I also never pressure them and I never act like I'm desperate for sex. Sometimes the girls will even stop us on the way to sex. Make something up like "oh we don't have condoms" or "I'm not sure I'm ready." And I'm just perfectly happy to stop. And then they fuck me anyways. I think women just want a guy who isn't desperate for sex and seems like the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:33 PM
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You're right about that lol. I agree 100% And it honestly fucking frustrates me to no end. Nobody is capable of entertaining ideas they disagree with. But theoretically you could do it. You would have to make many accounts and keep reformulating the question until you can phrase it in such a way as to not trigger them. That said I do think there is a very high level, where things like this research can be dissected. The science is not the end all be all. Though if people fear to challenge their …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:01 AM
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Give a woman good dick and she will fuck you 5 times a day every damn day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:09 PM
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It's definitely refutable. Take this to a feminist sub and see what they have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:08 PM
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Damn 13 up votes right now though. I'm surprised I expected massive downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:29 PM
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I view women as people. Horny horny people. I treat them like any guy, until it's horny flirty time. Then, the flirting and sex dance begins. The dance of seduction or whatever you call it, is what men need to know. Red pill claims to have worked it out logically such that men can merely read it, and go out and perform. But even the red pill admits that a man has to go out and try and fail many times before he really gets there. The red pill is just the attempt to logically explain the mating da…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:24 AM
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I know this. But the way I described it is literally how society views things and there is obvious holes in the logic for anyone with half a brain to see. But most of society has a quarter of a brain at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:50 AM
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But it would have to be the polar opposite to BDE. Loose pussy energy would be associated with women who get around. Confident, open to new experiences, blah blah all that was in the OP. For a woman in this society, it's the opposite. Tight pussy energy would go to the socially awkward girls or the "innocent" ones. At least that's how I see it. It doesn't make sense to say that a girl who is social and open and gets around, has a tight pussy. Like the way the positive term tight pussy is applied…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:11 AM
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Looks definitely matter. Cuz I know I look good and I catch women peeking at me behind their boyfriends back in public. Women throw themselves at me. Too bad I'm a life long social outcast so instead of banging tons of girls I just have panic attacks when they do it. But after so many years of being confused I realize it's all very simple. Everyone just wants the best looking partner they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:09 PM
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Okay does anyone know exactly which materials here? I'd like to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:13 AM
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Is there any like, legitimate writing done on this? Like, philosophical or what you, rather than say, a Jordan Peterson level of GC where there is zero writing and just YouTube clips. I'm just asking because I'd love to see real educated critiques on mainstream gender ideology, if it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:07 AM
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The red pill means nothing. If human sexuality is determined, female sexuality WILL sniff out the beta males. The red pill is for the betas to have their fair share. But nature dictates that beta males never have their fair share. That's the nature of women. To choose among the few. Red pill can become popular all it wants, women will change without anyone knowing it. The current reaction I am seeing, is that misogyny is now having a spotlight put on it and women will cease to date misogynistic …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:36 PM
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It's not what you say. It's a sexual energy she gives off and you have to be able to match it. Like she just makes it obvious to you that she likes you. That's your opportunity to just take her. Don't have to say anything she might just kiss you on the spot. It's not about some logical shit you can detail. That's the problem. You can't logic it! It's purely emotional physical sexual. You can't write it out. You have to get on that level. Girls aren't trying to go home with a dude who doesn't kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:33 AM
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I feel like it is a some fact that a good portion of women, above 50%, are sexually submissive. What does that mean for dating? Can a man who is sexually vanilla, satisfy a woman who needs to be fucked like he hates her? Even light stuff that is considered "normal" isn't exactly normal to all men. I think women are looking for a guy who is capable of satisfying her fantasies. That is why batman is preferred. He has a dark side which can tap into the dominant role. And the dominant role includes …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:38 AM
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Damn where did I suggest any of that? Lol I advocate for the opposite! I do think men should be honest and tell the truth. But only if they are also respectful and not weirdo losers who take being honest and use it to harass women even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:00 AM
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That's true I agree with that. I am the same way and I know some women are like that too. Ok, lets rephrase it than to women want good sex. And most men are not delivering.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:22 AM
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Just because you can have sex with a lot of women through manipulation doesn't make you the authority. In my view, it makes you like one of these red pill betas like fresh and fit or the like (there are many.) Nobody is pedistalizing women. That is you projecting. You fear treating women as equals. To you, equal equals pedestal. For those men who only deal with sluts and hoes, I'm sure they often have a bad time. That's pretty sad. I've had the opposite experience. I've had great one night stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:20 AM
