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She is shaming your lack of emotional intelligence and/or ability. Not your fault, you’re doing the best you can. Definitely time to leave tho, since she clearly cant see that.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 02:10 AM
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It's not, it's just accurate. If they are not female, they should tell you. You're not a mind reader.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 05:41 PM
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I think a more accurate description would be that masculine is to lead, feminine is to experience naively. Which often means women end up a victim of life.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/22 10:01 PM
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Aye, at some point these things are soft indicators for personality disorders. Not values or w/e
/r/MensRights31/03/22 11:16 AM
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Reminds me of that quote: He who says he can and he who says he cant, are both usually right.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/22 11:17 PM
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The lies continue :p
/r/MensRights12/02/22 06:17 PM
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Toxic narc “friends”, they use you as a punching bag. Leave and let them use each other.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 04:36 PM
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Im sure this somehow will make women the primary group that suffers from this the “inconvenience” most. /s
/r/MensRights27/01/22 02:05 PM
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That’s rough man, i commend you for sticking with her and the relationship. As long as you can handle the drain/strain it’s good.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 01:46 PM
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Lol you need to 1) read up on statistics and 2) talk to non alpha male looking men about that. Im sure bit tough guys dont have anything to fear. We small dudes are under way different set of dangers than women. Not less abusive or lethal. Get your head out of your gynocentric ass.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 01:43 PM
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Funny, i had to see a psychologist for years of emotional and physical abuse. From my mother. It scares me that i can say all i do without even projecting that trauma now. I can tell you, i feared for my life. Hence the trauma. It means something is off with just demonizing men, if that is done then certainly women deserve the same demonization. Just a different segment of women compared to men.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 01:41 PM
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This is such a silly set of arguments. Men also cant walk alone at night, they still do however. Im talking armed robbery, the expectation we intervene if some random person does get assaulted risking our lives (otherwise we’re labelled cowards, etc. There is a difference. Men just choose to be more vigilant, proactive and cautious. That’s why women always seem “surprised” that things happen. They sound like a man walking into a warzone without a bulletproof vest and a target on his vuest, simpl…
/r/MensRights27/01/22 09:56 AM
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Thanks for your valuable contribution and insight. You are exactly part of the society that helps keep these toxic views intact. Get a grip.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 09:52 AM
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Mention that you were afraid to bring up the issue before hand. Most women understand emotion better than logic. Also mention that having male safe spaces does not mean having less female safe space. It’s not a competition, but a human right.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 08:12 AM
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Their main goal is to destroy the tradcon wife image, not much about tradcon men. That’s what allows women to still demand those traits in relationships. If they truly wanted equality, it would mean in other regimes as well. Think garbagemen/person, electricians, plumbers, etc. Women just want equality in the fun things. Rights to have white collar jobs, no responsibilities for a “shitty” job. I just hope more men refuse to do the dirty work. Let women fill up that gap as more men become nurses,…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 07:50 AM
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It’s only due to many women’s unwillingness to look at facts. She got out of shape, fat, etc. You didnt. And she’s the problem for fun and healthy activities. Solution in her selfish mind: lets lower the bar to unhealthy (and possibly shame even worse people on TV). Solution of a grownup: Let’s look at myself first. I recon she probably faulted you for any lack of affection/attraction, even though her laziness and lack of respect for her partner got her body into that mess.
/r/MensRights18/01/22 12:23 PM
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I been there mate. High school (young people in general) can be brutal. Just focus on yourself and try to make friends outside school. Places like volunteer centers will put you in touch with more grownups that can show you normal behaviour.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 09:26 AM
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Depends on the family, spouse is a definite no go when it comes to pity parties. What I mean by pity party is: Out of control complaining about instead acting on a problem.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:43 PM
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Are you familiar with the term ‘splitting’? You seem to do it a lot.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:42 PM
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It’s cute you believe or even experienced that. Sadly it’s not factual. The main reason i know this, is cuz i work in the mental healthcare field and most men that come to us describe exactly this problem. It might be different in your culture tho.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:40 PM
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There is such a thing as nature and nurture. Im not sure why my comment warranted a personal attack, but i guess that’s how you argue.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:38 PM
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Totally your projection. I would never. I would however tell him the consequences of crying too much in public or sharing his hardships with more than best friends. People avoid men who show even the faintest sign of a pity party. In spite of it being a cry for help.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:37 PM
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Dear god, why arent there more people like you, who can see the person behind the situation? Sad that the majority is always more worried about their reputation than what’s hard or wrong.
/r/MensRights08/01/22 02:28 PM
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11 month and 8 month kids? She was pregnant for 3 months for the last kid or she got pregnant 3 months after giving birth? Why with abusive guys, i’ll never understand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 12:49 PM
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It’s not just reddit. It’s a new form of communism-dictatorship. If you dont get along with extreme leftist politics (go woke) you get cancelled. Ironically they fight perceived oppression with real oppression.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 12:46 PM
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Read again mate, i said “not too much”. Everything needs balance, specially romantic love.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 08:06 PM
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I think the same process holds for all genders and humans in general: look at what they do, not what they say. Someone saying ‘oh sorry i lied about me doing thing X at time Y when you thought i was doing something else based on my lies’. This is something people say when they get caught. No point “coming clean” after youve already been outed. So dont listen to people talk, watch people do. Things like “im gonna work out” means nothing compared to someone going to the gym that day and not tellin…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 03:24 PM
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Just love how you equate 'not being a dick in your eyes in reddit comments' to 'getting far in life'. The only reason I'm on reddit during the day on a Wednesday is cuz i'm retired at 38 and online drama is a guilty pleasure. Also, look up the definition of morality and re-read your post to find lots of it. Specially the part where you claim your advice is worthy, but the rest of us should be ignored, based on your judgement (morality-related). I even wonder why you're here if you think no one h…
/r/MensRights05/01/22 04:57 PM
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Depends on how smart your kid is. The safest would be to not let him watch too much disney(like) crap, so he doesnt get romantic ideas in his head about love or relationships/women(or whatever SO they choose). If he asks about marriage etc, be honest about statistics and risks when it comes to divorce. It’s like santaclaus, you dont want a 30 yo still believing in that shit If he turns out altruistic (read uber simp), tell him earning alot of money will allow him to “help” more people. At least …
/r/MensRights04/01/22 06:35 AM
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Yeah, they have to do that in order to invalidate your opinion. Otherwise it would look bad if other women support men, then they can't use the 'men vs women' argument anymore. It would mean they have to admit that they might be a minority that's just bitter and loves to judge all men based on their own shitty experiences with men (which is usually a function of manifestation, e.g. looking for bad boy characteristics and being surprised they screw you over). It's not dissimilar to dehumanisation…
/r/MensRights02/01/22 03:42 PM
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Imma frame this comment above my bed.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 04:06 AM
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The morality king has spoken!
/r/MensRights01/01/22 11:17 PM
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Yeah, im curious to hear dad’s side too.
/r/MensRights01/01/22 11:14 PM
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Classic woman. Not good at conflicts, so removes them from the equation instead of applying herself and learning. Also sounds like a perfectionist. I bet she actively brags about your achievements as “her son”. I would be curious to find out if your mom groomed your dad. Meaning she looked for a guy who was weak willed enough that she could ditch with a “i dont want you in the picture” story. Also, have you asked your dad’s side of the story?
/r/MensRights01/01/22 11:10 PM
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Next time the men’s toilet is occupied, stand in front of the desk and fart. Until they ask you to use the women’s bathroom. Fuck them.
/r/MensRights01/01/22 10:54 PM
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Are you purposefully disagreeing or do you just want to be right?
/r/MensRights30/12/21 10:43 AM
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Seen this! Didnt put two and two together tho, thanks!
/r/MensRights29/12/21 09:57 PM
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I feel you’re going on a tangent. Capitalism =/= quality of life or standard of living. Completely different concepts, can be mutually exclusive and QoL can be highly subjective.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 09:56 PM
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Haha, I don't ever want to have kids for many reasons, but I do teach. What I'm saying is THESE rewards are wrong, go and read it again. The positive feedback should be 'great job' for every day the kid devotes time to the actual practice. Not the fake reward at the end. It's about shifting the reward type from goal-oriented materialistic, to process oriented verbal.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:23 AM
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I think your last sentence sums up the last 20 years of development of the west. If not the last 70.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:18 AM
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That and capitalism. The people who created dating apps obviously thought that online markets were the next big thing in dating/matches, or that taboo's belonged online. I doubt they knew in advance how good it would be for women (access to sex 24/7), all sharing the top 20% guys or so, leaving the other 80% in the dust in their scarcity (again, societal capitalism at work). It's just a result of development. I think about it this way: The onlyfans founder is probably the smartest man of our era…
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:14 AM
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Haha, well I'm just giving my two cents. just for reference: Capitalism "An economic and political system in which a country's trade and industry are controlled by private owners for profit, rather than by the state." You can also be the part in here that gets profit, rather than give away yours. That's what I mean by thinking small. even your interpretation of capitalism is to be the little guy living a purely ephemeral lifestyle. I hope it serves you well tho, it didn't for me. Hence the chang…
/r/MensRights29/12/21 10:57 AM
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Yeah, exactly. The point is that personality is kinda like an unlit room, where SMV is the light that shows the size, decoration, etc of that room. Now that I have SMV, all of a sudden I get feedback on personality things that I never got before (e.g. you're such a talented piano player, boy you're good at math!). I find it interesting that people, who seemingly hate men like vinnyx4, always assume that somehow I was an asshole if I didnt' have luck with women in the past, which is 100 % not the…
/r/MensRights29/12/21 10:54 AM
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Lmao, okay i guess you're not here to discuss, rather to judge. You do you man.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 10:47 AM
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Children are just a form of legacy to me. If you have that need, go have kids or build a fortune 500 company. Just dont expect the marriage to last. Focus on being a parent. If you want play a “dad” role bit of disseminating knowledge without a woman, adopt. Alternatively become a teacher, does the same thing but for the world instead of just yourself. Money is always better alone, hands down lower expenses and better spending pattern. Love is a tricky question. The greek had 5 or so terms for l…
/r/MensRights29/12/21 10:06 AM
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Im not sure I understand the relation between that segment and your comment. Mind elaborating?
/r/MensRights28/12/21 05:06 PM
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What do you disagree with, I dont think I really made any statements. If you mean my last sentence, that was a joke. Hence the hashtag. I get the verbally point, but i really hate fake trophy's with a passion. I think part of the issue stems from handing out participation trophy's (or diploma's). I would bet my left ball that women take more pride in receiving said trophy's than men. For men I know and myself, there is nothing more prideful than to be good at something and, consequently, win thr…
/r/MensRights28/12/21 04:51 PM
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Women have sex for many reasons, most of which are emotional. Sometimes to cheer themselves up, sometimes cuz they’re in the mood, sometimes because they pity the guy asking for sex, sometimes to punish themselves, punish their husbands by sleeping with their friend, breaking up with their bf by branchswinging instead of confronting him, sleeping to get someone to marry them for their money/comfort, sometimes when it’s their time of the month, or when their bf got them an expensive thoughtful gi…
/r/MensRights28/12/21 04:31 PM
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This woman is a genius. First part of her life: create problems for future males, basically making up her job. Second part of her life: solve problems she helped create. It’s like being someone’s drug dealer and addict-support program manager, at the same time. Clearly a privileged woman.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 04:22 PM
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Love that he starts with the blood on the floor, instead of the knife in his back.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 04:12 PM
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It only hurts people if it has a basis of truth to begin with. The basis being: you care what others think of you :)
/r/MensRights28/12/21 04:10 PM
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Reminds me of Chris Rock's joke about afro-americans (he uses a different word) saying shit like "I take care of my kids", to which he replies: "You're supposed to, you dumb mofo!" When the basics become achievements, standards go down. That's a result of the participation trophy generation. #sadface Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B0B\_ekSrsEk
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:41 PM
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You're thinking too small, who says that you need to spend money to live a good life? Enjoy the little things ;) Also saving is not the same as investing, that goes way beyond. What might be interesting, is to think about a distribution of your disposable income. Say this example: 20 % in savings, 20 % in investments, 30 % into mortgage/rent, 30 % on every day life (i mean, food, gas, water, electricity and luxuries) ​ That way you also teach yourself that your main priority is not to be a consu…
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:38 PM
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Interesting take from my comment. Short answer is: No. Long answer is: I used to, because.. I come from a family that traveled a lot, and not a single country I been too, women picked shorter boys/men over taller. Initially I thought I was biased, and as a shorter man (than average), I always felt something was wrong with me. Until I read scientific articles about things like height, socio-economic status and other traits. The main takeaway was: Men are always taller than women in every country …
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:17 PM
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Yeah it’s like a pie chart, just gotta remove some of the pie to leave space for your personality or interests. Gotta test the real waters. Best example are people like superman, Henry Cavil. Just because of his status, looks and deep voice etc, women will look past “the warhammer” thing. In spite it being his biggest and foremost hobby. That’s the bias I try to take out if the equation.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 10:51 AM
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Agreed, it’s never 100%, but i like to weed out the parts where its 100% money.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 10:47 AM
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I just tell women i’m broke, but working on my dreams. It filters the bad. No one needs to know my bank account or portfolio. And they’re better off, cuz women usually lack the self-awareness when it comes to “liking” someone. Instead of analyzing their own biases (ie he has money, so i can live a comfortable life, he’s tall and makes me feel physically safe, etc) they will never pick you for you. What i mean by that is that women rarely know their type at a young age. Tall but abusive, cute but…
/r/MensRights28/12/21 10:42 AM
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Yes, too much projection and not enough self-awareness. That is a hard skill to learn. Honestly i think every person would live better lives if they were obliged to spend one week per year alone, observing their needs, desires and biases. It’s such a useful method to weed out unhappiness.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 01:35 PM
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Yeah, this is the biggest shift since the nuclear family in the west. We all have to learn to be happy alone, first. Then we get used to never having to set boundaries or knowing what its like to live with other grownups. Since there is no more shame in leaving, only in staying in relationships nowadays. The grit of a long marriage has bled out, people rather have an easy life alone, than a life full of companionship, with hardships of communication. I think social media and dating platforms hel…
/r/MensRights27/12/21 01:14 PM
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Yeah, this is the biggest shift since the nuclear family in the west. We all have to learn to be happy alone, first. Then we get used to never having to set boundaries or knowing what its like to live with other grownups. Since there is no more shame in leaving, only in staying in relationships nowadays. The grit of a long marriage has bled out, people rather have an easy life alone, than a life full of companionship, with hardships of communication. I think social media and dating platforms hel…
/r/MensRights27/12/21 01:14 PM
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Well that’s for young females/people to decide. I just focus on my needs and how society works for me. It helps if you have no kids or a wish to be a parent of course. Living a happy life (till death do us part) is a lot to expect from a person nowadays. Even for me, who identifies as a hopeless romantic, once looking for the love of my life. I just focus on my love of the day now. That love is only defined by my values, long term plans, things that bring me joy/peace, which do not include other…
/r/MensRights27/12/21 01:01 PM
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Np man, i just always keep in mind that: A man’s loyalty is tested when he has everything, a woman’s loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. It means that men who have everything are often wanted by many, thus giving rise to abundance and showing how loyal he can be based on his values. For women, traditionally, that would be hypergamy, since it has little to do with their own achievements. This is only based on the science that all men are attracted to youthful aspects of women; thus puttin…
/r/MensRights27/12/21 12:48 PM
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Only unsuccessful men’s sexuality is frowned upon, because it is unwanted. Succesful men are only judged on their faithfulness, because they have options.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 12:42 PM
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Merry christmas!
/r/MensRights24/12/21 08:30 PM
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It's also why society works as it does, men are always looked at with malice and women with reverence, on average. It would be great seeing men be more thoughtful in their actions, as to not reveal more than needed in the future, so women will automatically display more of their awful characteristics (read: human traits) and society at large will treat them as such, instead of as glorified child saints. Doesn't hold for all women of course, lots of good ones out there. Just like there are lots o…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/21 08:24 PM
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What makes you think i dont live my life? ;) My focus is just on myself instead of society. No skin in the game. People on my level are quite easy to filter out IRL. They feel no need to prove themselves to anyone and care not about what others think. Which also isnt required since they also have no attachments to society, which can way you down, get you false rape allegations, divorce rape, you name it.
/r/MensRights21/12/21 11:33 AM
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Lets say you’re right. How would you replace money or capitalism (which can pertain to more concepts than just money.)
/r/MensRights21/12/21 11:15 AM
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This is why i love working the stock market. All you can do as a man that does not fit the perfect bill, is make “fuck you money” and watch it all burn. It’s easier to laugh at a failing system if you have a million dollar in your bank account. That is basically my tip: focus on things that are outside of prejudice and social judgement, ie making money on stocks requires no validation or discussion with said society.
/r/MensRights21/12/21 07:53 AM
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Geez, this sounds f'd up. I'd say go back in time and don't get involved, or why you should even hack herFB. Not many good stories out of canada that bode well for men around women that hate men. Any chance of moving to a different country? 5000 dollars is a lot of money man, what did you talk to the lawyer about before you handed that over? A contract? Any way of getting it back? Not how it works where I come from. I would spend any additional dollars to get the hell out of there and relocate t…
/r/MensRights20/12/21 05:38 PM
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FDS is just sad, lazy, affluent women, compared to the rest of the world. You think a person in a poor country has time to read some obscure biased reddit page, when their family is starving if they dont work 6-7 days a week? Let alone owning a computer or a smartphone. If you’re looking for a normal woman, look for one that can be at peace without her phone. That’s a key sign of a grown-up personality right there.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 11:34 AM
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Its not mind control, it’s people voluntarily involving themselves in things (like watching porn, youtube, movies, etc) that warps their perspective. Or rather, shape it wrongly as they grow up without prior reference, unlike growing up on a farm without internet and then moving to new york. A wise man once said: what you get involved with, you get infected with. Be it thoughts, convictions or people. The trick is to realize you are the common factor. Your choices, that require your responsibili…
/r/MensRights20/12/21 11:30 AM
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Lol who made this bot? So toxic.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 10:35 AM
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Dual mating strategy. <3
/r/BlackPillScience16/12/21 03:14 PM
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Imagine living in a desert, everyone's thirsty. But you're an independent woman who will make her money selling wooden chairs, in spite of everyone looking for a glass of cold water, and because they can all make their own furniture so naturally no one cares about who can make furniture. If you're thinking 'that doesnt make sense', that's correct. That is also the dating world strategy of feminism indoctrinated women in 2000s and beyond.
/r/BlackPillScience16/12/21 03:13 PM
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you ever heard men argue about who's wife earns more? Never. Only about looks. Now for women, they argue about everything: Career, car, house, looks, the list goes on. That's society. So it's really women who make it tough for women who don't reject men who earn less. It's not a man's issue. Men are very simple and clear in what they want, women just make shit up as they go along to define their self worth (if they're not career-oriented).
/r/BlackPillScience16/12/21 03:09 PM
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A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything, a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. Simple as that.
/r/BlackPillScience16/12/21 03:06 PM
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This made me giggle. If anything, society expects men to outperform, out-earn, out-height, out-everything in comparison with any woman he's with. Never even heard women mention anything along the lines of 'if only I had a less capable, shorter, poorer, (Fill in non-alpha traits) SO'. It's called hypergamy, all female animals display this behaviour.
/r/BlackPillScience16/12/21 03:05 PM
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Next real crisis that requires footsoldiers and personal sacrifice.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 02:15 PM
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I have one rule for marriage: Only to women richer than me. But we all know women rarely accept that scenario.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 01:42 PM
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Seems short :-o I bet she toned it down from 50.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/11/21 05:20 AM
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Just tell them: Your life must be hard. And it is, not just because they live in their head, but also because they are constantly judging themselves and others while maintaining a worldview that is most likely adopted. It’s like mentally spinning plates in a circus, but not being good at it. All for the desire to be socially accepted. If anything, they will get hurt by themselves when they realize how much time they wasted fighting other people’s battles. And not even worthy ones at that. Also, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 07:49 AM
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You’re blinded by statistics. If you have access and time to spend on Reddit, you already belong to the 1% top of the world. Im talking top 20% locally. Sure there will always be 1 uberchad in your area. But you can be the number 1 in many areas he’s not. Your worth is not just defined by height, good looks, or other genetic traits. Look at it this way: women find 99% of men on dating platform not worth “dating” (read: sex or husband material). You can however approach women from husband (BB) fr…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/21 04:32 PM
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Look at it like feedback. If 1/100 is enough for you, go waste time on 99 attempts. Or spend that time on other processes that attract women to you (always 100% hitrate in that case). While you reach your goals.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/21 03:36 PM
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Can agree, this book helped me clarify my life. At 38. Shit is a huge advantage if you read it even earlier in life. If not, hopefully before you pass your prime
/r/TheRedPill24/10/21 03:34 PM
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Yeah man, share the enthusiasm. No need to testify for the uninitiated, they will have to learn on their own. Plus, do you really want competition? ;)
/r/TheRedPill24/10/21 03:32 PM
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I was using pareto for simplicity. But definitely an alternative is to become one of the 1%. It’s not just rich handsome guys, ripped groomed guys too. That latter you can control.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/21 02:56 PM
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Time to look up statistics ;) The problem is that 80 % women hook up with 20% of men. The other men (and their lonely, loveless, affectionless lives) are invisible to women. So women who are promiscuous, naturally project their experiences with AF on average guys, believing they fucked around as much as they did themselves. It’s a simple unfair treatment by society as a whole, the AF wont settle, so women keep lining up and thinking they have a shot at a relationship after being plowed. Other me…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/21 05:54 AM
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Translate to non-feminist perspective: women with too high standards avoid men that are ready to procreate since high school.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 10:45 AM
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It doesnt allow then to play the identity victim card, it would be like Jews in camps having to admit that many nazi’s were ok people. Except that fake feminists have no evidence of sleights.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 03:07 PM
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I think they’re referring to statistics, not anecdotal stories.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 02:17 PM
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I think what you describe is half right. If you have values, you can hold frame for those given values. But you can have frame without values, like “fake it till you make it”. You cant have values without frame. Otherwise your values are unprotected. Meaning you stand for nothing. So frame supersedes values imo. Frame is about sticking to your guns, whatever they are, and not letting others shake you (mentally, emotionally). Values are just things that most people adopt from parents, only few de…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/21 02:10 PM
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Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 08:01 AM
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This was a harsh comment, but cuts to the core without the steps needed. Take your time with the mental health first: you cant build any lifestyle off an unhealthy mind(set). It’s like you work in a storage facility, where everything weighs 50kgs, but you can only lift 30. The gym can help. Requires time and dedication. You need to exercise your mind in the same way, when you’re ready, so you can take on challenges in life - like fighting for how you want to live. Helps to meditate on things, sp…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 07:10 AM
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Thanks for sharing, it’s hard but it helps. Not sure where you at right now in the process. But admitting to things you couldve done differently, recognizing your impact will def help. The rest is out of your control, so just accept it. No need to focus on blaming this woman(or all evil cunts like her) for shit that is just in their nature. Big hug man, you’re not alone in this. Learn about paragraphs, writing long pieces of text, etc. You seem to have a firm grasp on data dumping (not a good th…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 07:03 AM
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Well dealbreaker for me is: Her lying about having sex after getting married - pretending to care. She playing you like a fiddle. Even if she was a HB 6/10, banging 4 guys is something women do the first year they have sex. No way did she make it to late 20s as a virgin (sorry, that bit made me laugh so hard). Like the top post said: accept the world as it is, it’s all about expectation management. You expected something impossible/improbable, and got disappointed. Holds for every facet in life,…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/21 03:46 AM
2

