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| 2 | 'Looks-only' extremists are lying to you and to themselvesI only really sub here to try and convince other young men that taking the [color] pill is cringey at best and detrimental to your life at worst. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 04:14 PM |
| 4 | For US cities, is NYC still the king of day game despite its high progressive/feminist populationI don’t think feminism or progressivism is an issue in the first place. I think conservatives struggle with dating in NYC because they tend to hold opinions that reduce women’s rights. Just the $0.02 of a leftist New Yorker who has no issue getting dates 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 09:20 PM |
| 1 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"Yeah I just can’t relate to that at all. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 12:24 PM |
| 1 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"Ehh could go either way. No kids means more money and time to enjoy my own life. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 11:25 AM |
| 18 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"Move to a city there are tons of hot 30-something women in New York, for example. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 11:04 AM |
| 3 | Why do some of you laugh and troll at GENUINE field reports ?That’s just not true. I know anecdotal evidence is kinda bs but literally every man I know has been on a date. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 11:38 PM |
| 4 | Don't wear these clothes / items!!!Wear stuff that makes you feel good | /r/seduction | 02/04/26 03:39 PM |
| 1 | What’s a high body count?What’s your busy count and when’s the last time you had sex? | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 09:43 PM |
| 1 | What’s a high body count?There might be something about finding someone with your life experience. I can get that. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 07:55 PM |
| 1 | What’s a high body count?You can disagree with me, that’s fine. I disagree with you. Are you like super religious or something? It’s just sex it’s not a big deal. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 07:55 PM |
| 4 | What’s a high body count?Who defines “high quality and successful” ? Just be with someone who makes you happy. IMO you live in a delusional world lol. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 07:54 PM |
| 10 | What’s a high body count?“Deep down it matters a lot” doesn’t really resonate to me. I think society tells you it should matter, but why? I think deep down people are insecure that others get laid while they struggle. Once you can get laid easily, it stops mattering. Why should I be concerned if a girl fucked X number of guys? I’ve fucked a ton of girls too. As long as you don’t have an STD it’s fine. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 06:11 PM |
| 13 | What’s a high body count?Who cares? Free love baby. We should all fuck (safely) to our hearts content. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 06:03 PM |
| 3 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?Sex and relationships are totally different. I wouldn’t consider dating someone until a month or two of hooking up at least. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Men chase, women choose: the reality of attention in datingI’ve had that exact experience on reddit lol. | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Men chase, women choose: the reality of attention in datingUsually after a bit of banter. Tell them why you think they’re pretty. Be specific. Give a few compliments, ask them a question or two, find a connection, then go for the date. | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 08:28 PM |
| 58 | Men chase, women choose: the reality of attention in datingDynamics change as you get older. Women are just as sexed up as men and don’t know how to initiate either. we’re all humans looking for connection and we’re all a bit awkward. I’ve had the best success being blunt and straight forward with girls. “I think you’re attractive and I want to take you out. Here is the time and location” or straight up asking “I’m having fun want to go back to mine?” Do it because you want to. Not because you think it’s your duty. They are dying to fuck you they just d… | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 01:12 PM |
| 16 | I'm getting annoyed with people "framing" Miami as advanced mode when it's basically a clone of Seattle's situation.Comments like these really bring down the quality of discussion on this sub. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How to be funnyDeveloping a personality trait for the sole purpose of picking up girls is a losing proposition. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 10:37 PM |
| 9 | Talking feminism on datesI don’t know any feminists who hate men. Maybe people on twitter say that but irl, haven’t found it to be the case. | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 02:22 PM |
| 6 | If you have a rotation of women you're practicing polygamy don't expect it to suddenly change your views when you marry to 1, you'll always want more women because you're used to itEhh just embrace the Peter Pan syndrome and fuck around to your heart’s content. | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Jerking off to her picture before the date to reduce anxiety. Does it help?Nah I don’t want that sauce hahaha | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 02:19 PM |