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No, men don't wait for sex because our orgasm is easy to achieve. Women's is not, is so after repeated bad experiences, they learn its either not worth it, or who is worth it. I'm saying your entire conclusion is utterly incorrect. I don't know how else to explain it. You would have to argue that orgasms are caused in and of themselves, by testosterone. That say, a man who busts a nut into a woman in 2 minutes, with zero foreplay, after making her feel rushed, would make a woman cum as well, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:10 AM
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Never understood what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:48 AM
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Ok so they are cursed/blessed with high testosterone. Are they fucking beta bux because of it? No. Are they having one night stands with every guy? No. Because they want to fucking CUM. That's it! And they know which guys can make it happen, and which cant. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:47 AM
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I guess I have a particular view of women. I feel like, if men saw women how I see them, men could stop acting crazy. And I could be right. But the fact is, the advice I give only gets downvoted. They get angry at what I have to say. I wonder, in your experience, how often is it obvious manipulation? I ask because, I think some men don't even mean to be manipulative. It's just that I think a lot of men believe women want some kind of special man who is at the top of some heirarchy or pyramid str…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:41 AM
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Yea, scientist nerds who couldn't get laid "know." Meanwhile, any man who has seen how women REALLY are, knows women are absolute fucking FREAKS. You don't need to have a 100% success rate. You can still claim the science is on your side. The fact is, there's plenty of women whose testosterone is plenty high and they're horny and they out here FUCKING. Do you deny that there are a lot of women having a lot of sex? I think I saw a study claiming about 20% of both male and female populations are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:28 AM
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I see. I guess I figure some women can tell whether a man is being manipulative or is genuine. Maybe not. You don't know if it's truth or illusion and that's unfortunate. Maybe I shouldn't give dudes advice. They'll just weaponize it rather than becoming genuine men who treat women right and have a good time in the bedroom with them. Fuck em. I'll keep the ladies to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:09 AM
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I'm not sure what you're saying sorry lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:57 AM
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I entirely disagree. My opinion is that women are MORE sexual than men. However, men can orgasms by rubbing our dicks. Women however do not simply orgasm on command. Their sexuality needs more finesse. Women are having rampaging RAMPAGING sex out there. Trust and believe they are. And men don't believe it, because they think if it was truth, women would be having sex with most guys just like most guys would have sex with women. No. Women need more in the bedroom and frankly, most men are bad. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:53 AM
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IMO it's very simple. Women like sex. Women want orgasms. She has sex with a guy on the first night, because she thinks she is going to have a good time. Maybe he's fun and playful. Maybe he's flirtatious. Maybe he is non judgemental. It's not about hotness. It's about that man and his aims and boundaries. A guy who is down for no strings attached sex gets laid because he 8s offering women something. A decent guy, who loves women, doesn't judge them for having sex, wants mutual pleasure and fun.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 07:34 AM
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Men have not become weaker. Men have CHOSEN to become weaker because they reject masculinity, and they reject masculinity because society tries to force men to play the role of "real man." I don't think it's because feminists have declared that masculinity itself is toxic. That's not a thing. Toxic masculinity is something else and if you STILL don't knownwhat it is, you're clearly afraid to read anything that disagrees with you and you're trapped in a right wing bubble. Coming from a right wing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:02 AM
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I think it's true that there is a heirarchy of male attractiveness that women are programmed to use, just like men have our heirafchy of beauty that we use to categorize women. But the heirarchy women use, is not understandable by men. I think the physical traits such as money dicks and good looks are secondary. And we will never understand. The only men who get it, only get it, because they have been lucky enough to be at the top of that heirarchy. Those guys too, in my experience, will say tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 04:51 AM
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It's not that women don't want virgins. They don't want men who lack confidence in the bedroom. But how can they tell before they fuck you? Well, either they can't, or they look for signs that they saw in other men, and correlate how one man's actions in regular life translated into his ability in the bedroom. So now dudes are trying to figure out how to become the guy who is able to show women that he's capable before they get to the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:07 AM
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36M. When i grew some muscle from lifting weights, I ceased to get random comments from strange men, about how goofy looking I am or how gay I look. Now, those same type of men want to be my friend and shit. I was in the military, and active as a kid, so I suppose I was always kinda fit. After lifting weights and growing more muscle, I don't notice a difference from women. But I improved my social skills drastically and confidence and women really respond to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:27 PM
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Try finding dating advice for men that does not reference stalkers weirdos and creeps. A man who struggles to date is an inferior man and our entire society believes it. A woman who struggles to date, only struggles, because men are scum and there's so very few of us worth dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:32 AM
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The way things are portrayed and the responses i see from women just sound like somehow, it's what the man does that turns women on. If he's a singer or a basketball player or whatever, the fact that he does this thing rather than that thing, makes the pussy wet. That's what it sounds like. And I feel like that's what us men believe 100% that women get wet in the panties for some jobs men do, and not for others. They get wet in the panties for money. Wet in the panties for firefighters. Whatever…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:26 AM
