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Yeah OP should repent of being a simp before anything else.
/r/askRPC05/01/23 07:48 PM
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Eh, Deut 22:13ff is a clear example of the concept of marital fraud. But it is one sided, only the woman's virginity matters. (We do know from Jesus that fornication is evil too). The point there was that you can't pretend to be a virgin and defraud your husband. That invalidates the marriage/leads to her literal execution. You might be able to make a case from that to the sinfulness of deceiving your wife about your sexual history, but it will be complicated by whether you were actually decepti…
/r/askRPC05/01/23 07:43 PM
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Yes, He still loves the unsaved.
/r/RPChristians28/12/22 12:36 AM
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Love was the motivation for the cross which is the prerequisite for us to do things which please God, so no His love really is unconditional.
/r/RPChristians28/12/22 12:31 AM
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I would respect you more if your reason for not having time/desire to go to the gym was to do more work for the kingdom, but it's because you're addicted to video games? You might be disappointed when at the Second Coming Jesus doesn't recognise you.
/r/RPChristians23/07/22 06:01 PM
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Shh. Go to the gym.
/r/RPChristians23/07/22 05:37 PM
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Not true, girls dig a guy in a suit of armour.
/r/RPChristians23/07/22 04:49 PM
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When I got back she saw the ingredients to make the drink she wanted and quickly said “you know I’m not making that drink. You’re going to make it for me right?” in a somewhat bratty tone. I ignored her. ​ Back to the story: She then said she would if I made her a drink. I said, “no, how about you go inside and heat me up a piece of pizza and I don’t make you a drink.” ​ At this point I was ready to get the kids in bed, so I went to round them up. She’s talking with my parents about how “aggress…
/r/RPChristians30/05/22 08:54 PM
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Heads up this will get removed. Repost it to r/RPCWomen where the women there will be happy to give you advice. Also ignore the other commenter. That's either a bot or a brain dead moron. Good luck with solving your problem.
/r/RPChristians29/05/22 09:02 AM
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The post you were looking for was here: https://old.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/i7zwv9/no_your_congregation_does_not_preach_biblical/ ​ Listen man I'm with you on the content of what you're saying here. People in the church do not understand headship or patriarchy. I am also a frequent reader of your blog, and I'm glad to see you posting here. But I'm with u/TheGodofOrphans on this one. You are trying to be a representative of patriarchy, for example you want to be a public face and debat…
/r/RPChristians16/04/22 12:07 AM
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Worse, you're in the raging retard stage
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 07:22 PM
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I literally just said rebuke, and I'm down with spanking. I wouldn't slap my wife in any normal circumstances, and that's not because of the law. I can only see that being an option if it wasn't done out of anger and was entirely out of love. And even then it comes with risks in this age which would need to be calculated. We are patriarchs here and we don't oppose corporal punishment in principle. But I am very suspicious of anyone who is visibly chomping at the bit to justify slapping his wife.…
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 01:46 PM
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Yep. If he has done a terrible job of vetting his wife and so has ended up married to a woman who won't take rebuke, then he should probably lay down an ultimatum and finally separate from her. There are guys on this subreddit who have done that because their wives refuse to stop sinning. We aren't like complementarians who believe that you should never punish a woman. You should punish her through withdrawing attention and focusing on your mission, and eventually "putting her away" if she won't…
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 12:32 PM
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Clearly we agree. However I am trying to impress upon you the utility of the concept of frame to help those men understand why they are being dominated. I will make this one correction: "dominate" our wives is not quite accurate, albeit "be in charge" is closer. In Genesis 3 the curse on Woman included the desire to dominate her husband but that her husband would dominate her. This domination was an tyrannous one, not motivated by love. Then in Eph 5 we have a deliberate and conscious statement …
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 11:17 AM
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Yes, but it is combined with the practical reality of experiencing what it is like to try to maintain that frame. How many Christian men know that they are meant to do God's will and not our own, yet can't maintain that frame when their wife tests them with bad behaviour despite the fact that God wants us to be patriarchs over our wives? Calling it a roundabout way of getting at something doesn't do the concept of frame justice, hence why so many men, including very experienced and knowledgeable…
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 11:01 AM
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This has nothing to do with obeying God. Because you're looking at a definition of frame from people who don't believe in God. Or, more accurately, the concept of a "point of origin" (or compass as I called it earlier) can either be internal or external. But for the Christian who is made into a new creation and seeks to have his own will be conformed to God's, when we follow our internal point of origin we are simultaneously obeying God's will and our own will. John 6: For I have come down from …
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 10:48 AM
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Do you want answers or do you want to be passive aggressive? Read the sidebar to actually understand this stuff. Quick answer: I didn't replace disobedience with losing frame, I said disobedience to God was a way for Christians to lose frame. God thought this was significant enough to kill Moses before he entered the promised land. Moses didn't need a lecture on why he was wrong for disobeying God.