| 20 | Jerking off to her picture before the date to reduce anxiety. Does it help?Bruh lmao | /r/seduction | 25/10/25 02:16 PM |
| 1 | You should never ask a woman on a dating site what she's looking for.I mean you could if you’re getting the vibe or the convo goes there but usually I want to see if we vibe in person before getting too far ahead of myself. I imagine she usually feels more comfortable to sus be out before she needs to make a decision too. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 08:58 AM |
| 5 | Another App RejectionNo. Telling a woman: “I then said that I rarely message first, just like how I don’t really approach either and she asked why. I said it’s pointless as I'm not a circus performer and that women go after the men they like.” And then “ good looking isn’t enough and if I were truly good looking I wouldn't have to approach and she wouldn't be being difficult regarding meeting up.” Is not a good look dude. Stop whining to her about how hard it is to be a man. That’s a serious turn off and if you genu… | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Another App RejectionIf you were my friend and showed me this string of text messages I would make fun of you. Sorry bro but like, take a step back for a sec. This ain’t on her. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 11:36 AM |
| 56 | You should never ask a woman on a dating site what she's looking for.Usually this is an irl convo. After we’ve chatted and vibes are good I’ll literally say “so, just want to make sure we’re on the same page, I’m looking for XYZ. Are you also looking for that?” You don’t need to overthink it. | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 01:37 PM |
| 120 | You should never ask a woman on a dating site what she's looking for.I’ve had great success bluntly asking women what they’re looking for, whether it’s a hook up, fwb, relationship. I enjoy super open communication | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?This is… a weird question to ask imo. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Should you avoid calling attractive women cute?You shouldn’t call girls cute because there are more creative compliments | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 10:27 PM |
| 0 | Relying on dating appsAll my friends can pretty consistently get dates on the apps. Def not just the “1%” but living in a city does help. | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Is there a "right time" in life to have a hoe phase as a guy?I’m in my late 20s and I’m a hoe | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Are guys giving up on dating?As someone in their late 20s, yeah I am not looking for a long term relationship. Getting casual sex isn’t too hard and I’d rather hang with my boys. Like, I feel like if I’m gonna be a boyfriend I’m gonna try really hard, and I just don’t want to put in the effort at this point in my life. Some I’m not dating seriously. Am I part of the problem? Maybe. | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 01:04 AM |
| 11 | Tea App is #1 on the app store - let’s discuss how it will implicate datingWho cares? Just be a regular dude and you probably won’t run into any issues. There are far more creep dudes than neurotic women looking to ruin someone’s life. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 09:08 PM |
| 33 | My girlfriend disrespected me in this situation, right? what should i do?Just throw your damn gum in the trash lol. | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 11:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you incorporate playing an instrument into picking up women?You should learn an instrument because it’s fun and cool and a great life skill. You shouldn’t learn it to impress girls. | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 02:28 PM |
| 77 | Why are women physically attracted to guys with a porn star profile?Don’t question it just work out and get some sick tats. | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Frustrated with no hookups while in my mind there are things happening, people are getting laid.Go on tinder, playing the numbers game, be up front that you are looking for casual fun. Don’t be creepy. I get it, when it works it feels so easy and when it doesn’t it’s frustrating. But it really is just a numbers game imo you gotta keep at it. In my experience idk if it’ll work for you ^ | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Are black pillers and incels taking over this sub?A lot of losers in this sub. I’ve had a lot of success just awkwardly forcing myself to talk to women. Is it flashy? Maybe not but like, just put yourself out there jeez it’s not rocket science. | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 03:48 AM |
| 7 | liberal vs conservative states for day game, which do you prefer?I’m not dating a woman who isn’t pro-choice. And by that I mean down to get an abortion if things go wrong. Too much risk. | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 04:45 AM |
| 1 | how is cold approaching not showing lower valueBe wtf is this idea of “lower” value? I think it’s all bullshit but just following this line of reasoning, why would a “high value” man give a shit? Worrying about value like this is some “lower value” bullshit. | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Will saying my plans got cancelled kill attraction?Just be honest with her and it'll work out. | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 09:29 PM |