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The same goes for women how? That their sexuality is shaped by patriarchy? Or that they don't really get turned on by a man's job, it's just that women are more forward looking relationship wise than men are? Just not sure what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:54 PM
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It's very hard for me to believe that any number of men more than a very tiny minority, are getting boners from a woman's job. We simply are not wired that way. Or of its not wiring, we are conditioned that way by patriarchy (the feminist position).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:23 PM
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I don't feel like mex get sexual gratification from things like this. Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:38 AM
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I grew up friendless and alone. Utterly fucked up with women, terrified of them my entire life. Now I feel like I see "the truth." In my mind, it's all about ORGASMS!!!! WOOO! Women want to cuuuuum! And most guys straight up, aren't capable. And it's sad really. It's not hard. But it is hard, at the same time. All this red pill shit. It's nothing to me now. It's all about pleasure. Women want pleasure too! The money, the status, the clothes the job the social skills the self work you put in so b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:00 PM
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Well I have my own ideas. So I've talked to a lot of girls, and a very common problem, is that if they attempt to make a suggestion in the bedroom with their SO, he gets angry. Sex is over, man is upset, and girl is left to finish herself off as usual. The thing is, I KNOW that every man's greatest desire is to be a sex God in the bedroom, giving orgasms to women and being the most desired man by women. So why is it that so many men are bad in bad? Why are men lazy? Why do men get ANGRY if his g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:35 PM
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I dont know but there are a lot of amazing resources out there. If a guy was even willing to do the research, it would be a huge leap forward cuz i think most men are resistant to learning about female pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:32 AM
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Yea you're absolutely right. It's like, you have to have experience for a job that requires a college degree, but the only way to get experience is to work the field, but you can't because you don't have experience. And so men are trapped with no way to gain experience. There are books though! Like, BDSM books. I don't know the names I had them saved on my PC and it took a shit on me (right before wow classic! I missed it entirely 😕 ). But there are resources. There are websites all about female…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:37 AM
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Men love submissive women. But the resentment comes from men who do not understand the dynamic. Every man is capable IMO of playing in that world. But it's something that doesn't just come naturally. I believe it must be activated, and sans experience to activate it, that man is forever an inferior lover, unless he finds a girl who is also vanilla. Those men who are angry that women are submissive, are angry because they realize they do not understand how to be dominant, how to ravish her. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:29 AM
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True. I feel like we are very concerned with having sex but otherwise women just come along with the vagina that we truly want. It's kind of sad. I think it's because we are conditions as we grow up as boys, to believe our value as human beings is dependant on how many vaginas we busted in, and also how beautiful the woman attached is as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:51 PM
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I doubt it. I would hear them even when they thought I wasn't around. Had many occasions where I heard something I wish I hadn't. For example I overheard one girl talking about how she has sex with certain type of guys. These guys, she hates them. She said they boil her blood. They're pieces of shit who believe they are God's gift to women. But that's why she has sex with them. Her hate towards them is a turn on. I understand it. I'm a freak too. I can have mental orgasms from fantasizing about …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:43 PM
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Not a sexual job. I'm not going to share because i already know how the replies go. The job was only majority female by chance. Just so happened they hired a lot of women. Actually my job right now has like 80% women but very little opportunity for talking. I'm not personally worried about what women want. I'm good. Women like me. They always have. I used to be very confused because I couldn't get help for my specific problem. Other guys date and get married and still don't have sex with their S…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:36 PM
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Yea i been read it. I'm way past that. Also, I have never in my life had relationship problems. I merely feared women due to a really fucked up childhood. I don't relate on the whole to the AFC. Their problems were never my problems. I do great with women now that I am much less shy than I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 10:55 PM
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I guess all I can say is my own experiences with women: So I worked a job with 99% women. I learned a lot. A lot a lot. I was a life long social outcast. When I started working with them they flirted with me HARD. Soon, they came to believe I was gay, because I was terrified of women. And so I got to see and hear everything behind the scenes, because they thought I was gay. At first they hid the stuff from me. But I pretended like I was OK with it and supported "being a whore" as one girl said. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:38 PM
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This shit made me cry. Can't explain why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:03 PM
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Lmao I had no idea, I don't listen to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:14 PM
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I don't know what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:13 PM