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 10:24 AM
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What do you think breaking frame is? Moses hitting the rock twice is a premier example in scripture of losing frame. Moses is given a direct instruction by God to "speak" to the rock, and instead he hits it twice. Whatever reason he had for disobedience, he was doing it for reasons other than obedience to God - even when he knew with certainty what God's will was. When we knowingly sin we are acting in a frame that is not God's. As Christians our starting point should be "not my will, but thy wi…
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 09:42 AM
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You contribute to: r/OpenChristian r/Christianmarriage You also posted in r/Naked_Fellowship (nsfw) and then deleted your comment after u/redpill-cool called you out on it. This after you said here that you are struggling with thoughts of infidelity on your wife despite having two children. You have no right to talk. ​ Hey u/bdb5821 this is the guy agreeing with you. Reflect.
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 12:18 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/encvgg/fr_dinner_w_an_alpha/ This field report is essential reading for those who want to know what it should look like when a man hosts a dinner party. It is a way for him to show his way of life to an outsider, to invite them in to share in his vision. u/Red-Curious: one thing I'd add to this excellent post is that preparation for a dinner party starts before the dinner begins. And no, not a few hours before the guests arrive either. But months, y…
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 08:03 PM
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Giving up before an attempt has been made. Nice. The fact that he has committed sexual sin with this woman is a reason *in favour* of trying to make it work. He has sinned against her as much as against his own body, and saving her soul through effective Christian leadership is a merciful thing to do rather than "nexting" her as u/UpTanks rightly cautions against. There are guys who wake up after 30 years of marriage and fix things. Where is this constant pessimism from you coming from?
/r/RPChristians17/01/22 12:51 PM
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You would have dumped her already if you hadn't committed these sexual sins. Stop falling into her frame by doing what she wants (watching TV, etc) and instead insist that she goes along with what you see as consistent with your values and mission. For example, you feel like this is time wasted because you aren't reading the Bible. Invite her over specifically to study the Bible. Ultimately if she doesn't change to fit you, then she will have dumped herself. Put a hold on your theological differ…
/r/RPChristians16/01/22 11:07 AM
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Lol alright I'm not sure it is, but it would be easier to hash this out over Discord. Hope to see you there.
/r/RPChristians06/01/22 12:06 AM
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Don't get me wrong, I like the openness. Keep it up. It's why I'm encouraging you to join the Discord. We do a lot of OYS over there and share notes with one another. Now for what you said: ​ I want to do my part around the house, because I want to. Sounds good, but then you immediately contradict yourself: That is where I feel I can help and help her. I did not voice this correctly, but it was just my way of saying, I am doing all of these things right what am I doing wrong if that makes sense.…
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 10:16 PM
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I recommend you join the discord so we can get to know you a bit better. It likely is a frame issue because your stats seem great. Three very quick points that set alarm bells ringing for me: Frame issue: not knowing how to explain to your wife that you want sex it is becoming tough to figure out how to explain to her my needs with my love language being physicality. I'll return to this in point 3, but it sounds like you have a problem with being direct. You basically know that a wife is suppose…
/r/RPChristians05/01/22 09:43 PM
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u/BlueJacket_Fan1995 - most likely your wife has been caught up in vegan media on her phone, her computer, wherever. You will not be able to fight the conditioning with a quick conversation. Begin by having an open conversation with her so you can fully understand what she is thinking and where she learnt this stuff. You will almost certainly find that she is distraught over the quality of life that industrialised farming and animal husbandry has given to our livestock. It is right for anyone to…
/r/RPChristians02/01/22 12:12 PM
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Happy New Year! This is a very promising start to 2022 for RPC.
