PhilosophyOk5847 Archive

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2	Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are? Why would the women on dating apps be any better or worse? That seems like a strange opinion. I've been on dating apps. I've been called a whore, send nudes, explicit messages. I've had girl friends go on dates and get harassed, ghosted, or catfished. The women with self respect leave the apps. Most men with self respect seem to leave too. That leaves only those rather desperate for something. Okay now you're backtracking - they aren't failing with women, the women are failing them. That's a pre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 12:14 AM
2	Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are? If you think that's true, you don't speak to women very often. Women really don't get approached that often, and the men who do approach most of the time are clearly pulling some PUA shit instead of being earnest people. I'm saying from a woman's perspective, most men to me are not people I consider until they come and talk to me and show me what they're about. I've had handsome men approach me only to come at it with clearly poor intentions, and I shut them down. I've had average men approach m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 12:11 AM
5	Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are? I probably worded that wrong. If you're not getting rejected straight on the approach, it means you're not ugly enough for a woman to not consider you. If a woman will give you enough attention to talk to you and she isn't doing so out of obligation, it means she's curious. Outright rejection means she will basically do everything to end the conversation and not give you time of day. Most women are neutral towards men they don't know. If you say the right things and polarize the right way, we're…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/26 12:06 AM
0	Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are? Not all men want to go on dating apps where the gender skews incredibly highly and most women who are really good partners don't really go on dating apps. In talking to my guy friends, even the most handsome and best of them, they have the same complaints: Women are flakey, difficult, and tend towards hookups. They don't like it either. Dating apps suck for everyone. Sure, they could probably get hookups, but he's pretty explicit about wanting a family and kids, and casual wouldn't do anything f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 08:28 PM
6	Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are? That's just false. Unless a man is truly ugly or has some major flaws, it's pretty rare he'll get an outright rejection if his approach is honest and vulnerable. There's plenty of reasons why a woman might reject a man, but attractive men get rejected all the fucking time. As do unattractive ones. As do average ones. The difference is that the most successful ones in dating are the ones that understand that they shouldn't place any weight on what an individual woman thinks. You place far too muc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 07:32 PM
1	Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are? Yeah, I've rejected men before. Rarely due to looks though. Most men are not that bad looking. And for the record, if you make a move, that is an attractive thing because it's vulnerable and real. Looks really aren't going to win things for you. I have this one guy friend, absolutely gorgeous, 9/10 easily. He fails with women. Why? Because he doesn't grow a pair and just ask them out. If it was all about looks, then evolution would've taken away any agency towards other factors. But it isn't. It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 07:29 PM
4	Men try to gatekeep standards This is a chronically online take. Both sides have preferences. There's a difference between a preference and a standard. A preference might be a taller man. A preference might be a man who makes 6 figures. A preference might be a woman who is very fit. Those are acceptable as preferences. As standards? That's a different story entirely. As a woman, I have standards. Treated nicely, sociable, not being overweight, not being a single father, not drinking excessively or partying or smoking. Those …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 07:03 PM
9	Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are? Looks aren't the only thing in attraction. Most dudes are average, such is the law of central limit theorem. What I'm saying is that attraction is both mental and physical. Being physically above average, for a dude, is not that hard. Being assertive, honest, and polarizing early is 100% going to yield better results than just relying on the woman to make a move on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 06:54 PM
1	Why are women so much more concerned with the idea of “doing better” than men are? I think you're conflating attraction to a "good guy". I can openly admit I have guy friends who I love, but wouldn't date. Why? Because they never made a fucking move. This whole idea of the "friendzone" I never put a dude in the friendzone before. They put themself there. If I like a guy enough to hang out with him, spend time with him, etc. then I'll give him a shot if he makes a fucking move. But most of these dudes sit around for years and then make some grand profession of their undying lov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/26 06:52 PM