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Yea its all strange and fuzzy and blurry and chaotic, thats all i can say. The heart wants what it wants i suppose. I just hope that it chooses someone good for me and not bad. I just dont feel like i can trust that. My gut reaction can be so strong though. Should i really pursue a woman for a relationship based on that? But then its like how do you choose someone rationally? I guess we are similar. We just like someone for reasons hard to know. At the same time, i want a beautiful woman. I feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:05 AM
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So you can be attracted to, and want to date/marry a guy (potentially) even though he's not physically attractive to you at all? Personally I don't even know how my attraction works. I feel like I have 2 kinds. First is the kind I described before. So many women are so sweet and I just love to be around them. They have some quality that makes me wish I could experience what it's like to cuddle with her, have a romantic night, fall in love for a night, sex, and then go our separate ways. Not that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:20 AM
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Personally I think the average (dateable for my age and such) woman is kinda cute. There's always something nice about this girl or that one. It doesn't mean is men will chase every average girl for sex. I don't know what other dudes be doing. You know that song that goes "I'm not a Playa I just crush a lot"? I never understood it until recently. I'm the same way. I just have a lot of crushes. So many women are sweet and adorable. Even if you're below average, so what? You're a female, feminine,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:44 AM
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Best comment I've read in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:00 PM
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Lol this is like an incel sub. If this is too much for you, you must not be living. Read some Ayn Rand or some Stoic philosophy or something I don't know. I don't think these things are hard. I feel like I have a natural urge to work out and to pursue my dreams and to improve myself all the time. Like what else do you do with your time? It's fun to dress well. It's fun to go out and look good and know women are looking at you. Like why is that hard, you should be wanting to do that shouldn't you…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:32 AM
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That's a big upvote there. I see a lot of angry comments. It's very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:16 AM
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Man or woman those people are extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:27 PM
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And here I am in my head thinking "imagine finding a woman capable of stimulating conversation." It seems to me like most people are severely lacking in that department.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:32 PM
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This is such a good question. However, I just can't understand the whole "I need a chaste woman" thing. You know that shit doesn't exist lol. I feel like a better side to the see saw of chastity vs bravery, would be beauty vs bravery. Also I would delete the word bravery, and replace it with masculinity. As i think the concept masculinity embodies in it this wide range of mystical magical traits that men must possess in order to be attractive to women. Then again, I wonder why anyone questions i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:52 PM
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https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=4020856 “When a man goes on a date, he wonders if he is gonna get lucky, the woman she already knows” Allegedly stated by Frederick Bushnell ‘Jack’ Ryder (n.d). The quote illustrates the female decision-making power over men concerning heterosexual activity. Choosing romantic partners is one of the most important life decisions for many. In many cases, romantic partners are the ones people spend the most time, resources, and sharing genes with.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:57 PM
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What is virtue? There's more than one way to see it. Your portraying virtue as something good you do that like, the Bible told us to act x y or z way and that's virtuous. One could also say that virtues are those actions which ones repeats in order to achieve a goal. This kind if virtue is good for the self, but possibly bad for others if the self decides to employ virtuous action to obtain morally reprehensible goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:59 PM
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But which one is the actual reality? I have heard plenty of stories of liberals becoming republican. I myself was a liberal for the first 32 years of my life, and now I'm a libertarian. For me and many I've heard from, it's not that they stayed with the same beliefs for 50 years. It's that something major happens and we reevaluate our beliefs and make big changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:47 PM
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Oh you're attractive again!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:59 AM
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Ew lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:46 AM
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You sound like my type. A strong independent woman who don't need no man! =D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:10 PM
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I feel like I see cuter girls in real life than I see in the celebrity world. I really don't have any celebrity crush. A cute girl from anywhere is equally good or better than a celebrity. I don't think most female celebrities are much more than average. And that's directed at the ones who are considered the hottest on earth. Really? I don't know about that. I've seen true beauties many times in my life. Not so much in the celebrity world. That said. I guess if I have to choose someone I choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:01 PM
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I think you're right actually. But I still think that at some point, a majority of men will retreat forever into video games and porn. So if you're right, when men exit the dating pool, so will women. Women won't settle for the porn and video game addicted beta, obviously. But women also won't share. Maybe at some point in the future it will be a minority of people who reproduce. Or am I crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:08 PM
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Do you mean that it's a male fantasy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:03 PM
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The beta males will settle for video games and porn and women will have the men they want and will have to share. The state will enact laws for redistribution to women in order to help children who are born increasingly to single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:46 PM
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