Sounds like it’s time to stop this job. Take care of yourself. You still have a whole life ahead of you!
/r/TheRedPill18/09/21 06:16 AM
1

Can they call it what it is for once: rape?
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/21 06:05 PM
2

TL:DR: chase excellence, not women.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/21 05:31 PM
3

This is the content that proves the power of this community. Self-sustaining and brotherly aid. Thanks 🙏
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 05:30 PM
1

I would agree, werent it for the fact that other women silently agree instead of speak out against actions of these “feminists”.
/r/MensRights11/08/21 04:43 PM
12

It’s the classic: Men do something new, useful and unique, women want to join and ruin it.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 04:11 PM
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Ironically the worst commercials are the best PR.
/r/MGTOW226/07/21 03:18 PM
3

RP minimalist here; planning to go MGTOW when i can no longer pull 20somethings for sex and fundates. My main gamechangers were to figure out my priorities in my mid thirties. Actually listing them and curbing anything that is just superfluous or cut down time i need to spend on shit I only do for social convention (ie buy 10 cans of the same deodorant, gel, socks, shirts, pants, anything that costs me one of my decision moments -of which there are limited ones per day). This left immense time a…
/r/MGTOW218/07/21 07:30 PM
2

Agreed. Many dont choose the road of more resistance.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 12:27 PM
4

This feels like a reverse-hamster of responsibility. Even the insects in my living room got motivated to improve after I read this post out loud. “Yes, I can’t, right now. Im working on it tho!” Should be the only complaint possible. Most guys with these other excuses are probably stuck in the belief that there is someone special out there for them, who accepts them for who they are, for whom they do not have to change or put in effort, blah blah. Women logic 101, also lazy logic. ‘Men become, w…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 09:56 AM
1

You know a woman sees you as equal when she also asks you when you leave her place, to go home. Should be normal for it to go both ways.
/r/MensRights03/07/21 09:20 AM
2

Yeah its about picking your battles, and i only battle for what I value nowadays. Other people can sort their own battles. Unless im inclined to help for my own satisfaction or money ;)
/r/MGTOW202/07/21 03:04 PM
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I have had similar experiences. I always called it assumption of malice. As a child it was because of my skin color. People would treat me different from my caucasian friends. They’d be kinder, forgiving, etc. Meanwhile I’d be hounded and judged for doing nothing. People just project their prejudice at a target of blame. Cuz that’s easier than getting to know me. Now, as a grown man, i dont take shit from people just for being a man. Any moment i sense any form of antagonism purely because of my…
/r/MGTOW228/06/21 07:06 AM
3

The best response: I’m sorry that made you feel insecure, who hurt you?
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 03:12 PM
3