/r/RPChristians01/01/22 12:50 PM
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Bang on, you've cracked it. The path to becoming an integrated man involves subsuming yourself into something larger, deliberately. Right now with your mission (and self-identity?) up in the air you are living on the level of an animal. You have your career, your wife, and your children. Maybe some hobbies. You've got your needs met. Your wife asking questions like those reveals something deep and profound - you really do just keep her around because of the sex, the children, and the companionsh…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 07:25 AM
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Do you have answers to those questions? The correct answer to a question like "Why are you with me?" should be some version of: "Because my mission in life is X and you contribute to my mission in ways Y and Z." It doesn't sound like you are dissatisfied with her outside of this, you're not even bringing the kids into it, so this doesn't seem like a really difficult question for you to answer. I'm going to say that at the most fundamental level you need to understand who you are and what you wan…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 05:46 AM
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Where the hell do you get off jumping to divorce before this man has even read the sidebar? He isn't spiritually mature and doesn't lead his household, do you realise you might have led this man into sin?
/r/RPChristians23/11/21 12:34 AM
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Make sure you do ours and MRP. I don't blame you for not knowing the basics, we were all in that position once. That said, stop letting strangers on the internet bother you so much, it's weak. Now go do the bare minimum and read those sidebars.
/r/RPChristians22/11/21 07:05 PM
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u/caemathrowaway Have you read the sidebar? Have you read No More Mr Nice Guy? Have you read When I Say No I Feel Guilty? Do you understand the basics of the red pill as an accurate explanation of why women behave the way they do? Everything you wrote tells me that you have not. This is basic 101 stuff you could sort out by just reading and incorporating that stuff. Ignore the retards telling you to sin by divorcing. Read the 101 material here and on r/MarriedRedPill. Don't be such a weeny when …
/r/RPChristians22/11/21 06:45 PM
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u/Alf248365 The only reason she hates that you tried to pick her up is because you tried to pick her up. You are weak. If you had effortlessly picked her off the floor she would have been delighted. But you are so pathetically weak that it "turned into a scuffle for a couple of minutes." You would have been better off not doing anything rather than reminding her of how pathetically weak her husband is.
/r/askMRP17/11/21 07:25 PM
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u/Red-Curious put this post between "Defining the 'Red Pill' For Christians" and "The Red Pill - What's Scriptural and What's Not"
/r/RPChristians04/11/21 06:31 PM
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You didn't say anything in your post about thinking you need to get good at sex to know how to please a woman. I don't really believe you because your OP read more like you want to whore around for the fun of it. I am glad to hear you don't want to go against God, however. But as for what you're claiming now, you should read this post by former pickup artist Roosh: https://www.rooshv.com/game-is-for-fallen-women The kinds of woman you will find playing that Game are fallen women. You will only c…
/r/RPChristians28/10/21 09:08 PM
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What does the second paragraph have to do with my comment? ​ As for the first, I'm not preaching a gospel of pure works. We are saved by the free gift of grace accepted through faith. But if you freely reject that gift by sinning, then you aren't living by faith. Matthew 5:20 20 For I tell you, unless your righteousness exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. How do we have that righteousness? By faith. Galatians 3:11 11 Now it is evident that no on…
/r/RPChristians25/10/21 11:58 PM
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So you want to stay chaste so you can "fulfil your potential as a person"? How about staying chaste because it's a sin to have sex outside of marriage? Did you know that sexual immorality is uniquely the only sin you can commit against your body as the temple of the Holy Spirit? 1 Corinthians 6:18-19 18 Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of t…
/r/RPChristians25/10/21 08:29 PM
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If you're in your late 30s why are you addicted to Adderall, using Tinder, larping as a Christian, and generally being a wastrel loser?
/r/askRPC07/10/21 10:27 AM
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Because you're unattractive.
/r/askRPC07/10/21 09:35 AM
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Good stuff. For one, if you want a peer group you can join the Discord (sidebar). Second, study all the way through the Bible, find a church that focuses on discipleship, start getting discipled by an experienced Christian, and practice the "seven basics" we talk about here. Don't worry about women for a while. Women were created as helpers for men. What are they supposed to help us with? With our mission. What should our mission be? The Great Commission (Matt 28) and keeping those commandments …
/r/RPChristians05/10/21 10:49 PM
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Mods this is a feminist. Please ban.
/r/RPChristians03/10/21 03:18 PM
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You post in ex-RP, FDS, and other places. Begone troll.
/r/RPChristians03/10/21 02:14 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/8PbC4Ec It's a shame all that Bible study and fasting didn't make him less cringe. As we all know, red pilled men spend their time trying to convince internet strangers how red pilled and alpha they are.
/r/RPChristians03/10/21 12:22 PM
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What did I say that was nonsense?
/r/RPChristians03/10/21 11:23 AM
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Useless comment. People act and delude themselves into thinking they are being led by the Spirit. Read the sidebar or get out.
