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Take the job! They may check your taxes, so do not lie about your income in court. Set aside money for a lawyer. When the court hearing comes, show up. Do the test. They’re not setting a support order without proof in most cases! Are you on the birth certificate? No. She can’t put you on it unless you’re married. Then it is presumed that you’re the father, in most places. Another way to be on there is if you sign the AOP forms. You can’t be stuck working minimum wage forever, either way. Get mon…
/r/MensRights02/04/23 11:11 PM
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With the exception of adoptions, or IVF, wherein donor sperm may have been used... YES. It would save people a lot of trouble! No question of paternity. No reason to lie. Zero ambiguity.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 05:07 AM
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Sex pests? Asexuality or a low sex drive is fine, but I feel like a lot of people, women in this particular case, have vastly different drives from their spouse, and they hide that fact until there’s a ring on their finger. Suddenly, it’s too much. Their husbands are branded pests. Intimacy is pretty normal to want. That’s not being a pest. For every person who complains of being wanted too much, there seem to be two more who suffer a dead bedroom.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 03:51 PM
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I love that line! While I acknowledge my RBF and flat affect, sorry Sir. Eeeeeent! Incorrect answer! Been married twice, had a family in my 20’s, and my bio clock can fuck off. I plan on weeping into my retirement savings, boohoo. Alone. Happily. 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:49 PM
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Ok, first of all, ‘their’. Not ‘there’. Second, what?? Even assuming OP is a teenager, it was a run on sentence full of painful stupidity and ignorance to how the human body functions. Is Sex Ed no longer a thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:29 PM
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I will accept that it is my responsibility to file for a divorce ASAP. For my sanity. For my financial well being. For the sake of any children involved. And, frankly, to get the hell away from such garbage as fast as possible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:35 PM
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I’m the product of an interracial relationship. My Dad fetishized the hell out of my Mum, and later my sister’s Mum. “Exotic” women. Additionally, they were of different faiths and had zero in common. My Mum’s been here since the 50’s, so immigration status had no bearing. Thank goodness! Be careful. Love is love, be free and all, but protect yourself always. You don’t have to pretend to have better options. There will always be options. Avoid jerks. Avoid the entitled. Avoid Race Play scenarios…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:54 AM
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I don’t even LIKE Valentine’s Day. It’s cheesy, and designed to sell stuff. But my hubby never forgot to buy flowers, candy, and a gift. For me. For my Mum and my MIL. For our daughter. It meant a lot to me that he cared that much. What’s with men who can’t show caring or muster the energy to plan things? It’s not difficult. It’s about care and acknowledgement. Not so much about a specific gift or gesture. They don’t show care! It’s offensive. Give a fuck, or get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:19 PM
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Patchouli is so nice! Get some good patch, sandalwood, or frankincense and the house smells amazing for days. Warm and earthy, with that resinous sweetness and smokiness. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:15 AM
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Sage the place to dispel negative energies! “Begone, Scrote!” Holy water and frankincense wouldn’t go amiss...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:12 AM
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I’m celibate by choice, too. Douche nozzles like your friend’s ex are exactly why *I* say I’d rather sew my vagina up for spite, than become some jerkoff’s fleshlight. Our bodies and what we choose to do, or not do with them, are not up for public discussion. Also, your friend had absolutely no place telling anyone personal things told to her in confidence. Sorry you had to deal with that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:30 AM
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Masters of projection! And I doubt it matters if you stumbled upon this knowledge recently. The point is that you learned. Never hurts to reiterate, either, for the young ones who don’t know the truth. Save someone some heartache. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:17 AM
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First Husband used to call me “Chun Legs” for my muscular calves and thighs, and compare me to a Russian prison matron. I’m still put off lifting, and stick to cardio for most of my exercise. I was 20 years old, and he figured out my one major insecurity and exploited that to its fullest extent. My Mum’s tiny. All the women in my family are, except me. That shit haunts me to this day. 19+ years later. Why do they DO that? I know it’s a form of negging or something along those lines, but do they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:46 PM
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Ok, no. My husband acknowledged that taking care of our kids was a JOB, and he did 50% of everything that didn’t specifically require me, or my milk supply. So we still had a sex life. I was fully attracted to him. Nobody wants to have sexual relations with a spouse who treats them like a dependent or a mooch! He (Old Fart Complainy Pants Guy, here) holds so much resentment towards his wife, and sees her as lazy. He needs to stop hoping for a miracle, and start seeing people as people, not acces…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:07 AM
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Dudes can’t help it if they’re balding, but the hats just look dumb. Shave it! A rotation of dirty ball caps, beanies, and other head gear (if you’re lucky, they rotate them), isn’t much effort. Nor cute. And full beards always make me wonder... is he lazy and unhygienic, or a chinless wonder? 😁 This is a good PSA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:02 AM
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Way to aim high. Also, he doesn’t look like much of a prize. Looks like the type of man child who swills Pabst, and eats the deer he hits on the way home from the bar. “Wilsons Eventually”? Pure class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:29 AM