Well things diverge, for me the RP concept and all its spinoffs are like religions. A lot of m stem from certain origins, like Abrahamic religion. Not a theist myself, but the concept is the same. Similarly there are incels, mgtows, red pills, purple pill, fds. etc. Its of course more grey than black or white. I just know its easier to compartementalize. Afaik mgtow has always been more “divert from society”, hence the logo. The term “their own way” is also interpreted as separate, for me. While…
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 01:04 PM
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Yeah, the biggest hurdle will always be one’s ego. To have to accept that no woman will gladly parade around with you (to show other women their catch). As a short dude you have an obligation to make yourself happy, now and in the future. It’s kinda like being a tall, heterosexual fat woman, I suspect. Then again, simps gonna simp. There’s just no such thing as a female simp taking in a broke, depressed man. Unless he looks like (and is of course famous like) Brad Pitt or Justin Bieber. There is…
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 12:52 PM
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Ah yeah, egocentrism is a given, but I attribute that to the fact that women are more emotional. So their issues always seem more urgent and feel more important. This also makes them more ephemeral and equally unimportant in the long run. Unless your life can be an endless chain of unburdened fun. But we cant all live like children our whole lives.
/r/MensRights25/06/21 12:50 PM
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100% accurate. If i’m not funny or charming, i have to be rich or famous. Hard to be balanced if you’ve been taught to be emotionally neutral and kept in a pigeonhole your youth/adolescence. Either way, you have to have at least something you bring to the table. Rarely will your “quirky personality” be enough. Unless that personality comes with 1000000 fans, a big mansion or just a gazillion bucks. There has to be proof that you bring something to the table as a man, women bring their personalit…
/r/MensRights25/06/21 09:20 AM
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Because Red Pill isnt MGTOW. RP is about surviving in a female-centric society. MGTOW is about giving up on that fight and choosing peace. That’s why RP has aspects of monk mode, but MGTOW is fulltime monkmode.
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 07:55 AM
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Came here to say this. Just focus on you, pride and respect needs to be earned by short people like us. Then You can hire the 6” guy as your plumber, personal trainer or body guard. Your biggest advantage is their overconfidence for having gotten lucky with the genetic lottery. Your advantage is being able to go invisible to the world and work on you. As the saying goes: The most beautiful flowers grow in adversity. That’s you, you beautiful flower! Now go do the work that your future self will …
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 07:19 AM
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Society is afraid that more men might step out and birthrates go down. Meaning less people to slave for future generations and companies will go under if the economy suffers due to that. It will destabilize many countries’ economies depending on the impact. My guess is that feminism will pull back in a decade or so, once people realize how they’re pushing away men. Unless enough simps (these terms are another reason people hate mgtow/red pill) stand up to father babies and raise other men’s kids…
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 06:39 AM
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You can be an entrepreneur of your own startup. Some people dont have that drive to be Alpha, just to find peace. Which often includes not having to fight to just be able to make choices or just to have peace of mind.
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 06:29 AM
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It’s up to people to feel offended or not, nothing to do with perceived rudeness. And i assume you’re talking about individuals’ accounts of remembering past lives? Hardly evidence for reincarnation. Rather more reason to explore how much media and our current environment affects people and their experiences. Feel free to post sources if you have them.
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 06:43 PM
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Thanks for the laugh :D
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 06:23 PM
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Indeed. Agree to disagree. But many theists cant leave it at that, because in their head they’re right. I always say that I believe what i can understand. Ezpeasy.
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 02:08 PM
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Can concur. 10/10 post. Most of the human population believes in things like “connection”, afterlife, heaven, reincarnation, etc. These views are not just unfounded, but those people also delusional if they’re not open to other interpretations or options. The fun part is that their convictions do not allow them to look past the prison of their religious or spiritual views. Moreover, To believe something is the baseline, so of course believing what you see, ie people dying and other people stop c…
/r/MGTOW223/06/21 05:41 AM
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Locals.com and other websites will be the new go-to things. SJWs and White knights can stay here with the women, errr people that destroyed a solid platform. Then, when other platforms get cool again, because they focus on content and not on style, migration will start up again and we’ll be stuck with more BS again. And then the cycle repeats.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 10:14 PM
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Its just a natural bias which favors the bold (read socially less anxious and hot). Main issue is that most women wont know men like m unless they make eye contact or hit on them. The best results are always achieved through the law of big numbers. For 1/1000 chance you gotta ask 1000 ladies, for 1/10.. etc. All i know is that asking 0 ladies = 0 chance. Unless you somehow know a woman that has been your friend for years, who realizes, after many shitty relationships, that her best friend might …
/r/MensRights20/06/21 02:54 PM
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There’s a simple mantra we use at the suicide hotline for shy/closed people: If you want to share your life, you have to share your life. It simply means that you gotta learn how to share, without making it feel like a datadump. Might help to start asking friends how they’re doing first. Some people arent willing to share or just say “fine”. Those arent the easiest to reciprocate to with long stories, though you can try of course. Main thing to remember is that most things in your head are bigge…
/r/MensRights20/06/21 02:47 PM
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Lovely writeup, goes without saying that these frame exercises go hand in hand with a good lift and well-dressed foundation. A man has to be many things to get one woman’s attention, only because he needs to be liked by all other women as well, in order for any single woman to find him attractive.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/21 02:25 PM
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It’s also something that comes from research, women express more emotions, men feel deeper/more. The key is to find your way of letting out. Some do sports, others write, etc. Bottling up works for no one. If your mind feels like a jail, you are your own jailer.
/r/MensRights09/06/21 09:07 PM
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It’s got nothing to do with fault, it’s self care. If you hurt your foot, you see a doctor. If you hurt your teeth, see a dentist. Hurt your feels/heart/brain, see a therapist. Simple as that. Same statistics apply to all forms of aid seeking when it comes to us men. I know, i used to be like that. Always wanted to be strong and do or fix everything myself. That’s about being responsible for yourself first, no one else will (if you’re a man.)
/r/MensRights09/06/21 08:30 PM
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Yeah it starts with equal upbringing. Let women bottle up emotions for a generation, see how that works out.
/r/MensRights09/06/21 08:27 PM
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Suicide prevention hotline employee here. In our part of the world almost 85% of incoming calls and chats are women. Men just dont share, partially culturally bound. Women fail at committing suicide a lot though, which i guess is a good thing. Would be better if no one did or tried it of course.
/r/MensRights07/06/21 04:39 PM
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TL;DR: dont use dating apps, go for cold approach ;) Thanks for write up tho 💪
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 04:24 PM
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Great journey, great post. Thanks for sharing and stay the course 💪
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 05:35 AM
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I feel ya. It’s like blind people in a museum telling everyone how to interpret a colorful painting. Except these blind people think they can see and majored in being a PA instead of anything worth doing 🤡🌎
/r/MGTOW205/06/21 05:32 AM
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Can recommend it too, helped a lot in getting me a promotion at work and managing other people/npc’s, including my managers
/r/MGTOW204/06/21 04:31 PM
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This deserves more likes for the dose of realism.
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 05:43 AM
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It’s victim role playing. Their targets of blame change, depending on the situation.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/21 05:38 AM
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Stealth is wealth. Same goes for all things you do. Focus on yourself, never reveal your intentions or wealth to anyone. It’s not strange to be a monk, yet invisible. Used to be you had to be religious and find god to have that calmness at a monestary. Now you can just make your own money and be quasi-independent from society. In time you’ll find new passions to enjoy and new goals to attain ;)
/r/MGTOW228/05/21 09:51 PM
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Read my original reply and then re-read your replies. I’m sure you’re intelligent enough to find the flaw in your reasoning. Or call it miscommunication.
/r/MGTOW228/05/21 05:58 PM
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You assume men have no flaws? Im not gonna debate over research intepretation, you somehow see everything black and white. Im talking “on average”. Meaning women have certain tendencies, as do men. You presume X to be negative, while in fact its a survival mechanism (meaning super positive). It has its downsides in current society tho. So it is like a blindspot. Men have different blind spots. That’s what these forums are about. I doubt that’s why your here, given your toxic bias.
/r/MGTOW228/05/21 04:47 PM
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Lmao, bargaining isnt about sexism. It’s about what research points out. Women are simply more agreeable, thus argue less, thus avoid conflict (like negotiating for pay). There is a reason all career coaches ive been to, tell me the thing they practice most with (already succesful) women, is tough conversations that require taking a stance and arguing your value as an employee. If you think that’s sexist, you dont understand statistics. But that’s besides the point that men still do all the work…
/r/MGTOW228/05/21 02:32 PM
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You say that like men aren’t doing most of the work there. Maybe watch more porn and write down some statistics for yourself. Big chance they also bargain more for their salary, like all men globally ;)
/r/MGTOW226/05/21 05:47 PM
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In the end, everyone does their thing. I would start a forum where guys just do success posts. Sort of with crossfit. Everyone has personal goals, but you do it together. Like “today i caught a .. fish this big!” Or “New PR at 100lbs!” Etc And leave out the RP rage phase and women hating. Make it all about post-rage posts.
/r/MGTOW220/05/21 08:48 AM
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That’s what brothers are for. Thanks for sharing your request 🙏
/r/MGTOW220/05/21 08:38 AM
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Laughed but also learned something. Nice examples. Like the reframing as a tool, just dont get lost in it of course :) Dont forget to baseline it with AWALT at all times. Kudos!
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 08:25 AM
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Avoid women would work additionally. Unless you want to indulge. For me they are amplification of my baseline. Of you really struggle, aim for post nut clarity until you find a goal the can overpower your feelings of horniness. What i mean is: jerk off every morning if need be. See your need for sex (not intimacy, just sex) as a woman’s need to have children around the epiphany phase; she feels like she is entitled to quenching that thirst for motherhood. Similarly your natural drive is to procr…
/r/MGTOW220/05/21 08:21 AM
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Specifically for this reason. I felt a decrease in negative self-perception (as im no longer wasting time comparing my real self to digital others) and increase in my output in sidehussle (coaching business). Freed up time and made me better. Both making approaches less anxious and more fun. Win-win-win.
/r/MGTOW214/05/21 04:17 PM
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Im all for FDS to stay on. More RP triggers the better, but the fact that they’re not quarantined shows how unequal this platform can be.
/r/MGTOW214/05/21 11:24 AM
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Same reason as why im posting a tardy reply: Focus on your goals. Everything else is secondary. I sense your question relates more to relationships than plate spinning. But i’ll try to answer from my perspective (1 LTR, 1 plate). Women can sense if your goal is just to get laid/desperate. It’s vital to know your own worth, what your time is worth and your personal values. And dont be afraid with cordoning those off verbally. Might take some time to be comfortable giving those boundaries. They ei…
/r/MGTOW214/05/21 11:13 AM
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This def depends on the relationship between you two. No point in hiding your (sexual) intentions with a plate. Just fine tune your social game and you’ll be fine. And dont date women that dont want sex, soft next and move on.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 08:01 AM
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Seems more like someone defending FDS. I’m not on this forum all about hating women. Yet FDS is just red pill rage for women, but with added flare of shaming men 24/7. It’s definitely unfair that subs like red pill or mgtow get shadow bans and quarantine, while FDS lives on without scrutiny. I thought that was obvious Hence the troll question.
/r/MGTOW213/05/21 06:37 AM
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Are you a troll?
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 04:44 PM
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Yeah but FDS is pure hate against men, yet they can be online. So it shouldnt matter, even IF mgtow was hate against women.
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 03:32 PM
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Mjght be good to make a new sub (way of the intercepting monk?) something fun/catchy. And just make your own side bar and rules. I’d ban anything related to women, since that should not be a topic. Leave the red pill ragers behind.
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 05:31 AM
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Part of developing game. Different ages require different approaches probably. I just filter them on two things: positive response (read: solid and fun comebacks) to banter and healthy bmi. The banter is both a measure of intelligence and maturity. Postwall women usually hate banter and see it as childish. This is due to them taking life way too serious now that their options dwindled. So great all-round filtering system ;)
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 10:13 PM
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That’s why older women, who dont work on themselves, often come across as desperate postwall. As a man you should never let it pass either, it’s like climbing a mountain; then the height determines how long the fun slide downhill will be later in life. So start working on your future. Today! ;)
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 01:41 PM
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I sense red pill rage in this post. Just give yourself some time to allow for the realization, that the world is even more unfair now, to settle in. Then accept it and start moving on. It’s a blow to the ego to know some people get everything thrown on their lap. Here’s your advantage tho: you know it and you see the simps. Just focus on you and when you hit a comfy 30s with your own place, fit mind+body and a career, simps cant compete with you. Just do you, with passion. Women will come. Take …
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 12:33 PM
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Well it’s up to him to find or not find that. For now it’s making bank and staying healthy. It’s a challenge to find meaning in life, if meaning is all you live for.
/r/MGTOW206/05/21 06:40 AM
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Perhaps start with why. Why cant your focus? Why is that subject distracting you? What would it mean to you if that problem was solved today? And question your motives for studying: Why are you studying at all? How come these tests are not a higher priority? Is it just you wanting pussy or is it your worldview? Or is it that this study just isnt your passion at all?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/21 07:33 AM
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This kind of rant from women is just as hilarious as non-arian people from 1940-45, who arent Jewish but fit hitlers shitlist, complaining that hitler only picks on jews. Like, do you want him to focus on you? Shut up. And mind your damn business. #sarcasm #darkhumor #womenwontgetit #toosoon
/r/MGTOW227/04/21 05:28 PM
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Liking this post vibe. Urges will subside with hormone reduction later in life, as well as with mindset/focus. It’s very appearant when you look at how rich/successful people cheat. They’re busy with their goals and purpose, but literally get seduced back to plantation ville. Some rich star fucks his cleaning lady, some president fucks his assistant. It’s all “this is available right now.” So really not abundance, unless they feel bulletproof of course. They just ignored the urge for so long whi…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 10:43 AM
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You mean if you were the weakest among your peers, you’d feel the same, not worse?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/21 11:12 PM
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This feels like an nice exercise in philosophical analysis. I think often it helps to pose questions to make people think. Giving answers, even tho it sells well, isnt usually the best or most necessary answer. It entirely depends on the phase in life and mindset the receiver is in. It’s like the socratic conversation. I often feel Rollo’s old posts contain a lot of rethorical questions, which sometimes get answered by RP rage stage guys, who are looking for quick solutions to long term problems…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/21 05:27 AM
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I think this is mostly about associations. When you say to yourself: “Im going to be alone tonight.” How does that make you feel? Do you feel “Fuck yeah! No one to tell me what to do!” or do you think: “Fuck, im alone.”? In both cases you can ask yourself: why ad infinitum? Soon enough you will find your values and belief system. Then the hard questions start: are these my beliefs? Why? Have fun 🤩
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 06:43 PM
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Realness. Much appreciated and verily loved.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 06:39 PM
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I made this mistake on a daily basis. Still fall into this trap at work at times. Even if you have the last word (and are coincidentally right) she will simply reset her opinion the next day. Better to pick your battles and not argue with people who argue for argument’s sake. Rather save it for people who argue to improve themselves or their perspective. In the best and most productive case you’re both open to being wrong and argue because you care about truth, not about being right, being ackno…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/21 10:24 AM
2

Mate, where can I buy your book?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/21 04:43 PM
2