| 3 | I (27m) don’t have an Instagram account. Thoughts?Doesn’t matter imo. | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 07:09 PM |
| 7 | Should I hook up with girls I don’t find attractive just to gain experience/wins?Dude just fuck a ton who cares as long as you’re having fun. | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 09:06 PM |
| 3 | NO matches on Tinder. Any help?Eat better, work out, get on hinge. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 09:54 PM |
| 6 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!9 out of 10 would not take that. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 06:29 PM |
| 13 | Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculineIdk man you’re kinda describing exactly my type 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked me to try her drink? Ghosted. Am I just not gaming enough?If I ask a girl out I'm paying for the date. No issues with buying her 2 drinks on a first date. If it doesn't work out, too bad for them, they missed a great guy. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?Damn I feel like you’re describing me. This is something I’m working on myself. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Even for guys, looks are not the only thingI feel like I’m at a point where I almost don’t want to have one night stands with randoms because if I don’t actually like them then I know the sex will not be great. | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Best books for men according to 56 blogs (see comments for the list)I do not get Catcher and the Rye. I read it in high school and Holden is just such an ass. I could not sympathize with him at all! | /r/seduction | 03/08/20 03:03 PM |
| 7 | how bad are guys typically at not being themselves and trying to show the girl a fake life they don't really live?Although if you lie to hook up with her, and then catch feelings or want to see her again it could be a bit awkward. | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Girls want you to take actionTbh the only post this sub needs | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 09:56 PM |
| 4 | How to stop this from happening?Yea, you’d say that, but do the girls you talking to think that? You mentioned you have some female friends, maybe try talking to them a little for a different perspective than the one your male friends or family gives you. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone have any advice for seduction/chatting to girls in the UKAs an American I might use the “in” of teasing them about their accent or something. I’m my experience brits have great banter and you can be a little bit more, erm, blunt with them, if that makes sense. | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 06:12 PM |
| 109 | Lost my virginity on vacationAlso pretty plausible. Maybe the orgasm part is kinda pushing it though. | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 09:37 PM |
| 43 | Lost my virginity on vacationI would feel terrible if my girl did this. But if I were in the guys shoes and had a few drinks in me I’d probably see things from a different point of view... | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 09:36 PM |
| 4 | Saved myself from an awkward attempt at conversation by being straightforward.I made this mistake last week. Still got laid but was a weird transition to make lol | /r/seduction | 18/06/19 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Penetrate Deep & Instantly Connect with a StripperYo can we ban OP from this sub? His entire post history is the bull shit and it’s clogging up this sub. | /r/seduction | 16/06/19 03:25 PM |
| 8 | Cold approached a girl for the first timeBig fact. Now that I turned 21 I’m not really interested in girls that aren’t, which is tough, obviously. But not being allowed into the bar/club is a huge barrier to entry. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Wanna truly know a woman? Ask her to cook with youtrue, usually if it's good then you won't see someone flip. But if I'm with a girl and the waitstaff is solid, but nothing special and they do flip, that's a red flag. | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Saw this comic and thought of this subreddit (Instagram: shencomix)lmao I hadn't seen these. Pretty great template | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Saw this comic and thought of this subreddit (Instagram: shencomix)gotcha, not really familiar with the artist I guess. I don't even know if I know the bike-cuck meme I'd have to see it. | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Wanna truly know a woman? Ask her to cook with youThis is similar to eating at a restaurant. Is she mean to the waitstaff? Is she super picky? Does she expect you to pay or are you splitting it? Cooking you can probably find out more but I always pay attention to how they treat the waitstaff. | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 07:05 PM |
| 12 | Saw this comic and thought of this subreddit (Instagram: shencomix)So everyone loses but some people give up after a few fails while others find small successes after a bunch of losses? I get it but that's a really complicated way of saying it. | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 06:52 PM |
| 0 | How to get girls from chatting to actually meeting on Tinder?get their snapchat, then move after a few snaps. ask for a selfie and provide some too. they will be more likely to meet up then ime | /r/seduction | 29/06/17 02:02 PM |
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