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That shit smells like stale corn chips and death. Rude. Add to the list “If your Man doesn’t ditch his stanky cologne for you, knowing it makes you sick, then he ain’t the one sis.” 😁 Men walking around smelling like Cuba and Drakkar Noir in this day and age. Old Spice. Wild Country. AXE/Lynx. Sir, you need a new cologne and wardrobe. Everything has been AXE Bombedddd. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:15 AM
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So accurate. Big talkers, little skill! My husband never thought anything of himself, no “D” photography, no bragging. In fact, didn’t even initiate our first time. Best I ever had. The man put in the WORK. There’s something to be said for healthy self esteem, but watch out for dudes who talk big about their sexual prowess. That’s not the same as them stating that they love to pleasure women before getting anything in return (at an appropriate time hah). I’m talking about the bungholes who act l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:13 AM
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This. THIS! Yes. You cannot enjoy watching that crap, without actually actively thinking about young people in that regard. You know that given a chance, these pervs would do the real thing. I hate anything to do with those aspects. Enfantilism or use of “Daddy”. You hear violent shit, like these Dudes have fantasies about taking virginity by force, or corporal punishment themes. How can that be construed as just a harmless “fantasy”? That’s abusive. They very much tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:56 PM
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Why is it always the ones with bad facial hair? Well. Not “always”, but it’s so common. Dude looking like he’s culturing lip fungi, and he’s feeling himself on this level. He’s in for a harsh awakening, once lockdowns are over. No one will want to touch his toadstool! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:29 PM
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We (society) teach our daughters to bend over backwards to meet the needs of others, and our sons to take, and take, and take some more. This girl’s father intervened on what could have become a long term shitshow. I hope she listened. With that being said, I don’t like the idea of taking a boy on vacation with the family. Parents will have to sleep sometime, and it’s not wise to court disaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:04 PM
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Not especially. I said I didn’t like nor trust the woman, and he acknowledged that she was behaving strangely. He cut her off. I never felt threatened. And that says a lot. I don’t trust my own mother. My husband was the most loyal person. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:30 AM
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Yeeeeah. My hubby had a female bestie when we first began dating. She started jealous petty shit, he dropped her and never spoke to her again. It was really a sign that my (then bf) husband prioritized our relationship. Opposite sex friendship can work, with the right people. However, the right people will never intrude on a friend’s relationship! There won’t be jealousy. There won’t be the assumption of having a say. Two separate compartments of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:10 AM
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Yeah, I’m pretty much done with dating. First husband sucked. Second husband was the closest thing to perfection (for me), and he died, and the idea of throwing myself to wolves again does not appeal. If you’re still out there trying, you’re brave! Good luck. 🤞❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:01 PM
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Yeah... no thanks. If you marry someone, you need to be having sex with THEM. Not lusting over inanimate objects. So creepy! So insensitive to bring up to his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:33 AM
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30 years?? Nah, he can scuttle off to that great whatever in the sky (or dirt) knowing he can’t change the things he’s done. If you fuck up... be prepared to live and die with that on your shoulders like a lead weight, Buddy Boyo. And involving his current partner just hurts her. He’s hurting two women. I don’t get people who cheat, lie, misappropriate money in relationships. They always either want forgiveness, or for it not to be mentioned, or something obnoxious. Nah, I’m good, indeed. Yes! D…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:03 AM
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I like smaller dudes, because I’m built small down there. But I acknowledge that size matters to some. Fact. Different people, different needs. That being said, every man who expects to get anything in a bedroom setting should be willing to learn skills. They expect US to be skilled, and for their pleasure to matter. I refuse to touch anyone who thinks simply having a dick is enough. And? Then what?? Can it juggle? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:26 PM
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He was a pillar of laziness. Slept like a rock. The fire alarm could go off, and he slept on! Meanwhile, I was getting 2-4 hours, broken up into naps between school and job. He was eating free food at work, as well! Asking me to cook like he was starving and disadvantaged. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:34 AM
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It was time for us to wake up. Long since, actually... we’ve been spoon fed the idea that men go to work, so they can be a slug when they get home. Food ready. House clean. It’s their time, blah blah blah. I think the crap math became obvious to me when I married my first husband. He’d put in such minimal efforts, in and outside of home. “I work! Why can’t you do YOUR part?” (I worked too har har), “It’s my day off though.” (Ok, and life stops when you’re off work?), “You never make a full meal …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:15 AM
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I have kids. They are old enough to feed themselves. Should I ever be dumb or brave enough to embark upon a romantic relationship again, HE will feed himself. Because I refuse, unless he’s extremely ill. Doing so outside of times of actual need is just creepy. 😳 Please let this be satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:20 AM
