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Textbook qualification and push/pull, with a little cocky/funny thrown in. Nice job 👍
/r/seduction20/08/19 02:38 PM
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It is a bit depressing in a nihilistic/Machiavellian kind of way. What I took away from TRM and what it had to say about hypergamy is that the key is realizing not all women act on it (we as men have our own hypergamy after all - we have the instinct to “trade up” to younger, better looking women, but most of us have the ability to temper that and maintain LTRs), but the value is in being aware that the instinct is lurking out there and responding accordingly. Bringing it back to you, to be comp…
/r/seduction12/08/19 07:19 PM
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You got it dude - like I said, we’ve all been there at some point. It may help you get out of your head that the way you’re feeling right now isn’t your fault, these are just neurochemicals and hormones at play. To better understand her behavior, look into feminine hypergamy. If you really want to dig into this stuff, two books I’d really recommend you read that are commonly recommended on r/seduction are the books Models and The Rational Male. Listened to both on audiobook myself and it was lif…
/r/seduction12/08/19 06:26 PM
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The point Nuadha made above stands. She wouldn’t have come back a few days in a row if the sex was bad. The cliche is, he who cares less wins. This girl wants to have sex with a bunch of guys, fine - that’s her business. But don’t let yourself fall for her if she’s in that mode. You need to work on seeing other girls and keeping things casual/not investing quickly. Easier said than done - and trust me, we’ve all been there before, but keep at it buddy. As an aside, a bunch of her behavior reeks …
/r/seduction11/08/19 08:13 PM
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Hey vvvrath - if practicing conversation with strangers is your goal, I can’t recommend Tom Torero’s beginner daygame model enough. Just search Tom Torero beginner daygame on YouTube and also google the same but look for the pdf he put out (it’s like 10 pgs). As useful as it can be to practice one thing at a time (Eg just walking up and saying hi) I’ve found it to be really helpful in that it gives you a nuts and bolts, simple structure to follow so you have a general idea of what to say after h…
/r/seduction09/07/19 03:21 AM
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I mean, it’s really not more complicated than the answer I gave you, so I’m not sure how much more “refined and technical” you could make it... but yeah if that’s what you’re looking for get your three IOI’s, whatever. If that’s really what you’re looking for though, you’re overthinking it.
/r/seduction06/07/19 11:07 AM
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Are you trolling? Do you not know what lukewarm means? Assuming you’re serious, if she seems to be responding positively and is happy to be talking with you (smiling, open body language, continuing the conversation by giving you detailed answers as opposed to short/curt ones, or asking you questions, etc) - keep talking. If she is acting cold (cold/closed body language, clipped/curt answers, keeping it just business), just finish your transaction and move on. Just basic social cues.
/r/seduction06/07/19 03:29 AM
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If you want to talk to her, talk to her. Just be sensitive to the fact that she is obligated to serve her in her role, so be very attuned to her body language/vibe/signals. If you start talking to her and she’s warm, continue (but briefly if it’s busy) and if you get an opportunity get the contact info. If she responds lukewarm, finish up and move on.
/r/seduction05/07/19 11:41 PM
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Seems like at root here, OP interpreted what was actually a sign of investment and trust (women don’t leave their purses/drinks with guys they don’t trust) as a shit test. In leaving, it seems that she may have interpreted it as a signal he wasn’t that interested and/or not reliable or dependable, which may have turned her off. Or not. Maybe she just wasn’t that interested, or got distracted with something else, or any of another million different things. That’s why this stuff is so difficult...…
/r/seduction05/07/19 12:13 PM
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Not a bartender, but as someone that goes to bars fairly regularly, I’m usually flattered when a bartender makes a point of talking to me, male or female since they really don’t have to. I’m male by the way. It’s not weird or creepy... if anything you’re the one guy in the bar that is LEAST likely to give off that vibe. As a bartender it’s essentially understood that making patrons feel welcome and comfortable is part of your job, so you basically have a license to talk to anyone. You have a bui…
/r/seduction03/07/19 04:20 AM
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You definitely can. Look up vocal tonality videos on YouTube. Record yourself reading and listen back to analyze... even better record your half of a long phone call with a friend or family member, where hopefully you’ll be engaged in the conversation and speaking naturally. Practice speaking in a deeper tone, more from your chest and less from your throat, and try to practice ending your sentences with a “downward” inflection (rather than upspeak - google this if you’re not familiar with the te…
/r/seduction03/07/19 04:04 AM
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Being attractive but having no game is like having a great product but no marketing/sales department. It just won’t sell. You HAVE to find a way to start talking to women. Start with small wins. This sub seems to love direct cold approach, and with good reason... when you get it down, it really works - especially on top tier women - and it pays the biggest dividends I believe on your game as a whole. But dude, you’re 22. So although this may break with the consensus, but don’t be afraid to start…
/r/seduction01/07/19 03:27 AM
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She’s grooming you as an orbiter. You have two decent options: use her as an opportunity to practice your flirting and/or friend zone her, or try and force her to make a decision on you by escalating. The worst thing you can do is get sucked into liking her but doing nothing... you’ll end up spending a bunch of time, energy, and emotional capital giving her attention and getting nothing out of it. Just remember, if she’s pulling this on her current boyfriend now, that could easily be you. No mat…
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:16 PM
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This. In fact, I suspect it would actually be better to approach with other people. More opportunity for social proof, assuming you’re liked and respected at work if you know others in the group. Even if you don’t know anyone in the group (if you’re at a large company or something) just go up and introduce yourself to everyone, and be chill. Then find an opportunity to isolate with her in the conversation or approach her when an opportunity comes along later, because then you’re not randomly app…
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:47 PM
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So much r/woosh in this comment section...