I see we’re having a level-minded discussion over here 👀
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 07:54 AM
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What is bad? You accomplished your main goal: taking care of yourself. Something bullies rarely learn. Im grateful to my childhood bullies, specially since some of them already died due to lungcancer from smoking too much or traffic accidents. Others simply live a sad lonely life. They showed me how not to live.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 05:29 AM
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You dont have much experience if you dont ;) Women’s emotions, specially younger ones, can be swayed with solid (text) game. The first word you type to a woman usually says enough.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/21 02:31 PM
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Im raised a logician. If women dont like dick, then your height is not even relevant. Not talking about sex or shape or size. Text game is only valid for our phone generation. I dont use dating apps, but many women do. Fixed it.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/21 02:53 PM
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Oh i meant “dick- yes/no” not anything related to size or shape. Cuz if shes not interested in dick, your height dont matter. Otherwise data points out that height is the #1 factor. By a long shot. Even more interesting, the height of men in your vicinity affects this even more. Meaning that for every inch you’re shorter than the tallest guy in the room, you lose 4-5% attraction (would have to look up the exact number, but it was in that ball park.) So never go out with your tall mates, unless y…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/21 02:43 PM
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Oh yeah, I mean i’m a man of science so i would love to see the numbers for actual conclusions. But this is just my perception based on experience of myself and friends. Which automatically makes my perspective biased AF :)
/r/TheRedPill18/03/21 02:42 PM
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What I tried to explain in my post, is that what you describe is very, very rare. That's why I like to be verbatim with my thoughts, so i'd suggest reading it all of course to prevent miscommunication. So if you find this paragraph too long, i'd say go back to my original reply ;) I feel like the concept you talk about, that some men are like those women you describe (the ones that look for specific types of men), are actually the exceptional ones. Most guys dont have this level of SMV, time or …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 10:23 PM
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Im 100% certain Arnold's cheating was for the same reason as Bill Clinton's cheating: She was available. It's just the pickings of busy men, who influence and build our world while creating things. Pretty sure this is how the top tier looking women function as well, too many dicks so they filter on the biggest discriminating factors first then narrow down with the last 100 guys (Dick > Height > Facial features > Rippednesss > (Text game for millennials with meetup anxiety) > etc). They have the …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 09:22 PM
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Yeah, it's not 100 % truth we're professing here, but you have to take into account how the sexual market place works and how socioeconomic status is not the same for men as it is for women. Nowadays many beta guys still look for that one woman that is their first and only love, while female peers ride the CC in their 20-early 30s. Then when 30something betas bloom financially and garner attention and power to attract 20somethings, their female post-wall peers look for their Nth and final love t…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 08:57 PM
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This comment needs more likes.
/r/MGTOW213/03/21 07:21 AM
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Sad but familiar story. Glad you left! 💪
/r/MGTOW213/03/21 07:18 AM
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Time to start a men-only company ;) To be honest it’s al about self-esteem and self-confidence. Your whole reply can be read as a defeatist argument. Depending on how you define success and then go ask the real question: why? Why does it matter if you’re gonna die virgin? Have you really tried everything, including women you find unattractive, but could fuck? Serious question because if virginity is the problem, sex is the solution. Then maybe the realization that it might be something else, set…
/r/MGTOW211/03/21 01:36 PM
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Perhaps if their mom abandoned them when they were young, cuz she wanted to marry the pool boy and be a free independent woman who does not need men, accountability or responsibility! 🤔
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 12:55 PM
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Philosophy by definition means people that love knowledge. Knowledge is often equated to truth. Many women hate confronting facts or mirrors to their behavior and long term life choices, but love acting purely on every whimsical emotions and then sewing it together with rationalisation, cherry picking all the good events. It would be like looking at Nazi germany’s history and deduce: “Hey, they made roads n stuff!” RP/MGTOW is about one deep feeling (or emotion) of being betrayed/hurt/used as a …
/r/MGTOW224/02/21 12:51 PM
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If someone calls me a 1/10, i’d feel bad enough as it is 😆
/r/MGTOW219/02/21 01:52 PM
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Ah, sounds like a simpland. I guess women are also overrepresented in police “speakers” force with the media, but not on the street? It’s so silly since many developed countries have forgotten what crime is really like, it happens in seconds, not minutes or hours. What’s the police response time there?
/r/MGTOW217/02/21 03:04 PM
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Not sure if you’re being serious or not, but obviously i’m posting this in this sub for a reason. Perhaps i shouldve flaired it as “joke”, “humor” or “meme”.
/r/MGTOW217/02/21 09:43 AM
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Nope, welcome to the world!
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 09:11 PM
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Yeah, his username seems to check out. I'm not sure what this post has to do with incels tho, if it weren't for his username. You do know what incel stands for, right?
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 09:08 PM
2