/r/RPChristians03/10/21 10:21 AM
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Are you admitting that you would let your girlfriend set the moral terms and boundaries of the relationship instead of having your own principles and enforcing them irrespective of what she wants?
/r/RPChristians03/10/21 10:19 AM
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All the reasons given as to why you must lift apply to demanding exercise in general, is lifting specifically still mandatory or is it ok if we use other methods that'll get results Do what works. For most people, that's lifting. Do what you will stick with and produces good results after a few years of consistency. Edit: By the way, you were right. This was a super autistic question.
/r/RPChristians02/10/21 09:37 AM
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You can find a full answer to a related question in this post here. A direct answer will need to get clear about what Secular Red Pill is and what Complementarianism is. Secular Red Pill is a collection of theories relating to the nature of men and women and our inter-sexual dynamics. In its modern form it was discovered in-field by pick up artists of the early-2000s and then developed through more theoretical discussions incorporating actual scientific data and the theoretical application of ev…
/r/RPChristians21/09/21 11:48 AM
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There have been some good conversations on this issue in the following posts and comment sections: https://old.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/6pou4h/201_healthy_sexual_desire_v_lustcoveting/ https://old.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/b9wq1d/discussion_is_it_okay_to_masturbate_to_thoughts/ https://old.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/9xtofa/a_perspective_on_lust/ https://old.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/cnoykj/understanding_why_sexual_sins_are_sin/ Take a look through those and te…
/r/askRPC19/09/21 11:18 AM
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You are involved in and run communities that approve of extra-marital sex. So even if you can make the case for polygynous marriages from the Bible, you are and have been advocating for adultery. Just want to make clear where the goalposts lie. Genesis 2-3. God created one man and one woman prior to the fall. One man, and one woman to be his helper. Exodus 20:14; Leviticus 20:10. God dictates adultery as one of the Ten Commandments and makes it a capital crime. Matthew 19:9. Jesus reiterates tha…
/r/RPChristians16/09/21 09:42 PM
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You have been posting on r polyamory for 11 years, you run open minded couple dot com and moderate a subreddit advocating for open relationships, i.e. adultery, fornication. These are explicitly condemned as sin in the Bible. You also said that the OP's wife might have been a true Christian while she was sleeping around, unrepentant. 1 John 1:5-6 5 This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. 6 If we claim to have fellowship wit…
/r/RPChristians16/09/21 08:34 PM
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What is the log in his eye? You are a polygamous son of Satan, enjoy explaining that in the day of the Lord.
/r/RPChristians16/09/21 07:35 PM
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Sure. You're talking about being insulted by your wife's s-test, and *in particular* because she's doing it around your anniversary. What you clearly don't understand is that when women s-test their men it's not governed by the laws of respect, honour, and decency. It is governed by her wanting you to prove to her that you are a man capable of leading her. The harder the s-test she throws at you, the bigger the opportunity to prove your frame by passing them. The fact that you are doubly insulte…
/r/askMRP11/09/21 09:54 PM
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Why are you capitalising 'a' in 'anniversary'? You've done that twice now. Something smells... You are insulted because you are treating her like she's a man, you haven't unplugged yourself yet. Yes it's disrespectful, but women don't care about respect or honour like a man does. They care about having the sexiest, most exciting, highest value man who doesn't feel threatened by her little tests and who doesn't need her to keep on functioning. Don't you understand yet? Do you think it's an accide…
/r/askMRP11/09/21 08:52 PM
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"I know she's testing me." "I set this boundary" "Should I enforce the boundary?" ​ You're posting to get validation for the obvious answer. You shouldn't be afraid of her leaving you. If she doesn't want to join in on your awesome life, then you can go and enjoy it without her. You are completely in her frame by even worrying about how she'll react to it.
/r/askMRP11/09/21 08:06 PM
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If you're telling the truth - respectable. Go read the sidebar to learn about the intersection of the truths within RP and how they connect with Christianity.
/r/RPChristians17/08/21 04:08 PM
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How much do you bench?
/r/RPChristians17/08/21 04:04 PM
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Why would you come to a forum of Christians who actually believe what they preach and ask for advice on which denomination best fits your aesthetic? ​ Reforming your connection with God is not a bonus, it is absolutely essential and the first priority. ​ Since you want a wife and family, ask yourself this: Is it true or false that my children will one day be judged for their moral character and choices? If it's true, can I justify bringing them into existence when their primary influence will be…
/r/RPChristians06/05/21 11:20 AM
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