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The crap ones suddenly show up and try to get attention, just when it becomes clear that you have options and have moved on. If you give in, he’ll go right back to being a flake. I know words are tempting, but avoid. It sounds like you have a good thing going with the HVM. This is totally a common occurrence, though, and you’re not just unlucky! They see us happy. They want back in. Scraggly ass Tom cats, looking for scraps of attention or vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:08 AM
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It confounds me that so many men feel entitled to step out, spend money on stupid shit (their whims) with a child on the way, and to demean us for changing bodies. How do you not respect the person who gives life to your children?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:11 PM
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He looks like a sleep paralysis demon, if that demon had balding and a set of cheap dentures to eat me with. Which is a big fat Nope. These sort of arrangements are popping up all over, though. One of my best friends has been looking for a roomie or house share in Jersey, and these types of guys keep hitting her up! One acted normal until he found out she’s Deaf. Then, he offered her free rent if she’d sleep in his bed and asked if she still makes sounds when she cums. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:31 AM
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It’s a thing. You know when funky weather’s coming! Rain, snow, Timmy fell down a well. Lightning in the distance. 😁 Balls cannot be that useful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:23 AM
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Boobs are boobs. They’re just feeding apparatus and cold weather detection devices to me! But mine are massive, and I wish they weren’t. I’m done having kids. Don’t need or want these things anymore. And eye contact might be refreshing. If you cover them up, it’s almost worse. It’s like they’re searching for Waldo, or a nipple, or something. If you have cleavage, you’re showing off or labeled receptive to advances. Cannot win, either way! Oh, and bizarrely, my Mum tried to convince me to bottle …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:30 AM
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My mid-teens. My bf was always trying to dry finger me, and even wet he had NO game. None. Hangnails. Seemingly had no idea what a clitoris was, or at least he never found mine, in spite of my instructions. Yet he still felt like he was the Master of Foreplay. This is why we never had sex! His gross, hangnail ridden, rabbit speed jabbing. Dude dry humped fine, and maybe he was OK. But I just couldn’t get past his obsession and unwillingness to take constructive criticism. Like, someone is giving…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:01 AM
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Too cute. What a coincidence! *I* only go down on men who are special to *me*! Not who have shitty attitudes, B.O., or a vastly overinflated sense of entitlement. Put that goblin wiener away, Sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:16 PM
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I don’t have anything against couples sharing their mutual likes, but this sounds disgusting and sloppy. And weird! Is he gay on the DL? Not being terribly subtle, if so. He’s not engaging with her. He’s watching porn whilst using her like a dildo! Why would she subject herself to cleaning up poop from an able bodied, grown up man... Can this please be satire??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:36 PM
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I’m kind but extremely cautious. 🤣 The tipping point is pretty thin for me. People exploit kindness until they wring you dry, if you allow that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:30 AM
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I like to think in terms of the men in my life adding things, now. If there’s one decent thing to come of middle age, it’s that I am ok with being alone. You stop romanticizing men and the novelty of belonging. We’re people, not objects! I have seen shit, and can take care of my own bills by now. I have never wanted to own a man. The concept of ownership is so creepy. We’re capable of so much, without anyone’s input. We can squeeze things the size of a watermelon out of our lady gardens, and get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:19 AM
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Exactly! I asked for a divorce within 6 months. First husband didn’t cheat or anything, but he didn’t respect me or value my time, either. He was always comparing me to the women he grew up around in his church. He was just a way for me to avoid marrying the old creepy fart my Mum promised me to, and I was still giving my marriage my best effort. Out of courtesy, as my first husband and I were childhood friends. Even knowing someone for a decade or more does not guarantee that he will make a goo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:55 AM
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If a man wants to have the privilege of waking up next to you, he’ll marry you! That’s not to say that some low effort assholes won’t marry you, in spite of indifference, but then there’s the Perma BF turds. They’re possibly worse. It’s all just sickening! I say this as someone who married the wrong man at 20, and was treated like a sex doll and maid. Low effort bullshit. When a relationship is THAT bad, leaving is not a gamble! I demanded a divorce. And you’d think I felt sad or lonely, but I f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:18 AM
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Yeah, I figured that out eventually. My second husband was amazing and had no demands. He was happy and willing to work for whatever he got! In all aspects in life. No “Woman’s Work” bull. My first husband, however, was a piece of crap who expected me to do my wifely duties and all the housework, too. I’m a widow now at 39, and I won’t take it from anyone. I’ve seen what a healthy, cooperative relationship is like, and refuse to accept some half arsed excuse for a man! Dick is abundant and low v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:51 AM
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Preach. Yes! I don’t always want an orgasm during, preferring to do so after, but they should put in the work! Give a shit. And forget anal. I’ll do anal ON HIM. My butt is exit only. Doesn’t matter whose birthday it is. I have huge boobs. I am not wearing a fancy bra for anyone. If I do so, that someone is ME. I enjoy sex, but it’s occurred to me the older I get, that men reap greater rewards by default. They get an almost guaranteed orgasm. They get blowjobs. They get a lil striptease maybe. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:32 AM
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