18* i was working fast and lazily 🤨
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 02:25 PM
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Yeah, but it’s more about the specific terminology. Love that there are similarities even in these basic aspects.
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 01:15 PM
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The wall is the entire area from 30 to N/A. As it differs per person (or woman in this case.) But it might seem like i drew a fixed line at 30, that was miscommunication on my part then. Ive met 62 yo’s that look and are sexy (carry themselves and take care of themselves really well) bangable, so for me the range is not so limited.
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 01:13 PM
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Also, I agree with the CC replacement. Pump and Dump is just a term used when stock (in this case hotness, meaning how hot women are, not how they see themselves) is inflated synthetically. Ie, they might bed 10s in their mind, but in reality the 10s bed them with no intention to go long term. Their ego still holds on to that idea that they were “worth a 10”. Hence the bag holding.
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 01:11 PM
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Bag holding means that you are holding on to stock which’s price is in a declining trend with no forseable or possible rise in the future. So in this case the hotness declines, while they reject okay/good men. In the meantime these okay/good men find other suitors who arent coming from the inflation high.
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 01:08 PM
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You are assuming this cost me more than 30 seconds to draw and think up or that I do this regularly. It’s just hilarious how many trading terms apply to the same manner of trying to understand the unpredictable 🤡
/r/MGTOW216/02/21 11:50 AM
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I think in general you want to look at self-sufficiency, based on your desires/needs and baseline. So your todo/focus list could look something like this: financial independence > personal wellbeing/health > independent living space > hobby’s or work that makes you happy > sexual freedom/dating if needed > leftover priorities. Then focus on figuring out what those mean to you in practice. E.g. wellbeing could be eating habits, meditation, sleep pattern and financial independence could be active …
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 10:30 PM
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Look up the consequences of long term drinking first. But i drink two glasses a week and feel like it’s a lot. 38 yo tho. Not into binging anymore ;) Just make sure you hydrate enough, for someone your size, 2-3 liters (0,5 a gallon?) should be minimum. Helps with alleviating the alcohol poisoning as well as preventing overeating if you keep your stomach somewhat filled with 0-calories liquid. That last part is just a bonus 👍🏻
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 09:54 PM
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No no, he’s been playing “the victim” this week 😏
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 09:50 PM
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Writing a business plan! God it’s such a nice thing to work on something intensely for a week and then look back to see how much you learned going through the process. It’s like a small study session with actual life skills as a reward 🙏
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 09:50 PM
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Men cant red pill/mgtow men, women do. By acting like the entitled generation they are. Your friend just needs to hit enough walls to want to take it. Try not to be an evangelist about it, just do your thing and be happy doing it. That’ll show him that it’s better perhaps, instead of saying it.
/r/MGTOW215/02/21 08:50 AM
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It’s actually 10 % luck, 20% skill, 15% concentrated power of will. 5% pleasure, 50% pain.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 02:36 PM
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Nice, thanks for the example! i’m getting into finance too lately, with just long term investing. And of course a steady income job. That said, i’m just building from the ground up. I’m still trying to find a good balance for the coming years, so curious how others spend their time and attention. I hope to pick up a thing or two. My main goal at the moment is to have a solid baseline, as if I had to rely on myself. That might come across as perfection, but to me it’s more like developing of a se…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 01:19 PM
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I think the main issue is that it’s online. Just as youtube comment sections can be toxic, so are “feminists” online in their judgement and power. I assume this is due to a lot of big socially oriented corp., with a majority of female users or with morals/freedom that could potentially fear backlashes from “feminist”, are at risk of being deleted by cancel culture. This is lead by online opinion forming/propaganda, so all forums/thinktanks/male safespaces/etc that go against that culture are dee…
/r/MGTOW203/02/21 11:35 AM
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Read up on the 5 basic fears. Many ppl posting response, like english shame/embarrassment, to you the same. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/brainsnacks/201203/the-only-5-fears-we-all-share%3Famp
/r/MGTOW230/01/21 04:30 PM
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Thank F for ageing. At some age your lower brain is more inactive and leaves time to view the world more clearly. The only trick is to not get married or have kids before that time. I’d advice most men to just focus on career and wealth building until 30 at least. Dont chase figments of your childish imagination until the veil is pulled away to reveal you were the hot blonde in a 90s horror movie being taken for a ride by some emotional vampire until death.
/r/MGTOW229/01/21 08:32 PM
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Just focus on yourself till your early 30s, then reap what you sow. It’s much more fun dating 20somethings when you have 10 years more life experience... and money/status ;)
/r/MensRights20/01/21 07:11 PM
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Yeah man, totally agree. This is why travelling abroad and interacting with local culture there is crucial to showing other alternatives of living and behaving. It’s like seeing instead of reading different stories or methods - options. As a famous quote states: travel is fatal to bigotry, ignorance, etc. Whether that is mentally or physically.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/21 04:18 PM
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It's interesting to look at it from this way, I also read this book and the sequel by the way. So I wonder what you do with this knowledge. If you hang on to 'there is no free will', how can you take responsibility for any actions? Or is taking responsibility also something you do compulsively? How can we even blame people for anything if all their actions are not their own? It makes no sense. I think this is something that's good to realise though, as the brain has several important functions. …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/21 12:52 PM
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Research also backs this up. Specifically goalsetting when it comes to for example suicide (when you want people to talk about it to prevent them from executing the planning) or more positive goals (where you DONT want to talk about it to delay satisfaction or gratification). It’s quite interesting to see that the same principle can be used for both positive and negative direction.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/21 11:03 AM
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I always tell women, now that im 35+, rich and fit, that my value shouldnt depend on my sexual future. Just extrapolating their logic. Works flawlessly when you’re in the lead with SMV.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 03:50 PM
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Helps to audit your time for a week or month. Just excel it, 24 hours per day. Be honest and accurate (one topic per hour max), then make a pie chart at the end. That got me off my ass.
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 09:05 PM
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Where can i buy your book?
/r/MGTOW224/12/20 03:02 PM
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Oh my. Hating on people that are already suffering because of your beliefs and thinking it’ll solve the problem. Class act. Or maybe they just complaining. I’m sure that wokeness will help solve the actual underlying issues... Meanwhile, we enjoy life with meaningful hobbies, friends and family. Stay happy and on your path, folks. No need to give in to tyranny.
/r/MensRights23/12/20 07:30 PM
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This needs more upvotes. Also, keep on trucking :) And remember: “Haters gonna hate” - Gandalf the Witty in X-men of the Caribbean.
/r/MGTOW223/12/20 07:20 PM
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“Easy choices, hard life” or “hard choices, easy life”.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 10:59 AM
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Nice writeup, i also realised that just focussing on numbers (5x5) is great for starting up and learning the basics. Now im on 3 days cardio and different weightlifting till failure (key element) 3 other days. It’s a pitfall to stop increasing (or changing) reps or weight if growing (vs showing) is your goal, injuries aside. Main thing i found out is the complexity and benefit of rowing. Just on the machine. Sticking to the Wolverine format lately (2 kilometers in 7 minutes, three-four times a w…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 10:08 AM
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Same goes for most men when it comes to women. They didnt just ban simp on twitch for no reason. Never mind that their platform also caters to young boys that just hit puberty. Onlyfans too is one of those platforms that squeezes naive men for all their worth. No one cares.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/20 10:19 PM
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Yeah, you’re describing the difference between people that are agreeable and not. Most ‘naturals’ are self-centered, focused on their goals and thus disagree with everyone who does not walk in their frame. My take on it, is just that we are hopeless romantics that fooled ourselves by telling ourselves a story. A story that was a delusion telling us that one woman was different from aaaaaall the others. Someone we can trust and love. Someone who loves us... Someone who’s ours. Our ... precious. G…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/20 10:15 PM
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Very nicely written! I recon most people wait for supporting roles to fill in their storyline. Not realising that most movies come from or are based on individuals that proactively chase rational goals in life, other than just emotional highs.
/r/MGTOW205/12/20 03:22 AM
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Yeah i think the TL;DR is: thanks for keeping me off the plantation. It really helps to clarify the system behind societal pressure and expectations. Then it becomes easy to see your potential role in it. Or the subservient one that they try to push on you.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 05:32 PM
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There are quite a few studies to support this. It mostly relates to relative height. Women mostly prefer guys taller than themselves. Also loads related to in reference to other available guys (at a given party, class, job, etc.) So for short guys (<6 foot): dont hit on tall girls and dont stand right next to tall guys when you can avoid it.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 04:24 PM
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Statistics are harder than Chinese language sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 04:22 PM
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It’s sad to see how even de UN social media muppets manage to turn men’s day into a ‘shaming men for women’ day.
/r/MensRights21/11/20 11:37 AM
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It always feels like an ‘us (RP) vs them (BP)’ story in the comments. Try to recognize that it’s a spectrum. Not everyone is 100% BP or RP. Sometimes it’s hard to let go or concepts like marriage, even if your brain tells you: this is bad for you. Simple exercise that might elucidate my point: fold your arms as if you’re being defensive. Then unfold then and fold them again, but this time the other arm on top. This might feel weird. That’s cuz it’s a habit for everyone to have 1 way, a preferenc…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 07:20 AM
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Ah i love stories with adversity and a happy and wise ending <3
/r/MGTOW201/11/20 01:44 PM
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Shame :0
/r/MGTOW230/10/20 08:56 AM
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*Simpson. The bible almost had it right.
/r/MGTOW230/10/20 08:48 AM
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I used to have this feeling a lot, until i realized being older is the same as living today. Even with marriage or a relationship, there is no such guarantee. The only thing you can rely on is the skill that makes you not feel alone today. And to be able to apply that when you get old. It’s not some goal for later. It might help to look at how to tackle loneliness you experience right now, rather than be stuck in a time that is impossible to predict. Also, most people are codependent: meaning th…
/r/MGTOW226/10/20 09:49 PM
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Im sure it also could also be explained in an epicurean vs stoic manner. Or simply by saying men live with a past and future perspective, women with a ephemeral view. Making any rational choices moot for most women, since temporary emotions rule the direction of their life. This makes rationality all the more important for men, who utilize cause and effect to apply learning curves. Basically one view implies control over time/life, while the other is always trapped in the now. No interconnection…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 09:41 PM
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Wholesome level: over 9000.
/r/MGTOW226/10/20 05:10 PM
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Wait, this is not a misogyny sub? But what about placating to the stereotype other subs give us? Who can they blame for all the trouble in the world if we start behaving? But yeah, 100% what you said. Careful tho; mods might ban your realistic feedback 👀
/r/MGTOW226/10/20 04:10 PM
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Aye, i just throw random introspection or self-reflection articles at m. I know they’ll never change, but now is my time to be a selfish cunt for a change ;) Small tip of the hat to “the virtue of selfishness”.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 03:24 PM
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First step is realizing something is wrong. Then comes ownership and change 💪
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 03:23 PM
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Yeah helps to go “no contact” with family that is just a negative influence. You can laugh and have fun with friends too. Parents are just a bonus and a privilege when they’re understanding and actually loving, instead of controlling and overbearing. No reason to stay in touch and endure their misery, unless you’re feeling guilt tripped and shamed into staying in contact of course. You’re not their property. You’re a human being with feelings, experience and preferences. They just have to learn …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 07:11 AM
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Can confirm. Learned a lot about casual conversations in blue collar jobs. Often during breaks i was “introverted” and read a book. But i often got the feedback from people while working, that I seem open, flirtatious, funny, confident, etc. Eventhough I wasnt doing any of those things intentionally. Just making conversation to practice above average small talk. I hate talking about the weather. Key things are usually push and pull. Works every damn time, unless someone has a real issue going on…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/20 12:51 PM
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This is mindblowingly awesome. When’s the kickstarter coming?
/r/MGTOW210/10/20 09:04 AM
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I just do this with female colleagues. They function as my testboard for smv progression, etc. It’s the best way to find yourself the feedback you need to improve. And selfies with them, specially smiling hot young ones, does wonders. Also wear a shirt that shows your gains. Hard earned biceps with definition on men are like ez mode cleavage on women.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 03:38 PM
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This reminds me of an episode of second date updates. The whole feminist movement is a Shit test
/r/MGTOW201/10/20 07:04 PM
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NLP link, basically all levels interact, and te top 2 are basically internal/invisible. The rest is more obvious and easier to fix/change. NLP concept here
/r/TheRedPill25/09/20 09:50 AM
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I think you’re already doing the most important thing: 1) introspection and 2) follow-up action to change. I’d suggest writing down your new long term goals, perhaps use a method like NLP. Main reason i did this, was because I realized that after RP my whole identity, mission, goals, beliefs, etc were shattered and needed replacing. Basically rewriting my source code. NLP is a way to approach it. Other options could be like the Ikigai concept, 12 rules for life, etc. Just follow your journey dir…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/20 09:48 AM
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Jesus, they interviewed you as a minor without parents present? That’s so manipulative. Yet another double standard. Imagine the genders reversed and a little 11yo girl being “interviewed” and judged and questioned. Waterworks and leniency would ensue. Parents would be called. Etc. And people wonder why so many men grow up “acting tough” /smh
/r/MensRights23/09/20 06:44 AM
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No need to klink shame here ppl. If you know how a brain responds to hormones, you’d be kink shaming yourself first for guilty pleasures and satisfactions from reading and interacting with this sub. No one is without issues, only the delusional.
/r/MGTOW212/09/20 10:31 AM
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Yeah man, its not about getting over her. It’s about getting over oneself. And recognising that you’re telling yourself a story... with an unhappy ending. Step 1 of many.
/r/MGTOW212/09/20 10:28 AM
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Yeah, sometimes we need that bad boy experience to boost self esteem enough so we can start to create things that last. If you’re doing anything just to impress others, whatever that is will make you hollow in the long run.
/r/MGTOW210/09/20 09:42 AM
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I like that in every complaint lies the answer: eat and train well so you can get attention! Would love to see more progression pics in this sub, rather than just the comfy women hating. I think it’s like 100 “women suck” post for every 1 “look what i did/achieved today as a men going his own way!” nowadays. I mean, we get it. Maybe time for better flair? Let’s change the stereotype, men!
/r/MGTOW01/09/20 03:26 PM
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Dont worry about it too much, artificial wombs will be here in 20 years. Laws will change, men will finally get equality in parenthood/conception matters. Will be nice to live in a time where both parents get 100% certainty that it’s their child at least. Also coincidentally the same time im waiting till i get my first child.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 02:49 PM
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Lmao and its such a BS argument. 50% chance they’d get a short girl, which is a huge advantage. Heightism on the female account aside, your mate made the right choice. Gotta have something in life to be proud of, if not a marriage, kids or a partner. Dignity and 350k/y go a long way together :)
/r/MGTOW01/09/20 02:21 PM
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The term “feminism” in modernday movements, is the used with the same utility as the word “humane” in “humane rape”.
/r/MGTOW01/09/20 02:12 PM
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Its cuz women think it’s a sign of losers. They would love to just order take out the rest of their life, get wine and dined. I bet most get no satisfaction out of cooking either. Why would you if you got simps on tinder paying your meals? Im 100% sure there are women scoring 1-2 meals per day via dates, using men a few times for their money. The nexting the poor sob.
/r/MGTOW230/08/20 11:29 AM
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Tried to build a card house over a long period of time, twice. Got cheated on/dumped. Twice. Time to use one card at a time and keep shuffling the pack. Way less stress and more time for things that are reliable. The peace is the biggest reason tho. Done with entitled BS.
/r/MGTOW30/08/20 11:09 AM
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Of course, after the initial one it's basically going in the 'fun' direction. But only because Bobby took it lightheartedly. He hides his frustration well. His statement is very clear tho. Just because he doesn't throw a tantrum or freaks the hell out at someone for laughing at him admitting being abused by someone else, is commendable in and on itself. It's also a sign of a lot of experience with being offended and handling it like a champ. I definitely agree that both parties handled it correc…
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 01:29 PM
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Yeah, it's often the background of people that even go into comedy. It's often a cooping mechanism turned into a way of earning money. I'm sure the Joker would say: If you're good at something, don't do it for free.
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 01:24 PM
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Love how this is categorised under “living” not “hypergamy”.
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 09:25 AM
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Yes, give in to anger and frustration, let the dark side of red pill rage take over your body. It’s okay, for now. FDS are mostly entitled little girls who been hurt .. by their own choices, not much different than us. Except some of us now focus on our own lives and personal growth. Hope you can let the hatred go soon <3
/r/MGTOW29/08/20 09:24 AM
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And Leo ;)
/r/MGTOW229/08/20 09:17 AM
