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| 2 | Help me get a second date Reddit!Text her when you have something to say. She has plans, that's totally cool. Accept that and go on with your plans for the upcoming days/weeks. She has clearly stated attraction and interest so it would be pretty hard to screw this one up. The most common thing you will hear here is to be "outcome independent" which I see as perfect advice, but it can sometimes be hard to grasp. Let's say she gets back from visiting family and you have spoken to her and invited her to get a coffee on X date at Y… | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 04:47 AM |
| 20 | Girl I've never spoken to asked me out. Caught me by surprise.About 3" of palm, nightly. | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 04:37 AM |
| 1 | [28M] Clueless and need advice, please?Then get those two people together and the three of you will make plans. If you want to hang out with them first to get to know them that's perfectly fine. If you intend on inviting this girl (remember to be outcome independent) then ask them something along the lines of "Alright so when we do XYZ would it be cool if I invite [girl] along?" That just shows you respect their wants, because maybe they just want to get to know you before you start inviting other people. Sorry if this is hard to und… | /r/seduction | 16/09/13 05:16 PM |
| 1 | [28M] Clueless and need advice, please?That may be true and that may be how you are but that is not the situation you are in so that is completely irrelevant. You have class with her. You already talk to her. In the OP you said you came off as a dork when you asked what she was doing some weekend, how did you do that? Why not make plans with your group of friends (or friend) and a day or two before the planned event, invite her along. This way you have plans regardless of her response. | /r/seduction | 16/09/13 04:32 PM |
| 1 | [28M] Clueless and need advice, please?You're asking if your chance is ruined. A chance is never ruined. Is it weird that you're flirting with someone who interest you? No. Why would that ever be? Just talk to her in class, as you already do. If you really want to invest in the idea of a partner or whatever you're searching for, you're going to have to get over your dislike for "going out" because that's just how it works man. | /r/seduction | 16/09/13 03:17 PM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/9/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Hey man, do you need more of an opening? She's clearly very into you. Some night when you have plans (even if it's just watching a movie with pizza), invite her over and when she shows up (because she will) you need to do something. Go in for the subtle cuddle or something involving kino. The mutual "I think you're hot" is your key to getting in. Joke about that a little. But make it over obvious that you're "just teasing, but what if something we're to happen?" Get her to think about it in her … | /r/seduction | 09/08/13 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Got a girl's number through a friend out of the blueThen you have the opportunity to just hangout while he does it. Talk to her then. Comfort her if she needs it you know? Discuss if beforehand with your dad, if he'll be a bro about it. | /r/seduction | 03/08/13 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Need 3rd party assessment of the situation & possible advice moving forwardSorry for this being brief and not so pretty, I'm browsing mobile to avoid sleep. It seems like you are reading her signs just right. I know plenty of women who do the quick look away as a means to draw attention and interest. On your question of how to approach her, just walk up to her (and depending on the situation and comfort level etc.) maybe lightly touch her shoulder and say something like "Hey XYZ I haven't seen you since [whenever]!" Good luck man! | /r/seduction | 03/08/13 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Got a girl's number through a friend out of the blueWill you be the one giving her the new ink? If so use that time to determine how she'll respond and if she might be interested. If this all seems good to go then I'd just mention something you have coming up with friends that it'd be okay to invite her to. Because you do have other social plans, right? Sorry for formatting, I'm on mobile. | /r/seduction | 03/08/13 05:43 AM |
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