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This is such a good and thoughtful answer for him.
/r/seduction19/12/18 09:35 PM
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No no no don't settle, start a gofundme for the legal fees and post it here and spread this story far and wide. She started a war with you.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 11:40 PM
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It's all in the logistics. I used to live in a shitty town which made things more challenging. Now I'm in a decent college town that is walking distance to many good bars. I just took a Tinder 1st date out on Friday. She drove from out of town (your txt game needs to be strong). She hadn't eaten yet and she showed up late so she kinda set herself up. And she was shit testing me by saying she didn't want to walk in the cold. So I had her park at my place and we walked to the closest bars (not the…
/r/seduction13/02/17 08:55 PM
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I have this problem, worse than yours. Two year relationship in 2011-2012 ended badly. I still think about her every day, more than once a day... more like any time I'm not busy. It's been a decent motivator although the first six months I was almost catatonic... gotta keep busy or the thoughts come back. But I can't stay busy all the time. Nights settling into bed are tough. New girls provide a bit of a distraction but on more than one occasion I've closed my eyes mid-sex and thought of the ex …
/r/seduction13/12/16 06:54 PM
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A bit of an issue when you consider the man is typically expected to lead and pick the place. Additionally in this case she denied his first offer, capitulated, then denied it again to the point he compromised and offered meeting halfway. IMO that wouldn't make him a host.
/r/seduction28/10/16 04:40 PM
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Guys are providing great advice for you in these comments. You know what to do. Don't ever contact or reply to her again. It can be so hard to internalize the "you're so lucky you dodged the marriage and kids bullet" advice while in the first stages of grief, but man you're only 26. You WILL be thankful to yourself for going through this so young. I had a similar experience at age 30. I felt like I was so late to the red-pill-swallowing game. A whole new stage of your development is now beginnin…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 05:31 PM
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Good stuff. On the topic of the battle of the sexes, I'll never forget my frequent arguments (roughly once a month, lol) with the one ex who really got to me. I can be obstinate and wouldn't budge an inch... she often said in those heated moments, "I can never win with you!" And to that I always had to reply, "That's because you're treating our relationship like a battle. This isn't a competition." Those remarks were telling. Deep down all she wanted to do was to beat me.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 07:24 PM
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Curious... is it Norwich University?
/r/seduction17/09/16 06:14 PM
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Start talking to them. Yeah it's not a big city, so don't do some Paul Janka-style rapid day game pickup. But just start talking.
/r/seduction15/09/16 11:55 PM
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Outcome independence... It may work, it may not.
/r/seduction26/08/16 03:46 AM
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I liked your comment on AWALT but not all women are equal.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 07:03 PM
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hrofrfn, your English was perfect.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 11:35 PM
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Picture her fucking your brother/best friend/worst enemy.
/r/seduction24/07/16 02:50 PM
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Good FR bro. I can't help but notice how this girl gave a "not on the first date" resistance when she knew she was moving soon and looking for a rebound. Glad you plowed through that LMR easily. I can be honest to a fault and while I'm vastly better than I used to be, I still mistakenly find myself taking girls for their word sometimes.
/r/seduction14/07/16 07:43 PM
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Haven't been to Brazil but dated a Brazilian au pair stateside. I can confirm how family oriented they are. I kept in touch with her when she went home. She had some cousin's birthday party 2-3 times a week. I'm envious of that aspect of their culture. Not sure how you spent 6 months down there and didn't stay.
/r/seduction13/07/16 07:45 PM
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"approach a high volume of women in the daytime, get their phone numbers quickly before ejecting, send out mass texts and then go for sex with those who are most responsive." Ever heard of Paul Janka?
/r/seduction12/07/16 02:40 AM
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Message her something like "We gotta stop bumping into each other like this;-)"
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:22 PM
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Absolutely! Family are the worst offenders when it comes to this. The idea is that they don't want to see you change in a way that you will leave them in the dust. Friends do this to a far lesser extent. Can't tell you how many times I have worked out a little bit, saw results, and family members told me to slow down or I was at the perfect size etc.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:13 PM
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Yep, seeing that even mom is no different, is really swallowing that red pill.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 01:59 PM
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Awesome story! Yes, you gotta just go for it! Now, when you meet up, stay independent of a particular outcome, just like you displayed by saying this could. all just serve as experience for the next girl. Maintain your frame, and have fun.
/r/seduction21/06/16 12:13 PM
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