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It’s the same as with all con artists or magicians, they hate it when whistleblowers telll everyone it’s not magic and there’s a science to it. Takes away any air of mystery, misplaced complacency/respect and chance of being enslaved.
/r/MGTOW229/08/20 08:52 AM
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Self-confidence is something you have, subconsciously. It’s not the same as using handles to get good at dating. Those are just there to give you confidence to pick up girls. That’s the whole point. Just dont tell the noobies ;) Real game happens when you dont just act like you’re good enough, but you feel and know that you are. It will change how you act and how you are perceived. That’s why the only difference between successful and unsuccessful guys, is the lack of the fear of failing or bein…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/20 02:53 PM
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Imagine the following scenario: If you get married, you have to sign a contract that each of you contribute 50 % of the income, or split it up while married however you want (say one person quits their job, the other works double shifts), but after a divorce you have to still contribute 50 %, at least starting x months after said divorce. This would either keep both parties on their toes, career-wise or damn well keep them together out of fear of having to work if you're the stay-at-home part. N…
/r/MGTOW227/08/20 03:47 PM
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I think you’re doing a good job trying to find out, it shows mature willingness to learn. Again, why lots of ppl are here and proof that ppl can be open to change. Very hopeful :) I hope you find your way to happiness along the way, with or without a partner!
/r/MGTOW226/08/20 08:50 PM
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Reading your 'edit' makes me wonder if this post is going to be read, but i'll leave my 2 cents anyway. First off, thanks for sharing. It must be hard. He might be making a big mistake, potentially leaving The Love Of His Life<sup>TM</sup> or he might be walking away out of fear from things like future divorce (35-40% chance in many places), given the plethora of bad stories given in MGTOW or other manosphere (read: male safe space) communities. To only, really embrace a singular lifestyle of a …
/r/MGTOW226/08/20 07:51 PM
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Wew, ironically, these type of highly biased articles shaming men and painting them as “evil”, is the reason these subs will see an increase in the near future. This is a fight that will be won by attrition and logic. Men that use logic to walk out and create said attrition. More importantly: She isnt getting the man she wants, so all men are assholes.
/r/MGTOW226/08/20 04:15 PM
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This sounds like a woman or a white knight/BB/orbiter not aware of their own perspective. If there are people whose sole purpose is to financially support and play emotional punching bag for a relationship, there will be people using said people as a resource (generator) and punching bag. Chicken, egg. MGTOW is about breaking the cycle, whoever started it.
/r/MGTOW226/08/20 12:45 PM
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A bit more respectful language would go a long way ;) But yeah, it is also the stubbornness of people to change themselves, sometimes on the basis of narcissism or entitlement, that creates this polar landscape. Imagine as a guy you would wear high heeled boots, contact lenses, dye your hair, get muscle implants, etc, just to get a date with a woman. Then who are you in all this? It’s totally falling into other people’s frame. At the same time tho, there might be a factual difference in both loo…
/r/MGTOW25/08/20 03:14 PM
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Ah yes, well that is also media. Just think of where you see these examples. And who these examples are. Most healthy, balanced and centered people are “boring” for TV/entertainment. So perception is warped the moment any media content is used as an example or anecdote. That’s also a big issue. Go to a church or meet people the old way (if that is remotely possible), and older morals and value probably follow. Also more mental stability. I think this is why travelling is so important, specifical…
/r/MGTOW225/08/20 03:00 PM
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I had a similar epiphany after reading “the virtue of selfishness”. Written by a true feminist: Ayn Rand. Someone who held the standard for any person stuck in a submissive, victimrole. Very interesting read, would recommend for further reading if you’re into more philosophy :)
/r/MGTOW25/08/20 02:02 PM
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Agreed. I checked a few months back for 2000-2020 timeframe. The divorce/marriage ratio is around 0.35-0.50. This means that for every 2-3 marriages there is 1 divorce. This holds for most countries where i live (Europe). But it follows very well in other westernized societies where personal freedom supersedes tradcon family structure (like imposed by organized religion or other cultural groups/norms with a set of collective values). So in an individualizes culture, one has to ask if marriage is…
/r/MGTOW225/08/20 01:56 PM
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Yep, imagine this combo “toxic femininity”. George Carlin had a great bit on language. Examples like: Humane rape. There is no such thing. Feminists weaponize language like dictators do #godwin
/r/MensRights25/08/20 11:16 AM
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Marriage is like any agreement with a contract. All you need to do is inform yourself of the consequences if it fails. Which is ironically not why ppl marry, it is usually focussed on hope that it succeeds. Stats are still in favor of it succeeding, but ask yourself if you are in the succeeding or failing group. For example: marriage in which the man is more attractive than the woman fail more often, but women end most marriages with husband they perceive as less attractive after a longer period…
/r/MGTOW225/08/20 11:13 AM
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Is this sarcasm? OP’s original posts seems honest and kind, but his/her reaction to comments sounds like a bitter door-to-door faith salesperson who’s religion got rejected. Quite the opposite of what was preached. Hard to tell. I do agree on the fact that some people in this and many other subs/internet, need to spend more time finding compassion for themselves and the collateral internal damage from struggles with their own hardships. Instead of raging. There isnt a one-self-help-fits-all, but…
/r/MGTOW225/08/20 10:28 AM
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Imagine the “minimally XX% of women in a company board (cushy white collar)” law that is in place in some European countries, to be applied in those blue collar areas. Feminists would change their tune from demanding male privilege/equality to oppression in a heartbeat. Comes to show you that for those in privileged position, true equality is experienced as oppression 🤭 Edit: im all for a follow-up movement that claims another xx% of positions for non-binary, at the expense of both women/men. Se…
/r/MensRights25/08/20 09:30 AM
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It does indicate a main off-sub focus, but in the end I, for one, come here for the lols, enjoying the decline (its signs are spread out over the web) and the glorious posts of people going their own way - similar to this guy: https://youtu.be/wrTDJbaxhOI Perhaps we need more positive examples of actual men/people going their own way, in order to make this sub more productive rather than an echo chamber that thrives on hating on women. That’s not for me to decide tho, since it’s not my sub. Thou…
/r/MGTOW224/08/20 11:59 AM
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So many good ideas here, but the real question is: what do you want? NLP or Maslow’s pyramid helped me sort my shit out. Not everything is easy to fix, but at least you can figure out why you’re not happy, right now. And start changing the course. Might help to spend this time analyzing your thoughts. Buy or use a jotter and a pen, write down what keeps your mind busy (or makes it go crazy). Specially at night if you cant get to sleep. Id recommend starting a routine. A simple half hour daily ro…
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 11:47 PM
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Great man; I guess nothing to ass but: awesome, come out of this quarantine even stronger than before :)
/r/MGTOW227/03/20 11:44 PM
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Good job mate! No need to talk down your progress by comparing to what others define healthy. You are not a statistic. Just keep doing what you’re doing and your progress will be more appetizing to your ambition than sugar laced foods. Might help to keep a weekly vlog (for yourself mostly), to keep track of your progress and maybe spot some negative thought patterns you have. Kinda like a cheap version of mental health care. Pointless to train the body of you leave your head without a coach :)
/r/MGTOW227/03/20 12:21 PM
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Thanks for the reply. It’s def great to move from a backseat to a driver seat. Time flies, but who’s steering the airplane, right?
/r/MGTOW05/03/20 03:23 PM
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Pride also is a good thing to point out, my dad never got himself checked, cuz he assumed nothing could be wrong.
/r/MGTOW05/03/20 10:58 AM
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Only way from rockbottom is up :) Or like they say in japan: fall 7 times, get up 8 times! Congrats on the amazing news!
/r/MGTOW05/03/20 10:56 AM
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Sounds like you’re having issues setting boundaries. People only get away with disrespecting you if you allow it. If that results in a burnt bridge, I would suggest checking with your ego why that bridge was built in the first place. Cuz usually that leads to the reason why you care enough to think and post about it. If you truly are going MGTOW or however you want to define a self-reliant lifestyle, these bonds are not something to cling to. So somewhere deep down you probably crave them, then …
/r/MGTOW229/02/20 05:31 PM
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Feminism: “And who fired those bombs?! Men!! Man bad, vewy beeeehd!”
/r/MGTOW04/02/20 02:14 PM
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It's ironic that this is the type of behaviour that comes with the onset of dictatorial regimes. In this case not far right, but far left. It's sad to see, specially because of the reasons mentioned by the OP. As if the only thing MGTOW stood for is hating women, that just shows the lack of insight and interest (in men). It's simply an ignorant judgement call, very, very troubling. I do expect them to ban other subs like FDS, which is the mirrored/copied version of any PUA/RP-like blog, except i…
/r/MGTOW01/02/20 12:17 PM
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This :)
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 10:57 AM
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It’s a great waste of time, mate. They are simply a counterculture to our counterculture (which is based on experience). So just enjoy lurking or ignore it. As some of the most biased posts here are generalizing, so are almost all of theirs. Except that we are men and they are women, often blaming the opposite sex. That’s not the original reason men come here. This is not a dating sub, just a reminder do be awesome, do your thing and sometimes share shit that occurred aka past pains. The whole p…
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 10:52 AM
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No prob! im only just learning more about loci of focus. Specifically, to let go of things i cannot control or change. Sometimes the mind is aware, but the heart isnt ready for the leap :)
/r/MGTOW28/01/20 10:33 AM
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This is very sad to hear man, must be a punch in the gut. In spite of being a bit more aware of what can come. Emotions are like that. If you need someone to talk to, pm me man. No one should go through that shit alone. Big hug in the meantime!
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 12:03 PM
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Maybe just stories of why existing members are here. They work better than FDS spam, since our stories are real.
/r/MGTOW26/01/20 11:52 AM
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This.
/r/MGTOW26/01/20 11:51 AM
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Perhaps we need a “all the BS women in FDS post” sub? ;)
/r/MGTOW26/01/20 11:50 AM
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There are two kinds of people: those who put people into groups and those who do not. The whole point of subreddits is making these groups. MGTOW is just one of them, and going “our own way”, should mean not minding other people’s business. If sharing and talking about what other people do, specifically women in another sub, that’s just underlining the reason why people came here. Once here the point is not to regress into the state before this group. That’s what most dont get and why content qu…
/r/MGTOW26/01/20 11:49 AM
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Perhaps some good philosophy vids might get your meaning-engine running. Maybe start with a TED talk by Stephen Cave? I found this one very enlightening: The four stories we tell ourselves about death.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 11:00 AM
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This reads like someone who stared into the abyss and didnt blink... after a tour abroad. Seems harsh that this still happens in “developed” countries, i can imagine you went through some lonely and solitary shit mate. Hats of for fighting for your right to exist and to share this story. Though nothing teaches self-reliance like being actually self-reliant. If only to dispell the illusion of other people’s feigned altruism or good-heartedness towords actual strangers. I thought the good news was…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 11:06 AM
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There is this silly quote going around: He who makes a mistake and does not see it, made two. Im glad you’re sticking to just the initial one :D Keep up the good work!
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 12:07 PM
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When I was a kid, i was like this all the time. And didnt get why ppl got angry, when you point out the obvious. People dont like it when you tell them the truth to their face, nor accept it. Specially the emotional ones. It really is a blessing to be able to recognise when ppl go offroad so you know when you’ve gotten your point across. Saves so much energy and time :)
/r/MGTOW29/12/19 09:16 PM
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It's weird, i'm in a similar position, but still having plates which solve that problem you talk about. I also found I mostly enjoy conversation with women almost twice my age (70+), since they seem more rational and less obsessed with things like social media or 'what their friends from high school are doing which they cannot or have not yet done'. The only thing I crave for is adequate conversational partners. Thank science for the internet! As you say that you occassionally miss sex/intimacy,…
/r/MGTOW21/12/19 10:27 AM
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This will be the most common answer from women reading your post: "But that's different!" Since logic only works their way when applied by hamster wheel.
/r/MGTOW21/12/19 10:14 AM
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A real woman will date an ugly man without money and accept him as if he were ... wait, i can't type this out with a straight face. Good laugh though, thanks!
/r/MGTOW21/12/19 10:12 AM
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The irony being that if a man has low self-esteem etc, his n-count does not increase. Quite the opposite in fact. The best reverse-psych thing you can do, is ask how many more she is going to date, and make sure your number is 10 x that when she asks. Specially after 30, lets see who’s “insecure” then ;)
/r/MGTOW20/12/19 11:04 AM
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This used to vex me as a kid, even had nightmares about not fitting in. Now i only feel pity when they comment negatively (feigned banter) on my lifestyle. The freedom of having missed out is hard to ignore. Now imma start enjoying life :) Them going through marriage/children problems seems like karmic justice, even though i do not wish them pain or anything. Specifically since most do not recall their hurtful comments. It’s like they just did it to ease their emotions or assert their dominance …
/r/MGTOW26/11/19 09:32 AM
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Of course not everyone can, if they have your mindset ;) My point was that the others are NOT monetizable for sure. I think streaming, like any form of entertainment, is all about knowing and finding your niche. Like all entertainers you need audience. Hence not everyone can be entertainers. The idea to monetize anything is really the idealism that drives capitalists tho.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:17 AM
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These are cooping mechanisms for mental/physical issues. At least gaming you can monetize! That would be viable advice at least ;)
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 10:42 AM
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Its relative. She will know 100% certainty that she is losing her touch. Less (high quality) guys coming up to her, etc. The more solipsistic, the clearer the contrast between now and 10 years ago. Imagine if what OP says is true considering her being well endowed. The amount of attention she got at 21 was probably internet-famous status (500+ likes on all her bikini/selfie posts). Whereas now she only gets 350. What happened? Of course guys will see it differently, since most get 10-25 likes, i…
/r/MGTOW11/11/19 07:59 AM
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Turning to yourself for everything is also a great way of realizing you were always alone in the first place. At some point in your life it’s just a great way to filter friends from acquaintances. I think this is why many fear leaving the place they were born in. Fear of separation from society, fear of ego death, etc. And the harsh confrontation that without that environment; their job, their house, their spouse, they have no clue who they are. Gyow is not just a statement, it’s the biggest cha…
/r/MGTOW30/10/19 07:39 AM
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Nice analysis! I think it’s cleanly bottomlined with a simple proverb like: Fall down 7 times, get up 8 times :) As a guy, there is like a 95% chance you are going to experience rejection every day you engage in society, specifically the dating scene. Specifically hard to endure if your high school etc experience was a 100 % rejection rate. That’s the biggest (mental) bump to overcome. Then you can learn from failure, as you said. Meanwhile always working on your SMV in whatever way in the backg…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 10:27 AM
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r/raisedbynarcisists Was blown away when I found this sub. Some of the stories read like my life. Often stories about mothers more so than dads, for some reason..
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 08:50 AM
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My guess is that the car was used to keep up with the Joneses, one of them being the new hubby.
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 08:45 AM
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It's curious, but when the mother of my best friend passed away from cancer (and complications) last year, the first thing that went through my head was: why not my mom? So self-centered and angry. It annoys me that it's still an issue, this old relationship with my mom. I think it stems from the feeling that I cannot start truly living unless she is gone. Long story. At the same time I was really sad for losing someone who had been like a surrogate mother to me. Even went with her to chemo, sca…
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 08:43 AM
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You would if it was one without a controlling, nagging and clingy woman 👩 Congrats on the license!
/r/MGTOW21/10/19 07:43 AM
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The same is true for ppl living anywhere tbh :) Our world is still experiencing contemporary culturalism at its finest.
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 11:40 AM
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This is exactly what MGTOW is about. Litterally going your own way. Lovin it!
/r/MGTOW11/10/19 11:36 AM
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Yeah agreed, I also feel extemely lucky to have the internet and know english. My life would be worse off without it :)
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 05:37 PM
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Pfff, i've tried to find which diagnoses would fit her best, right now i'm considering she might be BPD and Histrionic at the same time :) Thanks for the audio, really might help also accept/forgive rather than hate/get angry all the time when interacting with her. It's just so damn annoying that she has no self-analysing skills and pretends the whole world is at fault, while in reality she clearly has issues. I feel like i'm part of a little sect or cult sometimes, where only my brother, my dad…
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 10:55 AM
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Don't be too hard on yourself mate, these things take time. But try to imagine 4 years and 2 weeks in the future (I know that might seem painful right now), but would you rather be happy with who you are or still sulking about this woman who apparently checked out of your relationship long before the break-up? Time to have some self-respect and make some tough choices, my friend. There will be only one person in your life who will always be there with and hopefully for you, and that is you. You …
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 10:51 AM
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This. It's a natural reaction to being hurt, cheated on, mislead, etc. The fact that he kept count of how long he was in a relationship, shows the oneitis behind the scene. Just hope OP remembers that RP and MGTOW are not the same philosophy :) Time for the old Kubler-Ross methodology either way <3
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 10:48 AM
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Sounds like we have the exact same mother... and maybe its a generational thing (though ive met people from that generation who are completely different)
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 08:52 AM
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Not initially, i think most find out through suffering mistakes. It’s the best way of learning. Or falling into clinical depression 🤭
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 06:03 PM
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it's just until people become 'adults' and realise their own arrogance/lack of self-insight :)
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 11:08 AM
2