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:31 PM
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I love Tom Torero’s day game content. He’s got a great podcast (Tom Torero Podcast) and lots of Youtube videos of him approaching. He’s not an inner game guy, but has tons of very value rich free content with an emphasis on practical, actionable advice, and in my opinion is worth watching just as an example of good frame and presentation alone. Unlike a lot of guys he also posts both sets that went well and sets that didn’t.
/r/seduction19/06/19 06:38 PM
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Yes and no. As your sexual market value rises, yes, some girls will approach you, but most will be below yours, and plenty near or above your sexual market value never will. Plus there’s that whole thing about what to say to them AFTER they approach you... you still need to build comfort and stimulate attraction, or you will miss out on the vast majority of women. You don’t learn how to approach and vibe with girls, no matter how good looking you are you’ll miss out on boatloads of good opportun…
/r/seduction13/06/19 03:27 AM
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Do this: Ask if you can come over to hot tub with her solo one night. Tease her and flirt with her for 15-20 minutes. Get up to get more drinks and offer to bring her one. When you come back, slide into the hot tub next to her (may require some logistics, hopefully you can do this without walking around the hot tub). When you get in, grab her shoulder “for stability.” Settle in next to her, and here’s the key - look into her eyes, SHUT UP, and wait. You should be good from there. Edit: re the lo…
/r/seduction10/06/19 03:06 AM
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Haha fair play. That girl probably gave you all the feedback you need.
/r/seduction29/05/19 03:48 PM
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No, because I don’t feel the need to validate myself to a stranger on the internet because said stranger demands that I do. The subject of this post was you not me, and I commented back in the spirit of providing constructive feedback from one guy to another. You can take the feedback to heart, or not - it makes absolutely no difference to me. I’ve been reviewing some of your other comments, and you seem to be one of those guys who has a default setting of confrontation and trollishness. I’m not…
/r/seduction29/05/19 11:54 AM
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No
/r/seduction29/05/19 01:21 AM
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Oof. Man, this was hard to watch. I assume you’re interested in feedback or you wouldn’t have posted, so here goes: Positive: you approached apparently without hesitation. Your vocal tonality was pretty good - nice deep voice, pretty even, maybe a little too high energy but generally being a little too high is probably better than too low. You appear to have your grooming and dress together and for a lot of the set your posture was good (not afraid to take up space). The negative: sorry but you …
/r/seduction28/05/19 06:33 PM
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I think the truth lies somewhere in the middle... on one hand I agree you should taper back conversation significantly after setting a date, ideally because you’re setting the date in a day or two, not two weeks so there’s no need to talk a whole lot... but if you go totally radio silent, it can sometimes come of as “I got what I wanted, now I’m not gonna talk to you anymore” for the girl... not an idea you want to plant in her head as harbingers of things to come and lead to flaking. One or two…
/r/seduction06/05/19 01:06 AM
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What is this, American Pie??
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:47 AM
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May get some dislikes on this, but since you’ll see her frequently, the smartest long term move here (unless you’re prepared to change gyms or deal with some awkwardness) would be to not shit where you eat. Instead make friends with her, practice flirting with her but keep it on a low boil, and then leverage the connection to meet her hot friends that don’t go to your gym.
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:46 AM
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Not sure what you mean by cropped trousers (like did you cut the ends off to make them shorter? Is this a thing?) but just about everything looks badass with a bomber jacket. Except shorts, that would look weird.
/r/seduction12/04/19 03:40 AM
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The ball is in her court. Don’t be too available, just be cool and if she gets back to you Thursday, take the initiative and have something specific to do ready to go (preferably not dinner, and def not a movie - make it something where there’s an activity to do, preferably one you’re not bad at. I’ve personally found playing pool in a pool hall, mini golf, and bowling to all work great... can also take her to one of those adult arcades, which are super fun). Mini golf is probably the best becau…
/r/seduction02/04/19 02:37 PM
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