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Agree. OP is not a great conversationalist. But good on OP for trying! Three points to help. 1 Never tell a woman she's beautiful at the beginning. Demonstrate your interest; don't verbalize it. Telling her kills the tension. 2 Observational statements to get the conversation going -- while you do other stuff with her. For example, when walking up to her. You: "Hey" take her hand, spin her like you're dancing, "I like your earrings (or whatever)." The implication: You were staring at her ass, sh…
/r/seduction31/01/26 04:33 AM
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I think the PUA approach has a different goal. If you pay women, they don't want you. They want your money. PUAs want the sex + validation. Maybe they're morons for that, for wanting women to want them. Maybe they could be better off with some lessons from Stoicism or Buddhism about attachment and caring about what other people think. But they want something that you can't buy, fundamentally. That's the goal.
/r/seduction26/01/26 02:41 AM
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Agreed. It's nice to see some of the old school advice come back. I also agree that it's best to let women know up front that they are not the only women in your life. I mean, don't make it the first thing you say, but if they ask ... it makes them commit to your lifestyle right there. Oh, and to elaborate on the ICK. That's true even when married.
/r/seduction26/01/26 12:17 AM
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No. No. No. I almost never comment here, even though I worry about "the boys" in the generation younger than me, mostly because the discussion feels so wrong it's not worth my time. Here's the correction from an elder millennial. #1 This is a threshold concept. You only need to be attractive (well-groomed + stylish) enough to be engaged with women romantically. Only with gay men is this a scalar concept. Are you a 6.5 on a 10 scale? Then you are good. Christian Rudder, from OkCupid, found that m…
/r/seduction18/03/21 01:28 PM
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