When is your book coming out? I'm buying :D
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 09:17 AM
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I wish there was like a wristwatch or phone app that could detect when someone is projecting, which can just go on alert and make other people around understand what's going on and why this person is so damn angry. I'm sure world peace would be attained within 24 hours after releasing said app to the public. Okay, maybe 48 hours.
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 09:15 AM
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Yeah, I also believe it's very simple. Imagine the only thing that could make you attractive to a woman is a job and you hear that women can get jobs now too? Better yet, they exclusively get jobs, simply to attract male suiters who also are successful (no women ever wanted attention or succes to marry a bum). That's the same level of nuisance. That's why it's important to know who you are, what you have to offer and where you're going. It gives stability and piece of mind. In the end it's reall…
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 09:12 AM
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Good on you bro! I've had the same experience through high school, uni and anything outside. Women always tell guys they aren't interested in that they should be/are 'nice', 'themselves', 'a good friend', 'take your time', 'find someone like you', etc. often asexual, safe labels. It's not you, it's them. It might help to know more about statistics, for example the ones on dating apps (millions of users worldwide), where men swipe right on 63 % while women swipe right on 4.5 %. You can run this e…
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 08:43 AM
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Yeah it get that, been dating women outside my culture for years now. I think it automatically clicks better since most have already given up on the perfect marriage/life and just enjoy company and positive energy. Just enjoying life without drama, so to say.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 11:20 AM
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Unicorn or not, that sounds like one of the few women who had her shit together and saw you as an equal. Very rare in itself, congrats either way. Makes for a good story :)
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 11:16 AM
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I think its interesting that after such a short life up to now, this is your conclusion. Seems premature, but def not RP in the oneitis sense :) Maybe you found a more traditional girl that liked gender roles and groomed you to be the guy she wants to be with since you fit other benchmarks (assume you were taller than her, baseline more handsome, showed potential in capacity - as proven by your life changes) Kudos for that! However, what you describe is the standard of a grown-up relationship. I…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 11:02 AM
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Congrats on the hard work and realisation :)
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 07:18 AM
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I like your style, it’s the best way to grow as a person, i misunderstood then :) I was just wondering if you intentionally go there exclusively to disagree or to learn (or both). Just general curiosity and interest from my side! <3
/r/TheRedPill05/09/19 07:52 PM
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Rooster1981 Are you just needlessly defiant, offensive and paranoid in every subreddit you go? Hard to not think you are trolling here as well.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/19 11:23 AM
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Whisky, single malt? God i love me a small glass every few days.. it’s like 30 minutes of meditation, a blowjob and a 10 mile hike in one small package👌It’s better to do all of those every few days though ;)
/r/MGTOW11/08/19 09:17 PM
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To be honest, i thoroughly enjoy women that are genuine nowadays. They stand out. No feigning of hobbies or interest, no make-up, no talking about stuff they will never do, no complaining about others. Just character. Rare breed tho. And still not gonna marry ;)
/r/MGTOW11/08/19 09:12 PM
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A wise man once said: Comparison is the thief of joy. Women get gratification from comparing down, and misery from comparing up. Men dont do this, unless their mother tells them so.
/r/MGTOW11/08/19 04:29 PM
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Ironically, doing these things every day, was part of the worst time of my life. I assume correlation and not causation, but the behaviour can def affect your mindset. As well as your surroundings. Life is amazing when you dont feel the need for these things, it’s almost like discovering the secret to a happy life. One no one told you in school, because they did not know or you were not ready to hear yet.
/r/MGTOW03/08/19 08:31 AM
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Awesome detailed post. I think it only missed the chewing gum habit on top of smoking and cheap perfume spraying. Im sure there are other issues like second-hand smoke at her place, burnholes in clothing, diahrea due to excessive chewing gum intake, yellowing of teeth. People really underestimate the impact and thus underappreciate this post <3
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 02:53 PM
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Way too familiar feeling. I think the worst is to have this scenario and be dependent on such a person. They have a tendency to control/manipulate the ones close to them because those they do not, leave.
/r/MGTOW28/07/19 10:51 AM
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Hence the true challenge lies in women coming up with their own stories, books, ideas to reach the level of men. Hijacking is for the controlling authoritarian, not the artist.
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 08:21 AM
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That deserves a <3
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 08:19 AM
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Watch out for the knees to the chin and keep your eyes open and on your opponent :)
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 08:18 AM
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Thanks for sharing OP. If you wanna chat about it, hit me up. Shit’s hard enough as it is, even with an ear to talk to. Wishing you the strength to get through this.
/r/MGTOW17/07/19 08:16 AM
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Sad, but true. It just further pushes the trope that men just so everything better than women. They just dont see their own errors, which is yet another error, ironically.
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 04:25 PM
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Yeah man, he took a blow. Also maybe positive in some ways, but def changed him for life.
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 04:24 PM
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Yep, time to boycot political crap :/ the start of getting old and grumpy.
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 03:33 PM
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:’)
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 03:31 PM
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If they love you as much as you love them, they will listen when you say "honey, you're talking hurts my feelings." and actually shut the hell up, most of the time. It is kind of implicit with the love bit :)
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 03:28 PM
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This sounds like the same work-around they used for Dr. Who. Just to further intrusive replacement of pop culture through the guise of 'equality'. It's so shallow of a solution.. They should've just given her a 008 or 001 (like there were in the past). I really dont understand why they need to replace an existing concept, once again, with something that gets there based on 'equality of outcome' rather than 'equality of opportunity'. Show me a badass female version of James Bond based on its own …
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 03:22 PM
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I'm a big fan of Aziz Ansari for this reason. He speaks out on this topic from his platform. I'm not surprised they pulled rape/abuse/whatever allegations on him. He's not the type, but they try to take him down a notch. Only happens to rich guys btw, poor dudes never get these allegations because there is nothing to gain for the women other than perceived shame from dating 'the wrong guy'. Just teach girls in primary and high school to draw boundaries and say 'no' and that'll solve itself.
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 03:16 PM
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Yeah that last line was meant to be sarcastic. I really wish they stay away from existing heroes and heroines. It's just silly to rewrite the past, that's what fascists and dictators use to gain power.
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 03:13 PM
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This. I dont understand why they need to hijack all existing things with their neo-marxist ideology. The idea is to be inclusive, not intrusive. So hate these lazy ass progressives with no creativity leaning on male (Ian Flemming) successes. Please DO NOT make Sigourney Weaver a man in future alien movie, turn Princess Leia into Luke’s Brother or Mary Poppins into Harry Poppins... oh wait we have that last one :p
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 01:57 PM
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Dont go. Vote with your money. The only real voting power in capitalism.
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 01:52 PM
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Welcome! Many answers here, but mine would be that being alone and being lonely are two completely different things. If you earn enough money, someone can be paid to take care of you. About dying alone or seeing your kids, that is a pipe dream. Most kids rarely visit their parents. Even worse when it comes to grand parents. All you need to do is learn to overcome your fear of separation and fear of death. Just keep in mind that solitude is something you can enjoy, loneliness is a feeling most pp…
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 11:14 PM
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Awesome! I was talking to a female friend about this the other day, since I've had two friends in both those positions. Told her my dream was to build a company that can provide artificial uteri, so both parents could be 100 % certain about both the choice and genetic origin (since it is a given for women in both cases), also so both could continue their careers without any stops besides actually raising the kid. Heavy discussion ensued :P
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 01:59 PM
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TL;DR: First off, thanks for sharing! It sounds like a very similar concept to Red Pill rage. In psychology this is may be more similar to Expectancy Violation (theory). Def recommend reading that. This comment totally got out of hand, but I hope my perspective can maybe help you in some way, by not rushing or wanting to rush into things. Take your time to become yourself, this will draw the right partner and friends to you eventually :) ​ Long comment part: Ask yourself: Why do you feel it is a…
/r/MGTOW09/07/19 01:29 PM
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I think there’s great stuff in the comments already, just wanted to add that you need to give yourself time to heal. This feeling of attachment and love you had was real, abused and now probably feels like you did the wrong thing putting a knife tip up against your heart and letting this woman hold the handle. It’s a risk. You just made the leap of faith to also put your trust in her not to push the knife deeper than the surface. #faithinhumanitylost Just try to reintegrate with ppl, if you’re n…
/r/MGTOW08/07/19 09:47 AM
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Ermm Haarlem is a city in the Netherland. She even talks about Dutch guys (i would respond exactly like described). Your title needs editing ;)
/r/MGTOW08/07/19 08:56 AM
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Good on you mate! Welcome and hope you stay :) And it’s not just feminist trolls, also SJW fake accounts, white knights at times, etc. People who lurked so much and now feel inclined to mingle in a topic they have nothing constructive to say about. Which we deserve for having community members that do the same by harassing their community (i wouldnt call those members true MGTOW, just guys on the hype train of controversy.) The negative posts reek of ideological leeches who just measure the worl…
/r/MGTOW08/07/19 08:15 AM
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Totally agree with this. Traveling alone changed my perspective on life, but mostly my level of agency and (emotional/financial) independence. Additionally, it's a great way to get to know your own fears and anxieties, specially when stuck in a place without internet for a week or so :) Traveling is definitely something that's worth your money/investment, if you get out of it what you can. Just remember that `do nothing = get nothing' whether that is at home or on the road. Safe travels!
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 10:17 AM
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"Vampire" haha, yeah. I remember seeing this clip from a pro gamer giving advice on women. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWzSiXgI9qc It's just amazing how something like this is distilled from personal experience 5000 km away from where I live, while I've had the exact same experience here. Blew my mind to realise I was not the only one the first time I heard any guy abroad talk about that. Some women can suck the life out of you and then discard you for the next upgrade, a lot of people will …
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 08:20 PM
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Stories like these deserve to be in a book, not 'the book', but definitely a 'how to survive early adulthood as a successful person/man' book, given how laws work. Though not everyone learns from other people's mistakes, most learn from their own I fear :) My fault was more pre-emtively oriented, I figured I shouldn't rush in making a career so i could find a woman/wife that would like me for me. Turns out a career, or the lack thereof, is part of what makes me 'me' or dating material. Could've …
/r/MGTOW08/06/19 12:35 PM
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Cool For the sake of learning, while on the 'date' ask her if the coffee date is 'a date date'. Her response (maybe blushing or shocked) will tell you more ;)
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 02:34 PM
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Imagine, having this feeling every day in your early life, without having to work for it? It's understandable that some ppl (women mostly?) end up so entitled by their early 20s.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 02:24 PM
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The silly thing is that most paternity tests are quite invasive to the mother who can refuse (“her body, her choice”) and can pose risks to the baby. There are also post-natal tests though, but they take several days. That being said, in a lot of countries the kicker is that they make you acknowledge your kid within the first few days of birth. Usually inside the window of post-natal screening. So women can basically deflect and refuse until you either die a hero (adopt someone else’s kid potent…
/r/MGTOW01/06/19 06:58 AM
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It's weird, so many inspirational videos, workshops, slogans etc nowadays, but this really gave me motivation via some insight into what is possible in such a short time. I guess focus (or lack of distractions) and dedication do pay off if you spend it on yourself for a change :) Thanks for the push!
/r/MGTOW27/05/19 12:26 PM
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So bottom line: The people that are most liked and wanted are seen as the safest (as in least sexually wanted or lowest chance of having STI in spite of having the highest preference) option when it comes to lack of condom use. Sounds like an emotional decision to me. There should be flair for that :)
/r/BlackPillScience26/05/19 10:00 AM
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That last part “i hate doing this kind of thing over text”. You know she has created a routine of breakups and is playing the field. Its almost like a manager firing you: please come by the office, i have some news that needs to be shared in person. The level of experience with breakups is such a huge red flag, wish i figured that out in high school.
/r/MGTOW17/05/19 09:38 AM
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Lmao, an old colleague and I put this on the back cover of our PhD theses to line up (we defended on the same day). Long live nostalgia.
/r/MGTOW15/05/19 10:04 AM
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Happy for you, mate :) And good on you for taking charge and responsibility of your own life, you’re the boss now!
/r/MGTOW14/05/19 08:28 AM
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Never mind the direct ripping of the name via the original RP group which she 'uncovered' (who originally used it as a metaphor from the Matrix to refer to the deception of women and the way society really functions vs. our expectations). Again just shows the lack of agency of a woman in finding a creative and fitting title for a documentary on her own, as if her movie is the actual red pill that she thinks feminists will have to swallow. Instead of just listening to the majority of BP men or si…
/r/MGTOW13/05/19 04:29 PM
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Students read most of their waking hours. Reading is about learning new skills (if not just for vocab, reading skills and knowledge gain). It’s the effortless passtimes disguised as hobbies that trigger me. “I love hanging out with friends, eating good food, etc” - who doesnt?
/r/MGTOW10/04/19 09:57 AM
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Yeah man, I totally concur. The females always seem more entitled and thus angry/indignant without reason. It's also specially hurtful for the male children later on, because they get drilled on 'how to act as an adult' by the opposite sex and believe that 'rationalising something away' is a healthy way to deal with real life problems. Which is not what the traditionally opposite sex is attracted to, to exacerbate the problem. Ps: It's good to have a place to talk to others without the judgement…
/r/MGTOW29/03/19 03:11 PM
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Lol, stop describing my life. They also still tell you to flush the toilet at age 36? Tell you they want grandkids even though you cannot imagine they might do to those kids what your parents did to you, etc? They never kissed, hugged or shown how to have actual conversations about meaningful things with each other? Never asked how you feel or if you agree to any of their bs, making you rely on yourself or desperately seek relationships/friendships for emotional support? Mine still brag to other…
/r/MGTOW22/03/19 09:40 AM
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1:25 chance to unknowningly be a step-dad. i'm surprised people are still that surprised to find out their kids aren't theirs. Those odds are way higher than dying due to a traffic accident or a school shooting, in the US. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2005/aug/11/childrensservices.uknews
/r/MGTOW19/03/19 01:46 PM
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Yeah man, it's like having a mind-baby :D I can imagine it's scary to let go of old constructs and routines 'n such. Probably the hardest part for everyone attempting to throw around the steering wheel, so to speak :) Either way, good for you man! Hope it works out well beyond your expectations!
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 03:47 PM
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Figure out in which aspect in life you are the 20 %, then capitalise. 'Rich' might be too much, but at least you'll find job satisfaction and have that aspect of your life covered (where your strength lies). Money cannot compensate for or replace personal achievement in that sense, like it can't replace LIFT factor. Money is usually just a bunch of people saying: I like what you're doing so much that i'm paying for it. So if you can find the intersection of that hypothetical field in which you c…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 11:15 AM
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I was looking for a link that describes the situation, which I found after a little research for my book. To be honest, it was very sad to find out that this was actually a thing and horrible how familiar it is. Closely related to the Princess/Emperor syndrome, since parents also have a very dysfunctional relationship with their kids and screw them up as a result. https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/emotional-covert-incest-when-parents-make-their-kids-partners-0914165
/r/MGTOW13/03/19 11:48 AM
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Well you can see the effects in delayed happiness, self-sufficiency, responsibility, emotional adulthood, agency, etc. Being treated like an adult when you're a child creates a pseudo-character/persona at younger age, which helps deal with the emotional load of a grown-up and even give the illusion that you are grown up. Then the suffering begins in adolescence when normal people are still developing as a person, but you are stuck in your pre-adolescent grown-up phase. The stunted ones are strug…
/r/MGTOW13/03/19 11:35 AM
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Holy crap, this is my youth. Writing a book about this even. Its eerie to see the resemblance.. thanks for sharing.
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 09:19 AM
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Thanks for sharing your story. I think you are by nature very kindhearted, this is a good thing! But yes, also easily abused when used naively. I think over time you will find a way to protect it from harm, since you seem very open to feedback and communication about it. Big plus for you :) If you want to learn more about this “trust someone, then get betrayed and feel bad”-trope, look for “expectancy violation theory” on wikipedia. Might help drive the lesson home. Hope you can rebalance your p…
/r/MGTOW07/02/19 11:44 AM
