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| 8 | Fellas keep up with your hygiene pleaseI shower everyday, wear deodorant, take care of my dental hygiene, and wear clean clothes. I have seen no success with women but that's probably because that requires more than just good hygiene. HOWEVER, I don't like feeling filthy so really my hygiene is for my own sake. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 01:42 AM |
| 1 | What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem?Just to clarify... does relating to something someone said by sharing a similar personal experience or feeling come off this way? | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 01:25 AM |
| 3 | I fucking did it! How i stopped overthinking, got present in the moment and approached!Well since we were talking about guys who struggle to even talk to women, I think we can assume there will be struggle to determine when a woman is even interested in them. So they will probably get "no" a lot just like you used to because they won't know when to go for a woman that is "80% likely to say yes". That seems like something you learned with experience but it's not realistic for a guy to expect most girls to say yes especially when they haven't had much experience even talking to wome… | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | What makes you feel confident?Right now I think it's whenever I manage to dress even semi well. Usually I am just a "t shirt and jeans" guy. The suit I wore to my sister's graduation had me feeling like a million bucks. I figure once I am back in better shape that will help a lot too. These are all appearance based but that's what makes me confident because that influences how people see you. Before anyone starts talking about personality... everything related to my personality is just normal to me, so there isn't anything i… | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 06:51 PM |
| 2 | I fucking did it! How i stopped overthinking, got present in the moment and approached!A lot of guys get "no" for an answer so I think you're just in the minority my friend. If most guys got "yes" for an answer from most women... I don't think you would see this many dudes asking for help/advice online. | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I fucking did it! How i stopped overthinking, got present in the moment and approached!To be honest talking to a girl like a normal person isn't that hard; just start off like she was another dude if you really have no idea how to talk to a girl. It's at least a starting point. However, I don't think if you ask women out they will say yes most of the time; you might think you're clicking with a girl but maybe she is just being friendly/nice. Not too long ago a girl at work was being super nice/friendly to me and I thought just maybe she was interested. I later found out she was ma… | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 04:38 PM |
| 6 | I fucking did it! How i stopped overthinking, got present in the moment and approached!Not to be "that guy" but it sort of sounds like she wasn't expecting to get hit on at the library... and relaxed when you asked about the sorority because it seemed like you weren't? Still for a lot of guys just literally talking to women can be an issue (I have a friend who freezes up) so good on you for taking that step. | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 02:37 AM |
| 2 | 1 girl is a anomaly. 10 girls is a trend. 100 girls is your reality.Perhaps but consistently never meeting the right partners? I've never had one. I think that is reason to pause and think at least? | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 2 | 1 girl is a anomaly. 10 girls is a trend. 100 girls is your reality.I feel the same way. It works well in most areas of life. It just isn't working out for me very well when it comes to romance and/or sex. So I guess I'm wondering if there is something wrong in how I do it, so to speak. | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 1 | 1 girl is a anomaly. 10 girls is a trend. 100 girls is your reality.It has clarified a bit. I suppose seeing someone in real life helps masks flaws you may otherwise notice in a still picture. However if people have the attention span of a toddler... what's to stop them from giving you a low "mental rating" in real life after glancing your way? I feel like most of us know whether we find someone physically attractive more or less on first sight. I am not sure if personality can affect scale by "two points" as a general rule of thumb though. I do believe it can i… | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | 1 girl is a anomaly. 10 girls is a trend. 100 girls is your reality.Why's that? Genuinely curious to hear why the opinions of some people are valid in one way but not another. | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | How to kill approach anxiety - A practical guideInstead just walk over and strike up a conversation, practically it's the exact same, but mentally it's not. If it's all for a harmless casual conversation it doesn't matter if it goes one way or another, or any way at all. It's just a conversation. So this part is actually easy for me to do with strangers. Yet at best I only remain platonic friends with women. Nothing wrong with friendship but it feels like I've hit a ceiling I can't get past. How do you move past friendly conversation? | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 09:33 PM |
| 8 | 1 girl is a anomaly. 10 girls is a trend. 100 girls is your reality.Instead, I just approach life how I want to approach it: by caring about my needs first. I'm the priority of my life. I'll do and say whatever I want, by respecting others of course. What if this approach isn't working out? | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 09:30 PM |
| 3 | 1 girl is a anomaly. 10 girls is a trend. 100 girls is your reality.I think the idea is to just be you and see how 100 girls respond to that. That's why he says 10 is a trend and if something worked with one girl and not the other 9 to try it again with another 10 girls. I think. Then take a look and "calibrate" so to speak. | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | 1 girl is a anomaly. 10 girls is a trend. 100 girls is your reality.So on a rating site I'm 4.9/10 out of 298 chats. I guess that's a pretty solid reflection of how attractive/unattractive I am to most women? | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | On dates I often act intensely platonic.This is what I needed. A clear cut example that seems pretty hard to mess up (unlike other things which may depend a lot more on the situation, tone, body language, etc). A solid "go to" if you will. Much appreciated! | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 07:33 PM |
| 5 | On dates I often act intensely platonic.What is the "right" moment in a normal conversation? I feel like the OP a lot when talking to girls. In a normal conversation with friends though I don't feel the need to just randomly compliment them on things. We're both just having a good time. | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Asked out the hottest girl in my gym... (first time trying pickup)Whenever I see women asked about where NOT to approach... The gym is usually one of those places. I'm confused. Is this good or bad? | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 06:45 PM |
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