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Question For WomenPhotographCold5289/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:10 AM
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Well no I did not want a commitment, but my concern is the whole "Women make rules for betas and break them for alphas" if that makes sense. Like, maybe she went along with casual with him because she thought he was so hot, but with me she wouldn't do known flat-out casual since she didn't think I'm hot (hypothetically). Or maybe she did actually want long distance with him, or maybe he was used to regain power, or maybe she'd have had casual with me if I was moving too... But TRP would say "He'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:55 AM
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Yeah very true, I'm glad in the end I could end things because I hate when people's words don't match their actions. Thanks for the help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:18 AM
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What do you mean, what is her preferred program?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:17 AM
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Was it truly the same kind of casual though? I guess it's true that it was commitmentless, but she still wanted it to go somewhere serious and once she found out it wouldn't be serious, she ended things. Yet, when she found out that her ex was moving (thus finding out that it wouldn't be serious), she chose to engage in sex with him and then saw him another time after that knowing it wouldn't work. So I'm not mad at the fact that she wouldn't have more commitmentless sex with me by itself, I'm m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:16 AM
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Yeah I see what you're saying about reality vs. what I believed. However, often times I believe the worst possible thing because I catastrophize, so I don't really want to believe negative things but I choose to because I hate uncertainty and always assume the worst. So yeah I believe what my mind tends towards, which is always the worst until I get outside confirmation that the worst is not true. Thanks bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:57 PM
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Yes it was her ex, and yes maybe it wasn't casual in the true sense. Maybe there was too much discussion and I expected her to define something she did without defining beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:55 PM
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Which things did I choose to believe and want to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:52 PM
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Yes and I also sent her a video of me pissing in a urinal while I was drunk (did not show penis) before we ever had our first date so her trying to pretend it wasn't casual made no sense to me... See, I had heard "trust actions not words", but I thought it only applied to excuses and things like that, such as "I can't hangout because I am busy with xyz". I didn't know they just make up fake ass narratives even when they're fucking a guy (me).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:39 PM
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The thing is though that she was always adamant that she doesn't do casual. If she knew why she was there and she was there for casual, then I don't know why she tried to convince me and herself that she doesn't do casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:31 PM
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Interesting, this would make more sense because it seems that she was attracted to me based on everything *except* words. Also, she said she "doesn't talk to guys from the club" yet look where we ended up. Maybe literally everything she has said was just a way for her to justify going against her own pre-defined, later broken, convictions time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:20 PM
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Well if anyone is the distraction it would make more sense that he is, because when they were originally seeing each other it took him two months to get a date, then she didn't have sex with him but instead had sex with her old ex from before him, and then that ex ghosted her and that's when she had sex with this ex for the first time. So basically it took two months for him to get a date and then two more months for him to get a second date, and in between these two dates she had sex with her e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:17 PM
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True but my concern is just that her resistance and asking about my intentions make me feel like she wasn't attracted enough to me to have casual sex..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:08 PM
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We still had sex that day. I'm just saying that I feel like she only had sex with me because she thought she'd get a relationship out of it.. what do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:05 PM
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Maybe, but why did she ask me "Is this what you usually do, casual?' with a negative tone when we were fooling around at my house the first time? My perception is that she wanted to put me into the relationship box from the beginning which is offensive. She might want a relationship but if she is a casual girl who does casual whenever she feels like it then one can only conclude that whenever she isn't okay with casual, it's because she is not attracted to the guy. Or maybe I'm missing something…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:03 PM
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Can you elaborate? I'm not familiar with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:59 PM
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Well when she asked "Is this what you usually do? Casual?" she said it in a way that made it seem like she didn't want casual. Honestly, my first priority was sex of course BUT I was open to a relationship. However, I feel offended that she asked my intentions when as you say she was a club girl. It's like, why did she go and try to put me in the relationship box like that? I feel like if I had told her "Yes, I want casual" she wouldn't have ever had sex with me... which, again, makes me feel li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:59 PM
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Bad management yeah, this was my first situation that was even remotely serious. I told her that I made a mistake saying that I only wanted casual. She told me that she understands mistakes and that she made a mistake too (sleeping with her ex while I was trying to get her back). Then later she said it wasn't a mistake and acted like she did nothing wrong, and also changed her story from previously claiming that it was supposed to be long distance to saying that she never considered long distanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:54 PM
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This isn't the issue my comment is about; my issue is that she wouldn't do casual with me but did casual with another guy. She literally stopped seeing me when I said I wanted casual, claiming that she doesn't do casual, then turned around and did casual with someone else so it seems like she wasn't attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:49 PM
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Girl wouldn't do casual with me but did casual with another guy Here is what happened, and please consider all of my writing to make a conclusion (I'm giving all details that I think are relevant): I was seeing this girl who I met at a club. When at the club, we made out and she grinded on me. It took like 20 days or so to get a date, then the next week we had another date and had sex. However, before the sex she asked, "Is this what you usually do? Casual?" I told her that I was working towards…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:36 PM
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Girl wouldn't do casual with me but did casual with another guy Here is what happened, and please consider all of my writing to make a conclusion (I'm giving all details that I think are relevant): I was seeing this girl who I met at a club. When at the club, we made out and she grinded on me. It took like 20 days or so to get a date, then the next week we had another date and had sex. However, before the sex she asked, "Is this what you usually do? Casual?" I told her that I was working towards…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:34 PM
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