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Thanks for sharing man, i recognize the struggles. From someone who went through the same shit, i would just suggest focussing on developing qualities you dont learn at uni or that can be bought with money (cost effort and discipline.) The list can be as long as you want, with the basics like practicing your approaches in bars/wherever is fitting, lifting, getting some volunteer work in one day a month or so. Whatever you can think of that aligns with your passions. Stuff you can either learn fr…
/r/MGTOW02/02/19 04:20 AM
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This is so recognisable. What creeps me out is how all the red flags you mentioned, my parents are guilty of. The absence of almost every good trait you mentioned, is also remarkable. I've had parents who were always fighting and both overbearing as well as using the 'loose hands' methods for disciplining us whenever they were emotionally triggered on top of their daily struggles. This got to the point where we were not allowed to cook, because we would make 'the kitchen dirty' or 'not know how …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 02:55 AM
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Unsolicited advice incoming: It might help to make a to-do list if you're down on motivation or missing some positive feedback. I still do this every day since I started in a different direction. Just silly things like 'make the bed', 'meditate 5 minutes', 'take out the garbage', 'do laundry', 'LIFT', 'buy groceries'. Even if it's routine, but specifically if it is not yet routine. It's hard to start to do new things, but it's even harder if you have nothing or no one to tell you you're doing a …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 02:39 AM
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Been doing this as well since half a year. Sundays are all about cooking for the rest of the week's dinners and Saturdays are cheat days. I discussed this with people at work and they looked at me funny. Some don't do it because they don't like eating the same food/dinner two days in a row. Some because they don't like heated frozen food. Others because they have kids, of course. For some reason I never had an issue with something like eating identical meals a few days in a row. Not sure if that…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 02:30 AM
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Wow, this is amazing to read... I've experienced a similar slump and just started to get back up again. Spent the last half year just looking back at the last 30 decades of my life, wondering how I got to where I am now, why I am unsatisfied with it and where I want to go with some long term goals along the way (emotional and financial independence). It's such a weird thing to be without goals though. Specially when you've reached them and don't set new ones. I can correlate the slippery slope o…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 02:05 AM
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Also true. Though i would say relationships with oneself 🤗
/r/MGTOW31/12/18 09:39 AM
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First up: Thanks for sharing. It sounds like you’re going through a rough time, mate. Don’t feel pathetic about the trap thing, we all fell or might have fallen for it, if no one warned us about it (mgtow, red pill, etc) I think it might help if you reframe life: You’ve lived 31 years, 13 of those as an “adult”. Just imagine that you will live 50+ more years as an adult. Will you want to live them the same way? What would you change? If I had to give you one tip, it would be to either talk to so…
/r/MGTOW31/12/18 09:32 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/a4xyfm/dont\_know\_where\_to\_start\_gyow\_theres\_an\_easy/ You are kinda contradicting yourself here, what if you're very charming and good at a game? You can earn way more on the side with streaming than random fixjobs. Plus it gives you discipline to get material filmed and edited. Also valuable skills that you can ask money for. I think you just have a very negative ideation of the gaming concept. Not everyone is an Eric Cartman-WoW stereotype :)
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 10:31 PM
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I've had this experience and shift in perspective too, mate. It's normal I think, for those that have too high expectations of (romantic) relationships. The people I spend my time on nowadays, on a regular basis, I can count on one hand. They treat me similarly, no gifts or nothing included, just time spent talking and listening. The only thing we share is integrity and a priority of our friendship above other things. Lasted 25+ years, which for me as a 36 yo is amazing. Meanwhile all my romanti…
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 10:21 PM
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Nice reference :)
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 11:09 AM
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"Get dog" hahaha, this made my day :D Thanks!
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 11:06 AM
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That is what results in jadedness. The expectations of a 'good' and 'reliable' partner, then shattered by reality and life. The only person that'll be there the rest of your life and that you can count on 100 %, is you. Better take good care of that guy and love the hell out of him :)
/r/MGTOW10/12/18 11:04 AM
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Yeah, it feels like selectively giving f*cks. From my point of view big things can only change if you have either or both of the following: 1) Lots of money. 2) Influence / leadership to steer a lot of people toward one goal. Until I have either, I doubt I will try to have any expectations of my impact on other people's lives :)
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 10:08 PM
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It's weird man.. I can completely identify with this description, emotionally and logically. Used to be full of hope and idealism. Then dropped into this cynical, ragequit attitude towards "love" and women. Now I'm more on a 'it's nice if it's there, but not necessary to build a life mindset. In the end, my hopes and expectations had to make way for experience and reality. Knowing when to have no-to-low or very high expectations really makes life a lot beter though. And a lot of people not under…
/r/MGTOW27/11/18 09:53 PM
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Just wanna give you a big hug man. That sounds like it's really tough. If you need some more interesting data to distract your mind, the link below might also help send you in a more understanding direction when it comes to gender inequality. Like you said, your field (study) is male dominated, yet women claim 50 % of the jobs. Super unfair. To worsen the problem, countries that do push gender equality see reduction in STEM field graduates (fresh from science). The graph linking female % vs male…
/r/MGTOW24/11/18 09:54 AM
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Burn.
/r/MGTOW19/11/18 11:53 PM
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This realisation comes much slower than emotions allow most of the time :) 100% agree tho. Mindset is everything.
/r/MGTOW18/11/18 09:03 AM
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It might help to read up on things like Kübler-Ross (even though its been updated, still worked for me). Meditation also helps you find erronous/hateful thoughts when you’re ready to move on. This all banks on the fact that you either accept that things are the way they are, try to see it as ‘coincidence’ that you met so many horrible women or that it may be related to your behaviour around women/in relationships. Perhaps the most important part is to ask yourself why you are angry in the first …
/r/MGTOW18/11/18 09:02 AM
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For some reason this out of the box thinking reminds me of Disney and their stories. Perhaps... Snow White and the seven dwarfs was really a women with 7 kids from different (demeanored) men. Or had the baggage of 7 ex boyfriends imaginarily prancing around in her daydreams. Until prince charming with his wealth, power and normative stature came to save the day with his kissing-passed-out-girls power. Im curious about future Disney and the likes content. So many stories to write and interpret...
/r/MGTOW17/11/18 09:39 AM
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I think you got the reflective power to analyse this well enough :) Ive been in a similar situation, but with Netflix. A girl invited me to her place (I was just getting on my way out of BP area, didnt even know the term Netflix & Chill) We watched... i think 5 hours of series and movies before i ‘made a move’. Which was straightforward and successful. Though it couldve been way more natural and fun if i had realised earlier what was going on. Cuz this girl was of course tired then and blaming m…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/18 09:19 AM
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Finding out that i kept making consessions from my side every time. Which from BP imperative seems logical: Caving in for women, building my life around women, and seeing, in hindsight, that it’s not worth the time. Sad and angry for some time, then i realised i still have most of my life to live and can sulk about it, or make sure i live it my way in the future. Just needed to “get my shit together”.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 06:37 AM
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Thanks so much!
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 06:18 PM
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What is this painting called? Need it in my apartment.
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 06:18 PM
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Have fun! :)
/r/MGTOW30/10/18 06:11 PM
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But you're serious? I'm confused.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 08:56 AM
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My parents have been together for 35 years. Even though they have their bad moments, they're still together and there for each other in their own way. That's real marriage, in my opinion. To me, women initiating break-ups and divorces the majority of the time, is just a sign that they can't handle real relationships (due to emotional checkouts) with real ups and real downs (rely on new-relationship-energy to stay happy). At least nog longer than half a decade in my experience. Maybe due to hyper…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 12:29 AM
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I was gonna say this. It's understandable that women are women, but that does not make it impossible for them to also better themselves. You might be giving her a pussy pass. I'm also very curious if she spoke the truth about all the stuff that happened between the break-up and meeting up later. You might be positively biased and more experienced with her, but then again I've experienced women do sneaky shit and keep their bfs out of the loop to 'not hurt them' (womanese translation: not having …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 12:12 AM
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Is that sarcasm? The guy admits making mistakes, even though his wife was the one thinking of cheating, and still he improves. That's learning. That's progress. It's not a 'not useful idiot'. This sounds like a typical hardliner feminist comment from my perspective. Men are humans too. Something to keep in mind before you respond next time. Meanwhile, I would love to see how his ex wife is doing. I'm hoping she also used the self-initiated divorce for self-actualisation instead of being a 'not u…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 12:04 AM
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This. Since finding out about TRP, MGTOW, etc. I been reassessing the last 25 years in fragments. It's like looking at a video of you in the past, making horrible mistakes that you recognise now, but can't do shit about. Frame (or just plain confidence) was the key missing element in almost every single one of those bad memories. Initially sad, but now very insightful and useful ;)
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 10:08 PM
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Oh you can completely ignore what i'm saying, i'm just dropping my opinion and hope you're not wasting your time ;) Good luck thought!
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 08:31 PM
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Actually, this should be in the sidebar of MGTOW :D https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ESdn0MuJWQ
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 03:59 PM
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Fair enough. What toxicity are you talking about exactly? We might have different views (read: cherry picked) what we take away from TRP. In my case it mostly pertains to the fact that even though I think 'being me' should be enough for a relationship to work, it's not how the world works. TRP has many mental and physical challenges laid out like a fire under my butt, which can be followed independent of how a lot of recent posts seem to view women. Similar to how MGTOW probably started out with…
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 12:51 PM
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It's funny how they always say one thing and do another the next day, right? I had this one gf in Uni years back, crazy in love like a true BP back then (wish this was the only story i had). She had the option to stay after she finished college but I still had two years of Uni. Instead she choose to move to the other side of the country, because reasons. Even though I begged her initially to not do it, because it would break up the relationship (typical BP fear of some Chad picking her up, she w…
/r/MGTOW29/10/18 12:31 PM
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It might help to recognize that the quality of being slutty is one you might desire in a wife too. Maybe you just wanted her to be that exclusively to you to make you feel special or unique? Have you ever considered marrying or dating a HB3, who is almost guaranteed to have no history? I know I have felt, let’s call it arrogant/entitled, in the past thinking I “deserved someone I deemed worth my time invested in developing myself”. Stupidly, I always equated that kind of hard work and sacrifice …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 11:32 AM
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I think the main issue here is like a few field reports and sidebar also mentioned, that is that women’s romantic states are ephemeral. Therefore you should always add the word ‘now’ to everything they say relating to feelings. Just to guard yourself. In my experience women tend to live more in the now. Foresight is not their strength. For example the sentence we beta males say often and mean it romantically for a lifetime: “I love you.” In womanese that would be “I love you, now.” It is only af…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 11:17 AM
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Perhaps suggest an open marriage to her? Im sure she’ll say no, but in a way you might still get something out of a broken heart situation. That said, thanks for sharing. I prefer to give stories like these the benefit of the doubt. A friend of mine experienced a very similar thing: fell in love with a hb7-8, she wanted a family, was still finishing her studies, he had a job, etc. found out her bg story was embelished romantically, and mostly included chads. Only after they got married and had k…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 10:08 AM
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Dating world has become semi-anonymous and downright shameless. It used to be the way that if you dated someone in a small enough town, everyone would know what's up. Feedback would be immediate, no place to hide from the consequences of your immoral or amoral behaviour. Society would keep you in check. Nowadays you can just ghost people or simply be a dick/cunt if you have alternatives. Find a woman without alternatives (I mean that in a good way, where she actually finds YOU interesting - thou…
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 04:03 PM
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LMAO :D
/r/askTRP15/10/18 02:41 PM
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It's kind of a paradox, since the option to be Red Pilled, requires a BP and RP world. It's basically the opposite of what the BP world would look like, where the hierarchy would be similar to a BP world (Pareto), but based on other traits. RP's goal is not to change the world, but ourselves. "It's not the spoon that bends, but ourselves." We're just trying to survive the shift in Zeitgeist here. Though secretly I'm waiting for the time when for some reasons men are born less often than women (a…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 02:35 PM
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There was actually a paper out on this exact topic, stating that the ideal ex-relationships for a reliable and stable marriage (for women) is somewhere between 7-9 partners, since this gives perspective they need to settle according to the authors. However age was not a metric, so relating the settling-down time to 'the wall' (or people having lied during the questionnaires) would not surprise me. Tried to find it, but forgot the title (they are always longer than needed..) Also, no metrics test…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 02:19 PM
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27, you young bastard! ... I had an existential crisis at 21, which lasted till 32 at least ... almost 36 now and if you asked me if I could've changed my life for the better within 3 years at the time, I would've laughed at your comment .. and then masturbated and cried myself to sleep. The point is the same as yours: Don't wait, mate! Start the changes asap and let things that take away your motivation like "Worst part is past 25 it gets harder to change ur time wasting habits" cloud your mind…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 01:57 PM
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First off, nice post! You are talking about one of the biggest fears people have: The fear of extermination. I read Seneca's essay, albeit the modern version, a few years ago. Totally agree with this. Overcoming fears is one of the few 'easy'-to-spot-routes towards growth and understanding that your time is like a currency you have 1 second less of, every second. Not everyone is ready for it though. Specially the footnotes saying: Not everyone gets to live the longest, healthiest and most pleasa…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 01:16 PM
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The cry for help is just the female projection due to solipsism. They cant imagine people not doing it for reasons outside the ones they can conceive themselves. This is a lack of empathy or education... prolly both. Cry for help is the /incel section of reddit ;)
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 12:15 PM
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Women try more, men succeed more. Story of our lives. Rather than demanding more successful women, id suggest having less succesful men ;)
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 12:13 PM
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Three seems like a lot when you’re young. Imagine wasting 50. Enjoy life, mate, you are lightyears ahead already ;)
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 12:09 PM
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I definitely think you are a Red Piller, in the core sense of self-improvement. Dont forget about science though, it works in your favor: learning new habits is way easier than dropping old ones (comfort zone). You should see this as “faking it till you make it”. You’re 21! If you can keep up not gaming too much (sometimes it helps setting a quota, like masturbating to feed the geese) by 22, you are lightyears ahead of yourself last year. Having a relapse of a 8-hour/day habit might happen thoug…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 11:44 AM
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When I was in my early 20s, I once saw Eddie Murphy's show 'Raw' on TV. I always found it funny, mostly because of the way he portraits and exaggerates characters. My mother (who lived off my dad's money since marriage and is a nagging, bitter crone on the inside, at the time) told me this was all nonsense, of course. Rewatching parts of it since finding TRP just makes my toes curl. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ts4sEBb2K3s ​ Glad I took his warning to heart to some extent though ... because t…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 12:26 PM
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I like the closing thoughts a lot. I definitely agree with the general notion that things like TRP are a means to an end. Same goes for MGTOW and other brothers in arms keeping men from suicide or depression in a fatalistic existence. Much thanks for that <3 It all helps build confidence, give meaning and eventually a handle on things in a world of extremes with invisible landmines all around, which you are assumed to jump on for the sake of society. #nothankyou In my case I define it as 'direct…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 11:36 AM
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I've been reading TRP for a while, it really saved my life. It's sad to see this happen, specially since MGTOW and other communities all do the same thing: Help men establish self-esteem and a positive self-image. It's great to hear the compassion in this post. Muchos <3
/r/MGTOW29/09/18 09:25 AM
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Dunno how old your mom is, but mine (70) I've given up on correcting her directly. Instead I set my own boundaries and make those clear to her. And make it a huge point if she does not adhere to it. She will struggle with it, even ridicule you ("why are you acting so strange?" etc.) The most effective method for me was to start applying a filter ie. tell her she can only ask you for something x amounts of time per day or use up y amount of your time to limit your interactions with her to the ess…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 03:54 PM
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#mylifestorytoo Thanks for sharing :)
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 03:29 PM
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Great question! Gonna answer that even though it was not directed at me, hope it helps. I've been tackling this topic myself the last years and working on a book to track and retrace my thoughts on how it helped me find an identity. I think nihilism is the way to go if you want to reset your values and thus your mindset and life. Nihilism is like a busstop on the road of self-improvement, the end goal is to always be improving. To me it felt like discarding my old self with fixed ideals, goals e…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 05:10 PM
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